A man who can choke a dog like that--for BARKING...I mean, REALLY? How long does she think it will be before he decides that SHE is making too much noise? And then who will be there to protect HER?
YES!! And who’s to say he wont do the same to any future kids they have if he deems their too much of an annoyance like dog barking? Leave him, immediately. Before he hurts you too.
The 1 story I can understand both POV’s but it does sound like a tough spot to be in, but at the same time, unless they’re really naive or willfully blind, the wives/gf probably have an inkling already. For the 2 story, that’s terrifying. I would say break up with him and change your locks. Someone who can treat animals cruelly is not someone a sane person should want to be with.
Are we ignoring the fact that even OP said one of the cheaters was a close friend who they wouldn't even believe would do something like that. Also why does the husbands capability to manipulate and hide cheating on his wife become an insult on them for not seeing it. This is such a stupid take. Whether or not they have a suspicion is completely different to having certainty and proof. Also why would the fact the wives COULD have a suspicion change whether or not they should be told. And finally, if they are just "naive" and so haven't noticed why in the world would you want to let someone continue to take advantage of them??
2nd atory: FR!! Break up immediately. If they mistreat your animals in anger, they will do it again the next time it becomes too much. Even if they are nice to them the rest of the time, if they do it once its a MAJOR red flag 🚩 🚩🚩🚩 plus if they mistreat your animals when they’re away who’s to say they wont mistreat your future kids? Thats how my mom and dad ended up. He promised to change everytime but he any time his temper got out of hand he would scream and shout worthy of the marines and would throw our dogs around by the scruff, shoving their faces into whatever they did wrong literally (eat out of pizza boxes, garbage bags, etc.) His anger issues didn’t stop wt the pets either. He would force us to squat for hours until someone fessed up to whatever crime he thought we committed, and he would lock us in our rooms with him so he could scream at us and spank us. All these things could have been avoided if mom left him early on when he would joke about pepper spraying my half-brother, or when she came home to my sister crying and he didnt say what happened but mom knew he hurt her. DO NOT DATE PEOPLE WHO ABUSE ANIMALS!!!
I am 100% certain that YOUR POV would change in a heartbeat if it was Your GF or Wife messing around; And You who had complete faith in your relationship, and her. Therefore, You wouldn't suspect a thing. I think this happens mostly to men tho, because they don't have what is referred to as women's intuition, and/or because most unfaithful women (or women in general, so the story goes), are capable of being far more deceptive than the average cheating guy.
The problem isn't one friend, it's the whole community is cheating. It would destabilize a lot of things at once and it's not the women's responsibility for causing harm but she will be blamed.
If they woke up to the dog crying, they would have woken up to the dog barking. The military husband probably appreciates that last memory with his wife so going to the graduation was the correct move.
@@kain7219 nobody would have known in the moments before it happened what was coming. theres never a 'well you couldve done this and you shouldve done this.' no. nobody is a psychic, we cant blame ourselves for information we didn't have at the time. cant stand that stupid phrase 'if you didnt do this, then this wouldnt have happened'
For sure. She could have stayed home and been run over by a DD while walking down the sidewalk near her home too and they never had a chance to see each other again.
@@itscarolinedammit754 you shouldnt blame yourself. Doesnt change the fact that they died though.. Which makes me say no it wasnt the correct choice. Even with good intentions it caused someones demise and thats never the correct choice.
The dog story is super scary. We don't know if he meant to torture the dog, or if he was going to end the dog then go back to sleep and pretend to be shocked in the morning.
That guy choking my dog would do met his untimely demise. Or went to jail. How does she know if he hasn't abused the dog if she wasn't around? She should have called the police. This man is dangerous. ANYONE who would intentionally hurt an animal is. Besides what if it was a crying baby? This is disturbing behavior.
Story 1: I would've said OP should tell the wives and the GF, but that would mean her husband's friends are going to think he snitched. And that could cost OP's marriage too. I can see the husband's POV too and that they're both in a tough spot. But even then, why would you want to be friends with cheaters? Jfc. OP's husband needs to ditch the group and contact their wives. Otherwise, he's just as bad as them for enabling them. Hopefully cops won't get involved. Story 2: Break up with the boyfriend and file a police report holy shit... I love dogs but even if I didn't, I wouldn't hurt them. Her boyfriend has anger issues and needs to seek help man. And honey if you think he's acting out of character then you just saw his true character right there. Break off the relationship for you and your dog's sake please. Story 3: I think this is one of the saddest stories I've read on this channel. At first i thought her husband killed her or cheated on her, but this is way worse. I feel so sorry for OP for blaming herself for her ex coworkers death. It's not her fault, it was the guy who chose to drink and drive... seriously, man, f**k drunk drivers. And I agree with Kyutie, she needs to seek help, otherwise blaming yourself for your co-worker's death is going to start a path of self-destruction.
