Thank you to Matt and anyone leaving positive comments! We filmed for over 3 hours and a lot of context had to be removed to make the video shorter 😅 but just want to clarify I love and accept everyone in my community and just want to do my part in furthering the trans movement ❤
Never feel like you have to back down or apologize for your opinion. Everything you said was TRUE and I'm glad there are a few of you in the trans community speaking out. It takes balls to speak out against the ppl that are not helping the trans community.
Hi Eden I'm actually nearly 66 years old and I wouldn't ever great treat one of my Children Grandchildren Eli is my Gay out and proud because from age 4 we knew who he was and is still ... Covid as been a blessing for some families bringing them back together unfortunately I did have Covid still struggling with long Covid effects and now I'm fighting cancer so chilling out and watching how brave and courageous you are so sorry you and your friends were attacked by sub human scum 💜🙏💜
Conservative woman here. Massive respect to eden doll. I watch most your videos matt, it helps me understand people. So thanks. I truly want everyone to love and be loved.
Will you still be voting for trump? He was found guilty of sexual assault earlier this year. I know Biden is unfit but at least he wasn’t found guilty of assaulting women.
And I am extremely liberal but I ALSO want EVERYONE to Love and Be Loved, I DO NOT Wanna attack ANYONE instead I TRULY believe that God IS LOVE so just bcuz a person has DIFFERENT political standpoint that doesn’t necessarily agree with what I believe politically, that doesn’t make them bad or like a racist or something it JUST means that their views are DIFFERENT and how boring life would be if WE ALL BELIEVED AND DID EXACTLY the SAME THING🤷♀️ I LOVE PEOPLE I LOVE LIFE, GOD IS LOVE PERIOD SO WE ALL ARE DEFINITELY CONNECTED BY & THRU LOVE…..🙏💯✌️&❤
The trans and gay communities like to align themselves with the whole blm thing and vote left thinking they are all buddies... but it jsut aint true... just look at what happened here. Everyone that beat and ridiculed these trans women were black yelling out "BLM".. time to wake up people. Same with importing millions of people from cultures that hate you... good luck in the near future.. things are going to get way worse.
Or thar one dude who put on MASSIVE boot prosthetics for shop class. That was ridiculous.....like literally MR. Garrison from South part trying to provoke the school district so they can sue
@@armaniv6455I personally grow a bread but have never tried to grow it out bc to see how thick it will get. That shit itches! I don’t know how people get over it enough to grow it out! I do follow a couple women who have grown it out and theirs are kind of lush 🤷♀️
Eden the Doll, and many of her ilk were indeed one of the few more prominent transgender women on the platform and I do think that deserves to be celebrated. I also definitely understand that when you edit something down, context is going to get lost. That said, I'm still fascinated by her position, especially considering her brush with transphobic violence. It's very true that people will be more accepting of a trans woman who has medically transitioned. It's very true that someone who does is going to be more accepted in women's spaces. As a trans woman who's been stealth, whose been on hormones for nearly 2 decades, I definitely agree that this is a truth. I would, however, question the way that we frame that truth. There's a lot of talk about "earning your place" and a description of trans women who don't pass as not working hard enough. Juxtapose that against her describing several times she received free surgeries and her both past and present engagement with sex work and it kinda starts to paint a certain picture. Very few trans women are able to "pass" without surgical intervention and that surgical intervention is incredibly expensive and time consuming. It can talk someone years and years before they reach that point and this is all..what they have to do before using the restroom? I understand a lot of her mentality because it comes from the tail end of the standards of care that were normalized for many of our trans ancestors. We must pass, we must have surgical intervention. We must date men and we must embody a very specific image of femininity. Everything else is questioned and challenged. And when you compare that particular struggle to the struggle of women generally; who've worked incredibly hard to liberate themselves from the narrow images some trans women seem to embrace, it starts to feel a bit dissonant. In short, transgender people should not be in a situation where their right to use the public restroom is so mercilessly challenged that the only way they can do what everyone else does, is to sell their bodies so they can afford the high cost of medically transitioning into a place where they are only conditionally embraced. It didn't matter how hard Eden or her friends had worked to transition when they were attacked. And just the same, people gathered around them and misgendered them. And the same people who did that are the same people who would join her in negatively describing transgender people who don't pass. There's a very extreme minority of people who embrace the stance of some transgender people are repulsive, but the ones who've worked hard enough to pass are ok. Yes, passing makes people more comfortable around you and in a cissexist society, if you identify as a woman and have more traditionally feminine secondary sex characteristics, you will be more embraced as a woman by people in passing, who aren't deeply invested in you. All of this is true. But my question for those who feel like that is gospel is should they have to and is the burden of passing and medical transition really more important that common decency; or at base, empathy? Some transgender people will never pass no matter how much surgery they have, no matter how long they've been on hormones. Should those people live a life where they cannot use the public restroom because they don't neatly fit into one box or the other? I personally feel they shouldn't; and passing shouldn't be so greatly important to transgender people's access to rights that they have to exploit themselves to get there. I'm happy there are more options for trans folks these days. Enjoy how you set the stage for these interviews!
I imagine a good portion of women feel similarly to me. I don’t need a trans woman to “pass” for me to feel comfortable. I need a trans woman to pass as _trying_ to pass to feel comfortable. However, I do think that as more and more disingenuous, sometimes predatory men take advantage of the bathroom situation, women’s’ tolerance will start to dwindle, which is an absolute shame.
So so so so glad to see you weighing in here, Kat. Thank you for your words - I was waiting for them and worrying about all the in between of us who are non-gender conforming, for example. Trans identity is not a monolith and the expectation of passing is part of the problem.
cis black women get attacked by men all the time. it really does not matter if you pass or not in that regard.. Eden was talking about entering cis women spaces. She was like you just can't have a beard and have your d out in women's restrooms. That's just the reality. I would say having gender neutral spaces is probably the best compromise for people who are non binary or in the beginning of their transition journey and uncomfortable using the assigned genders restroom etc.
"you cannot get mad at the starbucks employee and start recording them for not calling you a they them when you look like a lesbian with purple hair" 🤣🤣😅🤦♀️❤
But Eden looks like a teenage boy with long hair and makeup to me. So if she doesn’t want to be addressed as a he/him she shouldn’t bash non binary people. (A very marginalized group within the LGBT+ community.)
You know damn well she don’t look like no teenage boy with make up, ur just saying that cuz u mad at what she said, she’s right, u shouldn’t be childish and pull out a camera that doesn’t make anyone respect u more by yelling at the worker who didn’t know exactly that u identified as “non binary” that just makes people dislike you more, so that isn’t bashing non binary people that’s just called having common sense on how people and the world works, if u don’t look like a they/them don’t expect people to know ur a they/them, they could’ve told the worker, instead of being a big baby and pulling out a camera prolly getting that poor worker fired for simply just trying to get ur order so they can get their paycheck, people shouldn’t have to be walking on eggshells on what to refer to someone as, And she wouldn’t be addressed as he/him cuz she doesn’t look like a a he/him, most people who didn’t know she was trans prolly wouldn’t be able to tell she is trans (ik i sure couldn’t) the only reason someone would call her “he/him” is to try and be disrespectful or rude on purpose towards her, not bc she actually looks like a “he/him” (something ur trying to do rn)
@@NovasobrightI’m non binary but obviously present very masculine( I have a 🍆) but never in a million years would I ever step into a women’s space like a woman’s restroom or locker room I always go to the male spaces I think this newer generation of “trans “ and “nonbinary “ people have just completely made us all look like jokes and that were crazy
Yes, Hispanic kids have it so much harder just as kids from very religious homes, it’s hard for everyone. I’m glad everything turned out successfully for her.
