11 SIGNS YOU’RE A SIGMA MALE (Women Love This!)

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  • 11 SIGNS YOU’RE A SIGMA MALE (Women Love This!) // Many people are wondering what makes sigma males attractive… Have you been wondering too? Sigma male traits can be incredibly attractive to women! Get ready because you’re about to discover some powerful sigma male characteristics and the sigma male mindset. Whether you think you have the sigma male personality or not, what you’re about to learn will help you attract women faster. Get ready for 11 signs you’re a sigma male!
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  • @CoachMelannie
    @CoachMelannie  Рік тому +45

    Do you want lasting love with YOUR dream girl? You'll LOVE my all-new FREE masterclass because lays it all out for you! 🔥 Watch it here now 👉 coachmelannie.com/masterclass/
    💭 P.S. What surprised you the most about this video? Tell me in the comments!

    • @steledographics
      @steledographics Рік тому +1

      A few years ago, I discovered that I possess most of the Sigma male qualities & personality.
      It has helped me be more confident in my self identity as a man, my life decisions & what makes me tick.
      I don't like "titles" in general, yet being a Sigma male, intimidates people who are more co-dependent.
      I don't go out of my way to intimidate people, it just happens being me.

    • @steledographics
      @steledographics Рік тому +1

      SIGMA
      "Paris"
      I enjoy watching your "goofy goober" bloopers at the end. 🤪🤣🥰

    • @rb-ct4ri
      @rb-ct4ri Рік тому +1

      Paris

    • @cliveedharris1353
      @cliveedharris1353 Рік тому +1

      Sigma male the world's greatest lovers and the woman love them very much 🌈🥰👈😃💯

    • @cliveedharris1353
      @cliveedharris1353 Рік тому +1

      My beautiful sweetheart eve she is beautiful and I'm so excited thank you for your tips and advice thank you 🌈😃👈

  • @BountyHunter439
    @BountyHunter439 Рік тому +71

    Real sigma males, never tell people, they are sigma.. we don't need validation from anyone
    Keep smiling, that never gets old

    • @bubblesthechimp97
      @bubblesthechimp97 4 місяці тому +17

      The irony of saying you're a sigma male in this comment is hopefully not lost on others.

    • @mattjolley5460
      @mattjolley5460 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@bubblesthechimp97I was going to make a similar comment, but you have it covered.

    • @TanNhanVoCuc
      @TanNhanVoCuc 3 місяці тому

      Nhưng khi họ là sigma và "nói" (bằng 1 cách nào đó) rằng họ là sigma, họ cũng ko cần ai đồng tình hay xác nhận xem họ có phải sigma thật ko khi tự nói mình là sigma. Họ ko cần bạn xác nhận. Họ có thể là sigma trong các sigma, khái niệm sigma chỉ để họ nhận thức về nhóm những người như mình trên thế giới, ko phải để đóng khung hành vi của họ.

    • @fakename8856
      @fakename8856 3 місяці тому +1

      Also real Sigmas are about 1 : 10,000 men and we never ever live in cities because we don’t like being around that many city people. If a woman wants to try to find the illusion Sigma start looking out of town.

    • @darrenfoster5341
      @darrenfoster5341 2 місяці тому

      A good point in normal circumstances but when used descriptively ad to forewarn some people look im this do this piss me off this eill happen. But that just might be me after coming out of a relationship where th a narcssst while I had a childhood trauma triggered which was narcissistic. But maybe that’s just me under current circumstances. I have no patience right now and I really don’t want the outcome. Until I can regain my calm.

  • @shawnmcleod7231
    @shawnmcleod7231 Рік тому +130

    My dad died when I was 9. Joined Marines at 18. Change was constant for me. Adapt and overcome! And I don’t care what anyone thinks. I’m living life my way.

    • @supamanlova9250
      @supamanlova9250 Рік тому +4

      You go man!

    • @27pugsly
      @27pugsly Рік тому +4

      That sounds more alpha

    • @nigelchew1890
      @nigelchew1890 Рік тому +9

      Then why do you need to tell me?

    • @sportsfan521
      @sportsfan521 Рік тому +1

      Confused
      So u in military or ur father was?

    • @lucienfournier5399
      @lucienfournier5399 Рік тому +7

      "I don't care what anyone thinks" Are you sure? Then why did you write this message many times?

  • @johnm8284
    @johnm8284 Рік тому +70

    1 Don't follow authority "just because"
    2 Stay real to self
    3 Don't require social recognition/attention
    4 Good listener
    5 Take charge of your life
    6 Small circle of friends
    7 Not Afraid to step out of the norm
    8 Introvert
    9 Quiet
    10 Flexible
    11 You are Genuine
    12 Confidence
    typo fixed thanks.

    • @JamshadAhmad
      @JamshadAhmad Рік тому +9

      3. Do you mean "Do not require"?

    • @Rod_2E0RLR
      @Rod_2E0RLR Рік тому +1

      Wow i'm a yes to all of these!