What do they mean they don’t know what to think, whatever the fuck is wrong with that man is none of your concern anymore, break up with him. He was so easily able to hurt your dog for what? Barking? Which for all you know he could’ve been lying about, if he can resort to violence so quickly for something so small who knows what he’s do to your dog or you if you actually did something to piss him off
For the first one it's kinda tough because as a woman you would want to be told if your partner is cheating on you and do the same for your fellow woman. I think it's stupid that that kind of decency is considered against the bro code. Idk. If I was in op's position I would consider how much it would jeopardize my marriage if I did tell the wives. if something like telling the truth of the other husbands' affairs would ruin my marriage maybe it was for the best. It demonstrate some underlying issues in rhe relationship that need to be unpacked. And for her husband does he really want these kind of people as friends/ would he see them often? Like I would lose so much respect for these people and wouldn't care for being in my life. I wouldn't want to have to fake pleasantries with these people. Also his comment on that the wives have to have some sort of inkling.. there are people who can be that naive, have low self esteem or blinded by love (that how some land themselves and/or stay in toxic relationships). Telling them could be helping these wives out of a tough or unhealthy relationship ( or at most not waste their time anymore with these men.)
first story: yeahh seriously why would you want to be friends with people like that?? if I had a partner or a friend who defended their friends cheating and tried to hide it in order to keep their friendship I'd be like "bye bitch!" even if you don't fully support their cheating you're still helping to cover it up! you're still considering those people your friends! why do you want to be friends with people who so easily cheat on their partners, huh? why do you consider them to be people worth even a second of your time? second story: the way I gasped when I heard the first sentence. holy shit. get that man out of your life. RUN. absolutely horrifying. third story: god, that is absolutely tragic. and what an awful position for op to be in, obviously they're not at fault but knowing that things could have been different if they hadn't encouraged her has got to be unbearably difficult to deal with. like how do you not feel responsible in some sense? how do you not feel guilt? I hope op can get the help they need to ease that guilt and to heal. but man... stories like this are so upsetting too because it reminds you how utterly cruel and unfair life can be... such a young person with so much of her life ahead of her and so many dreams, and it's all over in an instant. no reset button. no second try. it's just over. that's so incredibly sad to think about.
Something similar to 1st story.. One of my oldest and closest friends cheated on his gf.. I did not even know his gf well but I felt so disgusted by that and could not look past it.. Barely after 2 weeks of him telling me about the affair, we have no contact now.. How do people stay friends with those who cheat
Yeah, I was thinking that, too, it would be really difficult for a non-native speaker to know how it's pronounced. I mean, she is saying it like it looks!
First story: cheaters are septic people. I bet that the wives suspect but stay married for economic reasons. If either of them tells, they might be blamed for the resulting divorces. Second story: she needs to leave and leave now. People who abuse animals often move on to people. She needs to protect herself. Third story: she needs to stop blaming herself. The drunk guy was ar fault, not her.
Story 1 Either she needs to catfish them all to get them to try to meet up then show the wives the conversations or she can get a friend to do it. That way she isn't giving up her husband telling her about what they did on the trip and the wives and long-term girlfriend can still be informed that they are cheating jerks. Story 2 The dude is either going to the hospital or the police station because I'm either going to strangle him like he was strangling my dog or I'm going to turn him into the police as an abuser. I'm pressing charges and he is not guilting me for get back into my life. Story 3 That's sad but not the OP's fault, she said H wanted to go anyway. They just shouldn't have stopped for the pulled-over car. Always call the police and let them know a car needs assistance, especially when it is that late at night. You don't know if people actually need assistance or if they are pretending to try to rob you. Sadly, both type of people exist in this world. Unless you physically witness them get in an accident just call the police. And as you said perfectly it was the drunk drivers fault not hers.
First story if I was the wife I'd send the wives/ gf's anonymous messages saying "Your boyfriend / husband is cheating on you" not mentioning the holiday as the husband thought it wasn't the first time then when they confront the husband he might think its from some previous girl he cheated with! Also don't do them on the same day or in the same way so if they talk to each other they don't realise. Do it over a few months and some texts, emails, letters, so they're as different as possible! PS Look up how to say Arkansas, it's hard to write but you were quite far off!
i kind of understand the husband in the first story for asking her not to tell, obviously we don't have the info of what his friends are like but i can't imagine they would be thanking him for telling their secrets right? like i can't imagine it would go well for him, this might be coming from a place of fear of what they would do
I didnt really understood the first story. But for the second one its obvious. I would suggest the girl to divorce the boyfriend and call the police on him. For the third Story its also obvious. This accident was absolutely not "A" s fault. *I wrote she should call the police, because here in Germany animal abuse is a crime and you can be send to jail for this act. 👍
As I know you aren't from the USA, I'll clue you in...the English language/American English is odd. You have the pronunciation of Kansas correct but when the Ar is in fron of it, it become Ark-an-saw. From one of many native American languages.
