I Got REJECTED By 100 BADDIES IN MIAMI! | Here's What I Learned (INFIELD)

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  • @FITXFEARLESS
    @FITXFEARLESS  5 місяців тому +140

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    • @davidallahgod3217
      @davidallahgod3217 5 місяців тому

      If you look good and approach her, she automatically thinks your already banging woman, so it's a NO from her instantly

    • @carrymedz5792
      @carrymedz5792 5 місяців тому

      He think they rejecting him because pre qualifications (nope) she want a THUG, A MAN WITH HIS PANTS SAGGING, A MAN WITH STREET....Bro you had on tight pants with earrings with no conversation AT ALL ...Forget asking them what they DO, whats her NAME... Man that conversationwas basic (no disrespect but you LOOKED FEMININE in her eyes (dress like a THUG you'll see the difference on chick's like those that rejected you. I pull them types of chick's all the time in my basic work clothes looking dirty with my pants sagging

    • @Kingnews256
      @Kingnews256 5 місяців тому +8

      Your rizz is bland bro mostly interview questions you rely too much on your looks

    • @0820XXX
      @0820XXX 5 місяців тому +1

      You said some good points in this video above.

    • @Justtheperfectday
      @Justtheperfectday 5 місяців тому +1

      Who would want help from the guy who gets rejected 100 times??? I know I'm just a woman so what do I know, ... and I didn't watch the whole vid...

  • @Kingwithoutathrone
    @Kingwithoutathrone 5 місяців тому +2712

    I respect this dude for showing the losses. Not too many other content creators have the guts to do this.

    • @Ronin-kk4bt
      @Ronin-kk4bt 5 місяців тому +67

      Agree they only show the good parts it’s nice to see the losses too

    • @AjOfficiial
      @AjOfficiial 5 місяців тому +79

      In a way he did , in a way he didn’t . He Knows what Drives women away & He did that Purposely ; only to prove , you can never like a woman more than she likes you . Ding Ding 🛎️

    • @chrisc.6551
      @chrisc.6551 5 місяців тому +23

      I respect Fitx 100%. And thanks for demonstrating rejections on purpose to prove a valid point. Either way, no man obtains a 100% approval rating. In most interactions with women, subsequent rejections occur because the woman doesn’t know enough about the man to gauge her interest.

    • @SkylerDouglas
      @SkylerDouglas 5 місяців тому +9

      How To Beast started the record yourself cold approach videos. With acceptances and rejections.

    • @Grind2Excellence
      @Grind2Excellence 5 місяців тому +11

      I could tell he got rejected on purpose tho

  • @Patricksele750
    @Patricksele750 5 місяців тому +5341

    u know what worse than a girl rejecting you? jobs rejecting you😭😭😭

    • @thealternativefactor6694
      @thealternativefactor6694 5 місяців тому +213

      For Real...💯

    • @bigcockedman714
      @bigcockedman714 5 місяців тому +91

      start your business and have b2b's reject you :)

    • @br4nd0nx_x
      @br4nd0nx_x 5 місяців тому +78

      Real talk

    • @nba1killer
      @nba1killer 5 місяців тому +51

      The layers in this comment is hilarious! lol tough outchea!! #KeepShooting

    • @etzjunior_
      @etzjunior_ 5 місяців тому +134

      Literally got a rejection email this evening mehn. I’m drained

  • @BWater-yq3jx
    @BWater-yq3jx 4 місяці тому +1042

    Asking a girl out 10 seconds after you've met her is like you're trying to fail.
    🤦‍♂️

    • @trevoringram6063
      @trevoringram6063 4 місяці тому +63

      Not unless your him 🤣

    • @jonathanm9986
      @jonathanm9986 4 місяці тому +86

      @@trevoringram6063as good as he looks, even if they say yes, they likely not long term material

    • @trevoringram6063
      @trevoringram6063 4 місяці тому

      @@jonathanm9986 I mean him as in
      The type of guy most women would dream to be with

    • @godspeedredeicieli4384
      @godspeedredeicieli4384 4 місяці тому +26

      You should still be quick but you shouldn’t have that be the first thing you ask

    • @trevoringram6063
      @trevoringram6063 4 місяці тому +8

      @@godspeedredeicieli4384 why not 🤷🏾‍♂️ girls don’t like a free meal ? Who just declines somebody asking to take them if you like what you see and want to see more to it

  • @slimm7848
    @slimm7848 3 місяці тому +573

    A women's rejection is Gods protection.

    • @JuliusTurner-hm6ff
      @JuliusTurner-hm6ff 2 місяці тому +18

      Women want to know who you are. There's a reason I would always get rejected by beautiful women whenever I approached them, yet working at my job for 17 yrs, I would literally have every beautiful woman that came to work there show interest in me after talking to me for a week.

    • @frontlife900
      @frontlife900 2 місяці тому +11

      @@JuliusTurner-hm6ff So then why don't they want to know the guy approaching them?

    • @BrooklynRival7718
      @BrooklynRival7718 2 місяці тому

      @@JuliusTurner-hm6ffbullshit

    • @Rico_Suvae
      @Rico_Suvae 2 місяці тому

      AMEN 🙏💙

    • @makaveli5824
      @makaveli5824 2 місяці тому +4

      @@frontlife900 imagine you are just a young girl, and there cool guy approaching you, and u dont know whats exactly on his mind. If u are man u dont have to afraid to when girls approaching

  • @RENEIND
    @RENEIND 5 місяців тому +2469

    The side OTHER influencers don't SHOW you, good job FIT 💪

    • @jackiechun5817
      @jackiechun5817 5 місяців тому +52

      THOSE SAME EXACT 🐦 would throw themselves at Fitx if he just pulled up his IG and handed any of them his phone. Disgusting 😒💯💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾‍♂️

    • @RJ__________
      @RJ__________ 5 місяців тому

      @@jackiechun5817facts

    • @MiguelLosRudos20
      @MiguelLosRudos20 5 місяців тому +12

      Real shit

    • @TheLionInTheNorth
      @TheLionInTheNorth 5 місяців тому +7

      That part ‼️

    • @nateblanton2713
      @nateblanton2713 5 місяців тому +28

      He has no game that’s all he proved lol

  • @Humble_Legend
    @Humble_Legend 5 місяців тому +416

    Much respect for being the only UA-camr I've ever seen showing the rejections. Most pretend they never get rejected.