I agree with Eden's viewpoints so much. A 30 year old male 0 female features, a beard and a cheap dress should never be allowed in a women's restroom! People like this give trans / lgbt a bad rep and set us back in society, you can't expect to be respected or taken serious like that, it's just never going to work. On another note Eden is just seriously stunning?! One of the first trans women I saw years ago and she had the face of an angel even as a teen before transitioning.
Your definition of what a trans person should look like it very subjective. Unfortunately not all trans people have the resource to make themselves “passable” as you would like everyone to be.
@@heyhihello9677 You are correct and I do feel for those people who will maybe never have the resources to transition in the way they'd wish. However, if you're a trans woman and you want to be seen as a woman by society you have to be passable. Be who you are but at the end of the day if you identify as a trans woman yet visually you just look male with lipstick on it's not going to happen, your demands of people calling you she her wont happen and cis woman being okay with you in their dressing room wont happen!
@@cecee3480 what can a trans identified male do PHYSICALLY different than a cross dresser? Last time I checked, both have male genitals and can’t carry children
Im trans with 🍆 and know better than to change in a women’s locker room and let it all hang out. Like nah. That’s not cool at all. I never entered the women’s bathroom until I knew for sure I passed and even before when I would enter the mens bathroom people would say “mam you are going into the wrong bathroom” but now that I am mostly passable I notice (though very few) those people that go out their way to call me sir 😅like the disrespect. UPDAT3 at this point in my life I pass in some eyes and in others I may not at the end of the day it doesn’t matter I’m happy where I’m at. I’m trans, I’m beautiful inside and out. And that’s all that matters. 🙌🏽
I think some trans women that haven't fully transitioned must do it for shock value if they feel the need to "swing it about" in the ladies locker room. It's just common sense not to do things like that, good on you. Btw you're stunning in your profile picture.
@@carolinerowles5951 no real transsexual woman does that .. the only ones that do that are creeps who are heterosexual men cross dressing and saying they are trans .. only to go home and take off their dress and go back to living like a creepy heterosexual pervert
as a woman who has fought long and hard for my place in the world, I'd appreciate it if you would refer to me as a woman. I was born a woman. if you want to label yourself as a trans woman, that's great. but I'm a woman. That's my preference and please don't disrespect me. I don't disrespect people with their pronouns or their labels, don't do it to me. kthaxbai
@@victrola2007 What are you talking about? Trans people are not real anything, bcz they are not being their genuine self as in what they are and will always be since they were inside the womb and do not say ''cis'' when it is Just called males and females, non trans people are the only ones who can be called males and females since they are genuine since day 0 lol. Like the moment of their conception. If people have changed that then they are just trans.
So glad she is finally speaking up about earning your place as a trans woman in women’s spaces, only a few years back all the trans girls online disowned Blaire for saying the same exact things.. glad to see some of them coming around tho.
@@1bwash where is the lie? Blaire and Eden used to be friends and she clearly agreed with her about this specific topic at the time and to this day, as she stated here, still does. I didn’t say she agrees with every single thing Blaire says, I said she agrees with this particular sentiment. Learn to read.
@@adynathaly3145 I did not say Eden agrees with EVERYTHING Blaire says, I said she agrees that women and trans women are not the same and have to work to earn their place in women’s spaces. again..LEARN TO READ PEOPLE.
@@rabbitsaurus well that's the whole point that they are trans women which they are different than cis women but their is a big huge difference when you say trans women are men. MEN! Ta are not men dude. And Eden would never say she is a man. Blaire is the only ts that says she is a man . She is not a dude
I so agree with her when she talks about trans identity. Being a trans woman or a trans man is a long journey of love, hate, pain, danger, hopefully happiness. Like Eden I do not feel that putting a dress and make up on makes anyone a trans woman. It dilutes the struggles and the fights trans women had to do to simply exist particularly in the 70s and 80s. On the other hand, it’s great that today’s youth is trying to go against all the gender stereotypes. Unfortunately, that created more labels and more confusion including in the LGBTQ+ community and that’s given a tool to the bigots to try to eradicate trans rights. ANYWAY! More than ever we must fight on for our trans sisters and brothers’ rights.
@@sugarsore I don’t think they should be allowed to change in front of people or use the bathroom then. Unless they actually look the part and are actively trying to get transitioning in play. I didn’t use the men’s room or changing room until I had got top surgery. I don’t want drama or to be bullied in public worse than I already get. It sucks but we have to keep ours, and others, safety in mind.
@@DamienXavier1828 This is classist and internalized transphobia. The onus of safety shouldn't be on trans people to avoid getting attacked & killed, it should be on cis people to stop attacking and killing us. There are some people that no amount of surgery will make them "pass" and some people don't want surgeries for a ton of reasons. They don't deserve less because they're broke, androgynous, "too tall", whatever.
I really appreciate Eden's respect toward dedicated women's spaces. Male genitallia is used against women in violence everyday and that's a major fear for women when it comes to the new trans umbrella that is discussed here. In order to respect women, be aware and sensitive to how male bodies are rightfully viewed as a threat toward women. Women respect and accept other women who respect the privacy they work so hard in protecting. I understand it is a painfully arduous journey in being accepted, but please respect the private spaces women need to feel safe. Eden's perspective here is very important.
I think you are missing the point. Trans women WILL ALWAYS be targeted (Penis or no penis) just for the simple fact that they are trans. This world is full of bullies and unfortunately there is no negotiating with them. Trans people should live their life as they want to and unapologetically. If cis people are too afraid and ignorant to accept that some women have penises and some women have a beard, THAT IS TOO BAD!!!! TRANS PEOPLE ARE HUMANS!! THEY EXIST!!! GET USED TO IT.
I agree with Eden and yourself regarding transwomen in private female spaces. I just don't want to see male genitalia whilst in a private female space. If I'm getting changed/ showering etc, I'm already feeling vulnerable and it's ridiculous to expect women to accept male genitalia in our private female spaces no matter the reason. I also don't want my young daughter seeing it either... No matter how a person identifies.
