Betrayal by your own father , family and " friends " is not stange to me unfortunately . These kind of experiences gradualy hardens your soul , to a point where you no longer seek approval outside yourself . The solitude that results from these betrayals made me strong inside . I am my own best friend ! No longer waisting time and or money on worthless people . I am 60 now and my life hass never bin as good and peacefull as the past 15 years . Solitude is GOLD .
I'm a young 77. No one ever picks my age. Generally 62ish. I go about my lifestyle in a relaxed manner. Some people don't like me but many do. Especially the other side. I just love my peace.
Adopted in Los Angeles California neglected I know how you feel growing in me as well my family and children will have nothing to do with me from what other family say . I agree with you wholeheartedly. Straight across the board . People who let others make decisions for them Are not of Good fiber /sigma
I have been a Sigma all my life. I see the world very differently. Because of people around me I became a loner, but not exactly antisocial. For many reasons, there is evidence that Sigmas are both genetic and learned. At work my supervisor accused me of not being a "team player". And I said so what is that supposed to mean? Many of his "team players" cannot be found in an emergency, but I was always first on an emergency. I pointed out to the supervisor that a baseball club has 24 players and 1 loner. That loner's position you ask? Closer. If you want to identify the quintessential Sigma in sports, it's the baseball closer. Just give me the ball.
Your boss, if he uses those exact words, is quite superior to those I used to know who wanted to use that basic angle. Besides, I worked in IT, so how much do you think "team play" matters there? I mean, if it mattered so much, then why was I unaware anybody was helping me, especially when my programming job, as part of that stint, literally involved me at a desk by myself? Stupid people use stupid slogans, because they never bother to see holes in their arguments. Back in my day, which you've probably heard of, perhaps even from your boss, the alleged system that set up how great teamwork was, revolved around the stupid notion "there's no I in team", IOW the letter I is not in the word team's spelling. Oh really, so if we're going to use words within words to be some sort of stupid sense of wisdom, guess what other words don't exist in team? Why there's no "us" or "we" there. Also, there isn't an I, but there is a "ME". I wonder how many of them would have been horribly dumbfounded if I told them just one simple phrase answer, that there is a ME in team? Another funny thing about this team concept, I'm perfectly willing to help somebody else, especially with good ideas, etc, but if they don't ask for help, is that my fault? I don't think they could ever come up with anybody truthfully that could tell them I wasn't willing to help. It's evident this is just something of a corporate policy to try to harass people they brand as loners, to get with it - to be another mind-numbed robot. They have no idea whatsoever whether you're a team player or not, but they just suppose a guy with a loner reputation just sits in a corner and has his head buried in his knees, and all they have to do is harass you about it a bit, and then whatever problem there wasn't, will just go away by their mighty words😂. They would probably be stupid enough to tell Picasso that he had to let other people add some strokes to his paintings.
For most of my life I was a Beta with a few Alpha qualities. In my 20's I was able to get rid of of my jealous side. During my late 20's and early 30's was the roughest time of my life. I constantly did things neglecting myself because I lacked self-respect. That "nice guy" and "pleaser" routine got me no where. I was in what I thought was a relationship that ended badly. I finally broke inside. I use the metaphor of a puzzle. I ripped this puzzle a part. Then as I put it back together. I took the pieces of me. My best attributes. And put them back together. It was the picture of me. The background of the original puzzle had things that represented the negative stuff. These things took up about 70% of my original puzzle. It was what stood out the most in my mind. But when I rebuilt this. After I could see me, and only me. I carefully picked up this puzzle and put it on one hand. Then with the other. I swiped all the other pieces away so fast. They disappeared from my sight. Out of sight, out of mind. Never to get any more of my attention. What was once a "glass is half empty" man was now replaced by a "glass is half full" guy. What was once an extrovert that bowed to pressure. Is now an introvert that prefers his peace and freedom.
Excellent analogy. In my experience we’ve had no role models and therefore we pick up the wrong puzzle pieces that don’t fit our true personality. Once you get rid of everything that isn’t you then you focus on your true sigma powers
I am very Sigma , I stay to myself and enjoy my own company . Sometimes I feel guilty not sharing the fun I have alone . I am very self reflective and deeply contemplative. I can be very rebellious to authority if I see to much injustice.
I was born a Sigma male..just as a Sigma male has all the traits of the INTJ type. Mostly all the examples in this vid..i experience as a child and acted accordingly. Didn't realize i was a Sigma until my early teens. I am proud to be a Sigma male. And will die as one.
Yes you are right. I kept testing as an INTJ also, even though I think I am actually an INFJ/T. I am really happy to see you figuring all of this out at a young age, it will make your life MUCH better.
As a child I was Sigma. I never had more than 1 friend, never liked big social situations, and LOVED time alone….and life’s interactions with people just intensified it. I never show my various accomplishments, awards or achievements until someone trying to degrade me, show they are better than me or “oppress” me.
People don't even recognise me anymore but deep down, I'm still the same person... I went from student to master and achieved the badge of a warrior.... From being a coward to empowered! Now I have superpowers 💪😎👑❤️
We’re primarily born a sigma male. it’s in your soul. However until recently they’ve been zero role models. Which means we had to create ourselves from our own instincts or heroes from history. The true Sigma is an advanced soul you automatically perceive the world differently. The environment will then create obstacles for the advanced soul until you perfect your abilities
Im self employed and been true shit, I developed al this traits. I was always like this in life but the shit made me mentaly strong and tought me new understandings. Now Im mentaly stronger then all people I know.
Hi brother, another Sigma INFJ here. Im in late 30s. How have you dealt with women, falling in love and romantic relationships in general? Have you also experienced that from time to time we would need some affectionate company in our lives but frustrated as there are just counted independent caring affectionate women who live at their place and give us enough alone time?
I won't hide right now I feel physically and mentally tired of having thrived all by myself in all areas. I don't know how to get my load relieved a bit at least. I wish there was a kind of "holidays " for Sigma from time to time and then "come back to duty"
I don't really get too deep into the ideology of putting myself and other people into social categories, but from watching this video I definitely fit into the sigma group.
Not even expecting any help from others. Whatever comes, let's face it. Had enough of norms and backstabbing. Don't need to socialize anymore. Following my own intuitions.
I will give you credit for explaining some of the ways Sigmas operate and become. That being said, I think it is only fair to warn people who come across this video it isn't easy and 9 outta 10 who try to convert Will fail. There is a reason why it is the rarest personality type, it's HARD. For many the sacrifices will be too great, however they shouldn't feel terrible about that. Instead they should try to incorporate aspects and degrees of a Sigma and be content with that. Because at the end of the day, majority of people's nature will not allow them to fully convert. Honestly, if you aren't 70% Sigma by time you graduate high school, I'll say you chances are like 10% of becoming one later on.
My dad always told me I was weird. I thought everyone else was weird. Now I know why. Being alone was always the most peaceful way of living. But not all the time.
Facts Fam! Being a Sigma means you've made friends with alone... In my 20's I was very much willing to let my extrovert side out...After 35, all the Sigma came out & Ninja you kicked game with your comment.
