Mother Starved Two Children & Only He Survived

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  • Опубліковано 14 лис 2023
  • Episode 49 | Mother Murdered Child | On this episode of Trappin Anonymous “100%” we speak to a man who’s mother received 26-50 years in prison for starving him and his sister. While his sibling died under these impossible conditions, he lived to tell their story.
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  • @breakbeatmedia
    @breakbeatmedia  3 дні тому +1

    Please follow @trappinanonymous on Instagram and DM if you have a story that needs to be told.

  • @theperspektivcollectivellc2797
    @theperspektivcollectivellc2797 7 місяців тому +1155

    I went to highschool with him, I’m just soooooo happy that he isn’t strung out or doing bad. Very proud of you Dontae. I love you forever ❤️ - Mooka

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +12

    • @arahh2
      @arahh2 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@TrappinAnonymous Hey Trapp

    • @rubyemerald2187
      @rubyemerald2187 7 місяців тому +3

    • @umojahollis6123
      @umojahollis6123 7 місяців тому +8

      Where are y'all from if I can ask?

    • @LavenderDaniels
      @LavenderDaniels 7 місяців тому +34

      God chose him to survive so that the REAL Story could finally be revealed…. Dante, story will be someone’s story will be used to save so many children lives 💥💥🥹

  • @deswilliams-mcpherson
    @deswilliams-mcpherson Місяць тому +20

    I am 41 years old and I grew up with a crack addicted, alcoholic mother and there are certain memories that randomly resurface that I still fight to suppress because they are just too traumatizing to relive. The fact that this young man can speak about his experiences with such clarity and peace is absolutely inspiring. May the peace and strength of the Lord be upon you brother. 🙏🏾🕊️💙

  • @Introvert8181
    @Introvert8181 7 місяців тому +689

    Whoever is dating this man I pray he’s not being stressed out by another woman he’s been through enough

    • @kimdavis3259
      @kimdavis3259 6 місяців тому +19

      Omg. Right!!! I sure hope not! 🫶🏾🙏🏾🥹

    • @dantehailey7710
      @dantehailey7710 6 місяців тому +49

      i am single and stressed tf out

    • @user-bs5cx5yb3k
      @user-bs5cx5yb3k 6 місяців тому +14

      This is so heartbreaking 😢

    • @charlenecapers1376
      @charlenecapers1376 6 місяців тому +23

      Relationship,he doesn’t know what that is.

    • @Teedatgurl
      @Teedatgurl 5 місяців тому +19

      @@dantehailey7710don’t be stressed give it to god you so strong!

  • @taneshaW181
    @taneshaW181 6 місяців тому +164

    This is one of the main reasons why I don't complain out loud cause I know it's some ppl out there fighting a deeper battle than me.

    • @mjrbm82
      @mjrbm82 2 місяці тому +1

      Exactly….. I won’t complain…

    • @Mixedandfine
      @Mixedandfine 21 день тому +3

      This here 🙌

    • @RockyRoll11
      @RockyRoll11 День тому +1

      This comment touched me along with how strong this man is! 🙏🏼😞

  • @beautybymj98
    @beautybymj98 6 місяців тому +241

    The long pause he took after you asked him about his bond with his sister broke my heart..😢

  • @user-td7vg1ox2f
    @user-td7vg1ox2f 7 місяців тому +234

    I love that you give Black men the platform to be vulnerable and open, they are always taught to bottle up emotions and are belittled for seeking help.

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +2

      Yup

    • @78Leopard
      @78Leopard 3 місяці тому

      That's very true and they should be able and need to open up and let pain out!!

    • @ShowNoLove222
      @ShowNoLove222 2 місяці тому +2

      It’s not jus black men 🙄 all races of men are taught this smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ .

  • @imsomorgeous
    @imsomorgeous 6 місяців тому +271

    He definitely was the class clown. Always so funny. You would’ve never known he was going through so much. Dontae keep sharing your story! ❤

    • @bauthentic333
      @bauthentic333 5 місяців тому +16

      Those are usually the ones

    • @themoonbleu627
      @themoonbleu627 5 місяців тому +2

      Never known was he thin?

    • @dawnrobinson8302
      @dawnrobinson8302 5 місяців тому +16

      They say the funniest person in the room is the saddest 😢

    • @glowil7883
      @glowil7883 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@@NOHSALHe stole change when he was younger. He was in a foster home in HS

    • @loribrown3938
      @loribrown3938 3 місяці тому

      ​@@dawnrobinson8302yup i believe it.

