You are 💯! Marc should have never left his then wife, for JLo. She used him to get over Ben. I Believe she rather would have had Kids w/ Ben!! My heart goes out to her Children and Marc’s Then wife- who he left JLO for.. She was devastated!! Heartbreaking 💔
You marry a guy who hasn't conquered his addiction while being yourself a narcissist, of course it wasn't gonna work out. Garner was painted as jealous and tryna steal him by the media. If she goes back to him she's just as delusional as Lopez. She might also just be helping him because he's the father of her kids.
Get the hell out of here, I don’t care if Garner is the mother of his kids, she is really doing too much, going over Ben’s house without the kids, meddling all up in their business. I know damn well you ladies would have a problem with your man’s ex going over to his house alone on numerous occasions. And it ain’t got nothing to do with jealousy. Is just plain out right about respect! She knows what she’s doing, and so does Ben. 🙄
@@Isaidit129Don't be so worried and upset about it. Jlo did thos to others so if it's all coming back to her, this is nothing compared. If it's true she's trying to get A Rod back and he's in a relationship... go tell your girl jlo that worse is coming for going after taken men
"I always say, 'When his sun shines on you, you feel it.' But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it's cold. He can cast quite a shadow." - Jennifer Garner Seems like J. Lo is experiencing this up close and personal. A second time.
@@rainbowskies5796 i think blacklisting him is going too far... he's not the settle down kind of person and i think thats what ruined him... ben's not the kind of man that can be a good husband, father, as well as deal with his inner demons effectively. When it comes to Jlo, i think her selfish, diva nature triggers some of his more unfavorable characteristics.
If we exhausted of her, I can only imagine what he is feeling. You can't make nobody want u. It was the greatest love story that NEVER should've been told...
This is marriage # 4 or 5 for her.She have 1 pregnancy and 2 kids out of it.Maybe engaged a million times.Sweetheart it is def looking like you are the problem.Sit down for a second and learn how to keep yourself company.I say, just hang it up with fairytale ending.Start learning to love yourself and stop looking for validation from a man.Your kids are too old at this point for you to be running around looking for a man.Focus on your kids Kim Kardashian's eldest sister.
@@Kg8f60 They were still together and she was pregnant when he left her. She said she was “devastated”. It’s one thing to have an affair and walk away from a marriage. It’s something entirely different to walk out on your pregnant wife.
It’s not rocket science, it’s sexism & racism. Ben Affleck is difficult AND an alcoholic AND a gambling addict AND cheated on his first wife with the nanny.
Two over rated narcissistic actors, with tons of baggage, thinking getting married would be a good thing. NOT... Their union was doomed from the beginning. JLo needed a man to complete her and Ben was looking for a sugar momma. It looked to me a marriage of convenience. And it didnt take long for their marriage to explode magnificently.😮
Ben Affleck did some wild things years ago. That was before the Internet took off. The rag mags were much more truthful during those times. Ben was no slowpoke. He must have had confidence with women.
Well if she wants to expose his secrets she needs to know that sword cuts both ways. Ben is definitely a POS but I’m so sick of people thinking it’s always the man whenever her relationships don’t go right. I just feel like she’s a super difficult person. I clocked JLo’s game years ago and been giving her the side eye.
She has secrets right there was a Dominican model that was fierce competition with her and she basically played as if she was a mentor in this and that and instead said that grow up to be brutally, SSA by several men in trafficking and now she’s strung out on drugs people see her here and there and Washington Heights roaming around New York City and they think she’s crazy but these people are not crazy everything is coming to light
@@Kg8f60 she wasn’t alone…plenty of other Latinas she was being shady towards to get to where she is now. Not to mention stealing music intended for others. I’m not denying she hasn’t had it bad in the industry, but she definitely wasn’t alone. 😂
I bet Ben was going to those Diddler parties with Matt Damon, Leonardo DiCaprio and the rest of the A-Listers. Ben friends want him to ditch JLo so they can have leas light shed on them when all the indictments start. It might be scrubbed from the internet now but I do rwcall Puff buying both J-Lo and Ben matching Bentleys back in the day... Why for??? Were they all dating, just saying.
Yes that’s when Ben started eying Jennifer at the Diddy parties and started taking an interest her. Ben and his brother Casey have their own pasts. Harvey Weinstein?
@@Kg8f60 I admire her hustle and enjoy her work, particularly on the movie side BUT thru the years, her actions over and over make me give her side eye.
Why would JLo hook up with a cheater? Why would Ben hook up with a woman who loves celebrity and he loves his privacy? There was lust between them but lust doesn’t keep a relationship going.
Ben is a ouchebag 🥃 he's still drinking. He's about to spiral & take JLo, Jen & the kids with him. His mum will clean it up. Jen will be with someone by her birthday.
