Are WOMEN Only FEMININE If A MAN Pays the Bills?!
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- Опубліковано 23 тра 2024
- What They Won’t Tell You Podcast: Episode 4
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Majority of black women aren’t out earning black men. Degrees don’t always equate to high paying jobs. But it does usually equate to student loan debt. 80% of black men still marry black women and over 50% of black men are single no kids and at least middle class. If you can’t find a man in that category to pair with, you need to see what you are not doing to attract those men
This is not talked about enough. Yeah there are women who are graduating from top law schools. Yes there’s women in tech. But the majority of those “highly educated women” are just getting masters degrees in BS from 3rd tier schools….
I been in a 50 50 relationship for 16 years. Im the leader. She feminine.
Some people think it's black or white, but when you know, you know. Kudos to you !!!!
A helpmeet is a helpmeet...congrats to you
Yea I've been in plenty 50/50 relationships. Women are always submissive. Even the women that make more than me
😂 I've dated women that make more money than me , and they are always submissive. This is straight Cap
The issue with going 50-50 with your woman is that she will expect and want 50-50 of the say and power.
A man should pay 100% of the bills. Therefore, he gets the majority of the say and the shot calling. Chicks aren't just gonna let a guy be the man if he's paying 50-50.
With paying 50-50, she's gonna think she can move and operate like the man can. Then you're gon a hear "I pay half of the bills, so you can't tell me what to do".
If you're paying 100% as the man, you definitely won't be hearing that sort of BS.
Please get stats from Medium Man. Women aren't doing that great.
Exactly. All those claims she made have been more than debunked.
What?!?! So you mean to tell me all Blk women don’t make six figures??🤔🤣
@@azraelfirstofhisname8695 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly
@@TheGr8-1black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man.
Everyone woman really thinks they earn more. It’s crazy the number they have done on women. They have hyped them up for so long every woman thinks she’s the breadwinner lol
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
The other thing is, they want men to care about their money but even when they make a decent amount they want to be taken care of or contribute minimally. What’s the point? I swear women’s critical thinking skills are remedial at best. And as far as the brothers comment about ‘only’ 2.5 million BM make 100k+..men in general making that kinda money is like 10-15% of the population at large.
Failure of feminism...if one makes good money and doesnt want to provide.
U.S. income by gender: The median male salary in 2022 was $52,612. The median female salary was $39,688, 75% of what men earned, for full-time
workers. U.S. salary by metro area and state: Households in Washington, D.C. had the highest median income in 2022, this was good enough in the 60s, a man making 10 maybe 20,000 more than the wife. so why isn’t it good enough now? There are other races go to college graduate end up being engaged. Why can’t black women do that?
There is no "pay gap" when you compare men and vvomen in Gen Z.. pay gap is a myth
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
C’mon brothas, she literally just exerted HER anecdotal worldview to be realistic and men’s experience to be based on social media so please check her on that.
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
Thinking money = leadership is crazyyy work lol. I know so many families where the wife makes more or even the same and it's not a problem, and are still married with successful children to this day. I actually think it's better when the incomes are close because it makes budgeting and spending more equitable. Also the whole "women do more house work" is completely false, average domestic house work is split 51% women 49% men. Many modern black women have very unrealestic expectations of marriage.
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
YOU CANT CALL YOURSELF A LEADER AND BE BROKE😅😅😅😅😅
They want shit to be easy
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
This conversation is tiedddd.
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
Men of this gynocentric environment quit being a pushover for nonhelpmeets.....trying to normalize sugar daddy dating
It's the spirit of tricking that permeates most men's operating system.
Since women don't wanna go 50/50 most Black Women has children, college debt, and personal debt. Should pay for that as well. That's well over 300k or more. I see if their money going towards the kids trust fund down payments on a house, car, etc. It just goes to more debt with their maxed out credit cards. It's not a good deal.
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
So Women can't focus on finding a husband at younger age but they still got high body counts and getting pregnant 😂
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
If they're not naturally submissive or tells you need to do something for her to be that way leave she doesn't like you and she'll never do it and nothing will never be good enough you can easily find someone who does especially if you have good money on top of that
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
If you keep on doing what you have been doing, you will keep on getting what you have been getting
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
Lol so we gotta pay u to be natural? FOH
Lol exactly.
