"the left" needs to talk more abt disability justice

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 384

  • @meghannpalmer7417
    @meghannpalmer7417 3 роки тому +218

    And trust me when I say this, disabled people have a very good understanding of how the world works. They don’t need to touch grass. Constantly fighting for basic needs to be covered, medication, justifying our disability, learning to navigate welfare systems, dealing with ableist comments and beliefs, coping with little to no energy but still having to complete everything an able bodied person does are just of the few things they understand more than our healthier/ more able bodied counterparts. I’d say I have way more life experiences than some of these people

    • @julesjules5439
      @julesjules5439 3 роки тому +3

      Boom! This right here

    • @marocat4749
      @marocat4749 2 роки тому +3

      And give a perspective that adds at least to the conversation and working places. Dont tall down , but theexare legit important gains from taking people with disabilities serious. Can adress issues for everyone.

    • @t0rakka
      @t0rakka Рік тому

      This!! 🙏

  • @mammoneymelon
    @mammoneymelon 3 роки тому +88

    it'd be cool if neurotypical leftists would stop using the r slur
    it'd also be cool if people didn't call everyone they disagree with "insane", "psychotic", "a psychopath", "a narcissist", "delusional", etc. bitch i'm delusional, doesn't mean i'm bigoted? very different things, thanks

    • @pinkzaism
      @pinkzaism Місяць тому +3

      even if it's neurodivergent people using the r slur, it can still be a problem. it's not just about who's saying it but how they're saying it- if you're using it as a genuine insult then you're still being just as ableist

  • @teaganrichichi
    @teaganrichichi 3 роки тому +150

    As a physically disabled person, I did go out for a walk yesterday. I even touched some grass. That night I had to drag myself up a flight of stairs and into bed because my right leg was in extreme agony and I couldn't put weight on it. I woke up at 3 am because of how much it was hurting, and didn't go back to sleep for another 2 hours. It still hurts, and I've been limping all day and am now feeling nauseous from the pain. Going outside and getting some fresh air can be great, but it can also cause serious issues for disabled people

    • @meghannpalmer7417
      @meghannpalmer7417 3 роки тому +23

      I have had a transplant now (double lung transplant) but some of us literally can’t go outside. Internet was my only connection to the outside world. Yeah, I’d love to go protest, write letters, speak in public about issues but I was too tick and every action took/still takes it’s toll. So had to choose wisely what I do and don’t do. Doesn’t mean our issues aren’t important. To me, social justice is social justice.

    • @riversrhodell2359
      @riversrhodell2359 3 роки тому +18

      I have significant heat sensitivity that often prevents me from going out (besides the fact that my legs don't work well), and it's crazy sometimes how apathetic even offended able bodied people will get about that sometimes.

  • @alexrose20
    @alexrose20 3 роки тому +373

    hey can we talk about ableist language
    leftists: respond with ableist language

    • @flask223
      @flask223 3 роки тому +9

      Literally

    • @Jjjbbb5678
      @Jjjbbb5678 3 роки тому +1

      Jesus christ do you people ever stop complaining. You get upset of everything

    • @honestguyintelligent3022
      @honestguyintelligent3022 3 роки тому +9

      @@Jjjbbb5678 "People with disabilities need to be thrown in to gas chambers and euthanized!"
      *Gets hate*
      "You guys are so easily offended!"

    • @honestguyintelligent3022
      @honestguyintelligent3022 3 роки тому +10

      @@Jjjbbb5678 "People with disabilities need to be thrown in to gas chambers and euthanized!"
      *Gets hate*
      "You guys are so easily offended!"

    • @Jjjbbb5678
      @Jjjbbb5678 3 роки тому +1

      @@honestguyintelligent3022 nice strawman. Why do you even bother commenting

  • @mushroomexists3211
    @mushroomexists3211 3 роки тому +214

    Really enjoyed hearing this! As an autistic and mentally ill leftist these are definitely things I’ve been thinking about for a while. The peak moment for me was around a year ago when this clip was going viral on leftist twitter of a dsa meeting in which someone literally just asked for basic accommodations to their sensory issues. the almost universal response from the online left was that it was “cringe” and “embarrassing” and “making us look bad”. I remember in specific one very grossly, explicitly ableist comment like “you can’t even handle people clapping but sure, you’re gonna start a revolution.” This combined with other things from both online leftists and liberals (like calling Trump autistic and insulting his body, queer communities pushing the rhetoric that “there’s nothing wrong with our brains” above everything else as a way to distance from neurodivergent folks, certain lefty streamers saying the r word in every other sentence and defending it with “edginess”) kind of made me feel very unsafe in the online left and it’s really nice to see someone else acknowledging that this is a problem!!!
    i think a big part of it is that disability is treated as individualized and medicalized and not as a social justice issue, so even leftists who are decent and not class reductionists otherwise don’t incorporate anti-ableism into their analysis. like you were saying re: feminist theory. abled people have gotten away with so much by doing that, and we need to directly challenge that

    • @Ryudo916
      @Ryudo916 3 роки тому +2

      "I remember in specific one very grossly, explicitly ableist comment like “you can’t even handle people clapping but sure, you’re gonna start a revolution.”"
      And what is your rebuttal?

    • @kaigaku4ever
      @kaigaku4ever 3 роки тому +19

      @@Ryudo916 hey! You aren’t entitled to a debate on this.

    • @ivo8312
      @ivo8312 3 роки тому +21

      omg THANK U i remember that, i was so confused why 'leftists' were just blatantly hating on autistic ppl, those reaction vids gave me such a bad feeling

    • @ByAzuraByAzuraByAzura
      @ByAzuraByAzuraByAzura 3 роки тому +13

      @@Ryudo916 Stfu. Y’all fr act like disabled people haven’t been revolutionary.

    • @julesjules5439
      @julesjules5439 3 роки тому +17

      @@Ryudo916 that everyone has a part in the revolution.
      That a revolution is not just this violent patriarchal warfare against capitalist fantasy, but also a revolution in how we relate to one another.
      A revolution towards caring about one another which is in stark contrast to the individualism so prevalent in our current society

  • @hopefulribo
    @hopefulribo 3 роки тому +89

    As somebody who grew up with adhd and ableist based trauma I find this upsetting and I completely agree with you. The disabled community is constantly left out of progressive conversations and most of the time when we try to speak up for ourselves we’re made fun of and are looked down upon. I follow Hasan but I haven’t been on Twitter in forever and didn’t hear about all of this until now and needless to say I am very disappointed. I follow him because he does a pretty good job at summarizing political events and issues without getting too confusing. He has done stuff before that had me raise an eyebrow but this is unacceptable. This is why I am so scared to ever bring up the fact that I am neurodivergent even in “progressive spaces”.

  • @siginotmylastname3969
    @siginotmylastname3969 3 роки тому +27

    Let me add: using detached from reality delusional etc as insults is itself ableist, so saying go outside you're detached from reality is ableist on multiple levels.