@@patriciabouchard5296 While Jlo was in Italy, he was barreling down the driveway, got out of the car a yelled at the paps. It was when he was moving out. He had a few drinks, facts.
He had stop drinking only smoke cigarettes Stress pushed him. He treated her kids as his own just like his children. He is not perfect what man you know is perfect we tolerate certain things. Likes and dislikes and love each other respectfully. Wish the best to both find peace
Let go and Let God. This man just wanted an excuse to leave. He just wants to drink. Period. He will always choose alcohol. Let J Garner give up her life to save him. Don’t look like she’s tired either. It’s time to walk away. This too shall pass. He knew what came with JLo lifestyle.
Never force a man into a relationship especially marriage it will never last natural love between the two persons and makes it worst a repeated onesided love .let J lo takes a break from the affair and relax with her two children and stop giving them problems with different faces moving from west coast to East coast with the disruptive life of the children. Let Ben go on with the life he choosed and turn your page J.Lo.
She’s behaving like a crazy lady. Who put out and shared private letters. She did!! Ben has his shortcomings, but she knew them going into the marriage. She’s too occupied going to the gym, “working harder” than everyone else.
Ohhh! It all makes sense now! Poor fragile Ben has his sensitive, insecure ego bruised when he learned she was friendly & helping Diddy. He is so immature & miserable to go around talking *ish about her. It makes me sick how Ben was not even willing to work on his marriage.
Both had serious problems and besides not being meant to be, getting together piled up problems over their already problems and both messed up. The problem is not wanting to see it and instead of letting go trying to force something that isn't. You have to be very crazy to want to doom yourself that way and then try to say it's the other person's fault when in reality it's both. It's better to say "I made a mistake and I was warned by my friends and fans, sorry" than to keep pride and say I tried to work things out knowing well it wouldn't ever but trying to make yourself look like the one who tried but he didn't... that's the stupidity she comes out with and always trying to day they're cheaters
Exactly!💯 She truly believed him, and he played her once again. He is probably saying, " I tried! I really tried" No he didn't! He went after her, got what he wanted, and then he was done. She just fell for it. First time shame on them, second time shame on you.
Ben has always been portrayed as a literal Butthead on South Park along with his parents. Why? His 20 year flailing career? His continuing substance abuse? His perpetual resting long face? His lack of emotional, professional & relational integrity? His reliance on an expensive PR team to minimize, infantilize & and deflect from any of his missteps? (a la Justin Timberlake) Well, take your pick. Any Jennifer or otherwise named hopeful, would be well advised to admire or co parent from afar.
As a Leo, 1000% agree. Its not like other signs. One has to love being submissive at all times, and usually neither want to completely submit all the time.
That's how it happens sometimes in relationships where when the promises to change one's way and the crying and begging doesn't work, THAT'S when the anger comes out and the threats begin. If there's truth to this, Jlo will go there 'cause her ego can't take it, she's not used to being dumped, and she refuses to look like the bad guy by herself, so Ben better look out and get ready 'cause her vindictiveness is coming for him. However, if he's that kind of person, too, then she better be on the lookout as well 'cause it goes both ways. This may get nasty!
Ive said FROM THE JUMP she went after him because hes weak and she thought she can control him. Hes an addict and shes a control freak. Control freaks cant control strong minded people. Ben caved in thinking she can help him. I think hes broke too. She wanted him for her image to still be sexy since she cant be alone . Jlo isnt in love with love . Shes in love with the idea of power couple in marriage.
Tisa, please explain love bombing in one of your videos so your followers will understand how Ben played her AND Jen Garner, and probably the nanny too. I don’t care for JLo’s narcissism or exploitation of black women’s voices. (I’m a black womsn.) However, I think some of the sexism and unstated but implied racism in the comments are going too far. We need to be able to critique Jlo’s narcissism without being so horribly sexist.
The wife is always at fault, especially if the man has an addiction. People said the same about his other Jennifer. Angelina is to blame for Brad. Amber for Johnny. Men bare none of the blame and get all of the empathy
It's because women seem almost programmed to put up with bad behaviors in men and think it is normal and good. Men will always be "over" women, and women are always "pining" after men, catering to their needs.
Ben cheated on JG? He’s No Angel ???? Everyone forgets what he did TO HIS WIFE Jennifer Garner that all of you say he Loved her so much more than Jlo ????
Jlo has her issues but no one wants to deal with his Issues ??? I blame her she picked him ??? We sometimes as Women Need to be Held Accountable for OUR Choices????
And let’s not forget he cheated on Jennifer Lopez with Jennifer Gardner I could always see through him she probably just wanted to make it work for her children!