I've learned to be happy Sigle and work on myself . I love this video I didn't know i fit well with alot of it. I was thinking I was just a bit weird but I guess not. It's normal. I been through alot , put myself through alot but I like what I'm becoming and how things been going as a loner .😊 thank you for the content
I had a number of sigma traits very early on, like being bad in social situations and being shy. But the most solid trait I always had, was constantly thinking inside my head. In my day, being a lone wolf (no such thing as sigma back then) meant being a recluse, and that wasn't an option, especially living with your parents, but I was still forming. The most significant sigma trait I had, however, was the fact I only wanted passing attention, and by far the number one trait was rejection by the group. My attempts to get in the group, had to be by alpha or beta, and I chose beta, and it just never clicked enough to get in with them. I was already too different for them. There has been only one time in my life when I was great with the group, and that was when I was in charge, and training them to being in charge as well. Let us enter into that shall we, and see what I just discovered? I was writing on here recently, that the way you eliminate small talk, is when you greet a stranger, you have to be the one with the initiative, IOW, you are setting the rules. Surprisingly enough, whoever starts it, officiates it, or it works out that way anyway. You see, what happens, is the extrovert adapts to you, every bit as much as you adapt to them when they greet you and its suddenly small talk. They can skip small talk, and we can grimacingly engage in it. If you walk up to a stranger, saying, "Excuse me (two second pause), but what do you think about the store brand green beans?" (just an example, don't shoot me). Will they respond back with small talk? No, they never will, because as you started the conversation, you have set the rules, and the rules are, we're here to discuss facts. Works every single time, at least for me. You have to beat them to the punch (say you're inevitably fixing to talk to somebody) and be the one to start the talking. It's that easy. If both of you are fixing to shake hands, it probably won't work that way, unless you can come up with a good line, but when you surprise somebody, like in the scenario I spoke of, it's flawless (thus far). How then do I relate taking the initiative to being in charge and my excelling at that, and actually being part of THAT group? Because we're potentially leaders. We may only fit in with the group (not all that important I know) if we are leading them. We can turn them away from their system, onto ours. When I was in charge, at that job, let's review some of the traits you might think are necessary to lead a group, or, rather, NOT to lead a group. 1. I never greeted anybody. 2. I never asked them how they were doing, etc (small talk) 3. I smiled virtually none at all, except if I was laughing my butt off. 4. I just didn't talk all that much 5. My entire presence said one thing very clearly "do as I do, NOT as I say" (of course, for a sigma, what he says doesn't contradict what he does). When your ethos is like that, and am actually their leader due to the job position, there we can take something of a social grip on them, because they're playing by YOUR rules then. And believe me, when you have a leader who leads by example, it puts almost an adoration by those under you, on you, because they've met a leader who will be with them at all times, and who doesn't think it a crime to actually "do work". I experienced this myself, when I met another leader who was the ABSOLUTE ACE, and he was so damn good, I just had to copy him as best I could when I finally was getting in charge. Part of the reason we can excel leading, in because we have changed the rules, to facts rather than small talk, and there, we are king. It's actually part of the system, because I guarantee the managers who want to sit back in the office and do nothing, are the very same ones who have lived in the common social network, where that's part of their outlook, to dominate other people enough, they can sit back and live the high life. Yes, I've figured this out. That's also why we never made much of a scene trying to become part of the common social group, because they were setting the rules with the small talk technique, whereas we say to hell with small talk, I've got facts. The difference amounts to which sort of leader is over the group. The facts based one, or the small talk one. The underlings will adapt in any case, and I suspect, they actually PREFER the sigma way, for it's the one of freedom, but there's just so few sigmas and fewer still that understand this reality. We don't fit into groups as an underling, because we're against what you might call their social network of small talk. Take over that group, and suddenly small talk goes out the window pretty much. That's why alphas have a problem with us, because if we get in leadership, we are a DIRECT problem, but one we may not be aware of. Wow, this has been something of a revelation for me and it's nice to come to these realizations. Us with a group, is only great if we're leading it. Contrast that to the alpha, and how miserable he must feel if a sigma is leading the group instead of him. I suspect all things being equal, the alpha does far better under a sigma, than a sigma does under an alpha, mainly due to the fact the alpha can still achieve much grip over the group (maybe as the class clown sort of thing) even under the sigma. I must say though, when I was leading teenagers (being barely older myself back then) I never had anybody have sort of a sub-system under me, like a guy that would start networking people away from my facts-based system. There were those that were a bit more rebellious, but they just did that thing on their own and didn't try to wrangle control from me. Whether any of them were alphas, I haven't the faintest clue. I also don't think they were ever meeting after work to network either, which really is a surprise. I suspect, especially at that age, they just had so many friends apart from work, they just didn't really need to screw around with the work people, like you so commonly see in the more mature work atmosphere. Also, it's just about the only group I ever screwed around with outside of work, say go to the bowling alley after we closed, or video games. I don't think I ever screwed around with co-workers outside of me being in charge of them at work. We're a leader in waiting most of our lives, and if we lead, those under us shift to much more of a fact-based look at things. Never have I understood the sigma-alpha leadership dilemma, and how that means so much to both of us leading a group, as to which direction they will go (and why), than now. As well as I led those people back then, I knew I did it very well once I got ramped up, but I didn't have the vaguest clue that I had more of a grip on them than I thought, especially given the "speaking through my actions" approach. Some people are simply waiting for an alpha or sigma to lead them. Hard to believe, but that's because we're leading ourselves, if nothing else. That's also why you hear of people that can't make up their minds, because they never look that much inwards. Now I literally start to understand, why there are people that go out of their minds when they're alone. It's partly because they have nobody to lead them and they can't lead themselves (so they think). I'm on a roll I think, but I better stop, as I'm far too windy as it is. Comments, as always, are welcome.
I want to share my story. when I was 14 at one time, I have been cheated on multiple times by my ex gf. plus bullied by family members and former students at high school. as time passed on during my lifetime. my own family pushed me away from family functions, then when left alone for a lone period of time. Then introversion crept in, the peace sat in without understanding. One of my uncles started messing with me mentally with bullying tactics, my temper got the best of me, I snapped, or blacked out. I found myself being picked up by two grown men. The bully was crying because someone younger than him took him down. Then fast forward about a few years later. Right in front of his wife. I took the uncle who bullied me previous because he caused me to almost to snap. within 3 seconds, he found himself struggling to live right in front of one of the men who helped me off him one time. and his wife. I asked the bully, does he want to live. He was asking his wife to get me off of him. He was begging for help. No one came to his aid. From then on, I became what I am a lone wolf who is self aware of his surroundings. I went through alot in life to become a sigma male.
I can identify with most of your story. Fortunately, I didn't have any abusive uncles to deal with. My father's alcoholism and rebelliousness were more than enough. Then, when I entered the work force, I was subject to string of men who always tried to cause some kind of trouble for me. I could write a book about having been the target of jealous people. The accumulation of years of abuse, disrespect and distrust have taken their toll, and just may have created a vengeful monster.
