Mother Hugs The Man Who K*lled Her Son
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- Опубліковано 30 січ 2024
- Episode 54 | A Mother Who Forgives | On this episode of Trappin Anonymous “100%” A mother watches her one and only son’s murder from a tablet in her house. Second by second viewing the painful interaction, healing was something that was so distant at one point in time… Until the day she runs into the killer, here’s her story.
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Thanks for having me on ❤
My sincere condolences. Your strength is beyond impeccable 🙏🏾
As my tears pour down my face, I couldn't imagine!!!!! I pray GOD CONTINUE HEALING YOU, LEADING YOU, PROTECTING YOU!! MY GOD YOU ARE STRONG 😔I'M SO SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO YOUR BABY 😔THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY I know this was hard 🙏🏽😔 # GODGOTYOU
Sending extra love to you sis. As we all witnessed here and I know you know already, God is with you!
No, thank you for trusting me.
God bless you and your family. May your peace be renewed everyday ❤
Childhood trauma cuts so deep, and impacts so much of a person’s adult life. 😢
Entire adult life
@@TrappinAnonymous so true. The pain in her face when she tried to talk about her own childhood experiences was heartbreaking.
You are such a strong black queen this story was so much needed healing is a process .sending prayers and Virtual hugs to you . Be blessed walk in your testimony and faith .
Faxtz
Gfgg you have rr to go through this and you have anything I need the 10 to do it all of the v I don't rrr it when you do something to be honest and I'm going rrr and I'm not I need the money for us and your bubble spirit and I'm not doing nothing just like you making fun and I will do that too but I'm thinking of the v ffgggff@@mmodl
Nothing absolutely nothing stronger then a black woman ❤❤❤
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U must have stopped watching before the 20 minute mark.
@@ryanmarable2195Exactly
Promise you a blk man all wild animals are stronger
Generational street life curses that ended in the senseless deaths of way too many people. I salute her candor as well as not making excuses for her son’s actions, this woman is spiritually strong and seems to have come to terms with the way that she lived, and her role in the generational curse.
Thanks GOD BLESS you
Damn I felt her pain in the beginning wen she said he took my dog my mother lost her youngest son my lil brother cut down at 14 n I don’t I cud be as strong as her she is a inspiration!!!
Yes
I want to hug this lady. Not because I feel pity for her, but because you can tell she gives good hugs
#idohunbun
Mom's a gangsta
She knew you had to do something permanent to her son cause he was that 🥷
I respect her and whatever he did, he was still her son..
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Yup
Prayers to her. She is spiritually one with god and herself. Others wouldn’t understand. Rip her son 😢❤. She is strong and beautiful great mother and will get through this. Blessings
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Bs
When you get a taste of pure peace, nothing else matters. You protect it by any means necessary. The question to yourself every time should be ...do you want to be right or do you want peace?
Peaceeeeee
I choose peace 💯
This right here!! I wish a lot more black men would think on this before putting in action
My brother was shot nine times the story is exactly the same but my brother survived I remember my mom’s face when she got the phone call……God bless this wonderful woman I see strength ,beauty ,sadness ,courageous warrior
At first I was like how can you forgive the man who killed your son then hearing her story I understand now. She is a real stand up mother and understand street life. All prayers for the family and families that hurt behind the streets
GOD IS WHAT GAVE HER UNDERSTANDING 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
In all honesty, mom is partly responsible for her sons behavior and lack of emotional control that he was never taught. If you raise your child by the sword they will die by the sword. From what I heard here ALL of her children play with swords...
So much pain has happened to her that's made her hard. Pain runs down hill unfortunately .
Absolutely. Generational trauma
exactly. made him feel invincible..
All her kids? That lady got 2 kids only a son nd daughter. Nd he was not a bad person at all.
@@brittanyjackson3240 thanks
She owned all of this though. Listen clearly.
Men gotta keep their emotions in check. Emotions can get you killed. I don’t even fault the shooter. Son went there to cause trouble and trouble happened.
That was his house for the girl to have someone at that man house was wrong as hell and bogus
her son went to confront an invited visitor , got knock off and she forgives the shooter. Of course she should , her son was the only one bogus 🤷
@@forever39 no this was a guy the girl was messing with end of the day she was bogus!
@@thedestineyb6695 she said an invited visitor, meaning the girl obv invited the guy over, its not like he let his self in, & mother said her self she gave the girl a heads up. That girl ain’t care about that man for even putting him in that situation, her decisions not only impacted his life but now her kids have no father. Read the bible you can be sacrificing each other and don’t even know it, ask God for discernment. God bless
@@juanejones3221Watch what you say and how you say it..
she literally kept it so real !! she didn’t justify his behavior & i love her honesty for that ! no man or women deserves to die by another hand or abuse
I’m glad she got some peace, and so much growth! She basically said “my son got his karma” and she made peace with it❤
Hugs??? Naw, I told my people please don’t think I would forgive anyone that took my life senselessly.
