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im from NYC native lived in miami 4 years.. its cool but overhyped if your a normal guy. Its legit a playground for the rich and the girls you interview are the toys, and they are ok with it, based on their prices.
Love how real and authentic this is. Put things in perspective with where I am and how high the bar really is. Exposing how high and crazy the mountain is. Really motivating
Colombian woman want to come to the u.s. for better life education etc,take that advice,from a latino,it would be alot easier if you knew spanish to mingle with the colombianas lol.
You sound weak. Imagine substituting what makes us human which is chasing strength and prosperity just for you to get on your knees and submit to a God daddy that doesn’t exist because you need someone to save you. You need the gym, and when that weight you’re benching doesn’t go up no matter how hard you for cry for a savior god won’t help you, only yourself. For those who understand grow stronger and make your bloodline strong. Don’t chase “ghosts.” There’s nothing wrong with wanting to improve and attract women. This is how we survive as a species and is encoded in us.
I’ve lived in Miami for 30 years and I’ve had a ton of “hot girls” funny I can barely remember any of them. I’m 46 successful older (400k a year) man now and realize that a good woman and a family is what truly makes you rich! Too much focus on Money and pussy nowadays focus on family, friends and health happiness will come in abundance!
Fit chasing waterfalls. smh dude says he's competing to get women that Athletes get smh you'll never make as much money or have the access or resources those guys have😅 chasing ghosts
I grew up in a Miami, it’s cool for the hustle, but at this point it’s for rich people, it’s not really the place to go to build, you go there after you have some success and network from there.
Lived in Florida for 10 years lived in Miami for six. It’s got overcrowded and became the new LA with a bunch of superficial people and scammers… Move to Colorado bought a nice house more of an outdoorsy activity guy then paying hundreds of dollars at a nightclub, it’s not worth it. It’s fun to visit but living here… Don’t do it.
Fitx says he has more success with Miami women. That seems a highly unlikely claim given the fact he cold approached 100 Miami women and they all rejected him. 100 percent failure rate. I don't see how that proves Fitx is successful with women. It actually suggests the opposite! I don't wish to be harsh on Fitx but a failure rate of 100 percent is kinda a red flag. It doesn't prove you have any game nor any expertise in dating women.
I bet the easiest girls to pull are the ones vacationing in miami VS the locals. You might be a superstar in a girls eyes thats from Nebraska. Plus, we already know about "girls trips".
I’m single and if I’m making six figures I’m staying near a small town and getting a strong 6 female. I don’t need a woman that is surrounded by “ballers.” More then likely ur around women that have way too much experience and r ran thru. Take ur six figures be in a small city or town and enjoy ur peace instead of trying to compete with a whole bunch of men who have way more then u
Face doesn't even have to be that good I just want a nice body. And she's in control of what her body looks like, it's insane how many women in modern society completely let themselves go and still can pull a high value mate. But even harder to find is a girl with any sense of morality. If she thinks cheating is liberation, and not a mortal sin, we're inherently incompatible. Unfortunately, there's very few religious women these days. I already got the 6 figures thing handled. I have a very active dating life, but quality of character is a serious issue. But yea, as soon as I find that solid 6 woman with real morals, I'm buying some land out in the middle of nowhere and we'll peacefully live out our days comparing ourselves to no one and chasing after nothing.
Fitxfearless, you have no idea about Miami. As a local Miamian I can tell you a few things accurate about Miami.. 1. Brickell is only a small place full of part timers who live in Miami and are not locals,or are new to Miami and exploring around and some are tourists just trying to experience the hype of Miami. 2. Miami has alot affordable places all you have to do is go west of Brickell and your money will stretch further out. 3. The real people with money are located in Gables, West Miami, Bay Harbor, Key Biscayne, Brickell Key, Fisher Island, Venetian Island, West Doral, West Kendall, South Miami, Pinecrest, and Miami Lakes. 4. You dont need to be shreded or look like model type to get girls in Miami. Just go west my man, and you will see so many, short, fat, ugly, regular, nerdy dudes with beautiful local girls. Theres an abundance of Miamian girls on the west side of Brickell that look like 10+ with regular broke dudes or dudes who make a decent 6 figure income. 5. Yes you can live on 6 figure income in Miami and still survive. You just got to know where to spend it and where to rent or buy. 6. Miami has 75% of fake millionaire or fake it till you make it people. The other 25% lives in does area I mentioned on #3. 7. Girls are very easy to get here in Miami especially the locals, you don't need a yacht or helicopter or a Lambo, just confidence and high self esteem. 8. Eat and drink where the locals hang in Brickell not the flashy restaurants and bars, and your money will stretched.