I was born deaf at the age of six they fixed my hearing and I have no idea why I have always questioned everything in life if the answer you were giving me doesn’t make sense then I ask you explain to me why that is the way it is lotta times people can’t explain it It’s because they read it in a book and they took that book as gospel and people just don’t want to think for themselves I don’t trust a lot of people I have one really good friend I never ask anybody for help I prefer to be by myself 100% it’s that I’m not anti-sociable I just don’t like to be around people for the most part I work the job where I worked a lot of shift work for 21 years you could almost count on one hand how many Christmas I had off so today I’d rather sit at home by myself then go to Christmas dinner my family have just excepted the way I am but other people think I’m just really weird and very hard to get to know
I became sigma due to life events ... well that happened to me without anothers doing At age 6 i remembered a pst life I also had a few premonitions that came to pass These things never make the light of day in christianity the religion i was born into but for prophecy So at some point i researched the idea of reincarnation and the implications it brought with it ... then i moved to premonition and the implications it brought with it I have to state that this was not an easy one as it tore my whole idea of life apart It implied i had no free will But getting to the bottom of those two things lead me to taking apart biblical ideas ...disecting christianity and my answers just begat more questions... i delved into several religions researched mythology and then i turned to science did alot of research there and at this point i must say i was well on my way as a pure sigma because this behavior spread to every aspect of my life. The norms did not bother me ... i was on my own mission seeking the truth behind what we call reality I analise anything and everything ... needless to say and often joke about it ... i am filled with tons of useless information and a huge pile of general knowledge... not to mention wisdom as im now in my 50s ... and lastly i did reasearch on NDE's and now i have a picture in my mind of what i searched for and set of beliefs that i never thought id ever have ... nedless to say im long time set in the ways of a sigma and know no other way of existance.
I've got to say it was definitely a 1st hand coping mechanism to me, and then once I learned to love the coping mechanism itself, I never wanted to look back. All my life, I got lied to, but always had some thoughts and feelings that the knowledge attained from others was NEVER satisfying. I always got verbally hazed because, to other people I seemed ungrateful to not just settle for the knowledge they wanted to tell me which I didn't feel was never ever the full true story . I was an abuse victim and, my family betrayed me so many times even the marriages I had until I learned nobody can't protect me better than me🙏😏 I could not stop myself from researching things to better my life and realized after extensive research I found out that I really was becoming a full fledged Sigma, through the trials itself and thanks for those trials I now have been for a few years now seeing that it's always best when you don't have to rely on nobody to do things that you can do yourself and makes you love yourself more, and it feels good. And I will never ever look back I would not trade places with anyone in the world, a Sigma is the best place to be🥰😌😏😌😎
Well I became like sigma because my relative harassed me in my childhood and my parents were not there to protect me 😢 so now I don't feel anyone trusted 💔 after watching your videos I realized I exactly work like this videos says and because of this I don't have any close friends or anyone my gf left me because she can't understand me I only loved her in my entire life because i felt she is trusted but after she left nothing happened as I thought 👍 now I don't want anyone for me there are lot of things happened to me but I can't say all but I'm happy now being alone I feel sad about my gf but what to do 💔 and I also like to mention I felt she is exactly like me 😢 but she or me wanted more than that love I think 🥺 but I'm happy I think she is also happy 😊I don't know but what to do 😢
Hard times create hard men, or they destroy weak men. In a way, it’s a lifestyle choice. It’s choosing the difficult path because it’s the only one that leads to true power and freedom, while preserving authenticity. I don’t normally comment on videos. There is so much garbage on the internet of people claiming this title followed by validation seeking comments that usually start with “as a Sigma male myself”. These people in their seeking of acceptance and external validation are the complete opposite of a Sigma. Your channel is the most accurate description of the sigma archetype I have found. It was all those reasons you mentioned that made me the way I am today. Sure, I’ve always been more introverted, but that is hardly the only prerequisite for being a true “Sigma”
Waui Maui !!! Great vid, I was not aware of this category (sigma male) but it sounds like me predominately. I truly can relate to the need for sigma's to guard this value system!!! It's the worst thing you can take from us, one of the worst things!!!
I see myself as a sigma but others would think different because I do love being alone I got to have my privacy and prefer to walk to my own beat but I do like being around friends and having a good time with them, I’m not the biggest introvert but I never try to make my presence felt nor do I care if it is and I’m not the biggest flirt I have a lot more fun not chasing women which makes them want to get to know me so my personality I guess you can say is a bit confusing lol
Hi Im a sigma. As a freelance architect I thrive doing my project alone.. I only ask for expert advice from engineers only if needed. I enjoy working with solitude. A minimal downside I noticed is that I tend to expect good from others because I do good to you/ others (principle) just like the golden rule. But in real life it only drains you because it doesnt work that way all the time. Theres a lot of bad more than good in this mortal world. So in the end its better to build a strong foundation to not expect more from the world. Its like its better to give than to recieve principle. Thanks for the video.
i have a small construction company and im the same exact way. i dont even hire employees anymore due to the drama and massive energy it takes to be around ppl. i noticed i feel better when im alone and get way more done on my jobs. i got tired of expecting ppl to be decent human beings so i just spread love and peace and keep it moving. when uve been let down over n over you learn to rely on yourself. keep it up brother skys the limit for us!
The greatest tragedy of us Sigmas is we see the world and people as it is. Most people are silly enough to be fulfilling a role in society without realising that they are being dealt an unfair hand. Sigmas reject the deal.
I believe I am one of sigma now. Gf left me and I suffered. But had to move on. My family went divorced and caused pain, but I accepted reality. Had 2 friends but then they insulted me and crossed the line. And what I chose? "Walk Away" and be free.
Wow these comments blew me away because I'm a woman and realized I have a LOT of sigma traits. Wish I could meet a sigma Male because we would be great together. This video described me down to a T. Is there an equivalent for women?
At 63, I'm probably a sigma based on what I've seen here. The whole area of socializing has mystified me forever. To be brief - why do people change so much when they go from their everyday routine selves, to their 'I'm-at-a-party' selves? They become so fake. I far prefer the way they are at 2:30 on a Tuesday afternoon when they're changing the bearings on the widget squashing machine. But when they're at a bar on Saturday night they feel they have to become that loud boastful bore who thinks they're endlessly funny and entertaining. Maybe non sigmas secretly hate socializing as much as I do and feel more secure when they're hiding behind a mask.
Life after parents divorcing when I was 8, and having to live the next ten years with limited resources, and having to depend on other people who didn't always act honorably.
I became sigma…I work with someone and people work for me if I need something I pay someone to do that ..I don’t easily give my time to people ..I love going alone adventure rather than with people, I can decide what can I do without sacrificing what I love. Everything is first on me not for someone or people. When I’m alone by myself I can improve a lot of things in my life, I am selfish so when I give something it’s valuable it means I trust that person if he or she break it it’s over I move forward I understand the law of every human nature no heartache it’s just that’s how it goes just keep moving for better
You don't "become" Sigma. Personality isn't a blank slate. You're born with certain predespositions. So if you are a Sigma as an adult, you will always exhibit Sigma traits from childhood.
But that which breaks you down as a person can create a blank slate from which alot of new personality traits may grow looking back I think I became this way at 13 from the death of my mother and trying to rationalise what why and how death fits into existance ... and as my grief subsided I pulled up event that took place when I was 6 ... and my quest for answers began ... I may have been so from an earlier age but honestly cannot vouch for that.
Actually it was before her death ... but at age 13 ... i remember just changing suddenly and becoming introvert ... my mother used to force me to go play with friends and get out the house.
@@phillipcoetzer8186 Only severe traumatic experiences can alter the core of your personality because they alter the way your brain's wired and how your neuroreptors function. You didn't "become" an Introvert, you were an Introvert who was being forced to be an Extrovert.