  • @anothercell
    @anothercell 2 роки тому +16

    as someone who is autistic and also has had type 1 diabetes for 10 years, i've noticed that the conversation around disabilities on the internet is focused on neurodivergent people, often ignoring physically disabled people. i think that ex. destigmatizing autism is very important, but the discourse surrounding autism is usually about super trivial and chronically online things such as whether or not ppl should use tone tags on twitter... first of all, that is not a pressing issue for any autistics in real life, and there are many other things ppl could do if they actually wanted to help us. but i also think that disability discourse should remember physically disabled people way more, because people are literally dying from ex. insulin being too expensive in the us and i've seen almost no one talking about it.

  • @billyalarie929
    @billyalarie929 3 роки тому +193

    "i'm not saying they have to be led by disabled people"
    okay but as a person with spina bifida, i'll take up that mantle and use my limited voice to say........... i WOULD say they should be led by disabled people.

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  3 роки тому +83

      deplatforming every non-disabled person to replace them

    • @billyalarie929
      @billyalarie929 3 роки тому +4

      ​@@graveyardpansy i'm not sure that's what i said but i'm also not sure you're saying that's what i said
      and also if that IS what you're saying, why does this feel like an exact and direct 180 on the point you were trying to bring up by making this video?

    • @fishflopper7k
      @fishflopper7k 3 роки тому +12

      @@billyalarie929 look at the tone indicator, I think he agrees w you

    • @billyalarie929
      @billyalarie929 3 роки тому +19

      ​@@fishflopper7k i'm not sure what you mean by "tone indicator" i'm so fucking bad at the internet i'm sorry everyone. EDIT: i looked all the relevant info up and i retract my interrogation of intent because i understand now

    • @ilikebeesandtrees9644
      @ilikebeesandtrees9644 3 роки тому +18

      @@billyalarie929 the /hj means half joking. He’s not actually saying he wants to deform non-disabled people.

  • @invinciblesummer13
    @invinciblesummer13 3 роки тому +57

    1) I too use freckles to disguise my acne 2) thank you so much for chatting about this, I am constantly baffled by the amount of ableism I see online in supposedly leftist spaces and it’s super gross

  • @neptunemilk
    @neptunemilk 3 роки тому +67

    in my experience, discussions online abt disabilities seem to be VERY heavily focused on only adhd and autism (im not sure why its only these two. it seems every single leftist is autistic and/or has adhd. i know i do lmao). its like a lot of these leftist dont know or care about physical disabilities and only care about their personal special interests and stimming. and even then, this particular type of leftists throw "extremely" autistic people to the side (the ones who are 100% nonverbal, need assistance 24/7, have violent meltdowns, ext). and they talk so much about how theyre so disability friendly, but they won't even learn basic sign language to talk to deaf people irl.

    • @geminiwolf0077
      @geminiwolf0077 2 роки тому +9

      Yeah, I'm autistic and I am learning asl and honestly it's been really fun. I guess learning a new language is exciting for me. Society should do way better than simply saying "ableism is bad". Like, the phrase "actions speak louder than words".

  • @Ashurion-Neonix
    @Ashurion-Neonix 2 роки тому +8

    Update: I've successfully healed through almost all of that stuff took over a year.
    I'm autistic and the stigma surrounding it has left me in ruin, given me school trauma to the point that I can't read books anymore, made it so I can't even enjoy my own interests without feeling guilt, and left me on the edge of breaking down constantly to the point that I need constant validation just to function. None of this would've happend if people could comprehend that I can't just turn off my issues and that mocking me, yelling at me and punishing me instead of just backing off causes actual harm. To then go online and see everyone make fun of it in the exact way that lead me to self harm back when I was a kid is infuriating. I can barely leave any specific safe spaces without seeing someone making fun of some kind of disability. I experience it in person just as often and it hurts. People think that it's no big deal when they do it but it can cause real harm and when people make fun of it I feel all my experiences are being invalidated.

  • @SiriPsychopomp
    @SiriPsychopomp 3 роки тому +51

    As a disabled person (I have multiple disabilities) SO MUCH THIS! I feel like we get ignored so so much.

  • @Alliien34
    @Alliien34 3 роки тому +170

    Hasan, like so many debate bros, has a BIG ableism problem. I watched a few of his clip compilations that appeared on my recomended and he constantly calls people psychotic (or maybe it was psychopatic, can't remember and don't want to check. It's ableist either way), mocks Kaitlin Bennett pecause she shat her pants (she is a terrible person, but mocking people for that is ableist. there are a mountain of things to criticize about Bennett without resorting to ableism). I can't say i'm surprised with how the online left treats disabled people, but i'm certainly disappointed.

    • @dizzy7413
      @dizzy7413 3 роки тому +41

      He uses both psychotic and psychopathic AND delusional as an insult . its very disappointing

    • @webdesignerguy
      @webdesignerguy 3 роки тому +7

      Personally I think it's fine to call someone's beliefs "stupid" or "psychotic", as long as it's their beliefs you're criticizing, and you're not making fun of them for actually having a mental disorder. I also think the "go outside" meme is fine, when people say that it's directed at people who get overly invested in online arguments, and isn't directed at people who actually can't go outside because of a disability. Promoting disability inclusion is great, but I don't think getting mad at people for saying the word "stupid" or "crazy" really does anything to advance that.

    • @dizzy7413
      @dizzy7413 3 роки тому +29

      @@webdesignerguy no one is getting mad at the words stupid or crazy, its just indirectly attacking both disabled and psychotics by using microaggressions like those, even if that wasnt the intent. just like ashton said in the video that language can be nuanced, there are a million other ways to get the same point across without the expense of disabled or psychotic people

    • @Alliien34
      @Alliien34 3 роки тому +48

      @@webdesignerguy it's ableist in the same way that calling something you don't like gay is homophobic. if you say someone's beliefs are psychotic or delusional, you're equating psychotic/delusional to bigoted, conservative or any other negative connotations. People with psychosis or delusions exist, and do not need that kind of association. they deserve to be recognised and have rights, accommodation & help they need. they do not deserve to be used as a way to mock conservatives.

    • @jackriver8385
      @jackriver8385 3 роки тому +22

      @@webdesignerguy the problem is that disabled people see that and it still stings. Better to criticise things for what's actually wrong with them. Like just saying someone's beliefs are misguided and wrong.

  • @DrAnarchy69
    @DrAnarchy69 3 роки тому +47

    Thank you SO MUCH for making this! I among others things am a neurodivergent person who does propaganda from an anarchist perspective. I make it a point to advocate for disability liberation (among other things) and it’s like crying into the wilderness. Thank you thank you for making this!

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  3 роки тому +13

      propaganda is rad, and even more so when it integrates inclusive ideas abt liberation !! keep doing what you do

    • @AN-ou6qu
      @AN-ou6qu 3 роки тому +1

      Wait. Propaganda? Maybe I’m just uneducated, but that sounds kinda shitty

    • @DrAnarchy69
      @DrAnarchy69 3 роки тому +6

      @@AN-ou6qu Propaganda is media and messaging meant to change one's mind and evoke emotion. Nothing more and nothing less.

    • @theofficeholic1518
      @theofficeholic1518 3 роки тому +5

      @@AN-ou6qu Propaganda is a tool, like any tool, that can be used for good or bad. The definition of propaganda is content used to communicate an often political or social message. So propaganda can be good.