  • @nikiagray9560
    @nikiagray9560 7 місяців тому +627

    Literally cried the entire time , makes you know that there’s always someone out there that had it way worst then you I’m just happy you survived and to the others kids like us that grew up during the crack epidemic , we are survivors

  • @lifeislovely277
    @lifeislovely277 7 місяців тому +441

    Wow. This man clawed his way to freedom. Built a life, started a family and loved all the way. You can tell, inspite of everything he went through, he never carried hatred in his heart. This is a King for real. You know his son going to be straight. Life changing interview. King to King. Stay blessed. ❤

  • @TheAnissaMonee
    @TheAnissaMonee 7 місяців тому +309

    Some may disagree but some of today’s children should listen to some of these stories I feel that children can be so entitled today and hearing these stories can remind them of how grateful they are. A true wake up call. Blessings to this wonderful man and his siblings ❤

  • @Jane-rs2si
    @Jane-rs2si 7 місяців тому +196

    The fact that he was treated better in prison than at home as a baby with his own mother, my heart breaks for him 😔😔😔😞😞😞 💔 🙏🏾

    • @Facebook-sb3eo
      @Facebook-sb3eo 7 місяців тому +1

      That crack cocaine had his mother mentally ill they be delusional out of there 🧠

    • @user-yy6hx9gy7q
      @user-yy6hx9gy7q 4 місяці тому +3

      That is heartbreaking 😢

    • @karlagarcia1851
      @karlagarcia1851 16 днів тому

      Scary thought 😢

  • @fireflames67
    @fireflames67 7 місяців тому +173

    She could’ve gave up all her kids at birth and lived how she wanted to and avoided all of this

    • @Jane-rs2si
      @Jane-rs2si 7 місяців тому +57

      She wanted the checks and government assistance smh just wanted them for money 😢

    • @Facebook-sb3eo
      @Facebook-sb3eo 7 місяців тому +17

      It wasn't that easy to place black children because there where so many in foster care back in crack cocaine pandemic wasn't enough foster parents for so many African American children back then sad sad time 80's kids still suffer from mental health to this present day 2023 from them event's that' happened.

    • @JukuduB
      @JukuduB 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Facebook-sb3eothe main reason is she wanted those checks!!!

    • @pennygraves4397
      @pennygraves4397 4 місяці тому +1

      I assumed you didn't watch ten minutes of this video to be asking that question. It's the constant key typers for me.

    • @CJLopez-
      @CJLopez- 3 місяці тому

      I’m assuming it was for child welfare

  • @markitacounts7468
    @markitacounts7468 7 місяців тому +152

    This man is so handsome, I pray that he continues to strive and continue to get the healing he deserves 💙

    • @TheresaofTheWorld
      @TheresaofTheWorld 7 місяців тому +9

      i was thinking the same thing

    • @ashliestephens3166
      @ashliestephens3166 7 місяців тому +14

      The most beautiful people have the worst stories 😢

    • @BryanaGabriel
      @BryanaGabriel 5 місяців тому +3

      I was just saying the same thing girl 😔🙏🏽

    • @Alphaluv1
      @Alphaluv1 4 місяці тому +1

      Im 54 and honaaay, auntie was thinking the same thibg. He is handsome.

    • @MSKISSEZ215
      @MSKISSEZ215 4 місяці тому

      Yesss, I'd spoil him lol...prayers for this young, black man

  • @tiadarden9447
    @tiadarden9447 7 місяців тому +231

    I commend this young man for his transparency and openness. So glad he lived to tell his story. It’s truly a testimony. I can’t fathom all that he endured, and his ability to forgive his mother. I wish him nothing but the best in all that he does.

  • @goodgutta
    @goodgutta 7 місяців тому +118

    As a mother of 2 adult children and 2 minor children, I want to hug his hurt away so badly. There is a pain in his heart that will be there until he leaves this life. No child on this earth should ever not know love or never experience a mother's safety and love. I'm actually pissed that he had to carry this burden.

  • @TrappinAnonymous
    @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +263

    Thank you all for supporting Trappin Anonymous I sincerely appreciate it.

    • @lyfeofthewisefamily5741
      @lyfeofthewisefamily5741 7 місяців тому +2

      Can you please reach out to me about my sister here I’m Dante oldest sister and a few things aren’t true 😢

    • @nadiarah9752
      @nadiarah9752 7 місяців тому +8

      Dontae I’m so sorry..I was friends Kahdijah and Gwen, and lived on the block. I always wished they would’ve said something to any of us! I pray for you’ll mental and thanks for letting the world know your story! ❤️🤲🏽 She’s your forever angle 😢🕊️

    • @amandabrown8454
      @amandabrown8454 7 місяців тому +6

      Thank you for all you do! Amazing interview my heart and prayers go out to this strong, amazing young man. Chris is one of the best interviewers i have ever seen, great questions without digging to deep and make the guest uncomfortable, but also at the same time being basically a therapist, keep on doind what you do❤

    • @tamikadavis677
      @tamikadavis677 7 місяців тому

      ​@@lyfeofthewisefamily5741 oh, now you wanna speak up?

    • @bauthentic333
      @bauthentic333 5 місяців тому +3

      What isnt true ? Why would you cone on here and publicly discredit ur brother like this ? ​@lyfeofthewisefamily5741

  • @user-ve5et5xr9q
    @user-ve5et5xr9q 7 місяців тому +106

    I hurt so bad when he said the wall paint was his snack.That he ate half of the wall.R.I.P. 🙏🏼 Little baby.I was relieved to hear she didn't suffer a different fake.She wasn't alone.She was in your arms.I know he can still feel her.God bless you.❤
    To those that knew he was confined,and then you confined him again.Shame on you.