Just stumbled upon this. I don't know what a Sigma male is yet, but I couldn't help but feel like I was most like this when I was young. I have been called "selfish", "arrogant", "anti-social", "disagreeable", "uncooperative", "abrasive", "beta", "alpha", "controlling" -- whatever shaming language fits for the person who isn't getting what they want from me. Typically women and feminized men. These same people will call me "brilliant", "eloquent", "hilarious", "humble", "adaptable" and so on when they think their praise will influence my behavior, too. It seems that whenever I have veered from my own sensibilities -- to avoid temporary conflict against my better judgement -- and allowed either shame or praise to modify my behavior, I have suffered. And the longer it took for that suffering to manifest, the greater it has been.
Multiple stints through the prison system since the day I turned 18 has profoundly changed who I am. How I precieve reality. My interactions with those around me. How I can go for days with out having to communicate frivolous dialog. I can't stand the flow of sheeple. And the norm.
I've never been accepted by society. Except for the two or three individual's I've met in 35yrs that can understand my way of thinking and my willing to stand on my gut feeling (illegal but right) to the death
@@matthewkonkin9538 Agreed. I was a simp when I entered by 20s; but now well into my 50s, I am a classic, 'lone wolf' sigma male who doesn't mess around or mince words. Add to that I stand around 6'2" and weigh over 200 lbs, and people know they must exercise an element of caution when dealing with me. Most people know me to be reserved and reasonable. I am a man of principle and values who does not conform to fads. I am like the bushmaster, mostly inoffensive, but should never be provoked or annoyed under any circumstances.
For me it was laziness. Never liked an idea to do something, that is stupid. Especially people-pleasing, because it will never be enough, so why bother about it?
I agree to disagree.if you are a true sigma? You were born that way. As young people we are forced to commit the ways of society. And are not allowed to follow our instinct, when we become adults? We no longer need to obey anyone, we are now free from everyone and everything holding us down. We had the gift of being the sigma from birth but not allowed to be ourselves. So those that try to be a sigma on the outside are still who they are on the inside, it's just a act.to manipulate people into thinking they have changed but the real sigma can see right through this. A person should just be themselves, as a sigma.we don't play victim, we don't play the blame game. We take responsibility for all the bad life dishes to us. We like who we are and get over things fast, never dwelling on a problem but dwelling on many different solutions for one problem 👍
Funny thing Bro 🤣👊🏻 when I was 21 (I guess) have been interrogated twice, by Polish Intelligence of that times. For French Intelligence request or pointing out. Had my phone taped and so on. This spy wars I’ve mentioned once, a’int just a fancy LARP bullshit. Like “Internet warriors” these days. After, I’ve passed another Polish Intelligence, verification this time, to build on Polish military site, I’ma rodbuster. Authorities or Masons made me this way, I guess. But were there traits, to end up in such a mess in a first place? 🤣 you hit the spot Bro 🤣👊🏻
how i see it is youre a sigma not if you're a guy who rejects women or bullies gays you a sigma if you respect everybody no matter their race gender or status somebody who dosend bully and is a nice person. i see lots of people on the internet who think you're a sigma if you bully trans or don't simp but I think you're a sigma if you aren't a upper to the courpret world and just respect people for who they are
Some notice that it doesn't benefit anyone living life for others,betrayed more times ,treasure solitude more than anything as they become more productive and gain the ability to read manipulators minds.
1:10 Disagree. Your experiences can play a factor in modifying your perspective and attitude toward events. You might choose to follow a different path in life, however your personality remains . It Is your personality that defines your natural status in the hierarchy classification and NOT THE PATTERN OF CONDUCTS you decide to modify.
1)People think sigma is awsome until they become one. The rest of us are still going through hard challenges. Its not always good all the time. 2)When you find out that your family rarely gives a shit, you won't be the center child anymore. All everyone sees is the good sides of a sigma. Why not the bad sides? Because they dont want to grow through that. When you arent used to being alone you will find out that it will happen all the time until you get used to it and it becomes peaceful like how we like it. 3) Dependency, if you want to be sigma to be validated by others. Sorry dude you chose the wrong one. Sigmas only validate themselves. Its basically survival of the fittest mixed with self improvement with sigmas. 4) From weak to strong. Authority is like an erking word to us. Id say we are like the assassins creed, it would make sense. 5)Remember to have fun sometimes.
Why do people nowadays change the name of things so much? Sigma means lone wolf, which is a far better name than Sigma. Main actor syndrome instead of self centered is another worse change.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the secret to becoming a "sigma". It's always fascinating to hear different perspectives and experiences. Your comment adds depth to the conversation.
I identify as Sigma. Having been raised by a know-it-all, self-righteous, controlling alpha male who thrived on toxic masculinity, I was despised for not being the beta son who lived in his shadow, and this caused me to reject the hierarchy as the extremist garbage in which an ignorant egotistical man will placed greater a value than loving his own family.
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Exactly! Rodger that. May you have a outstanding weekend.
Not fully agree with that. I was sigma since 9! Who harm me? Mickey Mouse?! So ridicoulus. Or You just talk about fake sigmas.
Betrayal by your own father , family and " friends " is not stange to me unfortunately .
These kind of experiences gradualy hardens your soul , to a point where you no longer seek approval outside yourself .
The solitude that results from these betrayals made me strong inside .
I am my own best friend !
No longer waisting time and or money on worthless people .
I am 60 now and my life hass never bin as good and peacefull as the past 15 years .
Solitude is GOLD .
I’m 61 about to be 62 and I’m right with you I know exactly where you at
Where you’re at
I'm a young 77. No one ever picks my age. Generally 62ish.
I go about my lifestyle in a relaxed manner. Some people don't like me but many do. Especially the other side. I just love my peace.
Adopted in Los Angeles California neglected I know how you feel growing in me as well my family and children will have nothing to do with me from what other family say . I agree with you wholeheartedly. Straight across the board . People who let others make decisions for them Are not of Good fiber /sigma
I agree 100%.
I have been a Sigma all my life. I see the world very differently. Because of people around me I became a loner, but not exactly antisocial. For many reasons, there is evidence that Sigmas are both genetic and learned. At work my supervisor accused me of not being a "team player". And I said so what is that supposed to mean? Many of his "team players" cannot be found in an emergency, but I was always first on an emergency. I pointed out to the supervisor that a baseball club has 24 players and 1 loner. That loner's position you ask? Closer. If you want to identify the quintessential Sigma in sports, it's the baseball closer. Just give me the ball.
Drugs dose that to you. Nothing special about you.
Facts!!
Your boss, if he uses those exact words, is quite superior to those I used to know who wanted to use that basic angle. Besides, I worked in IT, so how much do you think "team play" matters there? I mean, if it mattered so much, then why was I unaware anybody was helping me, especially when my programming job, as part of that stint, literally involved me at a desk by myself? Stupid people use stupid slogans, because they never bother to see holes in their arguments.
Back in my day, which you've probably heard of, perhaps even from your boss, the alleged system that set up how great teamwork was, revolved around the stupid notion "there's no I in team", IOW the letter I is not in the word team's spelling. Oh really, so if we're going to use words within words to be some sort of stupid sense of wisdom, guess what other words don't exist in team? Why there's no "us" or "we" there. Also, there isn't an I, but there is a "ME". I wonder how many of them would have been horribly dumbfounded if I told them just one simple phrase answer, that there is a ME in team?
