24 here, same thing. But I truly enjoy being single and having all the free time. I don’t think I’ll ever get into a relationship even if I have a chance
Age 23, same story... I can't even make eye contact with any girl.. Growing up being called ugly, loser, good for nothing from parents, friends, relatives.. now suffering from inferiority complex, social anxiety
Even if you find a partner, she will change you for someone better when she has a chance. No matter what you have lived together, no matter what she did or told you. Women like proud and secure men "bad boys"
Comment: You are fine. Love will come when you least expect it. Just focus on your college, and in your certification and if love does not come once you are established at least you have your job & your salary. You are just too young to get down about this. You also have the possibility in being an asset to people. Why don't you do volunteer work at Your local food bank? Help the poor. Why don't you volunteer for Catholic Charities RGV (in Mcallen, Texas)? Life is beautiful, and God created you to be on this planet. Take my advice, man. You deserve to be on this planet! You look like a caring person--make a difference in the life of a poor person. Date: July 24, 2024, USA
To be fair, sometimes these assessments are right! Even attractive men get rejected most of a time, so it is reasonable to assume it would be worse for average men like us. Most average men get into relationships in school or college, places where you have to interact with other anyway. After college, chances truly go down if you are average. Also those men already had the skills and know women, so they have no problem finding another relationship. We are just left behind, and we can cope with "divine peace" or whatever, which is great, but the fact is that we are losers in a very important experience humans can have, an experience that opens us to family and other stuff... it is over. Now I get why people get addicted to drugs. It is also for you to have a personal little revenge, such as not helping women in distress, not giving them free favors, not talking to them unless I have to, etc. Women never help strange random men anyway, so why should men ponder to them? It makes perfect sense to not give the world anything back if it denied you so much.
You have the looks to have a great gf... Maybe just me more confident and less "romantic", many girls dislike "romantic" even when they say they like it, especially clingy romamtic
I think the issue is that relationships between men and women are way too codified and ritualised. I mean, you started this video by saying you never went on a date as if dates were the normal way to meet a woman. I'm 22 I never went on a date either, never in my life have I invited a woman at a restaurant or whatever but this hasn't prevented me to bond and have relationships with women. I went to art school where it's easy to make friends with women without it having to be sexual or romantic right away. It just strats as genuine friendship. I think we should always engage with people as friends. whether their a man or a woman, we should simply see them as humans we're trying to connect with. Then, natural attraction and tention will do the rest and lead to a deeper relationship. Dating apps, partying etc. Can only do so much. These things lead to a sexualy driven contact with people. Some people find what they are looking for in parties and dating apps, but if you struggle to meet people this way, that just means it's not for you. A lot of young men are deeply insecure because they are building their idea of themselves based on the awkward interactions they have with women at parties or things like that, but they dont realise that these women or this type of interactions with women is not an accurate representation of all women. English is not my native language so I don't know if I explained myself correctly, but my point is: If you try to meet people in places that are meant for shallow interactions and hooking up you need to be hook up material. Otherwise, of course your gonna feel left alone.
This is cope. The uncomfortable truth is that the only thing that matters to your success in any realm of endeavor is your genetical traits like face, height and IQ. It's a blackpill but the truth.
Beatles LET IT BE.!!! WORD OF WISDOM.
@@brianoakley3636 yes my g, the three words for peace ☺️
You’re good looking brother, don’t let people tell you otherwise.
Good luck 💯
Love you my bro ❤
24 here, same thing. But I truly enjoy being single and having all the free time. I don’t think I’ll ever get into a relationship even if I have a chance
Great self reflection. I'm proud of you for this!
Love you brother
Dude, you got the voice and looks of a swave guy man! I bet there are plenty ladies out there who like you. Hope you nothing but the best man.
@@supergiantmario6444 you're a g that made my day 🫶🏻
Age 23, same story...
I can't even make eye contact with any girl..
Growing up being called ugly, loser, good for nothing from parents, friends, relatives.. now suffering from inferiority complex, social anxiety
Bro coming from a 18 year old who got outa a recent breakup 2 months ago your doing just fine keep ur head up n keep on pushing
i assume with your ex-girlfriend, you were the one that asked her out
You’re clearly in touch with your emotions and a good looking dude. You’ll do fine bro 👍
Thanks so much brother, you're a great soul. God bless you 💙
You don’t need to be saying “I love you” to a woman. As in fiction writing, show don’t tell.
