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r/amiwrong - Girl I was seeing got injured while we were camping and how I responded ended in a breakup
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im dying to know what the red flags were prior to this trip. bro is walking through a field of them.
Not even lol my man was *_SKIPPING_* through 😆😂
Dude was singing, _”Tiptoe through the window.”_ 😆😂
This story is the epitome of what happens when you’re a people pleaser
op’s naïveté was so painful 😭
Moral of the story, be prepared for anything if you go camping. This story is driving me crazy.
27:14 don't shower in waterfalls.... People get killed that way.... especially if it's an extremely tall waterfall. If a loose rock comes down and hits you on the head- that's it. Lights out forever
@@Tinky35smoked implies death. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
This whole story is just "Natural Selection: A Reddit Tale"
I fell off my hammock. Don't call an ambulance! I lied to the EMTs. The doctors can't help me! Let me going paddle boarding while I have a concussion. I don't care if I go paddle boarding and die. I'll go without a paddle! Fine, I'll just leave you here & drive while I have a concussion!
This chick is psycho. OP saying he f-ed up... No! Your gfs just evil. Also the condescension from the roommate?!?
It's upsetting to see people being so judgemental about medical use. If she asked him to "stop using his antidepressants" would you have the same opinion..?
Tolerance breaks (like she forced) are not good for medical users. That can impair their judgement even more. You have to complete medical school to prescribe it, okay? Judgement on this is as disappointing as judgement surrounding mental health.
You wouldn't just lower your antidepressants without consulting a doctor. She demanded he not be medicated and then was confused why his judgement was impaired. I feel bad for the OP and can't believe some people are saying being medically prescribed something is the same as being addicted.
The way Sophia had to say to Riley, _”that’s not a shower”_ fucking killed me 😆😂 Like she was explaining to someone who just came out of a Time Machine 200 years from the past 😆😂
This girl with OP and the paddle board… dude just run. This girl is crazy. I’d run dude run far far away
Stuff just KEPT HAPPENING? Like one moment i think the story is over and things will calm down and then i get punched EVEN MORE
OP’s girlfriend is flat out crazy-evil. Op needs some self esteem and possibly some coursework in critical thinking skills. Hopefully op learns from this and gets as far away as possible from her.
My mom's best friend fell on Holliday a couple years ago and broke a vertebrae low down in her back.didnt know she broke anything. No medical care beeded just a bruised ego. Fwd to 2024 and she's been struggling to recover from hip surgery. After an xray, turns out she's been walking around with a broken back for a couple years without knowing
Honestly he should have left as soon as she said she wanted him to quit smoking the devils lettuce knowing he has a prescription and needs it
This whole story reminds me of the "Meegan & Andre" skits from Key & Peele, it has the same energy as that couple.
True💯 🤣
When I got a concussion from cracking the windshield with my dome I was throwing up so hard I pissed myself
When I was a teenager I got a concussion slamming my head into the frame of my friends car while getting in. I couldn't speak right. My words came out a jumbled mess. Half of them laughed, the other half were worried. I freaked out. I tried 3 times to speak & sentences weren't right so I stayed quiet the 5 minute car ride back to the house.
They got me an ice pack & my friend said to just recite the alphabet. I did & it came out correctly & I was fine afterwards. But that really freaked me out.
Not every concussion is like that. That’s not how it works.
Thinking an ambulance trip and orthopedic care would costa 6k, despite the universal health care system, is some of the most U.S. shit possible
Regular ambulance is usually $500. Now the helicopter i think that starts at $10,000. ?
@robynvanhorn it depends on how far they drive you and if it's a separate ambulance company that owns it or the hospital as well as if they are in or out of network.
Good people 🙋🏾♂️
Ambulances are a subsidized public service, free of charge, in the majority of the world
You pay nothing! 💵🚫
I mean in the US ambulances are $2k+ (I know they aren't there but since op mentioned the US I don't know if that's what you were also talking about) @@robynvanhorn
It's absolutely evil for ambulance to cost so much (and EMS to be paid absolute crap) and with Republicans in power it's only going to get worse.
22:16 well that escalated quickly lmmfao 😅😂🤣
I do think it's really important to take into account that she had a bad concussion for most of this. The telling him to f off was immature but after that things like refusing medical attention, having big emotions and being confused about what it happening, like her not realizing he's trying to help is normal. OP seems like he's trying to be responsible but he's not at all.
He should have taken her to to hospital 100% whether she wanted to go or not and gotten food. She is not in her right mind and can't be making decisions for herself or him at this time. Honestly lie to her to calm her down and get her to safety if you need to. It was really irresponsible to keep pushing the decisions in the situation on to her.