  • @nickibaby7997
    @nickibaby7997 7 місяців тому +119

    Where were the other adults in his family to protect these children? This is beyond disturbing and sad. The villiage failed them as well as his mother.

    • @AtouchofCHARM
      @AtouchofCHARM 6 місяців тому +24

      Why do y’all blame everyone but who actually did it????!? He said his family didn’t even know she had kids !!!!! Did u even watch it

    • @joslynspureclass
      @joslynspureclass 6 місяців тому +21

      I get what u mean. A person who does that to their children probably dont even have contact with their family or invite them over. Not everyone grows up with aunts & uncles or grandparents in their life. The family is not to blame, the person who did it is.

    • @dayciajtalk88
      @dayciajtalk88 4 місяці тому +5

      This have nothing to do with family some people are not close to their family or even invite their family over, she was just evil and the drugs used make it worst.

    • @user-of8ey2wf5i
      @user-of8ey2wf5i 4 місяці тому +5

      if she kept her children in a basement I’m quite sure she kept her family in the dark. Believe it or not some people don’t even have family! They go through life fighting battles alone.

    • @IridescentCloud
      @IridescentCloud 10 днів тому +2

      Some victims families are aware and they ignore the abuse. Usually, they have a problem with responsibility and accountability. I am a witness to those kinds of family dynamics. Unfortunately, this man didn't have any family who knew he existed.😢

  • @nineyniney
    @nineyniney 6 місяців тому +92

    This man’s spirit and self awareness is beautiful. My heart breaks for what him and all of his siblings went through and his ability to come out on the other side not riddled with hatred and malice. It’s truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing this with us

  • @boomshakalaka1557
    @boomshakalaka1557 7 місяців тому +90

    This was a horrendous story to listen too. I went through a traumatic childhood myself . Nothing as extreme as his. But, I now struggle with alcohol. I’m proud of how he’s not somewhere strung out, because I know that your childhood haunts you as an adult. 😢

    • @antJaxStar
      @antJaxStar 7 місяців тому +15

      I Definitely turned to drugs and alcohol for many years and I still dissociate at times and I feel so broken to this day😢

    • @boomshakalaka1557
      @boomshakalaka1557 7 місяців тому +11

      @@antJaxStar your not alone. Believe it or not we’re stronger than most. 😔 We endured abuse from people that was the most close to us, and still came out on the other side.

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +4

      ❤❤

    • @Facebook-sb3eo
      @Facebook-sb3eo 7 місяців тому +11

      That Achohol it kills not going to help no anxiety/ depression you need mental health help with an professional

    • @Facebook-sb3eo
      @Facebook-sb3eo 7 місяців тому +6

      ​@@antJaxStarWhy !!! You destroying yourself you repeating the the same thing your parent did don't make any sense I pray you get help with an professional mental health Doctor study the Bible scripture's Jehovah God 🙏 almighty will help.

  • @treneice2011
    @treneice2011 5 місяців тому +16

    Thank you to their adopted parents❤ a breath of fresh air

  • @LATOYA_NIGHT34
    @LATOYA_NIGHT34 7 місяців тому +132

    I really admire everyone who shares their stories as it’s still hard for me to even speak of what happened to me. Now my mom is dead and I still have unanswered questions

    • @krereese
      @krereese 7 місяців тому +12

      God will give you the right words at the right time. ❤

    • @itsallornothin2012
      @itsallornothin2012 7 місяців тому +3

      @@krereeseyou said it best

    • @bre6382
      @bre6382 7 місяців тому +5

      Isaiah 49:15 Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? yes, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee. God hasn’t forgot what was done to you or what you are carrying to this very day! I don’t know if you believe or not but whoever wronged you will be held accountable I pray you can forgive your mother and find comfort that God ultimately already has judgement on her life all you can do is ask for mercy for her.

    • @thewholeyou
      @thewholeyou 6 місяців тому +5

      My heart goes out to you I know it's challenging to not have answers and they have passed away.

    • @sharenahartley649
      @sharenahartley649 5 місяців тому +2

      I pray that God gives you healing

  • @carolynmcdonald2746
    @carolynmcdonald2746 6 місяців тому +36

    This just broke my heart to pieces. I remember when my children were young and I couldn’t afford to give them a Christmas and I cried so hard, feeling like a complete failure. I realize now that I cried because I didn’t even want my children to feel disappointed. How could a mother impose such evil on her children? It’s mind-boggling 😢

  • @wandab808
    @wandab808 7 місяців тому +98

    I still see the little boy in this young man. As a woman, I am so sorry for your trauma and pain,confusion, and let down.This was really hard for me to watch.
    My heart breaks for you, brother.
    Thank you for sharing your story with us. Sending my continued prayers to you and your sisters 🙏🏾.
    Guard my life, oh Lord, from the works of the evil one. Lord Jesus, I call on Your name in this time of trouble. Because Your name is higher than any other name, I hide in You like a shelter. Keep me safe from every form of harm.
    Thank you, Chris, for this interview.
    You are always kind and compassionate with everyone. Always respectful 🔨💯✅️. Please continue.
    R.I.P: Sister 🕊🕊🕊🕊

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +2

      Love. Thank u

    • @wandab808
      @wandab808 7 місяців тому +1

      @@TrappinAnonymous 🙏🏾 thank you for always delivering 🔨💯.

