Yeah. Let's put money aside coz money matters everywhere not only in a relationship. Even you are single money still matters in your life. So money is very common thing in our life.
@@macxavier168 Most of us do. Then it's labeled by an inadequate husband as "complaining." Then if we keep asking they call it "nagging." When we've had enough and divorce and get our equal share...we're called "bad women" or "gold diggers." At least by Western men. This is why I stuck with a man from our Arab culture. They're a lot more compassionate, stronger, educated, generous, and not competitive with their women.
This is a description of the healthiest, most adjusted person out there, man or woman lol. A lot of guys say they want these things but then they’re intimidated by most of these traits when a woman presents with them lol.
Men these days seem to be intimidated by healthy, secure & yet very feminine women. It’s just crazy. Sad truth is that (HEALTHY) is NOT common. You can be feminine ALL day long. But the confident, healthy and yes, feminine woman scares the S#!t out of most men cuz they just can’t handle so much amazing goodness in one package. Just saying…..We are very rare diamonds 💎
What i like in a man ,is can he do sacrifice, compromise, adjustment for me , does he keep me happy, does he have integrity, empathy, understanding, honesty ,respect , does he treat me more specially than others around him , does he value me,my opinion,my advice, is he trustworthy, responsible, loyal ,faithful, God fearing etc .Just to name a few.
Some of the Tibetans, the Somali etc kidnap women and force them to work for men for the rest of their lives while men do little. There are so many cultures out there that consider themselves conservative that actually do that
@@makai2174Hi! I think what he means by independent is a woman who can take care of herself, by herself. That she can live alone and doesn't *need* to constantly be in a relationship, that she's just fine being alone. That she can handle her business without help from a man, like paying her rent and all of her other bills. I don't think he meant it in the very "woke feminist" way. I know you've heard or seen these women that very loudly and very often say "I don't need no man! He better feel lucky to have me! He better not think I'm going to take care of him, cook and clean for him!" etc. Basically, a woman whose life wouldn't fall apart financially if you left her. I hope I was able to clear that up for you. If not, let me know! I'd be happy to answer any questions! ~Signed, A very happy woman who lives completely alone (my son is grown and has his own life) and would love to start dating again and share my life with someone who has those same qualities mentioned in the video because I have all of those qualities, too! (I'm not ugly or obese, either! Lol!)
Honestly! I hear all these things and think man there's a side they ain't going to like about each of these... And they aren't able to verbalize what that particular thing is ...
Since when do men make a list of things that girls NEED to follow…? Since when society got so damn twisted that girls are sitting here saying ‘oh yes I have this oh I have that oh I can work on this to impress him’? Baby do that for yourself not for a man. Men aren’t the same as they used to be. I am not talking about all men here but there are barely anyone with the provider mentality, the protector mentality, the kind spirit. We are unfortunately in a time where dating is just so we don’t feel alone or we say we are in a relationship. Not because we truly LOVE and APPRECIATE EACH OTHER. Breaks my heart seeing how a lot of good people out there can’t find good people for themselves because we can’t trust now… the idea that a lot of us were born in the wrong generation will forever haunt me. I pray one day we will have some happiness, calmness and peace of mind in our lives 🤍
That's what I said lol. I was looking for someone else who picked that up. They want us to agree with everything they want and say, but we're supposed to also be opinionated. Wtf?
Balance, ladies, balance. He wants a healthy mix of all of this.. they like the dance.. keeps them coming back for more.. remember, too much of any particular thing isn’t good. 😉
I have all these minus confidence. That ones work in progress. I've recently become an orphan and making it on my own will force me to realise my innate strength.
I left home at 15 and am on my own. It does force you to be strong and you know you can make it, no matter what. Sorry for your situation but it can be used as a benefit. People will come and go in your life, stand strong.
You mean men want someone who will center him in their universe; although men, in a patriarchy society in general, don't reciprocate). Tides are turning on THAT philosophy.
I don’t know if this was meant to be sarcasm or not. However, pretty much half of the list is just the exact contradiction to the other half. Agreeable - opinionated Confident - humble Ambitious - submissive Men don’t even know what they want. Lol.