    • @Sidera17
      @Sidera17 3 роки тому +1

      "Like crying into the wilderness."
      100%

  • @therainbowsystem4474
    @therainbowsystem4474 3 роки тому +42

    you should make one of the xenogender defender designs with the xenogender flag where the flag goes!!

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  3 роки тому +29

      ur so smart I will absolutely do that 💜

    • @therainbowsystem4474
      @therainbowsystem4474 3 роки тому +8

      @@graveyardpansy omg you replied to me i just wanna say youve been like such a big inspiration to me

    • @hq4287
      @hq4287 3 роки тому +5

      As a xenogender, thx

    • @therainbowsystem4474
      @therainbowsystem4474 3 роки тому +4

      @@hq4287 ofc, i am also a xenogender 😌

  • @evilandmaliciouswarwick
    @evilandmaliciouswarwick 3 роки тому +32

    people who aren't in a specific marginalised group often assume everything they see or read is made with them in mind, or for them particularly.. korviday phrased the tweet in such an inoffensive way that could've allowed for some really good discussion, but instead, abled people decided "hold on, i don't understand what this means because i don't have the lived experience to get it, so this must be an exaggeration or a completely made up issue." instead of yknow, politely asking for clarification, since thats what they act like their problem is.
    the entitlement these people feel to conversations that don't involve or concern them is so off-putting and really highlights how out of touch they are, how little they care. i'm so tired of these debate bro types of people being allowed to pretend they care about constructive discussion or improving any part of how this world and its systems function.
    it is so easy for them to dismiss us as disabled people, i feel like we forever are made to hide away our problems we experience because it is inconvenient for others or unpleasant for them to think about. we aren't given a space to talk about our experiences unless it's amongst each other. the times we are visible, like a tweet that gains a wide audience, we're treated as awkward moments where "Whoops that wasn't supposed to happen, who let this person talk? this is definitely a random thought that people have just come up with and has no context."
    it feels like these people can't fathom something not being about them for once. people are going to be different to you, that's just how it works.
    eh i don't know where i'm going with this,,, but what you talked about in this video is so important and i appreciate that you took the time to make this.

    • @akila3002
      @akila3002 3 роки тому +1

      People say things like go outside to individuals who are terminally online. I say this as someone who was depressed for years people that aren't disabled spend far too much time on the internet which is incredibly bad for both their physical and mental health. Going out exercising is a good way to keep your mental health from deteriorating. Of course its unacceptable to tell a person with a disability which prevents them from going outside to do so.

    • @Sidera17
      @Sidera17 3 роки тому

      ^This

    • @marocat4749
      @marocat4749 2 роки тому

      The thing is for a really healthy society, like really anyone would benefit of an enviroment that accomadates for everyones need.
      I mean in ots core its just not streamining everyone which just is better for everyone.
      And god how many are undiagnosed due it being there but can be ignored but still would be better to be allowed without being branded.

  • @EmmaStoddartEMBER
    @EmmaStoddartEMBER 3 роки тому +8

    For me, anytime I learn someone is into debate it immediately makes me feel unsafe. Because while I understand the purpose of debate (and I respect it because I could never do it with my anxiety), I’ve seen debates on rights of so many minorities and I just don’t feel safe around someone who might debate against the right of a person to exsist. Even if they don’t believe it themselves, I have no idea if they are going to try to debate with me, or what the people around them may do.

  • @lilianarokov2066
    @lilianarokov2066 3 роки тому +8

    This was really nice to watch after the first day of going back to school after a failed hip replacement and a month of staying home from the pain. Being in a wheelchair made me feel like an outsider like I wasn’t before, and had basically zero accommodations. Thank you!

  • @artaaangels
    @artaaangels 3 роки тому +15

    This video is great, thank you! I try to avoid online leftist spaces specifically because of the ableism that most non-disabled people seem to not care about. A lot of online leftists absolutely need to work on disability justice, it's something that I wish was more mainstream.

  • @julesjules5439
    @julesjules5439 3 роки тому +11

    Reminds me of a conversation I had with an online commie about ableist language.
    This person had a real issue with the fact that calling people out on their shitty takes and bad actions by using derogatory terms connected to the oppression of those with disabilities, especially intellectual disability was in fact engaging with ableism.
    What was really revealing was when we got down to the nuts and bolts it basically went from-
    That’s not what those terms mean anymore
    To
    Well, isn’t there something “wrong” with disabled people?
    Essentially isn’t it okay to prop up people’s bodies and minds and conditions as slurs and insults because they really are less than?
    It was telling.
    I don’t understand how leftists advocate for a non hierarchical society, but also think that people with impairments are “wrong” people- defective less than etc…
    I fully understand that a change in material conditions is essential for the liberation of disabled people, but I guess we will have to wait for the overthrow of capitalism before we can start to have these discussions.

    • @julesjules5439
      @julesjules5439 3 роки тому

      Btw I am more inclined to examining language and becoming aware of its ableist roots than creating a list of no-no words and making everyone adhere to them.
      Language is just one way ableism manifests and if you are able to refrain then that is great.

    • @marocat4749
      @marocat4749 2 роки тому

      Its really easy not adressibg leftovers of a toxic mentality you take over without noticing, thats how people can.
      And ideally people chosing to be lefties should be open to that kind of criticism, but i am not that delutional that everyone does.

  • @nicothenecromancer
    @nicothenecromancer 3 роки тому +8

    I've been saying this to so many people and I just get told I'm just looking for things to whine about. I have given personal examples of very obvious ableism and people don't realise it is because no one cares about us.

  • @drenandtarb
    @drenandtarb 3 роки тому +9

    I know everyone has a different experience. But for me personally, I'm discriminated against a lot more often for my disabilities than my sexuality or gender.

  • @Laura-qp9iw
    @Laura-qp9iw 3 роки тому +17

    It's really upsetting how prevalent this is in online leftists spaces, especially since for many disabled people our main sources of interaction and connection with other people are over the internet.
    I've also noticed that many "leftists" with very large platforms seem to have like, a lot of followers/fans that hate "sjws" and you know, like people from minority groups who stand up for themselves. Like a lot of them have fans that will get even more upset and start throwing slurs at people on their behalf, and it is extremely concerning that they don't even seem to care that this demographic is such a large part of their audiences.
    Like Idk maybe you should make sure your content isn't easily palatable to a bunch of bigoted people who like to harass marginalized groups online if you claim to be a "leftist"

  • @cheese9381
    @cheese9381 3 роки тому +16

    your hair oh my g0d- i’m jealous i wish i was aloud to have hair like that

  • @alexrose20
    @alexrose20 3 роки тому +9

    I would love to see these ppl try to call Corpse a moron and tell him to go outside...