    • @Who-cu9eu
      @Who-cu9eu 3 місяці тому

      I have no social validation because I have never had social status so girls always put me in the red flag category without even getting to know me it’s so annoying. Women are just walking bots man. Why can’t they be openminded and give someone like me a chance.

    • @jltplease
      @jltplease 3 місяці тому +6

      Justin Wayne showed his rejection but the channel got taken down

    • @Wealthy_Mystic
      @Wealthy_Mystic 2 місяці тому +3

      Gerald Huston does

    • @kyoufuwooshieteyarou7206
      @kyoufuwooshieteyarou7206 7 днів тому +1

      Official Vaughn is like 6’4 good hair and fit, handsome, and he be getting rejected still, and shows it

  • @Kingsmoke333
    @Kingsmoke333 4 місяці тому +108

    I respect a man who can show his failures and successes

    • @_simplelad_1809
      @_simplelad_1809 Місяць тому +4

      Not that big of a deal when it comes to strangers anyway it hurts the most from women you know personally

    • @ndiemembengue5307
      @ndiemembengue5307 Місяць тому

      ​@@_simplelad_1809fr

  • @mastachi888
    @mastachi888 3 місяці тому +162

    “ you look good i want to take you out sometime” was asking for failure lmao

    • @jameswalton3930
      @jameswalton3930 2 місяці тому +3

      Lame

    • @ronewajunior7858
      @ronewajunior7858 Місяць тому +18

      No game. Mouth piece was too average.🤣🤣🤣

    • @dw3134
      @dw3134 Місяць тому

      No such thing as game.​@@ronewajunior7858

    • @victorsoto4821
      @victorsoto4821 Місяць тому +1

      @@ronewajunior7858 It's like throwing a fishing line and just going with what bites first, just get straight to the point and if doesn't work, move on to the next.

    • @KiTrades
      @KiTrades Місяць тому

      @@victorsoto4821agreed if a girl find you attractive she wouldn’t care what u say

  • @TheOutBoxer
    @TheOutBoxer 5 місяців тому +850

    This type of content is what separates fitx from the others💪🏽

    • @jamesharris6368
      @jamesharris6368 5 місяців тому +27

      He's confident, their rejections don't mean anything to him.

    • @thatpersiandude7386
      @thatpersiandude7386 5 місяців тому +11

      been following fitx for years, Bro only do quality content

    • @whiteswordwarrior9995
      @whiteswordwarrior9995 5 місяців тому +7

      ​@@jamesharris6368Hes not confident at all, hes experienced. U can tell he still keeps smiling too much, apologizing, lifting his voice. Signs of lack of confidence. Women smell it.

    • @CrownedOne89
      @CrownedOne89 5 місяців тому

      @@whiteswordwarrior9995lol facts I commented and said dude not even telling them his name he going straight into taking them out 😂

    • @user-hl3qv8qg2s
      @user-hl3qv8qg2s 2 місяці тому +3

      i used to think "oh people will see that i was being rejected" so i never approached women anywhere.... but thats a fear every man must defeat!
      the sooner the better.
      i wasted literally all my early 20s being shy...
      and when i had the balls to face women directly, my surprise was probably 8 of 10 women found me handsome.
      if you are not brad pitt level of looks... no women in 2024 is going to make the move first. you must do it

  • @samuelisaac6271
    @samuelisaac6271 5 місяців тому +476

    This is so humble of fitx , honestly it makes me more comfortable .

    • @tojusote4896
      @tojusote4896 5 місяців тому +3

      🤣

    • @hsplash8243
      @hsplash8243 5 місяців тому +3

      He look regular. Dress like a mobster

    • @dimegi1558
      @dimegi1558 5 місяців тому

      @@hsplash8243his dressing sense is scaring sometimes and it’s definitely chasing these girls away

    • @raregrimebeats1352
      @raregrimebeats1352 5 місяців тому +3

      He said he made them reject him by purpose

    • @MoneyManeTV3
      @MoneyManeTV3 5 місяців тому

      I agree

  • @patrick22014
    @patrick22014 4 місяці тому +68

    This is why I like FitX. He's never bullshitting.

  • @phenomenalfx7134
    @phenomenalfx7134 4 місяці тому +12

    Your integrity just earned you a sub. Never leaving.

  • @caleb1548
    @caleb1548 5 місяців тому +387

    Earned my respect fr, not many big youtubers have the courage to make such videos.

    • @shreddedguy679
      @shreddedguy679 5 місяців тому +27

      Yeah most just sit in car saying the same old stuff but this bro out here shooting shots and showing us rejections too

    • @nozone4109
      @nozone4109 5 місяців тому +2

      After that much bragging this is a wonder

    • @elijahpiere5324
      @elijahpiere5324 5 місяців тому +6

      @@nozone4109I mean, he has bragging rights. You think MJ became MJ without losing a couple of times?

    • @FvckEmWeUp
      @FvckEmWeUp 5 місяців тому

      @@elijahpiere5324 UU bragging means uu desperate for attention.

    • @elijahpiere5324
      @elijahpiere5324 5 місяців тому +7

      @@FvckEmWeUp everyone is low key desperate for attention. Attention is part of why makes the world move. You think a flower would grow if it wasn’t desperate for the suns attention? Y’all be tryna make basic human needs seem like a bad thing. Get off your high horse.

  • @omarelsherif4125
    @omarelsherif4125 5 місяців тому +164

    Man deserves all the respect in the world for showing this

  • @jabba0975
    @jabba0975 4 місяці тому +7

    Someone who actually put in the work, and learned from it. Thank you.

  • @denzellcoleman925
    @denzellcoleman925 4 місяці тому +29

    Thank you for sharing because showing these types of videos are essential. Everyone is not making every shot in the game and if we leave it to highlight reels people will think that’s how it should go.