I also think it all untrue. How often we hear "women can't be funny" "There are no women at the top of any field" "No one likes a career woman" The only thing that make sense is the "agreeableness" because men as far as I can tell from the internet want quiet, pretty little doll that will do everything they say.... so they really mean obedient. :/
I like someone who laugh at my stupid jokes and references too🤔 I'm a coach potato, I will study and work because I need to, and kind of enjoy it, but I also prefer to sleepxd And that won't change. I think what you are saying is reasonable, also can work to what women could like in a men.
Agreeableness? Huge red flag. Be yourself ladies!! Funny how men don't appreciate authenticity, but that would conflict with wanting a woman who's agreeable.
Agreeable, as in easy going and not getting worked up over small things. Opinionated, as in having your own thoughts on things and being unafraid to share them even if they conflict with his beliefs or others. They are not mutually exclusive.
I agree with you except on 1 and 2. First I wont laugh at anyone's joke that doesn't appeal to me. Secondly, We are all unique, but forever individualized, as such I will not go with the flow if that doesn't align with my desire.
Balance, ladies, balance. He wants a healthy mix of all of this.. they like the dance.. keeps them coming back for more.. remember, too much of any particular thing isn’t good 😉
Agreeable and opiniated? You have to agreeable enough to consider others ideas following it or not it's an another thing. Well, we like if you know what food do you want to eat.
As long you don't confuse confidence with cockiness I am fully agreed that I attracted to confident women. Self assured is a better word to explain this.
0:01 tells the story with this simp. He's a used car salesman of dating advice. Attracting a man is easy for 95% of women, it's the retaining part they have a problem with. Women initiate divorce 80% of the time and only 1% is due to infidelity, abuse, or abandonment.
Hello, I would like to ask your opinion about a situation...I am a girl who went to a store a while ago. So the shop owner asked me about my age and residence, but I did not give an answer. He asked me about my age and also his answer.. He asked me again about my name, so I answered him, but in a dry manner. He even looked at me with annoyed looks and continued trying to talk to me, but I did not respond and remained silent... 4 months have passed since this incident. And from that time until now, every time I walk next to his shop, he keeps staring at me with serious looks without smiling! Even when I look at him, he continues to look at me in all seriousness without taking his eyes off me. And when I am far from his place, he recognizes me from afar and keeps staring. Does he hate me because I did not answer his questions and answered him rudely? Or does he like me?
No one is perfect. Regardless of gender many people these days have unrealistic standards. I hope everyone reading this knows you don't need to have all or even half of these traits. I can't speak for every man, but i think the most attractive traits are - 1. Kindness 2. Enthusiasm 3. Humor 4. Loyality 5. Openly expressive about your love. Perhaps im biased, but this seems the most attractive. Just verbalize to him that you care. And even more importantly, demonstrate it in your actions. And guess what? Women want the exact same things in return. Attractive traits apply to both genders. There really isn't a difference. Minus "some" exceptions.
1) Laugh at his jokes ≠ sense of humor because those are the same men who get so rude and offensive when the woman is funny, they feel the need to be the only funny one
You’re right about this. Most men love when women laugh at their jokes, but if a woman is funnier than them and generates laughter from others they get threatened by that and they’re not attracted to it.
I want him to laugh at my jokes too, and he asked for it when he said he wanted someone who thinks her own thoughts! Be careful what you ask for you just might get it
A woman can have all those amazing qualities, and then some, but if he doesn't want you there's absolutely nothing you can do to make him look at you, much less change his mind.
If a joke is dumb and my crush says it then I won't laugh at it no matter how much I am into him because I want to be authentic and not playing nice to stroke his ego. If he doesn't like that then it is his problem. I have done this to men that I like and they take it personally. No one should be forced to laugh at dumb jokes if they don't want to.
