Salama made me cry when said she said she sees her children laughing and happy and she cries alone remembering the childhood she never had. I spent most of my childhood crying b/c I was an orphan child growing up in the home of firaun. I was a gifted child and adults were attracted to my intellect so this relative started abusing me. Now that I'm an adult and have long removed myself from my abuser I cry for children suffering and going through worse than I went through. I pray for innocent souls.
Im sorry you had to go through this. There's hardly anyone who doesn't have any childhood trauma. Yet some go through tougher times than others. May Allah subhana wa'ta'ala heal us❤❤❤💖 ❤
When Salama mentioned how she wanted to meet someone who forgave, all I could think of is this woman should listen more often to Mufti Menk's lecture about forgiveness because he gives the best lecture on it. I see she still hides so much trauma and pain, and hope Allah swt eases it
Forgiveness is everything. Life is too short. You can't hold to some trauma since childhood and you are hurting yourself. And I think she is referring to her parents
Trust me when woman realizes the power with in she is another person after that out there i have that feeling when i became the truck woman only woman on social media in all UAE
Yeah i agree that she still looks like she has that trauma and cannot easily forgive. Sometimes when the ugly memories arise, the pain comes back haunting you. Thats why. But she gotta learn to forgive. Life is too short and hereafter is forever. I wonder if she'll let Allah punish her parents in the hereafter because of how they treated her during childhood. Allah nauzubillah. She can do better by learning how to forgive..may Allah make it easy for Salama to forgive and let go. According to a hadith, on the Day of Resurrection, a righteous person who has experienced extreme misery in the life of this world will be dipped in Jannah. Then he will be asked: ‘O son of Adam! Did you ever experience any misery? Did you ever encounter difficulty?’ He will say: “By Allah, no my Lord, I neither experienced misery nor passed through hardship” [Muslim]
Forgiving does not mean we accepted what a person had done, it just means we accepted it had happened and move on for a better peace for us.❤ Sending love to everyone who is in pain. Don't ever give up hope on goodness 😊
Here in interview you can see her true beauty. Her eyes shine when she speaks and that makes her beautiful within. You can cover all body but eyes never lie.
I pray this ramadan we all get heal from the trauma, pain we can not speak but endured since years, ameen 🤲🏻 Allah is with us the biggest best support for us Fia manillah ♥️
Salama, I did not know how to forgive for so many years. My wounds stayed opened. One day I understood that we are not all the same. And that abuse is all they knew. I understood that they were abused too and they were displaying the behaviour they were subjected to, with me. Some souls are more evolved than others. Some are more conscious than others. One day I felt deep compassion for them. I felt sorry because they didn’t know any better. What a miserable sad life.. in that moment of deep felt compassion, I knew I forgave. We are the light bearers, we broke that dark cycle.
100% on point. It takes time. Time is the most powerful variable to us human beings. With time people truly show you how they are inside. No answer is an answer. It's very sad and deeply hurtful but time will always let you know what you refuse to accept.
You never know what someone is going through. Never judge people. We need to be compassionate towards one another more than we can understand yet you find people are so harsh with one another. Compassion, understanding, and a loving heart. This podcast makes me love her even more.
I can feel you sending my hug.. I can see the pain in her eyes, many questions in her self , that’s why she said she never forgive, she’s not victim she’s a champion.. your a strong woman miss salama, ALLAH is watching you salama sooner you will receive your prayers ♥️
I never knew how vulnerable and hurtful Salama was, all we know in social media is the portrayal of a scripted comedy skit with her then husband. Salama you're a strong and an inspiring soul, I can relate your journey in self healing as well with ADHD. In terms of forgiveness, sometimes we're too numb by the trauma that we don't know how to forgive. But it will come the time when we truly forgive and release it so it won't be passed down to our generations..
This woman just helped me a lot. I relate to everything she said and I see myself in her. I pray to God I become half at peace with myself the way she is. I hope she keeps on spreading her message because it is truly changing lives!
Thank you for bringing her on your podcast, not just that she could tell her story but for people like me who relates can see a positive path. Just hearing her speak has helped so much.
letting go of our negative emotions and feelings is forgiveness but yes when we are deeply hurt or injustice is done its really very difficult to forgive people. but forgiving brings happiness in life and distancing those people helps us not get involved again in those situations. may allah ease your life.
I dont remember when is the last time i have watched such a long video where my eyes started gettting hurt but sooo much to learn esspeciallyy as a teacher... Thank you salama you taught me alot ♥️
I am listening to the podcast. People change over the years. I've been married over 40years and I can say both my husband and I are completely different people than when we married in our 20's. Whether are or not the marriage survived it's not of our business.
Exactly! Plus gone are the days where you have to put up with unhappy relationships just for the sake of showing the world you are in a marriage! I know some of the older generation who put up with abuse/ cheating partners rather than leave
As some one with major skin issues myself , I know what she’s talking about . And today I want to ask the world to be definitely more kind . The world definitely needs more kind people . And the biggest and best you could do is to stop staring at people with skin issues . Let the world be more aware of it !! Pls take a vow that you would stop staring at us . Also , if you get to interact with them , make them feel normal ( and not special ) , just like they are no different from you .
She actually has it very less which is rarely visible.... On top of that she is tall beautiful smart and famous.... In that case it really matters very less.... The way she is loved by all shows it
I love Salama! Such a strong woman! It truly pains me the amount of criticism she has endured just because you don't see the image you got 2 years ago. People live, people learn, people move on. Why would you expect her to be any different? I am so happy to see her so empowered by her own actions and choices! We need more of that!
It's like salama your telling People my story...l went through the same issues..it was ALLAH swt who got me through all my pain and made me strong...You cannot forget...but we have to let go its hard its very hard but we are STRONG ALHUMDOLLILAH
Yes!!!! I felt like I'm there talking in her!! Masha Allah! I needed this in my life, i felt the same I faced the same and I've become strong now, I'm 5 year old revert Muslim now!! I've already achieved in life! One thing is we cannot change anyone we need to take the possible good from those toxic PPL and ignore them forget them! Jazakallah khair! Yu n me are also similar then ☺️
I don’t know how much you got through these kind of trauma, but I am so related to you. I have become a doctor because of my dad. He always doubted me and humiliated me that I didn’t have any talent but I proved him wrong. It’s türe , you don’t forgive… it just becomes easier over time….