"This was so out of character for him" No, girl, that IS his real character! 'Today it was the dog, tommorow it's could be you or your kids! Dump his a** ASAP!!! If that was my partner, let's just say he wouldn't be getting open casket funeral 🤬
The fact that the one with the dog is asking what to do about her *boyfriend* shows she has an IQ level in the negative category. You have to treat your furbaby like your actual baby and you better believe it if someone tried to even so much as think about harming my babies or my furbaby, I would make them choke on my boots when I kick them so hard up the butt 😤 He sounds like a psycho! That’s usually what psychos do first, harm animals 🤮
First story: I would advise her to NOT to get involved and instead try to influence her husband to make new friends as their morality doesn’t match yours. I’ve been there a couple of times and believe me, NOBODY appreciates you for it afterwards. Quite possibly, YOU will be the one who’s hated, more than the cheaters, and your husband will end up resenting you for not keeping your promise. This betrayal of trust will definitely have consequences in the marriage. And it is indeed possible that the wives know, because we women ALWAYS feel it. Breaking up marriages is a huge responsibility, yes it’s the cheater who’s at fault but you don’t know what’s going on in their marriage. Plus think of their kids.
Re: the story about the dog: If it were me, he (bf) would have been lucky if I didn’t hurt him badly for doing that to my dog. Then again, I probably would have ended up in jail for that, but I’d probably think it was worth it. I hope she took her dog to the vet to make sure there were no internal damages to his throat, or anywhere else, as the bf may have punched the dog in other places before she woke up. And also call the police and SPCA to press charges. And I hope she wouldn’t even consider taking him back. He’s a loose and very dangerous cannon, and she’d never know ahead of time if he would do it again, even to her. That red flag is on fire!
First story - send an anonymous printed letter to all the wives exposing their husbands In the letter use words, phrases etc that you usually don't use (eg- use British slangs if you're not British), make spelling mistakes etc Send a letter to yourself as well so that no one doubts you 😂😂
The wife has to tell them. If any of the husbands caught an STI/STD, then they can spread it to the other wives if they aren't informed. It's not just trust that's on the line, the womens' health are also at risk if they are kept in the dark.
I choke my brother's dog playfully, I don't even touch his neck, I just hover my hand over or sometimes just gently hold his neck, it's how he plays, we likes escaping things. I would never in my life come into contact with someone who will openly hurt a dog that way. Only with a 20ft long knife will I touch that person
In the very first story, I just don't understand those men who are happily married with amazing wives and kids, but yet they still cheat on their significant other multiple times. If you want to sleep with other women so badly, then they should just be single. It is definitely not her place to tell any of that especially since she wasn't on the trip and didn't see it happen. If the wife told all of the other wives what was going on, then her husband would be completely blackballed and excluded from attending any more major events and trips. Plus all of the guys would make his life a living nightmare. The only thing that should matter to her is her husband would never do it. In the second story, she should've just started a**acking him right then and there, scratching him in the e*es, jumped on his back and proceeded to ch*ke him out, and just for the h*ll of it she could've k*cked him in the b*lls too. In the third story, that was very sweet that she cared about H like that and she only wanted the best for her. What happened to H was completely out of her control, it was a freak accident and a very sad one at that. Rest in peace H. Much love my dear sweet friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!
Ellen, IIRC, you mentioned in a past video for your viewers to let you know if you mispronounce words? I wanted to point out that Arkansas is pronounced as "Are-Can-Saw." That being said, the first story is wild. If it were me, I'd want to know that my partner was cheating. I can understand OP's desire to tell the wives what their husbands did. As for the husband, I can understand wanting to be loyal to your friends. But come on, now. They cheated. That's one of the worst things a person can do in a relationship. Story two: leave his ass. Call whoever you need to to report him for animal abuse Then cut all contact with him. And keep your guard up. He is unhinged. Story three: heartbreaking. It's not OP's fault at all. It's the fault of the drunk driver
Their wives will find out sooner or later & I personally like dogs, but if I didn't I wouldn't choke them to death. Ellen's right. She does need to break up with him. Edit You pronounced Arkansas wrong. It's not pronounced R Kansas. It's pronounced R Can Saw.
The first one? Not my circus, not my monkeys. The second one? Bye ass hat! Last one? It's pronounced Arkansaw. Not being an ass about it. Just thought you'd like to know 🤷♀️ Keep up the great content. I enjoy watching your videos ❤
That very first one: Mind your business and no one gets hurt. Well, maybe. Some of the wives probably know, if not they suspect and as long as they don't know for sure, they can live their lives. Not every woman wants PROOF of their man cheating. It's not the husband's job to tell the wives or even say anything to the male coworkers. That's how they operate and the best thing for him to do is separate himself from them. I may be a woman but this is one reason why I hardly ever hung out with work friends. People talk too much and half the time they make things up. I don't need anyone in my business unless I put them in it.
@@princessofhell4639 I'm talking about random women like what's described here. If I'm friends with the woman, not only am I telling her but I'm cussing dude out because how DARE you cheat on my friend! But if I don't know them, not my business. Like I said, you'd be surprised how women KNOW their husband is cheating and as long as it's not confirmed they can pretend he's NOT and they're perfectly happy that way. Then there's women who cheat while their husbands are out cheating. Not my business. I don't know them.