Be agreeable, be opinionated; be confident, stay humble; be independent, but give me lots of affection. 😂 this list sounds like the Barbie movie monologue
Because this video is wrong, u dont have to be independent or life confident to attract boys, you just wants to be good looking loyal thats all you have tomake him attractive
Women want these same traits in a man. Add on loyalty, honesty, trustworthiness and someone that will not cheat!🤘
GREAT POINTS! 🌹🌿
Yeah. Let's put money aside coz money matters everywhere not only in a relationship. Even you are single money still matters in your life. So money is very common thing in our life.
Is that why you guys keep nagging all the time?
more woman cheat now, they don't consider it cheating though
Marry the Pope then 😊
They want agreeableness but still want us opinionated lol.
There gotta be a balance to it
@@madly_beaver8748 Yes it's called Compromise, which EVERYONE should be like.
Share your opinions in a polite, respectful manner. Simple.
@@macxavier168 Most of us do. Then it's labeled by an inadequate husband as "complaining." Then if we keep asking they call it "nagging." When we've had enough and divorce and get our equal share...we're called "bad women" or "gold diggers." At least by Western men. This is why I stuck with a man from our Arab culture. They're a lot more compassionate, stronger, educated, generous, and not competitive with their women.
Lol i caught that too and they were back to back lol . That was kind of funny though
Sense of humor
Intelligence
Kindness
Opinionated
Character
Affectionate
Independent
Confidence
Ambition
Humility stay grounded
Opinionated
Humility
All check …..but trying to be more confident and improve my self ❤😊
@@mahhim7090Lol! I grimaced on that one, too! I guess 10 out of 11 isn't too bad, though!😅
Thank you for the list! Did you mean "opinionated" and "humility"? We've all been too quick on the trigger finger and checked spelling!😄
Loved laughing at my husband’s jokes. He would tell me no one else got his jokes like I did. Miss him. ❤
Same here! I fell in love with him not just for his looks, kindness, and brains, but because he made me laugh. I miss him, too, RIP. ❤
Don't really change yourself for the sake of a partner though. Find someone that loves you for who you are/ who you are working to be
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😂😂
Exactly 💯
What's so funny with those 2 .. ? Why are they laughing ?
Don’t hope that a man will love even if you’re a red flag.Change if think you are not good enough to deserve that kinda love
A man who will not cheat,kind and strong
Right
This is a description of the healthiest, most adjusted person out there, man or woman lol. A lot of guys say they want these things but then they’re intimidated by most of these traits when a woman presents with them lol.
🎉 this 💯- then label the woman as an alpha in masculine energy 🫣
Men these days seem to be intimidated by healthy, secure & yet very feminine women. It’s just crazy. Sad truth is that (HEALTHY) is NOT common. You can be feminine ALL day long. But the confident, healthy and yes, feminine woman scares the S#!t out of most men cuz they just can’t handle so much amazing goodness in one package. Just saying…..We are very rare diamonds 💎
I have all of them still single
Yeah same but I haven’t been actively trying to date since high school lmao
😊😊
My ex joked at me. He thought his belittling jokes to me was funny but I just perceived him as a clown
Men don’t know what they want. When they see it they want it but really they rather pick lint from their ears.
Lol.. Right..
Agreeable and opinionated 😅
Glad it wasn't just me 😂
They always say somewhere in the middle
Yeah, I guess it means she has her own opinions. But going with the flow is not agreeableness either.
Opinionated = has opinions to share
Agreeable = the way you share these opinions.
What i like in a man ,is can he do sacrifice, compromise, adjustment for me , does he keep me happy, does he have integrity, empathy, understanding, honesty ,respect , does he treat me more specially than others around him , does he value me,my opinion,my advice, is he trustworthy, responsible, loyal ,faithful, God fearing etc .Just to name a few.
❤
Loyalty should be at the top of the list.
What he means is if we lack any of these qualities, then men would wander off someone else... I'm just done with men
Amen
I never heard a guy say “I want an independent woman”😂…independent literally means independent of men🤦🏽♂️
Oh please, you’re also probably the type to complain about clingyness and a lack of adventurism in a woman.