    • @thecrocandsweepshow611
      @thecrocandsweepshow611 Рік тому +4

      I easily meet 80%+ of theses. Yet still single and I see the opposite getting women queuing around the block for them?

    • @078OG
      @078OG Рік тому +6

      1 and 3 are in conflict with the rest of the list.
      Never follow authority and never try to conform to Social demands. Dont be a hypocrite.

    • @jeromebarry1741
      @jeromebarry1741 Рік тому +1

      1. I am pretty much all these points. 2. I doubt your conclusion. Because: If I were attractive to any woman, I'd know about a woman attracted to me.

  • @dannylee223
    @dannylee223 Рік тому +27

    One essential trait of what makes a Sigma is that we are are deep thinkers so it’s in our best interest to weigh the effects of being genuine or not. If we choose not to be, in most cases it shows emotional maturity.

    • @justanothertrucker7856
      @justanothertrucker7856 11 місяців тому +3

      If you are weighing the effects of being genuine it just means you are not genuine nor authentic.

    • @johnnyflannigan136
      @johnnyflannigan136 10 місяців тому

      You are a beta male dude

    • @Cryaboutit2007
      @Cryaboutit2007 10 місяців тому

      @@justanothertrucker7856 no it means you are sensitive to other people's feelings and as we are all flawed, some more than others, it's better a lot of times to not tell somebody something that will not be constructive to their psyche. so now we know you are not a sigma.

  • @emanuelmakonnen72
    @emanuelmakonnen72 Рік тому +7

    Thank you Melannie! Thinking for yourself is so important.

  • @granillog4691
    @granillog4691 11 місяців тому +2

    I am a very introverted LEO, LONE WOLF, SIGMA MALE, INTJ. I am very secretive and I only like to talk to someone who think like the way I think.

  • @MrSoxfan4250
    @MrSoxfan4250 Місяць тому +2

    I don’t ever need to
    “attract women” or
    “make people like me.” If it doesn’t happen, then great; if it does, then great.

  • @productofbelgium
    @productofbelgium Рік тому +59

    A new follower here ! Finally someone who gives serious advice without those toxic mindgames . Thank you . Sigma !

  • @christopherahler4674
    @christopherahler4674 Рік тому +6

    Paris! I just discovered you thanks to the topic. I think I'm a sigma male, which explains a lot regarding my desire for isolation and my ambitious pursuits. Thank you and Merry Christmas!

  • @joepstevenson
    @joepstevenson Рік тому +7

    Thanks Melanie. Knowing this is really comforting 🙂

  • @hamidyasamin
    @hamidyasamin Рік тому +21

    I like the part where you say we don't have to confine ourselves as a specific type. A good man responds to challenges according to the conditions and will do what he thinks is appropriate regardless of what others may think. Happy Christmas Melannie, and hope to see you in PARIS 😊

  • @datboi6066
    @datboi6066 Рік тому +21

    Going through a bad breakup with my first gf, your videos have been helping a lot. I trust that if I become the man I want to be god will give me the partner im looking for. Sincerely, thank you Melanie 🙏🏻🙏🏻❣

  • @jimhester3731
    @jimhester3731 Рік тому +6

    I just watched your video for the first time. I've watched many other videos on Sigms Males, and can say with confidence I'm a Sigma Male. One of the most frustrating things for me is people not understanding my personality (judging me). I look forward to watching more of your post. 😁

  • @sven_ampleforth
    @sven_ampleforth Рік тому +6

    Hi Coach Melannie!!
    The most surprising tip is: Being flexible.
    Somehow the routine give the feeling of success because you are walking on a "proven" path, and walking outside the path could make you anxious.
    Thanks for the tips.
    ---------
    Sure there are a lot of interesting places to visit in PARIS, but it would fun if you could find a store, a park or a company named SIGMA.

  • @IISCAFFII
    @IISCAFFII Рік тому +9

    As a younger man, full of bravado (and aggression) I would have considered myself an “Alpha”, but now, as a middle aged man I very much believe I have transitioned to a Sigma - life experiences have turned me into one.

  • @adriancushway5050
    @adriancushway5050 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this video and many others. Your friendly demeanor and infectious smile make them really enjoyable 😄 Paris!

  • @Lights480
    @Lights480 Рік тому +2

    Merry Christmas to all. May your good wish come true.
    It's amazingly good (and also surprising I'm a pure sigma male) to hear that I'm all the signs that you've mentioned. But, I still understand I'm all equipped with equally big flaws as well. Life is hard for me now, but I will try to improve to survive better.

  • @BaDAiR647
    @BaDAiR647 11 місяців тому

    Great information all around Mel. Your authenticity shines. Like a warm blanket on a cold day. Keep it up ace. Would love to hear more of your perspective.

  • @keiwinnmitchell3212
    @keiwinnmitchell3212 11 місяців тому +1

    Paris! Thanks for your content!

