How to Make Him Scared of Losing You (Psychology Backed)

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  • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
    @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 8 місяців тому +148

    Nah..if they don't value you or care about you, they are not going to fear losing you. It's just that simple sadly.

    • @DeshaunDamon
      @DeshaunDamon 8 місяців тому +18

      Yes and there is human nature. People just don't respect weakness-even when they love you.

    • @eveheart2876
      @eveheart2876 8 місяців тому +6

      Preach 😂. If they don’t care. They will never care. I had dealt with nonchalant guy 🤣 never again. He showed interest a bit.started acting funny

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 8 місяців тому

      Preach‼️💯🙌🏽🔥

    • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
      @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@DeshaunDamon People can be weak and strong at different points in their lives (sick, just given birth, etc.) I think we are here to be tested, and that includes in the area of love. Unconditional love is hard though. People love their own children more than they love other people's children, THAT's human nature I think. .... But yeah, we are all selfish beings at default because it is very important for our survival.
      ...Sometimes, when you give of your limited resources, people don't like doing that and I think it's part of what's going on as to why people are they way they are, especially these days. Not to mention alot of people are cocky and arrogant.. their EGO the size of the Grand Canyon a lot of the times..

    • @itstatystoopid1538
      @itstatystoopid1538 7 місяців тому +1

      I was going to comment something to this effect cause I have subconsciously done everything this man has talked about in my one year situationship and sure enough he gives zero f*ucks. Clearly he's the wrong target. The right person will just fall in line without my manipulations or tactics.

  • @mimekodesigngroup853
    @mimekodesigngroup853 4 місяці тому +3

    Love the setting for “anything goes” . Fear is very limiting it’s ” this or that or else.”

  • @suzyj8708
    @suzyj8708 8 місяців тому +39

    Also there’s no fear of losing someone if you lost them before but got them back cause they know if they did lose you then they can easily get you back again… that becomes toxic

    • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
      @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 7 місяців тому +2

      No that's dumb and childish thinking. Not everyone goes back to broken relationships. Some people have self-respect.

  • @Katarina1477
    @Katarina1477 8 місяців тому +22

    I wish I had known this a long time ago. I recently had to cut off someone I truly loved and respected because he was no longer choosing me and I believe, didn’t fear to lose me. Walking away has really taught me about the power I possess and also, my value and how much I truly bring to the table. Thanks for this advice Alex 🙏🏼🔥

    • @johnsmith1034
      @johnsmith1034 8 місяців тому

      Maybe there was a reason to why he didn’t fear you? Take some accountability

  • @Choseforthepurpose
    @Choseforthepurpose 4 місяці тому +3

    Honestly it takes a very strong intelligent person to be able to use he’s strategies I’m glad I’ve grown and healed to be able to understand how much these tack ticks actually work it’s all human psychologic.

  • @humble166
    @humble166 8 місяців тому +13

    You taught me well
    I do all this naturally now

  • @aprilmichelle6990
    @aprilmichelle6990 8 місяців тому +20

    I clicked on this fast because I know this is gonna be good. All his strategies are on point!!! Thanks for all your wisdom because you have no idea how much you have helped me in ALL my relationships! ❤❤❤

  • @alyshamorris6275
    @alyshamorris6275 8 місяців тому +30

    When you’re loved and feared = Respect

  • @nightowly8845
    @nightowly8845 6 місяців тому +3

    Your advice is so valuable across the board. Extremely insightful

  • @EagleChasingGwen
    @EagleChasingGwen 8 місяців тому +65

    "You don't demand respect, you command respect."
    ~my Grandmother ❤
    I'm too nice though..😒
    Had to play the darkness card, recently. ☠️

  • @brendavillanueva1447
    @brendavillanueva1447 8 місяців тому +5

    Alex you are so smart , your knowledge has helped so many Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou , you have saved us. You saved me

  • @everythinglynn
    @everythinglynn 8 місяців тому +41

    Am I trippin? The messier this mans hair gets the cuter he becomes 😅

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 8 місяців тому +1

      You aren’t lying 💯😍🔥

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  8 місяців тому +15

      Finally, someone appreciates it 🫵🏾👌🏾🙏🏾

    • @everythinglynn
      @everythinglynn 8 місяців тому

      @@MindfulAttraction2.0 yeah it’s a vibe. The hair juxtaposed with the clean “I’m on vacation, can’t talk rn” blouse and lil accessory. This look suits you. And as always video hit the nail on the head! Thx for the lessons🙌🏾

    • @Prettygirlzliver2
      @Prettygirlzliver2 8 місяців тому +1

      Your hair is so beautiful ❤

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 8 місяців тому

      He's handsome & it's his confidence that does it. I hope and pray he completely consecrates his life to the Lord Jesus. I pray he rethinks this new age deception because it's very dangerous. Peligroso.