@@annikajade3577 wth that gotta do wit anything I just said
Some of the Tibetans, the Somali etc kidnap women and force them to work for men for the rest of their lives while men do little. There are so many cultures out there that consider themselves conservative that actually do that
@@makai2174Hi! I think what he means by independent is a woman who can take care of herself, by herself. That she can live alone and doesn't *need* to constantly be in a relationship, that she's just fine being alone.
That she can handle her business without help from a man, like paying her rent and all of her other bills.
I don't think he meant it in the very "woke feminist" way. I know you've heard or seen these women that very loudly and very often say "I don't need no man! He better feel lucky to have me! He better not think I'm going to take care of him, cook and clean for him!" etc.
Basically, a woman whose life wouldn't fall apart financially if you left her.
I hope I was able to clear that up for you. If not, let me know! I'd be happy to answer any questions!
~Signed, A very happy woman who lives completely alone (my son is grown and has his own life) and would love to start dating again and share my life with someone who has those same qualities mentioned in the video because I have all of those qualities, too! (I'm not ugly or obese, either! Lol!)
It’s men who love that and made songs about that ( blk men) so they won’t have to be the provider and fit the bill by themselves!
‘opinionated’…don’t be afraid to share them? When we do…we are called stubborn.
maybe your opinions are stupid and led by emotions instead of logic?
Some opinions have boundaries.
Men will say you're masculine not stubborn
I think expressing opinion in a polite way is very welcome, and MOST opinions donot have to be binding.
Some opinions are more eq than others
I like Humour, Loyalty, Independence, Femininity, Not having 20 other guys on the go, Genuine beauty and good Morals
Many men don't even know what they want
It's mostly subconscious
These are boys
Looks..and looks...perhaps is the only quality they seek for...those aren't men actually...still kids or boys merely
The same goes 4 women
Honestly! I hear all these things and think man there's a side they ain't going to like about each of these... And they aren't able to verbalize what that particular thing is ...
Since when do men make a list of things that girls NEED to follow…? Since when society got so damn twisted that girls are sitting here saying ‘oh yes I have this oh I have that oh I can work on this to impress him’? Baby do that for yourself not for a man. Men aren’t the same as they used to be. I am not talking about all men here but there are barely anyone with the provider mentality, the protector mentality, the kind spirit. We are unfortunately in a time where dating is just so we don’t feel alone or we say we are in a relationship. Not because we truly LOVE and APPRECIATE EACH OTHER. Breaks my heart seeing how a lot of good people out there can’t find good people for themselves because we can’t trust now… the idea that a lot of us were born in the wrong generation will forever haunt me. I pray one day we will have some happiness, calmness and peace of mind in our lives 🤍
Understand.The music all the crap on TV. Horrible lying leader's..But God...
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Far Out Man! Anything else? Would you like Fries with that list? 😂
I think what they like is looks
Agreeableness but is opinionated.... hmmm men want a paradox lol
I lost at that too. It would make more sense if he said easy-going instead of agreeableness
That's what I said lol. I was looking for someone else who picked that up. They want us to agree with everything they want and say, but we're supposed to also be opinionated. Wtf?
Balance, ladies, balance. He wants a healthy mix of all of this.. they like the dance.. keeps them coming back for more.. remember, too much of any particular thing isn’t good. 😉
You can have an opinion and still allow your man to make decisions that affect both of you.
I'm a normal good woman, most of my life i was invisible for men.
Maybe you were A I ... Artificial Intelligence
Wait until you get older. It gets worse.
@@coco8386lol shouldnt it get better ? It reassures me
Same here, i get you 😂😂
He left out be at least a 7 out of 10 on his beauty scale
I think both men & women like this in not only romantic relationships but in general for friends too.
Be yourself is the most. Not be fake.
How can I be 2 and 3 at the same time
Ahhh i am growing in all of these natrually! So happy to hear this!!
Lovely, Thank you!
Most important: take the initiative and ask him …
… or make at least clear that you want to know him better …
… and be consistent with this!
Agreeable and opinionated, good luck, men. 😂 It's usually one or the other.
