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How to Stop Compulsively Lying | Becoming Better

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  • Опубліковано 13 сер 2024
  • I've always had a problem lying. I lied to make myself sound better, stronger, or smarter. I lied to protect my image as the "honest man". (ironic, right?) Check out this video to learn how I stopped compulsively lying.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 26

  • @melaniejames5301
    @melaniejames5301 Рік тому +59

    This is so helpful. I just realized I’m a compulsive liar and a manipulator. Such a hard pill to swallow. Trying so hard to save my relationship because of my shortcomings.

    • @avaisiqbal7503
      @avaisiqbal7503 Рік тому

      how are you now? have you improved

    • @melaniejames5301
      @melaniejames5301 Рік тому +9

      @@avaisiqbal7503 yes! Still a work in progress to rebuild trust, but the biggest form of love is honesty and I love him too much to hurt him like that again.

    • @rubenrosas3500
      @rubenrosas3500 11 місяців тому

      I’m in the same boat because of my lying and plus made a habit wit it to steal so I’m struggling to find help to fix my problems.

  • @chennyg85
    @chennyg85 Рік тому +21

    I’ve struggle with lying since I was younger. I’m bad at it and I tried to cover it up with more lies only to feel lost ashamed and on the brink of losing the man I love. It has major affects on everything around you. I have to face the issue instead of running from who I am to change for the better. Especially when you hurt the ones you love you’re also not loving or respecting yourself. This was insightful for me and well needed. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @rainingwhenidie
    @rainingwhenidie Рік тому +8

    Lying, stealing, drugs. I'm tired of feeding addictions that I don't even want and it breaks my heart knowing that I've broken my family's trust time and time again. I swear to god, I'm gonna change. I'm only 18, it can't be too late for me to make things right.

  • @gayleliman3423
    @gayleliman3423 11 місяців тому +5

    75 years old and still learning, thank you young man, your vulnerability and your advice were so encouraging.

  • @patricecyr703
    @patricecyr703 2 роки тому +16

    Thank you for sharing with us real advice. Just lost my wife, she didn't trust me anymore because of my lies. Now I feel lost and ashamed

    • @daynehogue7690
      @daynehogue7690 11 місяців тому

      Hey, I too just lost my wife’s trust. Today I went and registered for a local psychiatrist and spoke to someone. Today is day 1, when we get to tomorrow we will worry about it then. Stay strong

  • @yasintanyenza4435
    @yasintanyenza4435 2 роки тому +7

    This is the first time someone communicated their truth with honesty.this vedio changed my life🙏🏾🙏🏾be blessed man of God

  • @lorid.7844
    @lorid.7844 Рік тому +8

    Thank you for being so vulnerable. I have been dishonest and manipulative since I was a kid. Manipulation can be subtle, I would use words to ever so slightly change the story to where it benefits me. I have really hurt my companion and my children and I don’t want to do it anymore. God lead me to your video. And for the record I am a woman, but your message is for everyone. 🙏🏼

  • @maxzytaruk8558
    @maxzytaruk8558 Рік тому +3

    Dude this video helped me so much, thank you for your vulnerability. Today, I have no idea why, But I overexaggerated a surgery I had to I dont know... get pity? Get attention? Didnt know really. I think now that it was to seek approval from other people. I'm going to pray extra hard tonight. You're such a blessing for posting this, God bless

  • @pamatkinson6466
    @pamatkinson6466 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so very much for posting this- same problem all my life….not to be hurtful but to be accepted.

  • @destinyandbraeden2082
    @destinyandbraeden2082 Рік тому +9

    My lying , drama with friends and my boyfriend and I’m fearing losing my friends and my boyfriend

  • @trev8280
    @trev8280 2 місяці тому +1

    Lost the love of my life due to lies. She has become distant and it also has affected my relationships with family and others. Feel so alone and regret everything I have done. Hoping everyone can forgive me and accept me again 😢

  • @TheMariaDeLuna
    @TheMariaDeLuna 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for this, I am at the verge of this right now, I was feeling this. I feel were at the pace of this.

  • @onestepanimation7918
    @onestepanimation7918 Рік тому +2

    I don't want to lie i want to be free and be happy have a good life i think it is my time to get out and be my self

  • @the_ubukhosi
    @the_ubukhosi 11 місяців тому +1

    I'm in the same boat. I've lost my entire world because of this life long habit.

  • @M.A_PROUCTIONS
    @M.A_PROUCTIONS Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing this 🙏 It was really helpful

  • @amcballin6417
    @amcballin6417 10 місяців тому

    Thank you very helpful god bless

  • @amberb9479
    @amberb9479 8 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @hritikadeb
    @hritikadeb Рік тому

    Thank you 😢

  • @Montyweluv
    @Montyweluv 6 місяців тому +2

    I wanna stop lying about stuff because it’s not good I’m going to start reading the Bible

  • @Angel6.6.6
    @Angel6.6.6 Рік тому +1

    I lied so much 😂 I think I really need help 😂😂

  • @rosaestrada41
    @rosaestrada41 8 місяців тому

    I feel horrible when I lye because I remember is an abomination to the Lord and not to tell the truth I will not inherit the kingdom of God.