Another funny thing about this team concept, I'm perfectly willing to help somebody else, especially with good ideas, etc, but if they don't ask for help, is that my fault? I don't think they could ever come up with anybody truthfully that could tell them I wasn't willing to help. It's evident this is just something of a corporate policy to try to harass people they brand as loners, to get with it - to be another mind-numbed robot. They have no idea whatsoever whether you're a team player or not, but they just suppose a guy with a loner reputation just sits in a corner and has his head buried in his knees, and all they have to do is harass you about it a bit, and then whatever problem there wasn't, will just go away by their mighty words😂. They would probably be stupid enough to tell Picasso that he had to let other people add some strokes to his paintings.
Great analogy!
It doesn't work for me. I lose my job constantly. Only a team leader or director position works it seems.
For most of my life I was a Beta with a few Alpha qualities. In my 20's I was able to get rid of of my jealous side. During my late 20's and early 30's was the roughest time of my life. I constantly did things neglecting myself because I lacked self-respect. That "nice guy" and "pleaser" routine got me no where. I was in what I thought was a relationship that ended badly. I finally broke inside. I use the metaphor of a puzzle. I ripped this puzzle a part. Then as I put it back together. I took the pieces of me. My best attributes. And put them back together. It was the picture of me. The background of the original puzzle had things that represented the negative stuff. These things took up about 70% of my original puzzle. It was what stood out the most in my mind. But when I rebuilt this. After I could see me, and only me. I carefully picked up this puzzle and put it on one hand. Then with the other. I swiped all the other pieces away so fast. They disappeared from my sight. Out of sight, out of mind. Never to get any more of my attention. What was once a "glass is half empty" man was now replaced by a "glass is half full" guy.
What was once an extrovert that bowed to pressure. Is now an introvert that prefers his peace and freedom.
Excellent analogy. In my experience we’ve had no role models and therefore we pick up the wrong puzzle pieces that don’t fit our true personality.
Once you get rid of everything that isn’t you then you focus on your true sigma powers
That is what happened to me
I am very Sigma , I stay to myself and enjoy my own company . Sometimes I feel guilty not sharing the fun I have alone . I am very self reflective and deeply contemplative. I can be very rebellious to authority if I see to much injustice.
I was born a Sigma male..just as a Sigma male has all the traits of the INTJ type. Mostly all the examples in this vid..i experience as a child and acted accordingly. Didn't realize i was a Sigma until my early teens. I am proud to be a Sigma male. And will die as one.
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oh wow i am INFJ-T
Yes you are right. I kept testing as an INTJ also, even though I think I am actually an INFJ/T. I am really happy to see you figuring all of this out at a young age, it will make your life MUCH better.
Sigmas include intj,intp and infj
@@lonewolfkk What makes you say intp is included?
As a child I was Sigma. I never had more than 1 friend, never liked big social situations, and LOVED time alone….and life’s interactions with people just intensified it. I never show my various accomplishments, awards or achievements until someone trying to degrade me, show they are better than me or “oppress” me.
People don't even recognise me anymore but deep down, I'm still the same person... I went from student to master and achieved the badge of a warrior.... From being a coward to empowered! Now I have superpowers 💪😎👑❤️
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We’re primarily born a sigma male.
it’s in your soul.
However until recently they’ve been zero role models. Which means we had to create ourselves from our own instincts or heroes from history.
The true Sigma is an advanced soul you automatically perceive the world differently. The environment will then create obstacles for the advanced soul until you perfect your abilities
Im self employed and been true shit, I developed al this traits. I was always like this in life but the shit made me mentaly strong and tought me new understandings. Now Im mentaly stronger then all people I know.
All is so true! INFJ Sigma here! Good with groups, but thrive solo!
Hi brother, another Sigma INFJ here. Im in late 30s. How have you dealt with women, falling in love and romantic relationships in general? Have you also experienced that from time to time we would need some affectionate company in our lives but frustrated as there are just counted independent caring affectionate women who live at their place and give us enough alone time?
I won't hide right now I feel physically and mentally tired of having thrived all by myself in all areas. I don't know how to get my load relieved a bit at least. I wish there was a kind of "holidays " for Sigma from time to time and then "come back to duty"
Another one is here
a sygma is born and shaped through life
I don't really get too deep into the ideology of putting myself and other people into social categories, but from watching this video I definitely fit into the sigma group.
Not even expecting any help from others. Whatever comes, let's face it. Had enough of norms and backstabbing. Don't need to socialize anymore. Following my own intuitions.
I will give you credit for explaining some of the ways Sigmas operate and become. That being said, I think it is only fair to warn people who come across this video it isn't easy and 9 outta 10 who try to convert Will fail.
There is a reason why it is the rarest personality type, it's HARD. For many the sacrifices will be too great, however they shouldn't feel terrible about that.
Instead they should try to incorporate aspects and degrees of a Sigma and be content with that. Because at the end of the day, majority of people's nature will not allow them to fully convert.
Honestly, if you aren't 70% Sigma by time you graduate high school, I'll say you chances are like 10% of becoming one later on.
Wow so we really are super rare , well I’ll be at the top with the other weirdo’s
My dad always told me I was weird. I thought everyone else was weird. Now I know why.
Being alone was always the most peaceful way of living. But not all the time.
Outstanding reply my brother.
Facts Fam! Being a Sigma means you've made friends with alone... In my 20's I was very much willing to let my extrovert side out...After 35, all the Sigma came out & Ninja you kicked game with your comment.
Let me applaud bro. This video is misleading people. Nobody can became sigma by learning or converting. Sigma is naturally and born
To me I see it more of natural than situational,, so a sigma is born
I have been this way all of life and never knew it until these videos . I do appreciate the shared knowledge .
I was bullied pretty much all throughout my schooling, 6 to 18, left me with social anxiety.
I hope you are okey now
I've learned to be happy Sigle and work on myself . I love this video I didn't know i fit well with alot of it. I was thinking I was just a bit weird but I guess not. It's normal. I been through alot , put myself through alot but I like what I'm becoming and how things been going as a loner .😊 thank you for the content
I had a number of sigma traits very early on, like being bad in social situations and being shy. But the most solid trait I always had, was constantly thinking inside my head. In my day, being a lone wolf (no such thing as sigma back then) meant being a recluse, and that wasn't an option, especially living with your parents, but I was still forming. The most significant sigma trait I had, however, was the fact I only wanted passing attention, and by far the number one trait was rejection by the group. My attempts to get in the group, had to be by alpha or beta, and I chose beta, and it just never clicked enough to get in with them. I was already too different for them.
There has been only one time in my life when I was great with the group, and that was when I was in charge, and training them to being in charge as well. Let us enter into that shall we, and see what I just discovered?