    • @antJaxStar
      @antJaxStar 7 місяців тому +2

      This took me back to very dark places and the visions of the weapons she used on me. I am so glad I see my therapist tomorrow at 3

    • @crookedfingersgirl7356
      @crookedfingersgirl7356 6 місяців тому +1

      I see it too!!!

  • @tiffanyg2864
    @tiffanyg2864 7 місяців тому +71

    Man I cried watching this.. it hit different trying to love a man like this through trauma I pray he is able to receive love and he is loved well. My kids father experienced a similar situation and he’s a sociopath and narcissist. I understand why because he just was never taught how to just be a basic normal human being in society, it’s like he lives his life as an adult based off things he’s seen on tv.. I had to teach him how to actually bathe himself correctly little things you learn growing up he just didn’t have so he always fends for himself first always thinks of himself first and I know it’s not even on purpose so I still help him but we could not be together, he took me through so much just trying to love and care for him 😢

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +1

    • @TheAnissaMonee
      @TheAnissaMonee 7 місяців тому +3

      Blessing to you ❤

    • @Pehpehsoup
      @Pehpehsoup 6 місяців тому +1

      Keep encouraging him! Continue to be his safe place ❤

    • @herisrael7
      @herisrael7 6 місяців тому +2

      💔 I Love You Sis.. All Praise to The Most High for His mercy.. I definitely know this comment.. Smh, You know it's bad when You want to love and help someone who treats You terribly, puts His hands on You and still make You feel bad when You know it's Them.. I Pray You have peace from the trauma that brought.. I Pray The Most High gets Me through the trauma My Sons and I suffered from someone who couldn't live Us properly because He wasn't loved properly.. Our brother in this video is a beautiful god on this earth and I Pray The Most High allows Him to find out who He is and grow in power and might.. ❤️🙏🏾 Shalam..

    • @None-of-yours22.
      @None-of-yours22. 6 місяців тому +6

      This comment is so deep. It reaches me fully because i completely get what you mean. I’ve dealt with someone from a similar status and it bothers me how much he thinks of himself and his survival as an adult but the reason why he’s that way makes me want to help him and I do. I feel like he will never see life the way that I do.

  • @MidWestNikki1
    @MidWestNikki1 5 місяців тому +19

    His relationship to her was a trauma bond!!! He right he didn’t know luv, happy, sad, pain… he only knew neglect!! They was connected thru that neglect bond.😢 that kilt my soul when he said that. It was hard to explain cuz u don’t wanna lie or feel insensitive. He def blames himself by thinking “damn did I eat too much of the onion and she ain’t get enough? Did I drink too much of the toilet water and she ain’t get enough?” I knew he was gone say that b4 he even said it. May Allah protect him nd fill him with the precious gift of luv and happiness.

  • @tyyteeeinreallife6955
    @tyyteeeinreallife6955 7 місяців тому +19

    Whoever gets this man they better treat him tf right .

  • @NurseRoe
    @NurseRoe 6 місяців тому +39

    This is why self work is so important he was given a chance with decent family but his self worth didn’t believe he deserve that love. Subconsciously he was trained to believe he wasn’t worthy. This so deep and the scars she caused she deserved life. Until he heal that little boy little situation will come up throughout his life. I’m praying for his healing ❤️‍🩹

  • @sheaneeb3281
    @sheaneeb3281 7 місяців тому +169

    This was a great conversation. The vulnerability ,forgiveness and courage he displayed is truly commendable ❤❤

  • @Kel-bt1cx
    @Kel-bt1cx 7 місяців тому +22

    When he said “3rd from the top step” and “she was frying chicken” it showed the pain n memories embedded in his memory😢

  • @toriahopkins5771
    @toriahopkins5771 7 місяців тому +79

    His forgiveness is definitely appreciated but I don't even think he understands how much that freed him from anger and hurt. This was heart breaking to hear but his strength showed through!! His vulnerability and willingness to weep when he needed to shows so much to others dealing with pain. As always Chris Styles conducted a great interview where you create a safe space and listen as well as ask questions. I also love how Chris shows where he connects dots in someones story as well as learn from them.

  • @eve9287
    @eve9287 7 місяців тому +54

    The excruciating and horrendous events thats some children face are so sad and heartbreaking my goodness

  • @kamrichaverest5327
    @kamrichaverest5327 7 місяців тому +44

    This literally brought me into tears 😢 no human deserves be treated like this

  • @Snb__
    @Snb__ 7 місяців тому +53

    I cried so bad watching this, especially knowing this happened here in Philly. Praying for him ❤️🙏🏾 RIP Charnae.

  • @jamesfreeman3692
    @jamesfreeman3692 7 місяців тому +34

    This story is extremely heart breaking. Children shouldn't have to go through this.