    • @Who-cu9eu
      @Who-cu9eu 3 місяці тому

      I have no social validation because I have never had social status so girls always put me in the red flag category without even getting to know me it’s so annoying. Women are just walking bots man. Why can’t they be openminded and give someone like me a chance.

  • @morm2173
    @morm2173 5 місяців тому +512

    The rejection in daygame is painful during the dry spell especially if you dress well and it still happens on a consistent basis . As a man , I learned you have to have unbreakable self esteem

    • @thereallazygirl
      @thereallazygirl 5 місяців тому

      eww dry spell ? yall are so degenerate

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 5 місяців тому +17

      That an the drive to give it up its over 😅

    • @morm2173
      @morm2173 5 місяців тому

      @@mikeprice8307 haha or thr gold digger sugar baby " Nevada girl " lifestyle hahaa

    • @morm2173
      @morm2173 5 місяців тому +1

      @mikeprice8307 but what I'm doing is now just optimizing my tinder daygame gets on my nerves sometimes

    • @kaboosetge6610
      @kaboosetge6610 5 місяців тому +1

      Facts

  • @jarellstewart6237
    @jarellstewart6237 5 місяців тому +718

    1:40 this chick said she moved here cause of a break up and when you made a move she said she has a bf with unsureness. Nasty work lol

    • @user-ze4cx5sn5c
      @user-ze4cx5sn5c 5 місяців тому +178

      I caught that too. He also asked her what she did for fun and she listed 3 jobs she works.

    • @UncleSwell707
      @UncleSwell707 5 місяців тому +107

      That beech is a scam artist 😂. Thats Miami for ya.

    • @dimitrivalli465
      @dimitrivalli465 5 місяців тому

      😂 It was possibly a shit test to see his reaction!
      Who cares? Many of these women are so embarrassed they have not been chosen by any man yet for something serious.
      They LIE 🤥 about having worthy credentials that can't realistically be demonstrated. 😂
      Proceed anyway like you don't believe her. You will destroy her ego big time. 😂

    • @seanyshepfit
      @seanyshepfit 5 місяців тому +121

      She does OF for sure 😂

    • @lakecityransom
      @lakecityransom 5 місяців тому +43

      Just a bit airheaded I think. lol

  • @scottiegang2236
    @scottiegang2236 2 дні тому

    Let’s keep it 100. U give to much validation and ur to polite

  • @popeyes7569
    @popeyes7569 День тому

    bro this gave me so much confidence knowing i be smoother than fitxfearless

  • @rammck8799
    @rammck8799 5 місяців тому +435

    I’ll respectfully add one critique. Try not to overdue asking questions and try to insert comments more in cold approaches with women. That way they feel like they’re having a conversation rather than feeling like they’re being interrogated.
    Much respect to you Fit X for uploading 💪🏾

    • @kchuen
      @kchuen 5 місяців тому +41

      I agree. Honestly speaking for has a lot of good theories but essentially he is running hot guy game and he can get away with a lot more mistakes than a guy at 4-7 points.

    • @shakenblake4533
      @shakenblake4533 5 місяців тому +5

      Do you mind giving an example of what you mean? Please and thank you

    • @YTguySmithy-lk6go
      @YTguySmithy-lk6go 5 місяців тому +14

      Some women will reject Fitx because he's relatively short. James Tusk (pua UA-camr grifter) is over six foot. Also gets lot of rejection. His UA-cam channel was deleted by UA-cam.
      Pua/cold approach has a massive failure rate. 98 percent? Probably.

    • @MikhailFederov
      @MikhailFederov 5 місяців тому +8

      Tell me you didn’t watch the full video without telling me

    • @kompa35
      @kompa35 5 місяців тому +18

      @@YTguySmithy-lk6go I was about to say. Fitx says he validated on purpose to prove a point. I think they rejected him because they don’t like him enough. Does not mean he’s not a good option just simply means they didn’t like him or it wasn’t the right timing for her. I also don’t think he overdid the compliments. I agree you should over compliment but, compliments work well if you know how when and where.

  • @sebjacobo9655
    @sebjacobo9655 5 місяців тому +137

    That‘s why FitX is the best in the whole „red pill community“. He beats everybody because of his integrity and seriousness.

    • @FvckEmWeUp
      @FvckEmWeUp 5 місяців тому +10

      The meat riding is crazyy 🤣

    • @mularicks
      @mularicks 5 місяців тому +1

      yu swallowing him

    • @aking4974
      @aking4974 5 місяців тому +15

      @@FvckEmWeUpyall gone be 40 saying somebody meat riding, time to grow up…

    • @maryamadedeji24
      @maryamadedeji24 5 місяців тому

      Red pill community? OK😅

    • @PurePassion-gm8od
      @PurePassion-gm8od 5 місяців тому +1

      Bru u MYRON is the face of Red Pill ,, whatsuu talkin bout😂😂😂😂

  • @luisgalvez4303
    @luisgalvez4303 4 місяці тому +16

    Mad props FitX 👏
    Show the failures and show you don't give a F and keep it pushing

  • @julianwarren__
    @julianwarren__ 3 місяці тому +17

    You're a real one for posting this. Much respect

    • @JuliusTurner-hm6ff
      @JuliusTurner-hm6ff 2 місяці тому

      Yall are way off. That's why the divorce rate is so high. You don't chase women at all, no matter if you take this guy's advice or not, you're only going to find temporary situations. Now of you want continuous one night stands or half relationships then take his advice. It's a reason he's still single. Chase your dreams, your purpose, what you really want in life and your woman will find you.

  • @coreyl.w4580
    @coreyl.w4580 5 місяців тому +135

    Took them L’s like a man. Nuthin but respect. I’d like to take alotta advice from you bro honestly

    • @3for4PA
      @3for4PA 5 місяців тому +2

      HE did take those BODY SHOTS like a AAU boxer though....🤔

  • @KingofNewYorkkk
    @KingofNewYorkkk 5 місяців тому +147

    The best game is no game💯
    Expressing yourself is more important than impressing the person. The man has to qualify the woman to see if she’s cooperative to be part of his world.
    Never open with a compliment on her looks. That’s common. Compliment her on internal traits she worked had for. That makes a man stand out.
    Talk slower move slower. It’s not what you say…it’s how you say it
    Talk with your hands…Shows enthusiasm in your words
    Tease her…become a challenge. Be playful. Not becoming easy makes her chase you
    The most important is listening. Women love to talk. Repeat what she said to continue the conversation.
    Salute to FitX for having the courage to put himself out there✊🏿🔥

    • @jpair205
      @jpair205 5 місяців тому +7

      All facts

    • @jiggaman000
      @jiggaman000 5 місяців тому +26

      How do you compliment internal traits when you just met her?