    • @strawbself
      @strawbself 3 роки тому +7

      the fact that he has been open about how he was bedridden for at least an entire year in the past but people who regularly consume his content don’t understand how or why “touch grass” is ableist

  • @lucius_sergius_catilina
    @lucius_sergius_catilina 3 роки тому +15

    hey, sorry the comment is not relayed to the content of the video, but I'd like to let you know that your self expression and past videos about gender and queerness have changed my views so much and made me realize how can I be both myself and not an imposter by using trans labels. I have started my social transition and feel so much better about myself, thanks for putting your thoughts out there

  • @magicaljellycomix8131
    @magicaljellycomix8131 3 роки тому +24

    hypermobility and autism (+anxiety disorders) has a very high correlation

    • @sandcrab3188
      @sandcrab3188 3 роки тому +1

      huh, interesting. Any knowledge as to why?
      (I’m autistic and unusually flexible so I’m curious)

    • @magicaljellycomix8131
      @magicaljellycomix8131 3 роки тому

      @@sandcrab3188 i dont really knwo sorry

  • @jeremyburke8777
    @jeremyburke8777 3 роки тому +35

    Hey Ashton really like your videos. Your perspectives on social issues and political opinions are really intelligent and thought provoking. (:

  • @lucyandecember2843
    @lucyandecember2843 3 роки тому +15

    Forgetting that one is infact disabled is a thICK mood!! Im also not good at identidying myself as disabled, even tho i am, in fact, disabled lol
    haha lmao forget it, its prolly just in my head~

  • @fishflopper7k
    @fishflopper7k 3 роки тому +16

    God sometimes I like hasans streams but tf hasan? And also his takes about how "identity politics" should basically never be discussed? Uh

    • @Laura-qp9iw
      @Laura-qp9iw 3 роки тому +10

      honestly i think "identity politics" is becoming the new "sjw", just another straw man to attack when you don't like marginalized people standing up for themselves and fighting for respect
      I think a lot of people seriously misunderstand what identity politics is and I've basically only seen it used as a strawman to attack at this point

  • @mowersonh1701
    @mowersonh1701 2 роки тому +2

    This is my mom’s account since I’m intellectually disabled and need help on the internet.
    Anyway, my name is Helaina. I really love your videos and wish we could be friends. I’m a very social person but making friends is so hard since I was born with Williams Syndrome and people often don’t accept me, are rude to me and stare at me because I’m unique. 😀

  • @kc1430
    @kc1430 3 роки тому +4

    We need another choker necklace haul🔥🔥

  • @cmlkhf
    @cmlkhf 3 роки тому +9

    pls, do tell us about your twitter fight with the church of satan, that sounds hilarious. also, I ABSOLUTELY AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAID IN THIS VIDEO

  • @nathb7755
    @nathb7755 3 роки тому +4

    please make a video about the time you got into a fight with the church of satan!! also it's lovely to see you be back, I have a feeling your voice has gotten even deeper? your facial hair is more noticeable too! and your makeup skills are fire as always

    • @nathb7755
      @nathb7755 3 роки тому

      I somewhat agree with the part where you criticize expressions like "go outside" and "touch grass". I think what these "clapbacks" are trying to get at most of the time is how being excessively present online in spaces that are toxic (spaces that, for example, breed discourse, and twitter is notoriously toxic in that regard because of the way it incites engagement) can be detrimental for you and your perception of the world to the point you're only saying certain things for the sake of the discourse and the things you say aren't actually connected to reality in any meaningful way. Though this isn't an excuse for the obviously ableist implications of those expressions and this is not at all the right way to have this discussion. I wish we could have nuanced mature conversations on this topic instead of simplistic shortcuts that we basically use to insult each other lol.

    • @nathb7755
      @nathb7755 3 роки тому

      after a bit of reflection I think the leftists who only criticize the economical aspect of injustice and ignore other forms of inequality and oppression, aka those often labeled "class-reductionists", are just mad they aren't rich and are seeking to tear down the system not because it would be a good thing in and of itself, but simply because the system in question doesn't benefit them. incel logic but with money instead of women

  • @gabrielfrodo9564
    @gabrielfrodo9564 3 роки тому +9

    i haven't tuned into your channel in a while, i didn't realize how much i missed your content! your thoughts here were very engaging :]
    i am ever disappointed but not surprised by the ableism on lefty twitter :/

  • @juls_krsslr7908
    @juls_krsslr7908 3 роки тому +19

    I don't watch Hasan, but I do watch Vaush. This is one of the topics that makes him very defensive and therefore unable to hear what people are saying. I find it frustrating, and I've told him that he's dead wrong about korviday in his chat, but, you know, a thousand people posting at the same time means my message appears for a millisecond among a flood of gleeful "wokescold" (I hate this word) bashing. It's disheartening, but I do believe general sentiment will change in the future. More and more people have noticed that disabled people are being dismissed and targeted by debate streamers, and, at some point, they will be forced to take the criticism seriously. I hope when the time comes, the debate streamers who mean well will own their mistakes and make up for their past actions, but only time will tell.

    • @StigmataMartyrz
      @StigmataMartyrz 3 роки тому +7

      TW: transphobia
      Vaush isn’t a good person. He doesn’t like criticism and will ban anyone who tries to call him out. He would rather spend time defending incels than have a second thought about his bad takes on a plethora of things. This is somebody who called trans people “subhuman” and “cancer” just because some trans girl was mad at him on Twitter.

    • @juls_krsslr7908
      @juls_krsslr7908 3 роки тому +3

      @@StigmataMartyrz Vaush is a human being, and like ALL human beings, he has flaws and triggers and does things that hurt other people. Your criticisms of him are not wrong, but that doesn't make him a bad person. Demonizing other people is never helpful. It's not good when Vaush does it to people who call him out, and it's not good when people do it to Vaush.

  • @jaycelegends4300
    @jaycelegends4300 3 роки тому +1

    Recently back at work and my carpal tunnel has flared up pretty badly. I had eventually gone to the doctor about a year and a half ago (i think), but since covid I hadn't worked at all and the only thing that agitated it would be any activities on my laptop or gaming stuff. I've had to not only cut back on how many days I work, but im also not able to do all the sorts of work i was able to do before. And honestly its very hard to not feel like im inadequate in a way and made me realize i had more internalized ableism within me that I was aware of. We also got a new coworker and he has some cognitive issues and there have been times where I feel that some of my coworkers will treat him differently and it's hard to fully describe what feels wrong about it, but it just does. I also dont feel that comfortable saying anything since i cant really say what it is they're doing that they shouldn't do. Im also just sick as fuck of working for some rich jackass to chill on a yacht while i physically disable myself by doing bullshit work.

  • @cutiecreations04
    @cutiecreations04 3 роки тому +3

    How are people saying they want equality for EVERYONE but then leave out disabled people?

    • @odin4306
      @odin4306 3 роки тому +2

      Right? People are exhausting.

  • @Yui-co4qx
    @Yui-co4qx 3 роки тому +7

    Hi im cis n straight but I am a huge fan of this channel and it helps me learn how to be a better ally to my lgbtq+ friends! this video was intersting! thank u ashton!

  • @tomoag
    @tomoag 3 роки тому +4

    just want to point out that you look like gerard way on 8:17 and i love it

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  3 роки тому +5

      i got told that a lot when i was younger for some reason so im v happy to hear that again lmao thank you :,)

  • @jackriver8385
    @jackriver8385 3 роки тому +8

    Most of the times when I've called someone out on their ableism in leftist spaces, I've gotten ableist slurs thrown at me. It fucking sucks and I'm tired of ableism being as normalised as it is.

  • @technicolorbarf6734
    @technicolorbarf6734 3 роки тому +7

    I quit reddit because I had r/absoluteanarchy people be like "OMG, you aren't oppressed for being disabled!! How dare you say that" lol then they started calling me slurs
    Why can't commies understand the very simple fact that not being able to walk would make me undesirable as a worker?