BRO CODE: NEVER tell when the Bros are creepin' n' cheatin'. ALWAYS tell if you see one of their women even speak to another man! Sadly, birds of a feather... This poor, poor woman. She hasn't yet realized that her husband most certainly does cheat on her (I am a bit of an expert when it comes to knowing what guys do when they are cheating). "He face-timed me while some of it was going on"... ya know what he was doing the rest of the time lady? IF I am wrong and he hasn't cheated yet (which I don't believe),... what she saw in his FT videos is either her present, that she is even more blind to than the rest of the women, or it is definitely her future. How is she to know that the other guys don't FT their wives as well? She can't because the women never talk about it! I think the very fact that he went to such a place with the others who, as she said, were very comfortable cheating, shows a level of disrespect for her that a woman should never put up with! Also, people who cheat can bring home diseases that make their partner sterile, or worse, is a death sentence for them!! Also, there are ways to tell people things, without telling them. I feel like throwing up right now! I can tell you exactly why the guy was choking the dog on the bed. In fact, poor as I am, I would wager as much cash as I could beg, borrow or come up with on this. 🐕 Either the dude woke on his own, or more than likely the dude was awakened by the dog... stretching... cuddled up to it's owner. Because Dude is probably sleeping in the dog's spot! Personally, I think this dumb chick (🐽), is likely going to take her butt wipe bf (🪳), back. "I just don't know what to think right now" I do! 911 Hello, police? I'd like to report a case of animal cruelty! If this chick "don't know what to think right now" she shouldn't have a dog, or any animal. If anyone were to harm one of my babies, it would be me choking them pretty dang quickly!! You either love your pet like it is one of your children, or don't bother getting one in the first place. Also, if she honestly believes that this is the first time he has hurt the dog, I don't think so, unless he hasn't had the chance. If he is willing to try to kill the poor animal, right there beside her... Every moment he has ever been alone with the dog, he has either been hurting him/her, or planning how to get rid of her only protector. If you have a dog/animal that you love and cherish, why the heck would you even consider dating someone who says they don't like dogs/animals? So, even tho I feel like some of this is on her own shoulders, as an animal lover as well as a victim of abuse, this chick needs to kick him to the curb... after kicking him INTO the curb a few times =) oopsy! I would also publicly name and shame him. ☠ Oh, and BTW, for anyone who doesn't know... one consistent thing that has either been reliably documented by family and/or something almost all serial killers admit to, is cruelty to and/or torture of small animals. The 911 operator needs to back up a bit from her friend's death. I think people die when they are supposed to die. I am someone who is a bit of an expert in this department as well, but for completely different reasons than above. I'm not going to go into why I believe that but, even as young as she was, her life and/or death touched and influenced all the people she was supposed to. A season, a reason, or a time... sadly, this is how some of the best people leave us. I believe that her essence won't have wandered far from the places and people she loved the most. ⚛ The Scientific Law of Conservation of Energy states that Energy can neither be created nor destroyed; rather, it can only be transformed or transferred from one form to another. Within humans, I like to think that energy is our spirit, being, soul, or essence. If this 911 operator has any doubt that the advice she gave her friend was not only the best advice she could have gotten, but it also provided her friend with a wonderful experience, and close moments with her husband before she left. I think her friend would be thankful for that. 😇 If she has any doubts, she could simply ask her friend. She can talk to her friend anywhere, but somewhere that was special to her or them as friends, would be best. If she asks, she will get an answer... from her friend, who is now part of the universe again, where we all begin, and end. 💖
In the last story, OP is not responsible for their co worker's death, they had no way of knowing that a drunk driver would kill her. 100% not at fault
Drunk drivers are everywhere, a pestilence.
Yeah
A man who can choke a dog like that--for BARKING...I mean, REALLY? How long does she think it will be before he decides that SHE is making too much noise? And then who will be there to protect HER?
It’s even crazier cause the guy could’ve been lying about the barking
@@nataliawashington872given that the girl didn’t wake up from the alleged loud barking, but the quieter whining of the dog, it’s very likely
YES!! And who’s to say he wont do the same to any future kids they have if he deems their too much of an annoyance like dog barking? Leave him, immediately. Before he hurts you too.
Story 1: the wife won't be destroying anyone's marriage, the husband who cheated did.
This is so true! It's nobody else's fault but the cheater!
Yeah they are
The 1 story I can understand both POV’s but it does sound like a tough spot to be in, but at the same time, unless they’re really naive or willfully blind, the wives/gf probably have an inkling already.
For the 2 story, that’s terrifying. I would say break up with him and change your locks. Someone who can treat animals cruelly is not someone a sane person should want to be with.