    • @Swiminator_08
      @Swiminator_08 5 місяців тому +1

      Example ?

    • @sonnyhuynh007
      @sonnyhuynh007 5 місяців тому +2

      No game is bad game. You are always using some kind of strategy, like what you list below, and that is game.

    • @brock5946
      @brock5946 5 місяців тому

      ​@@jiggaman000Exactly lol you can only comment on the way how she looks you have no clue how she is

  • @TruthPapi
    @TruthPapi 3 місяці тому +27

    You’re walking around in Brickell not some college campus… Lose the backpack. Lose the sunglasses. And put on a proper shirt. Don’t fold your arms. Start there.

    • @williebroadnex
      @williebroadnex 2 місяці тому +5

      In Brickell you’re bound to get a few rejections.

    • @TruthPapi
      @TruthPapi 2 місяці тому +2

      @@williebroadnex if you look like a broke college freshman you will only get rejected

    • @JohnJuliusKnight
      @JohnJuliusKnight 2 місяці тому

      Word …dude don’t know Miami very well lived it 27 years 😂😂

    • @Theguy-zy5hi
      @Theguy-zy5hi Місяць тому

      Exactly.

    • @Theguy-zy5hi
      @Theguy-zy5hi Місяць тому

      No folding arms, no sunglasses, no back pack

  • @boydmking1
    @boydmking1 3 місяці тому +2

    My dating days are long over. Don't have much to offer now except experience and wisdom.
    But my eyes still work . . . never get tired of looking? Great video!

  • @user-wd4vi8jb9h
    @user-wd4vi8jb9h 5 місяців тому +621

    Brother said “black woman” 💀😭😭

    • @GovernedChair93
      @GovernedChair93 5 місяців тому +61

      and?

    • @MpumeleloSejam
      @MpumeleloSejam 5 місяців тому

      ​@@GovernedChair93like bro fr

    • @daver1161
      @daver1161 5 місяців тому +166

      He said what he said.

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 5 місяців тому +307

      The least desired for a reason

    • @RashadAhmad1
      @RashadAhmad1 5 місяців тому

      I see why I never approach black chicks anymore smh….come to think about I don’t remember the last time I approached a black chick

  • @twocents4912
    @twocents4912 5 місяців тому +55

    Don't be offended or embarrassed by rejection. You are not meant for every girl. Just keep asking and the right one fits like a glove.

    • @Marks2Chill
      @Marks2Chill 3 місяці тому +3

      This comment right here..... Absolute gold 🥇

    • @Moesie
      @Moesie Місяць тому

      Only be emberassed if multiple once are rejecting u ​@@Marks2Chill

  • @HT_Ray
    @HT_Ray 4 місяці тому +3

    Cold approach can work but choosing signals are wayyyyyy better!

    • @universal3024
      @universal3024 11 днів тому

      But it doesn’t happen often enough. Cold approaching gets you way more results but a higher higher failure rate but at the end of the day if I approach 20 women and I get three numbers you ain’t gonna get three signals in a day on top of that, what if all three are ugly or not your type?

  • @igbopeople4916
    @igbopeople4916 4 місяці тому +2

    Rejection is blessing brother

  • @likewise4Gaming
    @likewise4Gaming 5 місяців тому +47

    Much respect to this guy for keeping it real. Looking good and being fit is going to work in your benefit of course, but he’s 100% right about the pre qualification. Pre selection is another factor.

    • @dyshawnshine3644
      @dyshawnshine3644 3 місяці тому +4

      yea its a different game now. looks and good talk arent enough especially in Miami. when I'm in vegas with my friend who lives there, he goes all out to get women with status and overall image. Its the only way to pull those type of women, and those women are only good for some hookups and nothing more.

    • @adgepeterb
      @adgepeterb 2 місяці тому +2

      Nah this guy got no game and he thinks he's better looking then he is! Put another player in the exact same experiment and he would clean up!

    • @Mcgee833
      @Mcgee833 Місяць тому +1

      @@adgepeterb in this video he purposely approached them with no game. “Put another player in the same experiment” is just such an no brainer statement. Maybe you should do it, player.

  • @thetchthegreat
    @thetchthegreat 5 місяців тому +78

    I don't know what it is but FitX definitely creates great Genuine content. He has taken his content to the next level this year. He actually be out in the field.

    • @sage_e_sage
      @sage_e_sage 5 місяців тому +3

      Because ams saw potential in him & realized this too so he put him on basically & I can tell FitX has been the same person he was when he started humble & all and outta respect for the community FIT continues genuine content

    • @AyoG00
      @AyoG00 4 місяці тому

      @@sage_e_sagebruh earned what he has on hard work and work ethic not sure how ams put him on.

  • @TheSwagkid9046
    @TheSwagkid9046 2 місяці тому +1

    I respect you showing the Ws, and the Ls. Keeping it real 💯💯

  • @keinanjamal
    @keinanjamal 3 місяці тому +153

    Bruh the game was terrible

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson 3 місяці тому +13

      Terrible.

    • @Sethlow-tx5oh
      @Sethlow-tx5oh 3 місяці тому +11

      Terrible!!! that's an understatement..