I think what she meant was, she cant make someone change their undesirable behaviour, but she can remove them from her life or find someone else that suits her
@@user-vu9es1we8y I think She said that with meaning like We cant change people 's thoughts or their mindset but We can change people like from toxic old frnd to new frnds with positive mindset
My heart goes out to you Salama. You are a very strong woman. As well as your own trials, you had to look after your children, one with special needs which requires a lot of work. May Allah swt bless u and preotect you and your family and keep us on the right path. Ameen
I feel so terribly bad and sad for Salama😔, I use to love seeing both her and her husband. Their reels and short videos were amazing. I felt so happy to see them as this wonderful couple. As a woman i understand her and what i can say is she is one brave and beautifully strong lady. I hope things workout well for her. Sending much love...
This is one of the most touching podcasts I've ever listened to. We are all so proud of you Salama for all that you've achieved despite all the discrimination and hardship you went through. May Allah continue to bless you beyond bounds.
Now i can say that the most happy people are the poor ones,because they can appreciate a simple thing in this world..simple things make them happy...every struggle in their life they can get over it
Our prophet Muhammad pbuh told us I swear about three things: 1. Whoever gives charity, his money will not go down. I swear by it 2. Whoever humbles himself, Allah will raise him. I swear by it. 3. Whoever forgives, Allah will increase his izzah. I swear by it. The prophet Muhammad (pbuh) gave Qasam. Whoever forgives, he’s not the weaker of the two. Whoever forgives is the stronger of the two. The more izzah is the one who forgives. Izzah: Dignity, respect, honor Qasam: swearing in good faith (oath)
I enjoyed every second of this podcast. So relatable, so real, so truthful and so free from the prison on trauma may Allah aid her on her life journey. Ameen ❤
Thank you Salama. I’m not Arabic and I don’t understand the language.. I came by this video by chance, you have no idea how much it spoke to my soul. Thank you for sharing Salama, may you forever be blessed.
I follow Salama more than 5 years. As a couple they made me smile even I felt depressed. But in this podcast she open her heart and soul to the whole word. That reqires a lot of strength and she alrealy has it.. Every single person has faced physical and emotional abuse, either in the family. the school, or somewhere else. Salama is inspiration. This is the right approach, to heal and biuld a new life. May Allah bless and protect her.❤
Salama is a Blessing. A true definition of generation cycle breaker, for this I applause her. Also I want to thank her for her Brand Peacefull, helped me with my Master's Degree assignment.
@@ahmedimran2157 it's not about where I am going. It's about appreciating Salama. Focus. Focus. Focus. I said Focus 7 times for your sake Thank you very much Ramadan Kareem
This episode had me crying. I could relate on so many levels. I saw a few comments from the ordinal IG posts that brought me here. And boy do people get things out of context with the little blips of this entire pod. I am so grateful for being the type of person who seeks for themselves rather than let others decide.
00:07 Dealing with public scrutiny and maintaining authenticity online 05:02 Embrace weaknesses as strengths over time 13:49 Working on self-improvement and breaking generational cycles 19:20 Importance of forgiveness and healing 28:25 Dealing with trauma and not seeking professional help. 31:27 Embracing self-control and acceptance in life 41:06 Importance of skincare and hygiene for all 44:04 Discussion about skincare products and their benefits 49:41 Discussion about preferences for foreign vs. local skincare products 52:05 Women in Arab society are more comfortable with their appearance, moving away from makeup and filters. 59:58 Discussion on vitiligo and self-acceptance 1:03:23 Gratitude for having a successor 1:10:27 Importance of self-awareness and gratitude for success 1:13:17 Early intervention can have a positive impact on children's development. 1:18:45 Salama Mohamed's empowering message of self-love and resilience
As a christian I love her. I love seeing this side of her. Went i noticed her absent i knew something wasnt right. All the best girl and I pray for your journey❤
I met a different Salama in this interview. Mashaallah, what a woman! And Wehbi's quiet empathy made it all the more impactful. May Allah cover and protect you both!
I wondered what happened between her and khaled. Unfortunately if true I feel for the kids. Both had smiles on their faces and I thought they were so happy. Social media is so fake man.
This interview was carefully orchestrated. I watched this video because I really was curious why they haven’t posted a video together. They were my favorite couple on YT and Instagram. Their videos were very entertaining. So yeah, a bit disappointed that she did not discuss the “big elephant” in the room. No mention of Khalid Alameri, the father of his beloved children. Though I understood when she said “I can’t change people, but I can change people”. And her response when the podcaster asked what she meant by that. I get it. She controlled the narrative of how this interview went. She only spoke on subjects she agreed to speak on. Either way, I applaud her for her perseverance and strength to find her place in this world, and for realizing her potential and talent - in creating a successful business. And I applaud her for being able to juggle career and her children. Best wishes to Salama!
I don't think she achieved everything alone. Neither can she just proclaim to be independent. The world has seen it. I don't see genuinity in her words 🫡
@@adilahmed45I agree. One cannot do it alone. She may have been the brain of her projects, and tasked people to carry out her vision. But I’m sure Khalid was by her side in the beginning and throughout, championing her cause. (At least that is what we saw in their videos. ) If the post on X is true that Salama and Khalid has divorced, then I am saddened for both of them, and especially for their sons.
@@Oneworld1984 they Didn't post a video together since July 2023 I know it ,that they got divorced but because they have children they didn't wanna to show that on social media to protect their sons I really love their relationship
Such a beautiful and gentle soul you are, Salama! Wish you continuous courage, patience and resilience to heal your wounds and come out even stronger than before
An inteligent women, God gifted people and we cannot deny we need their support, one year ago I went trough my Spiritual Awakening so I understand you more than perfect.