I was writing on here recently, that the way you eliminate small talk, is when you greet a stranger, you have to be the one with the initiative, IOW, you are setting the rules. Surprisingly enough, whoever starts it, officiates it, or it works out that way anyway. You see, what happens, is the extrovert adapts to you, every bit as much as you adapt to them when they greet you and its suddenly small talk. They can skip small talk, and we can grimacingly engage in it. If you walk up to a stranger, saying, "Excuse me (two second pause), but what do you think about the store brand green beans?" (just an example, don't shoot me). Will they respond back with small talk? No, they never will, because as you started the conversation, you have set the rules, and the rules are, we're here to discuss facts. Works every single time, at least for me. You have to beat them to the punch (say you're inevitably fixing to talk to somebody) and be the one to start the talking. It's that easy. If both of you are fixing to shake hands, it probably won't work that way, unless you can come up with a good line, but when you surprise somebody, like in the scenario I spoke of, it's flawless (thus far).
How then do I relate taking the initiative to being in charge and my excelling at that, and actually being part of THAT group? Because we're potentially leaders. We may only fit in with the group (not all that important I know) if we are leading them. We can turn them away from their system, onto ours. When I was in charge, at that job, let's review some of the traits you might think are necessary to lead a group, or, rather, NOT to lead a group. 1. I never greeted anybody. 2. I never asked them how they were doing, etc (small talk) 3. I smiled virtually none at all, except if I was laughing my butt off. 4. I just didn't talk all that much 5. My entire presence said one thing very clearly "do as I do, NOT as I say" (of course, for a sigma, what he says doesn't contradict what he does).
When your ethos is like that, and am actually their leader due to the job position, there we can take something of a social grip on them, because they're playing by YOUR rules then. And believe me, when you have a leader who leads by example, it puts almost an adoration by those under you, on you, because they've met a leader who will be with them at all times, and who doesn't think it a crime to actually "do work". I experienced this myself, when I met another leader who was the ABSOLUTE ACE, and he was so damn good, I just had to copy him as best I could when I finally was getting in charge.
Part of the reason we can excel leading, in because we have changed the rules, to facts rather than small talk, and there, we are king. It's actually part of the system, because I guarantee the managers who want to sit back in the office and do nothing, are the very same ones who have lived in the common social network, where that's part of their outlook, to dominate other people enough, they can sit back and live the high life. Yes, I've figured this out. That's also why we never made much of a scene trying to become part of the common social group, because they were setting the rules with the small talk technique, whereas we say to hell with small talk, I've got facts. The difference amounts to which sort of leader is over the group. The facts based one, or the small talk one. The underlings will adapt in any case, and I suspect, they actually PREFER the sigma way, for it's the one of freedom, but there's just so few sigmas and fewer still that understand this reality. We don't fit into groups as an underling, because we're against what you might call their social network of small talk. Take over that group, and suddenly small talk goes out the window pretty much. That's why alphas have a problem with us, because if we get in leadership, we are a DIRECT problem, but one we may not be aware of. Wow, this has been something of a revelation for me and it's nice to come to these realizations.
Us with a group, is only great if we're leading it. Contrast that to the alpha, and how miserable he must feel if a sigma is leading the group instead of him. I suspect all things being equal, the alpha does far better under a sigma, than a sigma does under an alpha, mainly due to the fact the alpha can still achieve much grip over the group (maybe as the class clown sort of thing) even under the sigma. I must say though, when I was leading teenagers (being barely older myself back then) I never had anybody have sort of a sub-system under me, like a guy that would start networking people away from my facts-based system. There were those that were a bit more rebellious, but they just did that thing on their own and didn't try to wrangle control from me. Whether any of them were alphas, I haven't the faintest clue. I also don't think they were ever meeting after work to network either, which really is a surprise. I suspect, especially at that age, they just had so many friends apart from work, they just didn't really need to screw around with the work people, like you so commonly see in the more mature work atmosphere. Also, it's just about the only group I ever screwed around with outside of work, say go to the bowling alley after we closed, or video games. I don't think I ever screwed around with co-workers outside of me being in charge of them at work. We're a leader in waiting most of our lives, and if we lead, those under us shift to much more of a fact-based look at things. Never have I understood the sigma-alpha leadership dilemma, and how that means so much to both of us leading a group, as to which direction they will go (and why), than now.
As well as I led those people back then, I knew I did it very well once I got ramped up, but I didn't have the vaguest clue that I had more of a grip on them than I thought, especially given the "speaking through my actions" approach. Some people are simply waiting for an alpha or sigma to lead them. Hard to believe, but that's because we're leading ourselves, if nothing else. That's also why you hear of people that can't make up their minds, because they never look that much inwards. Now I literally start to understand, why there are people that go out of their minds when they're alone. It's partly because they have nobody to lead them and they can't lead themselves (so they think). I'm on a roll I think, but I better stop, as I'm far too windy as it is.
Comments, as always, are welcome.
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I am a Sigma Male and am proud of it😎💪
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I want to share my story. when I was 14 at one time, I have been cheated on multiple times by my ex gf. plus bullied by family members and former students at high school. as time passed on during my lifetime. my own family pushed me away from family functions, then when left alone for a lone period of time. Then introversion crept in, the peace sat in without understanding. One of my uncles started messing with me mentally with bullying tactics, my temper got the best of me, I snapped, or blacked out. I found myself being picked up by two grown men. The bully was crying because someone younger than him took him down. Then fast forward about a few years later. Right in front of his wife. I took the uncle who bullied me previous because he caused me to almost to snap. within 3 seconds, he found himself struggling to live right in front of one of the men who helped me off him one time. and his wife. I asked the bully, does he want to live. He was asking his wife to get me off of him. He was begging for help. No one came to his aid. From then on, I became what I am a lone wolf who is self aware of his surroundings. I went through alot in life to become a sigma male.
I can identify with most of your story. Fortunately, I didn't have any abusive uncles to deal with. My father's alcoholism and rebelliousness were more than enough.
Then, when I entered the work force, I was subject to string of men who always tried to cause some kind of trouble for me. I could write a book about having been the target of jealous people.
The accumulation of years of abuse, disrespect and distrust have taken their toll, and just may have created a vengeful monster.
Sigma Male. Knows he is sigma male. Explains his being to no one. No time. Things need fixing. Help or step aside, respectfully.
I was born deaf at the age of six they fixed my hearing and I have no idea why I have always questioned everything in life if the answer you were giving me doesn’t make sense then I ask you explain to me why that is the way it is lotta times people can’t explain it It’s because they read it in a book and they took that book as gospel and people just don’t want to think for themselves I don’t trust a lot of people I have one really good friend I never ask anybody for help I prefer to be by myself 100% it’s that I’m not anti-sociable I just don’t like to be around people for the most part I work the job where I worked a lot of shift work for 21 years you could almost count on one hand how many Christmas I had off so today I’d rather sit at home by myself then go to Christmas dinner my family have just excepted the way I am but other people think I’m just really weird and very hard to get to know
Been sigma male is not same thing you choose to be it’s developed when you were young age due to upbringing & experience when you were growing up.
That's true👍
I became sigma due to life events ... well that happened to me without anothers doing
At age 6 i remembered a pst life
I also had a few premonitions that came to pass
These things never make the light of day in christianity the religion i was born into but for prophecy
So at some point i researched the idea of reincarnation and the implications it brought with it ... then i moved to premonition and the implications it brought with it
I have to state that this was not an easy one as it tore my whole idea of life apart
It implied i had no free will
But getting to the bottom of those two things lead me to taking apart biblical ideas ...disecting christianity and my answers just begat more questions... i delved into several religions researched mythology and then i turned to science did alot of research there and at this point i must say i was well on my way as a pure sigma because this behavior spread to every aspect of my life.