  • @cookiethomas8069
    @cookiethomas8069 8 місяців тому +27

    You cannot make a person like you, miss you, care about you etc.. Either they like you or they don't. Who wants to make someone anyway? There's nothing like a mutual genuine love..

    • @Summer25080
      @Summer25080 3 місяці тому

      No, but you can make somebody step up and act on what they actually feel.

    • @cookiethomas8069
      @cookiethomas8069 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@Summer25080 If someone really likes you, the step up is automatic...If someone doesn't like you or lost interest that will show as well.. At the end of the day, you can't make someone act on what they don't feel

  • @makeishainniss2440
    @makeishainniss2440 8 місяців тому +28

    These days I am enjoying showing my shadow side a little too much🖤👤

  • @FlowerlyF.
    @FlowerlyF. 8 місяців тому +4

    such valuable lesson! please more on inflicting pain in relationships :)

  • @Callie0818
    @Callie0818 8 місяців тому +14

    This works too well, i accidentally did this and created a monster, a stalker

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 8 місяців тому +1

      The Lord cover and protect you. Amen.

    • @GodessQueenTila
      @GodessQueenTila 8 місяців тому +1

      ​​@danilaroche1156 THE LORD DOES NOT COVER OTHERS WHO USE MANIPULATION TACTICS ON PEOPLE. THIS IS PRECISELY WHY GOD ALLOWED THAT MAN TO TURN INTO A MONSTER BECAUSE SHE REAPS WHAT SHE SOWED. IT IS 1 THING TO BE THIS WAY NATURALLY, BUT IT IS ANOTHER TO BE DECEPTIVE AND USING WITCHCRAFT ON OTHERS FOR SELF GAIN. THIS GOES AGAINST WHAT GOD TEACHES. "LOVE IS NOT SELF SEEKING"

  • @Pandababyy247
    @Pandababyy247 8 місяців тому +2

    You are always on time! This is exactly what I needed to hear 🙏🏼✨💕💫

  • @autumnjanee
    @autumnjanee 2 місяці тому

    5:01 yep 😏 I tell them don’t get comfortable with me!

  • @anastasijabeograd3903
    @anastasijabeograd3903 8 місяців тому +2

    I love this men, he tells only the truth.

  • @paulwatson9799
    @paulwatson9799 6 місяців тому +1

    It's all about not being selfish

  • @panthers4440
    @panthers4440 8 місяців тому +1

    This is really helpful thankyou 🙏

  • @Peace-lt8bc
    @Peace-lt8bc 8 місяців тому +8

    Like how the Grinch treated his poor dog Max 😭

  • @katerina3902
    @katerina3902 8 місяців тому +15

    Father Alec I’m drunk in the back of an Uber in south Florida, why are you posting this late???

  • @lishtheearthangel
    @lishtheearthangel 8 місяців тому +4

    I like your hair , it symbolizes so much about you and your content 🤍

  • @Jan-f8w
    @Jan-f8w 8 місяців тому +10

    ❤"...too many of you guys are POODLES.."❤🤣🤣🤣

  • @suzyj8708
    @suzyj8708 8 місяців тому +9

    Can you make a video on why a man loses respect and doesn’t value you if you take them back 5 times and why those back and forth relationships never work out long term and are the biggest waste of time. Thank you

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  8 місяців тому +16

      That title is way too specific lol

    • @mommymik3
      @mommymik3 8 місяців тому +4

      The answer is in your question...u keep going back so he doesn't have to respect you.

    • @suzyj8708
      @suzyj8708 8 місяців тому

      @@mommymik3 exactly 💯

    • @Tatiana-oz2fn
      @Tatiana-oz2fn 8 місяців тому +1

      @@suzyj8708so what’s the point In Asking…

  • @trendafile6356
    @trendafile6356 8 місяців тому +8

    What about when your boyfriend follows other women ONLINE. Alex u never spoke about this. AM I OVEREACTING????

    • @msgs1008
      @msgs1008 5 місяців тому

      Did he have prior history w/them ? Then yes you better watch out

  • @sl7shed
    @sl7shed 8 місяців тому +2

    Needed this 💯💯💯

  • @Petty_princess-i9x
    @Petty_princess-i9x 8 місяців тому +4

    I have to do this every few weeks or else he gets busy

  • @xw6475
    @xw6475 8 місяців тому

    Excellent as always 🥳💯 Buen video father Alex!! Por videos como estos 💪💪

  • @DollEyezChy
    @DollEyezChy 8 місяців тому +2

    Nice love your videos

  • @carlyc9891
    @carlyc9891 8 місяців тому +2

    Do you have any videos on what to do when a guy who likes you then changed up and friend zoned you and what to do

  • @Bewtsie
    @Bewtsie 8 місяців тому +1

    All of this will happen naturally if you have true compatibility with the person, whether you met online or not.

  • @CrystalCashChronicles
    @CrystalCashChronicles 8 місяців тому

    What happens if we both keep pulling away a tad and than showing up, checking back in it’s starting to get annoying 😂 although I do it to!