Are we ignoring the fact that even OP said one of the cheaters was a close friend who they wouldn't even believe would do something like that. Also why does the husbands capability to manipulate and hide cheating on his wife become an insult on them for not seeing it. This is such a stupid take. Whether or not they have a suspicion is completely different to having certainty and proof. Also why would the fact the wives COULD have a suspicion change whether or not they should be told. And finally, if they are just "naive" and so haven't noticed why in the world would you want to let someone continue to take advantage of them??
@@princessofhell4639 Yeah idk how telling the women breaks “bro code”. Like why would you want to stay friends with them anyway…
2nd atory: FR!! Break up immediately. If they mistreat your animals in anger, they will do it again the next time it becomes too much. Even if they are nice to them the rest of the time, if they do it once its a MAJOR red flag 🚩 🚩🚩🚩 plus if they mistreat your animals when they’re away who’s to say they wont mistreat your future kids?
Thats how my mom and dad ended up. He promised to change everytime but he any time his temper got out of hand he would scream and shout worthy of the marines and would throw our dogs around by the scruff, shoving their faces into whatever they did wrong literally (eat out of pizza boxes, garbage bags, etc.) His anger issues didn’t stop wt the pets either. He would force us to squat for hours until someone fessed up to whatever crime he thought we committed, and he would lock us in our rooms with him so he could scream at us and spank us.
All these things could have been avoided if mom left him early on when he would joke about pepper spraying my half-brother, or when she came home to my sister crying and he didnt say what happened but mom knew he hurt her. DO NOT DATE PEOPLE WHO ABUSE ANIMALS!!!
I am 100% certain that YOUR POV would change in a heartbeat if it was Your GF or Wife messing around; And You who had complete faith in your relationship, and her. Therefore, You wouldn't suspect a thing. I think this happens mostly to men tho, because they don't have what is referred to as women's intuition, and/or because most unfaithful women (or women in general, so the story goes), are capable of being far more deceptive than the average cheating guy.
Damn stay away from my lil sis then
The problem isn't one friend, it's the whole community is cheating. It would destabilize a lot of things at once and it's not the women's responsibility for causing harm but she will be blamed.
If they woke up to the dog crying, they would have woken up to the dog barking. The military husband probably appreciates that last memory with his wife so going to the graduation was the correct move.
Not really :/ if shedidnt go shewouldnt have gotten run over.
@@kain7219 nobody would have known in the moments before it happened what was coming. theres never a 'well you couldve done this and you shouldve done this.' no. nobody is a psychic, we cant blame ourselves for information we didn't have at the time. cant stand that stupid phrase 'if you didnt do this, then this wouldnt have happened'
For sure. She could have stayed home and been run over by a DD while walking down the sidewalk near her home too and they never had a chance to see each other again.
@@itscarolinedammit754 This! It's always sad when people blame themselves for stuff that they literally had no idea would happen.
@@itscarolinedammit754 you shouldnt blame yourself. Doesnt change the fact that they died though.. Which makes me say no it wasnt the correct choice. Even with good intentions it caused someones demise and thats never the correct choice.
The dog story is super scary. We don't know if he meant to torture the dog, or if he was going to end the dog then go back to sleep and pretend to be shocked in the morning.
That guy choking my dog would do met his untimely demise.
Or went to jail.
How does she know if he hasn't abused the dog if she wasn't around?
She should have called the police. This man is dangerous. ANYONE who would intentionally hurt an animal is.
Besides what if it was a crying baby?
This is disturbing behavior.
Story 1: I would've said OP should tell the wives and the GF, but that would mean her husband's friends are going to think he snitched. And that could cost OP's marriage too. I can see the husband's POV too and that they're both in a tough spot. But even then, why would you want to be friends with cheaters? Jfc. OP's husband needs to ditch the group and contact their wives. Otherwise, he's just as bad as them for enabling them. Hopefully cops won't get involved.
Story 2: Break up with the boyfriend and file a police report holy shit... I love dogs but even if I didn't, I wouldn't hurt them. Her boyfriend has anger issues and needs to seek help man. And honey if you think he's acting out of character then you just saw his true character right there. Break off the relationship for you and your dog's sake please.
Story 3: I think this is one of the saddest stories I've read on this channel. At first i thought her husband killed her or cheated on her, but this is way worse. I feel so sorry for OP for blaming herself for her ex coworkers death. It's not her fault, it was the guy who chose to drink and drive... seriously, man, f**k drunk drivers. And I agree with Kyutie, she needs to seek help, otherwise blaming yourself for your co-worker's death is going to start a path of self-destruction.