If Ben got back with her to enhance his failing career the thing with diddy could have triggered his detaching from JLo. If he loved her this should not have made him leave.
I think he got back with her to try to make it up to her for breaking her heart and hoped she could help him stay sober. He knew she’d been carrying a torch for him all those years. I think his intentions were good but he couldn’t cut it. The paparazzi were 10 times worse than before. Again he looks like a fool.
JLo needs to just move on and let everybody see it. Ben is a horrible man! I don't know what these women see in him? He's always looking for an excuse to drink and this time it's JLo. He's a child. He needs to grow up.
JLO, Ben is not the right person for you he is just playing game with you and using you. Get rid of him you will be much happier his been in rehab back and forth. Don't give him a single penny.
I ask myself that all time. Like how do you even know this, and it’s said so matter of fact it helps to feel like it’s real, who knows I take it with a grain of salt
Hey, Tisa!🔍 The sooner JLo realizes she's the problem and deals with it, the happier she'll be. Did she forget about TikTokkers who hate her? Also media hosts who can't stand her? Lest we forget ALL the fans who she turned away with her attitude? As long as JLo treats people like mess, she will be branded difficult. In or out of her marriage💔
Both of them are Leo's. It gonna be hard for them to get along in a harmonious way and yes she is full of drama. Ben ain't innocent hun he is a leo male. LOl!
She never should have went back to him. I get that sometimes we want to prove the world wrong and have our happy ending with the person they said it would never work with. But he talked soooo bad about her after the 1st time.
I don’t know why Jlo made him so Big ??? He’s not all that ? They keep saying he got all these awards that was a 100 years ago ??? He’s not a Good Actor ??? I don’t care for him ? To me he’s Racist????
Is he "tryin" to make her look bad? Because rumours existed about her "off" moments. No-one's PERFECT. They COULD HAVE Both tried to be better People and work Charities together and BOTH come up ON TOP. But he JUMPED SHIP. WHY? LEAVING Her High and DRY, but ALSO, in saying that He was crazy for MARRYING Her.... implies that She's even crazier than his alleged "temporary insanity" because She must be Someone whom EVEN He CAN'T Work-It-Out WITH....--And he's a REASONABLE an EASY-GOING FELLA, right?! That's a MESSED UP IMPLICATION for him to make. DANG!
Y would Ben need to use her for her celebrity ism. He's already got it AND he doesn't even like to be in the spotlight. not even for his own film success. Thought?
HE NEVER WANTED TO SERIOUSLY MARRY HER HE WAS BACKING OUT OF IT, THEN HERE COMES THIS JUSTICE OF THE PIECE WEDDING, THAT WAS TO RUSH HIS TAIL TO THE ALTER . HASTE MAKES WASTE
Tisa you are so Right about Ben ???? Jlo needs to Held Accountable she Picked 7:20 the Loser Ben??? Let the Loser Go ??? Bye Ben that’s what I say ???? Bye??????????
I think these two are both sex and love addicts, but I do think she was willing to work things out and he wasn’t having it. On her part she was going on tour and Ben most likely didn’t like the idea. They should have had a long engagement just to make sure this would work out.
Tisa, I thinkbyoubtruly come off On Ben Affleck. But JLo has really messed up a lot of people are lr lives. Becsusebin my opinion dhr always had allegedly had Pid diddy in her back pocket. J-Lo wants to act as if she is On top of her games. J-Lo own children said that they no longer want to be with. For how she had been treated.
JHo is a narcissist! Ben should have never married her. JHo, need to take a year off from dating and focus on her children and get to know herself. She's too thirsty!! She's really pathetic!! Poor kinds
2:00 'a weak excuse'? How? Marriage is a public affair. Everything is on the table- your past, present and future are legitimate factors in your partner's decision to stay or go, is it not? Her past coming back to haunt her, and possibly always coming back, is more than enough reason for him to walk away. You dont need a reason to leave. If you aint feeling it, you should simply leave. Imo ben has a lot more to lose than jlo, who made bad choices of whom to marry/date. Far as i know ben did not, or at least he has no female diddys in his past
Jlo! You are a beautiful lady, you got this girl, one day when time is right you will find Mr. Right who will love you for who you are,. Don't listen to Evil people everybody have a past , I am sorry that you are going thru Divorce, God Bless you , your greatest fan
Ben Affleck said terrible things about his ex-wife, mother of his three kids. Words hurt and they have to hurt their kids. That is the first red flag. The second is his distaste for the media and her endless love of it. They are two people that should never be together, not for love or movies.
Jlo played herself 😂
She's just mad that she didn't get to dump him first, he got to dump her first FOR THE SECOND TIME
@Katie_Woo That part!