Opinionated is definitely NOT something men want!
I think I am all of them...still nobody ever came liking me
I have all these minus confidence. That ones work in progress. I've recently become an orphan and making it on my own will force me to realise my innate strength.
I left home at 15 and am on my own. It does force you to be strong and you know you can make it, no matter what. Sorry for your situation but it can be used as a benefit. People will come and go in your life, stand strong.
Anyone with self respect and common sense would like this type of person
You mean men want someone who will center him in their universe; although men, in a patriarchy society in general, don't reciprocate). Tides are turning on THAT philosophy.
You can add on that list responsible and consistent..adventurous..compromising....easy going.....knows what she wants.......
I don’t know if this was meant to be sarcasm or not. However, pretty much half of the list is just the exact contradiction to the other half.
Agreeable - opinionated
Confident - humble
Ambitious - submissive
Men don’t even know what they want. Lol.
I also think it all untrue. How often we hear "women can't be funny" "There are no women at the top of any field" "No one likes a career woman" The only thing that make sense is the "agreeableness" because men as far as I can tell from the internet want quiet, pretty little doll that will do everything they say.... so they really mean obedient. :/
Thank you so must be your support blessings
independent confidence opinionated leader
Good message . Thanks
I like someone who laugh at my stupid jokes and references too🤔
I'm a coach potato, I will study and work because I need to, and kind of enjoy it, but I also prefer to sleepxd And that won't change.
I think what you are saying is reasonable, also can work to what women could like in a men.
Men want A I ...Artificial Intelligence in a woman .😂😂
😂😂😂
I knew it way back.. Men are complicated and hard to please llol
Agreeableness? Huge red flag. Be yourself ladies!! Funny how men don't appreciate authenticity, but that would conflict with wanting a woman who's agreeable.
Agreeable, as in easy going and not getting worked up over small things. Opinionated, as in having your own thoughts on things and being unafraid to share them even if they conflict with his beliefs or others. They are not mutually exclusive.
I agree with you except on 1 and 2.
First I wont laugh at anyone's joke that doesn't appeal to me. Secondly, We are all unique, but forever individualized, as such I will not go with the flow if that doesn't align with my desire.
Male definition of a woman with a good sense of humor - she laughs at his jokes. But what if she's funnier than him ?
I loved this
Great man.thank u
Thanks. Good info 😅 yes who wouldn't want all that.
Yup I got it all amen❤
Literally 70% were absolutely false.
This guy is telling women what they wanna hear.
Yep. Facts.
What would be your top 10?
WHEW CHILE the impossible standards men have for women is ridiculous. Just BE YOURSELF baby because that is MORE than enough ❤💅😘
Thank you.
You have to be flexible in all aspect!❤❤❤
Thanks❤
bro please center your audio i am dying
man keep saying, intelligent woman, intelligent woman, but when they meet intelligent woman, they ran to other side😂😂
Very accurate 💯☝️👌👍🙏🙏
Balance, ladies, balance. He wants a healthy mix of all of this.. they like the dance.. keeps them coming back for more.. remember, too much of any particular thing isn’t good 😉
I'm done with men. I don't really like them all that much.. v snob. They want kindness but most of them are unkind, selfish...
Agreeable and opiniated?
You have to agreeable enough to consider others ideas following it or not it's an another thing.
Well, we like if you know what food do you want to eat.
WOW 😍😍 I have that all signed ❤️😍💓💐
Anything else????? Life is hard enough without all these lists, it gets very boring.
Yeah woman want the same thing its hard finding a loyal man tbh😂😂😂
For men I'd add loyalty, dependability, and honorable character
Almost everything❤
“Don’t be a couch potato “
Meanwhile we cuddle on the couch together
Wow! So many traits... all in one! And what about the same traits in a single man?
As long you don't confuse confidence with cockiness I am fully agreed that I attracted to confident women.
Self assured is a better word to explain this.