Honestly the more I listen the more pissed I am at OP. The paramedics told him not to leave and he tries to leave? He says multiple times she's trying to do dangerous stuff and not acting herself and he still doesn't take her to the hospital? She could have died. This is actually so bad.
EXACTLY and it’s making me really spicy hearing these guys and Reddit dog on her when at the start she was upset because she was scared and the dude is oblivious as fuck. Now she’s in full need of medical attention and scared at losing her limited money which is something to be scared of, yet the dude is just so fish eyed about everything.
@@LoveEachDay94you can only do so much for someone if they are flat out refusing medical attention. Like I get OP isn’t perfect, but she sounds like a nightmare. Head injury or otherwise.
I’m not saying OP’s girl doesn’t have some questionable behavior, but I’d love to hear her side of the story as well.
This is my favorite story so far lmfao there was a lot of lack of thought in the things OP did and that felt so real
op is so helpless its infuriating- but there was a time where i was the exact same so i cant even be mad😭
@@professorsugoiYeah i think she babygirl is needing a pacifier 😂. She needs tons of attention.
It genuinely hurt to watch 😭
You can fake a concussion 😂
This sounds a lot like my ex girlfriend who has bpd and histrionic personality disorder … nightmare
I broke my neck but was still able to crawl out of my smashed car and move my neck for the first hour or so after
This smacks so hard of OP being an unreliable narrator and writing about the incident in such a way as to shine himself in a decent light, and make her out to be a psycho. I would be so, so curious as to what the girlfriend would say happened... and I get the definite feeling that there would be a massssive gap between their two stories, especially when it comes to whatever happened at the beginning of their trip. There's his version, her version, and what actually happened.
Right, he is all over the place. Screams that he's leaving stuff out
If the cops didn't see a reason to separate them after talking to Nancy and hearing her side, there is ZERO reason for her actions. The police would have asked her if she felt unsafe and wanted him gone. She stranded him, over and over. She refused him food, and a way to charge his phone. Threatened to lie to the police to get him arrested. She's out of her mind and a walking, talking bag of red flags.
I gotta say, even if the beginning is sus there’s way too much stuff in the tail end of the story for me to care. This gf sounds like a nightmare. Either all of this is fake or she’s just a shitty person.
OP can’t do anything right according to his gf. I hope he takes note of these red flags and keep them in mind for his next relationship.
The camping story ... Maybe it's the OP who has a concussion!!? That would explain all of his naivety!!
sorry if I am wrong for this option but I feel like the rancher should have went to wait for the ambulance
Crappy cops. Sort of decent effort by park ranger. solid effort from OP. OP did great given he was under duress the ENTIRE trip (goes on spur of moment and changes every part of his routine, meds, food and sleep), almost no food and barely sleeping. So sad at minute 40 when cops only did basic moron questions and you got tired of OP for trying to sum up for cops pissy questions (don’t care why are we here now) and OP minimizing. Guess nobody learned jack from Gabby Petito unconcerned cops. Sucks when cops are lame in a clearly bad ‘domestic’ situation or when people lack patience to see the red flags and further discuss with victims. Saying this as a child constantly in the middle of domestic calls. Glad this was bat crap crazy and not a domestic emergency that was glossed over l
Op needs to just break up with her. Sorry. No excuses for treating ppl this way. She’s miserable and needs to get help and heal
I don’t think that she got an actual diagnosis of concussion… I think it’s far more likely that they didn’t really see evidence of obvious trauma (like a broken neck), but she still complained of pain, yet refused to go to the hospital, so as a precaution, they said she had a concussion and gave instructions as if it were true… just in case. This chick is actually a nightmare and OP should RUN!
Haha I started singing Bananas too lol
Let's read in between the lines though. She asked him not to smoke on the camping trip. I do NOT believe he went to the bathroom and she got upset because he was gone for a long time. He SAID he was going to the bathroom and then he went to smoke. When she could smell it on him, they argued and he used it as an excuse to walk off and smoke. Then she got hurt in his absence. I would bet money that's what she was so mad about and not all this random mumbo jumbo OP is writing.
Yeah 100% that's definitely what happened. People who "vape" can't just "take a break" whenever they want. At the end of the day, it's an addiction, and he was looking for excuses to get his hits in. Sure, he could argue some things, like the hearing thing, but he seems pretty neglectful as a partner. They keep talking about her red flags, but he has a lot of red flags too if you read between the lines. Who doesn't take their phone with them, even if the internet is spotty? Or with the "ranger" telling him to go to the corner to wait for an ambulance, when that would also make a perfect time to "vape", especially with how stressful *he* probably is at this point.
Not to mention he mentions she's on a visa, but what about him? He keeps calling it the bush, so I assume he's talking about Australia, and I feel like if you're from the area you should know how to handle safety regarding that.