Miami is super amazing but homeboy is sugar coating it quite a bit. Also good luck competing with Heats players if all you got is a YT channel and some PUA coaching, no offense
The most superficial place. No depth or substance not a true melting pot. Everyone tries so hard to be like NY. Even at NYs worst it’s still better than the trash that is MIA. Most low vibrational deplorable people. Miami used to be somewhat chill place to visit not to live and now not even to visit. If you’re superficial shallow person it’s the ideal place for you
The girls trip thing is so true. I’ve never been to Miami but I’ve worked and spent a lot of time in Nashville. My G’s, if your wife to be or your girl is a bridesmaid and she’s going to Nashville, she ain’t your girl. There’s a reason why Nashville has more male strip clubs than female strip clubs. I was invited to bachelorette after parties multiple times and it is truly appalling.
FIT, sorry brother, let me give it to you 💯 as a US born dude with dual Colombian citizenship born and raised in Miami. The main thing is the elephant in the room. Miami as a multicultural city is WAY ahead in dating opposite race than Colombia. You mentioned women are more “traditional” in Colombia, that includes they still look for white boys. White Americans with blue eyes have NO PROBLEM finding a Colombian girl in Colombia. Straight talk and it is what it is.
Maybe colombian girls are looking for a white guy but in realtiy they looking for someone that is religious again that's only for half of those women but pretty much Colombia is a religious and christian coutnry for most of the population due to watching those 4k videos and believe me the nightlife is all family bro. they are also looking for someone that can speak Spanish intermmediate or fluently and understnad the Pisa culture not just for white guys same goes with black guys and Latino men too (although preferrably since Colombia and colombia or latino men are very relatably but not a guarantee).
So I've moved to Miami 4 years ago from NYC and by the looks of things you and I are neighbors. Looks like ur a block away. That said, most of the points you made are spot on. I found it to be easy af to pick up girls here compared with NY, I'm a 6 foot dude about 200 pounds. The 6 figure thing u mentioned is also accurate. I make over 200 grand and still feels like it's kinda tight but I love the life out here.
@@dmitriya4670 Well I can't honestly speak because I don't know your lifestyle but still in Miami, FL and even in the US the percentage of people that make six figures is very low. I only have saved $450k and own two condos free and clear and I feel comfortable but by all means I don't feel wealthy or rich. I also don't live an extravagant lifestyle with super cars, boats, vacation homes, luxury vacations etc. I live a modest life sir
I don't give a f if a woman doesn't want me because I don't have s lot of money, don't drive a Lambo and don't wear a Rollex. I'll Keep wearing a G-Shock like a "peasant", it's ok. Continue to workout and stay fit is a must tho.
Bro who gives af what women think? 😂 live your lives fellas. If you can live a BETTER quality of life for LESS, then DO IT. Don't let "society" tell you that you need to have outrageous overhead and debt just to prove to a broad you are valuable
@@JimastaJ that's true, and for the guys that do p4p more power to them. I meant living a better quality of life as far as not having to be in the rat-race of the western lifestyle. Yall boys burning the candle at both ends & going to an early grave trying to out-do the next man for some broads that's just gonna up and leave if the ends get low anyway. It doesn't make sense. When you could comfortably live a better life, with less stress overseas somewhere for a fraction of the cost
And they're doing all these things and still don't have meaningful, worthwhile relationships. How are you so successful with women everywhere you go and can't get one solid girlfriend? It's not a flex to sleep with women who sleep around. You think she's on your roster when you're really on hers.
@@keving.2983…..just came from Poblado Medellin. One year from retirement home paid for , rolodex stuffed with feminine dimes, no resting bit#% faces ,Money long there ate good lost weight. Still at that age where I can get at it man gonna get me a place there and move. Set up some rentals here in the states with the pension I get I’ll live like a king. Man I fuc%#^* made it.