Loved the podcast. Salama was so genuine and frank, if she had the pain she also shared how to overcome it via therapy or healing from the company of her kids or being in control of her life. She raised some important points that I feel parents and teachers can take away from when dealing with children - to be sensitive and understanding that every child has their own pace. To break cultural norms for what is better. Very insightful. Very sensitively asked questions. Love from Bangladesh.
This podcast is soo captivating!! Thank you for highlighting therapy and normalising it. Salama you deserve all the love you can have, you are truly inspiring ❤
I Hope Salama Reads This Comment, I Just Wanna Say To Her That She's An Inspiration, I Followed Her On Social Media, But Never Thought What She Might Have Gone Through, She Used To Make It Seem So Easy, But Watching Her Bare A Lot Of It, I Think Differently Now I Have Nothing But Blessings For You, May You Keep Shining, And Light Up The Lives Of Others Like You Want To 💖
Initially I thought she seemed such bossy in videos but now she’s just sweet and kind and I feel bad that her relationship to which we all enjoyed is not anymore
You are a beautiful woman inside out . We all go through life traumas and I have learnt to not ruin future and present with past memory. Bless you Salama( a mother from UK)
You're right salama. You can totally heal without forgiveness. Its a very thin line between forgiveness and enabling oppression. When we are justice driven, our forgiveness Comes with accountability. We don't just forgive for the sake of it. No accountability, no forgiveness.
If we don’t forgive we are carrying a burden on our own soul… who are we to ask another human to be accountable to us? Hopefully with time we can heal and forgive, because we also have wronged others…
That's one thing i hated as a christian that we are "forced" to forgive even its hard to forgive. Its hard for me to forgive people who don't deserves forgiveness. I find peace with justice and only with justice. Forgiveness is not just a candy that can be easily be given to anyone else.
Salama, I can resonate with you 100%. It is not about forgiveness, rather it is about acceptance of reality that it is what it is and setting clear boundaries around yourself, like this is my energy circle, and nobody is allowed to barge
Its near to impossible to forgive someone who has traumatised or manipulated you in a way, i agree with salama, it's your power that you have let gone of the grudge.
Usually, I don't listen to podcasts, but when her interview appeared on this podcast, I began listening to her and watching how she shared her story about herself. I was emotionally touched and deeply felt something inside... similarities... She was honest and strong woman. Sometimes people go through a lot in this life... I deeply understand that. Personally, I remembered my childhood and the effects from the past, some memories that I can not erase. Sometimes, people who you love the most can hurt you, and you try to forgive and forget, but you can not. Maybe it's going to take time, but it's not easy... especially when you have trauma from childhood. Thank you for sharing, Salama.
WoW Salama, your talk just empowered the hearts weakened by other sorts and few relatable trauma. Thank you for giving voice to the inner strength within you and redefining it to the present day existence of that soul named Salama. A heavy weight lifted off my shoulder after listening to your words calmnly re-empowering and assuring myself, (after having self-empowered for years, working within) there is that someone who had a hard time and she stood the test of time to speak out about it. Thank The Almighty and you for speaking through this podcast 🤲🏻🙏🏻.
May Allah let us heal on the things of the past and present wounds that we had & have may we have the peace that we deserve and we may all remain strong in any difficulties in life
I love how this interview wasn´t salacious or opportunist. It didn´t exploit her privacy, nor did it give any fodder to people listening only to catch gossip. It was done with sensitivity and respect, I feel. People´s privacy is NOT for gossip and to still their curiosity. It is about real people, with real lives and consequences. We are all so much more than what is visible on the surface. People have gone, or are going through really difficult things. I hope that people, in their droves, move away from both putting themselves out there on social media, as well as stop taking an interest in influencers´ lives. Life is passing us by, some really scary things happening...yet people are spending their time on gossip, rumours and showing an unhealthy amount of interest in matters that really aren´t important for their aakhira. I´m also happy to see a slow shift in society, where more are waking up to no-filters, no makeup and no fakeness. Celebrity culture is also dwindling really fast, and perhaps more are realising their priorities as inflation has stayed since the pandemic. Truly, even the calamities Allah swt allows to happen, bring some good with them. Alhamdulillah.
Beautiful soul 💝I related when she was saying I don’t know how to forgive cos I struggle with forgiveness especially when it came to the hurt and wounds by people who were dear to me. To share my ctestemoney. One thing I learned is that the wounds in my heart, only God/jesus could heal. So i needed to bring them to him and request him everyday to heal me . Which he did, without me realizing it when, where and how. And afterward he healed my wounds, I felt like he asked me to let go of the hurt which my ego felt . I struggled with that too for a while but after some time I did cos he lifted the major burden for me and the list I could do for him was let go of my ego.
Oh man!this woman is just a darling,no infact sweetheart would a better introduction of her personality♥️.When I first saw her on Instagram a long time ago,I fell in love with her.She deserves to be loved. Salama love! May Allah SWT eases your pain and bless you in this world and the hereafter.Ameen
Indeed we shouldn’t assume anything by seeing on social media. Throughout this interview, it has clearly shown by her face, she gone through very hard times. Prayer for salama and her kids. May she gain more strength during the upcoming period.
I’m not even through this half way and I’m crying! I watch so many podcasts but I’ve never watched anything that hit me like this before. I’ve been following you for so many years salama and this is the first time I see you talking away from comedy and social media. And all I can say is I love you sooo much and you inspire me sooo much!! Sending you hugsss!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Salama, your words touched my heart. Your bravery in sharing your childhood trauma moved me deeply. Know that you're not alone, and I appreciate you. Sending love and strength your way. 💙🌟
As someone who experienced the same kind of childhood trauma and bullying that Salama did, I must say this interview touched my heart. I see a survivor ❤
I really admire and respect Salama's clarity and honesty. She tells the truth of her life whether others can accept it or not. The concept that forgiveness is the only way to heal is often forced upon deeply traumatized people, that it is somehow their fault for not 'healing'. Many times people simply cannot 'heal' due to brutality of others. Salama has every right to feel angry and unhappy about her past and to use her lifetime to work through those issues and the burden of others' expectations of her to be 'alright'. Some of us never 'heal', we simply grow into greater understanding through the years. That can take a lifetime. Bravo Salama, and thank you for speaking the truth.
