I’ve been saying this 😂 he’s such a damn baby, he needs his mom, his kids’ mom, and his est friend to cushion his entire life at the tender age of 50+ these emotionally stunted celebrities are so out of touch
I hate Ben for making me defend Jlo but I don’t like how she he treats her. I don’t like how his family acts like he’s better than her when she’s not the drug addict.
J LO was so desperate to get the “White Validation” & thought running back to a washed up Ben would do it for her. This man has NEVER really wanted her , she was always an option that he played with . She has made herself look like an absolute fool with no self esteem or awareness. Ben’s family & his “circle of friends” have NEVER respected or liked J LO. What part is not clicking for her 😒😒😒😒
Bruh! You said it all and I agree I mean I would classify JLo as a white latina idc but she is what they call a dark white and getting with Ben who is like English Dutch German ancestry Id presume for her was a step up lol I agree and I never even got the impression she was his type like that I think she was something fun and different for him but I been saying this lady plays in the dark arts thats been confirmed and I am convinced she did some love spell on Ben that backfired and hes come to his senses
Ben pursued JLo because she was in relationships with Cris Judd and ARod. He liked the challenge of getting her but not the work of maintaining a relationship. JLo is stupid because after the first break-up, she should've paid him dust.
Ben used JLo for publicity? She had to have 2 weddings. She has a great work ethic but she is a fool when it comes to men. I believe her one time BFF (Leah Remini) told her not get involved with Ben again. She is going to end up like Madonna in a few years. Dating backup dancers and giving them an allowance so they can take her out....Oh I forgot, she's done that twice.
I'm a recovering addict and the first thing I had to do was take accountability for my own actions & not blame someone else or something else for my addiction because I have a list of reasons I could use to justify why I used drugs but I wouldn't have almost 9 years sober if I continued to do that so you are right about that. If Ben doesn't realize he's the problem then he will never stay sober.
JLo shouldn't have ever went back to that man he wasn't happy after they married you saw it and the way he was treating her she just wanna be known as a married woman can't do without a man this is so sad...
@@tobywarner7902 I saw a clip of them at some award show. She was lighting into him, very unhappy. Then she turned away, glanced over, and noticed the camera was on her. She immediately leaned back into him, and started laughing. Illusion! Optics! Fake!
Ben Affleck is such a dysfunctional, immature creep. Matt Damon needs to shut up because he only knows what Ben complains about. JLo loves Ben. It is sooo unnecessary to talk *ish about your partner when you split. Ben needs to grow up & get right with himself.
Your opinion but devaluing men’s feelings and labeling them unnecessary is the reason why men hurt woman. We sometimes have parent or siblings mom to talk to. It’s only ok for females ? Bullshit. Life’s hard. Men need to talk and open up more we all complain about our partners at times. Kettle much lol they just didn’t fit together
This woman is stil living in the past 😕 she is still living in 2002 🙄 she failed to realize tbat the world has moved on and NO ONE CARES ANYMORE 😆 She is delusional 😅
Jennifer Gardner said they were already separated when he was with the nanny. It doesn't make it right but Gardner clarified it herself. No one knows what really goes on behind closed doors. All speculation
How can he. With a narcissist who just cares about what she wants. Think she’s attempting to go to meetings with him ? In person or virtual I bet she never has.
Agree. No one can make him either. He said he's against 12-step meetings, sobriety is a solo effort. So there's no sponsor to ask for help and no one he has to be accountable to...except maybe a wife. Now he fixed that!
@@shanaperry2210Excuses. People made excuses when he was with Jennifer Garner who was incredibly supportive and literally held his hand into rehab. He repaid her by cheating. JLo isn’t perfect but Ben is a an asshole…and a drunk.
@@eb4676 Most people self medicate and these comments and hash tags is me just being funny u don’t know either of them. I wish them the best I just think when it’s not organic for either and we’re forced to be shown compromises it’s just not gonna end well. Most everyone I know self medicate whether it’s their wine at night whether it’s there Medication during the day scratch coffee everyone has some kind of coping skills that they shouldn’t be utilizing and they should find healthier ways to cope, but if you’re not taught that, especially coming from Irish families like Ben and I are from, we actually were born in the same town, my uncle, had his mother for a teacher and loved her Irish families who literally drink and have no skills and I’m not condoning his behavior because of that I’m just pointing out if you’re not resilient enough to look through that and do the work on your own, but some people justhave been raised for so long and families that way that they just don’t know any better until it becomes a real bad problem
his brother didnt even go to the wedding. jlo's first love is attention, always has been, always will be. dont understand why ben thought she would be different. she loves the spotlight and he loves his privacy. she's "look at me everybody, i'm here," while he's busy ducking the paparazzi. this was doomed from the beginning.
Girl, when Ben blamed J Garner for his last relapse, JLO said she was fine with what he said. AND no one has heard him say anything negative about JLO this time around soooo..we haven't even heard Matt say anything about JLO. The PR team plant seeds and know the bloggers are going to water the seeds. Hoping, the audience will go alone with whatever the blogger says..it's so obvious.
@@lostwoods5687 and id love to know, just how I’m treating a “woman” LMAO 🤣 ALL I said was factual statement I don’t attach my personal feelings to people I don’t know. I see all sides. People period need to Stop complaining about no good men around if they’re part of the problem. They don’t and won’t all walk on water or even being decent until they’re told it’s okay to hurt it’s ok to not be ok we got you.
Ben told her he didn’t want their relationship in the spotlight this time. She doesn’t listen, making an album, movie, and a docudrama about their love story! Not to mention giving copies of a very personal gift to everyone to read! She blew this relationship up herself by not listening to Ben, and doing what she wanted instead.
Can we remember that J. Lo is the one that was called out for dissing the BLACK back up dancers during the Grammy’s Motown tribute?!?! Cover for J. Lo. who has NO BLACK roots and STEALS from BLACK and Latino artist while happily dragging Drake who BIOLOGICAL father is actually BLACK! WoW, OK!!!
Ive heard plenty of gossip blinds that Matt never liked her not to mention Matt apparently has had a crush on Jen Garner for decades in my opinion which is super awkward imaging being in love with your bffs wife? LOL
He was really in love with Jen Garner and did not want to split from her it was Jen who initiated the divorce because she could not deal with his substance issues and gambling but if Ben had his way they would never have broken up Im convinced that was his true love
@Model_Roe He didn't love Jen Gardner. He married her because she got knocked up after dating for 5 months. And his drinking increased after marrying her. He also humiliated her and thanked her for putting up with him because marriage was hard work while accepting an award. He also cheated with the nanny and Blake Lively (in my opinion) before she married Ryan Reynolds when they were in that movie together. Right after Jen Gardner had her first child, he left her to attend the Emmys alone. He didn't even want to walk the red carpet with her. He also engaged to Gwyneth Paltrow. He only loves himself and shouldn't be married period. He would have not married Jen G if she hadn't of gotten pregnant. And I am obtaining my doctorate and we always have to cite proof or evidence about what we are claiming or saying-hence the long dissertation paragraph.