Only 7% of Miami residents are millionaires and .0003% are billionaires. I believe (correct me if I'm wrong) the average income is less than 50k. In Brickell y'all are basically cut off from real life lol It's not Miami that makes you feel broke, it's the seclusion of Brickell. Yes...most are definitely faking, but not the way you think. The thing is they are rich enough to pretend to be even richer. There are people there who make 300k+/year that can easily be or PRETEND to be a millionaire. That skews the perception, but since most people will never make 300k/year it might as well be a million to the average person 😂
💯 ...people don't know that money works exponentially. Just having "a little bit more money" can finance an exponentially more expensive lifestyle...it is not quite "50k millionaires", but yeah...a ton of people that haven't seen anywhere near a million dollar income can pretend to be in those leagues. Eventually bankruptcies give away who was playing being rich with a high income and tons of credit access.
He speaking no lies about girl trips!! Smh I live in Atlanta.. it’s not even Miami.. but it’s another spot women take trips to why!? For the strip club and night life reputation.. soo they coming here FOR THE ACTION!!! trust and believe.. if ur woman even wanna go on girl trips then ur relationship is already OVER FAM
Eehh some girls go on trips with their friends because it’s the only time they can hang. But that’s only for women that are married and have kids. Culture matters.
I’ve been living in Miami for 12 years. I live near the beach. I like to be able to run by the water. So meditative. Definitely promotes an active lifestyle. As far as the materialism, my car is paid off. My mom and I live together to help me save. I’m 6’1, 190, black male. I can get girls if I want, but I’m trying to change my career after getting laid off in 2023. My focus is not the girls. Stay on your purpose fellas. If you worship the materialistic lifestyle. It will eat you alive. Someone will always one up you. As far as the Colombia thing, I’ve never been. But I’ve been to 10 countries mostly in Asia and I was treated very well. FYI the real wealth is in West Palm Beach. Not Miami.
I understand exactly what you saying when it comes to MAKING MONEY ! It’s just like living in soho nyc ! You have to make money ! But other than that , life is better outside of America ! The new America dream is to leave America …….
Miami hasn't changed since the 90's. I used to tell my boys from up north (Philly, New York), that before you get married, you have to go to Miami to experience the women and lifestyle. You will get laid with ease and the women are hot. Listen, when you go to certain malls, it's like going to club. And FITX is right about the club scene. It's lively and it never stops. You can be overwhelmed if you're not used to it.
Fitx, about Colombia, it's not that just because you're not from there. Another main reason is because a lot of foreign men that go to colombia are low quality, so they tend to put all foreign men in the same boat. Being an american in argentina, brazil, or mexico, doesn't get the same negative reaction (yet) as Colombia.
So why don't you get the same negative reaction from Argentina, Brazil, Mexico if your American but in Colombia you do? This comment makes absolutely no sense whatsoever and yes I'm Colombian so I want to hear your take.
@@bballah9969 Then let me explain it for you. One reason is, in Colombia (esp MED and CTG, but not necessarily BOG), there is a general presumption that gringos are s3x tourists or only there for women. In the other places, that presumption does not normally exist. So in Colombia, as a foreigner, you can tend to be looked at as suspect, at least initially.
As someone who grew up in Miami and moved 6 months ago, everything he said in part 4 & part 5 is dead on. It super competitive and you better get hip to the idea of competiting in every facet of your life; income, body, investing, networking, how you dress, the place you live, what you drive... it all matters. Doesn't matter your feelings on how you think it should be, it matters what the reality is.
Funny video with some Valid points. Miami is not a city for love so don’t look for it. In Brickell it’s a radius of everyone not from Miami who now live in Miami and so the interactions with women are alot different than say 2015. I lived in Miami my whole life and love the new drop of women moving in from Texas , Cali , New York , overseas , etc. they treat you different than the REAL Miami women. Move to Miami don’t live in an overpriced area like Brickell. Go to north Miami , north Miami Beach , Hollywood. You’ll save a whole lot more money and can definitely enjoy the perks on a budget.