  • @yowurl01
    @yowurl01 6 місяців тому +30

    Thank God he survived. His eyes tell all of his story😢❤💪🏽

  • @copperamerindian050
    @copperamerindian050 6 місяців тому +23

    I got the biggest urge in me to just give him the tighest and most tender hug a person can ever get.. My boy you are one of the chosen ones and it’s so great to see that you aren’t full of bitterness and anger, you are truly a remarkable guy.. Your son is blessed to have you for a dad just as you are blessed to have him as your son.. May the Almighty continue to give you the strength and wisdom to persevere and may your heart stay warm always.. ❤️

  • @JoyCassi
    @JoyCassi 7 місяців тому +46

    All the love to this man for sharing his story. I think it would be nice for the interviewer to introduce the person first. Jumping into a story so heavy, it would be nice to hear from the person first about themselves and why they choose to share.

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +7

      Wow I actually like this critique a lot.

    • @kalilahroberts1225
      @kalilahroberts1225 7 місяців тому +7

      Right! He said he got merch but I'm trynna figure out the man's name and a lil intro of wbat they will be talking about .

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +1

      @@kalilahroberts1225If u watch the clip in the beginning you will see

  • @latonyajones439
    @latonyajones439 4 місяці тому +2

    Man these stories get me!! I have a 19 year old son & I’ve battled my own addiction but never once could I neglect my child. We basically grew up together. That’s my rock. He helped me get clean. I pray this man gets all the love & support he needs to b there for his kids

  • @Tinelle.J
    @Tinelle.J 7 місяців тому +39

    Maaaaaaaan that statement to his son aka his younger self took me TF out!😩🙏🏾 May God cover you, be your peace, and continue to heal you! Chris, great interview!

  • @lannachari1990
    @lannachari1990 7 місяців тому +39

    I wish Chris would’ve asked why did his mom only have them 2 in the basement and not the other 6 siblings 💗

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +27

      They were the youngest and required the most attention. The self sufficient ones she could just keep in their room but the kids she needed to tend to. She couldn’t focus on her high with them.

    • @brandikemp7349
      @brandikemp7349 5 місяців тому +5

      He stated that his other siblings equally experienced trauma but they were locked away from him. He couldn’t accurately remember their trauma.

  • @diq74
    @diq74 7 місяців тому +53

    I just want to give him the tightest, longest hug and heal that little boy inside of him that never felt the love of his mother. My heart ached watching this. And shout out to you Chris for asking all the right questions and allowing him the space to comfortably to share his uncomfortable story. Salute!

  • @nasharawoodard7668
    @nasharawoodard7668 7 місяців тому +22

    A bunch of people failed them 🥺! My god didn’t anybody notice them missing from school and things like that 🥺

  • @HajraUmmiof3
    @HajraUmmiof3 7 місяців тому +17

    At the end when he said his son is his younger self, able to play and teach and share and love and grow with his son. ❤️PIP baby girl 💕💕

  • @kwentaegoodloe6284
    @kwentaegoodloe6284 7 місяців тому +29

    This man's testimony is remarkable!! What a MIGHTY GOD we serve!! Frfr. 💯🙌🤞🙏

    • @MsLady-gb3gy
      @MsLady-gb3gy 7 місяців тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jabellatv3240
    @jabellatv3240 7 місяців тому +28

    This is the most powerful and realistic content I’ve seen on UA-cam especially for the black community and it’s crazy you don’t have millions of subscribers like that underbelly channel because you don’t exploit you respect these people and it’s almost like watching a therapy session with a therapist you all the right questions and show so much compassion but of course UA-cam isn’t going to promote you like you should be because you’re not the right skin color and you’re not with the gimmicks and exploiting, you and all your guests are amazingly strong and beautiful people even though they have seen and been through the ugliness life can be. A lot of us have a a story or testimony but I see this and thank god i didn’t have to go through what they did even I had hard and traumatic experiences someone else is always going through more smh

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +5

      Thank u for taking the time to pour back into me. It takes all of us to push for that number one spot. N we are not far. I can feel it. Keep spreading love

  • @sweetapplecapricorn
    @sweetapplecapricorn 6 місяців тому +17

    I'm so proud of this man for so many reasons. He has been courageous.

  • @Kaicross.
    @Kaicross. 6 місяців тому +13

    Just the look in his eyes literally broke my heart the whole hour watching this . Very handsome young man , and was the cutest kid 😢 I pray for his continued strength 🙏🏽

  • @monroeinteriordesgn
    @monroeinteriordesgn 6 місяців тому +13

    This story was so traumatizing for me as a kid my mother punched the tv and screamed so loud that it made chills go through my body when the news announced this story and the part about the rats eating away at his sister body 😢😢this story will always stick in my head and my mothers reaction to it unfortunately smh so glad he survived and is doing well and is healthy and not on drugs god bless you ❤and I wish u much success

  • @Mysticmuse97
    @Mysticmuse97 7 місяців тому +35

    Every second he described what he went through, my brain tried to process it as “he’s lying” because its so inhumanly traumatizing that I don’t want to accept that not just anybody but a MOTHER can do this to these innocent souls. My heart is shattered. I need to hug him to feel better. The goverment knew what they were doing flooding the streets with the drug demons. I Salute to all warriors who lost & won the battle 🫶🏽 sending love and peace your way Dontae

    • @JukuduB
      @JukuduB 6 місяців тому +16

      He didn't have a mother, he had a monster.💯

    • @summerjohnson4503
      @summerjohnson4503 6 місяців тому +5

      The whole time I kept saying that I wanted to hug him. I can't even believe what he went through, especially at such a young age. No child should have to endure this type of torture.