@@mushmouth610 doctorate or not you know him personally? lol grow up auntie of course he loved her he did not want to split from her and as for referencing his other relaitonships I was not there I was not born I am assuming you were and more power to you but again he definitely did love her
I know as women we don’t like to call a spade a spade, yes Ben Afflek has his issues, red flag and wrongs but he’s been married one time previous to Jen Gardner and JLO has been married 4 or 5 times now going on her 4th or 5th Divorce she is the common denominator in all these marriages and divorces JLO is the problem. The average man you can’t run them and women definitely can’t change them and Ben Afflek is one of them. His relationships were not marriages only Jen Garner, Ben is not a likable person, but JLO is the common denominator in all her marriages and divorces painting Ben as this monster doesn’t change that. JLO and Ben are both unlikable, both aren’t friendly people, both are dominant, both of them have flawed personalities, both are damaged goods and it was a recipe for disaster.
The first 2 marriages, she was young and impetuous. With Marc, he’s macho and unfaithful. Elizabeth Levya came between him and Dayanara and then came between him and Jennifer. Marc’s been married more than Jennifer and had more children than her so what does that say about his track record? Arod’s a serial cheater. Ask Jose Canseco. Now Ben started with the “fever dream remarks.” Ben has his reputation of smoking, gambling, card cheating, drinking, womanizing and trying to pick up younger woman. But sure blame the woman but the men aren’t innocent.
@@shellyt1983 I didn’t say men are innocent nor did I say Ben was innocent and the truth of matter she is the common denominator. You just gave several reasons to justify JLO’s poor decision making and actions she’s made, it’s everyone else’s fault why the marriages ended but hers, I recall her fist husband she left for P Diddy he was hurt! Chris Judge she left him for Ben Afflek he spoke out how hurt he was and she was cheating on him for Ben. Marc Anthony seems like he doesn’t even like JLO even when they were married. Justifying JLO doesn’t excuse the fact that she is the common denominator and if JLo a man with 4 marriages and divorces he would be torn to shreds not justified. It’s clear people just don’t like Ben and willing to look over JLO the only difference Ben has had only one previous marriage. Both Jen and Ben are equally as bad as, damaged and a mess in their own right, it was a marriage they came with a recipe for disaster. Call them both out.
@@Rareness Jennifer wasn’t an angel in her first 2 marriages. In her other 2 marriages and her engagement to Arod it wasn’t entirely her fault as I noted in my earlier post. Two men were unfaithful while Ben knew full well what he was getting into when he married Jennifer. Jennifer is getting more of the blame while Ben is getting more sympathy because he’s only been married one time and heading for his second divorce. He’s not been satisfied with Garner, Lindsay Shookus and Anna DeArmas. He has many demons. Jennifer’s not the one and only common denominator.
@@shellyt1983 I never said it was her fault, but it’s clear that people don’t like Ben Affleck so it has to be his entire fault the marriage ended, videos clips I seen of them at events she talking him crazy you can tell by the lip movement and body language, men don’t put up with that, from what I recall Marc Anthony is the one who filed for divorce and they don’t seem to even get along, they don’t even acknowledge each other not even as parents and that’s very telling. Jen has issues, she’s damaged and she went into the marriage with it, her and Arod was split 5 minutes and she was with Ben and according to talk… she left Arod for Ben. Ben was damaged as well and with his share of issues and again, recipe for disaster and look at now. Women cannot control and change men it’s been proven and men can’t expect women to put up with their mess, shenanigans and behaviors. Okay Ben is headed for his second and Jen her 4th. Many people have spoken out how cold, mean and nasty attitude Jen has perhaps she’s this way in her marriages and for the type of men that she marry that will not work.
@@RarenessYour OP post mentioned that Jennifer was the common denominator and that she was the problem. That seemed to say that it was all her fault. 🤔From posts that I’ve read many are siding with Ben. As for the lip movements and body language that’s on both of them not just Jennifer. Ben’s tossed drinks at papps, he’s been seen flailing his arms at Jennifer when they’ve been sitting in their car and slamming her door. Not good body language. Marc filed for divorce from Jennifer but it doesn’t negate his unfaithfulness. He and Dayanara were both unfaithful to each other which caused their divorce. Marc got along with Jennifer’s exes, Casper Smart and Arod but not with Ben.🤔She wouldn’t have split with Arod if he hadn’t been texting another woman. In your last paragraph in your last post it seems that again most of the blame is being placed on Jennifer. All the previously mentioned have their faults. No Jennifer’s not innocent and Ben certainly isn’t either. Take it easy!
Matt Damon also married Latina when i thought everyone against Ben with Jlo and wants him with white girl. Ben always run away from problems instead of resolves it. He did same thing to Garner, Lindsay Shookus and Ana De Armas.
Ben doesn’t have eleven hundred failed marriages under his belt though. Just saying. None of Ben’s people ever liked JLO. That was as true 20 years ago as it is now. Ben was a huge benefit to her career 20 years ago. The publicity she got from their relationship helped give her A list status…And that’s one of the main reasons she went back. He’s the only Hollywood A list man who would go anywhere near her.
Listen, it’s obvious that you don’t like JLo. But that doesn’t make what you’re saying about her career true. JLo was already famous when she met BA. She had already done Selena (filmed in 1997) and at the time, was the first Latina to be paid $1,000,000 for a role in a film. Furthermore, she had already released her very well received On the 6 album - released in 1999. In January 2001, she had the number one film, Wedding Planner, and the number one album Jlo, her second album. She didn’t meet BA until later in 2001 on the set of Gigli which was disastrous! She was doing fantastic until he and that movie came around. The fact is that whenever he’s been around her, her career takes a hit.
@elenor It’s ok if you don’t like her, but you can’t rewrite history because someone on tik tok told you that they heard a friend of a friend of a friend say something about someone. Come on, now. How old are you? Stop it.
Yes! We heard how Bens mom didn't like her and Matt didn't like her either the first time 20 yrs ago. It was a relief for them it was said and they told him how they didnt like jlow. I seem to remember Matt even kinda stayes out of Bens life while the first time was happening, Matt was hanging out with other celeb dudes, I remember wondering if they weren't friends anymore. Then the breakup happened and those stories came out and I was like. Oh, thats why they didnt hang out. Its jlow, halley berry had the same problem both were doing this in out of relationship thing. Seems Halle just chilled out. Jlow still at it.
Everyone is in the comments talking about Jlo being married four times too many, but Ben being married to JG for a decade is a credit to her for putting up with him. Ben probably cheated multiple times and he wasn’t going to leave mommy JG and pay alimony and child support. Men stay and make a woman’s life hell. It seems like he played Jlo once again, and that’s why I don’t believe in spinning the block. If it was right it would have worked the first go around.
You’re so Right ???? I agree with you ????? Matt doesn’t know Jlo ??? Why is he chiming in ???? He needs to pay attention to his Family and shut up about other people’s problems?? I don’t like him or Ben ????
Jen is into dark arts this has been confirmed she is very much into witchcraft and I am convinced she did some spell on Ben that backfired and hes coming to his senses
Ben is the issue, Damon clearly is blinded by bro code. Jlo isn't perfect, but he lovebombed her as a desperate fool, common in addicts, addicted to infatuation, gambling, smoking, booze, young nannies cheater... seriously issue Jlo had was, why did she accept that? Desperate also... they deserved each other 😂 noone gonna touch Ben with ten foot poke with his history. Whatever happened to his nanny girlfriend that caused Garner divorce... Ben is nuts
As if ARod wanted her? LOL she not even ARods type bruh anybody who followed the Ynakees in the 00s knows ARods type are blondes half JLos age and half her size Jose Canseco on Vlad TV said himself JLo was too fat and too old for ARod I think that was just for PR
Jlo putting out an alcoholic beverage brand & jlo knowing Ben is an alcoholic not very wise decision!!! Jlo being a diva, demanding & controlling would drive someone like Ben to drink!!!