    • @HamzaIbrahimIBI777
      @HamzaIbrahimIBI777 3 місяці тому +21

      lol I don’t think he really tried

    • @TravelBandit
      @TravelBandit 3 місяці тому

      That's why you never listen to good-looking men when it comes to women. They don't realize how much the looks carry them. Most of em can't speak 😂

    • @joshuaweston9338
      @joshuaweston9338 3 місяці тому +3

      🚮

  • @martyhelfrich8239
    @martyhelfrich8239 5 місяців тому +543

    I'm 53 years old, married to my wife whom I knew as a colleague at work. Both previously divorced, but were friends before being romantic. I NEVER complimented ANY woman based on how she looks when first meeting them. My job isn't to build their ego, it's to get to know them. If I'm attracted to their looks, that's what I keep to myself, until I feel that she is worthy of a complement, meaning, she's nice, kind, smart, independent and has integrity, and there's a connection. I've always been considered "intimidating, mysterious" and have been told that I have "movie star looks". Maybe so, but I don't want a woman who only lusts for me, they need to connect with me, and if there's that connection, the romance and lust will come. With my wife, we had that connection, and yes, I found her gorgeous, but I never gave her that clue until I knew it was the right time, she earned it.

    • @strictlydolo6915
      @strictlydolo6915 5 місяців тому +30

      That makes plenty of sense to do it that way and the feelings feel more natural that way rather than being forced

    • @kulentarian55
      @kulentarian55 5 місяців тому +12

      How tall are u

    • @lukehood5546
      @lukehood5546 4 місяці тому

      Why is that important ​@@kulentarian55

    • @renegade2853
      @renegade2853 4 місяці тому

      @@kulentarian555”6

    • @user-nn5qw5mu4m
      @user-nn5qw5mu4m 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Matt-mc2sn That's BS as a woman I can tell you all men, of all ethnicities give compliments. If he doesn't you aren't sure he's attracted and you move on. Typically if a woman turns you down she's. Oy attracted. In the case of this particular guy he's not amazing looking and his musscles/style is very tacky.

  • @gmotivation8286
    @gmotivation8286 5 місяців тому +88

    Damn fit you are getting wiser and wiser day by day

  • @tmac2368
    @tmac2368 4 місяці тому +9

    My brother keeping his confidence intact after rejections it's impressive. Great vid

    • @Nohandlethankyou1
      @Nohandlethankyou1 3 місяці тому

      Cold calls are always 50/50. Nobody should lose confidence after approaching miami girls and failing.

    • @lluispoloisern677
      @lluispoloisern677 2 місяці тому

      Yeah ok, but why spending so much time and efforts trynna get dates with nowaday girls when you can go to the gym, attend workshops, work on your stocks, read a great book, watch a great movie...I mean why xD

  • @kennethcuevas3658
    @kennethcuevas3658 4 місяці тому +8

    bro you got no word play/ game with ya approaches , it’s not always about how you look , it be the way you say something, charisma is important too

    • @jerometruitt2731
      @jerometruitt2731 4 місяці тому +11

      Bro ain't nobody got time for that. Sitting around thinking up 1000 different ways is to ask a woman out for it to still be a guessing game is a monumental waste of time especially when it should really just be simple.

    • @alfredbaxter1061
      @alfredbaxter1061 Місяць тому +2

      @@jerometruitt2731 Right Macking game is played out this ain't the 90s no more women cought on to this macking game this a new era

    • @Gian_sas
      @Gian_sas 2 дні тому

      cope

  • @nahulseyon997
    @nahulseyon997 5 місяців тому +146

    Man, you're a G.
    You're the most Transparent influencer I've ever seen 🤝👑💪

    • @MpumeleloSejam
      @MpumeleloSejam 5 місяців тому +3

      Fr when Fitx be making videos like this the haters be quiet

  • @jcstream1
    @jcstream1 21 день тому +5

    1:19 seconds is all i needed to know why

    • @JgnhB
      @JgnhB 3 дні тому

      Exactly!

    • @JwtObi
      @JwtObi 2 дні тому

      Mic is so obvious

  • @joseelmarijuano8794
    @joseelmarijuano8794 5 місяців тому +85

    This builds my confidence bro , thank you for showing us this . 🙏

    • @Synonymgod
      @Synonymgod 5 місяців тому

      You are goddamn lame. That’s why. 😂😂

    • @malhunt7
      @malhunt7 4 місяці тому +1

      The only way to authentically build confidence is to set goals and reach them. Watching a stranger on UA-cam is escaping into a fantasy.

    • @dark_nightwing_xl2797
      @dark_nightwing_xl2797 2 місяці тому

      @@malhunt7best comment I’ve seen here

  • @danielnelson6903
    @danielnelson6903 5 місяців тому +131

    Respect gangsta just gotta charge it to the game💯 If you gon play, there’s gonna be wins and losses, be proud of the wins and learn from the losses real

    • @maskedman5657
      @maskedman5657 5 місяців тому +8

      I think cold approaching breeds too much rejection. Better if dudes only warm approach

    • @danielnelson6903
      @danielnelson6903 5 місяців тому +12

      @@maskedman5657 I only approach if I know for a fact she’s feeling me too

    • @razzdiamond6447
      @razzdiamond6447 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@maskedman5657 small minded thinking sir. Cold approach skills make EVERYTHING easier.

    • @commonsense3921
      @commonsense3921 5 місяців тому +1

      @razzdiamond6447 Woman not even worth cold approaching.

    • @maleekpate6770
      @maleekpate6770 5 місяців тому +2

      @@maskedman5657what’s a warm approach

  • @insolentchild6989
    @insolentchild6989 16 днів тому +2

    Massive respect

  • @elyogito5621
    @elyogito5621 3 місяці тому +2

    Far more worse things than rejection. Losing your job house or car! Being rejected these days is dodging a bullet, laugh it off and move on, have fun, have a blast. Life is too uncertain to worry about acceptance or not.

  • @joaquinbellonn
    @joaquinbellonn 5 місяців тому +54

    this man is a KING!!!!💯

  • @lesto_
    @lesto_ 5 місяців тому +337

    If he got rejected 100 times, i wonder how many times i'd get rejected

    • @user-uq5zj4nq4h
      @user-uq5zj4nq4h 5 місяців тому +56

      1000 minimum 😢jk

    • @BlankMan912
      @BlankMan912 5 місяців тому +60

      go find out. and who knows…you might just have some success along the way too

    • @Just2facts2
      @Just2facts2 5 місяців тому +30

      1mil at least

    • @jacomacho3357
      @jacomacho3357 5 місяців тому +17

      That would be 400 for me.

