I just happen to run across your channel. I wanna thank you for bringing light to abuse, mental illness & so much more. May your blessings go beyond heaven's door🤲🏾💜 Ps. You're a great journalist and you truly make these sistas feel like they're in a safe space & that's ext important. Respectfully, Kmichelle❤
Man oh man 😭 when she said the whole apartment was on fire except the bedroom where the kids were, I lost it! Can’t nobody tell me there weren’t angels guarding the doorpost of that bedroom keeping those babies safe! God said not today satan, touch not my anointed! ❤
Yeah this is my reminder to talk to my teen about emotion regulation and how to just walk when a woman doesn’t want you any more. Talk to your sons!!! If u see signs of crazy…get them help now before they hurt someone or themselves!
Wow! She is NOT lying when she said “once they put their hands on you, they will always put their hands on you” it took me loving myself more than he hated me to get up and move on. I use to get sad when thinking on the 14 wasted years…but good things have come my way and I feel that I had to take that path in order to appreciate where I am.
@maureenhuertas9264 girl that's my current situation, 15 years, 2 boys, I'm so disgusted the time I wasted but I finally woke up! Thx God for that! I don't care if I ever met another man again, as long as I raise healthy, successful boys that do NOTHING their father did to me
@@9jvfnvolkerts693 yessss, yesss! Praise God. My son was 6 and my daughter was 2. My son is stilled scarred by some things but I knew if I didn’t get out for me, I had to for them. I’m wishing you nothing but the best! Hugs from Indiana ❤️❤️
This story took her 15 years to tell, just think about that… almost 20 years. Being vulnerable, honest & helping others through testimony is not easy. Please watch these episodes with a kind heart & thank you for continuing to trust Trappin Anonymous ❤
@@rhondabeal7468listen to her final words “Don’t ever think this won’t happen to you because I thought this would never happen to me.” You can’t control what another person does. So please don’t act like just bc you are married this can’t happen to you!! Look for the signs and move accordingly!!
For him to not even care about his own child is crazy we have to stop being afraid to call the cops on these men we do not have to allow them to put our life and kids life in danger.
@@TrappinAnonymous they do this mind game we not supposed to call the cops we not supposed to protect ourselves we go to jail when we do it first it’s scary out here.
@@yourriderdie8472 they try to say you a rat it’s one thing to have a altercation let’s be clear there’s a difference you can tell when a man really wants to hurt you when your not being aggressive and he’s fighting you throws yours and his child sir your going to jail I would have been had a restraining order and you going to jail or I’m wiping you out sometimes the police don’t do enough.
The police dont give a damn especially when it comes to minorities but imma for SURE use em to get my paper trail if nothing else so if im forced to lay his a$$ down I have all my ish documented. Ive seen stories of victims who have restraining/protective orders ect and STILL ended up unalived. On the flip side, These situations are dangerous for everyone involved and women who play games with the men and give them any chance once its established who, what and how he is make it difficult for the police or anyone else to protect them.
There's a lot of crazy women out there too There's a lot of really good guys out there too..... And a lot of good women...... Lets not bash ALL men ....its not right..... There are a lot of heroes out there that help people and save people every day❤❤❤...
@@BlackbettyBamdalam True. But this video isn’t about those people. Let’s not get too sensitive and stay on topic 😉 I can speak from experience. My bf almost took my life then shot himself instead. I’m a survivor. 💯
No matter the situation what he did was not warranted!!!!!!!!!! He was an evil selfish man that couldn’t control his emotions. So glad that her and her babies made it out alive that was God definitely on her side! ❤
It really DOES matter what the situation is, ma'am because breeding with dusties creates a lifetime of punishment for THE CHILDREN born of this epidemic of dysfunction in the black community. Until women take FULL accountability of our own wombs and consider our UNBORN children over our own selfish lust, the results will be the same. Look around you. Poor choices created the current state of illegitimacy, crime, poverty, abuse, violence, imprisonment and death amongst black folks from the hood. Wake up!
She is beautiful she still has a lot of healing to do…a Man who dates her has to be super careful I wish and pray the best for her….Thanks for telling your story
Some of these comments up here really piss me off...Nobody knows how they will react in a situation like this..its easy to say oh i wouldn't have done this or that.But the truth is you don't know
Obsession can play a big part in mental health as well especially when you never got any help and you can feel abandoned at times some people can become obsessed and get into that mind set of if I can’t have you nobody will. Sometimes it’s not mental health either some people are just plan damn evil and walk with the devil people love to hide behind mental health when in all actuality they are just sick, crazy mean individuals and most men can’t handle rejection it makes it worse.
This is so sad 😢 this is one of the reasons that I have been single for 8 yrs now, I’m afraid to let anyone in my space to hurt harm or unalive me. I have never dealt with this type of relationship but I see it more and more from other people sharing their stories and social media. My life is peaceful and drama free, it get lonely yes but I’m at peace and sleep well. God Bless you all 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am 9 years single and happier with my son now my now-ex is out of the home. I didn't realise the stress, tension, negativity from him. And how much my son was hurting from the verbal, emotional and sometimes physical abuse. I will never trust another so prefer to be single that go through that again. **I know my story is a droplet in the ocean compared to some. Stay safe x
She has guardian Angels protecting her and her kids!! When she said, she should have listened to her mother, who had a bad feeling about him, MOMMA KNOWS BEST!! I disnt listen to my mom about a guy I was dating, found out later he had a few kidnapping charges,so i quietly left him. I pray that she continues to heal for herself and kids.