I like what she said about casually adopting a trans identity while basically having no skin in the game, ie biologically altering yourself to align with your gender identity. All of my trans women friends completely feel the same, and are pretty turned off and downright annoyed by the "theys" out there who act, look, and enjoy the privileges of their assigned at birth sex, while being the loudest voices in the room. When push comes to shove, they'd drop their "theyness" while a woman like Eden cannot drop her altered gender identity. People apply pronouns to themselves like they're fashion accessories all the while never understanding the long and tenuous journeys actual trans people go through to just live their everyday lives. I'm glad she was brave enough to speak truth to power and call out some of the idiocies that are fodder for conservatives and keeping us from moving ahead.
hmm its giving queerphobia. like mayb the gender queers are the “loudest in the room” bcs they have to deal w ignorant binary trans ppl on top of cis ppl who seem dead set on misrepresenting them and undermining their liberation at every turn. Being passable isnt always the slay you think it is (and we saw from this video that it doesnt always prevent you from facing harm either). most times passing only reaffirms gender hierarchies consequently resulting in binaries of good and bad queer gender expression where soft and cvnt are on one end and clockiness is on the other. Regurgitating and remodeling the gender structures cis ppl follow will not save us it only creates trans binary gender police. and i dont see why yall wanna be cops so bad. And given that in order to transition you need a considerable amount of access and capital, there are class and racial implications as to who gets to access the benefits of passability. I care abt everyone having the right to express their gender in any way that feels safe and aligned to them. Do you?
It is not a ''she, her, female'' bcz it is a male and has been a He, a boy, from the time that he was inside the womb of his mother. Only she was and is a female.
Have you ever talked to a “they”? Or is it just easier to other and bash something you don’t understand? There is no one way to transition. Each trans person’s journey is different and not something to compare or judge.
Many transgender folks transition slowly over time and may use they/them pronouns at first before changing later to more binary ones. Even if you truly only accept binary transgender folks, you should accept them their whole process. Not just the ending.
She survived the Jehovahs Witness upbringing and exhibits mental clarity and lucidity. This is astonishing. Most are zombies after being taken through that violent, evil cult. She is a powerhouse of strength ❤
What she said about bathrooms and earning your place was something that Kylie Sonique Love said in her interview and these perspectives are extremely interesting and important
I'm shook because I wondered what happened to her... Trying not to cry right now.. But she is more then a doll. The only thing that separates from being ordinary is the extra... You to are truly fierce and brave
It's so very refreshing hearing Eden talk about the trans umbrella and as she says "it's just unrealistic" and she's absolutely correct. These idiots are dragging us back into a can of woop ass no one wants and it's affecting sensible people, who simply want to live their lives while causing unnecessary harm. Really enjoyed this Matt. Thank you x
I'm so happy she spoke about 🐯 because he is the definition of a coward. He was messing with this other transwoman and got “caught” then goes on to a radio show with the transwomen's friend who was one of the hosts at the time (he didn't know she knew his tea) and lies straight to all three of their faces about the entire thing. Allegedly he paid the transwoman some money to be quiet. Later on, he released a song with the line “We don't mess with those Batty boy antics.” For the ones that don't know Batty is a homophobic slur used in the Caribbean. The only reason he even started the only fans thing is to prove to his counterpart that he isn't a part of LGBTQ... The funny thing is they know he's lying.
Im so glad that Eden is keeping people aware of political issues. I hate how unprotected black Cis and Trans women are. I just want to say, women please watch out for the free surgeries. Because of what happened to Jacky O🙏🏾♥️
This was one of my favorite interviews of yours. This woman is so graceful and strong. Even when it was an uncomfortable conversation she was ready to face it and speak on it. She is a beautiful soul.
Okay could we take a moment to appreciate Matt’s compassion throughout the video? With everything Eden shares, difficult as some topics may be, he responds with so much kindness and empathy, it’s lovely! A little bit of kindness can go a long way!
Matt, your channel is such a treasure, and not just for the LGBTQ community, but for everyone. I appreciate how you accept everyone and are so kind to all. You have helped me, a straight woman see the world from a different perspective. I know you created this channel to educate about the lgbtq world. But you have been so successful that instead of seeing a trans person or a gay person i just see a person. First and foremost. Thank you. I hope your channel blows up😊
She’s so beautiful and I’m so sorry she and her friends went through that terrible assault. Her being , existence and message needs to be shared and heard. Bless you Matt and Eden for sharing your story and awareness
It is not a ''woman'' nor a ''man'' bcz no man or woman is a delusional trans person. He also can never be a ''woman'' when he did not even start out as a female, sooo, bye. Be in the real world.
I AGREED WITH EVERYTHING SHE SAID AND I LOVE HER EVEN MORE FOR BEING SUPER TRANSPARENT ..AND ALSO A HUGEEEEE THANK YIU FOR BEING AWARENESS AND OPENING UP ABOUT HOW US TRANS WOMEN OF COLOR GET TREATED !
Another amazing video, Matt!! So happy to see the continuation of this series and channel. You're spreading so much love and education and it's beautiful to see
This is my first time seeing Eden and SHES A BREATH OF FRESH AIR. that’s all most of us want is to be realistic. And seriously one of the most beautiful women I ever seen PERIOD.
I’m so glad she’s sharing this interview because it’s a testimony to a young trans person everywhere… I wish I was her mom in her beginning years in transition… but she’s a boss and a inspiration. Keep shining Diva❤
3:52 the arm mark isn't really a birthmark it's more like a vaccination scar, a lot of people I know have them (British people) from the BCG jab given at age 13 to stop you getting tuberculosis
My heart breaks everytime I see that video. No one should have to deal with that kind of violence. Just let people live and if you don't agree with the way someone is living their life go fuck off and mind your business. Do not ever put your hands on someone.
I love the videos and I hope they don't stop coming as long as you want to keep making them, do you ever think of having a podcast in addition to this or is there one possibly where we can hear more of the interviews/things that have been cut
You have a real talent for bringing out that "just talking friend to friend" vibe in your interviews! (and, I know, a lot of very well done editing!). This interview with Eden was great. I'm glad to hear her speak her opinions openly, even though she knows that all will not agree. I'm an older gay man and not trans so I don't feel that it's up to me to tackle some of these topics. I try to be respectful of everyone, even if I don't always "understand" 100%.
I agree with her stance on acceptance and push back on extremist lgbtq trans rehetoeci we’ve heard of lately. Should’nt be a cancelable offense to have differing opinions. Our community has become cultish and delusional with allot of extreme topics
What a babe! No wonder she’s ballin! And I love her view on life. I hate that people are out there who are so unhappy with themselves that they have to take it out on others. It’s truly heartbreaking.
Eden brings up a great nuanced point that... there is a spectrum of transness for the current society we live in. Some people pass more than others (& some people don't want to pass as either), but people who don't pass make cis-people feel unsafe. Everything is gendered. It's inescapable. Like a '2' in a binary code, not fitting in makes you a target. It is difficult to live in the middle. You may be seen as deviant, unnatural, aggressive.... but if you want to be viewed as the other gender, conforming to it's stereotypes does help other people interact with you as that gender. Following the rules, getting the body, training your voice... transitioning as much as possible to the other gender! The only thing is: her transmedicalist ideology shits on people who have just come out as trans, are in the process of transitioning, trans people who have done a lot of work to transition and still don't pass, and people who are just exploring their gender. It demonizes them as trenders, and it's ultimately very harmful. If her goal is trans liberation she's shooting herself in the foot. So it's not a great solution... but the nonbinary dream of having a gender-less society is also impossible. We need a happy medium between these two extreme views in order to move foreword together.
yesss exactly Eden our lives is so hard as it is and then we are demanding all these expectations from others when we are creating confusion in our world
I think that if you are actively transitioning and you feel safer in a certain change/rest room then go for it. I used to go to a ton of raves and festivals and there were a ton of people who were in the various stages of hormone therapy or dressing as a woman and no one felt uncomfortable but no one was like showing their genitals or getting angry and truly the people in the restrooms that were trans were trying to assimilate themselves as women. Like sis just had to pee, and they were putting a lot of effort into blending in, they did not want to be uncomfortable and they do not want you to be uncomfortable.