It’s called forgiveness. And beyond that, having a relationship with God to allow you to get to that place of forgiveness.
You a fool 😂
It’s called forgiveness! We have to give forgive people for ourselves how we expect God to forgive us when we go against him everyday but we can’t forgive someone else
Definitely forgive but we not hugging f that
This is heavy… and accountability is everything, it seems as though she’s taking some form of accountability by having a clear understanding that sometimes we as parents don’t purposely fail our kids. Our childhood traumas do. Praying for all parties involved because leaving home and coming back seems soo far away now.
Love what u said
Thank you all for tuning into Trappin Anonymous. These stories are heavy but I can’t begin to express how glad she was to get on a plane for the first time to come and tell her story. Healing is happening. ❤
Thank you for having me on I love you God bless
i was really enjoying these videos and then i saw one titled "nobody is born gay" and that was a real turn off for me. how ignorant and closed minded of you to believe that someone who is gay is only gay due to trauma opposed to being born that way. you were born straight right?? you didn't need to be molested by a woman to know you were straight. disgraceful.
Wow this interview was so powerful. This definitely will reach someone. So many lessons were taught.❤
All of the wisdom from your life lessons, and your honesty, will change the trajectory of the young people you are guiding. What a beautiful blessing and testimony that is. ❤
I just lost my son 3 weeks ago....i am lost and tired 😢
Praying for your strength and healing 🙏🏾💔
This was tough! And i applaud her dearly. I think its easier (still hard) to forgive when you know your baby was in that life. Im not so sure how forgiveness wld go if he wasn't. To have someone taken that's been and stand up guy with a heart of gold, just might hit different. My best friend lost her only son/only child and its been rough. Her heart is broken, and forgiving is not in the cards for her yet. Its hard. I always pray she finds peace, but at the same time i understand her feelings. Ill never tell her she needs to forgive. Im here for her on her journey, and its gone take time. Its a scary thing to even fathom. Thank you for telling your story mama, i felt them bricks u spoke on through your eyes while listening and i know this can't be easy for you.... Sending love and light to all who's experienced something like this ❤
You're welcome NU
My best friend lost her daughter to murder as well. We still don't know who did it or why? Her daughter was an innocent victim, just really starting her adult life. I wouldn't wish that kind of pain on anyone. I know exactly how you feel.
@@MieshaDesigns so sad. Kids leaving here left and right smh. It was his best friend that got him, she was high and showing off her gun and shot him. Then ran and left him there, he was 21. On top of that, she's been out of jail, and only looking at 5 yrs. My friend heart is so dark, til if she sees her it jus might get real bad. She wants her gone. And it's like I can't say anything bc I can't tell her how to feel. All I can do is be here for her
Prayers to this woman 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️. It’s not for us to judge whatever her spirit was called to do ❤️!!!
I can respect her..she kept it real, keep your head up queen. God got you❤
She has a big heart but when u from tht it’s a different type of understanding that you have for the streets .
Say that again
Thanks ❤
You live but the gun you die by the gun. Sounds like she just accepted who he was but he sounds like he was a menace and that's probably why the other guy was ttg with you
Man! “I’m feeling this channel!”
It takes a strong person to fully forgive someone for taking a loved ones life. My brother was shot 6 times and I may have hugged the person and not even know it because people are sick they will show up just to see your pain! 😢
Love this lady. Loved her realness. So refreshing ❤
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You said you felt like you was hugging your son. That's real real deep. Thank you for your strength, courage and speaking the real. My son was murdered in 2008. He was murdered four days after his 22nd birthday. Honestly I'm not there yet when it comes to those who murdered my son. I'm still numb and my mind is still all over the place. It's been 15yrs and it still hurts as if it just happened. As if my younger son just called me with the worst call ever and how my younger son looked me in my eyes and said his brother didn't make it. The worst feeling I ever felt. My son birthday is December 1. He was Murdered December 5. I laid him to rest December 19. I flipped out when I went to identify his body. These story needs to told by mother's and heard by people all over including our youth. Thank you both for this video
My sincere condolences to you ❤🕊️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you Ms Curtis I needed this❤
Thank you baby
She still saying her son was about that life and it was on when it was on. 🤦🏾♂️ Her son shot a woman in the head with the kids in the car. 😮 All hell, dude was a menace and you know what they say when you do others dirty. Every dog has his day
What? Seriously?