I haven't been in a relationship in like 6 years I'm afraid of these cat's smmfh I don't even try to date it's just to much going on out here it's like I'm in the twilight zone or something wow! I'm afraid of these people I really am lord have mercy I'm so sorry this happen to her this is just horrible!!
@@corneshahenderson8169 you are so lucky!! yes hold on to your husband!! I've never been married I feel i was cheated in this life I'm 40 and I've been in relationships and all that the one person that did propose to me he was in the service during 911 and when they went to war over there he was on a mission and his fighter jet was hit and he didn't survive it i was 1 year out of high school and i went to Florida to attend the home going with his family his mom and dad are sisters and brothers and nieces and nephews and grandparents it was very emotional and heartbreaking I couldn't stop crying well after that like a year later I was dating and that's all I did was date nothing serious and I'm 40 it became the babymama and babydaddy era not the my husband anymore I say i feel cheated because I didn't get a chance to see the 60's and 70's the music was much better and couples got married and stayed married we were a much stronger unit we had more unity and love for each other I know there were problems and it wasn't always peaches and cream and a cake Walk I understand there were significant issues in that time as well but nothing like this it is absolutely horrible now! these cats these days are I don't even know what to call them but not all of them but most act like they have lost their minds I mean they will do anything! back then we had more respect for ourselves and pride there was a time where the man went to work and mom stayed at home kept the house clean and had dinner on the table and raised the kids until dad came home and yes of course they did their little cheating then too that's always been going on I know but he came home kept the bill's paid and food on the table still these cats today girllll u are very lucky! keep working together and love each other and have fun together like i said I know it wasn't easy but at least you have someone to grow with and be there for you I don't have that and it doesn't look like I will u are very lucky
It’s the fact that she never brought up her kids… not even to the paramedic. They just happened to find them? Spent more time talking about nonsense then her children.
A man that can't control his emotions are dangerous and shouldn't even be in a relationship she has to take some accountability on how she got with him in the first place 😬
I don't hate you. I love you for speaking up and TELLING THE TRUTH about the root of this disastrous epidemic that has wreaked havoc, destruction and decimated the black community! I will say this every chance I get: 🗣WOMEN (consensual sex) ARE THE SOLE GATEKEEPERS OF BEARING CHILDREN. I don't care what the male does or doesn't do, we must protect ourselves from creating innocent lives for sport, like trophies of every dysfunctional relationship! It's ridiculous, embarrassing, unintelligent and a recipe for failure. The evidence is all around us.
@@angelblue314both parties needed strong fathers in the homes. He wouldn't have been so emotionally unstable & she would know not to choose a man like that. And I love Dr. Peterson also. I have all of his books.
God has you and your beautiful sons here for a reason 🙏 I'm so sorry this happened to you, but more so I'm so happy you survived ❤️ may God and your ancestors continue to protect you and watch Over your life!! God bless you 💫
My eyes welled up when she said if my kids aren’t here what’s the point to live . My son has kept me balanced ever since he was born and I believe her babies kept her alive and fighting ❤️❤️❤️
Unbelievable! this is so sad.. If I didn’t get married I would probably be single for rest of my life i’m glad she and her kids survived, I don’t know how I could date or talk to anyone AFTER this.. It’ll just be me and my 3..
Whew, this was super tense. Probably one of the most tense stories I've heard. The fact that she survived, came out of insanity, etc, all I can say is, God! To Him all glory is due! I pray Latesha, will be completely delivered and healed from her traumatic experience. That you will know fully the love of God the Father. And experience Jesus joy. IJN 🙏🏾
I don’t know what it is about New Yorkers , but the people are so hard and callous. A woman on fire is screaming and no one helped?! I always hear them say, “i just mind my business” sad …i hate getting calls at work from New York because i know they’re going to be rude and nasty. Awful place with rude people
She stated her nwighbor which happend to be her Homegirls dauvhter saw what was goimg on and told her mother and the neighbor/homegirl risked her life by coming outside with a knife which ultimately caused him to run away so......
this channel is like a more raw version of a one called " were all insane " which is the first ive seen of its kind. Thank you for giving black true crime a platform.
This by far is the WORST SCARIEST SO “put myself in the shoes” interview out of all of your interviews…. All I could do was put myself in her shoes and I’m like my god that it SCARY Frightening , I’m soooo hurt she went thru this ….. domestic is no JOKE !!!! This interview got me …. This is the most scariest real interview ever , different from the others this is what you need !!! More ppl like this need to come forward this is soooooooo sad I am hurting right now for her I really am
Ladies the first sign of aggression LEAVE! I’m sorry this happened but we have to love ourselves and have boundaries with EVERYONE and non negotiable. We teach folk how to treat us
Bless her❤❤❤ Each time I hear these stories, I realize how close I was to this….my mother in law saved me….Rest her soul🙏🏾. she called the police because her son, my husband at the time, was on the train with gasoline, one the way to my house. I lived in walking distance from the train station in College Park. The police caught him getting off the bus….he would have killed me and our son…..yes there is a God and angels all around us. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I pray for peace and healing to you sister. No one deserves this rage infested attack. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🧡🧡 Watch for the signs…..I ignored them, was not mature enough to understand what uncontrolled emotions look like. It was a storm brewing I had no awareness of that started as soon as we married.