Not all woman of the trans experience are post op, some believe in keeping their assigned genitalia at birth. I agree that those particular trans woman does have to be cognizant of how they change in front of woman who are post op and those who are considered biological. However, non-binary is a spectrum. It’s more of femininity and masculine traits that defines that for people. Also intersex is a factor as well, I have a hormone imbalance, meaning I have more XX chromosomes making me more feminine and look like male. We have to be careful of the language. I agree if you are trans you have to appear that way. I also agree that they/them individuals have to be ok that others may not use the correct pronouns because we are visual beings. Thank you Matt for this conversation 💚
And no we don’t have to use they/them pronouns to show respect. I’m not buying into gender ideology. Masc and fem is a spectrum, doesn’t change your gender though.
@@Lola_Nico gender is not in question when it comes to non binary people. Gender and sex is too different things. It’s a known fact. Thank you for your response. We can’t be so quick to erase others because of lack of knowledge or the subscription of white male supremal idealistic impartialities. 💚
@@Lola_Nico I consider myself Male but my nonbinarism comes from my intersexuality which was told to me by a board certified physician. I am more feminine as a result but live as male. I’m a feminine male. 💚
Another thing to remember: She, they, him are all social constructs, meaning, it’s words used to identify a person(s) it has nothing to do with gender or sex. Me and my friends have called each other sis or she because we are feminine males and feel comfortable doing so. It’s a social construct 💚
Excellent interview as always, Matt. She is really smart and articulate and I felt represented the trans community well. You, we'll you're always YOU! ~Evan
11:19 TRANSSEXUAL. This is binary transsexuals who go from one sex to the other via surgeries and hormones and present full time as the opposite sex. This is the ONE term we have left to separate our condition from the “fun umbrella ” of transgender which can literally mean anything. The host of this show could put on lipstick and say he’s “trans”, and transexuals need to be considered different. Tired of this new WOKE movement bullying society while not even making any effort to pass or transition! Clothes don’t equal gender! SMH
She has a point, I'm a lesbian and I have experienced amab people who identify as trans (pre-op, no hormones) posting pictures of their penises or sending photos of it in spaces not meant for any of that bs. Though they are a small minority there are some weirdos out there.
Brilliant what a fantastic IV - seriously the BEST discussion I've heard about Trans biz and so sorry to hear about 'chasers' and the fact Eden and her gals were terrorized by dickheads❤ Good on you guys n gals. Love your BF too, Eden. Y'all are gracefully, flawlessly unreal in ever way x Love from us, DownUnder in Australia too, woohoo x
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Thank you to Matt and anyone leaving positive comments! We filmed for over 3 hours and a lot of context had to be removed to make the video shorter 😅 but just want to clarify I love and accept everyone in my community and just want to do my part in furthering the trans movement ❤
I loved hearing your perspective. You are so beautiful inside and out.
Loved this episode! We need voices like yours ❤
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Never feel like you have to back down or apologize for your opinion. Everything you said was TRUE and I'm glad there are a few of you in the trans community speaking out. It takes balls to speak out against the ppl that are not helping the trans community.
Hi Eden
I'm actually nearly 66 years old and I wouldn't ever great treat one of my Children Grandchildren Eli is my Gay out and proud because from age 4 we knew who he was and is still ... Covid as been a blessing for some families bringing them back together unfortunately I did have Covid still struggling with long Covid effects and now I'm fighting cancer so chilling out and watching how brave and courageous you are so sorry you and your friends were attacked by sub human scum 💜🙏💜
Conservative woman here. Massive respect to eden doll. I watch most your videos matt, it helps me understand people. So thanks. I truly want everyone to love and be loved.
Will you still be voting for trump? He was found guilty of sexual assault earlier this year. I know Biden is unfit but at least he wasn’t found guilty of assaulting women.
And I am extremely liberal but I ALSO want EVERYONE to Love and Be Loved, I DO NOT Wanna attack ANYONE instead I TRULY believe that God IS LOVE so just bcuz a person has DIFFERENT political standpoint that doesn’t necessarily agree with what I believe politically, that doesn’t make them bad or like a racist or something it JUST means that their views are DIFFERENT and how boring life would be if WE ALL BELIEVED AND DID EXACTLY the SAME THING🤷♀️ I LOVE PEOPLE I LOVE LIFE, GOD IS LOVE PERIOD SO WE ALL ARE DEFINITELY CONNECTED BY & THRU LOVE…..🙏💯✌️&❤
The trans and gay communities like to align themselves with the whole blm thing and vote left thinking they are all buddies... but it jsut aint true... just look at what happened here. Everyone that beat and ridiculed these trans women were black yelling out "BLM".. time to wake up people. Same with importing millions of people from cultures that hate you... good luck in the near future.. things are going to get way worse.
😢really??? She’s calling gays fa@@ts and you respect her?
She’s so right about earning your spot there. Can’t just let anyone go into the woman’s restrooms.
Or thar one dude who put on MASSIVE boot prosthetics for shop class. That was ridiculous.....like literally MR. Garrison from South part trying to provoke the school district so they can sue
@@luisgutierrez8047 Haha I remember that I thought it was satire.
I love her for saying that 💯💖
There is no such thing as a man 'earning' his spot in women's spaces. No male should ever be allowed in any women's space.
It is not a ''She'' at all, no she, only a he. It is a male, a him, not a she.
I feel what shes saying, how you gonna get mad that someone doesn't think you're a woman when you have a whole beard
Have you ever felt limited by societies expectations of what a women should look like and how she should act?
@@bm4114 when biological women regularly have beards as thick as biological men then we can talk about subverting societal expectations lol
@@armaniv6455 why are you acting like there are millions of bearded ladies swinging their ducks around? It ain’t happening. Lol
Lol yes
@@armaniv6455I personally grow a bread but have never tried to grow it out bc to see how thick it will get. That shit itches! I don’t know how people get over it enough to grow it out! I do follow a couple women who have grown it out and theirs are kind of lush 🤷♀️
Eden the Doll, and many of her ilk were indeed one of the few more prominent transgender women on the platform and I do think that deserves to be celebrated. I also definitely understand that when you edit something down, context is going to get lost. That said, I'm still fascinated by her position, especially considering her brush with transphobic violence.
It's very true that people will be more accepting of a trans woman who has medically transitioned. It's very true that someone who does is going to be more accepted in women's spaces. As a trans woman who's been stealth, whose been on hormones for nearly 2 decades, I definitely agree that this is a truth. I would, however, question the way that we frame that truth. There's a lot of talk about "earning your place" and a description of trans women who don't pass as not working hard enough. Juxtapose that against her describing several times she received free surgeries and her both past and present engagement with sex work and it kinda starts to paint a certain picture. Very few trans women are able to "pass" without surgical intervention and that surgical intervention is incredibly expensive and time consuming. It can talk someone years and years before they reach that point and this is all..what they have to do before using the restroom?