Much love to her. Some thoughts: the idea that you HAVE to forgive to heal is non sensical. If the person was truly harmed, and if they can not forgive that, that is their right. And yes, they can still heal despite this. We can't force people to forgive no matter what.
Wow. It doesn't happen often anymore that an interview makes me silent and hit me right where it should. This is so powerful in it's honesty, vulnerability, not trying to act fake, open to learn and unlearn. I think towards the end she got a bit in overdrive 😅 as I have ADD I recognise it too well. I sometimes wish meds would make a difference for me but it sadly make me more anxious as I have an oversensitivity to meds. But my brain planned to say something different. Too many times people push other people into forgiveness. While most of the time the forgiveness is fake. And it basically only silences the person pain was inflicted on. She knows that very well and was brutally honest in her answer. And that's why this interview is so great. She doesn't expect herself to be perfect but puts the stress on being human. And part of being human is being ok with not being ok. Embracing the total concept of yourself. Today. Not tomorrow, cause noone is never totally healed. There is no such thing. That said I also admire the serenity of this interview. It made me feel very safe. Thank you.
May Allah heal her... Salama is not the only one, I for one had a toxic father but in order for her to fully heal is to forgive and forget ! That's the only way you can't carry so much and move forward. May Allah make it easy on her and may she find a better partner that can understand and protect Salama 🙏 ❤️
Thank you so much both of you.im a guy but i had such a similar reaction to my own parents like Salama did...as she spoke i was doing self therapy to myself ..and i got a little breakthrough as to what is the status of my relationship with my parents.Salama radiates so much gentleness..this whole forgiving or not forgiving the parents was very eye opening..there were so many parallels with my feelings.thank you so much n all the love luck n joy to the both of you.
عمري ٢٤ داخلة عل ٢٥ ومريت بجميع واغلب الأمراض النفسية والجسدية ولمن شفت الفديو هذا اكتشفت انه عندي نفس الاضطراب الحميد بالمسمى الشخصي بل نسبة لي الحمدالله أحيانآ بعض البلائاات نعمه من الله تعالى 💚
Salama made me cry when said she said she sees her children laughing and happy and she cries alone remembering the childhood she never had. I spent most of my childhood crying b/c I was an orphan child growing up in the home of firaun. I was a gifted child and adults were attracted to my intellect so this relative started abusing me. Now that I'm an adult and have long removed myself from my abuser I cry for children suffering and going through worse than I went through. I pray for innocent souls.
May Allah help and heal you Ameen 😢🤲🏻
May allah shower you with happiness, wealth and health ameeeeen. I love you for the sake of allah!❤❤❤❤
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Im sorry you had to go through this. There's hardly anyone who doesn't have any childhood trauma. Yet some go through tougher times than others. May Allah subhana wa'ta'ala heal us❤❤❤💖 ❤
For anyone who's a private person in real life would not make Vlogs and share everyday routine with others
When Salama mentioned how she wanted to meet someone who forgave, all I could think of is this woman should listen more often to Mufti Menk's lecture about forgiveness because he gives the best lecture on it. I see she still hides so much trauma and pain, and hope Allah swt eases it
Forgiveness is everything. Life is too short. You can't hold to some trauma since childhood and you are hurting yourself. And I think she is referring to her parents
Trust me when woman realizes the power with in she is another person after that out there i have that feeling when i became the truck woman only woman on social media in all UAE
I forgave, but my body still suffers, I still feel pain in my dreams, Im fighting in my dreams.
@@ernestavalenciute6279that’s hard. I’m sorry for whatever u went through in this life.
Yeah i agree that she still looks like she has that trauma and cannot easily forgive. Sometimes when the ugly memories arise, the pain comes back haunting you. Thats why. But she gotta learn to forgive. Life is too short and hereafter is forever. I wonder if she'll let Allah punish her parents in the hereafter because of how they treated her during childhood. Allah nauzubillah. She can do better by learning how to forgive..may Allah make it easy for Salama to forgive and let go.
According to a hadith, on the Day of Resurrection, a righteous person who has experienced extreme misery in the life of this world will be dipped in Jannah. Then he will be asked: ‘O son of Adam! Did you ever experience any misery? Did you ever encounter difficulty?’ He will say: “By Allah, no my Lord, I neither experienced misery nor passed through hardship” [Muslim]
Forgiving does not mean we accepted what a person had done, it just means we accepted it had happened and move on for a better peace for us.❤ Sending love to everyone who is in pain. Don't ever give up hope on goodness 😊
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Here in interview you can see her true beauty. Her eyes shine when she speaks and that makes her beautiful within. You can cover all body but eyes never lie.
"Its easy to be bad, but so difficult to be good"- Well said and SO RELATABLE! ❤👏
I pray this ramadan we all get heal from the trauma, pain we can not speak but endured since years, ameen 🤲🏻 Allah is with us the biggest best support for us Fia manillah ♥️
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Ameen.. its traumatis a lot every time i bring back the memories of my childhood it's like it's damaged. Can't even laugh with it.
@@lamuchidon7643always say hmdulilah and try to pray a lot .May Allah bless and always be with you inschallah❤
Salama, I did not know how to forgive for so many years. My wounds stayed opened. One day I understood that we are not all the same. And that abuse is all they knew. I understood that they were abused too and they were displaying the behaviour they were subjected to, with me. Some souls are more evolved than others. Some are more conscious than others. One day I felt deep compassion for them. I felt sorry because they didn’t know any better. What a miserable sad life.. in that moment of deep felt compassion, I knew I forgave. We are the light bearers, we broke that dark cycle.
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This is what happens when you reach higher levels of consciousness!
You literally spoke my mind subhanallah. Your right❤
❤❤❤ That’s beautiful and resonates with me so much! How did you come to that conclusion?!
100% on point. It takes time. Time is the most powerful variable to us human beings. With time people truly show you how they are inside. No answer is an answer. It's very sad and deeply hurtful but time will always let you know what you refuse to accept.
Mr Wehbi's eyes are so empathetic and therapeutic. Salama's eyes have so much pain. You are such a deep woman. I can relate to you so much.