That would cut deep.
Yes!!!!He dumped her twice
@aliciarodriguez5711 He used her up sexually, then DUMPED her!
@@Katie_Woo 🎯
I dnt care what JLO has to say, she chooses her career over her kids and her man every time…
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You are 💯! Marc should have never left his then wife, for JLo. She used him to get over Ben. I Believe she rather would have had Kids w/ Ben!!
My heart goes out to her Children and Marc’s Then wife- who he left JLO for.. She was devastated!! Heartbreaking 💔
Jen and Ben are the same type of people. While Ben was with Jennifer Garner, he slept with their nanny.
Jlo annoys me with her narcissism, but that doesn’t mean she should have to take care of a FIFTY year old alcoholic msn like he’s a drunk toddler.
Good for her ❤❤❤J.Lo xoxo
You marry a guy who hasn't conquered his addiction while being yourself a narcissist, of course it wasn't gonna work out. Garner was painted as jealous and tryna steal him by the media. If she goes back to him she's just as delusional as Lopez. She might also just be helping him because he's the father of her kids.
Stop. Garner has never been portrayed as anything other than the stand up mother of Ben's kids who only wants him to be well and be a good dad.
Get the hell out of here, I don’t care if Garner is the mother of his kids, she is really doing too much, going over Ben’s house without the kids, meddling all up in their business. I know damn well you ladies would have a problem with your man’s ex going over to his house alone on numerous occasions. And it ain’t got nothing to do with jealousy. Is just plain out right about respect! She knows what she’s doing, and so does Ben. 🙄
@@Isaidit129Don't be so worried and upset about it.
Jlo did thos to others so if it's all coming back to her, this is nothing compared.
If it's true she's trying to get A Rod back and he's in a relationship... go tell your girl jlo that worse is coming for going after taken men
@@RoseofSharon-2335👏👏👏👏 well said
@@RoseofSharon-2335 I really don’t give a damn about either one of them..
I think she loved him more than he loved her. He likes the idea of jlo.
She loved that she was married. Not him.
She likes the concept of being seen as loved by him.
Exactly!
For sure
He don't even LIKE The chick
JLo's not going to give up on love and Ben's not going to give up on Jack Daniels.
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"I always say, 'When his sun shines on you, you feel it.' But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it's cold. He can cast quite a shadow." - Jennifer Garner
Seems like J. Lo is experiencing this up close and personal. A second time.
Fool me once.... she's a fool!
So in other words, Ben is a narcissist
Remember that quote from Jennifer Garner!!
Jenny left the block because she thought the streets will stay giving her love. I dont care what she says.
I think Ben is the type of guy who wants what he wants until he gets it. Then he doesn’t want it anymore.
Yasss!!! You are 1000% right!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 He is so arrogant! He did all of that to say he could get her back and then boom....I'm done!
One year itch.
@@lisafulton3288 he needs to be blacklisted
Yep. He's a very confused man!!!
@@rainbowskies5796 i think blacklisting him is going too far... he's not the settle down kind of person and i think thats what ruined him... ben's not the kind of man that can be a good husband, father, as well as deal with his inner demons effectively. When it comes to Jlo, i think her selfish, diva nature triggers some of his more unfavorable characteristics.
New movie alert: “The Greatest Love Story No One Believed”
If we exhausted of her, I can only imagine what he is feeling. You can't make nobody want u.
It was the greatest love story that NEVER should've been told...
JLO needs to stay single and alone ! She needs to focus on her kids and her damn self!! She needs to 🛑 stop jumping man to man!
She is a total DIVA(acting).
My ex was always grumpy, men weaponize their mood, it's really untenable
Who wants a grumpy man. Ugh. And when they get old, they become even GRUMPIER! 🙂
This is marriage # 4 or 5 for her.She have 1 pregnancy and 2 kids out of it.Maybe engaged a million times.Sweetheart it is def looking like you are the problem.Sit down for a second and learn how to keep yourself company.I say, just hang it up with fairytale ending.Start learning to love yourself and stop looking for validation from a man.Your kids are too old at this point for you to be running around looking for a man.Focus on your kids Kim Kardashian's eldest sister.
Ben is not a saint! When he was married to Jen Garner, he slept eith the nanny.
...and JLO slept with married Marc Anthony knowing his wife was pregnant with their child.. So.....
@@Buddy-tq4ly.yup😊😊
@@Kg8f60 They were still together and she was pregnant when he left her. She said she was “devastated”. It’s one thing to have an affair and walk away from a marriage. It’s something entirely different to walk out on your pregnant wife.
The nanny! WTF!
@@Buddy-tq4lyJesus, that is beyond home wrecking.
if you don’t want to get painted as difficult, then stop being difficult.
it’s not rocket science!