Sending over continued prayers for her healing n to not place blame on herself... he's the one who had the problems n was projecting whatever past traumas he had on to her! Thank God the court system actually did right by her.
Everything she said beside the fire I been threw every single a thing !!! She said what I been feeling for years .. but speaking about my feelings is hard for me and she said everything I been threw and felt to. Tee!!! Besides me in a fire .. but down to men and group homes and homes it’s self and lot trusting anyone down to a teee
I love her so much man she seem like she good people that clown took a big loss I thank god she is able to tell her story and also her friend is an angel she is one of the reasons she is still alive 😢❤
I'm so glad this baby knew that God saved her babies because there's no one like HIM GOD knew what he was doing and I'm so thankful for her and her babies GOD is SHONUFF MERCIFUL and GOOD ain't HE Y'ALL AMEN 💙🙌🏾
Wowwww 😢😢😢 this was mind boggling he was literally a monster n to do that to kids is crazy well im glad he got the time he got & pray for healing for her & the kids 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💙💙💙
How you never got back with him after he almost killed your baby at 2 months while being in the car seat but yet you was pregnant again by him the day he burned your house down ? 😏😌🕵️♀️
I just watched that part she said the baby was 2-3 months in a car seat in the house and he beat her up and the car seat flipped and the baby was face down in the carpet. She managed to flip the baby back up and the baby gasped for air. If she never got back together with him there should be no 3rd kid unless he ain't the father 💯
When did she say HE was the father? Even when mwntioning how he was willimg to harm/kill his own kids she said "one of those kids are yours " she never added she was pregnant with his child also. I was listening to see if that was the case. So unless shes just keeping that part discrete then.....
Praise God for keeping them safe! Also, big shout out to the angel that God placed there to help her remove the burning pajamas and to chase that guy off. 🙏🏽 Trappin Anonymous is one of the best interview shows I've seen in a long time. Well-done!
I wonder do she speak to her children about sexual assault? Did she speak to her mother about the sexual abuse? .... Many Blessings to her and her family
I stopped watching at the beginning. When she said she opened the door. Why would you do that knowing it was gas? Why wouldn’t you leave him outside and call 911? You let him in? Wow…
She did not let him. Y’all need to listen and not be so quick to argue. She thought the liquid was water, when she realized it was gasoline she tried to plead with him. When he tried to force his way in to reach her children that’s when the fight ensued and he followed her in the hallway. Whether she would’ve call the police or not at that time, he would’ve still set fire to that gasoline. Her fighting him is what prevented him from pouring gasoline in the home which saved her kids because the fire wasn’t big enough to reach them.
@@KayTalkNYC if you go back and listen she says the liquid came UNDER THE DOOR! She touched and smelled it THEN OPENED THE DOOR TO PLEAD WITH HIM! I went back and listened AGAIN
@@KayTalkNYC okay ma’am kmsl… ain’t that important to me. Like I said she OPENED THE DOOR! Call the cops and let them deal with it. YOU WERE SAFE BEHIND THE DOORRRRRRRR😂😂😂
@@tamekadouglas638 Well you need to go back and listen again. She didn’t open the door to let him in. She opened it to plead with him, to talk some sense into him. When she realized he was trying to get to her kids, she pushed him out into the hallway and locked the door again. Then the fight ensued. Like I said before had she not done that the fire would’ve been worse. What do you supposed she had done? Since you have all the ideas? Keep the door closed and allow him to pour gasoline under the door, into the apartment, then the whole apartment would be engulfed and she wouldn’t be here to tell the story?
she should have called the police when she first noticed him pouring something at her front door.. she should have never even opened the door. glad her an her babies made it out 😢
You don’t know what you would do ma’am in this situation it’s easy to say what you would have done when your not in this situation and another thing you think the police would have made it on time let’s be real here.
nobody seems to understand "hypothetically speaking"?? who don't know when your saying something that you're just saying what would have been better or the what ifs.. I watched the sad, unfortunate episode just like everybody else.. all that matters is HER an her children are still here by the grace of Thee Almighty God...
Never know what a person went thru, or going thru😢Please. Change the narrative! Start loving again. Be kind to our black sisters. We need to love on each other real bad More then ever before the time is now
30 years ago I witnessed my stepfather pour gasoline on himself while attempting to kill my mother and brother..her story brings back so many memories emotions and tears for me as a kid. He survived and he healed they had another baby and he had an outside baby born on the same day in the same hospital..No wonder I’m so damn dumb for my daughter’s father..I get it from her😞
Youre not dumb hun. These soul ties be strong asf. I had 5 wirh my abusive ex husband knowing how he was and knowing he loved to drink. We left to go to a dv shelter 9 times. I'm young at the time I was like 24 and I didn't have any family support so I didn't know any better. I knew I loved him and I was pregnant with 4 kids with the man and I needed to work it out. He beat me really bad in front of our son and I haven't looked back since that day. Its a tough process to break. 😢
When I tell you, The Angel of the Lord was protecting both babies and her. GOD I PRAISE YOU !!! NOTHING BUT THE GOD !! I about cried .. GOOOOOOOOD cause that was nothing Butt Gods angel that gave her the fight etc.