@@Kenny-Alphablack men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
I'm really beginning to like this show The only thing that bothers me is that screen behind you it has not been clean correctly maybe I'm OCD but it really throws me off where it says airplane in the back there is a cleaner for that that doesn't leave it smery but other than that I enjoyed the show.
Lol we’ll see what we can do to get it right
The real-life women have distain for real-life men. That's why we have the problems we do. That's why they lie about them being the provider. You can be soft your character doesn't have shit to do with me. Modern relationships can work the women just suck.
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
No it's fake and if they do it's only temporary it's either you are feminine or you're not it can't be turned off like a switch
Basically
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
This is an interesting topic because I understand both sides of the coin. With that being said, why do we look for the man to be the financial breadwinner? What happen to both the man AND the woman get that money and have the resources necessary when it comes to retirement. Ladies these days wanna grind the man down and work 2 and 3 jobs while you are at home. What happens if the man gets hurts and now we need the woman to hold it down until we get back. Or what happens if we injure ourselves and we can't work no more...? Why can't we work TOGETHER and get the money together and gather double of wealth? For me, I can cook and clean and pay bills. I don't need my lady to do all the cleaning and cooking. Split the duties down the line and keep it pushing. Sometimes, the woman is better at managing the finances because her credit score is high 700 and yo shit is the high 500's. Sometimes, the man is better at grocery shopping and staying on budget....put the person in place that has the better outcome and share those notes w/ your significant other so that they can be better at it. What's wrong w/ that? Fuck all this alpha shit and submission and conditional femininity......reciprocation of love and effort and work together to bring this wealth home.
And one more thing, some of these ladies are full of cap talking about they don't see any suitable men.......if that's the case, I challenge every woman to share their DM's and fellas can do the same. Women in general got an inbox full of friend-zoned brothers so don't tell me all them dude ain't "good enough". Men DM's on the other hand be dry AF!
What I see is that women have so many options when they are young and fine and because they get so much attention, they wanna play around and come up with all these excuses on why these men ain't good enough (Lori Harvey, Vivica Fox) and then once the attention start dying down, now you wanna get the low key square bears, the brothers you friend-zoned, the brothers that are about something back then and now hitting their stride (Draya Michelle), now you wanna get off the cock carousel and give your 50 percent best. That's not what men want. And men need to value women a lot more and not think of ladies like trash like Diddy and Future and the rest of these low value men. We need to bring black excellence back!
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
Where do they get there numbers from
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
IMO, if 2 people GENUINELY care and want the best out of life it takes 2 financially these days for the most part , a woman that says MONEY or the more HE has makes her feminine sounds transactional
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
1) Women say 'dating for potential' is risky because the man isn't guaranteed to become economically successful or morally decent
2) But 'dating for potential' in a woman is also risky because women aren't guaranteed to be economically responsible or morally decent
3) Finally, marriage by default is the practice of the potential, but it's more risky for men because women initiate divorce close to 70%
Conclusion: it's more risky for the average man to engage in a long-term relationship than it is for a woman
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
The more we continue to equate human value with income, the more these conversations will be cyclical and exhausting. It’s really not hard, date someone you fucking like. Have empathy for their humanity and do your best to be a great partner… or don’t fucking date.
IF YOU CAN'T MAKE MONEY YOU NOT A MAN. BEING BROKE AND BEING IN POVERTY IS NOT OK. IDK WHY BLACK MEN THINK IT OK TO BE BROKE THAN EXPECT THE WORLD TO RESPECT HIM.
Ecclesiasticus 25:22
[22]A woman, if she maintain her husband, is full of anger, impudence, and much reproach.
Black people create culture, so this isn't only in the Black community anymore. As a Black man in DC who dates every race it's sweeping across all races of women. A woman doesn't believe that her money should be anything more than 25% of the money.
Women value money the way that we value attractivity.