It’s not rocket science, it’s sexism & racism. Ben Affleck is difficult AND an alcoholic AND a gambling addict AND cheated on his first wife with the nanny.
Two over rated narcissistic actors, with tons of baggage, thinking getting married would be a good thing. NOT...
Their union was doomed from the beginning.
JLo needed a man to complete her and Ben was looking for a sugar momma. It looked to me a marriage of convenience.
And it didnt take long for their marriage to explode magnificently.😮
Have you ever mentioned JGarner left her husband Scott Foley for Ben. This man is EVIL
Why is he evil if that's what she chose to do😅
JG was married to him then? I had no idea.
@@lisafulton3288 they both committed adultery. You reap what you sow always.
Ben Affleck did some wild things years ago. That was before the Internet took off. The rag mags were much more truthful during those times.
Ben was no slowpoke. He must have had confidence with women.
He is. Spirits lead him
Well if she wants to expose his secrets she needs to know that sword cuts both ways. Ben is definitely a POS but I’m so sick of people thinking it’s always the man whenever her relationships don’t go right. I just feel like she’s a super difficult person. I clocked JLo’s game years ago and been giving her the side eye.
Ben talking shit about JLO she should do the same. Ben is drunk alcoholic addict.
She has secrets right there was a Dominican model that was fierce competition with her and she basically played as if she was a mentor in this and that and instead said that grow up to be brutally, SSA by several men in trafficking and now she’s strung out on drugs people see her here and there and Washington Heights roaming around New York City and they think she’s crazy but these people are not crazy everything is coming to light
@@Kg8f60 she wasn’t alone…plenty of other Latinas she was being shady towards to get to where she is now. Not to mention stealing music intended for others. I’m not denying she hasn’t had it bad in the industry, but she definitely wasn’t alone. 😂
@tijadusenbery1877 Yep, Jho been dirty, she muddied her way to the top now, did others she thought were beneath her dirty & it’s caught up to her.
@@gorgeouslyjen you reap what you sow always. That is a law.
I bet Ben was going to those Diddler parties with Matt Damon, Leonardo DiCaprio and the rest of the A-Listers. Ben friends want him to ditch JLo so they can have leas light shed on them when all the indictments start. It might be scrubbed from the internet now but I do rwcall Puff buying both J-Lo and Ben matching Bentleys back in the day... Why for??? Were they all dating, just saying.
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Yes that’s when Ben started eying Jennifer at the Diddy parties and started taking an interest her. Ben and his brother Casey have their own pasts. Harvey Weinstein?
Good point!
3 sides to a story her side,his side,and the truth. Marriage is hard 😅
That's what my lawyer used to say 😅 it's true 👍
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Jenny from the block met her match❤
They are BOTH problematic. JLo, get over yourself.😑
@@Kg8f60 I admire her hustle and enjoy her work, particularly on the movie side BUT thru the years, her actions over and over make me give her side eye.
Move on! JLo
You wanna know how a woman really views herself, look at the man she’s in a relationship with.
And vice versa
Ben is a Big kid!!….who need a happy meal ever time he pull a tantrum!! He need to go sit down in a naughty corner in a tiny little chair!!😢😢😅😅
JLo please get help for you and your kids. Ben keep moving!
Why would JLo hook up with a cheater? Why would Ben hook up with a woman who loves celebrity and he loves his privacy? There was lust between them but lust doesn’t keep a relationship going.
Ben is a ouchebag 🥃 he's still drinking. He's about to spiral & take JLo, Jen & the kids with him. His mum will clean it up. Jen will be with someone by her birthday.
Where did you see him drink? So far he’s still sober.
No she's a Jho . Lol
@@patriciabouchard5296
While Jlo was in Italy, he was barreling down the driveway, got out of the car a yelled at the paps. It was when he was moving out. He had a few drinks, facts.
He had stop drinking only smoke cigarettes Stress pushed him. He treated her kids as his own just like his children. He is not perfect what man you know is perfect we tolerate certain things. Likes and dislikes and love each other respectfully. Wish the best to both find peace
@@LiquidSonshinedude, can you drive while a handful of paparazzi are blinding your view while taking flashing pictures of you!??
Let go and Let God. This man just wanted an excuse to leave. He just wants to drink. Period. He will always choose alcohol. Let J Garner give up her life to save him. Don’t look like she’s tired either. It’s time to walk away. This too shall pass. He knew what came with JLo lifestyle.
Never force a man into a relationship especially marriage it will never last natural love between the two persons and makes it worst a repeated onesided love .let J lo takes a break from the affair and relax with her two children and stop giving them problems with different faces moving from west coast to East coast with the disruptive life of the children. Let Ben go on with the life he choosed and turn your page J.Lo.