That girls trip is so true I grew up in Florida and I would go to Miami for the weekend 6 to 7 hour drive easy. Get a room for three days and only messed with chick who said they in town for x days. Clap clap clap clap drive back home to jville. This was early 2000s when I was just an assistant manager at smoothie king😂.Now we got airbnb too. Free lunch for me
Living in Europe for most of my life and went to my first time ever to America was south beach Miami and immediately fell in love with the city vibe, of course everything looks better on vacation but still great place to be,,expensive yes but so is whole western Europe,,very funny how you storytell your experiences, take care
Miami is not the place to be if you want to experience a different level of life.... just a bunch of people running around spending unnecessary money trying to impress each other
@@classic595 Nope in Dubai women throw themselves at you if you have money no matter your looks, height, and age. Lots of women come to Dubai to try and marry a rich guy. Miami is another level. Women who come there just want to smash the hottest guy, ride the yachts, and party. You gotta have everything or either go the sugar daddy route like most do. If you have a nice yacht you can smash a few girls a day in Miami. I lived in both places and Dubai was a cake walk compare to Miami where I was almost invisible due to being only 5'7 even though I was in great shape and wealthy.
Born and raised here, he’s right about the women there’s a lot and they’re beautiful and you run through enough of em you realize it’s all bullshit without true love
I’ve lived in Miami my whole life your right the friend group part is right I’ve had so many different type of friends gang members, drug dealers, normal people, million airs, so many different type of people so u need years of experience so hope u keep enjoying my city 🌆 305 till i die I used to be heavy in the party scene that club u said i been to i used to be a promoter but honestly bro I found Jesus and is the best advice I can give u I’ve had the girls the money it’s temporarily fun but Jesus is the truth to fully fill that emptiness we all have I know u said u been here for 4 months I’m telling u if you’re without Jesus between the new people u meet girls guys the drugs and the party scene will eventually suck u in. So accept Jesus if u haven’t and your life will be the best u can have in Miami take it from me bro I’ve lived here my whole life it’s literally the only way. Just try it because without Jesus is very very very very dangerous I’ve lost so many boys, ex gfs I love you all but remember Jesus Loves You more forget about the material temporary things Miami is full of fake ppl fake Rolex rentals fake girls to set u up 🆙 so keep your head on a swivel 👍🏻 ps I’m 28 btw just of anyone wonders cause I said I been here my whole life ❤
6 figures is broke? 100k sure, but anything in 300k and you good Some forget what 6 figures is, 100k to 999k. With almost a mil a year, you can ball like insane in miami. Hermozi did a nice video that with 300k you can live billionaire life style. 7-10k month amazing apartment. 2-3k bentley/Porsche etc lease. 100k private flights (4-6 flights a year), one rental of nice yacht.
I’m so glad I’m secure within myself and don’t go around. wondering what other people are thinking or not thinking of me. being me and doing me is good enough wherever I am.
At 9:42. I believe him when he says you need more than just being well off. The issue is basic broke women think they are worth that. Most women the average guy thinks is an 8 or a 9, in reality is a 5 or 6. Its just when guys are horny, desperate or the women are just playing hard to get, we as men give in too much and push their rank way higher.
Fitx's business model: shame men into "grinding" to get women, when the truth is that there's no guarantee any of that will pay off. Spend years in the gym, "hustling", "grinding", for what? For what actually? What's the prize? Get the attention of people who don't give a fuck about you?
Yep. Looks like he watched F&F and is trying to create a less-asshole version of their ‘advice’. Still a phony; just another variant. And his problems with women is because he’s still too street - he’ll talk normally for a few sentences then start talking like he’s a…
1:48 HOLY SHIT BRO YOU JUST VERBALIZED MY EXACT SAME EXPERIENCE. I've been told I'm a ridiculously attractive guy and I'm living in Chattanooga TN. I have the EXACT same experience that you said here. The girls think I'm weird for being here and that alone gives them an excuse to not mess with me. That's why I'm moving to Miami too and I can't wait.
@@Chris37555 lol yeah i moved here from NJ in 2020 and then i leveled up like crazy now everyone thinks i’m too good to be living here 🤷🏽♂️ Miami it is.
I’m from Miami it’s funny if you live in Brickell, Wynwood, Downtown, Miami Beach etc. you can get caught up in Clubs, Flashy overpriced Restaurants and temporary friendships You need discipline. Fits live in the heart of Miami it’s upper middle class. Miami Beach islands, Coral Gables, Coconut grove, Boca Raton etc are extremely rich families.