I love how r/offmychest has become a new series recently! 😁
If he’s abusing the pet it’ll eventually be her.. abuse usually stars on animal and eventually gets to people
What do they mean they don’t know what to think, whatever the fuck is wrong with that man is none of your concern anymore, break up with him. He was so easily able to hurt your dog for what? Barking? Which for all you know he could’ve been lying about, if he can resort to violence so quickly for something so small who knows what he’s do to your dog or you if you actually did something to piss him off
SOUNDS LIKE THE GUY NEEDS TO FIND BETTER FRIENDS😑
ik if my bf or husbend or friend hurt my dogs they wont see the sunshine again-.- my animals are my kids and i cant stand animal abusers
For the first one it's kinda tough because as a woman you would want to be told if your partner is cheating on you and do the same for your fellow woman. I think it's stupid that that kind of decency is considered against the bro code. Idk. If I was in op's position I would consider how much it would jeopardize my marriage if I did tell the wives. if something like telling the truth of the other husbands' affairs would ruin my marriage maybe it was for the best. It demonstrate some underlying issues in rhe relationship that need to be unpacked. And for her husband does he really want these kind of people as friends/ would he see them often? Like I would lose so much respect for these people and wouldn't care for being in my life. I wouldn't want to have to fake pleasantries with these people. Also his comment on that the wives have to have some sort of inkling.. there are people who can be that naive, have low self esteem or blinded by love (that how some land themselves and/or stay in toxic relationships). Telling them could be helping these wives out of a tough or unhealthy relationship ( or at most not waste their time anymore with these men.)
That person is not at fault for that young girl's death. The drunk driver is.
first story: yeahh seriously why would you want to be friends with people like that?? if I had a partner or a friend who defended their friends cheating and tried to hide it in order to keep their friendship I'd be like "bye bitch!" even if you don't fully support their cheating you're still helping to cover it up! you're still considering those people your friends! why do you want to be friends with people who so easily cheat on their partners, huh? why do you consider them to be people worth even a second of your time?
second story: the way I gasped when I heard the first sentence. holy shit. get that man out of your life. RUN. absolutely horrifying.
third story: god, that is absolutely tragic. and what an awful position for op to be in, obviously they're not at fault but knowing that things could have been different if they hadn't encouraged her has got to be unbearably difficult to deal with. like how do you not feel responsible in some sense? how do you not feel guilt? I hope op can get the help they need to ease that guilt and to heal.
but man... stories like this are so upsetting too because it reminds you how utterly cruel and unfair life can be... such a young person with so much of her life ahead of her and so many dreams, and it's all over in an instant. no reset button. no second try. it's just over. that's so incredibly sad to think about.
Something similar to 1st story.. One of my oldest and closest friends cheated on his gf.. I did not even know his gf well but I felt so disgusted by that and could not look past it.. Barely after 2 weeks of him telling me about the affair, we have no contact now.. How do people stay friends with those who cheat
Story 1. Wife should tell, get her hubby away from crap like that.
Agreed
Her husband is just as bad. Enabling that shit and not telling the other wives because “iT gOeS aGaInSt ThE bRo CoDe.”
5:35 Arkansas is one of the weirder states, name wise. It’s pronounced Are can saw. 😂
Yeah, I was thinking that, too, it would be really difficult for a non-native speaker to know how it's pronounced. I mean, she is saying it like it looks!
On the last story... Agreed kyutie. Agreed
Holy hell, second story: call the cops! That is animal abuse ffs! Dumping him isn't enough.
Man would be a stain on my carpet for doing that.
First story: cheaters are septic people. I bet that the wives suspect but stay married for economic reasons. If either of them tells, they might be blamed for the resulting divorces. Second story: she needs to leave and leave now. People who abuse animals often move on to people. She needs to protect herself. Third story: she needs to stop blaming herself. The drunk guy was ar fault, not her.
Story 1 Either she needs to catfish them all to get them to try to meet up then show the wives the conversations or she can get a friend to do it. That way she isn't giving up her husband telling her about what they did on the trip and the wives and long-term girlfriend can still be informed that they are cheating jerks.
Story 2 The dude is either going to the hospital or the police station because I'm either going to strangle him like he was strangling my dog or I'm going to turn him into the police as an abuser. I'm pressing charges and he is not guilting me for get back into my life.
Story 3 That's sad but not the OP's fault, she said H wanted to go anyway. They just shouldn't have stopped for the pulled-over car. Always call the police and let them know a car needs assistance, especially when it is that late at night. You don't know if people actually need assistance or if they are pretending to try to rob you. Sadly, both type of people exist in this world. Unless you physically witness them get in an accident just call the police. And as you said perfectly it was the drunk drivers fault not hers.
First story if I was the wife I'd send the wives/ gf's anonymous messages saying "Your boyfriend / husband is cheating on you" not mentioning the holiday as the husband thought it wasn't the first time then when they confront the husband he might think its from some previous girl he cheated with! Also don't do them on the same day or in the same way so if they talk to each other they don't realise. Do it over a few months and some texts, emails, letters, so they're as different as possible!
PS Look up how to say Arkansas, it's hard to write but you were quite far off!
i kind of understand the husband in the first story for asking her not to tell, obviously we don't have the info of what his friends are like but i can't imagine they would be thanking him for telling their secrets right? like i can't imagine it would go well for him, this might be coming from a place of fear of what they would do
Story 1: All things aside, good job to the husband for staying faithful and not participating and letting his wife know everything 💖👏
I didnt really understood the first story. But for the second one its obvious. I would suggest the girl to divorce the boyfriend and call the police on him.