  • @panama-red6916
    @panama-red6916 Рік тому +12

    I think we are all of these things.. but throughout the years society kinda dictates how we should be around people. We are influenced by cinemas, we aspire to become someone else to the point that we forget to be our genuine selves.. took me years to understand this. Great video btw I'm a fan! Been dissecting your videos lately

  • @bumpincar
    @bumpincar Рік тому +5

    Thanks for lots of great content on your channel.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Рік тому +1

      My pleasure! I'm so happy you're enjoying it! 😀

  • @johnjeannineball1335
    @johnjeannineball1335 Рік тому

    PARIS!! You're so fun to watch, in addition to having good information.😀😀 You make me smile!!

  • @nishantarora7219
    @nishantarora7219 Рік тому +1

    You are doing great work Melannie. Love You.

  • @CostasSchuler
    @CostasSchuler Рік тому +2

    Recently discovered the signa archetype and its helped explain a lot in my life...fascinating stuff

  • @Lichfeldian--Suttonian
    @Lichfeldian--Suttonian Рік тому +2

    I have recently discovered that I am a sigma. One of the reasons is that I don't answer to the authority of the dating and relationship culture. I just 'am', and that works for me. Having _my_ standards instead of the _authority's_ standards keeps me safe. Timshel!

  • @mikemike9449
    @mikemike9449 Рік тому +1

    I watched to the end! Your personality is worth it and the subject matter is interesting.

  • @123Raw3301
    @123Raw3301 3 місяці тому

    mad love for you, thanks!

  • @stevenfridge4809
    @stevenfridge4809 Рік тому +14

    Hi Coach Melanie. I pop in & out of your channel. This SIGMA one caught my attention. I’ve always be called a Silent Alpha & Passive-Aggressive. The funny this is I just leaned that there’s designated terms that suit this - Sigma & Ambivert. These two terms fit me very well, not 100%. The traits are strong. I’m turning 50 y/o, Empty-nester & starting to actually pay attention to ladies that flirt or I’m paying attention to. I’m AM taking advantage of my Salt & Pepper scruffy beard; it works. I’m looking forward to hearing more on these two traits. You’re FUN to watch & listen to. | SF

    • @Old.School.Ronin.01
      @Old.School.Ronin.01 Рік тому

      Yeah same. Perhaps women in "Paris" will not.

    • @nikkingman
      @nikkingman 11 місяців тому

      You're using the word passive aggressive incorrectly.

  • @adamboylan2307
    @adamboylan2307 Рік тому +10

    Feels nice to be appreciated. Thank you Melanie. First time I seen your face on a video and heard your voice, I was blown away by your attractiveness. Just saying. Glad you made this video. Now more people will understand why they are attracted to us sigma. It's great that you and social media is shining a light on sigmas that we aren't out to take over the world, or the dating market. We just need to be understood. We really just want the best for everyone. Paris. Great place to visit. I will myself, when I get there. And really look forward to it.

  • @willking381
    @willking381 Рік тому +1

    Paris Baby! Thank you for what you do! You're Awesome! Merry Christmas!

  • @pcooper0010
    @pcooper0010 Рік тому +1

    Melannie - Great video of sigma male. Produce more videos like this. Thank you!

  • @barrydanish6008
    @barrydanish6008 Рік тому +11

    I like your advice to not put yourself in a box, no matter what the advice. I qualify as sigma and liked hearing that being introverted can be a good quality, yet I have taken charge of my life and have learned how to come out of my shell when it might benefit me. I will continue watching your videos, you seem very real, and genuine. The fact that I like looking at you because you’re drop dead gorgeous doesn’t hurt!

  • @jonathans.9713
    @jonathans.9713 Рік тому +4

    Hello Melannie, Thank you for sharing the 11 signs you’re a sigma male. It is very nice to hear the great characteristics of them. You have an encouraging spirit and a positive attitude as a young lady. Paris. Have an outstanding day and God bless you! In Christ, Jonathan 😀

  • @thurmond8965
    @thurmond8965 Рік тому

    Paris. Love the video. Thank you again!

  • @Grant-lr5bn
    @Grant-lr5bn Рік тому

    I really enjoyed your video. U have a great flow and are beautiful to watch. I hope this helps a lot of men out there. Thank you for making this vid. Paris

  • @robertgotschall1246
    @robertgotschall1246 Рік тому +6

    I thoroughly enjoyed my college years, excellent social life, I found a wife, I even got my degree. But casual acquaintances were puzzled to learn that instead of attending University sporting events, or joining a fraternity, I spent my time with a bunch of fabulous furry freak brothers exploring caves and climbing mountains.
    However, on leaving college I somehow failed to get the memo and continued to live life my own way. Predictably, I failed to achieve notable success in corporate America or anything else.
    It's only recently, through discussions like this, that I learned that I may have a personality type that had little interest in that life style anyway. And that my “failure” wasn’t necessarily due to a pathological condition.
    I am gradually learning to be comfortable with my personal goals in life, but it's a work in progress.