The crazy thing is, people be the same to call us baby mothers bitter until they do something like this. They just blame and say you asked for it.. fucking ridiculous with these bm stereotypes. Glad you’re ok. ❤️
Also Betty Wright proves my way of thinking. Have a piece of a man is better than no man, so im going to take what I got a work with it. Run lady's when he shows you the first time who they are...
Almighty God protect those concerning him 🙏🏿you got to teach these youths about our father whom art in heaven and miraculous work God has done ....when our biological father turn his back or leave ...our heavenly father never leave or forsake ...even if you make your bed in hell ...God are there with you...build a relationship with Almighty God , he'll continue fight your battles and give you the victory over your enemies🎉
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I just happen to run across your channel. I wanna thank you for bringing light to abuse, mental illness & so much more. May your blessings go beyond heaven's door🤲🏾💜 Ps. You're a great journalist and you truly make these sistas feel like they're in a safe space & that's ext important. Respectfully, Kmichelle❤
Your channel is really great. It’s teaching people how to be aware of narcissist behavior.
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Man oh man 😭 when she said the whole apartment was on fire except the bedroom where the kids were, I lost it! Can’t nobody tell me there weren’t angels guarding the doorpost of that bedroom keeping those babies safe! God said not today satan, touch not my anointed! ❤
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Amen 🙏🏾
Amen!!
For those of you denying our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ you better pray.
Yes Lord.
Praise God 🙏
Yeah this is my reminder to talk to my teen about emotion regulation and how to just walk when a woman doesn’t want you any more. Talk to your sons!!! If u see signs of crazy…get them help now before they hurt someone or themselves!
This is so real! My son worries me a bit and I need help...resources are slim though =/
@@argue.with.yourself I’m sorry to hear that resources are slim where you live. Keep searching and don’t give up on him please.
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You could go to the government center an talk to the reception they will give you in formation on@@argue.with.yourself
Amen
Wow! She is NOT lying when she said “once they put their hands on you, they will always put their hands on you” it took me loving myself more than he hated me to get up and move on. I use to get sad when thinking on the 14 wasted years…but good things have come my way and I feel that I had to take that path in order to appreciate where I am.
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@maureenhuertas9264 girl that's my current situation, 15 years, 2 boys, I'm so disgusted the time I wasted but I finally woke up! Thx God for that! I don't care if I ever met another man again, as long as I raise healthy, successful boys that do NOTHING their father did to me
Believe me!!!, I understand exactly what you're feeling!!❤
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@@9jvfnvolkerts693 yessss, yesss! Praise God. My son was 6 and my daughter was 2. My son is stilled scarred by some things but I knew if I didn’t get out for me, I had to for them. I’m wishing you nothing but the best! Hugs from Indiana ❤️❤️
This story took her 15 years to tell, just think about that… almost 20 years. Being vulnerable, honest & helping others through testimony is not easy. Please watch these episodes with a kind heart & thank you for continuing to trust Trappin Anonymous ❤
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this goes to show you never know what someone is going through god bless this woman 🙏
This absolutely broke my heart.
Thank you Chris wants again an excellent interview....but such a sad story..God bless you La..God is real!!!
"Why live without my kids?" Is heartbreaking 💔. A mother's worst fear. I pray that she gets some peace cuz that is deep
So much anger in our black men. So much aggression and lack of empathy. It’s definitely concerning. 😢
Worst part about racism is when the actions of one person is generalized to a whole group. Most black men I know are good people
Anger in PEOPLE but just BM
It's a nation thing with men if they are not angry they are crazy even if they are not grown up in a single parent home
@@joyaustin6581yes I know a lot of great black men also I hate that we’re over shadowed by a few groups of sick crazy individuals.
Black men you her know, don't out that on all black men. Crazy as hell
the way she said she was going to jump because she thought her babies were gone🥹 a mothers love is something else i tell you
This!! 😢
Yesss nothing like a mother's love 😢kids will never understand
Throwing gasoline on you while you’re already on fire is wild. I’m so sorry😢
If anyone tells me my kids gone die, I’m not playing around. So many demons walking this earth😢
Exactly!! Don't take that talk lightly from anyone, including "FAMILY "
Exactly, how she “didn’t think nothing”, i would have been gone.
Period. Set boundaries ladies and stand by them. Stop making excuses for these guys and boyfriends. I'm glad I'm married.
@@rhondabeal7468being married doesn’t make you exempt Love!!
@@rhondabeal7468listen to her final words “Don’t ever think this won’t happen to you because I thought this would never happen to me.” You can’t control what another person does. So please don’t act like just bc you are married this can’t happen to you!! Look for the signs and move accordingly!!
For him to not even care about his own child is crazy we have to stop being afraid to call the cops on these men we do not have to allow them to put our life and kids life in danger.
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@@TrappinAnonymous they do this mind game we not supposed to call the cops we not supposed to protect ourselves we go to jail when we do it first it’s scary out here.