And I haven't met a woman who's ok with a 50/50 relationship. That's an instant X out, even if you are not broke, and are willing to split household chores.
My girl does 50 50 n we been together for 16 years. She cooks and cleans also. While i fix what breaks around our home and mow the grass. Its rare to find. But we been together since i was 17 and she was 15.
@@troy028 respect!
But I think if you talk to your younger friends you'll see that that's not how the ladies think anymore.
Older relationships were like that. My father isn't the breadwinner in his marriage either, but he's been with his wife for 20 years.
😂
@@troy028black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
@@colinh9294black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
Even then it's short term
@ 8 mins, working along with that man, or build the man? However, i do agree, conditional femininity is self-limiting. Conditional masculinity would sound crazy for sure
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
I love your content, close to becoming a subscriber, I do have one critique an I hope it lands respectfully , ion think you advocate for men hard enough specially black men, black men are making more money than ever before, their the most involved in their children’s lives and most Bm don’t have kids . They make it seem like BM are beneath them which is why most men flocked to ks channel because he was a voice of the realistic. Like let’s be honest in her story she seem like a woman of virtue raising up the man with potential but based off her rhetoric she also seemed like she looked down on him like she was superior or she’s the reason for his success. Men typically cheat for two reason lack of self control and to gain control… she likely still talked to him like he was still on the level when they first met, instead of talking to him according to the new status . She likely didn’t think much of him cause she felt she made him which is why she was so quick to leave.
I appreciate your comment. I’m a strong advocate for black men and definitely understand the plight in and outside of the dating world. I believe there are plenty of quality black men that would make for good husbands/fathers. Regarding her story, if she chose to leave because he cheated, that’s her choice. Nobody forced him to cheat, you gotta have accountability. The only thing is a woman has to know as a man makes more money, he’s more likely to cheat so you have to know what you’re dealing with.
@@ItsMoreThanMuscle total facts. But unfortunately the access she has doesn’t sound like marriageable options i guess maybe it’s more of a push back on a point instead of a criticism
@@trejay2387 I feel you bro. Definitely will continue to keep improving on the dialogues we have
@@ItsMoreThanMuscle your doing excellent work , regardless of what the views reflect your doing an important work, the black community will be the most impacted with whatever comes next from the fallout of these statistics. Kevin Samuel’s saw it and however much you study his work and continue tweaking and improving upon his work will mean you having a hand in saving the black community or watching its downfall
@@trejay2387 thank you, that means a lot. We’ll save our communities one day at a time. I look forward to seeing more from you
Women don't know how to pick men that don't cheat
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
Do what the sunglasses what are you talking about bruh she could want that but there's not a lot of guys who make that and she's shrinking her market she can want whatever she want but at some point you got to figure out okay is the guy a good guy does he have what it takes to go to Long haul yeah I'm not saying that the guy can't have anything but dude you got to be realistic about how it all matches it's not. So my thing is she's going to price herself right out of the market because again if she's looking at black men that percentage is even smaller so I'm not sure what you agreeing with with her?
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
I really don't think you guys asked the right questions you guys aren't really go deep into certain topics like with the whole she built him up their stuff that's being done in between all of that you guys didn't even ask her where what do you think that you could have done differently y'all just let the women talk y'all don't really challenged them y'all just take what they say is face value so that's one thing I have an issue with
black men ya are so feminine. Ya not building anything not creating anything. Just on the internet complaining. Grow up and be BETTER MEN. This is ridiculous why do ya need a woman to build ya up it lame. Like grow up man. You not a leader in a 50 50 relationship. Only BLACK MEN push this 50 50 crap it embarrassing.
I love white women.
Stop simping man smh ya sound lame and desperate
Damn she says “Like” too much. Expand your vocabulary
I know black men aint talking.... Most of ya are reading at a 4th grade reading level. C'mon bro
That woman in pick in chaotic. The way she speaks would be tiresome to listen daily.
She is just all over the place and speaks in incomplete sentences/thoughts.
All these bullshit stories of perfect builder women getting cheated on NEEDS to be challenged.
The vast majority of women aren't as great as they claim nevermind blameless in these cheating relationships.