    • @akila3002
      @akila3002 3 роки тому +4

      Reddit was a mistake. Incredible that "leftists" forget that kindness is an integral part of being a leftist.

  • @bitterbug9484
    @bitterbug9484 3 роки тому +11

    your mullet is poppin

  • @LeslieExp
    @LeslieExp 3 роки тому +2

    Have you read Capitalism and Disability by Marta Russell? I have a general summary of it on my channel but I recommend the essay collection to everyone I meet, especially fellow disabled leftists :)

  • @Bexx_xx
    @Bexx_xx 3 роки тому

    oh my god a lot of these thoughts have been spinning inside my silly little skull for the longest time and you've managed to word it all so incrediblyy! ahhhh so good so good

  • @hunterm8516
    @hunterm8516 3 роки тому +13

    Yeah uhhhh I didn’t love korviday’s tweet (I think it’s a topic that shouldn’t have been addressed in a tweet tbh it was a recipe for misunderstanding and lack of nuance) but Jesus Christ was the response unwarranted and ableist as Fuck like holy shit????? Large creators don’t incite harassment challenge

  • @mikelmontoya2965
    @mikelmontoya2965 3 роки тому +9

    I remember watching Vaush (who is autistic) a few months ago and hearing him say something along the lines of "I don't think all autistic people are disabled, I don't see myself as a disabled person", and I (also an autistic) was like "wait, what??". Another instance of something similar to this happening was a conversation between Xanderhal and CopsHateMoe about Xan's use of the r-slur, Moe explained how they aren't ok with that at all and how they were bullied as a kid/teen and slurred with that word on the basis of having ADHD, and Xan was like "oh wait I also have ADHD!". He hadn't even considered that having ADHD made him part of the group of people that are targeted by the slur he was irresponsibly using!
    So I think the problem of the online left (specially the "debate bro" side of the online left) isn't that we don't have enough prominent disabled content creators, we have, they just don't seem to be well educated on their own disabilities! And I say this as a fan of both Vaush and Xan (hot take, I know), but it's true they leave a lot to be desired when it comes to advocacy of these groups of people they actually are a part of.
    (PD: is there any leftist online who doesn't have either ASD, ADHD or both???)

    • @rain3rr
      @rain3rr 3 роки тому

      leftist debate bros i'm not sure if there are any, i'm leftist and i haven't ever been diagnosed with anything but i don't have any kind of platform so i'm not sure if i count as an "online leftist".

    • @marocat4749
      @marocat4749 2 роки тому

      Thats debate bro room of a lot of people that still need to mellow out. Its not great but , i think that isnt the most inclusive realm, if doing a function thats important, but toxic by nature
      I am sure yt and twitch aand social media do attract neurodiverse people as potential work and outlet.

    • @teallineart8805
      @teallineart8805 2 роки тому

      The neurodivergent/disability thing is very interesting. From my experience, since neurodivergency is much better represented (not trying to invalidate neurodivergent people‘s struggles) a good amount of neurodivergent people distance themself from the disability community. Usually abled-passing neurodivergent people. Ones that can mask really well. Part of me wonders if it‘s a way to give abled people a better impression of them, but either way it‘s frustrating. We‘re in a situation where we need eachother now more than ever. We‘re all hurt by the same ableist system and view points.

  • @jackriver8385
    @jackriver8385 3 роки тому +13

    Teespring also removed antifascist designs while leaving up fascist ones so I'm glad you don't use their site anymore 😅

  • @ixykix
    @ixykix 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this video (I know I'm late to this) As a disabled person I have certainly seen ableism escalate during the pandemic

  • @ThylineTheGay
    @ThylineTheGay 2 роки тому

    20:46 lmao, i had to create a second watch later playlist because the default one filled up (5000 videos)

  • @ChollimaExpress
    @ChollimaExpress 3 роки тому +1

    I love your content!

  • @ivo8312
    @ivo8312 3 роки тому +9

    touch grass is also just such an obnoxious unoriginal thing to say and i feel like everyone that says it is just projecting bc its like..here u are on the internet tho..saying current internet phrases.. lmao so not surprised these ppl r assholes
    and yeah ur so right, i took a intro sociology course and was rly disappointed there was no disability unit😑 makes no sense

    • @ivo8312
      @ivo8312 3 роки тому

      like uhh heres an idea how about when we see someone saying stuff on twitter we think is dumb, instead of harassing them, we simply ignore it, turn of the computer and go outside ourselves 😀😀

  • @maim3392
    @maim3392 3 роки тому +2

    Oh hey also! Are those 3rd lobe piercings new or did I just never see them? Edit: And the rook! Hell maybe I'm just clueless but I never saw those! Super cool!

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  3 роки тому +2

      the lobes are new !!! i took my roommate to get his first piercings in like a decade done so i got some too >:) the rook is ~a year old now, it’s just usually hidden in there I guess :)

    • @maim3392
      @maim3392 3 роки тому +2

      @@graveyardpansy ooh alright! they look great! i've been getting more obsessed with piercings recently so maybe i'm just noticing more sdkfj

  • @XxL1ZZ13LUN4CYxX
    @XxL1ZZ13LUN4CYxX 2 роки тому

    I love your shirt in this video. Rancid is an awesome fricking band.

  • @t.kruste3085
    @t.kruste3085 2 роки тому +1

    oh yes, Hasan was the first person I thought of in the first half of the video. I used to watch some of his streams but stopped because I felt uncomfortable at the amount of times he used the word stupid to describe people or when I watched a stream of his where he and his audience created something on the r/place reddit (it's like a big pixel picture, where you can set 1 pixel ever like.. 15-20 minutes and can create something with many people that way) he used a lot of language like "today we're all gonna forget we ever had s*x" which I also find ableist, because it implies this connection between having special interests/being enthusiastic about something and your sex life. That kind of language is often used against autistic people (who also often have a complicated relationship to s*x, because of ableism or sensory issues)

  • @TheSapphireLeo
    @TheSapphireLeo 2 роки тому

    Honestly, we may relate to some general traits, but any communities, may not work for even the most similar, let alone if dogmatic and your life lessons may only apply to you and via your intuition? Case by case?

  • @houseboundhuman
    @houseboundhuman 3 роки тому +1

    Loved this video thank you for it!!

  • @officert5147
    @officert5147 3 роки тому +1

    I was reading comments so I was only listening to the video for a bit then I looked up and went "frick" bc the genvy hit me in the face how does it feel 2 be And look iconic 🙏 sick
    Anyway thanks for talking abt this I can always count on your videos to keep me learning and address nuances a lot of ppl don't 🤘 Being disabled, even while queer and surrounded by very open minded, good people, definitely still leads to some Fun Times. Ableism is fking everywhere 🔪
    Would love to know what went down with the church of satan lmao 👀

  • @karatheythemharkins2393
    @karatheythemharkins2393 3 роки тому

    @Ashton yes, disability stuff certainly misses out on a lot of things. For example pushed for the Convention on the Rights for Persons with Disabilities (a treaty based on the ada) and do you want to try and guess what will probably be the last country to ratify it even after starting the thing it was based on? It is frustrating doing justice stuff for populations i am not part of just because it is the right thing to do then often not having disabled or nonbinary ppl even thought of

  • @mateussiq1100
    @mateussiq1100 3 роки тому +3

    you: vaccinated.
    my mother: no predicted date for getting a vaccine.
    World inequality is a bitch, aint it. I guess i am guetting my vaccine only next year
    I am brazilian btw. good videos.