Delola was already in the works before she got back with Ben again. It was the brainchild of Arod and Jennifer. Besides Garner admitted to drinking a lot of wine during her marriage to Ben.
As an addict, he’s the one that has to get used to living in the real world. You cannot blame others if they drink or have a business such as DeLola or whatever it’s called. His sobriety is HIS responsibility and no one else’s. Blaming JLo is absurd. Si if he goes to a restaurant and people are drinking , are they and the restaurant to blame for his addiction? He needs to get into treatment and get a sponsor. It is the only way. My relative was an alcoholic and once he got sober he never missed a meeting. He was still going to meetings up until he died at 76. Addiction is a lifelong battle. BA’s alcoholism is no exception.
@@bridgetsweeney1391 Adding that many were angry when Ben blamed Garner for his drinking on the couch during their marriage yet don’t have a problem blaming Jennifer. Hypocrisy? 🤔
@Spiritualtiva , Could be . I think a lot of men and women have this issue because it would ruin their lives and careers. I’ve learned not to doubt these things because of experience. Most women ignore these things because they want the man no matter what. Which fits perfectly into what their guy wants to portray.
You right but women don’t want to see the truth..a lot of these men wanna be with man.their Homies most of time’s no woman can ever satisfy them..such women always waisting their time and womb for ignoring these like Jennifer Garner and Jennifer Lopez
Sorry Tisa, love you, don't like Jlo. She sounds like a nightmare,and it seems she has a dark side, ,and built her career by using black talents like Ashanti Ben,,don't know why, makes me feel like mothering him. . Any man that shows his mum. His children, his childhood friends so much love and respect , can't be that bad in my books. Jlo eats men up for breakfast , chews them out by lunchtime, start chewing another one again teatime and is done by dinner. Sorry she fell so bad for Ben, she is obviously one of those women who only love a man who is mean to them, gets bored if you are too nice. Poetic justice
Didn't J Lo buy that alleged sixty million dollar house Ben moved out of? I would not be stuck with that loss. As for Matt Damon, the only one who knows the truth about what happened in the house are the ones in it. Jen Garner was seen too much with Ben. Maybe she was trying to help him. Maybe she like the pics of him spending so much time with her. It did not look right. It look like J Lo got played.
Hey, Tisa!🔍 It's still on JLo. She knew who Ben was then and now. If he's so horrible, why is she trying so hard to hold onto him? If she wasn't so busy looking for outside approval she could find it inside and sever ties with Ben once and for all💔
There are so many reasons she wanted to hold on to him and all are malevolent. Jlo don't love Ben nor anyone else and her evil took it away from her so she's not able to love just use to gain fame which is why she does witchcraft and lives for it and always was willing to do anything for it. Maybe soon she'll change after knowing she's been wasting her time in all that
Date Arod to get under Ben’s skin? If that is her plan, girl bye! He couldn’t care less. He moved his stuff out while she was out of the country. That speaks volumes. How many times has this act happened in the real world? We move our sh*t out when the soon to be ex isn’t home because we don’t want to have an encounter w/ them. Why, cause it turns into drama. JLow needs to put her big girl pants on, scrape up what little dignity she can muster up and walk away period! No need to stick around LA. Her Attorneys can take care of it from here. As for Ben, JG will clean up his mess once again. There is always someone in an alcoholic’s life do it. Both of them are two highly toxic individuals. This saga is getting pathetic.
It’s Ben.. Ben..! Yes he has some issues. However what’s with JLo and all these men before Ben. At least with Ben you have the wife, the nanny and one other. Let’s count the men. Things didn’t work out with JLo and Ben stop blaming. She will move on to the next one and that’s not only to work. JLo will never keep a man and be happy. In my opinion she needs Therapy.
Tisa you are forgetting that Matt Damon’s wife was a waitress. She has no problem playing stay at home mom. How’s he going to compare marrying a waitress to someone as successful and her setting as JLO
when jlo didn't want to wear the pink diamond engagement ring from the first time Ben gave and he had to buy another engagement green diamond ring for her that's when Matt Damon warned him
Jlow USES Everyone, Tisa: leave Ben alone,! Would disparage her as well. Do you know who JLow is, really? It’s clear you @hate” Ben. So Have you ever been with an alcoholic? Ben is not the problem! You should explore these damning stuff you say, I can’t with you. , Jlow is low key a disaster that’s contagious, she wants an Oscar so bad,?she thought Ben was her ticket to an Academy Award. Stop dumping on Ben Ben is a Leo with Cancer aspects, JLow just ain’t good for anyone but JLow
A fortune chaser? 😂😂😂 She’s worth a half a billion dollars. She doesn’t need to chase any fortunes. In fact, she’s worth more than her spouse. She doesn’t need anyone’s money.
@@lostwoods5687 Well, fortune in the sense about climbing the Hollywood ladder 🪜 to fame and fortune. It worked out for her. She's always looking for someone to attach herself to in order to advance herself.
Matt Daman doesn’t like Jlo ? Ben has No LOYALTY to Anyone ????? You Right Ben doesn’t hold himself Accountable?? He Blamed JG the ex wife that Everyone says he Loves her ??? Really he is a Cheater ?????
WHO is MATT DAMON. We just have one GOD .Do not make him feel like one .He better keep his mouth shut .Because life is full of surprice .when some laughs others cries.
Ben, aged so much in those 2 years, she made him get Botox shots, that made him look even worse. Ben is a hot mess, but he still had the balls to dump her.😮
It's funny the title of this video makes it sound like Matt Damon is just looking out for his friend, but then you're trashing him and Ben the whole video!! LOL. Jen is crazy, she can't be alone and looking for love in all the wrong places. Ben is crazy, he's an addict too. Matt Damon is a stand up guy.
And now you’re mad at Tisa because she’s making some very good points that no one bothers to make? She’s actually calling ALL of the parties involved, but people have gotten so used to only trashing JLo and coddling Ben, his ex, his friends.
I disagree! I think he wanted a quiet life. This guy Tisa, for a gift printed all there correspondence from day one and put it in order in an album. Emails. Everything. He’s private! She gives it to producers and 3 staff on her reality show. Bill ishhhhhh that’s cruel and class less. If I was with her I’d prob drink too. Who does that? Narcissist. Ever been with them? I was with 1! Enough. Awful. Not everyone does their 12 steps dude. And addiction is real. Be happy you don’t wake up every day and addict. Give that a break unless you know. He said he’s not blaming anyone sometimes I’m weak. And making fun of an addict or being insensitive is bully time stuff I’m just saying. Love you girl but J Lo isn’t a good person. She’s a narcissist thank goodness for Matt. No one is determined to relapse its addiction. Every. Friggin. Day. But okay girl. I love you a bit more diplomatically but I got mad love for ya
Ben deserves a good friend- why does everyone not liking this broad have to be the bad guy? JLo is loving all this media scrutiny and didn’t she MIstreat Ben’s daughter. And hasn’t Marc Anthony resumed custody of Emme and Max? Why - you want to blame Ben as well!