That part
@@yourriderdie8472 they try to say you a rat it’s one thing to have a altercation let’s be clear there’s a difference you can tell when a man really wants to hurt you when your not being aggressive and he’s fighting you throws yours and his child sir your going to jail I would have been had a restraining order and you going to jail or I’m wiping you out sometimes the police don’t do enough.
The police dont give a damn especially when it comes to minorities but imma for SURE use em to get my paper trail if nothing else so if im forced to lay his a$$ down I have all my ish documented. Ive seen stories of victims who have restraining/protective orders ect and STILL ended up unalived.
On the flip side, These situations are dangerous for everyone involved and women who play games with the men and give them any chance once its established who, what and how he is make it difficult for the police or anyone else to protect them.
These men are getting crazier by the minute.
Been crazy
There's a lot of crazy women out there too
There's a lot of really good guys out there too.....
And a lot of good women......
Lets not bash ALL men ....its not right..... There are a lot of heroes out there that help people and save people every day❤❤❤...
@@BlackbettyBamdalam😑 who said ALL 🤷🏽♀️
@@BlackbettyBamdalam yes I agree. Lots of crazy women out here. They will kill their man and children.
@@BlackbettyBamdalam True. But this video isn’t about those people. Let’s not get too sensitive and stay on topic 😉 I can speak from experience. My bf almost took my life then shot himself instead. I’m a survivor. 💯
Brought me to tears..definitely nothing but God saving those babies ❤
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There is nothing stronger than God and a mother trying to protect her kids..... Blessings to her and her babies ❤
AmEn. 🙏🏾
As a mother, this story breaks my heart. This woman is so beautiful. I keep thinking that in my head as I watch this. Such a great mother too. ❤
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No matter the situation what he did was not warranted!!!!!!!!!! He was an evil selfish man that couldn’t control his emotions. So glad that her and her babies made it out alive that was God definitely on her side! ❤
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It really DOES matter what the situation is, ma'am because breeding with dusties creates a lifetime of punishment for THE CHILDREN born of this epidemic of dysfunction in the black community. Until women take FULL accountability of our own wombs and consider our UNBORN children over our own selfish lust, the results will be the same. Look around you. Poor choices created the current state of illegitimacy, crime, poverty, abuse, violence, imprisonment and death amongst black folks from the hood. Wake up!
Amen 🙏🏾
Yes. Get away from jealous insecure people -- they will hurt you...I don't do jealous men- been there done that...
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I’m literally almost in tears,I’m a victim of domestic violence survivor😢😢😢😢
Woah
Such a good interviewer, your gift is to let people heal by telling their truths, this is gods work
Amen
God is amazing he covered them children he also covered her and her unborn 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Whewwww..God is GREAT!!! This story had me in tears....especially her talking about her kids. MY GOD...Thank you for saving her & her kids🙌🏾🙌🏾 #ButGod
What a demon!
So glad God had a different ending!!
Keep healing lil Chica❤
This comment 🙏🏿 ❤️
She is beautiful she still has a lot of healing to do…a Man who dates her has to be super careful I wish and pray the best for her….Thanks for telling your story
Strong Black Woman💯💯💯🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Some of these comments up here really piss me off...Nobody knows how they will react in a situation like this..its easy to say oh i wouldn't have done this or that.But the truth is you don't know
Literally
100% Truth!
Whoa! It takes a strong women to survive this and be able to heal to continue living.
He wasn't obsessed with you, he has undiagnosed mental issues.
Right and he was never in love with her either
Obsession can play a big part in mental health as well especially when you never got any help and you can feel abandoned at times some people can become obsessed and get into that mind set of if I can’t have you nobody will. Sometimes it’s not mental health either some people are just plan damn evil and walk with the devil people love to hide behind mental health when in all actuality they are just sick, crazy mean individuals and most men can’t handle rejection it makes it worse.
@@EMCnationnisn’t being “sick” the same as being mentally unwell? Not an excuse but you can’t be right in the head to do something like this.
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This is so sad 😢 this is one of the reasons that I have been single for 8 yrs now, I’m afraid to let anyone in my space to hurt harm or unalive me. I have never dealt with this type of relationship but I see it more and more from other people sharing their stories and social media. My life is peaceful and drama free, it get lonely yes but I’m at peace and sleep well. God Bless you all 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yesss same here it’s been about 8 yrs for me. I don’t want to invite danger in me or my daughter life.
I am 9 years single and happier with my son now my now-ex is out of the home. I didn't realise the stress, tension, negativity from him. And how much my son was hurting from the verbal, emotional and sometimes physical abuse. I will never trust another so prefer to be single that go through that again. **I know my story is a droplet in the ocean compared to some. Stay safe x
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@@StayFocusedStayHumble 🫶🏾
She has guardian Angels protecting her and her kids!! When she said, she should have listened to her mother, who had a bad feeling about him, MOMMA KNOWS BEST!! I disnt listen to my mom about a guy I was dating, found out later he had a few kidnapping charges,so i quietly left him. I pray that she continues to heal for herself and kids.
Thank you for sharing your story, Latisha 🙏🏾
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I haven't been in a relationship in like 6 years I'm afraid of these cat's smmfh I don't even try to date it's just to much going on out here it's like I'm in the twilight zone or something wow! I'm afraid of these people I really am lord have mercy I'm so sorry this happen to her this is just horrible!!