  • @letitiareed3112
    @letitiareed3112 7 місяців тому +28

    Im so happy he has a family of his own. Praying for a life of peace and prosperity for him his siblings and his family. What a SOLDIER 💪🏾!

  • @Thee1111
    @Thee1111 7 місяців тому +28

    I pray he’s in counseling because this trauma can eat you whole. I’m so sorry to you both. R.I.P baby girl.

  • @Cupcake_Bae
    @Cupcake_Bae 7 місяців тому +39

    Wowww. What a strong man! I’m so glad he’s here today to tell his story. God bless him ❤

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +2

      Same

    • @breakbeatmedia
      @breakbeatmedia  7 місяців тому +4

      God bless him fr

    • @MsLady-gb3gy
      @MsLady-gb3gy 7 місяців тому +2

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Facebook-sb3eo
      @Facebook-sb3eo 7 місяців тому

      There million's of black children in the 80's story is the same due to crack cocaine pandemic sad but the truth.

  • @Mvptrophy
    @Mvptrophy 7 місяців тому +15

    I couldn’t stop crying. I want to meet him. Unbelievable and to still love his mom.

    • @milahj2741
      @milahj2741 3 місяці тому +2

      My husband and siblings went through a similar situation of abuse and neglect and still loves and cares deeply for the mother

  • @browneyediva2429
    @browneyediva2429 7 місяців тому +12

    Omggg it really took me out!! When he said his mom fried chicken soon after he found his sister dead😮😢😢😢😢she is Evil as hell. Am balling from hearing his story😭😭😭this reall literally hurts my heart. I got to keep putting it on pause to get myself together. I thought my mother tortured me and my brother 😢 so listening to his story by some bad and I mean no bad memories. I just pray that he's getting therapy for this. This is something that you always have to live with how I'm still in therapy. I pray 🙏🏽🙏🏽 for the goodness for you. Because you are stronger than you think to survive that monster of a mother yours. Thank you so much for sharing your story and thank you for bringing the story to us 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

  • @missnya4368
    @missnya4368 7 місяців тому +30

    This inteveiw was so heartbreaking 💔💔 So glad he still alive to tell his story and R.I.P to his little sister

  • @sheronvass1291
    @sheronvass1291 7 місяців тому +25

    Healing is never ending. Keep up the great work young man.

  • @shaquandacooke8254
    @shaquandacooke8254 7 місяців тому +18

    Omggg i love his aura!! God is definitely within him ❤ Keep living your truth !

  • @asiayoung86
    @asiayoung86 7 місяців тому +19

    Whewwwwwwww.... this was heartbreaking. I can not even imagine living his life. Pray him and is sibling continue overcoming their past

  • @lraine9199
    @lraine9199 5 місяців тому +27

    Being in the homeless shelter and not knowing that you’re sitting across from your own sibling is CRAZY!!!
    My heart broke… instantly.

  • @FRIENDLYFANGZ
    @FRIENDLYFANGZ 5 місяців тому +6

    When you asked him, "What was the new home like? I held my breath because I was so scared he was gonna say it was horrible. I'm glad he finally got to relax his body & mind. ❤

  • @queenjanaee
    @queenjanaee 17 днів тому +3

    I subscribed after watching the young lady's story that was visiting her home in Belize...her courage and strength...as a mother i couldn't do anything but cry. All of these stories and these individuals are changing lives...making us more aware, making us more compassionate, letting us know we're not alone...even letting us know that maybe we don't have it as bad as the next...thank you Chris for sharing these stories...for helping them and us begin to heal in whatever way it happens.❤️

  • @user-ku2ko6mv6o
    @user-ku2ko6mv6o 7 місяців тому +11

    My son is here crawling on me I’m playing with and kissing him and I couldn’t imagine. I had to put this on pause while I tended to him because my son’s joy and his hurt felt so 😢for a sec. I waited to listen when I was alone because this was hard but I’m glad he is alive and getting better everyday. Peace and blessings

  • @HoneyLiciousHoney
    @HoneyLiciousHoney 7 місяців тому +14

    I remember this heartbreaking story i myself had a 3 yr old son at the time and kept wondering how could a mother do this to her own children. You had a will to survive, thank you for sharing your story and testimony. Blessings and more blessings to you💕

  • @VVSKO504
    @VVSKO504 7 місяців тому +8

    This is a story that even the illest person would try the entire interview! I’m so proud of the man he has become and I don’t even know him. God bless him.🙏🏽💙🙌🏽

  • @brittanygibbons5542
    @brittanygibbons5542 7 місяців тому +11

    😢 this has me crying and I can’t even imagine the inner hurt you dealt with . God bless you on your inner healing king .