Remember that Ben said it was Jennifer Garner's fault that he was an alcoholic - that was when he was leaving Jen for JLo. It's always the womans fault. Poor baby Ben. He's always the innocent victim.
When did Ben leave Jen for J-Lo? When J-Lo and Ben got back together the second time, Ben was divorced from Jen. When Ben’s first relationship with J-Lo was ending, he cheated with Jen before he broke his relationship with J-Lo.
Jlo is a New Yorker... don't mess with her. She's successful and they are all jealous of her. When you are on top...you are stressed. Ben is an alcoholic and will never change.
😂 sure, you mean Jenny from the block? The one that the Bronx disowned? Sure, her disaster relationship with Ben is because people are jealous of her. If you know, you.🤣
JLO knew what she was about to jump into from the start, she is addicted to herself as much as Ben is addicted to alcohol as a matter of fact Ben was drunk the day they got married “allegedly”
Sounds like Ben doesn’t want to be in a serious relationship, after Jennifer G divorce he should have figured out that he’s not the marrying type, he should have just remained a player
JLo is universally disliked in the industry. She treats drivers, maids, etc. like dirt. She stole the voices of talented WOC and claimed those voices as her own. She developed her own alcoholic drink while married to Ben, even though he’s an alcoholic and she doesn’t drink. She made that horrible documentary about herself and insisted on involving Ben despite his desire to stay out of the public eye. She charged a fortune for tickets to her world tour, which was also a colossal failure. Ben’s an alcoholic and probably a jerk, but JLo is a self-absorbed narcissist.
JLO should not have made that entire movie and documentary about him... you could see him cringing in the "greatest love story never told" footage, he was like "isn't it being told tho" LOL... he already had one foot out the door.... you can't center a man, JLO -- especially not a man like that, c'mon!!!
This is so sad, when Ben got together with Jlo 2 years ago, Jlo was in the top part of her career and Ben was very low, low, low, and very alcoholic, and jlo helped him to reach one of his movies...and now that Jlo did not sell anything, he decided to broke up with her, isn't that ironic?
I would feel highly disrespected if my husband looked completely miserable whenever he was in my presence. That was red flag number one. Ben can muster a smile around his ex wife, best friend, hell he seemed so happy with his ex girlfriend. He only looks miserable when he is jlo’s gravitational pull.
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Matt Damon is Ben's true love 😂
Exactly...why don't they get married? Pop yo kitty out of Ben's mouth and let him grow up.
Oh stop, they're good friends.
Ha!!!
I’ve been saying this 😂 he’s such a damn baby, he needs his mom, his kids’ mom, and his est friend to cushion his entire life at the tender age of 50+ these emotionally stunted celebrities are so out of touch
“He’s gonna stick beside him”
Jlo is one thing but Ben a whole problem by himself.
Yes
Jen is a narcissist
You don't know either one because you don't live with them so how would you know
I hate Ben for making me defend Jlo but I don’t like how she he treats her. I don’t like how his family acts like he’s better than her when she’s not the drug addict.
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J LO was so desperate to get the “White Validation” & thought running back to a washed up Ben would do it for her. This man has NEVER really wanted her , she was always an option that he played with . She has made herself look like an absolute fool with no self esteem or awareness. Ben’s family & his “circle of friends” have NEVER respected or liked J LO. What part is not clicking for her 😒😒😒😒
I believe this plus he’s an Oscar winner and acting is her true love we definitely know it’s not singing she even acts when she sings.
Bruh! You said it all and I agree I mean I would classify JLo as a white latina idc but she is what they call a dark white and getting with Ben who is like English Dutch German ancestry Id presume for her was a step up lol I agree and I never even got the impression she was his type like that I think she was something fun and different for him but I been saying this lady plays in the dark arts thats been confirmed and I am convinced she did some love spell on Ben that backfired and hes come to his senses
@model_roe Stop watching chisme no like.
@@lostwoods5687 ? what are you on about and I love chisme
JLo is considered below Ben's station, his family would consider him slumming. He should be by himself. Addicts ruin everybody's life.
Everyone tried to warn her. Including her best friend Leah Remini who wouldn't even go to their wedding.
Just like Matt warned Ben.
JLO is partially blamed for walking into this situation with all the red flags. As for Ben Affleck, there are no surprises.
Ain't that the truth!!!!(
NONE!!!
She is also a red flag
TheDiddler's the only wildcard here
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Ben pursued JLo because she was in relationships with Cris Judd and ARod. He liked the challenge of getting her but not the work of maintaining a relationship.
JLo is stupid because after the first break-up, she should've paid him dust.
💯 I have said this so many times!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
He dumped her three days before the wedding. I'd eat a boulder before going back to someone who did me like that.
Bastard Jlo needs to divorce him ASAP!!!!
Best comment and now that Garner is engaged, Ben wants to be closer to her. 🙄
@@notyourfrind9415 that part!
Ben used JLo for publicity? She had to have 2 weddings. She has a great work ethic but she is a fool when it comes to men. I believe her one time BFF (Leah Remini) told her not get involved with Ben again. She is going to end up like Madonna in a few years. Dating backup dancers and giving them an allowance so they can take her out....Oh I forgot, she's done that twice.
"The Madonna and J Lo Senior Citizens, Hoochie Mama tour" Roll call for.... background dancers must ALL be MALE and 18-29😂😂😂😂😂
@@Nina525😂😂😂Stop it😂
Oh JLo and Madonna why😂
Ben Affleck doesn't need Jennifer Lopez Ben Affleck is a big star producer director he don't need that hoochie mama
@@TheBestinMe143 🤭🤭😂😂😂
I'm a recovering addict and the first thing I had to do was take accountability for my own actions & not blame someone else or something else for my addiction because I have a list of reasons I could use to justify why I used drugs but I wouldn't have almost 9 years sober if I continued to do that so you are right about that. If Ben doesn't realize he's the problem then he will never stay sober.
Stay strong babe ❤️
You have got this!
JLo shouldn't have ever went back to that man he wasn't happy after they married you saw it and the way he was treating her she just wanna be known as a married woman can't do without a man this is so sad...
And each relationship is a failure. She needs to be by herself for a while.
@@Zorobabbelso true Take time for herself and her kid’s.I wish she would spend more time with her kids than men
@@tobywarner7902 I saw a clip of them at some award show. She was lighting into him, very unhappy. Then she turned away, glanced over, and noticed the camera was on her. She immediately leaned back into him, and started laughing.
Illusion! Optics! Fake!
@@lastjob2011 Exactly 💯 just super fake and Phoney
Ben Affleck is such a dysfunctional, immature creep. Matt Damon needs to shut up because he only knows what Ben complains about. JLo loves Ben. It is sooo unnecessary to talk *ish about your partner when you split. Ben needs to grow up & get right with himself.
FACTS 💯
Your opinion but devaluing men’s feelings and labeling them unnecessary is the reason why men hurt woman. We sometimes have parent or siblings mom to talk to. It’s only ok for females ? Bullshit. Life’s hard. Men need to talk and open up more we all complain about our partners at times. Kettle much lol they just didn’t fit together
@@shanaperry2210 HI pickmesha...