I understand a lot of her mentality because it comes from the tail end of the standards of care that were normalized for many of our trans ancestors. We must pass, we must have surgical intervention. We must date men and we must embody a very specific image of femininity. Everything else is questioned and challenged. And when you compare that particular struggle to the struggle of women generally; who've worked incredibly hard to liberate themselves from the narrow images some trans women seem to embrace, it starts to feel a bit dissonant.
In short, transgender people should not be in a situation where their right to use the public restroom is so mercilessly challenged that the only way they can do what everyone else does, is to sell their bodies so they can afford the high cost of medically transitioning into a place where they are only conditionally embraced. It didn't matter how hard Eden or her friends had worked to transition when they were attacked. And just the same, people gathered around them and misgendered them. And the same people who did that are the same people who would join her in negatively describing transgender people who don't pass.
There's a very extreme minority of people who embrace the stance of some transgender people are repulsive, but the ones who've worked hard enough to pass are ok. Yes, passing makes people more comfortable around you and in a cissexist society, if you identify as a woman and have more traditionally feminine secondary sex characteristics, you will be more embraced as a woman by people in passing, who aren't deeply invested in you. All of this is true. But my question for those who feel like that is gospel is should they have to and is the burden of passing and medical transition really more important that common decency; or at base, empathy? Some transgender people will never pass no matter how much surgery they have, no matter how long they've been on hormones. Should those people live a life where they cannot use the public restroom because they don't neatly fit into one box or the other? I personally feel they shouldn't; and passing shouldn't be so greatly important to transgender people's access to rights that they have to exploit themselves to get there. I'm happy there are more options for trans folks these days.
Enjoy how you set the stage for these interviews!
I imagine a good portion of women feel similarly to me. I don’t need a trans woman to “pass” for me to feel comfortable. I need a trans woman to pass as _trying_ to pass to feel comfortable.
However, I do think that as more and more disingenuous, sometimes predatory men take advantage of the bathroom situation, women’s’ tolerance will start to dwindle, which is an absolute shame.
Thank you for this insightful comment, Kat. I totally agree with your points!
So so so so glad to see you weighing in here, Kat. Thank you for your words - I was waiting for them and worrying about all the in between of us who are non-gender conforming, for example. Trans identity is not a monolith and the expectation of passing is part of the problem.
cis black women get attacked by men all the time. it really does not matter if you pass or not in that regard.. Eden was talking about entering cis women spaces. She was like you just can't have a beard and have your d out in women's restrooms. That's just the reality. I would say having gender neutral spaces is probably the best compromise for people who are non binary or in the beginning of their transition journey and uncomfortable using the assigned genders restroom etc.
Very interesting thoughtful 😊 comment gives a lot of nuance
"you cannot get mad at the starbucks employee and start recording them for not calling you a they them when you look like a lesbian with purple hair" 🤣🤣😅🤦♀️❤
But Eden looks like a teenage boy with long hair and makeup to me. So if she doesn’t want to be addressed as a he/him she shouldn’t bash non binary people. (A very marginalized group within the LGBT+ community.)
You know damn well she don’t look like no teenage boy with make up, ur just saying that cuz u mad at what she said, she’s right, u shouldn’t be childish and pull out a camera that doesn’t make anyone respect u more by yelling at the worker who didn’t know exactly that u identified as “non binary” that just makes people dislike you more, so that isn’t bashing non binary people that’s just called having common sense on how people and the world works, if u don’t look like a they/them don’t expect people to know ur a they/them, they could’ve told the worker, instead of being a big baby and pulling out a camera prolly getting that poor worker fired for simply just trying to get ur order so they can get their paycheck, people shouldn’t have to be walking on eggshells on what to refer to someone as,
And she wouldn’t be addressed as he/him cuz she doesn’t look like a a he/him, most people who didn’t know she was trans prolly wouldn’t be able to tell she is trans (ik i sure couldn’t) the only reason someone would call her “he/him” is to try and be disrespectful or rude on purpose towards her, not bc she actually looks like a “he/him” (something ur trying to do rn)
@@JaimeeTyrell imagine thinking people with fake genders are “marginalized”.🤡😂😂😂😂😂😂🤡🤡
@@NovasobrightI’m non binary but obviously present very masculine( I have a 🍆) but never in a million years would I ever step into a women’s space like a woman’s restroom or locker room I always go to the male spaces I think this newer generation of “trans “ and “nonbinary “ people have just completely made us all look like jokes and that were crazy
Yes, Hispanic kids have it so much harder just as kids from very religious homes, it’s hard for everyone. I’m glad everything turned out successfully for her.
I agree with Eden's viewpoints so much. A 30 year old male 0 female features, a beard and a cheap dress should never be allowed in a women's restroom! People like this give trans / lgbt a bad rep and set us back in society, you can't expect to be respected or taken serious like that, it's just never going to work. On another note Eden is just seriously stunning?! One of the first trans women I saw years ago and she had the face of an angel even as a teen before transitioning.
Your definition of what a trans person should look like it very subjective.
Unfortunately not all trans people have the resource to make themselves “passable” as you would like everyone to be.
@@heyhihello9677 You are correct and I do feel for those people who will maybe never have the resources to transition in the way they'd wish. However, if you're a trans woman and you want to be seen as a woman by society you have to be passable. Be who you are but at the end of the day if you identify as a trans woman yet visually you just look male with lipstick on it's not going to happen, your demands of people calling you she her wont happen and cis woman being okay with you in their dressing room wont happen!
@@heyhihello9677 It you have a beard and hairy body go to the men’s restroom
That’s because that’s not a trans person that’s a cross dresser. I don’t know why people act like cross dressers aren’t a thing a anymore.
@@cecee3480 what can a trans identified male do PHYSICALLY different than a cross dresser? Last time I checked, both have male genitals and can’t carry children
A very intelligent woman who speaks a lot of sense.....common sense. Very refreshing to hear her POV on the people hijacking the trans terminology.
Im trans with 🍆 and know better than to change in a women’s locker room and let it all hang out. Like nah. That’s not cool at all. I never entered the women’s bathroom until I knew for sure I passed and even before when I would enter the mens bathroom people would say “mam you are going into the wrong bathroom” but now that I am mostly passable I notice (though very few) those people that go out their way to call me sir 😅like the disrespect. UPDAT3 at this point in my life I pass in some eyes and in others I may not at the end of the day it doesn’t matter I’m happy where I’m at. I’m trans, I’m beautiful inside and out. And that’s all that matters. 🙌🏽
Thank you for being respectful. I'm sorry for all the people who go out of their way to be mean to you. This world needs more empathy.
I think some trans women that haven't fully transitioned must do it for shock value if they feel the need to "swing it about" in the ladies locker room. It's just common sense not to do things like that, good on you. Btw you're stunning in your profile picture.
Sorry if people call you sir you probably don’t pass
@@carolinerowles5951 no real transsexual woman does that .. the only ones that do that are creeps who are heterosexual men cross dressing and saying they are trans .. only to go home and take off their dress and go back to living like a creepy heterosexual pervert
You sound like you're kind and empathetic. May your journey be beautiful and full of love.