    • @jeromego2672
      @jeromego2672 5 місяців тому +20

      He’s aesthetically top tier and has decent game but could improve still. Master PUAS have like a 25% success rate which is still high AF

  • @nkululekozondo2075
    @nkululekozondo2075 4 місяці тому +1

    Dude this is actually respectful

  • @bas182341
    @bas182341 6 днів тому

    i respect you much more after showing the failures!

  • @dubis9919
    @dubis9919 5 місяців тому +21

    This might be the single most important video that Fit has put out this year

  • @user-qc8rm6yr7p
    @user-qc8rm6yr7p 5 місяців тому +65

    C'mon hat's off to this guy,he went in the field to
    Purposely get rejected and to tell us the don'ts when approaching.
    Keep it up Fit.

  • @chill543
    @chill543 15 днів тому

    Respect for showing a realistic take on the cold approaches. The guys who do well are still getting turned down at times but dont show it. Its important we dont give up for when the next opportunity comes up. We can learn to take rejection and move on to the next. It may be a little something we can change or it was maybe nothing bad you did. Girls taken or timing was bad eg she having a bad day in a rush etc. I feel alot of its common sense stuff but half of it is over coming that hesitation to just go up for a cold approach.

  • @Nepal8448
    @Nepal8448 4 місяці тому +1

    Not the Windows Error Sound 😅
    Much respect for showing rejections

  • @MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee
    @MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee 5 місяців тому +16

    Man FitX truly cares about the truth of his content. Respect

  • @BrianChristian-up7tk
    @BrianChristian-up7tk 5 місяців тому +153

    One thing i notice is that women of your own race will disqualify you IMMEDIATELY without hesitation, even be straight up rude, especially black women to black men
    White women to white men
    Asian to asian etc
    As a latino, latinas usually give me the biggest attitude, but since im light skinned, i can pass as maybe an italian, Portuguese... Ive noticed black girls are super nice and will let me down gently if they not interested, as do asian girls.
    Basically the women of your own race tend to disrespect you the most here in the united states.

    • @Jos-Czesin-Cieplak
      @Jos-Czesin-Cieplak 5 місяців тому +6

      Any reason why ?

    • @chief8079
      @chief8079 5 місяців тому

      I bet if you looked like a stereotypical Edgar, Latinas wouldn't give you an attitude. Latinas seem to hate light skinned dudes lol

    • @user-go2xi7zq5q
      @user-go2xi7zq5q 5 місяців тому +61

      @@Jos-Czesin-CieplakThey feel more comfortable with you I guess. They prolly feel like talking to someone of a different race, that they got to make a good impression, as they’re basically like a “guest”.

    • @Jos-Czesin-Cieplak
      @Jos-Czesin-Cieplak 5 місяців тому +1

      @@user-go2xi7zq5q true. But my case seems to be quiet diffrent since i have never been directly rejected by a woman who I share a lot in common with like for instance having almost the same type of genomes and phenotypes. Although i know that women from certain races do most fund me attractive.

    • @spidavenom4
      @spidavenom4 5 місяців тому +19

      lol it's mainly black women to black men tbh. It's why the rise of black men dating non-black women rose so quickly in the last few years. Also a lot of big women feel entitled which leaves the same few ones in shape for the entire field to fight over.

  • @iam_entertainment656
    @iam_entertainment656 2 місяці тому +4

    lmaoo buddy game is top tier ass 😂😂

  • @Chevaux804
    @Chevaux804 4 місяці тому +1

    Very important and real video. These are all Good points to take away from rejection.

  • @onrecord79
    @onrecord79 5 місяців тому +96

    I respect the honesty showing you're L's. However, approaching is also giving validation. Whether you compliment or not. Good vid

    • @crispin_21
      @crispin_21 4 місяці тому

      It is but that's what you have to do to get laid because they sure aren't going to approach you. Also women respect men who know what they want, that's how fuck boys get laid. So even if you're giving her validation by approaching, it's not the same as complimenting her

    • @coolestafrican1444
      @coolestafrican1444 4 місяці тому +10

      So let approaching be the only validation given.. No need for unnecessary compliments.

    • @porgyjr.7737
      @porgyjr.7737 4 місяці тому +1

      You're exactly right, I respect Fit. This was a great video! However, I'm pre-qualified in my arena. I live in the DMV, I'm a 3 division Boss so women know me when I walk in the room. Cold approaching eliminates women saying, who is that guy In that nice suit? Then when they ask what do you do, you're pre-qualified. There's no way around it. If I come in approaching women it's automatically developing the mindset that I need or want her more than she wants me. It's automatic, this is why in most cases I would say do not cold approach. How you start is generally how you end. Cold approach and she's in control from that moment on, you never get that leverage back.

    • @onrecord79
      @onrecord79 4 місяці тому +1

      @@porgyjr.7737 You are spot on. I lived in the DMV (Downtown Silver Spring) for 9 years. Everything you mentioned is correct.

    • @crispin_21
      @crispin_21 4 місяці тому

      @@porgyjr.7737 You absolutely get the revarage back!! Because most women expect men to approach them, so it's either you do it or you don't get laid, but I can tell you've never approached girls. The issue is that most guys don't have enough confidence and flame to turn that shit back which is not hard to do as long as you are who you say you are. I get that most guys use what you just said as an excuse because they are afraid of getting rejected and shit, but when you point a flow, you gotta propose a better solution... Because that hot chick you clause once a year, she won't see you and think "who's that guy" and then approach you! hell nuh. Let's say In every 20 girls you meat today and thought you well attractive... If you got lucky only 1 came and approached you. So you can't just sit there and wait to get laid Dude. Women like to be approached, of course by men they are attracted to. And when you do it properly, they will speed the whole day giggling about it.