Exactly @canisamator
Jlo Knows how to pick them, behavior patterns thru out her history tells me so, poor kids not considered again behavior pattern
This woman is stil living in the past 😕 she is still living in 2002 🙄 she failed to realize tbat the world has moved on and NO ONE CARES ANYMORE 😆
She is delusional 😅
😂😂😂 that's why they call her delulu.
That's why she keeps filtering her face to look like her early 2000s version. She's living in the past.
Jennifer Gardner said they were already separated when he was with the nanny. It doesn't make it right but Gardner clarified it herself.
No one knows what really goes on behind closed doors. All speculation
Yeah, she said the main problems were his drinking & gambling
Ben's not ready to get sober.
How can he. With a narcissist who just cares about what she wants. Think she’s attempting to go to meetings with him ? In person or virtual I bet she never has.
Agree. No one can make him either. He said he's against 12-step meetings, sobriety is a solo effort. So there's no sponsor to ask for help and no one he has to be accountable to...except maybe a wife. Now he fixed that!
@@shanaperry2210Excuses. People made excuses when he was with Jennifer Garner who was incredibly supportive and literally held his hand into rehab. He repaid her by cheating. JLo isn’t perfect but Ben is a an asshole…and a drunk.
@@shanaperry2210he been drinking because of his ex wife. JLO got nothing to do with it.
@@eb4676 Most people self medicate and these comments and hash tags is me just being funny u don’t know either of them. I wish them the best I just think when it’s not organic for either and we’re forced to be shown compromises it’s just not gonna end well. Most everyone I know self medicate whether it’s their wine at night whether it’s there Medication during the day scratch coffee everyone has some kind of coping skills that they shouldn’t be utilizing and they should find healthier ways to cope, but if you’re not taught that, especially coming from Irish families like Ben and I are from, we actually were born in the same town, my uncle, had his mother for a teacher and loved her Irish families who literally drink and have no skills and I’m not condoning his behavior because of that I’m just pointing out if you’re not resilient enough to look through that and do the work on your own, but some people justhave been raised for so long and families that way that they just don’t know any better until it becomes a real bad problem
Girl if everyone is tired of JLo of course Ben who live with her is tires too.
LOL!! facts
his brother didnt even go to the wedding. jlo's first love is attention, always has been, always will be. dont understand why ben thought she would be different. she loves the spotlight and he loves his privacy. she's "look at me everybody, i'm here," while he's busy ducking the paparazzi. this was doomed from the beginning.
😂😂🎯🎯
You are mistaken in saying they will divorce in 4th of july ..the prediction is october or 2025 either feb or march...lets wait what happen then
People LOVE to blame women 100% & give men a pass. J Lo makes it easy, though LOL.
She’s got off with a pass for so long. Industry plant and given opportunities over real talent since she was a dancing broad.
Girl, when Ben blamed J Garner for his last relapse, JLO said she was fine with what he said. AND no one has heard him say anything negative about JLO this time around soooo..we haven't even heard Matt say anything about JLO. The PR team plant seeds and know the bloggers are going to water the seeds. Hoping, the audience will go alone with whatever the blogger says..it's so obvious.
@shsnaperry You want men to be heard and understood but look at the way you’re treating a woman.
@@lostwoods5687 and id love to know, just how I’m treating a “woman” LMAO 🤣 ALL I said was factual statement I don’t attach my personal feelings to people I don’t know. I see all sides. People period need to Stop complaining about no good men around if they’re part of the problem. They don’t and won’t all walk on water or even being decent until they’re told it’s okay to hurt it’s ok to not be ok we got you.
no this is one of those rare cases where they BOTH get the blame 😂
Ben told her he didn’t want their relationship in the spotlight this time. She doesn’t listen, making an album, movie, and a docudrama about their love story! Not to mention giving copies of a very personal gift to everyone to read! She blew this relationship up herself by not listening to Ben, and doing what she wanted instead.
It’s called compromise. She doesn’t.
Can we remember that J. Lo is the one that was called out for dissing the BLACK back up dancers during the Grammy’s Motown tribute?!?! Cover for J. Lo. who has NO BLACK roots and STEALS from BLACK and Latino artist while happily dragging Drake who BIOLOGICAL father is actually BLACK! WoW, OK!!!
I don't believe Matt said any of this
Ive heard plenty of gossip blinds that Matt never liked her not to mention Matt apparently has had a crush on Jen Garner for decades in my opinion which is super awkward imaging being in love with your bffs wife? LOL
Ben married Jlo then went and spent all his time with Garner....WTH? Did he use Jlo to try and get back with his ex wife?
He was really in love with Jen Garner and did not want to split from her it was Jen who initiated the divorce because she could not deal with his substance issues and gambling but if Ben had his way they would never have broken up Im convinced that was his true love
@Model_Roe
He didn't love Jen Gardner. He married her because she got knocked up after dating for 5 months. And his drinking increased after marrying her. He also humiliated her and thanked her for putting up with him because marriage was hard work while accepting an award. He also cheated with the nanny and Blake Lively (in my opinion) before she married Ryan Reynolds when they were in that movie together. Right after Jen Gardner had her first child, he left her to attend the Emmys alone. He didn't even want to walk the red carpet with her. He also engaged to Gwyneth Paltrow. He only loves himself and shouldn't be married period. He would have not married Jen G if she hadn't of gotten pregnant.
And I am obtaining my doctorate and we always have to cite proof or evidence about what we are claiming or saying-hence the long dissertation paragraph.
@@mushmouth610 doctorate or not you know him personally? lol grow up auntie of course he loved her he did not want to split from her and as for referencing his other relaitonships I was not there I was not born I am assuming you were and more power to you but again he definitely did love her
I thought he said the same thing about Jennifer Gardner in the past.🤨
Yes Ben said the same thing about ex wife Jennifer Garner. Ben put blaim on her.😂
His bottle is his wife. You can never win with an alcoholic.
So true 👍
You can't make someone stay sober. They have to want it and work on it one day at a time
Lots of people baby Ben including JG , JL is not going to do that Ben need not be in a relationship he need to stay in therapy
I know as women we don’t like to call a spade a spade, yes Ben Afflek has his issues, red flag and wrongs but he’s been married one time previous to Jen Gardner and JLO has been married 4 or 5 times now going on her 4th or 5th Divorce she is the common denominator in all these marriages and divorces JLO is the problem.
The average man you can’t run them and women definitely can’t change them and Ben Afflek is one of them. His relationships were not marriages only Jen Garner, Ben is not a likable person, but JLO is the common denominator in all her marriages and divorces painting Ben as this monster doesn’t change that. JLO and Ben are both unlikable, both aren’t friendly people, both are dominant, both of them have flawed personalities, both are damaged goods and it was a recipe for disaster.
The first 2 marriages, she was young and impetuous. With Marc, he’s macho and unfaithful. Elizabeth Levya came between him and Dayanara and then came between him and Jennifer. Marc’s been married more than Jennifer and had more children than her so what does that say about his track record?
Arod’s a serial cheater. Ask Jose Canseco. Now Ben started with the “fever dream remarks.” Ben has his reputation of smoking, gambling, card cheating, drinking, womanizing and trying to pick up younger woman. But sure blame the woman but the men aren’t innocent.
@@shellyt1983 I didn’t say men are innocent nor did I say Ben was innocent and the truth of matter she is the common denominator.