She’s behaving like a crazy lady. Who put out and shared private letters. She did!! Ben has his shortcomings, but she knew them going into the marriage. She’s too occupied going to the gym, “working harder” than everyone else.
Ben is Looking for Any Excuse to say it’s all her Fault???
She should've stayed away from Ben. He's a miserable person and he only wants to be with her when she's doing well professionally
You don't think she used Diddy? Let's not give him so much credit. @mikegammon1
Ben is the one who chased after her both times.
@mikegammon1she’s worth twice as much as Ben, what are you talking about?
Both are toxic.
Ben is a jerk
Ohhh! It all makes sense now! Poor fragile Ben has his sensitive, insecure ego bruised when he learned she was friendly & helping Diddy. He is so immature & miserable to go around talking *ish about her. It makes me sick how Ben was not even willing to work on his marriage.
I agree Ben is just as bad at relationships as JLo he is a miserable drunk, with a big attitude problem. The only thing he likes about JLo is her ass!
People just wants to blame JLo for everything, meanwhile, Ben is a bag full of problems.
I only faulted her for going back to him
Both had serious problems and besides not being meant to be, getting together piled up problems over their already problems and both messed up.
The problem is not wanting to see it and instead of letting go trying to force something that isn't. You have to be very crazy to want to doom yourself that way and then try to say it's the other person's fault when in reality it's both.
It's better to say "I made a mistake and I was warned by my friends and fans, sorry" than to keep pride and say I tried to work things out knowing well it wouldn't ever but trying to make yourself look like the one who tried but he didn't... that's the stupidity she comes out with and always trying to day they're cheaters
Exactly!💯 She truly believed him, and he played her once again. He is probably saying, " I tried! I really tried" No he didn't! He went after her, got what he wanted, and then he was done. She just fell for it. First time shame on them, second time shame on you.
Ben seems such a miserable man whenever he’s seen with J Lo. I feel it’s something within him. He never seems happy.
Never allow a man to quit you twice.
Ben is her karma for ALL of the people she has mistreated. And she is his karma...
Ben has always been portrayed as a literal Butthead on South Park along with his parents. Why? His 20 year flailing career? His continuing substance abuse? His perpetual resting long face? His lack of emotional, professional & relational integrity? His reliance on an expensive PR team to minimize, infantilize & and deflect from any of his missteps? (a la Justin Timberlake)
Well, take your pick. Any Jennifer or otherwise named hopeful, would be well advised to admire or co parent from afar.
Totally agree 👍
He’s definitely not relationship material! Women need to stay away!
Stupid Ben should spend his money on psychotherapy not PR. He has a personality disorder.
They both Leo’s it usually don’t work 2 lions !!
omg I couldn't imagine being with another Leo. I'm already enough all on my own 😅
Then to make it worse they both are Scorpio moon. The have the same sun and moon sign. Both are messy and mean. One is not better than the other.
@@theresaruiz-dn1pe 💀 what a nightmare coupling
As a Leo, 1000% agree. Its not like other signs. One has to love being submissive at all times, and usually neither want to completely submit all the time.
My mom and my dad are Leo's 😂😂😂 only the strong survive 😅
It's shallow to get down and dirty. She should show some class and move on gracefully.
She may have riches but the one thing JLO does NOT have is “class”
For her age she’s very immature in the way she goes about romantic partners.
Beware of a woman scorned!
That's how it happens sometimes in relationships where when the promises to change one's way and the crying and begging doesn't work, THAT'S when the anger comes out and the threats begin. If there's truth to this, Jlo will go there 'cause her ego can't take it, she's not used to being dumped, and she refuses to look like the bad guy by herself, so Ben better look out and get ready 'cause her vindictiveness is coming for him. However, if he's that kind of person, too, then she better be on the lookout as well 'cause it goes both ways. This may get nasty!
Tisa Jo Lo decided to marry Ben. She went after him she knew he was a addict. I dont care what she has to say.
Should have never gone to the past. I always say, they call them an ex for a reason.
You said a mouthful 😂 so so true
Narcissists always recycle old supplies
@@annmaddock4569 If the old supply allow it.
Hopefully Diddy should take her with him She used Arod's Connections JIo is ! Difficult & Cheap 😈😈😈
Yeap my dad would say.....u don't drive n reverse do u😮
No going back to the ex!
Ben didn't want to be in the spotlight. He goofed by getting back with JLo.
If shes still talking to Diddy id bounce too
Ive said FROM THE JUMP she went after him because hes weak and she thought she can control him. Hes an addict and shes a control freak. Control freaks cant control strong minded people. Ben caved in thinking she can help him. I think hes broke too. She wanted him for her image to still be sexy since she cant be alone . Jlo isnt in love with love . Shes in love with the idea of power couple in marriage.