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Great..you can see, feel emotions. Bless
❤. Inshallah. God. Will. Heal. Your. Would
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Yes! He’s very empathetic and understanding.. a very wise and clever mind.
I hope more people listen to this podcast and they stop bullying her.. she’s such a gentle soul.. I’m so sorry for what you have been thru salama ❤
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So much admiration and respect for her REALLY🥺
Her voice of reason hits so deep.Bless her heart ❤️🌹
I needed her voice I feel much better now wallah tanku babe
Who bullied her from the first place
Why are they bullying her?
You never know what someone is going through. Never judge people. We need to be compassionate towards one another more than we can understand yet you find people are so harsh with one another. Compassion, understanding, and a loving heart. This podcast makes me love her even more.
I just want to hug her. She just sounds like she's just been through so much and only deserves the best.
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I can feel you sending my hug.. I can see the pain in her eyes, many questions in her self , that’s why she said she never forgive, she’s not victim she’s a champion.. your a strong woman miss salama, ALLAH is watching you salama sooner you will receive your prayers ♥️
I never knew how vulnerable and hurtful Salama was, all we know in social media is the portrayal of a scripted comedy skit with her then husband. Salama you're a strong and an inspiring soul, I can relate your journey in self healing as well with ADHD. In terms of forgiveness, sometimes we're too numb by the trauma that we don't know how to forgive. But it will come the time when we truly forgive and release it so it won't be passed down to our generations..
This woman just helped me a lot. I relate to everything she said and I see myself in her. I pray to God I become half at peace with myself the way she is. I hope she keeps on spreading her message because it is truly changing lives!
never forgiving??????seriously>>>?????thats ur model aspiration?
Same in some what ….. people around they just comment and make fun… but They know it really hurt us and we don’t choose to have it it happens
All videos of them together are deleted sadly . They were so much loved and wateched as a strong bonded couple . Now Im sure nothing online is true
I did not know it was that bad..their relationship
Thank you for bringing her on your podcast, not just that she could tell her story but for people like me who relates can see a positive path. Just hearing her speak has helped so much.
letting go of our negative emotions and feelings is forgiveness but yes when we are deeply hurt or injustice is done its really very difficult to forgive people. but forgiving brings happiness in life and distancing those people helps us not get involved again in those situations. may allah ease your life.
Her voice radiates strength, wisdom, pain and courage all at the same time ❣️
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I dont remember when is the last time i have watched such a long video where my eyes started gettting hurt but sooo much to learn esspeciallyy as a teacher... Thank you salama you taught me alot ♥️
im glad she is being real on this podcast and not just playing portrait perfect, we,she all need that genuine stuff
Salama if youre reading this know that YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. BE STRONG AND MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU AND YOUR KIDS. TAKE CARE❤️
I am listening to the podcast. People change over the years. I've been married over 40years and I can say both my husband and I are completely different people than when we married in our 20's. Whether are or not the marriage survived it's not of our business.
People think it'd always be merry, we all change but what keeps us together is the commitment, the empathy and goals we had.
Exactly! Plus gone are the days where you have to put up with unhappy relationships just for the sake of showing the world you are in a marriage! I know some of the older generation who put up with abuse/ cheating partners rather than leave
@@salfra4476o staying because of the children🤦🏻♀️
How did you guys get along throughout the changes? what is the secret
@@shjr5148 Pray and live Like Allah wants so that changing will be Not something Bad.
My jaw is on the floor. She's amazing
it touched me deeply and made me cry. i hope that i can get over everything I've been through.
As some one with major skin issues myself , I know what she’s talking about . And today I want to ask the world to be definitely more kind . The world definitely needs more kind people . And the biggest and best you could do is to stop staring at people with skin issues . Let the world be more aware of it !! Pls take a vow that you would stop staring at us . Also , if you get to interact with them , make them feel normal ( and not special ) , just like they are no different from you .
She actually has it very less which is rarely visible.... On top of that she is tall beautiful smart and famous.... In that case it really matters very less.... The way she is loved by all shows it
I love Salama! Such a strong woman! It truly pains me the amount of criticism she has endured just because you don't see the image you got 2 years ago. People live, people learn, people move on. Why would you expect her to be any different? I am so happy to see her so empowered by her own actions and choices! We need more of that!
It's like salama your telling People my story...l went through the same issues..it was ALLAH swt who got me through all my pain and made me strong...You cannot forget...but we have to let go its hard its very hard but we are STRONG ALHUMDOLLILAH
Yes!!!! I felt like I'm there talking in her!! Masha Allah! I needed this in my life, i felt the same I faced the same and I've become strong now, I'm 5 year old revert Muslim now!! I've already achieved in life! One thing is we cannot change anyone we need to take the possible good from those toxic PPL and ignore them forget them! Jazakallah khair! Yu n me are also similar then ☺️
Could you pls say in short what she went through,if it's worth it I want to listen
I don’t know how much you got through these kind of trauma, but I am so related to you. I have become a doctor because of my dad. He always doubted me and humiliated me that I didn’t have any talent but I proved him wrong. It’s türe , you don’t forgive… it just becomes easier over time….
Where to go Doc!! Big Ups!!
She seems so wounded..May Allah heal her ameen
More like ungrateful
@@007kash007exactly
@@007kash007why is she ungrateful?
@@dinasun3 Look at the ni'mah she has but no, she is the worst off Muslim.
@@dinasun3 all this wealth, fame, attention, security and still crying
She’s so strong considering what she’s been through. But unfortunately she’s still not healed. May Allah Al Jabbar, mend her wounds and soul ❤
What HAS she been through?
How do you think she hasn't healed yet.... May be that's one reason why she broke up with khalid
Ameen
@Indiangirl1984 wounded soul cannot keep a relationship
@@Oneworld1984childhood trauma is unrelated to marriage😂
"I can't change people but I can change people" ... that was just BEAUTIFUL! Really spoke to me!