@Madjastin The injury is also super suspicious. She injured her neck AND got a concussion from falling off a hammock? How high was this hammock? How strong was this wind? I feel like OP is definitely hiding something about how she got injured which makes him look even more suspicious. Crazy how no one is picking up on this.
@@robin5062-f8p The whole thing in general is suspicious. Now while it's possible english might not be his first language, even phrases like "I then started making a cannabis vape" are jarring. You don't *make* a vape. He was also very adamant throughout the entire post that he has a medical exception to smoke weed, which really makes it seem like that wasn't the case. If I'm correct about it being Australia, weed is illegal there, so if he's smoking it, medical reasons or not I doubt he's smoking it legally, even if he claims that to be the case.
Also the claim that he found her laying on her paddle board? I'm sorry but who puts a paddle board right under a hammock? Typically, if you just used a paddle board, you would at the very least put it somewhere to dry off. I doubt it would dry off very well under some trees. Which leads to another question: why did they have to cover her with a blanket to protect her from the sun? Where exactly *was* this hammock hung up? Correct me if I'm wrong, but usually one hangs a hammock from trees, rather than mysterious invisible poles that offer no shade. He claimed she crawled to the board, but if she was as disabled from the fall as she claimed, she shouldn't have been able to crawl all the way to wherever she had left her board.
I'm willing to bet this might not even be a real story overall. The way he types reminds me of an American, and although he did claim he recently moved to the country (so he's on a Visa too, maybe?) he doesn't say where he came from, or where his girlfriend (at the time) came from. It did seem to allude that they weren't from the same place, but he seemed to have a good idea of all the rules of Australia (such as the free healthcare) which sort of still implies he came from somewhere else that had similar concepts.
Even if OP did decide to smoke against her request, his (ex) gf's behavior was still immature and toxic. Like is she throwing a tantrum because he didn't obey her? That's insane and controlling
She had no business telling him to discontinue anything he uses for anxiety. It doesn't matter why he took so long. If he was such a monster to watch her fall and walk off, she would have told the police she felt unsafe with him or given them a reason to separate the two. Instead she threatened to lie to the police to have him arrested earlier in the day and then told the police everythingwas fine. She stranded him. Multiple times. Refused him food. He had a hard time explaining himself several times, which indicates he really does have anxiety. Add his deafness to the equation, and his version of what happened before she fell could be correct. It can be really hard to get someone's attention if they don't have their hearing aids or cochlears on, when you are standing near them, much less from yards away. She either really believed he left her hurt and alone, and chose to be a petty, vindictive brat instead of being an adult and taking herself out of an unsafe position, or she is just petty and vindictive by nature. (Calling her ex.....petty as hell.)
None of this silliness would have happened if at least the emergency care in the country would be free.
Just saying...
She’s a nightmare
So much about this story does not make any sense at all. OP never really asked the other campers for help, or even once considered asking them for help at any point, nor the girlfriend called for help at any time too. If I was left stranded the first thing I would do is either ask another camper for help, or go to the office to ask for help. I do not think this is real.
Could just be op is an oblivious tool which lines up
You can 100% fake a concussion. Just saying.
This story makes me mad.
I would love to know what country they were in because here in the US a paramedic cannot definitively diagnose a concussion, it has to be a MD. I think she's looking for a reason to break up with OP.
Op was just letting her tap dance all over him,he is truly better than me
This guy is a total stoner, she’s sick of it and she snapped.
He has a medical prescription- CBD doesn’t even get you stoned as it doesn’t have THC, can just help with pain or anxiety. SHE on the other hand, cursed at him for taking extra time at the TOILET, withheld FOOD from him, drove off ABANDONING him, and even was threatening saying she didn’t care if she died. She sounds like a totally histrionic, mentally abusive, immature person.
She should go smoke a bowl and chill tf out. Maybe it would make her less horrible
something isn't adding up here... like did OP also hit his head?
OP , not the AO, is neurodivergent, has hearing loss and anxiety & cptsd. And girlfriend probably doesn't know or understand hos situation, plus she is high strung and controlling. Just another reason to communicate and be honest because if these two had, there would be no AITA story! 😅
Gf seems like she has her own disorders she’s working with and is likely very anxious which OP doesn’t help by failing to be considerate in an emotional capacity. The communication also isn’t there from him at all. They clearly needed a lot of education about each other before doing this trip.
OP is such a dumbo
1st?
I've never been first ever
Congratulations 🥲👏👏
Congrats!!
Too many details i don't trust ops story
Kinda funny they all forgot OP was a girl
0:13 no, op is a guy
@@Kat_._.44 Lmao problably confused it with an earlier story I watched
Op isn't a girl? It said 25 male...