  • @LS-ns2jx
    @LS-ns2jx 6 місяців тому +6

    It’s heart wrenching hearing him speak, and it’s thousands and millions more like him!

  • @VeeLynn91
    @VeeLynn91 7 місяців тому +57

    This absolutely broke my heart I love this show your an amazing host 👏🏼👏🏼 I’ve put so many people on to you I have a story but I’m not ready to tell it but you give people so much hope and light !! Keep doing what your doing ❤

    • @TrappinAnonymous
      @TrappinAnonymous 7 місяців тому +7

      When you’re ready, my door is open

    • @breakbeatmedia
      @breakbeatmedia  7 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for watching and appreciate all the kind words!

  • @jackeebabi5074
    @jackeebabi5074 5 місяців тому +9

    I love how he always ask all the right questions and never scared to ask the hard questions. Every answer I ever needed from each person I got an answer. Great interview.

  • @biancaclark3255
    @biancaclark3255 7 місяців тому +15

    Watching this episode really pulled at my heart strings. Some people do not need to have children. I really feel for him. The trauma that he has experienced is so tough.😢 I pray that after I finish my major for Human Services that I do everything that I can to help people.❤️ ❤ May God continue to bless this young man's journey.

  • @arianne5620
    @arianne5620 7 місяців тому +10

    Ugh my heart.... children should never experience such torture and neglect. Truly amazing that he is able to tell his story

    • @Facebook-sb3eo
      @Facebook-sb3eo 7 місяців тому

      It's another drug pandemic fentanyl killing the white women/men an abusing there babies but the difference is white babies get adopted because most Europeans are economicly able to take foster kids in an adoption 1980's many black people was in hardship they wasn't economiclly able to adopt/ foster care.

    • @Facebook-sb3eo
      @Facebook-sb3eo 7 місяців тому

      Fentanyl 2023 diedly drug's

  • @LavenderDaniels
    @LavenderDaniels 7 місяців тому +11

    His Mother was definitely the definition of pure Evil 👿 and I hope hell made some room
    For her frfr this story completely breaks my heart 💔💔💔💔

  • @naturallybella
    @naturallybella 7 місяців тому +32

    I watch all of your episodes and, out of all of them this one had me crying and tearing up almost all thru it. I am so happy that his life did a 180 and as a mother myself with a son I appreciate him understanding his mother. I pray for nothing but success and grace for him and his siblings. God is good! Keep up the good work ❤

  • @mrs.rosariomoney8167
    @mrs.rosariomoney8167 6 місяців тому +9

    Thank you for this heartbreaking story and thank the Gentleman for sharing his story. I appreciate your strength to stand tall and keep going. The 80s was a cruel time for most of us all the world, our parents, aunts, uncles, sisters, brothers, grandparents went through alot for those white small pebbles and many children suffered in silence around everyone because we was invisible to the small white pebbles. Im glad God kept his hand on you to bring you out and give you courage to share your "our" story, more of us need to come out the shadows of shame and let the world know what we been through to set ourselves free and stop the lies "its only you going through and no one cares for me" syndrome to heal ourselves, we as blk ppl was always told "what go on in this house stay in this house" . This cycle needs to be broken it has destroyed sp many of us and we allow the cycle to continue becuse we are conditioned to keep everything private. Thank you again for this truth looking forward to the follow-up and the next earth moving story❤

  • @Stargirlproductions
    @Stargirlproductions 7 місяців тому +12

    Wow so much pain in his eyes 🥺, god bless you ! I hope you get everything in life and more ! You’re so strong & you’re a warrior , a fighter , an over comer !

  • @key31367
    @key31367 7 місяців тому +15

    This is so heartbreaking as a mother and a child 🥹. I’m so sorry this happened to them.

  • @shanyajoseph6285
    @shanyajoseph6285 6 місяців тому +5

    A few times his eyes went completely blank and at the end I shed a tear when he talked abt his sister - how he wished he would’ve been able tell her he loved her -and that broke my heart to pieces !

  • @piscesqueenrock1254
    @piscesqueenrock1254 5 місяців тому +3

    "You gon be great" He can say that to him younger self which is his sun....Amen God Bless You

  • @sonyalee5152
    @sonyalee5152 7 місяців тому +16

    This should be a movie and a book. Thanks for the story

    • @Facebook-sb3eo
      @Facebook-sb3eo 7 місяців тому

      You no how many stores of black children in the 1980's crack cocaine pandemic stories thousands Singer Keysia Cole , Chrishane Rock rapper

  • @CacaoFlower
    @CacaoFlower 7 місяців тому +7

    Whew trials and tribulation’s, he has one heck of a testimony, May God bless him & his family.

  • @tamikasutton1461
    @tamikasutton1461 7 місяців тому +8

    This was a very great conversation and worth watching every single minute ❤

  • @iamsherinal
    @iamsherinal 7 місяців тому +6

    This is very heartbreaking to watch but it’s awesome to see how he turned out in the end. Great interview!