  • @gcwalisile932
    @gcwalisile932 7 місяців тому +1

    Makes sense...even God lets us go through some pain once in a while 😅

  • @sbeth82sc
    @sbeth82sc 3 місяці тому

    Loss Aversion is strong AF

  • @Loranholmes123
    @Loranholmes123 8 місяців тому +4

    Or they decide end it now the pain will be worse later. Cause they’re logical

  • @vinaazraletiyani8363
    @vinaazraletiyani8363 5 місяців тому

    Hey, where did u make this video? The wall decoration behind you looks like it’s carved from Indonesia, because I’m from Indonesia

  • @emyyoemy
    @emyyoemy 8 місяців тому +2

    Is this applicable too for guys with psychological issues? Like.. fear of abandonment?

  • @ceyciemateo9411
    @ceyciemateo9411 8 місяців тому

    I create fear, then it wear off

  • @maricrisonil7324
    @maricrisonil7324 8 місяців тому +6

    WHAT MEN THINKS DURING NO CONTACT ?

    • @Esspie_huez
      @Esspie_huez 8 місяців тому +2

      Depends on if they purposely pushed you away or not

  • @prudeyberend2893
    @prudeyberend2893 8 місяців тому

    Facts !!!

  • @lanasaleh8715
    @lanasaleh8715 8 місяців тому +1

    Iam arabian and i like u so much!

  • @budeutsch
    @budeutsch 8 місяців тому +2

    it's been 5 days 😒

  • @JuicyyPuff
    @JuicyyPuff 7 місяців тому

    😂😂 “u don’t have to put in the knife and twist it mfer” 😂😂

  • @Shadavik
    @Shadavik 8 місяців тому +4

    You're so funny to me 😂

  • @Xoxolexilexx
    @Xoxolexilexx 8 місяців тому

    How about for those on long term relationships

    • @prudeyberend2893
      @prudeyberend2893 8 місяців тому

      Pull back your energy . Focus on yourself. Stop doing too much.

  • @shallnoTfear
    @shallnoTfear 8 місяців тому

    How does this align with being in one's feminine energy?

  • @aerrrona
    @aerrrona 3 місяці тому

    OMG U REMIND ME OF BRUNO MARS LMAO

  • @brittneyharvey2917
    @brittneyharvey2917 8 місяців тому

    Father Alex can you do a video on men who say they don’t care for “labels”?

    • @dianapolinice
      @dianapolinice 8 місяців тому +3

      I actually dated a guy like that, when a guy says that they are lying. They don’t want the labels with you.

    • @BinaBina221
      @BinaBina221 8 місяців тому +1

      What she ☝🏽 said 100%

  • @smokeyboobraptattat
    @smokeyboobraptattat 5 місяців тому

    Was that baby powder you threw on your face 🤣

  • @helenpiciacchi2075
    @helenpiciacchi2075 8 місяців тому

    Dam right

  • @reneecherrie
    @reneecherrie 8 місяців тому

    Dayum🔥

  • @abigail8997
    @abigail8997 8 місяців тому +3

    How about the fear of you closing your channel? 😂

  • @Rockyroadds
    @Rockyroadds 8 місяців тому

    And I OOP. 😂 MELISSA GOT THE CHANCLA.

  • @jessicat6561
    @jessicat6561 8 місяців тому

    His analogy 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @misscleo_
    @misscleo_ 8 місяців тому

    I would love for you to talk about why men prefer virgins (or women with low body counts) which can make you more attractive to a man.

    • @misscleo_
      @misscleo_ 8 місяців тому +2

      @@karenalvarado12693 I'm a virgin saving for marriage :) Try not to make false assumptions.

    • @karenalvarado12693
      @karenalvarado12693 8 місяців тому +2

      Ok u need a ego boost then

    • @karenalvarado12693
      @karenalvarado12693 8 місяців тому +1

      Only little boys asking u for a body counts so good luck

    • @misscleo_
      @misscleo_ 8 місяців тому

      @@karenalvarado12693 Bye troll.

    • @thereposestation5604
      @thereposestation5604 7 місяців тому

      @@karenalvarado12693that’s so stupid. They’ll find out when you do it lol. So silly to lie

  • @anniebootboot
    @anniebootboot 8 місяців тому

    Real

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 8 місяців тому

    😂 Fathet Alex acting is funny

  • @Badblondeone
    @Badblondeone 8 місяців тому +4

    No this does NOT WORK!!! So you’re saying they’re being an ass so you pull back and give them a fear of losing you…? Correct? Okay so this will last 1-4 weeks tops and we’re reliving this whole scenario. If this is how it is move TF on and don’t waste your time playing these little games.

  • @tammylee3681
    @tammylee3681 8 місяців тому +1

    Father Alex I love your videos but PLEASE try not to smack your lips so much. It’s ANNOYING AF. Have a good day