@@Zamarah85 yes. Her son was a killer and he shot a woman in her car with her children in the car. He beat several homicide cases. Sad
Thanks
Damnmnmmmmnnnnnm, this changes my whole perspective of this interview..😮
she still saying her son was about that life cuz that’s what it was. she never said her son was a saint. she isn’t 1 of these parents in denial about who her child was. a lot of parents will scream my son was a good boy, he didn’t deserve that meanwhile their son was robbing, stealing & killing. shes being real & that’s to be respected. we all know how the game go.. she said it herself u live by it.. u die by it..
Moving testimony… I wish nothing but the best this mother and her family ❤
Bless her heart ❤️ May God continue to keep His hands on her and Bless her Abundantly 🙏🏾
It was justifiable. The baby mama was called and told the son was on his way over and he might’ve had gun or guns on him. The whole situation a tragedy. Sending continuous prayers for your strength.
U So right! Self defense. The other dude got a record too, no excuse
Read the law people or you will find your self thinking the system is after you, when you can work around the system if you study the system. Hell you spend time in jail not knowing what the statues are. Knowledge is power
Got got through the whole interview. God bless her.
Wait I’m confused, the son went to his ex’s house, opened her new man’s car door to confront him. What else was the guy supposed to do? Am I confused? He was probably startled and confused and even the bm seemed to be being stalked? It sounds like self defense. Not to take away from a mother’s hurt, but this wasn’t just a random cause.
Yeah, that's how I see it too. Her son ran up on him. You don't know what someone else is going to do in situations like that. I have totally legal firearms that I carry everywhere and I literally have my finger on the trigger and the safety off for situations just like this! He put himself in that situation. I feel so sorry for her loss because that's her baby. But that man put himself in harm's way.
No that was his house to they moved in there together
@@zoeyarhodes4368 once he left, he didn't live there anymore. They were broken up and he left the house.
If his name in the lease/mortgage that’s his shit too
@@ThePetey86 legally yes. But he was not residing there at the time of the incident.
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope God continues to bless you.
Some of these women can be a man’s downfall….its so sad!! BUT GOD!
But God is right
And his daddy was upstanding
Words were spoken by a spiritually wise woman. God bless her and her family.
Prayers to Ms. Henrietta.❤ Some of these comments are so insensitive. She said she or her son are not perfect. She’s accepted what happened but that doesn’t make her pain less relevant or her initial feelings less justifiable.
It sounds like her son was a menace , and ppl WILL NOT be shame about not sending condolences.
@@forever39 I’m speaking on HER feelings about her son . You don’t have to send condolences . Good or bad most parents will still mourn the loss of their child .
@@HEY_NOONIE as most mother should grieve, I was speaking on the the insensitivity you were noticing about the situation
I respect moms for keeping it real
From hearing this woman's story & seeing the cam footage for some reason it's giving me Baton Rouge vibes. Of course violence is everywhere but some of them Louisiana hoods are cursed. I remember when I visited BR you could just feel the dark energy in the air like it's haunted or something. Im not gonna hold you though Chris asking them murder questions was a little bold but hey I know you're not afraid to get the truth.
I really love what you're doing its amazing and unique ❤️ keep helping the world 🌍 Heal.
Thank u
You was so solid and so real and one thing I loved like you said I never been the type to say he was all Good she took accountability sumthing most mothers don't do and it takes God for you to be in a sane head space to forgive that type of situation anit easy and that was her only son I give my condolences cause that pain is unbearable 🙏🏽💔😢🕊✝️🕊🕊🕊💔💔💔💔💔🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
You are an amazing woman, I inspire to be like you to forgive my children's father murderer!! May God continue to give you strength
Man I have a story about forgiveness 😢 once you get to this level baby it’s a whole other spiritual awakening. I love her for this,her strength is impeccable
Wow, so sorry for your loss 😢❤
GOD BLESS this SISTA!
20:39 to be honest I haven’t finished the whole video, but when he asked about him shooting a woman in the head while her kids in car all she could say was “mm hmm” made me feel some type of way. That woman has family too. I really wanted an explanation.
I’m tired of hearing “strong” to define “forgiveness” in the black community. 🤦🏾♂️
You have to be mentally strong to forgive someone who have killed your only son and then to face them and tell them in person is strength.
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I don’t think this is strength , just plain stupidity.
THANK YOU!!!
What is it then she should've held on to it and got even right 😂 u in the comments being blasphemous all over the place its kinda funny but like damn
God bless her. She is so strong. God is working through her. The man that took her son he really needs to go and Talk to God. 🙏🏼🤞🏼🙏🏼 I’m so sorry you have to go through this.
Another great video. Usually I get on better and watch religious vids but I’m very drawn to your channel. It could be the most horrific stories that you are covering and I always find God’s Grace and presence in them. You have a story yourself Chris. You have a testimony. You should share it one day. God has his hands on you and this is just the beginning.
Also another quick lesson is never judge a book by the cover. I wasn’t expecting this woman to say she had just come from church. God is good.