  • @TheCoolmaster131
    @TheCoolmaster131 3 роки тому +2

    Just because some leftist disagree it's ableist doesn't question their leftism. I really hate when other leftist are critical of each other by seeing who's more leftist. After fully watching. I understand how it could be seen this way. But I also most people who cry ableism. Just suck at getting their points across and now making up a new argument to distract from past failures. Also let's be honest. Tumbler ppl did go to Twitter. Why I won't use Twitter. It's just bad all round. I hate seeing people complain about Twitter and use it..... Touch grass lmao or use a calmer platform. Why do this to yourself. I'm tired of 'you must listen". He read the disagreed. I don't understand why other leftist say listennnn when I disagree. Like I listened and think you're wrong.
    Let's be honest with ourselves. Some people are more sensitive than others. Complaining debate bros are wrong but then ignoring arguments. Just saying I'm not I'm not going to listen to people telling me how I'm wrong. Their is value critique of debate bros tho. But I see two sides of the same coin. We're leftist with issues. But we're handling it on a short opinionated website. Woke Olympics nit picky assholes. Which circles back to my Twitter complaint. Leftist need to grow up and leave Twitter.

  • @officert5147
    @officert5147 3 роки тому +2

    Also as to the touch grass thing--I guess I never realized how hurtful it can be. I am disabled and it is very hard for me to go outside and find some grass sometimes, but I suppose I always took the "touch grass" comments very literally, and rather in good (if somewhat sarcastic) faith. Maybe that sounds naive but I don't use Twitter and am not usually exposed to that level of fking assholeism online--plus I tend to see "touch grass" and think "yeah I probably should lol it's good for my brain." Is that the autism or am I just too nice 😎 we'll never know
    All that said, just because it doesn't offend me doesn't mean it's not ableist and It's good to know about. I am amazed at the level of bullshit you guys got thrown for this. Imo your takes are hot and spicy and tastey thank you chef

  • @Butwhoisthedreamer
    @Butwhoisthedreamer 3 роки тому +1

    I'm libertarian right (Michael Malice/Tom Woods type) on the political compass and have a hard time finding good lib left people to listen to (in terms of philosophy). Any of you folks have suggestions for me? Want to hear some people's opinions on the other side of the compass. Thanks 😊

  • @horizon5417
    @horizon5417 3 роки тому

    have a good summer man!

  • @carolej339
    @carolej339 3 роки тому +3

    I was with you until you defended that Korviday tweet. I don't think simply stating that sometimes people need to observe the world outside their own online bubble is ableist, as an autistic person. Yeah, socialising with people in the outside world is hard for neurodiverse people, but it's sometimes a necessity to understand what people outside your comfort zone think and feel. Maybe "go outside and touch grass" isn't the best way to convey that idea and is needlessly malicious, but I disagree with the premise that those lines of thinking are inherently ableist nonetheless.
    With that out of the way, keep up the good fight. Disability justice is important and I don't think people seem to realise that being disabled has had a far bigger impact on my day to day life and interactions with people in a negative way that has held me back than my womanhood and my sexual orientation. I've never been denied jobs or services on the basis of the other two things - whereas I have on the basis of my disability.

    • @lexnight
      @lexnight 3 роки тому +4

      I don't have the energy for the autism remark or engaging with it. However I take some umbrage: how about PHYSICALLY DISABLED PEOPLE, WE EXIST TOO, YOU KNOW. If you have some come back about such-and-such mobility devices, step off and step back, and start educating yourself about the sheer spectrum of disability, the economics of it, etc.
      Which you should be doing already, but whatever.
      "Defended" jfc, like everything is black and white. "I was with you until-" then you weren't really, were you. You weren't following at all, and you seem to have stopped engaging critically. Power-dynamics wut.
      Forget "getting out of your bubble," I don't know what exactly you need to do to grow enough to grasp the fundamentals of what's wrong here.
      You want to "simply" tell someone to get out of their bubble? "Get out of your bubble." "I think you need to broaden your horizons." "To cool off emotionally? "You might want to disengage for a bit." To engage with the "real world"/"the community"? That's a rats nest.
      Your experience of disability and the world is not everyone's experience of disability.

    • @anne-zh2kd
      @anne-zh2kd 10 місяців тому +1

      Maybe it is none of your business what I do, and my life and choices are none of your business? Maybe positing how isolated we are as a CHOICE rather than a product of constant ableism, abuse, trauma is really shitty? You do not get any say in my life, address my argument or stfu

  • @HoneyBee-qf8kn
    @HoneyBee-qf8kn 3 роки тому

    heck man it’s midnight here😭😭 I’ll have to watch this tomorrow, such an interesting topic too... frick

  • @87654321j
    @87654321j 3 роки тому +2

    Dam that mullet is really growing in looks great Ashton with your makeup your one amazing strong human being

  • @skepticmoderate5790
    @skepticmoderate5790 3 роки тому +1

    I'm genuinely curious how are we meant to critique people who are clearly too plugged in? Surely this isn't exclusively disabled people?

  • @wisteria6656
    @wisteria6656 3 роки тому

    Could you talk more about ecossocialism ? And Rojava, and the Zapatistas and the Sandinistas and MST and MTST ?? It would be awesomeeee

  • @sleepy71436
    @sleepy71436 3 роки тому +1

    amazing video !

  • @saradaemiir9990
    @saradaemiir9990 3 роки тому

    I have been waiting for someone to bring this up. It's so glossed over even by disabled leftists online.

  • @EllenJones
    @EllenJones 3 роки тому +1

    oh my god this

  • @Jiihariial
    @Jiihariial 3 роки тому +2

    I hate the use of the term wokescold

  • @johnbob8605
    @johnbob8605 3 роки тому +4

    Why are u so obbsesed with genders

  • @jackriver8385
    @jackriver8385 3 роки тому

    2 seconds in and I already hit like because of the title of this video

  • @Vibez-o5k
    @Vibez-o5k Рік тому

    The Left is the ONLY side that is always talking about disability issues. Make a video that says the Right and middle America needs to talk about it.

  • @Peertje304
    @Peertje304 3 роки тому +2

    Ableists: go touch some grass
    Me *is an autistic person who hates the feel of grass*

  • @TheCoolmaster131
    @TheCoolmaster131 3 роки тому +1

    Touch grass is ableist? I disagree. Seems like an Hasan jab. But it just means cool down. Go outside. You been online too much in echo chambers. Stuff like that.

  • @yms4355
    @yms4355 3 роки тому +2

    Do you have EDS?