    • @NPC-fl3gq
      @NPC-fl3gq Рік тому +2

      I don't value what the man next door has. It means virtually nothing to sigmas, so keeping up with the Joneses just ain't our thing.

  • @marcolanza6281
    @marcolanza6281 Рік тому +3

    What "surprises" me is that I can't deny the fact that I am a sigma male. Just love your video ♥

    • @baraboo-nb7hv
      @baraboo-nb7hv Рік тому

      You wanna be sigma. Get over it.

    • @QuizOfAll
      @QuizOfAll Рік тому

      People who say they are sigma males aren’t, remember that.

  • @RememberTrueStyle
    @RememberTrueStyle 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @rodneyruark5446
    @rodneyruark5446 Рік тому

    I really am intrigued by your description

  • @-GrimEngineer-1337
    @-GrimEngineer-1337 Рік тому +25

    Just learned recently that I am apparently this new category, the Sigma. I've always been the lone-wolf contemplator who doesn't care what others think. I've been known to knock Alphas down a peg when I see them picking on others. This is truly interesting and explains a lot about why I have such a small inner circle and friends list.

    • @boltonious
      @boltonious Рік тому +2

      love the sigma title, enjoy

    • @danielokech
      @danielokech Рік тому +4

      Lol…
      Sigma males won’t even let people know they are sigma.

    • @sethforesi307
      @sethforesi307 Рік тому +1

      @@danielokech exactly 🤣

    • @GoogleAccount-po1gl
      @GoogleAccount-po1gl 11 місяців тому

      You and the whole comment section is this bullahit label sigma..
      Self-proclaimed sigmas.

  • @bigguy2683
    @bigguy2683 Рік тому +5

    Attractive to women? Who cares? Ignore them. Be attractive to yourself! Seek self actualization based upon your view of yourself and your accomplishments! Men need to stop basing their self image and validation on whether or not women like them, are attracted to them, find them desirable, accept them, go to bed with them, or anything. Find your validation elsewhere.
    We all change. We all have seasons of life and we can be much different in each season. Women , like all of us, also change as they age. The woman who loves and desires you today may feel the opposite in two months, two years, or two decades. Whatever the time period when she utters the phrase "I'm not happy!" your life as you knew it is OVER. The system gives her the power, even just on a whim, to remove you from your house, your possessions, your career, and even your children. Many women do just that.
    Seek peace, quiet, and freedom as a famous man I much admire has said. Seek self sufficiency and avoid marriage or cohabitation at all costs. Learn to be impervious to women and their games to entrap you. Learn the discipline to look right through them, not at them. Extra points the more attractive the woman is. Ignore her. She has no power over you unless you give it. Withhold that power.
    Men, do not ever take advice from women especially one younger or much younger than you with far less life experience.

  • @williamreynolds5567
    @williamreynolds5567 3 місяці тому

    Paris
    Great content
    I just watched you for the first time
    I am going look forward to more content.
    Thank You 🙏🏻 ❤

  • @fadik8811
    @fadik8811 Рік тому

    Paris bbe! 🔥Keep rocking with your content!

  • @geschwarz
    @geschwarz Рік тому +11

    I never thought I would ever hear anything about my personality type. But when I heard the description if Sigma I was blown away. They are discribing ne exactly. I am 64, btw.
    Anyways, there are about three things that all of them are missing in general, or about me in particular.
    They are exceptionally candid and communicative with their partner.
    They are very creative. They do talk about this, but they don’t stress it as much as it should be.
    Third, and this is the biggie, and none of them have noticed this. Sigmas are in touch with their feminine side. That means they are balanced and are very empathetic and connect well with women, and in fact prefer conversation with women in social settings because women are more interested in important issues, whereas men typically only talk about sports.

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx Рік тому +2

      'women are more interested in important issues'
      lol

    • @Zarathoustra82
      @Zarathoustra82 Рік тому

      That last line is actually totally retarded.

    • @toddpacker1015
      @toddpacker1015 Рік тому

      'women are more interested in important issues'
      I'm sorry what?

    • @TheFatclassic
      @TheFatclassic Рік тому

      Lol, I feel like someone who'd actually be considered a sigma male wouldn't go out of their way to tell people that they are. Kind of cringe, my friend

    • @lomarsweed6604
      @lomarsweed6604 10 місяців тому

      If by "important issues" you mean "likes" on Instagram, then yeah...

  • @benjaminA.stantonpun
    @benjaminA.stantonpun Рік тому +2

    Everything here seems to fit me perfectly. I mean all 11 signs mentioned in this video. 😉👍

    • @fakename8856
      @fakename8856 3 місяці тому +1

      Most of the content in this video is incorrect. As an actual sigma I laughed at so much of this video, such silly nonsense. Sigmas are very very rare and as lone wolves we don’t seek or require the approval of others. Most people will never meet a Sigma in their entire life (this is especially true with city people because sigmas never live in big cities or apartment blocks).