  • @Bigmoney333
    @Bigmoney333 5 місяців тому +133

    Can’t believe I’m 36 watching these videos still learning this shit lol damn bro

    • @jpair205
      @jpair205 5 місяців тому +41

      Don't feel bad I'm 38 I don't really have a lot of problem with the women for real but it never hurts to learn more from The Young Gs🏁💯

    • @AllmightyContent
      @AllmightyContent 5 місяців тому +19

      Never too late bro

    • @dnd21
      @dnd21 5 місяців тому +12

      Damn respect!!! Keep it up bro

    • @MpumeleloSejam
      @MpumeleloSejam 5 місяців тому +22

      Respect a wise man is always eager to learn

    • @richierichalley
      @richierichalley 5 місяців тому +32

      In this life we never stop learning …

  • @Justafayze
    @Justafayze 3 місяці тому

    The outcome Independent is the major key in this video, hands down the best way I’ve found with online dating, in person dating & sales! Good stuff

  • @ericnomad
    @ericnomad 5 місяців тому +14

    This shows it’s a numbers game, I appreciate the transparency

    • @hillelisreal2983
      @hillelisreal2983 3 місяці тому

      That's all it is young buck, don't let one monkey stop the show though

  • @nitroneonicman
    @nitroneonicman 3 місяці тому +1

    So much respect for posting this

  • @lordgorotubbydipsy8610
    @lordgorotubbydipsy8610 2 місяці тому

    Salute to you sir. Not many men show this. You're a man of honour.

  • @Silence8766
    @Silence8766 5 місяців тому +29

    Very rarely you see youtubers in the dating world… show their failures as well. Solid video. 👍

  • @BIGMoji100
    @BIGMoji100 5 місяців тому +45

    Fit is a real one , he actually want us men to improve, sometimes you get rejected to the point you give up , now lm motivated to keep going

    • @eli4735
      @eli4735 5 місяців тому +1

      have you been rejected before n how many times?

    • @disandestiny3655
      @disandestiny3655 5 місяців тому +1

      That's right am going through the same with lots of axienty but got me back. I have to approach now. Thnks to Fit

    • @sigal5542
      @sigal5542 4 місяці тому

      Im 6,2 and decent looking and still dont get better than 3/10. Its really hard as a man. And i dont live in usa so that make it worse.​@@eli4735

    • @striketacticz0750
      @striketacticz0750 5 днів тому

      Jesus Christ Loves You, Died On The Cross For Your Sins And Is Seeking A Personal Relationship Today. For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. He's calling you seek him, Repent And Be Saved! And if you need any prayers l can pray for you

  • @christianprice9832
    @christianprice9832 29 днів тому

    Good for him for keeping it real!

  • @deevatheexplorer
    @deevatheexplorer 2 місяці тому

    Facts at pressing me/being too eager and validating. Comes off turst 💯

  • @leratosword6594
    @leratosword6594 5 місяців тому +13

    This was dope. I like when you said “most women are going to reject you” because I’ve always believed that. Thanks for the motivation Fit

  • @ohWAFE
    @ohWAFE 5 місяців тому +17

    im surprised you posted this man! Im married but i love the fact you post the rejected side of things so these guys can see how to handle it.

    • @Jerry_TheFitnessMessiah
      @Jerry_TheFitnessMessiah 4 місяці тому

      Be prepared anytime for the future

    • @ohWAFE
      @ohWAFE 3 місяці тому

      @@Jerry_TheFitnessMessiah RP through and through... even if im 70 and i find out im cheated on. I had a good time and a long time but my turn would be over.

  • @kingmo565
    @kingmo565 4 місяці тому +1

    Shows that "You look good and I'd like to take you out" is a very bad approach. This is a very helpful video, so thanks for making this.

  • @GreenJumper
    @GreenJumper 24 дні тому +4

    Bruh fitx has no game 😂😂

  • @KurtKobangz
    @KurtKobangz 5 місяців тому +24

    My man Fitx does it again. I appreciate you showing this side of you cause it helps me

  • @DemetriusOnTheMove
    @DemetriusOnTheMove 5 місяців тому +9

    A lot of guys would not make this video I congratulate you on being transparent

  • @JohnnyBg2905
    @JohnnyBg2905 4 місяці тому +1

    As much as this Fit's video look good and is cool from him to show, I noticed he is excusing himself. That shit puts her on a pedestal more than simple compliment. You are exusing yourself, which means you are interupting her, asking for her time, hoping she will give it to you

  • @The925Athlete
    @The925Athlete 7 днів тому

    I got rejected a ton of times in Miami as well.
    It's a different game there. There has been an inflation of rich dudes since covid in 2020 and girls are a lot more picky now.
    You can't be too nice there you have to come in very masculine when you talk to Miami girls.
    Good luck out there!

  • @shadrackkiban4716
    @shadrackkiban4716 5 місяців тому +17

    For a second, I was wondering why bro was leading with validation,
    Video full of value 🔥🔥🔥

  • @megaman2016
    @megaman2016 5 місяців тому +31

    Real honest content bro

  • @tailback07
    @tailback07 4 місяці тому +1

    I subbed because ny boy keeps it real. Social circle game is the only game!

  • @robwinter3183
    @robwinter3183 Місяць тому

    Good advice. .... I've subscribed for more... Approaching is key - I do it with no expectations - feel free to use that mind set.

  • @handsome_Xpress
    @handsome_Xpress 5 місяців тому +25

    The Epitome of Fearless 🔥💪🏽

  • @trxndesign3331
    @trxndesign3331 5 місяців тому +9

    Moving to Miami was the best thing you've done after looksmaxxing... content quality is insane

    • @phantommah8042
      @phantommah8042 Місяць тому

      Yup. You cant do this kinda content in ohio

  • @samstats6496
    @samstats6496 4 місяці тому +1

    Great vid. Need more content on rejection in general from coaches.

  • @kag7798
    @kag7798 5 місяців тому +12

    ur real asf for this, this is why i’m subscribed

  • @jey524
    @jey524 5 місяців тому +10

    Fit a real one for this, most authentic dude man

  • @djsway4041
    @djsway4041 3 місяці тому

    Just found your page last month bro, youve been giving legit down to earth and realistic advice man. Much appreciated. Ima get my ass in shape and start using some of these techniques.

  • @cheshire2.047
    @cheshire2.047 3 місяці тому

    This is the kind of content I like. Makes me feel like I can go out there even if you’re getting rejected

  • @Jomgg
    @Jomgg 5 місяців тому +10

    I gotta respect fit for this , not many influencers will show this side .