  • @str8gvideos849
    @str8gvideos849 3 місяці тому +2

    I grew up in foster care my mom also killed my lil brother so i feel him to the utmost shit almost made me cry. I had to learn love and so much more and my kids helped with tht. Its still a struggle but im making it salute to this man. I rarely tell anybody about the shiit i went thru just keep smiling 😢🖤

  • @simoneneal557
    @simoneneal557 7 місяців тому +7

    Wow this broke tears to my eyes. It brought back my childhood memories with my mother. I hope the brother is doing great today. Please keep your update on him💯❤️

  • @NicoleGrow
    @NicoleGrow 5 місяців тому +6

    Unbelievable 😢 I can't even wrap my head around all of it. I do know what it feels like to grieve the loss of life . I will keep him and his siblings in my prayers 🙏🏾🌱

  • @tersitaross35
    @tersitaross35 7 місяців тому +22

    Trauma manifest in many different ways from acting out in school being rebellious, he is psychologically messed up and unfortunately having a loving environment short term isnt enough to reverse those effects my prayers to this young man he now has the ability to change those generational curses and be the best dad he can be

  • @princessr1920
    @princessr1920 7 місяців тому +9

    I pray that god give this man strength and peace. He should definitely write a book and share his story more because I have never heard of this story and it was touching, I pray he’s doing good.

  • @ashliestephens3166
    @ashliestephens3166 7 місяців тому +5

    This is amazing 🥹🥹 these are conversations we need to have more in our community because it's not just angry people walking around doing bad thing people are hurting and you never know. He doesn't look like what he has been thru at all😢 he got some angels over him 🙏🏾 I hope he healed that little boy doing this video

  • @rochanhall9116
    @rochanhall9116 7 місяців тому +8

    My HERO! So brave. 😢 I kept my story to myself. The few that I told. Are in disbelief. Being judged & victim blamed is the reason I have kept quiet. (Let me clarify. I DIDN'T SUFFER ABUSE AT THE HANDS OF MY MOTHER) But, family members & "trusted " adults. smh. 😢 Bless you and your family young man. 🙏🏽

  • @sweets20062107
    @sweets20062107 7 місяців тому +7

    My God today🫢🫢!! This was so hard to watch. I don’t know him but I’m so very proud of him yes he’s had a few hiccups but the way that he has turn his life around is commendable. Sending so much love, light and blessing to this young man keep pushing and and being the King that you are❤❤❤!! Another great interview!!

  • @williamssheila188
    @williamssheila188 7 місяців тому +10

    You sir are a miracle..!!! I thank you for vulnerability and that your heart has not become harden from experiences. Now that you have a son you can give him everything you didn’t receive. What a blessing…!!! That’s right there is love. You did tell you sister you love her. Spirit never dies. Keep pushing and stay positive. Thank you for sharing this story…❤️❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 this definitely touched my soul. God Bless 🙏🏽

  • @janaywilliams2238
    @janaywilliams2238 7 місяців тому +5

    This is the type of man I would marry because he knows that even though he went through a traumatic experience her has some forgiveness in his heart and he doesn’t let his past define him a lot of people go through things in life and blame it on their past and never really able to take accountability and have some type of forgiveness so that they can move on and have a happy life as an adult I had a terrible mother as well but it taught me to be the best mother I can be for my kids I don’t let what I been define what I’m doing now

  • @Babyfc
    @Babyfc 7 місяців тому +10

    This shit motivation, bro when you think you got it bad somebody all ways got it worse i lost my friend over drugs and that shit changed me

  • @bluehoney8352
    @bluehoney8352 7 місяців тому +7

    I saw the first 30 seconds and stopped watching this, this story was on my mind for 7 days and i finally finished watching it, heartbraking! I had the same reaction reading the story " The Boy called IT" i wouldnt buy the book but would go to the book store everyday and read a few pages untul i finished it! This is so unbelieveable and hard to grasp...and i was severely abused!!! I hope he does well in life!

  • @marquita2425
    @marquita2425 4 місяці тому +3

    I just wanna hold this man tight... As a mother with grown children both men now.... They have always been first... Been loved... I pray 🙏🥺 he gets therapy and gets healthy... Mentally... I pray for him❤❤❤❤

  • @bishopturner5835
    @bishopturner5835 7 місяців тому +8

    Dontae my ❤ goes out to you! I’m glad you was able to stay strong and survive thru it all. I just wanna give you a big hug

  • @desirearthur3807
    @desirearthur3807 7 місяців тому +8

    I love all the stories. The power in them. I’m so sorry this happened to him. I definitely have a story to tell. But I don’t think I’m mentally prepared or ready for mines to be out in the world yet😢

  • @BGirl51
    @BGirl51 6 місяців тому +5

    Your sister is looking down and so proud of you. Praying for you and family. Many blessing to you young man 👏🏽😇

  • @SimplyCryss
    @SimplyCryss Місяць тому +1

    The smile on his face when he spoke on his adopted family.