    • @benjaminA.stantonpun
      @benjaminA.stantonpun 3 місяці тому +1

      @@fakename8856 I understand what you are saying here. I know one fact is that a Sigma male would almost never claim that he is such. They usually despise having recognition and/or being in a spotlight. All I meant is that I meet every common criteria on the matter except that bit. I actually do not mind being publicly seen and heard every now and then.

    • @fakename8856
      @fakename8856 3 місяці тому +1

      @@benjaminA.stantonpun you think I want “recognition”? I am probably the most private person you can think of. I don’t even have social media. I was simply making a comment about what a real Sigma is. We are lone wolves.

  • @jordanmcdonald1985
    @jordanmcdonald1985 Рік тому

    The boxing yourself in advice is top notch advice. 👌

  • @josephcrafa2694
    @josephcrafa2694 11 місяців тому

    Had to watch this for a second time and realized that your accuracy in your description is amazing .

    • @fakename8856
      @fakename8856 3 місяці тому +1

      This is a very poor description of what a real Sigma male is. This woman is writing her wish list but doesn’t actually talk about the most basic core qualities of a real sigma. She literally doesn’t know what she is talking about and has likely never even met a sigma.

  • @MrMockingbird1313
    @MrMockingbird1313 Рік тому +51

    Hey Melannie, I am Sigma. Most people around me thought I was a pain in gluteus. Even when I was 4 years old. I will be 67 in a few days. He are a couple points, based on my extensive experience. Sigmas are NOT introverts or extroverts, they are almost perfectly even. According to my results on the Myers Briggs analysis I am almost perfectly neutral. Usually I am slightly an ENTJ, but sometimes depending on my mood, the score comes out INTJ. The next thing about Sigma is emotional reactions. It is very hard to get our pulse up. After a few repetitions working with live high voltage my pulse stopped reacting. Stock market trades of several thousand dollars does not make much difference. Meeting a very beautiful woman helps raise my pulse a little. A point you did not mention is honesty. I think most Sigmas cannot tell lies very well. We tend to despise liars. And lastly, I have heard more confessions than Father O'Malley. Both men and women just tell me things they never said to anyone else. Often someone has said to me "I don't know why I'm telling you this, but..." True Sigmas are believed to be very rare. Perhaps less than 2 percent of all males. I believe the idea of Sigma in sports is way over stated. But, one player on a baseball team is Sigma. Guess who? He's the closer, in the 9th inning. So, just give me the ball, Coach.

    • @Cecil_X
      @Cecil_X Рік тому +5

      The Myers-Briggs profile is all spectrum based. I am big time Sigma and I peg the introvert scale on the Myers Briggs test. I balance the "NTH" fairly well. However, keep in mind introvert is not shy. It simply means we think and process internally. We read a lot, get lots if information before making a decision, ask people questions in non-judgmental ways, in order to learn about them, etc. Interesting comment on the cardio pulse. My friends at work were betting on cardio measures. They outright told me I could not play. They were right. I would have clearly taken the pot (I participated in the measurement, I just could not bet). I also hear a ton of confessions, and I did not realize that was a sigma male thing.

    • @MrMockingbird1313
      @MrMockingbird1313 Рік тому +2

      @@Cecil_X I believe you sound Sigma. My point was I am very slightly more extrovert, on most days. But, I think Sigma is almost neutral.

    • @jorger7723
      @jorger7723 Рік тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. One comment on my part. I think she meant introvert date. You can be "neutral" but in a date a woman might see you as an "introvert".PARIS

    • @NPSvideo678
      @NPSvideo678 Рік тому +2

      I think you’re right. Most people can’t believe I’m an introvert.
      It’s like I have a dual mode.
      A lot of people also tell me thinks when first meeting me. I’ve gotten used to it.

    • @robert4you
      @robert4you Рік тому +6

      A true Sigma would never say he is Sigma. Period!

  • @homarrowe7187
    @homarrowe7187 Рік тому +4

    I'm a sigma and I just wonna say you're doing great and everything right there was true.... you are exciting, attractive and you're personality shows a clean and pure heart🏆👸

    • @happyapple4269
      @happyapple4269 Рік тому

      Sigmas dont spell 'want to ' as 'wonna'.

    • @durcomusic
      @durcomusic Рік тому

      @@happyapple4269 typo obv lol n sigmas dont care bout lil shi like that so reading over the text again is for betas like u

    • @homarrowe7187
      @homarrowe7187 Рік тому

      @@happyapple4269 and a sigma wouldn't do what you did....MR. hater

    • @darinlazare8441
      @darinlazare8441 Рік тому +1

      Just concentrate on levelling up guys . No words spoken

    • @homarrowe7187
      @homarrowe7187 Рік тому

      @@darinlazare8441 👍👍

  • @proverbalizer
    @proverbalizer Рік тому +1

    I 100% agree with you about the box. Let you identity come from deep knowledge of self, not any label from society. I don't like being boxed in at all (which ironically is a sigma trait) so when I randomly clicked on a sigma video, I was almost a bit annoyed how spot on most of the description was.