You just gave several reasons to justify JLO’s poor decision making and actions she’s made, it’s everyone else’s fault why the marriages ended but hers, I recall her fist husband she left for P Diddy he was hurt! Chris Judge she left him for Ben Afflek he spoke out how hurt he was and she was cheating on him for Ben. Marc Anthony seems like he doesn’t even like JLO even when they were married.
Justifying JLO doesn’t excuse the fact that she is the common denominator and if JLo a man with 4 marriages and divorces he would be torn to shreds not justified. It’s clear people just don’t like Ben and willing to look over JLO the only difference Ben has had only one previous marriage. Both Jen and Ben are equally as bad as, damaged and a mess in their own right, it was a marriage they came with a recipe for disaster. Call them both out.
@@Rareness Jennifer wasn’t an angel in her first 2 marriages. In her other 2 marriages and her engagement to Arod it wasn’t entirely her fault as I noted in my earlier post. Two men were unfaithful while Ben knew full well what he was getting into when he married Jennifer. Jennifer is getting more of the blame while Ben is getting more sympathy because he’s only been married one time and heading for his second divorce. He’s not been satisfied with Garner, Lindsay Shookus and Anna DeArmas. He has many demons. Jennifer’s not the one and only common denominator.
@@shellyt1983 I never said it was her fault, but it’s clear that people don’t like Ben Affleck so it has to be his entire fault the marriage ended, videos clips I seen of them at events she talking him crazy you can tell by the lip movement and body language, men don’t put up with that, from what I recall Marc Anthony is the one who filed for divorce and they don’t seem to even get along, they don’t even acknowledge each other not even as parents and that’s very telling. Jen has issues, she’s damaged and she went into the marriage with it, her and Arod was split 5 minutes and she was with Ben and according to talk… she left Arod for Ben. Ben was damaged as well and with his share of issues and again, recipe for disaster and look at now.
Women cannot control and change men it’s been proven and men can’t expect women to put up with their mess, shenanigans and behaviors. Okay Ben is headed for his second and Jen her 4th. Many people have spoken out how cold, mean and nasty attitude Jen has perhaps she’s this way in her marriages and for the type of men that she marry that will not work.
@@RarenessYour OP post mentioned that Jennifer was the common denominator and that she was the problem. That seemed to say that it was all her fault. 🤔From posts that I’ve read many are siding with Ben. As for the lip movements and body language that’s on both of them not just Jennifer. Ben’s tossed drinks at papps, he’s been seen flailing his arms at Jennifer when they’ve been sitting in their car and slamming her door. Not good body language.
Marc filed for divorce from Jennifer but it doesn’t negate his unfaithfulness. He and Dayanara were both unfaithful to each other which caused their divorce. Marc got along with Jennifer’s exes, Casper Smart and Arod but not with Ben.🤔She wouldn’t have split with Arod if he hadn’t been texting another woman. In your last paragraph in your last post it seems that again most of the blame is being placed on Jennifer. All the previously mentioned have their faults. No Jennifer’s not innocent and Ben certainly isn’t either. Take it easy!
Matt Damon also married Latina when i thought everyone against Ben with Jlo and wants him with white girl. Ben always run away from problems instead of resolves it. He did same thing to Garner, Lindsay Shookus and Ana De Armas.
I choked on the "seduced by a latino dominatrix" 😂😂😂
I died at the secret to marriage is don't f the babysitter 🤣🤣🤣
Ben doesn’t have eleven hundred failed marriages under his belt though. Just saying. None of Ben’s people ever liked JLO. That was as true 20 years ago as it is now. Ben was a huge benefit to her career 20 years ago. The publicity she got from their relationship helped give her A list status…And that’s one of the main reasons she went back. He’s the only Hollywood A list man who would go anywhere near her.
Exactly
Listen, it’s obvious that you don’t like JLo. But that doesn’t make what you’re saying about her career true. JLo was already famous when she met BA. She had already done Selena (filmed in 1997) and at the time, was the first Latina to be paid $1,000,000 for a role in a film. Furthermore, she had already released her very well received On the 6 album - released in 1999. In January 2001, she had the number one film, Wedding Planner, and the number one album Jlo, her second album. She didn’t meet BA until later in 2001 on the set of Gigli which was disastrous! She was doing fantastic until he and that movie came around. The fact is that whenever he’s been around her, her career takes a hit.
@@lostwoods5687 that was before the truth was exposed..she didn't sing most of her songs. She's a fake singer
@elenor It’s ok if you don’t like her, but you can’t rewrite history because someone on tik tok told you that they heard a friend of a friend of a friend say something about someone. Come on, now. How old are you? Stop it.
Yes! We heard how Bens mom didn't like her and Matt didn't like her either the first time 20 yrs ago. It was a relief for them it was said and they told him how they didnt like jlow. I seem to remember Matt even kinda stayes out of Bens life while the first time was happening, Matt was hanging out with other celeb dudes, I remember wondering if they weren't friends anymore. Then the breakup happened and those stories came out and I was like. Oh, thats why they didnt hang out.
Its jlow, halley berry had the same problem both were doing this in out of relationship thing. Seems Halle just chilled out. Jlow still at it.
Everyone is in the comments talking about Jlo being married four times too many, but Ben being married to JG for a decade is a credit to her for putting up with him. Ben probably cheated multiple times and he wasn’t going to leave mommy JG and pay alimony and child support. Men stay and make a woman’s life hell. It seems like he played Jlo once again, and that’s why I don’t believe in spinning the block. If it was right it would have worked the first go around.
You’re so Right ???? I agree with you ????? Matt doesn’t know Jlo ??? Why is he chiming in ???? He needs to pay attention to his Family and shut up about other people’s problems?? I don’t like him or Ben ????
Ben was never using her for anything. She did dirt to so many men like she is the only prettiest girl in Hollywood.
Jen is into dark arts this has been confirmed she is very much into witchcraft and I am convinced she did some spell on Ben that backfired and hes coming to his senses
@@Model_RoeSo very true
Ben is the issue, Damon clearly is blinded by bro code. Jlo isn't perfect, but he lovebombed her as a desperate fool, common in addicts, addicted to infatuation, gambling, smoking, booze, young nannies cheater... seriously issue Jlo had was, why did she accept that? Desperate also... they deserved each other 😂 noone gonna touch Ben with ten foot poke with his history. Whatever happened to his nanny girlfriend that caused Garner divorce... Ben is nuts
Good assessment!
Didn't she get back with Ben to make A-Rod jealous?, now it's in reverse again. Smh!!
Yessssssss
Right SMH
Two wrongs don’t make a right!!
As if ARod wanted her? LOL she not even ARods type bruh anybody who followed the Ynakees in the 00s knows ARods type are blondes half JLos age and half her size Jose Canseco on Vlad TV said himself JLo was too fat and too old for ARod I think that was just for PR
@@marisarodriguez7776 not to mention AROd dont want her either lol
Jlo putting out an alcoholic beverage brand & jlo knowing Ben is an alcoholic not very wise decision!!! Jlo being a diva, demanding & controlling would drive someone like Ben to drink!!!
Delola was already in the works before she got back with Ben again. It was the brainchild of Arod and Jennifer. Besides Garner admitted to drinking a lot of wine during her marriage to Ben.