A weak excuse? If she really did toss that gun and been covering up and being involved in a crime. I would have a problem with that.
I'm wondering about the statute of limitations on that one🤔
Tisa, please explain love bombing in one of your videos so your followers will understand how Ben played her AND Jen Garner, and probably the nanny too. I don’t care for JLo’s narcissism or exploitation of black women’s voices. (I’m a black womsn.) However, I think some of the sexism and unstated but implied racism in the comments are going too far.
We need to be able to critique Jlo’s narcissism without being so horribly sexist.
TISA TISA GIRL SPILL THE TEA NOW
The wife is always at fault, especially if the man has an addiction. People said the same about his other Jennifer. Angelina is to blame for Brad. Amber for Johnny. Men bare none of the blame and get all of the empathy
It's because women seem almost programmed to put up with bad behaviors in men and think it is normal and good. Men will always be "over" women, and women are always "pining" after men, catering to their needs.
Jennifer Gardner said they were separated for two years when he got with the nanny.
Ben cheated on JG? He’s No Angel ???? Everyone forgets what he did TO HIS WIFE Jennifer Garner that all of you say he Loved her so much more than Jlo ????
Jlo has her issues but no one wants to deal with his Issues ??? I blame her she picked him ??? We sometimes as Women Need to be Held Accountable for OUR Choices????
Absolutely 💯
Said the same Tisa. He don't look right. His actions 2...🍺🥂🍾.Ben wanted out. Found a easy excuse
And let’s not forget he cheated on Jennifer Lopez with Jennifer Gardner I could always see through him she probably just wanted to make it work for her children!
If Ben got back with her to enhance his failing career the thing with diddy could have triggered his detaching from JLo. If he loved her this should not have made him leave.
Ben doesn't have a failing career. He's a writer, actor, producer, and director. She's a mediocre talent.
I think he got back with her to try to make it up to her for breaking her heart and hoped she could help him stay sober. He knew she’d been carrying a torch for him all those years. I think his intentions were good but he couldn’t cut it. The paparazzi were 10 times worse than before. Again he looks like a fool.
Tisa don't sleep!.. (yawn) literally. 😋
Love your hair.🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤❤❤
And lipstick 💄 💋
JLo needs to just move on and let everybody see it. Ben is a horrible man! I don't know what these women see in him? He's always looking for an excuse to drink and this time it's JLo. He's a child. He needs to grow up.
Jenny with the Glock
The Man is a mess it's better to get out of this Jlo. Otherwise you'll be a mess as well. You get together with champion not with mess people.
JLO,
Ben is not the right person for you he is just playing game with you and using you.
Get rid of him you will be much happier his been in rehab back and forth.
Don't give him a single penny.
Ben is like the FEDS talking to JLo about Diddy. Ben Affleck is like good bye.
Mad because she’s been dumped!!
I like jlo and I wish her and ben would make it. I think it's sad people would want someone to divorce and to thrive on other people's pain.
Where is Tisa getting all of this info? Is it even true?
I be wondering that to because the articles surrounding Ben and J-Lo are not on the internet
I ask myself that all time. Like how do you even know this, and it’s said so matter of fact it helps to feel like it’s real, who knows I take it with a grain of salt
Of course its on the internet u have to kno how where to loook... and she succinctly states when its her opinion...
Tisa's 🫖 isss the best ‼️👌🏾
Tisa🫖 isss the best‼️Of course its on the internet u have to kno how where you need to loook
Tisa always states succinctly when its her opinion...🎉🎉🎉❤
@Q_Sosa all you have to do is Google JLo and you'll see all the latest celebrity news and gossip
I feel sorry for her kids. J Lo has set-up her children to promise them a family and it doesn't happen
The Accountant was a good movie. I'm looking forward The Accountant 2. He will be ok.
That was a good movie. Ben was great.
Hey, Tisa!🔍 The sooner JLo realizes she's the problem and deals with it, the happier she'll be. Did she forget about TikTokkers who hate her? Also media hosts who can't stand her? Lest we forget ALL the fans who she turned away with her attitude? As long as JLo treats people like mess, she will be branded difficult. In or out of her marriage💔
Both of them are Leo's. It gonna be hard for them to get along in a harmonious way and yes she is full of drama. Ben ain't innocent hun he is a leo male. LOl!
ALMOST HALF A MILLION ,FAM. like and share.
She never should have went back to him. I get that sometimes we want to prove the world wrong and have our happy ending with the person they said it would never work with. But he talked soooo bad about her after the 1st time.