  • @shahramabbaie5330
    @shahramabbaie5330 2 місяці тому

    Thanks, Melannie Coach , I love you 😊 .❤

  • @spaceted3977
    @spaceted3977 Рік тому +4

    I'm 100% Sigma, but I always felt like an Outcast !!!! I had lots of Girlfriends but I never got married or had children !!!! I never really knew why most women liked me very much !!!! But I love being on my own !!! I'm 68 years old and have my own place and 2 Dogs, and I couldn't be happier !!!! People have always not been able to understand me !!!! They think I'm very lucky but I just think before I do anything !!!! My 2 Dogs are my best friends and I don't want a Partner and I'm happy with no close friends !!!! Friends are always wanting money or want to borrow stuff and never give it back !!!! So I enjoy my stress free life and I don't regret still being single at all !!!!!

    • @nicholaslindenmeyer6472
      @nicholaslindenmeyer6472 Рік тому

      !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @terrybrown3224
      @terrybrown3224 11 місяців тому

      You figured it out, no baggage, congrats your living well!

  • @Frankincensedjb123
    @Frankincensedjb123 Рік тому +7

    For all you sigma males who don't want to wade through 14 minutes of video, I looked up the list online.
    1. Unresponsive to Authority
    2. Happy in Solitude
    3. Adapts Easily to Change
    4. Treats People Equally
    5. Quiet and Contemplative
    6. Self-Reliant
    7. Great Self-Awareness
    8. Marches to His Own Beat
    9. Often Mysterious or Enigmatic
    10. Flirts with Danger
    11. May Lack Social Skills
    First of all, I wouldn't say "unresponsive to authority," but rather not intimidated or bothered by it. Also, I'd say we are quiet and contemplative, but many have learned to be assertive and in control in a crowd, party, while lecturing, or speaking, etc. We adapt. We don't shy away from people because we are innately introspective. We learn how to overcome that weakness to become an introverted/extrovert. Peace, INTJs!

  • @augustus3829
    @augustus3829 Рік тому +1

    My grandson is 21 and attends the University of Miami on a football scholarship. During the winter break, he sent me a pic of him and his lady friend from Lake Tahoe. I explained to him how traveling to other places and especially overseas can expand the mind. It gives you a perspective of respect and appreciation of what you know and already process. I told him in time to come, visit Paris among other locations as well. I was born in Japan and grew up there until 11 years old. Later on in life, I was fortunate to lived and visited other places around the world that instilled other sigma traits as well, (not to mention my parental up bringing). The oriental culture gave me the gift of various traits you shared in the video that sigma males have. As an example, being the "quiet one" is not a bad thing. Knowing how to read a room or person with respect, honor and communicate with confidence are fundamental traits sigmas have.
    I appreciate your video and hope that others do the same.

  • @anti-air-conditioning
    @anti-air-conditioning Рік тому +1

    It makes sense all of a sudden. Thank you Lady

  • @arkhamkillzone
    @arkhamkillzone Рік тому +4

    Ever since I started following the Lord and reading his word I am seeing that all the sigma male traits mentioned define my character exactly. God changed me from the insecure and mentally unstable person that i used to be and restored my life and character to how it should be before I was rebelling against my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. The peace I have doesn't come from my self but it comes from him.

  • @WilliamBailey-gr7ue
    @WilliamBailey-gr7ue Рік тому +3

    You really lit up a smile on me when I found out you are a Christian dating coach and not just a dating coach. God Bless you.

  • @renereyes5580
    @renereyes5580 Рік тому

    Love the video, thank you.

  • @MsTiger6969
    @MsTiger6969 Рік тому

    Merry Christmas !

  • @playstationgamer6684
    @playstationgamer6684 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Melannie for the positive information, I am a Sigma and many people misjudge me, but you gave me a moral support on what I am 🤩

    • @jeffreyriley8742
      @jeffreyriley8742 Рік тому +3

      Real sigmas don't need moral support from others. They already have it in themselves.

    • @AnimalWorldUploads
      @AnimalWorldUploads 7 місяців тому

      @@jeffreyriley8742 right

  • @forgive-po2tu
    @forgive-po2tu Рік тому +7

    There's no secret to being a sigma male, it's just a way off life!

  • @deanstewart8445
    @deanstewart8445 11 днів тому

    I just subscribed. I like your energy.