It’s scary out here
If I wasn’t married I would NOT date in this time in life
Going on 4 for me . And I don’t mind this is so scary and sad but im glad they ALL are okay 🙏🏾😫
@@corneshahenderson8169 you are so lucky!! yes hold on to your husband!! I've never been married I feel i was cheated in this life I'm 40 and I've been in relationships and all that the one person that did propose to me he was in the service during 911 and when they went to war over there he was on a mission and his fighter jet was hit and he didn't survive it i was 1 year out of high school and i went to Florida to attend the home going with his family his mom and dad are sisters and brothers and nieces and nephews and grandparents it was very emotional and heartbreaking I couldn't stop crying well after that like a year later I was dating and that's all I did was date nothing serious and I'm 40 it became the babymama and babydaddy era not the my husband anymore I say i feel cheated because I didn't get a chance to see the 60's and 70's the music was much better and couples got married and stayed married we were a much stronger unit we had more unity and love for each other I know there were problems and it wasn't always peaches and cream and a cake Walk I understand there were significant issues in that time as well but nothing like this it is absolutely horrible now! these cats these days are I don't even know what to call them but not all of them but most act like they have lost their minds I mean they will do anything! back then we had more respect for ourselves and pride there was a time where the man went to work and mom stayed at home kept the house clean and had dinner on the table and raised the kids until dad came home and yes of course they did their little cheating then too that's always been going on I know but he came home kept the bill's paid and food on the table still these cats today girllll u are very lucky! keep working together and love each other and have fun together like i said I know it wasn't easy but at least you have someone to grow with and be there for you I don't have that and it doesn't look like I will u are very lucky
What area or state do you live in ? I'm trying to see if where we live may have something to do with it .I live in NJ
Glad you and your children are still here with us God bless yall & thanks for telling your story queen❤
When somebodu say they gonna kill u & ur kids u should believe them😭 wym u aint think nun of if????
Exactly! That threw me off cause huh
I know thats right, cause what🙄
It’s the fact that she never brought up her kids… not even to the paramedic. They just happened to find them? Spent more time talking about nonsense then her children.
That toxicity will have you making threats on the daily and go about your day
@@muvaempress her body was in shock let's not act like she didn't care she literally in a state of mind thats unimaginable
A man that can't control his emotions are dangerous and shouldn't even be in a relationship she has to take some accountability on how she got with him in the first place 😬
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@@angelblue314it’s true! how many BLACK fathers are standing on business with raising their children probably 30%
I don't hate you. I love you for speaking up and TELLING THE TRUTH about the root of this disastrous epidemic that has wreaked havoc, destruction and decimated the black community! I will say this every chance I get: 🗣WOMEN (consensual sex) ARE THE SOLE GATEKEEPERS OF BEARING CHILDREN. I don't care what the male does or doesn't do, we must protect ourselves from creating innocent lives for sport, like trophies of every dysfunctional relationship! It's ridiculous, embarrassing, unintelligent and a recipe for failure. The evidence is all around us.
Both things can be true.
@@angelblue314both parties needed strong fathers in the homes. He wouldn't have been so emotionally unstable & she would know not to choose a man like that. And I love Dr. Peterson also. I have all of his books.
She so pretty. Thank you for sharing your story Latisha. Keep healing. Keep pushing forward.
This story is wild. That dude thought he got her but God is good like she said ! Thank you for telling your story ❤
Wow ! God said don’t touch my anointed … He had a bigger problem plan for her and her family … ❤ thank you for telling us your story
God has you and your beautiful sons here for a reason 🙏 I'm so sorry this happened to you, but more so I'm so happy you survived ❤️ may God and your ancestors continue to protect you and watch Over your life!! God bless you 💫
My eyes welled up when she said if my kids aren’t here what’s the point to live . My son has kept me balanced ever since he was born and I believe her babies kept her alive and fighting ❤️❤️❤️
Unbelievable! this is so sad.. If I didn’t get married I would probably be single for rest of my life i’m glad she and her kids survived, I don’t know how I could date or talk to anyone AFTER this.. It’ll just be me and my 3..
Thank you for sharing these stories
I’m SPEECHLESS
Same
I never thought I was in a abusive relationship becuz I always fought back. SMH 😢but like she said you’ll never be stronger then a man! Damn
I pray that these women from the show get therapy. I can't imagine all this trauma from these horrific experiences going unhealed.
Whew, this was super tense. Probably one of the most tense stories I've heard. The fact that she survived, came out of insanity, etc, all I can say is, God! To Him all glory is due! I pray Latesha, will be completely delivered and healed from her traumatic experience. That you will know fully the love of God the Father. And experience Jesus joy. IJN 🙏🏾
Bless her heart... Queen you are meant to live for so much more!!
I wish it would have started from where they met and what their relationship was like and THEN what accused all of this
Facts
She shared he was obsessive! He said if i can’t have you no one can… with that being said he was abusive she tried to leave and look what it cost her.
Very informative interview. May the most high be with her& those children.💙🙏
I don’t know what it is about New Yorkers , but the people are so hard and callous. A woman on fire is screaming and no one helped?! I always hear them say, “i just mind my business” sad …i hate getting calls at work from New York because i know they’re going to be rude and nasty. Awful place with rude people
110% truth
Sad but everyone say that. Every job I’ve had if we deal with NY in any way people say that. Im from Detroit, i grew up in NY so i know how to deal.