As an addict, he’s the one that has to get used to living in the real world. You cannot blame others if they drink or have a business such as DeLola or whatever it’s called. His sobriety is HIS responsibility and no one else’s. Blaming JLo is absurd. Si if he goes to a restaurant and people are drinking , are they and the restaurant to blame for his addiction? He needs to get into treatment and get a sponsor. It is the only way. My relative was an alcoholic and once he got sober he never missed a meeting. He was still going to meetings up until he died at 76. Addiction is a lifelong battle. BA’s alcoholism is no exception.
@@bridgetsweeney1391 Adding that many were angry when Ben blamed Garner for his drinking on the couch during their marriage yet don’t have a problem blaming Jennifer. Hypocrisy? 🤔
Has Jlo ever been single?
Never, always on the hunt to feed. She is an energy vampire
Ben is a cheater, a relapser and Jen is a mean, cheap girl(for tips). They deserve each other.
Ben dumped her twice!
Even dogs stay away when they are mistreated. Jlo doesn't. She cant stay away from Ben
Ben is secretly in love with Matt, that's why women nvr satisfy him
Ha ha ha ha ummmmm no lol
@Spiritualtiva , Could be . I think a lot of men and women have this issue because it would ruin their lives and careers. I’ve learned not to doubt these things because of experience. Most women ignore these things because they want the man no matter what. Which fits perfectly into what their guy wants to portray.
💯% Facts! 😂🤣😂
😂😂😂 You could be right!🎯
You right but women don’t want to see the truth..a lot of these men wanna be with man.their Homies most of time’s no woman can ever satisfy them..such women always waisting their time and womb for ignoring these like Jennifer Garner and Jennifer Lopez
Sorry Tisa, love you, don't like Jlo. She sounds like a nightmare,and it seems she has a dark side, ,and built her career by using black talents like Ashanti
Ben,,don't know why, makes me feel like mothering him. . Any man that shows his mum. His children, his childhood friends so much love and respect , can't be that bad in my books. Jlo eats men up for breakfast , chews them out by lunchtime, start chewing another one again teatime and is done by dinner. Sorry she fell so bad for Ben, she is obviously one of those women who only love a man who is mean to them, gets bored if you are too nice. Poetic justice
not just black, actual POC latinx people too. i.e Selena
Didn't J Lo buy that alleged sixty million dollar house Ben moved out of? I would not be stuck with that loss. As for Matt Damon, the only one who knows the truth about what happened in the house are the ones in it. Jen Garner was seen too much with Ben. Maybe she was trying to help him. Maybe she like the pics of him spending so much time with her. It did not look right. It look like J Lo got played.
And Remeber Matt wasn’t very friendly with Ken garner either
I’m sure Jen G was behind their break up 🤨
"Don't eff the babysitter!" Words to live by.
Hey, Tisa!🔍 It's still on JLo. She knew who Ben was then and now. If he's so horrible, why is she trying so hard to hold onto him? If she wasn't so busy looking for outside approval she could find it inside and sever ties with Ben once and for all💔
There are so many reasons she wanted to hold on to him and all are malevolent.
Jlo don't love Ben nor anyone else and her evil took it away from her so she's not able to love just use to gain fame which is why she does witchcraft and lives for it and always was willing to do anything for it.
Maybe soon she'll change after knowing she's been wasting her time in all that
Date Arod to get under Ben’s skin? If that is her plan, girl bye! He couldn’t care less. He moved his stuff out while she was out of the country. That speaks volumes. How many times has this act happened in the real world? We move our sh*t out when the soon to be ex isn’t home because we don’t want to have an encounter w/ them. Why, cause it turns into drama. JLow needs to put her big girl pants on, scrape up what little dignity she can muster up and walk away period! No need to stick around LA. Her Attorneys can take care of it from here.
As for Ben, JG will clean up his mess once again. There is always someone in an alcoholic’s life do it.
Both of them are two highly toxic individuals. This saga is getting pathetic.
Did it ever occur to you that she asked him to move his stuff out while she went on her vacation and to attend the Paris fashion show.
@@daisyestrada1381 I highly doubt that.
It’s Ben.. Ben..! Yes he has some issues. However what’s with JLo and all these men before Ben. At least with Ben you have the wife, the nanny and one other. Let’s count the men. Things didn’t work out with JLo and Ben stop blaming. She will move on to the next one and that’s not only to work. JLo will never keep a man and be happy. In my opinion she needs Therapy.
Look up the women that Ben and Marc Anthony have had in their lives. They’ve had many, many women. The list is long, just saying!
Tisa you are forgetting that Matt Damon’s wife was a waitress. She has no problem playing stay at home mom. How’s he going to compare marrying a waitress to someone as successful and her setting as JLO
Not a bottle of Jack Daniels... lol Don't blame it on the bottle!
Blame it on the ah-ah-ah-alcohol😂
@@MissJIFHELLO @MISSJIF😀😀.. I WAS JUST ABOUT TO POST THAT!!😀😀😀.. TOO FUNNY!!😀😀
@@CHERYLRGAY it's going to come up for a minute for sure😂😂😂
Maybe Ben friends don’t like her as a Puerto Rican lady. He insults her by saying it was a fever dream. He did her wrong.
Matt looks like James Corden in the thumbnail😂😂😂
when jlo didn't want to wear the pink diamond engagement ring from the first time Ben gave and he had to buy another engagement green diamond ring for her that's when Matt Damon warned him
WOW THATS KRAZY ,, The NARCISSIST IS WAY to MUCH ,, HAD TO EXCHANGE HER WEDDING RING UGH SHE A BAD ONE ,,, Why would anyone want women like that??
Jennifer returned the pink diamond engagement ring to Ben the first time.He returned it to Harry Winston Jewelers. This is a fact and can be verified.
Jlow USES Everyone, Tisa: leave Ben alone,! Would disparage her as well. Do you know who JLow is, really? It’s clear you @hate” Ben. So Have you ever been with an alcoholic? Ben is not the problem! You should explore these damning stuff you say, I can’t with you. , Jlow is low key a disaster that’s contagious, she wants an Oscar so bad,?she thought Ben was her ticket to an Academy Award.
Stop dumping on Ben Ben is a Leo with Cancer aspects, JLow just ain’t good for anyone but JLow
Yikes 😅
Matt a good friend , He looking after Ben ,,,, and Jen G a good Support ,, Ben blessed to have ppl in his Life That Truly Care 😊
Ben shouldn't get married again . Just have gf's. No string attached....booty call or whatever....same with lopez....
I need a friend like Matt Damon.
I think that Jlo just wanted a White guy on her arm
She never could get it right. Not with Diddy, Marc Anthony, A Rod and even Ben. I do know that she's a fortune chaser.
A fortune chaser? 😂😂😂 She’s worth a half a billion dollars. She doesn’t need to chase any fortunes. In fact, she’s worth more than her spouse. She doesn’t need anyone’s money.
@@lostwoods5687 Well, fortune in the sense about climbing the Hollywood ladder 🪜 to fame and fortune. It worked out for her. She's always looking for someone to attach herself to in order to advance herself.
Shut up MAYT Damon, see friend is bad influence s . Keep his Nose in his own business .
I agree with you. Also, Jennifer is sober and he's an alcoholic....wont work unfortunately.
Matt Daman doesn’t like Jlo ? Ben has No LOYALTY to Anyone ????? You Right Ben doesn’t hold himself Accountable?? He Blamed JG the ex wife that Everyone says he Loves her ??? Really he is a Cheater ?????