  • @kalelunchained8977
    @kalelunchained8977 Рік тому

    Paris
    Thank you for the info

  • @snakeplissken1754
    @snakeplissken1754 Рік тому +3

    Not to worry about others things is one of the easiest things in life, just realize the one fact. Other people´s opinions are neither valid nor relevant in regard to you or whatever you do. All that matter is what you think of yourself, what you do and you have to stay true to that no matter what.
    You will inevitably hit a lot of people on the head as they can´t handle this, there is no "compliment" manipulation possible, no sweet talk, no other vomit inducing socializing garbage to make you "agreeable". You are just who you are, others have to accept that or get lost.
    Which adds another layer however... or it´s just a me thing cause i am natural born loner, you just simply do not value or see much point in relationships, you kinda take what is beneficial and bugger off afterwards as they make me feel restricted and i can´t have that. Also there is never a "we" in my thought or care, i can team up with people if i consider it beneficial to do so, but never to do something i could do on my own just to have company and never am i "part" of a team or whatever. I am always an outsider by choice and like to keep distance.
    Another thing i genuinely have issues with is, authority, which follows in with the first point. I have to do what i have to do no matter what and other peoples opinion or thoughts on that are not relevant. That doesn´t make me good at following orders nor follow standards (only if both fall in line with that i think is best, in which i just "follow" by accident). However neither been a fan of applying rules/standards on others as i prefer people using the grey matter in their heads and get stuff down without others telling them step by step how to. One reason i am also highly annoyed by chicks with "daddy" issues.... i do not want a sub that needs me to tell her what to do in every part of life, grow up and learn to tie your own shoes or else i can´t even take you serious let alone consider you anything but obsolete.
    Short part, sigma´s are pure chaos in what is a rule/standard loving society, and we are alpha´s worst nightmares as they want to lead/apply rules for others but there is nothing they can do to make us follow or even care. Beta´s are confused as for them anything we do seems easy and natural but we don´t want to have them "follow" us as "groupies" and praise our every move, that is an alpha thing.
    Odd´s are no sigma is ever going past situationships.. it would be against their very nature and the vast majority of women (that i got to know) would ever be able to keep a sigma interested, or fit´s his way of life. However... you will attract a lot of women and even so you don´t care about most you have ample opportunity for casual fun if you so desire, just be warned a lot of chicks can´t handle you as you will not follow her expectations, neither will you give in an inch, are highly resilient to manipulation and even blackmail attempts won´t even bother you in the slightest.
    Existing "outside" of society, yet doing what you do and be successful doing so, you will never "feel" to be part of something/with someone and are generally pure chaos wherever you step your foot into. If you don´t have your own business but are employed then good luck, if you have a superior with any brain activity he/she will realize it´s best to let you do what you do without ever asking questions and not look to close what rules you follow or break cause doing both is part of your nature. Have a boss that tries to "get you in line"... both of you will end up bashing their heads with each other without anyone giving in an inch, you are likely to find another job as this one is restricting you and expecting the worst from you, sell out on yourself to "do" as someone else wants.
    Oh and one additional happy thing, you will find it hard to understand nowadays society and the addiction of many to complain/waste time over the most trivial of things (specially on social media). You are like an alien among people, the sooner you understand that the happier you will be, try not to blend in it won´t work and you will just hate yourself trying. Focus on what you want from life and pursue it, if you do that you will be a force of nature that gets forward no matter what. (you are likely to however walk over many "corpses", not literally but mentally speaking, not that you care either way. People just dislike/hate something they can neither understand, nor make to comply or get to be agreeable)

  • @bizzlezip
    @bizzlezip Рік тому +2

    The Secret to being a "sigma" male is don't try to be a "sigma" male. When the love is real and genuine the sigma will become automatic. You will not have to think about it, little effort will be needed. If you need to work your way to being a so called sigma then you don't understand what love is and what power it can bring.

  • @The-Clockwork-Eye
    @The-Clockwork-Eye Рік тому

    These observations are correct. Good work. 👏

  • @wildman00sax
    @wildman00sax Рік тому

    Sigma, Paris.
    (Just subbed btw)
    I thoroughly enjoyed this video. I show all of the signs listed in the video and I've been told that I have been the same for years. Marching to the beat of my own drum is how I like it.

  • @childofthekingjesusmylord8715
    @childofthekingjesusmylord8715 11 місяців тому +17

    Real men love Jesus

    • @edoardoceron7029
      @edoardoceron7029 11 днів тому

      Jesus was Beta

    • @childofthekingjesusmylord8715
      @childofthekingjesusmylord8715 10 днів тому

      @@edoardoceron7029 you're completely nuts Jesus was betta do you know what you're saying I mean really stand back write it down on a piece of paper and read it I think about it real hard do you not know that he is a warrior and he is a king I don't know what kind of lies the devil's been telling you he's coming back to destroy the Earth I mean he's going to have blood up to a horse's bridle he was a 6 ft 1 to 6 ft 3 old school Carpenter who carried a 2 to 350 lb cross on his back upper mountain while being half beat to death I'm sorry but a real man can barely do that I know I've built for almost 20 years

  • @daddyrobinson6940
    @daddyrobinson6940 Рік тому +2

    There are a lot of self proclaimed alphas and sigmas out there. Live outside these boxes and rise above it

  • @AnimalWorldUploads
    @AnimalWorldUploads 7 місяців тому

    Nice video...
    Really appreciated ur observation.