This is so deep thank yu for teaching me how to forgive
Remember the message is “ forgiveness ” not “if you choose forgiveness”
Right GOD Bless
This is a very sad story thank God she changed her life she's a very strong woman 🙏🙏🙏
a lot to unpack here .... blessings
Love You Momma You Hustle Gained Some More Sons threw this interview God will continue to cover and bless you
Strong women! God bless her !
Wow I have so much respect for her and her realness Lord protect and keep her ❤
Damn .. blessings mama .. ❤ stay strong
I love this lady's heart ❤
I have been messaging y’all on Facebook. There is somebody y’all need to have on this podcast, her story needs to be told.
Who did you message
She knew forgiveness was mandatory because he son wasn’t out here playing fair
Gangtah Mom! I'm not glorifying it but I like her because she's true to HERSELF
Thanks
My GOD !!!!! I could not imagine!!!!! Honestly I would be on my knees PRAYING FOR GOD TO HEAL MY HEART AND LEAD ME BEFORE I make a terrible mistake. Praying for her BROKEN HEART 💔 😔🙏🏽
God is good boo Raising a street kid i can relate thank God for giving you the strength to forgive not for him but for yourself praying for you ❤
She strong she knew her son was a menace. But she accepted who he was. He lived by the gun and died by it. Shot a mother in the head with her kids in the car. I’m sorry but he shouldn’t have been back on the streets after that. But every dog has his day 🤷🏾♀️
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I'm so sorry so sorry that she lost her son 😢
Interviews we need . God is the most high 🙏🏾
This mother spoke on sum real shit.. That's why she was able to forgive the man that killed her son.. Because if you live by the sword you die by the sword I can appreciate everything she said
she reminds me of my childrens grandmother...my baby father was killed by his one and only brother(her second and only son left) almost 4 years ago. and she is the saaaame way.She gave it to God but you can tell there more feeling but what else can you do? Whats done is done! This lady has such a beautiful soul. She not blaming anyone really, but who wouldnt still feel some type of way?
Thank God for change!
I couldn’t finish watching it 😢
Prayers 🙏🙏🥰
This would make a great testimony.
Yo I really love her 😂 her rawness and authenticity… I see some of me in her
Her son put the house under surveillance, thought it was going to be sweet when he got there. This mother reminds me of momma duck, she up with all the BS until it hit home
Maam hush that lady still was wrong having that man in their house women be wrong in they actions just like men
You have to be careful what energies you put out into the world because eventually it will come back. If you live by it then you eventually can die by it.
I want to hear from story from childhood up to know because I see generational trauma but also strength written all over her
I do too
My brother was killed due to mistaken identity, and my mother and I forgave him when we met him at the prison. I didn’t expect to, but God is a healing God.
He actually didn’t serve any time for capital murder and was sentenced to 2 yrs for 14 counts, including committing crimes while serving as a cooberating informant.
He confessed to my brother's murder after 7 years and that was God because it was a cold case. When he found out that he killed the wrong person, after the police questioned him and said my brothers name, he said that his conscience was eating at him.
He apologized and cried, and we cried and received our closure.
It still hurts, but I pray that I see him again on judgment day.
He was my mother's first born son also. She struggles, but we pray through.
Hugs to Henrietta… I follow her on fb and saw when all that was going on
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Strong Mom 🫶 God Bless You 🙏
GOD Bless you ❤
Break My Heart🥺😢💔
She's a menace who raised a menace ! She may be remorseful now. But when her son was alive i bet she was proud of the monster she raised. I wonder how they are raising the deceased children... i hope she stays far away from their upbringing... we have to do better and take accountability
So sorry 😢
thats my auntie nd rip to my cousin 🥺🫶🏽
Chris why you be looking at them like that 😂😂😂😂😂
Her honesty in her emotions and that she wasn’t at forgiveness 1st it was an eye for an eye.
Wow this is crazy
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Can’t talk about what he did but can say what someone did to him..Wheww
She talked about what he did watch the video
Rest In Peace 🙏🏾🕊️❤️
She’s freed herself from the killer killing her son ,she’s not free from the justice system
Im 31 my mom always told me.....dont EVER say What ur child/children will r will not do
I haven’t been getting any notifications!!
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Wow, God bless her bc I don’t think I’d be able to do that at all
I'VE SEEN SEVERAL BLACK MOTHER'S DO THIS. LOOKS LIKE SOME PEOPLE STILL HAVE TRUE LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING WITHIN
Some times the mother's pain is hard
I Went Into UA-cam To Look For A Music Video and Ended Up On Here. As A Black Man This Shit Got Me In Tears. Forgiving Is Da Easiest But One Of The Most Powerful Thing A Human Could Do Smh.
Blessings To Her And Her Family And Blessings To This Platform
This video made me subscribe.. Trady to explore your channe