Tisa don't sleep!!😂
WHO is MATT DAMON. We just have one GOD .Do not make him feel like one .He better keep his mouth shut .Because life is full of surprice .when some laughs others cries.
Ben's first spouse- Matt Damon
😂
He may write him a love letter too.😂
@kate: soooo true !
Ben, aged so much in those 2 years, she made him get Botox shots, that made him look even worse. Ben is a hot mess, but he still had the balls to dump her.😮
They both look horrible. They destroyed eachother in under 2 short years.
If he didn't want you the first time why would he want you now?
It's funny the title of this video makes it sound like Matt Damon is just looking out for his friend, but then you're trashing him and Ben the whole video!! LOL. Jen is crazy, she can't be alone and looking for love in all the wrong places. Ben is crazy, he's an addict too. Matt Damon is a stand up guy.
And now you’re mad at Tisa because she’s making some very good points that no one bothers to make? She’s actually calling ALL of the parties involved, but people have gotten so used to only trashing JLo and coddling Ben, his ex, his friends.
@@lostwoods5687 I said they all crazy. Except Matt.
Not vodka in the cornflake 😂😂😂😂
I disagree! I think he wanted a quiet life. This guy Tisa, for a gift printed all there correspondence from day one and put it in order in an album. Emails. Everything. He’s private! She gives it to producers and 3 staff on her reality show. Bill ishhhhhh that’s cruel and class less. If I was with her I’d prob drink too. Who does that? Narcissist. Ever been with them? I was with 1! Enough. Awful.
Not everyone does their 12 steps dude. And addiction is real. Be happy you don’t wake up every day and addict. Give that a break unless you know. He said he’s not blaming anyone sometimes I’m weak. And making fun of an addict or being insensitive is bully time stuff I’m just saying. Love you girl but J Lo isn’t a good person. She’s a narcissist thank goodness for Matt.
No one is determined to relapse its addiction. Every. Friggin. Day. But okay girl. I love you a bit more diplomatically but I got mad love for ya
You’re absolutely right about Ben… he’s also a villain…
Matt Damon saying “ah-ah-ahh” 😂😂😂 Tisa adlibs send me! Ben is the problem🥃🚬👩🏼🍼and Matt is his sponsor.
He doesn't deserve to be called Ben, I call him bin
Matt and his other friends never liked J Lo for Ben.
He said what he said he have the right to opinion
He might as well marry him. A real friend would point out his drinking problem is a big problem.
Down to the last letter it’s the same play we’ve seen before, next chapter is how he’s not finishing the movie cause of her. He’s really special.
I agree stop blaming stuff on JLo it takes 2 to tango
I am so happy Ben awoke from the “ Fever Dream “. JLo should now give her “ kitty cat “ a rest do some self reflection and focus on her twins .
Jennifer don't want that body count to go up that's way she back pedals back to old boyfriends. Plus she does not like being alone.
Ben deserves a good friend- why does everyone not liking this broad have to be the bad guy? JLo is loving all this media scrutiny and didn’t she MIstreat Ben’s daughter. And hasn’t Marc Anthony resumed custody of Emme and Max? Why - you want to blame Ben as well!
Remember that Ben said it was Jennifer Garner's fault that he was an alcoholic - that was when he was leaving Jen for JLo. It's always the womans fault. Poor baby Ben. He's always the innocent victim.
It was hard watching him as Batman. He made that character so bitter. But yeah, he's such a big baby.
When did Ben leave Jen for J-Lo? When J-Lo and Ben got back together the second time, Ben was divorced from Jen. When Ben’s first relationship with J-Lo was ending, he cheated with Jen before he broke his relationship with J-Lo.
Arod better not take her back; she seems like she wants to use him to make Ben mad.
I start to question Matt's character, of he is still such a good buddy-buddy with ben...
I agree, their Bromance has been known in Hollywood forever.
I don't know how Ben could even touch jlo with ALL the men she's been with!...its disgusting!!
Wow. What a comment.
Ben has been with as many women or more than Jennifer has been with men. The list is long as is Marc Anthony’s. Now that’s disgusting!
@@shellyt1983I don’t think JLo has been with any women. But, you never know
JLo is a culture vulture just like Drake. She needs to heal.
She is certainly an industry plant. Her karma is catching up to her now. She has always been fake.
Jen and Ben are both Leo’s. This was never going to work! 😅
Who’s the bigger red flag? The one with 1 divorce or the one with 3? 👀
Jlo is a New Yorker... don't mess with her. She's successful and they are all jealous of her. When you are on top...you are stressed. Ben is an alcoholic and will never change.
😂 sure, you mean Jenny from the block? The one that the Bronx disowned? Sure, her disaster relationship with Ben is because people are jealous of her. If you know, you.🤣
Jen about to be a felon.
Jen g leave da man alooooone...
JLO knew what she was about to jump into from the start, she is addicted to herself as much as Ben is addicted to alcohol as a matter of fact Ben was drunk the day they got married “allegedly”
Ben stays drunk.
Sounds like Ben doesn’t want to be in a serious relationship, after Jennifer G divorce he should have figured out that he’s not the marrying type, he should have just remained a player
JLo is universally disliked in the industry. She treats drivers, maids, etc. like dirt. She stole the voices of talented WOC and claimed those voices as her own. She developed her own alcoholic drink while married to Ben, even though he’s an alcoholic and she doesn’t drink. She made that horrible documentary about herself and insisted on involving Ben despite his desire to stay out of the public eye. She charged a fortune for tickets to her world tour, which was also a colossal failure. Ben’s an alcoholic and probably a jerk, but JLo is a self-absorbed narcissist.
JLO should not have made that entire movie and documentary about him... you could see him cringing in the "greatest love story never told" footage, he was like "isn't it being told tho" LOL... he already had one foot out the door.... you can't center a man, JLO -- especially not a man like that, c'mon!!!
Matt Damon is a great guy Ben, nope
like and share FAM ,almost HOME. Does Ben look 2.0 to ANYBODY other than me. They are being removed from the world stage right now.
This is so sad, when Ben got together with Jlo 2 years ago, Jlo was in the top part of her career and Ben was very low, low, low, and very alcoholic, and jlo helped him to reach one of his movies...and now that Jlo did not sell anything, he decided to broke up with her, isn't that ironic?
Tisa holding him to the fire. Lol
U can lead a horse to water, you can't make it drink,
You can lead a human to knowledge but u can't make them think
Ben is just to blame as JLo...
feel kinda bad for jlo, like Ben played her...AGAIN....
He's NO GOOD !! BEN IS SICK !!!
Tisa, ya trippin!
Ben’s an alcoholic!
Jennifer started an alcohol line!!! 🙄
Matt Damon sounds like Ben’s side chick. Ben is so beta. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Matt is Ben’s road dog that he needs…JLO looks like she will stress you tf out 🤣🤣🤣
Ben was/is a mess all on his own. It’s sad she thinks he’s worth fighting for.
I would feel highly disrespected if my husband looked completely miserable whenever he was in my presence. That was red flag number one. Ben can muster a smile around his ex wife, best friend, hell he seemed so happy with his ex girlfriend. He only looks miserable when he is jlo’s gravitational pull.
Drinking voka in his cornflakes 😂😂😂