    • @JayTheAdviceGuy
      @JayTheAdviceGuy 4 місяці тому

      This is true. Though technically, he said he failed here on purpose. He validated them early on knowing it would get him rejected. Would he still be showing it if he was actually TRYING to get the girl and still got rejected? I don't know, because this is my first time seeing him.

  • @andrewAssasin2003
    @andrewAssasin2003 5 місяців тому +14

    Goes to show even the most attractive people still get rejected, it’s just a numbers game Is what I learnt from this. Thank you fitx this helps heaps for other guys who may get a little bit in there head thinking they’re not attractive by getting rejected when really could’ve just been bad timing, simply not interested for that type not necessarily meaning the guy is not attractive, thanks!

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 5 місяців тому +1

      He's short and not white.

    • @myreel
      @myreel 5 місяців тому +8

      Everyone gets rejected. One thing is that the more attractive you are is the less you will get rejected. This is a fact.

    • @Prescotmills8732
      @Prescotmills8732 5 місяців тому

      yes he's around 5'7. A 6ft+ attractive white man would be different results.@@GUITARTIME2024

    • @kingw7651
      @kingw7651 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@GUITARTIME2024 but he's still a good looking dude. Do you think only whites are good looking? He is above the average guy. He still wins but he's showing us his rejections to show that it's not always sugar and milk. Everyone gets rejected you just have to keep trying. He even tried with black women too.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 3 місяці тому

      @kingw7651 I'm just saying, black guys trying with non black women will have a steeper hill. Add his height into it, and his slightly non American accent, and it's a tougher sell. Plus, his nose should be narrowed.

  • @1stunna91
    @1stunna91 4 місяці тому +1

    I lowkey expected fitx to have dmx type rizz. He talks proper asf to girls.

  • @Lovlee33161
    @Lovlee33161 3 місяці тому +1

    Bro the best video on this subject. PROPS BROTHA!!!

  • @flower80818
    @flower80818 5 місяців тому +40

    As a woman, I think it is a bit confronting walking up to us and just asking questions. Most of the time we are caught of guard and getting about our day. Best way to approach women is a cafe, bar or a relaxed setting where you know we are just chilling and willing to talk.

    • @madjunir
      @madjunir 5 місяців тому +5

      I think he knows that. However he wanted to show everyone that even the "Chads and Tyrones" can get rejected depending on the setting. Also men are not afraid of rejection. We all lived through it unlike most females don't know how to deal with it because they almost never expose themselves or make the first move.

    • @dutchb.l.d4704
      @dutchb.l.d4704 5 місяців тому +5

      I usually ask the woman if she minds if I talk to her, before i continue. Also lets me know she’s interested

    • @antwandarellefenton
      @antwandarellefenton 5 місяців тому +1

      Nice

    • @HarryClipzFilmz
      @HarryClipzFilmz 5 місяців тому +1

      @@dutchb.l.d4704 You should never tell a woman if you mind (that's for when you're at your job or your female family members) saying that shows weakness. Just shot your shot. Good hygiene like good smelling cologne (lightly spray, on wrist, on neck and palms) hair cut or bald, beard or goatee groomed up to look the part. Have a good set of fits or if you're the suit type of guy 2 piece or slacks etc. With that said you should be cool also exercise for good health and piece of mind.

    • @22rapper
      @22rapper 5 місяців тому +1

      If your man of faith these people never go to a bar considered bad way to find godly woman. people if there single man or man need to be less on guard not saying accept the advancement but remember how would they like a response if they went up to someone. obvious if there not single just walking by

  • @HarryClipzFilmz
    @HarryClipzFilmz 5 місяців тому +24

    Those 3 guys walking together in suits at the beginning speaks volume

  • @TheMasculineInvestor
    @TheMasculineInvestor Місяць тому

    Finally... somebody from the RP showing real life experiences

  • @thisiswillsway
    @thisiswillsway 3 місяці тому

    Best words about value. Thank you for reassuring my thoughts about what you said.

  • @danielwanzelius552
    @danielwanzelius552 5 місяців тому +16

    Lots of respect for putting this content out. At the same time my advice would be to take it down. Not because you are getting rejected, that can happen to everyone but because your conversation game is just weak.
    Seems like you put all of your game into your looks when there is a lot more to it...
    Tip of day is you NEVER try to pick up girls with a backpack on! That's like saying you don't own a car. 😂 Only kids and people taking the bus wears a backpack. Ain't nobody getting in a fly ride throwing their backpack in trunk. 💯

    • @user-go2xi7zq5q
      @user-go2xi7zq5q 5 місяців тому +6

      Loool, I don’t own a car, and I always wear a backpack lool. You got me.

    • @jiggaman000
      @jiggaman000 5 місяців тому +5

      yup. His conversation game is weak.

  • @awemanyfit
    @awemanyfit 5 місяців тому +15

    I noticed you were validating them. In your previous cold approaching video you said say "I find you interesting" not something like"you look good"
    We learn everyday

    • @haywood0457
      @haywood0457 5 місяців тому +3

      Watch the whole video bro

    • @Itstoolate-q7g
      @Itstoolate-q7g 5 місяців тому

      I noticed that too. Homie just red pill hustling..it's all good

    • @davnoble8472
      @davnoble8472 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Itstoolate-q7gdid y’all watch the video ?

    • @Itstoolate-q7g
      @Itstoolate-q7g 5 місяців тому

      @@davnoble8472 lol man y'all can't be this dense. Let's see if he uploads the chicks he actually pulled & the game he used to get em

    • @davnoble8472
      @davnoble8472 5 місяців тому

      @@Itstoolate-q7g bro y’all dumb asf! He literally showed himself getting rejected. The red pill will tell you it’s all looks…. Well clearly it’s not

  • @18JR78
    @18JR78 3 місяці тому +1

    It be easier if you make them ‘walk with you’ in their direction vs a hard stop.

  • @peterchawurura3178
    @peterchawurura3178 Місяць тому +2

    Your dressing got you rejected man