For the third Story its also obvious. This accident was absolutely not "A" s fault.
*I wrote she should call the police, because here in Germany animal abuse is a crime and you can be send to jail for this act. 👍
As I know you aren't from the USA, I'll clue you in...the English language/American English is odd. You have the pronunciation of Kansas correct but when the Ar is in fron of it, it become Ark-an-saw. From one of many native American languages.
"This was so out of character for him" No, girl, that IS his real character! 'Today it was the dog, tommorow it's could be you or your kids! Dump his a** ASAP!!! If that was my partner, let's just say he wouldn't be getting open casket funeral 🤬
Second story that dude would've been hog feed after getting his head caved in I can't stand people that beat on animals
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The fact that the one with the dog is asking what to do about her *boyfriend* shows she has an IQ level in the negative category. You have to treat your furbaby like your actual baby and you better believe it if someone tried to even so much as think about harming my babies or my furbaby, I would make them choke on my boots when I kick them so hard up the butt 😤
He sounds like a psycho! That’s usually what psychos do first, harm animals 🤮
I love seeing her reaction
That third story is just depressing :(
First story: I would advise her to NOT to get involved and instead try to influence her husband to make new friends as their morality doesn’t match yours. I’ve been there a couple of times and believe me, NOBODY appreciates you for it afterwards. Quite possibly, YOU will be the one who’s hated, more than the cheaters, and your husband will end up resenting you for not keeping your promise. This betrayal of trust will definitely have consequences in the marriage.
And it is indeed possible that the wives know, because we women ALWAYS feel it. Breaking up marriages is a huge responsibility, yes it’s the cheater who’s at fault but you don’t know what’s going on in their marriage. Plus think of their kids.
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Re: the story about the dog: If it were me, he (bf) would have been lucky if I didn’t hurt him badly for doing that to my dog. Then again, I probably would have ended up in jail for that, but I’d probably think it was worth it. I hope she took her dog to the vet to make sure there were no internal damages to his throat, or anywhere else, as the bf may have punched the dog in other places before she woke up. And also call the police and SPCA to press charges. And I hope she wouldn’t even consider taking him back. He’s a loose and very dangerous cannon, and she’d never know ahead of time if he would do it again, even to her. That red flag is on fire!
First story - send an anonymous printed letter to all the wives exposing their husbands
In the letter use words, phrases etc that you usually don't use (eg- use British slangs if you're not British), make spelling mistakes etc
Send a letter to yourself as well so that no one doubts you
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With the first story they should mind their business or get different friends,you cannot tell people how to live their lives.
The wife has to tell them. If any of the husbands caught an STI/STD, then they can spread it to the other wives if they aren't informed. It's not just trust that's on the line, the womens' health are also at risk if they are kept in the dark.
I choke my brother's dog playfully, I don't even touch his neck, I just hover my hand over or sometimes just gently hold his neck, it's how he plays, we likes escaping things. I would never in my life come into contact with someone who will openly hurt a dog that way. Only with a 20ft long knife will I touch that person
In the very first story, I just don't understand those men who are happily married with amazing wives and kids, but yet they still cheat on their significant other multiple times. If you want to sleep with other women so badly, then they should just be single. It is definitely not her place to tell any of that especially since she wasn't on the trip and didn't see it happen. If the wife told all of the other wives what was going on, then her husband would be completely blackballed and excluded from attending any more major events and trips. Plus all of the guys would make his life a living nightmare. The only thing that should matter to her is her husband would never do it. In the second story, she should've just started a**acking him right then and there, scratching him in the e*es, jumped on his back and proceeded to ch*ke him out, and just for the h*ll of it she could've k*cked him in the b*lls too. In the third story, that was very sweet that she cared about H like that and she only wanted the best for her. What happened to H was completely out of her control, it was a freak accident and a very sad one at that. Rest in peace H. Much love my dear sweet friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!
Story #1. It has nothing to di with her and her husband's morals.
It has everything to do with keeoing her nise outta other peoples business.
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Let’s stop acting like women don’t cheat then cover for each other
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Aww it’s cute how you pronounce Arkansas like that 😂 it’s pronounced Ark-can-saw
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Ellen, IIRC, you mentioned in a past video for your viewers to let you know if you mispronounce words?
I wanted to point out that Arkansas is pronounced as "Are-Can-Saw."
That being said, the first story is wild. If it were me, I'd want to know that my partner was cheating.
I can understand OP's desire to tell the wives what their husbands did.
As for the husband, I can understand wanting to be loyal to your friends. But come on, now. They cheated. That's one of the worst things a person can do in a relationship.
Story two: leave his ass. Call whoever you need to to report him for animal abuse
Then cut all contact with him. And keep your guard up. He is unhinged.
Story three: heartbreaking. It's not OP's fault at all.