Thank you, Eden!! I so much appreciate your viewpoints and support you show to transwomen and ciswomen. We need more voices like this.
The second you mentioned us just "women"
we definitely don't need more narcissists putting their worthless opinions in the discussion 🤣
as a woman who has fought long and hard for my place in the world, I'd appreciate it if you would refer to me as a woman. I was born a woman. if you want to label yourself as a trans woman, that's great. but I'm a woman. That's my preference and please don't disrespect me. I don't disrespect people with their pronouns or their labels, don't do it to me. kthaxbai
@@victrola2007 thank you
@@victrola2007 What are you talking about? Trans people are not real anything, bcz they are not being their genuine self as in what they are and will always be since they were inside the womb and do not say ''cis'' when it is Just called males and females, non trans people are the only ones who can be called males and females since they are genuine since day 0 lol. Like the moment of their conception. If people have changed that then they are just trans.
So glad she is finally speaking up about earning your place as a trans woman in women’s spaces, only a few years back all the trans girls online disowned Blaire for saying the same exact things.. glad to see some of them coming around tho.
Eden don't agree with Blaire at all. Blaire said she is a category of men
Pretty sure Blaire said a lot more than just that. Why the need to be a liar about this?
@@1bwash where is the lie? Blaire and Eden used to be friends and she clearly agreed with her about this specific topic at the time and to this day, as she stated here, still does. I didn’t say she agrees with every single thing Blaire says, I said she agrees with this particular sentiment. Learn to read.
@@adynathaly3145 I did not say Eden agrees with EVERYTHING Blaire says, I said she agrees that women and trans women are not the same and have to work to earn their place in women’s spaces. again..LEARN TO READ PEOPLE.
@@rabbitsaurus well that's the whole point that they are trans women which they are different than cis women but their is a big huge difference when you say trans women are men. MEN! Ta are not men dude. And Eden would never say she is a man. Blaire is the only ts that says she is a man . She is not a dude
Eden was so honest and raw in this
I so agree with her when she talks about trans identity. Being a trans woman or a trans man is a long journey of love, hate, pain, danger, hopefully happiness. Like Eden I do not feel that putting a dress and make up on makes anyone a trans woman. It dilutes the struggles and the fights trans women had to do to simply exist particularly in the 70s and 80s. On the other hand, it’s great that today’s youth is trying to go against all the gender stereotypes. Unfortunately, that created more labels and more confusion including in the LGBTQ+ community and that’s given a tool to the bigots to try to eradicate trans rights. ANYWAY! More than ever we must fight on for our trans sisters and brothers’ rights.
Ditto!
Completely agree and I’m a trans man.
What about people who don't have the money to have procedures that make them appear more like a woman?
@@sugarsore I don’t think they should be allowed to change in front of people or use the bathroom then. Unless they actually look the part and are actively trying to get transitioning in play. I didn’t use the men’s room or changing room until I had got top surgery. I don’t want drama or to be bullied in public worse than I already get. It sucks but we have to keep ours, and others, safety in mind.
@@DamienXavier1828 This is classist and internalized transphobia. The onus of safety shouldn't be on trans people to avoid getting attacked & killed, it should be on cis people to stop attacking and killing us. There are some people that no amount of surgery will make them "pass" and some people don't want surgeries for a ton of reasons. They don't deserve less because they're broke, androgynous, "too tall", whatever.
I really appreciate Eden's respect toward dedicated women's spaces. Male genitallia is used against women in violence everyday and that's a major fear for women when it comes to the new trans umbrella that is discussed here.
In order to respect women, be aware and sensitive to how male bodies are rightfully viewed as a threat toward women. Women respect and accept other women who respect the privacy they work so hard in protecting. I understand it is a painfully arduous journey in being accepted, but please respect the private spaces women need to feel safe. Eden's perspective here is very important.
I think you are missing the point. Trans women WILL ALWAYS be targeted (Penis or no penis) just for the simple fact that they are trans. This world is full of bullies and unfortunately there is no negotiating with them. Trans people should live their life as they want to and unapologetically. If cis people are too afraid and ignorant to accept that some women have penises and some women have a beard, THAT IS TOO BAD!!!! TRANS PEOPLE ARE HUMANS!! THEY EXIST!!! GET USED TO IT.
I agree with Eden and yourself regarding transwomen in private female spaces. I just don't want to see male genitalia whilst in a private female space. If I'm getting changed/ showering etc, I'm already feeling vulnerable and it's ridiculous to expect women to accept male genitalia in our private female spaces no matter the reason. I also don't want my young daughter seeing it either... No matter how a person identifies.
@@elenawilliams32 so you are more comfortable with your daughter seeing a stranger’s vagina?
@@elenawilliams32 that’s what Eden was saying
@@elenawilliams32 How many times have you seen male genitalia in "women's spaces"?
I like what she said about casually adopting a trans identity while basically having no skin in the game, ie biologically altering yourself to align with your gender identity. All of my trans women friends completely feel the same, and are pretty turned off and downright annoyed by the "theys" out there who act, look, and enjoy the privileges of their assigned at birth sex, while being the loudest voices in the room. When push comes to shove, they'd drop their "theyness" while a woman like Eden cannot drop her altered gender identity. People apply pronouns to themselves like they're fashion accessories all the while never understanding the long and tenuous journeys actual trans people go through to just live their everyday lives. I'm glad she was brave enough to speak truth to power and call out some of the idiocies that are fodder for conservatives and keeping us from moving ahead.
hmm its giving queerphobia. like mayb the gender queers are the “loudest in the room” bcs they have to deal w ignorant binary trans ppl on top of cis ppl who seem dead set on misrepresenting them and undermining their liberation at every turn. Being passable isnt always the slay you think it is (and we saw from this video that it doesnt always prevent you from facing harm either). most times passing only reaffirms gender hierarchies consequently resulting in binaries of good and bad queer gender expression where soft and cvnt are on one end and clockiness is on the other. Regurgitating and remodeling the gender structures cis ppl follow will not save us it only creates trans binary gender police. and i dont see why yall wanna be cops so bad. And given that in order to transition you need a considerable amount of access and capital, there are class and racial implications as to who gets to access the benefits of passability. I care abt everyone having the right to express their gender in any way that feels safe and aligned to them. Do you?
It is not a ''she, her, female'' bcz it is a male and has been a He, a boy, from the time that he was inside the womb of his mother. Only she was and is a female.
Have you ever talked to a “they”? Or is it just easier to other and bash something you don’t understand? There is no one way to transition. Each trans person’s journey is different and not something to compare or judge.
@@carolinemcguire6224ITS MAAAAAN 👰🏻♂️
Many transgender folks transition slowly over time and may use they/them pronouns at first before changing later to more binary ones. Even if you truly only accept binary transgender folks, you should accept them their whole process. Not just the ending.
She survived the Jehovahs Witness upbringing and exhibits mental clarity and lucidity. This is astonishing. Most are zombies after being taken through that violent, evil cult. She is a powerhouse of strength ❤
JW are not evil and certainly not violent
Stop regurgitating bullshit
He, is what it should say there for accuracy, he. H e HE!
He'll never be a real woman.