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She stated her nwighbor which happend to be her Homegirls dauvhter saw what was goimg on and told her mother and the neighbor/homegirl risked her life by coming outside with a knife which ultimately caused him to run away so......
You are a MIRACLE...thank you lord she needs therapy, keep her distracted and covered up this is extremely traumatic.
That pain is no joke , You are a Strong💪🏽 Queen ! “God Bless You and Your Family and remember God is already at your Locations 🪄💦🙏🏾 Blessings
You are so beautiful and a survivor thank u for telling your story I’m so glad you are still here ❤
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God is good🙏🏾
this channel is like a more raw version of a one called " were all insane " which is the first ive seen of its kind. Thank you for giving black true crime a platform.
This by far is the WORST SCARIEST SO “put myself in the shoes” interview out of all of your interviews….
All I could do was put myself in her shoes and I’m like my god that it SCARY Frightening , I’m soooo hurt she went thru this ….. domestic is no JOKE !!!!
This interview got me …. This is the most scariest real interview ever , different from the others this is what you need !!! More ppl like this need to come forward this is soooooooo sad I am hurting right now for her I really am
Thank you for sharing beautiful young woman! Courageous! God bless you and yours.
Wait a minute cause I’m over crying and yelling God is good. Those babies was covered and protected. Thank you God! 😭😭😭
Ladies the first sign of aggression LEAVE! I’m sorry this happened but we have to love ourselves and have boundaries with EVERYONE and non negotiable. We teach folk how to treat us
I’m literally in tears never knew this happen to you 😢love you sis
Wow! God bless you and your kids. May God protect you all. Good thing you don't have to worry about him ever getting out.
Great interview 💯💯💯
Its sad that parents are not paying attention to their child/children when the child/children attitude change..
She keep contradicting herself “I was good“ and then saying all bad stuff after saying that
You just a hateful individual. You are jealous. You need to heal. Go seek therapy and most definitely Jesus.
That's called protecting herself.
Bless her❤❤❤ Each time I hear these stories, I realize how close I was to this….my mother in law saved me….Rest her soul🙏🏾. she called the police because her son, my husband at the time, was on the train with gasoline, one the way to my house. I lived in walking distance from the train station in College Park. The police caught him getting off the bus….he would have killed me and our son…..yes there is a God and angels all around us. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I pray for peace and healing to you sister. No one deserves this rage infested attack. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🧡🧡 Watch for the signs…..I ignored them, was not mature enough to understand what uncontrolled emotions look like. It was a storm brewing I had no awareness of that started as soon as we married.
Living a Godless life, and God still shows up for you. No better love 💕 than the love of the father God of heaven and earth.
Yes amen to our most high ❤
Sending over continued prayers for her healing n to not place blame on herself... he's the one who had the problems n was projecting whatever past traumas he had on to her! Thank God the court system actually did right by her.
Unbelievable 💔💔💔 Glad you and your babies lived to tell the story
Everything she said beside the fire I been threw every single a thing !!! She said what I been feeling for years .. but speaking about my feelings is hard for me and she said everything I been threw and felt to. Tee!!! Besides me in a fire .. but down to men and group homes and homes it’s self and lot trusting anyone down to a teee
THAT WAS NOTHING BUT GODS GRACE AND MERCY. THANK GOD MY SISTA FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY BEING ALIVE.
I never understood how you can hurt someone your supposed too love
I will never date again these men are crazy 🤦🏽♀️😔 I feel for her and thank god for Ta’nel cus she saved that lady’s life 🙌🏽 she’s a angel ❤️
Smh
I love her so much man she seem like she good people that clown took a big loss I thank god she is able to tell her story and also her friend is an angel she is one of the reasons she is still alive 😢❤
I'm so glad this baby knew that God saved her babies because there's no one like HIM GOD knew what he was doing and I'm so thankful for her and her babies GOD is SHONUFF MERCIFUL and GOOD ain't HE Y'ALL AMEN 💙🙌🏾
This made my heart so heavy yo😞💔
When she said she’s so hard on herself I felt that 😢😢😢😢
Praying for her and her children. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Wowwww 😢😢😢 this was mind boggling he was literally a monster n to do that to kids is crazy well im glad he got the time he got & pray for healing for her & the kids 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💙💙💙
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God reveals himself and you have no choice but to believe 🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Wow GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR BABIES WHAT A TESTIMONY MAMA ❤❤😢😮
Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen, Thank God, God Bless ❤😊🙏🙏🙏😘
All praise to God🙌🏾 These stories is so crazy & amazing how God bring these people out of these situations!
How you never got back with him after he almost killed your baby at 2 months while being in the car seat but yet you was pregnant again by him the day he burned your house down ? 😏😌🕵️♀️
She never said by him, that's why he was mad because she wasn't with him anymore
Ohhh facts I just realized that
I just watched that part she said the baby was 2-3 months in a car seat in the house and he beat her up and the car seat flipped and the baby was face down in the carpet. She managed to flip the baby back up and the baby gasped for air. If she never got back together with him there should be no 3rd kid unless he ain't the father 💯
When did she say HE was the father? Even when mwntioning how he was willimg to harm/kill his own kids she said "one of those kids are yours " she never added she was pregnant with his child also. I was listening to see if that was the case. So unless shes just keeping that part discrete then.....