  • @AnthonyGonzalez-lw1ek
    @AnthonyGonzalez-lw1ek 10 місяців тому

    I do enjoy your smile at how your face lights up and your input

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 Рік тому +177

    As a christian sigma male, i obey God as my authority and proclaim his name to the world

    • @Hotkeyz
      @Hotkeyz Рік тому +7

      God bless you brother,even tho people don’t understand 🫡

    • @terimaakigaand5857
      @terimaakigaand5857 Рік тому +44

      BS. Sigma's are wise. We know the God that those religions sell doesn't exist.

    • @finglucasthehobophatcat5143
      @finglucasthehobophatcat5143 Рік тому +5

      What is god's name ?

    • @solarjudgement4575
      @solarjudgement4575 Рік тому

      @@terimaakigaand5857 only Christians are wise and that is by the Grace of God. Everyone else is foolish.

    • @solarjudgement4575
      @solarjudgement4575 Рік тому +9

      As Christians God is our "ultimate" authority, and we follow other authorities through that lense. The scripture calls us to obey the government but that is assuming the government is obey Jesus bc he is the ultimate authority.

  • @waitienchan6410
    @waitienchan6410 Рік тому

    Thank you 🙏 Paris

  • @solomonlekoko1871
    @solomonlekoko1871 Місяць тому

    Spot on🎉❤

  • @Mekka415
    @Mekka415 Рік тому

    I enjoyed your video Paris!

  • @terjegjertsen6361
    @terjegjertsen6361 Рік тому

    Thank you!
    Paris

  • @joemorris3165
    @joemorris3165 Рік тому

    Another great video!!!! A trip to Paris will do you well!!! Take care!!!🙏

  • @jesusariasjr.7946
    @jesusariasjr.7946 4 місяці тому

    First time I see this. Great channel!

  • @cleef-kh9mh
    @cleef-kh9mh Рік тому

    Nice video
    Really helps

  • @ThomasWBaldwin
    @ThomasWBaldwin Рік тому

    Thanks lady. Gives me confidence in my mission for success. I don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings.

  • @deonthomas4895
    @deonthomas4895 Рік тому

    Thanks!

  • @paraglide01
    @paraglide01 Рік тому

    Love your positive attitude. Very nice to see in this youtube universe.

  • @ervsavord4985
    @ervsavord4985 10 місяців тому

    You really make a lot of sense and are fun to listen to. What a beautiful combination like being in Paris and in LOVE. OH MY@!!! Truth is like a bell, and it resonates with a feeling that an empath Sigma just knows, and you have it. Congratulations, great review!!!

  • @Bishop870
    @Bishop870 Рік тому

    Paris. Thumbs up. Loved the video.

  • @gw6496
    @gw6496 Рік тому

    👍🏽👍🏽thank you!! Word for the day was Paris

  •  9 місяців тому

    Thanks for the compliment.

  • @donaldsutton1667
    @donaldsutton1667 11 місяців тому

    I am gladI found you! Good job. PARIS

  • @fatmike5879
    @fatmike5879 Рік тому

    New to the channel and I enjoy it.

  • @shauntaylor-lovelightfamily

    First time watching and listening to one of your talks , I’m subscribed now also , and course I liked

  • @The_Jagerbomb
    @The_Jagerbomb Рік тому

    Would love to visit Paris 👍 , and Merry Christmas 🎄

  • @ericsims4115
    @ericsims4115 8 місяців тому

    Thanks and your smile is contagious! Yeah more Sigma videos I’m flattered 😂

  • @deddysudoyo5064
    @deddysudoyo5064 Рік тому

    Subscribed

  • @wilfredosaenz7755
    @wilfredosaenz7755 Рік тому

    I love the way you speak and explaining very confident I really enjoy listening to you and I've learn a lot about sigma males thank you ma'am!

  • @dbljsmith
    @dbljsmith Рік тому +1

    Thank you Melanie! I love the Christian perspective you bring to the dating world, as it's a scary place. Now time to go to Paris!

  • @Jazzman-bj9fq
    @Jazzman-bj9fq Рік тому

    Cool vid Coach Mel! Let's meet in Paris someday! ;)

  • @alvinz.sauder4148
    @alvinz.sauder4148 Рік тому

    Thanks, Melannie for another great video! I would love to hear more videos for sigma males! Wow, you would be a Rockstar going to Paris! 😅🎉😊🎊🤗

  • @exnihilo207
    @exnihilo207 Рік тому

    Spot on advice. 👍👍👍🤘

  • @ricklicano5115
    @ricklicano5115 Рік тому

    New. Great video.

  • @joshuamustapick3055
    @joshuamustapick3055 Рік тому

    i like the info