@@Vero2yugrow up
If you call this a he you really are messed up in the head@@Vero2yu
What she said about bathrooms and earning your place was something that Kylie Sonique Love said in her interview and these perspectives are extremely interesting and important
A female is a she and a He, like he is, will never be a ''she'' at all. Only a him, he, bye.
I truly appreciate her point of view and her voice is very needed! She has helped me understand about what trans is much better.
Me too. Brilliant cool informative down2earth IV x
Agree!
You mean she gave you permission to only respect certain trans people.
@@bm4114 aka actual trans people
@bm4114 there aren't certain trans people, you're either actually trans or you're not.
I'm shook because I wondered what happened to her... Trying not to cry right now.. But she is more then a doll. The only thing that separates from being ordinary is the extra... You to are truly fierce and brave
It's so very refreshing hearing Eden talk about the trans umbrella and as she says "it's just unrealistic" and she's absolutely correct. These idiots are dragging us back into a can of woop ass no one wants and it's affecting sensible people, who simply want to live their lives while causing unnecessary harm. Really enjoyed this Matt. Thank you x
I am so impressed by Eden and how she keeps it real. You do too, Matt. Much love to you both!
I'm so happy she spoke about 🐯 because he is the definition of a coward. He was messing with this other transwoman and got “caught” then goes on to a radio show with the transwomen's friend who was one of the hosts at the time (he didn't know she knew his tea) and lies straight to all three of their faces about the entire thing. Allegedly he paid the transwoman some money to be quiet.
Later on, he released a song with the line “We don't mess with those Batty boy antics.” For the ones that don't know Batty is a homophobic slur used in the Caribbean.
The only reason he even started the only fans thing is to prove to his counterpart that he isn't a part of LGBTQ... The funny thing is they know he's lying.
Who????? Who?????
@@src3360 Tyga.
Omfg 😅😂😂😂😭😭😭thanks for sharing 😭💀
Eden needs to write a book to share her full story. Love her!
Eden is speaking FACTS!!!!!!!!❤️🔥
What did he say? I did not see the video, sooo, want to share what he said?
@@Vero2yu Well there were several things if i recall. It was 3 months ago so I would suggest watching the video as i don’t remember everything.
@@Vero2yu so you just click on videos, pause the video and run to the comment section and start going ham... That's not how the internet works sweetie
I miss her 🥺😭 I haven't seen her since she got into that fight 😭🤦🏼♀️ We miss you boo!!!
Matt, I wait patiently for new episodes, and another bravo to you! This content is so important. Thank you!
Thank you Lisa! ❤️
Matt, your interview and interpersonal skills are improving. It's astonishing! Love and support for you and Eden from the Sierras. 🕊💞
Im so glad that Eden is keeping people aware of political issues. I hate how unprotected black Cis and Trans women are. I just want to say, women please watch out for the free surgeries. Because of what happened to Jacky O🙏🏾♥️
This was one of my favorite interviews of yours. This woman is so graceful and strong. Even when it was an uncomfortable conversation she was ready to face it and speak on it. She is a beautiful soul.
Okay could we take a moment to appreciate Matt’s compassion throughout the video? With everything Eden shares, difficult as some topics may be, he responds with so much kindness and empathy, it’s lovely! A little bit of kindness can go a long way!
Matt, your channel is such a treasure, and not just for the LGBTQ community, but for everyone. I appreciate how you accept everyone and are so kind to all. You have helped me, a straight woman see the world from a different perspective. I know you created this channel to educate about the lgbtq world. But you have been so successful that instead of seeing a trans person or a gay person i just see a person. First and foremost. Thank you. I hope your channel blows up😊
Thank you so much for saying that, Michelle. That means so much to me ❤️
She’s so beautiful and I’m so sorry she and her friends went through that terrible assault. Her being , existence and message needs to be shared and heard. Bless you Matt and Eden for sharing your story and awareness
That experience at the end, sooo deep & traumatizing. 💜 I’m so glad she spoke up about the issue with the other girl who got attacked.
I love Eden ! She’s such a beautiful soul
That is a man
@@dracoyoung9908you're so unoriginal and not accomplishing anything
@dracoyoung9908 your mother is a man 😊
Eden is so cool. She is down to earth and relatable. And very pretty.
Thankyou Eden for being honest and Sharing your real thoughts. I admired you since day one. Role model for real❤
Eden is so real. It's refreshing. Bless her.
Not. Cancelled. Gorgeous thank you for speaking truth and being such a phenomenal woman 🥰
It is not a ''woman'' nor a ''man'' bcz no man or woman is a delusional trans person.
He also can never be a ''woman'' when he did not even start out as a female, sooo, bye.
Be in the real world.
I AGREED WITH EVERYTHING SHE SAID AND I LOVE HER EVEN MORE FOR BEING SUPER TRANSPARENT
..AND ALSO A HUGEEEEE THANK YIU FOR BEING AWARENESS AND OPENING UP ABOUT HOW US TRANS WOMEN OF COLOR GET TREATED !
My Girlfriend is a transgender female and I am supporting her through her transformation. ❤
Eden is beautiful! She's based in reality and I fkn lap it up, it's so refreshing. More power to her! ♡♡♡
Edan I have so much respect for you!!! Matt Thankyou for this video!!❤️
I love her honesty and common sense!!
Thanks!
Thank you Mike!
Another amazing video, Matt!! So happy to see the continuation of this series and channel. You're spreading so much love and education and it's beautiful to see
Thank you so much!!!
Great interview Matt and Eden! Thank you for being so candid and honest about your journey and perspective!!!❤
I like her common sense approach. Thank you for sharing her story, Matt.
This is my first time seeing Eden and SHES A BREATH OF FRESH AIR. that’s all most of us want is to be realistic. And seriously one of the most beautiful women I ever seen PERIOD.
Great interview Matt,Eden and Christian. Totally agree with Eden.
WE LOVE EDEN! SHE IS AN ICON !!!
This was so good Matt thank you for this video Eden is amazing good job Matt
What a great interview. I love Eden and definitely would love to see an extended version of this one!
I agree. The trans umbrella has expanded so much that it’s having blowback on the LGBT community at large
Have always loved Eden! Happy to see her.
I’m so glad she’s sharing this interview because it’s a testimony to a young trans person everywhere… I wish I was her mom in her beginning years in transition… but she’s a boss and a inspiration. Keep shining Diva❤
3:52 the arm mark isn't really a birthmark it's more like a vaccination scar, a lot of people I know have them (British people) from the BCG jab given at age 13 to stop you getting tuberculosis
My heart breaks everytime I see that video. No one should have to deal with that kind of violence. Just let people live and if you don't agree with the way someone is living their life go fuck off and mind your business. Do not ever put your hands on someone.
She’s so pretty. I smiled this entire interview.
I just love her and the fact that she's realistic about how things really are
Born a he is always a he, him, male.
Born a she is always a she, her, female.
This guy, dude, is a male. Nothing more.
She is beautiful
I agree with what she said
You can’t expect to be respected if you look like a man in a dress
Facial surgeries can be very expensive unfortunately
Eden is spitting facts!!! Love her.