Praise God for keeping them safe! Also, big shout out to the angel that God placed there to help her remove the burning pajamas and to chase that guy off. 🙏🏽
Trappin Anonymous is one of the best interview shows I've seen in a long time. Well-done!
Facts, people be scared
I wonder do she speak to her children about sexual assault? Did she speak to her mother about the sexual abuse? .... Many Blessings to her and her family
Probably not. Sounds like she's in denial, keep saying everything was good growing up
@@rockgirls923 right and I’m not seeing how it equated to good
Super Sad but a POWERFUL STORY❤
Poor baby 😢 I’m sorry this happened to you and your kids
Smh 🤦🏽♀️ this is so sad
I stopped watching at the beginning. When she said she opened the door. Why would you do that knowing it was gas? Why wouldn’t you leave him outside and call 911? You let him in? Wow…
She did not let him. Y’all need to listen and not be so quick to argue. She thought the liquid was water, when she realized it was gasoline she tried to plead with him. When he tried to force his way in to reach her children that’s when the fight ensued and he followed her in the hallway. Whether she would’ve call the police or not at that time, he would’ve still set fire to that gasoline. Her fighting him is what prevented him from pouring gasoline in the home which saved her kids because the fire wasn’t big enough to reach them.
@@KayTalkNYC if you go back and listen she says the liquid came UNDER THE DOOR! She touched and smelled it THEN OPENED THE DOOR TO PLEAD WITH HIM! I went back and listened AGAIN
@@KayTalkNYC and who was arguing 😂
@@KayTalkNYC okay ma’am kmsl… ain’t that important to me. Like I said she OPENED THE DOOR! Call the cops and let them deal with it. YOU WERE SAFE BEHIND THE DOORRRRRRRR😂😂😂
@@tamekadouglas638 Well you need to go back and listen again. She didn’t open the door to let him in. She opened it to plead with him, to talk some sense into him. When she realized he was trying to get to her kids, she pushed him out into the hallway and locked the door again. Then the fight ensued. Like I said before had she not done that the fire would’ve been worse. What do you supposed she had done? Since you have all the ideas? Keep the door closed and allow him to pour gasoline under the door, into the apartment, then the whole apartment would be engulfed and she wouldn’t be here to tell the story?
she should have called the police when she first noticed him pouring something at her front door.. she should have never even opened the door. glad her an her babies made it out 😢
In the moment you don’t know what you’ll do
You don’t know what you will do at that moment!
You don’t know what you would do ma’am in this situation it’s easy to say what you would have done when your not in this situation and another thing you think the police would have made it on time let’s be real here.
nobody seems to understand "hypothetically speaking"?? who don't know when your saying something that you're just saying what would have been better or the what ifs.. I watched the sad, unfortunate episode just like everybody else.. all that matters is HER an her children are still here by the grace of Thee Almighty God...
Never know what a person went thru, or going thru😢Please. Change the narrative! Start loving again. Be kind to our black sisters. We need to love on each other real bad More then ever before the time is now
30 years ago I witnessed my stepfather pour gasoline on himself while attempting to kill my mother and brother..her story brings back so many memories emotions and tears for me as a kid. He survived and he healed they had another baby and he had an outside baby born on the same day in the same hospital..No wonder I’m so damn dumb for my daughter’s father..I get it from her😞
Youre not dumb hun. These soul ties be strong asf. I had 5 wirh my abusive ex husband knowing how he was and knowing he loved to drink. We left to go to a dv shelter 9 times. I'm young at the time I was like 24 and I didn't have any family support so I didn't know any better. I knew I loved him and I was pregnant with 4 kids with the man and I needed to work it out. He beat me really bad in front of our son and I haven't looked back since that day. Its a tough process to break. 😢
Omg 😱
No way
Hindsight is 20/20. I’m hearing the story and I’m wondering where the neighbors were who called the police what did her friend do ? This is scary
Amen god is good 👏🏾✨
When I tell you, The Angel of the Lord was protecting both babies and her. GOD I PRAISE YOU !!! NOTHING BUT THE GOD !! I about cried .. GOOOOOOOOD cause that was nothing Butt Gods angel that gave her the fight etc.
She’s very articulate
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The crazy thing is, people be the same to call us baby mothers bitter until they do something like this. They just blame and say you asked for it.. fucking ridiculous with these bm stereotypes. Glad you’re ok. ❤️
Smh
Lala got her story outthere. That's wats up, God bless her n her kids.
Continue to rest n paradise to my cousins NELLY N LAY LAY 👏🏽💪🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🫶🏽💛🤎
Legit
Also Betty Wright proves my way of thinking. Have a piece of a man is better than no man, so im going to take what I got a work with it. Run lady's when he shows you the first time who they are...
Almighty God protect those concerning him 🙏🏿you got to teach these youths about our father whom art in heaven and miraculous work God has done ....when our biological father turn his back or leave ...our heavenly father never leave or forsake ...even if you make your bed in hell ...God are there with you...build a relationship with Almighty God , he'll continue fight your battles and give you the victory over your enemies🎉