Even if you find a partner, she will change you for someone better when she has a chance. No matter what you have lived together, no matter what she did or told you. Women like proud and secure men "bad boys"
I'm 24 same here brother 🤓
Comment: You are fine. Love will come when you least expect it. Just focus on your college, and in your certification and if love does not come once you are established at least you have your job & your salary. You are just too young to get down about this. You also have the possibility in being an asset to people. Why don't you do volunteer work at Your local food bank? Help the poor. Why don't you volunteer for Catholic Charities RGV (in Mcallen, Texas)? Life is beautiful, and God created you to be on this planet. Take my advice, man. You deserve to be on this planet! You look like a caring person--make a difference in the life of a poor person. Date: July 24, 2024, USA
@@Jay-ef2ii you are blessed 🫶🏻
Love this make more!!!
Yes yes yes!!!
Posted new vids!
To be fair, sometimes these assessments are right! Even attractive men get rejected most of a time, so it is reasonable to assume it would be worse for average men like us.
Most average men get into relationships in school or college, places where you have to interact with other anyway. After college, chances truly go down if you are average. Also those men already had the skills and know women, so they have no problem finding another relationship. We are just left behind, and we can cope with "divine peace" or whatever, which is great, but the fact is that we are losers in a very important experience humans can have, an experience that opens us to family and other stuff... it is over. Now I get why people get addicted to drugs.
It is also for you to have a personal little revenge, such as not helping women in distress, not giving them free favors, not talking to them unless I have to, etc. Women never help strange random men anyway, so why should men ponder to them? It makes perfect sense to not give the world anything back if it denied you so much.
You have some fair points, although I do believe divine realization is the ultimate purpose of why we're here, not women.
You have the looks to have a great gf... Maybe just me more confident and less "romantic", many girls dislike "romantic" even when they say they like it, especially clingy romamtic
I think the issue is that relationships between men and women are way too codified and ritualised. I mean, you started this video by saying you never went on a date as if dates were the normal way to meet a woman.
I'm 22 I never went on a date either, never in my life have I invited a woman at a restaurant or whatever but this hasn't prevented me to bond and have relationships with women. I went to art school where it's easy to make friends with women without it having to be sexual or romantic right away. It just strats as genuine friendship. I think we should always engage with people as friends. whether their a man or a woman, we should simply see them as humans we're trying to connect with. Then, natural attraction and tention will do the rest and lead to a deeper relationship.
Dating apps, partying etc. Can only do so much. These things lead to a sexualy driven contact with people. Some people find what they are looking for in parties and dating apps, but if you struggle to meet people this way, that just means it's not for you.
A lot of young men are deeply insecure because they are building their idea of themselves based on the awkward interactions they have with women at parties or things like that, but they dont realise that these women or this type of interactions with women is not an accurate representation of all women.
English is not my native language so I don't know if I explained myself correctly, but my point is:
If you try to meet people in places that are meant for shallow interactions and hooking up you need to be hook up material. Otherwise, of course your gonna feel left alone.
Man I love how you put that! Such a beauitful reflextion!!!!
how old are you now ?
23 hahaha
I hope you aren't serious with that question, bub. He only posted this video a month ago.chances are he's still 23.lol😅😅😅
@@terrycraig6386 hahaaahha
@@adyboustaniits been a month. are you still 23?
Ты очень красивый! Жалко не говоришь по-русски ((
Translated this haha you are a wonderful person
This is cope. The uncomfortable truth is that the only thing that matters to your success in any realm of endeavor is your genetical traits like face, height and IQ. It's a blackpill but the truth.
You are wrong. Check my most recent interview with a genius scientist in genetics on @mentallygreat.
Do you mean DOPE, not cope? Just checking.
Completely false...
"The only thing that matters"
Tell that to Jesus after death buddy.
Have you heard of HealthyGamerGG? I recommend watching his UA-cam videos!
Yes, he's a great guy!!!