I love the videos and I hope they don't stop coming as long as you want to keep making them, do you ever think of having a podcast in addition to this or is there one possibly where we can hear more of the interviews/things that have been cut
I've loved Eden for so many years. But watching her on here makes me loveeeeeee her even more! She knows what a woman is 💪🏼
You have a real talent for bringing out that "just talking friend to friend" vibe in your interviews! (and, I know, a lot of very well done editing!). This interview with Eden was great. I'm glad to hear her speak her opinions openly, even though she knows that all will not agree. I'm an older gay man and not trans so I don't feel that it's up to me to tackle some of these topics. I try to be respectful of everyone, even if I don't always "understand" 100%.
❤❤❤ love love love. Respect the opinion. Beautiful energy. Thoughtful and smart. Really great interview! ❤❤❤❤
This video literally made me love Eden the Doll and you even more. I've watched several videos in the past, but this is the one where I subscribed.
I agree with her stance on acceptance and push back on extremist lgbtq trans rehetoeci we’ve heard of lately. Should’nt be a cancelable offense to have differing opinions. Our community has become cultish and delusional with allot of extreme topics
What a babe! No wonder she’s ballin!
And I love her view on life. I hate that people are out there who are so unhappy with themselves that they have to take it out on others. It’s truly heartbreaking.
Such a good ep !
Eden never disrespected her family or their religion and I respect her for that
Poor TYGA we all know this teaaa lmaoooooo
Ngl freaking love Eden. She is so honest and speaking truth there. Respect and agree on her points 100%
As a gay man I love hearing other LGBT people with rational points of view. Great interview!
Such a great interview! I’m going to subscribe!
Well said 👏👏 Totally agree with her point of view on “the new trans”
Eden brings up a great nuanced point that... there is a spectrum of transness for the current society we live in. Some people pass more than others (& some people don't want to pass as either), but people who don't pass make cis-people feel unsafe. Everything is gendered. It's inescapable. Like a '2' in a binary code, not fitting in makes you a target. It is difficult to live in the middle. You may be seen as deviant, unnatural, aggressive.... but if you want to be viewed as the other gender, conforming to it's stereotypes does help other people interact with you as that gender. Following the rules, getting the body, training your voice... transitioning as much as possible to the other gender!
The only thing is: her transmedicalist ideology shits on people who have just come out as trans, are in the process of transitioning, trans people who have done a lot of work to transition and still don't pass, and people who are just exploring their gender. It demonizes them as trenders, and it's ultimately very harmful. If her goal is trans liberation she's shooting herself in the foot. So it's not a great solution... but the nonbinary dream of having a gender-less society is also impossible. We need a happy medium between these two extreme views in order to move foreword together.
yesss exactly Eden our lives is so hard as it is and then we are demanding all these expectations from others when we are creating confusion in our world
I love how honest and real Eden is.
I think that if you are actively transitioning and you feel safer in a certain change/rest room then go for it. I used to go to a ton of raves and festivals and there were a ton of people who were in the various stages of hormone therapy or dressing as a woman and no one felt uncomfortable but no one was like showing their genitals or getting angry and truly the people in the restrooms that were trans were trying to assimilate themselves as women. Like sis just had to pee, and they were putting a lot of effort into blending in, they did not want to be uncomfortable and they do not want you to be uncomfortable.
can you please post the rest of this episode!! i love eden sm ❤
Not all woman of the trans experience are post op, some believe in keeping their assigned genitalia at birth. I agree that those particular trans woman does have to be cognizant of how they change in front of woman who are post op and those who are considered biological. However, non-binary is a spectrum. It’s more of femininity and masculine traits that defines that for people. Also intersex is a factor as well, I have a hormone imbalance, meaning I have more XX chromosomes making me more feminine and look like male. We have to be careful of the language. I agree if you are trans you have to appear that way. I also agree that they/them individuals have to be ok that others may not use the correct pronouns because we are visual beings. Thank you Matt for this conversation 💚
Ahhh Yiss I remember when my doctor assigned my genitalia, that was a good day. I had nothing down there like Barbie up until then. /s 😂
And no we don’t have to use they/them pronouns to show respect. I’m not buying into gender ideology. Masc and fem is a spectrum, doesn’t change your gender though.
@@Lola_Nico gender is not in question when it comes to non binary people. Gender and sex is too different things. It’s a known fact. Thank you for your response. We can’t be so quick to erase others because of lack of knowledge or the subscription of white male supremal idealistic impartialities. 💚
@@Lola_Nico I consider myself Male but my nonbinarism comes from my intersexuality which was told to me by a board certified physician. I am more feminine as a result but live as male. I’m a feminine male. 💚
Another thing to remember: She, they, him are all social constructs, meaning, it’s words used to identify a person(s) it has nothing to do with gender or sex. Me and my friends have called each other sis or she because we are feminine males and feel comfortable doing so. It’s a social construct 💚
Excellent interview as always, Matt. She is really smart and articulate and I felt represented the trans community well. You, we'll you're always YOU! ~Evan
By any chance is there an update on Cindy and how she is doing. Did she ever get permanent housing?
She got scammed, AGAIN
@@jjjjjjjjjj56789 Oh for god sake Cindy I was rooting for her
11:19 TRANSSEXUAL. This is binary transsexuals who go from one sex to the other via surgeries and hormones and present full time as the opposite sex. This is the ONE term we have left to separate our condition from the “fun umbrella ” of transgender which can literally mean anything. The host of this show could put on lipstick and say he’s “trans”, and transexuals need to be considered different. Tired of this new WOKE movement bullying society while not even making any effort to pass or transition! Clothes don’t equal gender! SMH
I've met Eden a couple of years ago, sweetest doll ever! but after watching this video I've gained much more respect for her.
Thank you for being real Eden! Thank you👏👏👏👏👏
The ending was sooooo kaute!!❤❤❤ such a great interview boo, ya work is super important 🎉
I think alot of people would be interested in the unedited long version.
YOUR INTERVIEWS ARE SO GOOD! WHY ARE THEY SHORT?? DO YOU HAVE A CHANNEL WITH THE LONGER VERSIONS IF ANY?
She has a point, I'm a lesbian and I have experienced amab people who identify as trans (pre-op, no hormones) posting pictures of their penises or sending photos of it in spaces not meant for any of that bs. Though they are a small minority there are some weirdos out there.
Can you say which spaces?
Lesbian dating apps have become nightmare fuel
This is officially my new fav channel. 😍
Brilliant what a fantastic IV - seriously the BEST discussion I've heard about Trans biz and so sorry to hear about 'chasers' and the fact Eden and her gals were terrorized by dickheads❤ Good on you guys n gals. Love your BF too, Eden. Y'all are gracefully, flawlessly unreal in ever way x Love from us, DownUnder in Australia too, woohoo x
I wish this was longer! 😢 I miss Eden and so happy that she’s doing well.
She is very very very correct when she said the extremists are making it very difficult for the community.
Good point! Then again, I guess that's true about a lot of communities!
there are no "extremists" thats just a scapegoat the right made up. she seems uneducated on queer theory.
What a great interview!!! Loved it!!! Keep telling coming! 🥰
Matt you are amazing!
Another great interview.
I will forever Stan her and her realist opinion
Another great interview!