    • @suzannax
      @suzannax 3 роки тому

      I was also wondering this. Pain and extra bendy joints or stretchy skin is part of some types

  • @AN-ou6qu
    @AN-ou6qu 3 роки тому

    I know this is weird and personal (hope it’s not rude though?) but are you on t? Shots? Gel? Other? Curious as a trans person :)

    • @AN-ou6qu
      @AN-ou6qu 3 роки тому

      (Right now, I know you started it)

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  3 роки тому +1

      i do subq shots and have for over 3 years, and did IM shots for a year before that :)

  • @jhgandy2653
    @jhgandy2653 3 роки тому

    ok so i have a question ? I've been watching your videos all day while I'm doing some work because my friend's son just told her that they are nonbianry... what if ?? and this is a huge what if... what if you were alive in the 1940's and lived in nazi Germany and were asked by the nazis to get in a line for men and a line for women... and you were born a man... now the men in these lines were all executed... would u choose to be a man or woman or would u tell them that you were neither ?? it's a dumb and very exaggerated question but what would you do ?? how far would you be able to go if it were down to your life ?? I'm just curious because it's a thought I've had when someone tells me that they are trans or whatever they feel they are... I'm not being an asshole or douche when asking this I'm actually curious as to how far someone is willing to go vs what sex they are tagged with when they're born....

  • @froggang_allert9370
    @froggang_allert9370 3 роки тому +7

    As a Hasan fan, I find it kind of annoying that he often doesn’t listen to things ppl have to say about smaller things he should change. I think it’s a problem of balance, between not being incentive and not looking too much like an “sjw” for the opposite side. Some times debaters need to talk more rough too get through too the other person. Might be a controversial option but I find Vaush a good example of someone who balances this pretty well. But Hasan is not really a debate bro, more of a political commentator. Anyway, I think that he doesn’t really intentionally makes these remarks, but he should definitely take some time to educate himself more, the worst thing I think is that he made fun of a much smaller creator, and that’s horrible! I definitely do not condemn that behaviour. I think we should try to get through to him so he can educate himself, and that could do a lot of good in the future. With his platform he could spread even more awareness. And I think he should face consequences for his actions, but we shouldn’t create too much division, because that will make the left online weaker!
    (I love watching you’re vids btw, I hope I kinda explained myself well?)

  • @TheCoolmaster131
    @TheCoolmaster131 3 роки тому

    You said you we're going to use names. But you're using names? Also you have a following showing baby accounts on Twitter? Like... I guess they were mean. But block out their name. Come on.

  • @lowkeefrooti6971
    @lowkeefrooti6971 3 роки тому

    i cant tell if you’re a trans woman, or homosexual cis man

  • @anonrevolution1214
    @anonrevolution1214 3 роки тому

    Please do another anarchist video and your political views.

  • @Hellakiddie
    @Hellakiddie 3 роки тому

    200%%%

  • @darthrevanthekingofstarwars
    @darthrevanthekingofstarwars 3 роки тому

    Hmmmmm u look familiar to a guy that died aperntly he was cool guy a long time ago he was a youtuber that was in driving a car with his mom and they were listening to my chemical romance and his name was Ashton I was told he killed himself and he written a socide note but I don't think ur the same guy but if u are im ethan

    • @darthrevanthekingofstarwars
      @darthrevanthekingofstarwars 3 роки тому

      I've been sad because of his death for i believe its been 14 years sense I last heard of him could be a little bit shorter but he was a cool guy I remember I met him on amino and he said I was the nicest person he has ever met 😢 😔 im sorry im rambling enjoy ur life man thats all im saying keep makeing people happy

  • @TheCoolmaster131
    @TheCoolmaster131 3 роки тому

    Nah. I'm a fan of debate streamers. Mostly Vaush.

  • @joycelinlgbtq
    @joycelinlgbtq 3 роки тому +14

    This was really confusing for me. Before today, i had never even heard the expression "touch the grass" - i guess it might be an American thing? (I'm British). Based on your explanation it doesn't SOUND ablist or at the very least it doesnt seem like it is inherently meant to be ablist. (Unlike other words which are very clearly slurs made to be pejorative ie the r-word.)
    What we SHOUD see on the left is a conversation of 'how is this ablist?' not 'nO uR rOnG dUmBaSs'. That's the disappointing part.

    • @puddypudding9609
      @puddypudding9609 3 роки тому +12

      Its a twitter thing rather than an american thing. Its ableist because it implicates that you cant have an opinion of something if you arent able to be outside often, so it invaildates the voices of disabled people

    • @joycelinlgbtq
      @joycelinlgbtq 3 роки тому +6

      @@puddypudding9609 Surely its meant as a metaphor tho? Either way it woud be incorrect to assume "touching the grass" means that. Thanks for the clarification

  • @connorscorner443
    @connorscorner443 3 роки тому

    I'm queer and disabled. I honestly appreciate this.
    My fibromyalgia leaves me so fatigued and in so much pain. I never have the energy to talk about it.

  • @cameroncurtis8168
    @cameroncurtis8168 3 роки тому +432

    weird how people think that identifying as a leftist means they are incapable of perpetuating bigotry/societal power dynamics. also, unrelated, but i love your hair.

    • @arklestudios
      @arklestudios 3 роки тому +50

      I think for some people it's even worse than that; it's an attitude of "Look, I support you having universal health care, so I should be allowed to call you slurs without any consequences. That seems like a fair trade to me."

    • @honestguyintelligent3022
      @honestguyintelligent3022 3 роки тому +4

      To be honest, I've almost completely given up on people with disabilities of any kind being supported by the left. In fact, they're probably more ableist than most conservatives. If it weren't for the left, down syndrome wouldn't be discriminated against by abortion laws. Their favorite insult is the word, "retard". As someone with autism, from what I've seen in leftists, most neurotypical leftists probably wouldn't care if people with disabilities were thrown into gas chambers and euthanized. In fact, they would be happy if that happened.

    • @odin4306
      @odin4306 3 роки тому +11

      @@honestguyintelligent3022 I've seen many so-called "leftists" actively and loudly support eugenics. They constantly leave ableism out of their activism, they don't consider us. Ive seen people write "minorities and disabled people" as if we aren't a minority. The way we are treated in general is disgusting, I'm tired of fake leftists' ableism

    • @marocat4749
      @marocat4749 2 роки тому +3

      @@honestguyintelligent3022 Keep in mind "the left" is not one group but so many different. Very very diverse, and you and generally only the loudest are mentioned.
      And like any j6st as comparison, you dont judge any group by their worst only.
      Not saying it shouldnt be adressed, and it is adressed but likely smaller. I follow nekosuris who, his partner is very inclusive and there is inevitable, she is a veteran with stuff. And generally i think chat is talking. There are left people talking about it just , its overall a stigma with a lot other things.
      Jusr with down syndrome, i think its fair making sure a mom is really ready for that. Thats kinda justified.

    • @waterwraith1189
      @waterwraith1189 2 роки тому

      I think they acknowledge that but still think addressing ableism will "split hairs" or scare more people away from the left. It sucks.

  • @sup6558
    @sup6558 3 роки тому +146

    Omg finally a great excuse not to study for my maths exam

    • @screamingpotato759
      @screamingpotato759 3 роки тому +15

      Math is for nerds anyway /j

    • @mossypunk4039
      @mossypunk4039 3 роки тому +16

      Wait, yall need an excuse?

    • @claireb6543
      @claireb6543 3 роки тому

      AP statistics?

    • @beep3242
      @beep3242 3 роки тому +5

      @Emese Ungvári Math's great when it is explained well, but if one has a curriculum like mine then you're just fucked like 60% of the time.