The norms did not bother me ... i was on my own mission seeking the truth behind what we call reality
I analise anything and everything ... needless to say and often joke about it ... i am filled with tons of useless information and a huge pile of general knowledge... not to mention wisdom as im now in my 50s ... and lastly i did reasearch on NDE's and now i have a picture in my mind of what i searched for and set of beliefs that i never thought id ever have ... nedless to say im long time set in the ways of a sigma and know no other way of existance.
I've got to say it was definitely a 1st hand coping mechanism to me, and then once I learned to love the coping mechanism itself, I never wanted to look back.
All my life, I got lied to, but always had some thoughts and feelings that the knowledge attained from others was NEVER satisfying.
I always got verbally hazed because, to other people I seemed ungrateful to not just settle for the knowledge they wanted to tell me which I didn't feel was never ever the full true story .
I was an abuse victim and, my family betrayed me so many times even the marriages I had until I learned nobody can't protect me better than me🙏😏
I could not stop myself from researching things to better my life and realized after extensive research I found out that I really was becoming a full fledged Sigma, through the trials itself and thanks for those trials I now have been for a few years now seeing that it's always best when you don't have to rely on nobody to do things that you can do yourself and makes you love yourself more, and it feels good.
And I will never ever look back I would not trade places with anyone in the world, a Sigma is the best place to be🥰😌😏😌😎
Well I became like sigma because my relative harassed me in my childhood and my parents were not there to protect me 😢 so now I don't feel anyone trusted 💔 after watching your videos I realized I exactly work like this videos says and because of this I don't have any close friends or anyone my gf left me because she can't understand me I only loved her in my entire life because i felt she is trusted but after she left nothing happened as I thought 👍 now I don't want anyone for me there are lot of things happened to me but I can't say all but I'm happy now being alone I feel sad about my gf but what to do 💔 and I also like to mention I felt she is exactly like me 😢 but she or me wanted more than that love I think 🥺 but I'm happy I think she is also happy 😊I don't know but what to do 😢
Hard times create hard men, or they destroy weak men. In a way, it’s a lifestyle choice. It’s choosing the difficult path because it’s the only one that leads to true power and freedom, while preserving authenticity. I don’t normally comment on videos. There is so much garbage on the internet of people claiming this title followed by validation seeking comments that usually start with “as a Sigma male myself”. These people in their seeking of acceptance and external validation are the complete opposite of a Sigma. Your channel is the most accurate description of the sigma archetype I have found. It was all those reasons you mentioned that made me the way I am today. Sure, I’ve always been more introverted, but that is hardly the only prerequisite for being a true “Sigma”
Waui Maui !!! Great vid, I was not aware of this category (sigma male) but it sounds like me predominately. I truly can relate to the need for sigma's to guard this value system!!! It's the worst thing you can take from us, one of the worst things!!!
I see myself as a sigma but others would think different because I do love being alone I got to have my privacy and prefer to walk to my own beat but I do like being around friends and having a good time with them, I’m not the biggest introvert but I never try to make my presence felt nor do I care if it is and I’m not the biggest flirt I have a lot more fun not chasing women which makes them want to get to know me so my personality I guess you can say is a bit confusing lol
Hi Im a sigma. As a freelance architect I thrive doing my project alone.. I only ask for expert advice from engineers only if needed. I enjoy working with solitude. A minimal downside I noticed is that I tend to expect good from others because I do good to you/ others (principle) just like the golden rule. But in real life it only drains you because it doesnt work that way all the time. Theres a lot of bad more than good in this mortal world. So in the end its better to build a strong foundation to not expect more from the world. Its like its better to give than to recieve principle. Thanks for the video.
i have a small construction company and im the same exact way. i dont even hire employees anymore due to the drama and massive energy it takes to be around ppl. i noticed i feel better when im alone and get way more done on my jobs. i got tired of expecting ppl to be decent human beings so i just spread love and peace and keep it moving. when uve been let down over n over you learn to rely on yourself. keep it up brother skys the limit for us!
The greatest tragedy of us Sigmas is we see the world and people as it is. Most people are silly enough to be fulfilling a role in society without realising that they are being dealt an unfair hand. Sigmas reject the deal.
I am Sigma and I believe I was born this way. I always walked my own path.
My father is one & l am a sigma cause of tt
@@anesumugudubi7935 For me the only way to be, you get to live life for what it is and you understand things that other people have no idea ✌️
I believe I am one of sigma now. Gf left me and I suffered. But had to move on. My family went divorced and caused pain, but I accepted reality.
Had 2 friends but then they insulted me and crossed the line.
And what I chose? "Walk Away" and be free.
authority that is in the world>>>listen>>because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.
I was born like this
Great video men !! 👍🏼
Appreciate it!
Wow these comments blew me away because I'm a woman and realized I have a LOT of sigma traits. Wish I could meet a sigma Male because we would be great together. This video described me down to a T. Is there an equivalent for women?
Sigma Women always welcome here;)
One more sigma female here 😊 I also think the best partners for us are sigma males. ❤️
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At 63, I'm probably a sigma based on what I've seen here. The whole area of socializing has mystified me forever. To be brief - why do people change so much when they go from their everyday routine selves, to their 'I'm-at-a-party' selves? They become so fake. I far prefer the way they are at 2:30 on a Tuesday afternoon when they're changing the bearings on the widget squashing machine. But when they're at a bar on Saturday night they feel they have to become that loud boastful bore who thinks they're endlessly funny and entertaining. Maybe non sigmas secretly hate socializing as much as I do and feel more secure when they're hiding behind a mask.
Great and beautiful video.Thank you very much.
Thanks for visiting! ;)
I'm a sigma male and a Cancer thats deadly
Life after parents divorcing when I was 8, and having to live the next ten years with limited resources, and having to depend on other people who didn't always act honorably.
Favors... yeah, id rather fix my problems alone than have to fix others.
Excellent description, thanks
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I became sigma…I work with someone and people work for me if I need something I pay someone to do that ..I don’t easily give my time to people ..I love going alone adventure rather than with people, I can decide what can I do without sacrificing what I love. Everything is first on me not for someone or people. When I’m alone by myself I can improve a lot of things in my life, I am selfish so when I give something it’s valuable it means I trust that person if he or she break it it’s over I move forward I understand the law of every human nature no heartache it’s just that’s how it goes just keep moving for better
You don't "become" Sigma. Personality isn't a blank slate. You're born with certain predespositions. So if you are a Sigma as an adult, you will always exhibit Sigma traits from childhood.
But that which breaks you down as a person can create a blank slate from which alot of new personality traits may grow looking back I think I became this way at 13 from the death of my mother and trying to rationalise what why and how death fits into existance ... and as my grief subsided I pulled up event that took place when I was 6 ... and my quest for answers began ... I may have been so from an earlier age but honestly cannot vouch for that.
Actually it was before her death ... but at age 13 ... i remember just changing suddenly and becoming introvert ... my mother used to force me to go play with friends and get out the house.
@@phillipcoetzer8186 Only severe traumatic experiences can alter the core of your personality because they alter the way your brain's wired and how your neuroreptors function. You didn't "become" an Introvert, you were an Introvert who was being forced to be an Extrovert.