Ben has demons in his closet...it ain't her ‼️‼️‼️
Yes he does.😢
jlo by all accounts is a trash person. I've heard no such things about ben
Both of them do. JLO did not get where she is at being a saint.
He was married to Garner, who was a devoted family woman for someone who was devoted only to herself. His life is a mess. All self inflicted.
I don’t know why Jlo made him so Big ??? He’s not all that ? They keep saying he got all these awards that was a 100 years ago ??? He’s not a Good Actor ??? I don’t care for him ? To me he’s Racist????
Lol...😂😂😂😂😂
Supposedly his whole family is racist and that’s why he didn’t marry her the first time and instead married white
Is he "tryin" to make her look bad? Because rumours existed about her "off" moments. No-one's PERFECT.
They COULD HAVE Both tried to be better People and work Charities together and BOTH come up ON TOP.
But he JUMPED SHIP.
WHY?
LEAVING Her High and DRY, but ALSO, in saying that He was crazy for MARRYING Her.... implies that She's even crazier than his alleged "temporary insanity" because She must be Someone whom EVEN He CAN'T Work-It-Out WITH....--And he's a REASONABLE an EASY-GOING FELLA, right?!
That's a MESSED UP IMPLICATION for him to make. DANG!
Ben is gone JLO it's over.
Roasted Dandelion tea will get you off coffee. 7 years free of it!😊👊🏾
She's so guilty that she wants revenge.
Y would Ben need to use her for her celebrity ism. He's already got it AND he doesn't even like to be in the spotlight. not even for his own film success. Thought?
HE NEVER WANTED TO SERIOUSLY MARRY HER HE WAS BACKING OUT OF IT, THEN HERE COMES THIS JUSTICE OF THE PIECE WEDDING, THAT WAS TO RUSH HIS TAIL TO THE ALTER . HASTE MAKES WASTE
@@Kg8f60It was probably HER idea to get married quickly in Vegas before he changed his mind.
Sis you are glowing ✨️ are you expecting ✨️?
Oh Gawd Noooooooo!😂
Can’t she just “be glowing”?!
I had a dream of fishes! 🐟🐠🐟 She's been glowing all week. It could also just be hot girl summer! 🏖
@@ThestuffthatSaralikes
Yes, and two things can be true at once.
You never ask a woman that!
Not a fan of Jlo but Ben seemed selfish and entitled.
Ben was looking for an excuse to ditch JLO. He's a drunk. She's better off without him.
He's better off without her😂😂😂
Tisa you are so Right about Ben ???? Jlo needs to Held Accountable she Picked 7:20 the Loser Ben??? Let the Loser Go ??? Bye Ben that’s what I say ???? Bye??????????
I think these two are both sex and love addicts, but I do think she was willing to work things out and he wasn’t having it. On her part she was going on tour and Ben most likely didn’t like the idea. They should have had a long engagement just to make sure this would work out.
Ben was always a player .
Tisa,
I thinkbyoubtruly come off On Ben Affleck. But JLo has really messed up a lot of people are lr lives. Becsusebin my opinion dhr always had allegedly had Pid diddy in her back pocket. J-Lo wants to act as if she is On top of her games. J-Lo own children said that they no longer want to be with. For how she had been treated.
JHo is a narcissist! Ben should have never married her. JHo, need to take a year off from dating and focus on her children and get to know herself. She's too thirsty!! She's really pathetic!! Poor kinds
Tisa! The hair, makeup and jewelry. Babe you look so good ❤
Gurl u be breaking down these psychological profiles and motivations. You are an old soul wise beyond your years
2:00 'a weak excuse'? How? Marriage is a public affair. Everything is on the table- your past, present and future are legitimate factors in your partner's decision to stay or go, is it not? Her past coming back to haunt her, and possibly always coming back, is more than enough reason for him to walk away.
You dont need a reason to leave. If you aint feeling it, you should simply leave. Imo ben has a lot more to lose than jlo, who made bad choices of whom to marry/date. Far as i know ben did not, or at least he has no female diddys in his past
Jlo! You are a beautiful lady, you got this girl, one day when time is right you will find Mr. Right who will love you for who you are,. Don't listen to Evil people everybody have a past , I am sorry that you are going thru Divorce, God Bless you , your greatest fan
Tisa, you are looking beautiful!!🌟👏🏻👀👏🏻🌟🥰👍🌟 I always get a kick out of how you always start your show!!🤩👍Love your deep dives!😊👍
They probably got dirt on each other 🤷🏾♀️
Tisa I agree with you. You said it all.
Ben Affleck said terrible things about his ex-wife, mother of his three kids. Words hurt and they have to hurt their kids. That is the first red flag. The second is his distaste for the media and her endless love of it. They are two people that should never be together, not for love or movies.