It's the fault of the drunk driver
Just for future reference:
Arkansas is pronounced like “ark-an-saw” 😊
Lol it's pronounced Our Can Saw, not how it's spelled (Arkansas).
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Their wives will find out sooner or later & I personally like dogs, but if I didn't I wouldn't choke them to death. Ellen's right. She does need to break up with him.
Edit You pronounced Arkansas wrong. It's not pronounced R Kansas. It's pronounced R Can Saw.
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That very first one:
Mind your business and no one gets hurt. Well, maybe.
Some of the wives probably know, if not they suspect and as long as they don't know for sure, they can live their lives.
Not every woman wants PROOF of their man cheating.
It's not the husband's job to tell the wives or even say anything to the male coworkers.
That's how they operate and the best thing for him to do is separate himself from them.
I may be a woman but this is one reason why I hardly ever hung out with work friends.
People talk too much and half the time they make things up.
I don't need anyone in my business unless I put them in it.
Apart from all of the wives who find out you knew their husband was cheating and didn't tell them... Yeah I think they'd be pretty hurt.
@@princessofhell4639 I'm talking about random women like what's described here.
If I'm friends with the woman, not only am I telling her but I'm cussing dude out because how DARE you cheat on my friend!
But if I don't know them, not my business.
Like I said, you'd be surprised how women KNOW their husband is cheating and as long as it's not confirmed they can pretend he's NOT and they're perfectly happy that way.
Then there's women who cheat while their husbands are out cheating.
Not my business. I don't know them.
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BRO CODE: NEVER tell when the Bros are creepin' n' cheatin'. ALWAYS tell if you see one of their women even speak to another man! Sadly, birds of a feather... This poor, poor woman. She hasn't yet realized that her husband most certainly does cheat on her (I am a bit of an expert when it comes to knowing what guys do when they are cheating). "He face-timed me while some of it was going on"... ya know what he was doing the rest of the time lady? IF I am wrong and he hasn't cheated yet (which I don't believe),... what she saw in his FT videos is either her present, that she is even more blind to than the rest of the women, or it is definitely her future. How is she to know that the other guys don't FT their wives as well? She can't because the women never talk about it! I think the very fact that he went to such a place with the others who, as she said, were very comfortable cheating, shows a level of disrespect for her that a woman should never put up with! Also, people who cheat can bring home diseases that make their partner sterile, or worse, is a death sentence for them!! Also, there are ways to tell people things, without telling them.
I feel like throwing up right now! I can tell you exactly why the guy was choking the dog on the bed. In fact, poor as I am, I would wager as much cash as I could beg, borrow or come up with on this. 🐕 Either the dude woke on his own, or more than likely the dude was awakened by the dog... stretching... cuddled up to it's owner. Because Dude is probably sleeping in the dog's spot! Personally, I think this dumb chick (🐽), is likely going to take her butt wipe bf (🪳), back. "I just don't know what to think right now" I do! 911 Hello, police? I'd like to report a case of animal cruelty! If this chick "don't know what to think right now" she shouldn't have a dog, or any animal. If anyone were to harm one of my babies, it would be me choking them pretty dang quickly!! You either love your pet like it is one of your children, or don't bother getting one in the first place. Also, if she honestly believes that this is the first time he has hurt the dog, I don't think so, unless he hasn't had the chance. If he is willing to try to kill the poor animal, right there beside her... Every moment he has ever been alone with the dog, he has either been hurting him/her, or planning how to get rid of her only protector. If you have a dog/animal that you love and cherish, why the heck would you even consider dating someone who says they don't like dogs/animals? So, even tho I feel like some of this is on her own shoulders, as an animal lover as well as a victim of abuse, this chick needs to kick him to the curb... after kicking him INTO the curb a few times =) oopsy! I would also publicly name and shame him. ☠ Oh, and BTW, for anyone who doesn't know... one consistent thing that has either been reliably documented by family and/or something almost all serial killers admit to, is cruelty to and/or torture of small animals.
The 911 operator needs to back up a bit from her friend's death. I think people die when they are supposed to die. I am someone who is a bit of an expert in this department as well, but for completely different reasons than above. I'm not going to go into why I believe that but, even as young as she was, her life and/or death touched and influenced all the people she was supposed to. A season, a reason, or a time... sadly, this is how some of the best people leave us. I believe that her essence won't have wandered far from the places and people she loved the most. ⚛ The Scientific Law of Conservation of Energy states that Energy can neither be created nor destroyed; rather, it can only be transformed or transferred from one form to another. Within humans, I like to think that energy is our spirit, being, soul, or essence. If this 911 operator has any doubt that the advice she gave her friend was not only the best advice she could have gotten, but it also provided her friend with a wonderful experience, and close moments with her husband before she left. I think her friend would be thankful for that. 😇 If she has any doubts, she could simply ask her friend. She can talk to her friend anywhere, but somewhere that was special to her or them as friends, would be best. If she asks, she will get an answer... from her friend, who is now part of the universe again, where we all begin, and end. 💖