Man this is me it's crazy cause that's how I think 💯👍🏼 ..on point
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Number 3 needs to be done more by everyone, people have become too much like sheep. We don't need everyone's approval
I'll be damned, I've been sigma, still am even more so, since 8 years ago, and I had no idea there was a term for it.
I can relate to a lot of this, but labeling is a box I don't want to be in.
that's exactly true
Well I am Sigma and don't really have to prove it 💚
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Just stumbled upon this. I don't know what a Sigma male is yet, but I couldn't help but feel like I was most like this when I was young. I have been called "selfish", "arrogant", "anti-social", "disagreeable", "uncooperative", "abrasive", "beta", "alpha", "controlling" -- whatever shaming language fits for the person who isn't getting what they want from me. Typically women and feminized men. These same people will call me "brilliant", "eloquent", "hilarious", "humble", "adaptable" and so on when they think their praise will influence my behavior, too. It seems that whenever I have veered from my own sensibilities -- to avoid temporary conflict against my better judgement -- and allowed either shame or praise to modify my behavior, I have suffered. And the longer it took for that suffering to manifest, the greater it has been.
Constant betrayal for being too nice, and better than others.
I became a sigma male when I realized I don't want to depend on anyone but myself as favours come with terms and conditions
Some sigma traits but definitely not sigma. Thanks for your video. Adapting your suggestions will improve my quality of life for sure
I think me being an only child combined with my love of anime man characters and identifying with them is what led to it
Multiple stints through the prison system since the day I turned 18 has profoundly changed who I am. How I precieve reality. My interactions with those around me. How I can go for days with out having to communicate frivolous dialog. I can't stand the flow of sheeple. And the norm.
Betrayal is what got me
Fun fact 2 years ago I didn't know I was a sigma male
I've never been accepted by society. Except for the two or three individual's I've met in 35yrs that can understand my way of thinking and my willing to stand on my gut feeling (illegal but right) to the death
amazing content 🔥♥
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Excelent topic...and I'm a true sigma male!
Appreciate it!👌
I didnt even no what a sigma was until I come across these videos. Id say im a dark sigma with pretty much all the traits the videos say makes a sigma
Nobody can’t just become Sigma. It’s either you’re born Sigma or not.
Exactly.
Right 👍
Amen...
No it is possible to learn the traits
For example a simp or beta can learn and start using the characteristics of an Alpha.
Same with Sigma.
@@matthewkonkin9538 Agreed. I was a simp when I entered by 20s; but now well into my 50s, I am a classic, 'lone wolf' sigma male who doesn't mess around or mince words. Add to that I stand around 6'2" and weigh over 200 lbs, and people know they must exercise an element of caution when dealing with me.
Most people know me to be reserved and reasonable. I am a man of principle and values who does not conform to fads.
I am like the bushmaster, mostly inoffensive, but should never be provoked or annoyed under any circumstances.
For me it was laziness. Never liked an idea to do something, that is stupid. Especially people-pleasing, because it will never be enough, so why bother about it?
I was born a sigma! I don't think a sigma can be made!
True That.
I am a sigma and you are exactly right.
An accurate description of me.
I agree to disagree.if you are a true sigma? You were born that way. As young people we are forced to commit the ways of society. And are not allowed to follow our instinct, when we become adults? We no longer need to obey anyone, we are now free from everyone and everything holding us down. We had the gift of being the sigma from birth but not allowed to be ourselves. So those that try to be a sigma on the outside are still who they are on the inside, it's just a act.to manipulate people into thinking they have changed but the real sigma can see right through this. A person should just be themselves, as a sigma.we don't play victim, we don't play the blame game. We take responsibility for all the bad life dishes to us. We like who we are and get over things fast, never dwelling on a problem but dwelling on many different solutions for one problem 👍
I see a lot of people confuse being an Akwsrd introvert with being a Sigma-NOT!
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Yeah,a sigma personality is gradually manifested. Agreed 100%.
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Funny thing Bro 🤣👊🏻 when I was 21 (I guess) have been interrogated twice, by Polish Intelligence of that times. For French Intelligence request or pointing out. Had my phone taped and so on. This spy wars I’ve mentioned once, a’int just a fancy LARP bullshit. Like “Internet warriors” these days. After, I’ve passed another Polish Intelligence, verification this time, to build on Polish military site, I’ma rodbuster. Authorities or Masons made me this way, I guess. But were there traits, to end up in such a mess in a first place? 🤣 you hit the spot Bro 🤣👊🏻
Pretty accurate
I was born this way...
I think sigmas are born for the most part.
how i see it is youre a sigma not if you're a guy who rejects women or bullies gays you a sigma if you respect everybody no matter their race gender or status somebody who dosend bully and is a nice person. i see lots of people on the internet who think you're a sigma if you bully trans or don't simp but I think you're a sigma if you aren't a upper to the courpret world and just respect people for who they are
As a sigma male, I need only one word to answer: distrust.
Some notice that it doesn't benefit anyone living life for others,betrayed more times ,treasure solitude more than anything as they become more productive and gain the ability to read manipulators minds.
Sovereignty..
Wrong. I was born INXJ and thus development of thinking equals INTJ. Look into Carl Jungs Archtypes.
1:10 Disagree. Your experiences can play a factor in modifying your perspective and attitude toward events. You might choose to follow a different path in life, however your personality remains . It Is your personality that defines your natural status in the hierarchy classification and NOT THE PATTERN OF CONDUCTS you decide to modify.
main reason is practicality
I am an xpert sigma for life no one can stop me
Sounds Great ;)
1)People think sigma is awsome until they become one. The rest of us are still going through hard challenges. Its not always good all the time.
2)When you find out that your family rarely gives a shit, you won't be the center child anymore. All everyone sees is the good sides of a sigma. Why not the bad sides? Because they dont want to grow through that. When you arent used to being alone you will find out that it will happen all the time until you get used to it and it becomes peaceful like how we like it.
3) Dependency, if you want to be sigma to be validated by others. Sorry dude you chose the wrong one. Sigmas only validate themselves. Its basically survival of the fittest mixed with self improvement with sigmas.
4) From weak to strong. Authority is like an erking word to us. Id say we are like the assassins creed, it would make sense.
5)Remember to have fun sometimes.
Thank You For Sharing :) It's True :)
Im a sigma and i like the word sigma but i didn't see any sigma female
Why do people nowadays change the name of things so much? Sigma means lone wolf, which is a far better name than Sigma. Main actor syndrome instead of self centered is another worse change.
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the secrete to become a ´´ sigma ´´ is overal negative expirience whit life and most people they encounter in it .
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the secret to becoming a "sigma". It's always fascinating to hear different perspectives and experiences. Your comment adds depth to the conversation.
A sigma is born sigma or made into one by the environment.
I identify as Sigma.
Having been raised by a know-it-all, self-righteous, controlling alpha male who thrived on toxic masculinity, I was despised for not being the beta son who lived in his shadow, and this caused me to reject the hierarchy as the extremist garbage in which an ignorant egotistical man will placed greater a value than loving his own family.
We don't want a monologue
Oneword:
Depressin
We all learn the hard way, and say never again. Now I know better, so I will do better. Then we become sigma.
Their past
no parents, and military medic, that will do it
We we’re betrayed to the highest degree 😘
WHO ME
Hell and back
What ? You are conflating skills vs nature. I have learn to socialize, even tho I still feel the same