Wait what? That doesn’t even make any sense? You can’t change people but you can change people??! Please make it make sense
I think what she meant was, she cant make someone change their undesirable behaviour, but she can remove them from her life or find someone else that suits her
@@user-vu9es1we8y I think She said that with meaning like We cant change people 's thoughts or their mindset but We can change people like from toxic old frnd to new frnds with positive mindset
My heart goes out to you Salama. You are a very strong woman. As well as your own trials, you had to look after your children, one with special needs which requires a lot of work. May Allah swt bless u and preotect you and your family and keep us on the right path. Ameen
Amiin
I feel so terribly bad and sad for Salama😔, I use to love seeing both her and her husband. Their reels and short videos were amazing. I felt so happy to see them as this wonderful couple. As a woman i understand her and what i can say is she is one brave and beautifully strong lady. I hope things workout well for her. Sending much love...
May Allah (SW) protect her and her children!
This is one of the most touching podcasts I've ever listened to. We are all so proud of you Salama for all that you've achieved despite all the discrimination and hardship you went through. May Allah continue to bless you beyond bounds.
سلامة أحييك على الوعي النفسي والروحي لي انتي فيه.. اتمنى لك كل السعادة الموجودة في العالم
Now i can say that the most happy people are the poor ones,because they can appreciate a simple thing in this world..simple things make them happy...every struggle in their life they can get over it
Our prophet Muhammad pbuh told us I swear about three things:
1. Whoever gives charity, his money will not go down. I swear by it
2. Whoever humbles himself, Allah will raise him. I swear by it.
3. Whoever forgives, Allah will increase his izzah. I swear by it.
The prophet Muhammad (pbuh) gave Qasam. Whoever forgives, he’s not the weaker of the two. Whoever forgives is the stronger of the two. The more izzah is the one who forgives.
Izzah: Dignity, respect, honor
Qasam: swearing in good faith (oath)
bro a woman in abaya dont mean she is practising. a lot of what she says goes against the deen. however may Allah ease her sorrow ameen
❤
@@paimei26 please elaborate, what was against deen in her conversation?
@@anumilyas7955 many areas listen closely. Remove your bias from ur fav influences
@@paimei26 what is against deem? Can you please elaborate?
I enjoyed every second of this podcast. So relatable, so real, so truthful and so free from the prison on trauma may Allah aid her on her life journey. Ameen ❤
I also have vitiligo from age 5. May Allah bless her. It's really very difficult
What is vitiligo?
Google it ffs
@@toreyetheservant1437 A condition in which the pigment is lost from areas of the skin, causing whitish patches, often with no clear cause.
@@toreyetheservant1437it's the same that Michael Jackson had when he was still young. That's the reason why he bleached his skin.
You are beautiful ❤
Thank you Salama. I’m not Arabic and I don’t understand the language.. I came by this video by chance, you have no idea how much it spoke to my soul. Thank you for sharing Salama, may you forever be blessed.
Only god know how much I respect this women, I followed her since I was teenager she always inspired me a lot … I didn’t know she had a brand
This made me Salama in a different light. This has made me awakened to help myself and to take my mental health seriously
who knew that the bubbly happy person salama is, she's actually the complete opposite of what she is on social media
My love for her is off the roof. So gentle and sweet. May Allah heal every wound that’s not healed properly in her. She deserves it❤
I can’t change people but i can change people!!!! That is one of a kind statement
I follow Salama more than 5 years. As a couple they made me smile even I felt depressed. But in this podcast she open her heart and soul to the whole word. That reqires a lot of strength and she alrealy has it.. Every single person has faced physical and emotional abuse, either in the family. the school, or somewhere else. Salama is inspiration.
This is the right approach, to heal and biuld a new life. May Allah bless and protect her.❤
Salama is a Blessing. A true definition of generation cycle breaker, for this I applause her. Also I want to thank her for her Brand Peacefull, helped me with my Master's Degree assignment.
@@ahmedimran2157 it's not about where I am going. It's about appreciating Salama. Focus. Focus. Focus.
I said Focus 7 times for your sake
Thank you very much
Ramadan Kareem
This episode had me crying. I could relate on so many levels. I saw a few comments from the ordinal IG posts that brought me here. And boy do people get things out of context with the little blips of this entire pod. I am so grateful for being the type of person who seeks for themselves rather than let others decide.
What an incredible woman!!! Allahuma barik, SubhanAllah
00:07 Dealing with public scrutiny and maintaining authenticity online
05:02 Embrace weaknesses as strengths over time
13:49 Working on self-improvement and breaking generational cycles
19:20 Importance of forgiveness and healing
28:25 Dealing with trauma and not seeking professional help.
31:27 Embracing self-control and acceptance in life
41:06 Importance of skincare and hygiene for all
44:04 Discussion about skincare products and their benefits
49:41 Discussion about preferences for foreign vs. local skincare products
52:05 Women in Arab society are more comfortable with their appearance, moving away from makeup and filters.
59:58 Discussion on vitiligo and self-acceptance
1:03:23 Gratitude for having a successor
1:10:27 Importance of self-awareness and gratitude for success
1:13:17 Early intervention can have a positive impact on children's development.
1:18:45 Salama Mohamed's empowering message of self-love and resilience
Have always found Salama magnetic - making a point of watching this whole thing!
She is a gentle soul. Wish has a sister like that.
Salama looks so beautiful when she speaks in her mother's tongue. Such a strong woman.
As a christian I love her. I love seeing this side of her. Went i noticed her absent i knew something wasnt right. All the best girl and I pray for your journey❤
I met a different Salama in this interview. Mashaallah, what a woman! And Wehbi's quiet empathy made it all the more impactful. May Allah cover and protect you both!
I wondered what happened between her and khaled. Unfortunately if true I feel for the kids. Both had smiles on their faces and I thought they were so happy. Social media is so fake man.
Yeah....
Are they divorced?
What happened?
@@sehrishzaki1654same thought
@@sehrishzaki1654yes
This interview was carefully orchestrated. I watched this video because I really was curious why they haven’t posted a video together. They were my favorite couple on YT and Instagram. Their videos were very entertaining. So yeah, a bit disappointed that she did not discuss the “big elephant” in the room. No mention of Khalid Alameri, the father of his beloved children. Though I understood when she said “I can’t change people, but I can change people”. And her response when the podcaster asked what she meant by that.