    • @alicec1533
      @alicec1533 3 роки тому +2

      Maths is based, school is not.

  • @bowiebloom9121
    @bowiebloom9121 3 роки тому +236

    I honestly can’t stand most ‘leftist’ streamers omg I can’t believe that happened to both of u :( thinking about how I’ve seen cis ppl tell their audience to forgive Kalvin Garrah. I completely agree that leftists ignore ableism, a specific part of disability I also think is particularly ignored is intersex ppl! As a nb intersex person I completely hate how so many ppl only want to acknowledge intersex ppl when it’s used as a gotcha moment against transphobes but don’t actually want to engage with the problems that so many of us face.

    • @laurentcathery273
      @laurentcathery273 3 роки тому +60

      You bringing up kalvin made me realise that he was immensely ableist but rarelly was called out for it. People jumped quickly on adressing his transphobia (which is good) but most people ignored his use of the r-slur, or forgave it upon realising he had adhd (shocking /s news: reclaiming a slur doesnt mean you can call others said slur). (Tw: description of ableist actions) Also he literally accused a disabled person of faking their illness, said their wheelchair was "wasted on them" and kept calling them a "transbled". I rarelly saw anybody call him out for that...

    • @hailsateen9219
      @hailsateen9219 3 роки тому +24

      @@laurentcathery273 Brennan and Copshatemoe did call Kalvin out on his ableism. The person that was targeted almost lost their benefits, you know the person's only means of survival because they can't work.

    • @laurentcathery273
      @laurentcathery273 3 роки тому +18

      @@hailsateen9219 yeah some people did call him out but its nothing compared to everyone who called him out and left that out. And yeah i know they almost lost everything... thats horrible

    • @hairscythe2257
      @hairscythe2257 3 роки тому +24

      OH MY GOd THANK YOU for aknowledging the whole "gotcha thing" some people have no idea about intersex oppresion

    • @siginotmylastname3969
      @siginotmylastname3969 3 роки тому +11

      I think it won't be resolved until we all incorporate intersex people into discussion of the lgbt+ community every time. I saw one place write lgbtiq but on my end I mostly try to discuss non lgbt+ people as cishet allo and dyadic because it's a privilege many of us don't acknowledge and an area where we've done too much to exclude you. Ie non lgbt+ people =cishets when there are intersex cishet people in the community. Really hope more people listen to intersex activists and start including you!

  • @laurentcathery273
    @laurentcathery273 3 роки тому +96

    One thing i wanna share (as well as exemples of my own experience) is how people online in left spaces seem to simultaneously look down on online activism (while doing it themselves). I think in a way that its a bit insensitive. I am not physically disabled but i am autistic as well as having mental illnesses that are very disabilitating and the only kind of activism i can do is online.
    Here's a few exemples: i cannot go to protests due to my social anxiety disorder and overload sensory issues, i cannot work amongst associations due to, again, social anxiety but also a severe depression that just make me unable to partake in any sort of jobs, i cannot donate because well... im so mentally in a bad place that i cannot have a job and therefore i have little to no money, i cannot confront bigots or debate them irl due to social anxiety and cptsd. And finally, i overall cant do anything due to having symptoms of paranoia and very bad intrusive thoughts. I try to do my best with being as much as an activist i can be online but there is this anxiety-inducing thing about individuals that keep asking me if i actually do things irl, discredit the work i attempt at doing because "im not actually doing anything" as well as lately i keep seeing videos on my feed talking about performative activism online (which in itself is indeed a problem and needs to be adressed but..) in most of these videos they dont adress the fact that activism might not be accessible to everybody and just urge their following to "question people being activists online and asking them what they actually do for their communities".
    I wont stop doing the things i can but this has kinda made my anxiety and paranoia tendencies go worse in online spaces as well. I think its another way the "online left" is being dismissive of disabled people in a way.
    (Its also important to note that while my reasons of activism not being accessible irl to me due to mental disabilities, physical disabilities can also make it hard to access these irl spaces.)
    The edit was made because when writting this comment, i didnt finish the video, i ended up finishing it just now and everything i said does go alongside the video, i just wanted to erase the part were i state i did not finish it, because now i did.

    • @emilyganguly277
      @emilyganguly277 3 роки тому +16

      I just want to say whatever you do that you can handle to positively affect the world, it's worth it. I appreciate you. Whatever you can do is perfectly enough!

    • @Jjjbbb5678
      @Jjjbbb5678 3 роки тому +1

      This sounds like a you issue. Online activism is near useless most of the time and therefor you are near useless to the movement. Dont expect people to pat you on the back for posting a tweet just because you cant handle the real world.

    • @laurentcathery273
      @laurentcathery273 3 роки тому +13

      @@Jjjbbb5678 yay, telling a disabled person that they are useless! Also i recently learned that i might be physically disabled too, that somehow makes what you said worse

    • @Jjjbbb5678
      @Jjjbbb5678 3 роки тому +1

      @@laurentcathery273 i never said you are useless. I said you are useless in a movement where being there in real life matters 1000x more than posting on twitter.

    • @laurentcathery273
      @laurentcathery273 3 роки тому +9

      @@Jjjbbb5678 i dont even have twitter pal. Also there is plenty of activism that was done online this year due to the pandemic. Like events were organised online, comferences were done online, speeches too, awareness was spread online like tons of movements gained visibility due to online activism. Stuff being online also made it more accessible to not only disabled people, but people with low income too. Zines, magazines, journals, books...etc were all costly and now you can find similar mediums being shared for free online. Sure, real life things do way more too, but you have no rights to say to someone that they are "near useless for the movement" just because they told you they couldnt due to disabilities. What in the fashist rhetoric is this,,,??

  • @nergregga
    @nergregga 3 роки тому +73

    I was not aware of that person, and I am so angry on your and Korviday's behalf. I am a disabled trans guy who is posibly a lot older than both of you. I fully agree that many leftists online ( and off in my experience,) are very ableist and get very defensive when people point it out: It's so frustrating because it makes a lot of disabled people reluctant to get involved with leftist politics for the reason that they don't feel welcome.

  • @maxstevam430
    @maxstevam430 3 роки тому +31

    Me crying with my 3000 vids Watch Later list

  • @pannacottafUWUgo
    @pannacottafUWUgo 3 роки тому +29

    y'know i've never thought about 'touch grass' like that. i've always seen it used/used it as 'stop simping for this fictional character or inanimate object, or in the case of a/b/o meme discourse, and i wasn't aware people actually used it in serious arguments. that's wild to me. yeah language has so much nuance, it's way too complicated for noises we make out of our throat that for some reason affect so much in our lives god humans are weird
    and i went off on a tangent nvm

  • @AQueerTheorist
    @AQueerTheorist 3 роки тому +28

    I need to like based on the title alone!

  • @aderyn7600
    @aderyn7600 3 роки тому +14

    I've tried going to protests and have found that with my tourettes I tend to just cause more issues and put myself in a dangerous situation? When there high stress and high danger situations like these my tics tend to do the worst thing.
    I've kind of taken refuge with online ableism and education but man people hate when you do that.
    Hey I went outside touched grass, people still purposefully trigger my tics