0:01 tells the story with this simp. He's a used car salesman of dating advice. Attracting a man is easy for 95% of women, it's the retaining part they have a problem with. Women initiate divorce 80% of the time and only 1% is due to infidelity, abuse, or abandonment.
You're awesome
Wow! Where is this woman? Is she beautiful too! Self sufficient. She doesn't need a man.
Where is the list? Anyone have time to make that?
Hello, I would like to ask your opinion about a situation...I am a girl who went to a store a while ago. So the shop owner asked me about my age and residence, but I did not give an answer. He asked me about my age and also his answer.. He asked me again about my name, so I answered him, but in a dry manner. He even looked at me with annoyed looks and continued trying to talk to me, but I did not respond and remained silent... 4 months have passed since this incident. And from that time until now, every time I walk next to his shop, he keeps staring at me with serious looks without smiling! Even when I look at him, he continues to look at me in all seriousness without taking his eyes off me. And when I am far from his place, he recognizes me from afar and keeps staring. Does he hate me because I did not answer his questions and answered him rudely? Or does he like me?
I have these❤️
Yeah an agreeable opinionated women umm humm
Also sense of humor, but you should laugh at his jokes 😂
Damn … I am a catch 😎
how can you be all these things at once?
This is me❤ but so difficult to find a man like this
She has to be intelligent and laugh at dumb jokes.
That's the sign of intelligence.
He tried. Appreciation for his trying.
I'm sure there are men that will disagree with these..
No one is perfect. Regardless of gender many people these days have unrealistic standards. I hope everyone reading this knows you don't need to have all or even half of these traits. I can't speak for every man, but i think the most attractive traits are -
1. Kindness
2. Enthusiasm
3. Humor
4. Loyality
5. Openly expressive about your love. Perhaps im biased, but this seems the most attractive. Just verbalize to him that you care. And even more importantly, demonstrate it in your actions.
And guess what? Women want the exact same things in return. Attractive traits apply to both genders. There really isn't a difference. Minus "some" exceptions.
1) Laugh at his jokes ≠ sense of humor because those are the same men who get so rude and offensive when the woman is funny, they feel the need to be the only funny one
You’re right about this. Most men love when women laugh at their jokes, but if a woman is funnier than them and generates laughter from others they get threatened by that and they’re not attracted to it.
I actually never laugh at their jokes because most times they are about farts and misogyny. 🤷🏼♀️
This is not accurate....
Funny, us ladies like those same traits!
❤️😎❤️
Pretty much the same that I look for.
I want him to laugh at my jokes too, and he asked for it when he said he wanted someone who thinks her own thoughts! Be careful what you ask for you just might get it
Agree ❤
😴 I just like to sleep
A woman can have all those amazing qualities, and then some, but if he doesn't want you there's absolutely nothing you can do to make him look at you, much less change his mind.
If a joke is dumb and my crush says it then I won't laugh at it no matter how much I am into him because I want to be authentic and not playing nice to stroke his ego. If he doesn't like that then it is his problem. I have done this to men that I like and they take it personally. No one should be forced to laugh at dumb jokes if they don't want to.
Then why am i single 😂
How can a man be this attractive? 🙈❤ and good content 👍
Be agreeable, be opinionated; be confident, stay humble; be independent, but give me lots of affection. 😂 this list sounds like the Barbie movie monologue
I have all of that and he doesn’t want me😂oh well his lost
Because this video is wrong, u dont have to be independent or life confident to attract boys, you just wants to be good looking loyal thats all you have tomake him attractive
😂 i feel you
I have all those traits
I literally got all of but still single 😢
cuz I'm too tall for them lol😅
jesss !!!
we have a lot to be 😂🤓
I have been dating my man 9 months and be have been seeing each other every day and it seems like he is falling away from me
Hello
In my surrounds its crazy 🤪 shit stupid shit and super shit
What to do?
Best 👌 regards ✨️
Check all the boxes ❤
Sometimes all it takes is a women that doesn't have any of these traits at all but she gets pregnant so it's like a must to get married
I’m all that and a bag of chips. 🙌🙌🤣😂😜🤪
i have all of those what is my man