I get it. She controlled the narrative of how this interview went. She only spoke on subjects she agreed to speak on.
Either way, I applaud her for her perseverance and strength to find her place in this world, and for realizing her potential and talent - in creating a successful business. And I applaud her for being able to juggle career and her children. Best wishes to Salama!
I don't think she achieved everything alone. Neither can she just proclaim to be independent. The world has seen it. I don't see genuinity in her words 🫡
@@adilahmed45I agree. One cannot do it alone. She may have been the brain of her projects, and tasked people to carry out her vision. But I’m sure Khalid was by her side in the beginning and throughout, championing her cause. (At least that is what we saw in their videos. ) If the post on X is true that Salama and Khalid has divorced, then I am saddened for both of them, and especially for their sons.
Oh my god are they divorced?? If this is true I will never believe anything on social media ever
@@Oneworld1984 they Didn't post a video together since July 2023
I know it ,that they got divorced but because they have children they didn't wanna to show that on social media to protect their sons
I really love their relationship
@@Oneworld1984why would you believe people in social media? Most people who show their private life are not real
I ❤you salama for being YOU... Keep being YOU.
It's a blessing that not everyone is blessed with . AllahuAkhbar
Such a beautiful and gentle soul you are, Salama! Wish you continuous courage, patience and resilience to heal your wounds and come out even stronger than before
An inteligent women, God gifted people and we cannot deny we need their support, one year ago I went trough my Spiritual Awakening so I understand you more than perfect.
What a gentle soul ❤ Salama I wish you ease and I am so awed with your grace ❤
Loved the podcast. Salama was so genuine and frank, if she had the pain she also shared how to overcome it via therapy or healing from the company of her kids or being in control of her life. She raised some important points that I feel parents and teachers can take away from when dealing with children - to be sensitive and understanding that every child has their own pace. To break cultural norms for what is better. Very insightful. Very sensitively asked questions. Love from Bangladesh.
This podcast is soo captivating!! Thank you for highlighting therapy and normalising it. Salama you deserve all the love you can have, you are truly inspiring ❤
I Hope Salama Reads This Comment, I Just Wanna Say To Her That She's An Inspiration, I Followed Her On Social Media, But Never Thought What She Might Have Gone Through, She Used To Make It Seem So Easy, But Watching Her Bare A Lot Of It, I Think Differently Now
I Have Nothing But Blessings For You, May You Keep Shining, And Light Up The Lives Of Others Like You Want To 💖
Initially I thought she seemed such bossy in videos but now she’s just sweet and kind and I feel bad that her relationship to which we all enjoyed is not anymore
Una don craze ooo
Could be evil eyes
You are a beautiful woman inside out . We all go through life traumas and I have learnt to not ruin future and present with past memory. Bless you Salama( a mother from UK)
You're right salama. You can totally heal without forgiveness. Its a very thin line between forgiveness and enabling oppression. When we are justice driven, our forgiveness Comes with accountability. We don't just forgive for the sake of it.
No accountability, no forgiveness.
If we don’t forgive we are carrying a burden on our own soul… who are we to ask another human to be accountable to us? Hopefully with time we can heal and forgive, because we also have wronged others…
@Vayanovic we can forgive. But the most difficult part is to forget
IT IS IMPOSSIBLE to heal without forgiveness. I wish for her peace.
That's one thing i hated as a christian that we are "forced" to forgive even its hard to forgive. Its hard for me to forgive people who don't deserves forgiveness. I find peace with justice and only with justice. Forgiveness is not just a candy that can be easily be given to anyone else.
@ofw-ako 100% right, how we forgive the wrong party that never remorseful, I forgive when i get justice.
Salama, I can resonate with you 100%. It is not about forgiveness, rather it is about acceptance of reality that it is what it is and setting clear boundaries around yourself, like this is my energy circle, and nobody is allowed to barge
She is a very special soul ❤
This lady is so honest, as we say in the UK she doesn't pack any punches. Love her!!!
So much to learn from this honesty....
Its near to impossible to forgive someone who has traumatised or manipulated you in a way, i agree with salama, it's your power that you have let gone of the grudge.
Usually, I don't listen to podcasts, but when her interview appeared on this podcast, I began listening to her and watching how she shared her story about herself. I was emotionally touched and deeply felt something inside... similarities... She was honest and strong woman. Sometimes people go through a lot in this life... I deeply understand that. Personally, I remembered my childhood and the effects from the past, some memories that I can not erase. Sometimes, people who you love the most can hurt you, and you try to forgive and forget, but you can not. Maybe it's going to take time, but it's not easy... especially when you have trauma from childhood. Thank you for sharing, Salama.
WoW Salama, your talk just empowered the hearts weakened by other sorts and few relatable trauma. Thank you for giving voice to the inner strength within you and redefining it to the present day existence of that soul named Salama. A heavy weight lifted off my shoulder after listening to your words calmnly re-empowering and assuring myself, (after having self-empowered for years, working within) there is that someone who had a hard time and she stood the test of time to speak out about it. Thank The Almighty and you for speaking through this podcast 🤲🏻🙏🏻.
May Allah let us heal on the things of the past and present wounds that we had & have
may we have the peace that we deserve
and we may all remain strong in any difficulties in life
I love how this interview wasn´t salacious or opportunist. It didn´t exploit her privacy, nor did it give any fodder to people listening only to catch gossip. It was done with sensitivity and respect, I feel. People´s privacy is NOT for gossip and to still their curiosity. It is about real people, with real lives and consequences. We are all so much more than what is visible on the surface. People have gone, or are going through really difficult things. I hope that people, in their droves, move away from both putting themselves out there on social media, as well as stop taking an interest in influencers´ lives. Life is passing us by, some really scary things happening...yet people are spending their time on gossip, rumours and showing an unhealthy amount of interest in matters that really aren´t important for their aakhira. I´m also happy to see a slow shift in society, where more are waking up to no-filters, no makeup and no fakeness. Celebrity culture is also dwindling really fast, and perhaps more are realising their priorities as inflation has stayed since the pandemic. Truly, even the calamities Allah swt allows to happen, bring some good with them. Alhamdulillah.
The 1st time i saw her in their vlogs years ago, i already know that this lady is very strong,smart and DEEP. This video proves that im right.
Beautiful soul 💝I related when she was saying I don’t know how to forgive cos I struggle with forgiveness especially when it came to the hurt and wounds by people who were dear to me.
To share my ctestemoney. One thing I learned is that the wounds in my heart, only God/jesus could heal. So i needed to bring them to him and request him everyday to heal me . Which he did, without me realizing it when, where and how. And afterward he healed my wounds, I felt like he asked me to let go of the hurt which my ego felt . I struggled with that too for a while but after some time I did cos he lifted the major burden for me and the list I could do for him was let go of my ego.
Who asked about you?
Oh man!this woman is just a darling,no infact sweetheart would a better introduction of her personality♥️.When I first saw her on Instagram a long time ago,I fell in love with her.She deserves to be loved.
Salama love! May Allah SWT eases your pain and bless you in this world and the hereafter.Ameen
This is the face of a strong person! So reliving that she finally won life!
Wow how she speaks about ADHD, I have ADHD and struggling at 40yrs old, I feel she telling my story, being bullied, being abused, took advantage
Think positive and full support. Strength and courage. Xx
She can be a motivational speaker for sure!
Indeed we shouldn’t assume anything by seeing on social media. Throughout this interview, it has clearly shown by her face, she gone through very hard times. Prayer for salama and her kids. May she gain more strength during the upcoming period.
I’m not even through this half way and I’m crying! I watch so many podcasts but I’ve never watched anything that hit me like this before. I’ve been following you for so many years salama and this is the first time I see you talking away from comedy and social media. And all I can say is I love you sooo much and you inspire me sooo much!! Sending you hugsss!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
She's just hurt. Divorce isn't sunshine. It breaks good people and you need time to heal.
You are an amazing woman and I respect your struggle and journey to healing so much. Your honesty is touching. Love you and praying for your family.
I support salama. I had many peoples bullies my skin tone with vitiligo
Listening to you has been therapy to me and my traumas . More power to you ❤
First time I know this lady.. But ummm I watched over and over.. It resonate so much. Bravo Salama
Salama, your words touched my heart. Your bravery in sharing your childhood trauma moved me deeply. Know that you're not alone, and I appreciate you. Sending love and strength your way. 💙🌟
❤ شكراً على المشاهدة
We really appreciate your love for the episode and the time you took to watch it. Thank you! ❤
As someone who experienced the same kind of childhood trauma and bullying that Salama did, I must say this interview touched my heart. I see a survivor ❤
I really admire and respect Salama's clarity and honesty. She tells the truth of her life whether others can accept it or not. The concept that forgiveness is the only way to heal is often forced upon deeply traumatized people, that it is somehow their fault for not 'healing'. Many times people simply cannot 'heal' due to brutality of others. Salama has every right to feel angry and unhappy about her past and to use her lifetime to work through those issues and the burden of others' expectations of her to be 'alright'. Some of us never 'heal', we simply grow into greater understanding through the years. That can take a lifetime. Bravo Salama, and thank you for speaking the truth.
Much love to her. Some thoughts: the idea that you HAVE to forgive to heal is non sensical. If the person was truly harmed, and if they can not forgive that, that is their right. And yes, they can still heal despite this. We can't force people to forgive no matter what.
Wow. It doesn't happen often anymore that an interview makes me silent and hit me right where it should.
This is so powerful in it's honesty, vulnerability, not trying to act fake, open to learn and unlearn.
I think towards the end she got a bit in overdrive 😅 as I have ADD I recognise it too well.
I sometimes wish meds would make a difference for me but it sadly make me more anxious as I have an oversensitivity to meds.
But my brain planned to say something different.
Too many times people push other people into forgiveness. While most of the time the forgiveness is fake. And it basically only silences the person pain was inflicted on.
She knows that very well and was brutally honest in her answer.
And that's why this interview is so great.
She doesn't expect herself to be perfect but puts the stress on being human. And part of being human is being ok with not being ok. Embracing the total concept of yourself.
Today. Not tomorrow, cause noone is never totally healed.
There is no such thing.
That said I also admire the serenity of this interview.
It made me feel very safe.
Thank you.
We really appreciate your love for the episode and the time you took to watch it. Thank you! ❤
One of the most profound conversations I have heard in a long time
Literally, I enjoyed every second of this episode. Thank you so much! You’re amazing and a superwoman too!
May Allah heal her... Salama is not the only one, I for one had a toxic father but in order for her to fully heal is to forgive and forget ! That's the only way you can't carry so much and move forward. May Allah make it easy on her and may she find a better partner that can understand and protect Salama 🙏 ❤️
Thank you so much both of you.im a guy but i had such a similar reaction to my own parents like Salama did...as she spoke i was doing self therapy to myself ..and i got a little breakthrough as to what is the status of my relationship with my parents.Salama radiates so much gentleness..this whole forgiving or not forgiving the parents was very eye opening..there were so many parallels with my feelings.thank you so much n all the love luck n joy to the both of you.
Thank you Salama for sharing your experience and inspiring people with positivity ✨❤️
Salama Mohamed is beautiful strong grounded and has climbed herself out of trauma..... Respect.
I don't usually watch this podcast but this lady Salama is an authentic truly strong and resilient lady.
What a fantastic beacon of light.
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I can relate to her story, differently though. She is a pillar of inspiration and gives me hope ❤
Salama you are amazing!🙌
I grew up having people I didnt want to be like and seeing situations I'd never want to be in. My childhood is so damaged, I feel her pain 😢💔
عمري ٢٤ داخلة عل ٢٥ ومريت بجميع واغلب الأمراض النفسية والجسدية ولمن شفت الفديو هذا اكتشفت انه عندي نفس الاضطراب الحميد بالمسمى الشخصي بل نسبة لي الحمدالله أحيانآ بعض البلائاات نعمه من الله تعالى 💚
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