@9:20 “who are also in good shape good looking lambo ain’t enough” Fresh Walter enters the chat 🤣🤣he has a rotation of 5 and he don’t have all you mentioned. I think some of the pressure in that sense you put on yourself tbh but it’s a good thing because you’re always striving for better 👌
Good comparison, I forgot all about Fresh. He even admitted that he’s not attractive, and he’s unfit but hopefully improving. But he has Money!! So yeah it’s possible to have beautiful women with Just money Alone. At the same time, always strive to be the best version of yourself, otherwise those “rotations” will start to hypergamize themselves into new D**k.
@@user69964 mate show me a beautiful high maintenance woman who you won’t spend money on ? Every guy knows if you’re dealing with these types of women you’ll always be spending money.
I lived in Miami Beach for only a month. That's all I needed. Tv , music, and movies glamorize it but the energy is actually pretty dark and gritty in nature.
Moving out of Miami as we currently speak because if you really have money like that why tf would you choose Miami when you could get so much more for your money elsewhere in the Caribbean and not have to deal with the crime and traffic 💀
5:00 true, but if you in to your bag, just go Brickell City Center and hang out there by the co-working space. Stay away from the clubs, majority of them in to some sort of ish. If they doing luxury rentals (cars, yachts, villas, etc) it is a cover for something more sinister. What I really did when I got there, was hang with real estate agents, they well connected with both high end customers and people.
Grew up there, yes there are people who are extremely rich, but the majority of the people are just faking it and living off debt. Rich rich are the people who live in Gables by the Sea, Cocoplum, and the private islands.
It’s easy to get girls that are flying in for a few days. “Weekend warriors” if you will. Miami natives or transplants that are now Miami-ized are not easy to get for the average guy
Close to 6 figures a year for an apartment? If 6 figures is $100,000, lets just assume you're paying $80,000 - $90,000 a year for your apartment since he said "close to 6 figures." That's $6,666 to $7,500 a month. Do you really need to spend $7,500 a month on an apartment to live in Miami? Because if so, that's even worse than New York. That much money to RENT a place is just outlandish, and if you're paying that much to RENT a place, you might as well buy a place and pay a mortgage.
AUSTON YOU GOTTA LEVEL UP BRO INSTEAD OF COMPLAINING I BET YOU SHOCK ITS GUYS HERE GETTING THEIR WAY I BELIEVE IN YOU BUT YOU DONT HAVE MUCH PATIENCE TO GROW GOING OVERSEAS WONT FIX ANYTHING. YOU STILL THE GUY AMERICAN WOMEN DIDN'T WANT. IF THOSE FOREIGN GIRLS WERE HERE MAYBE THEY'LL TREAT YOU THE SAME AS AMERICAN GIRLS... IF NOT GO SOMEWHERE WHERE FOREIGNERS HAVE MONEY AND SEE HOW THEY TREAT YOU WHEN THEY DONT NEED YOU
@@AustonHolleman you can do it bro don't be so negative Keep it Playa If we not getting our way it's something we not doing right Take it as a challenge brother No more of this depress stuff enjoy life You a handsome young man The world is yours fam
Lol man number four couldn't be further from the truth homie you're totally wrong Fit! I have lived and gone to school here in Miami Beach my whole life and I can honestly tell you, yes the cost of living in the 80's, 90's and today has gone up significantly just like in every city and country around the world due to inflation. Gas was $.99 cents decades ago now it's over $3. To say you need seven figures to live in Miami is absolutely ridiculous and it's a total lie and couldn't be further from the truth. If you make $40-100k a year or anywhere between those numbers you can afford to live here but of course it all depends on your spending habits and lifestyle. Fit the reality is many adults and kids are living with roommates and even there parents in order to make ends meet this is the truth and it's the reality. You can rent an apartment here for $1700 a month easily now if you want to live it up you can easily pay $3-4k plus for rent but you would be stupid to do so unless you are actually a ballah and don't care. And the reality is if your rich or a ballah it's because you were smart with your money. The lambos and McLarens and mansions and high end multi million dollar apartments are all from very wealthy high net worth individuals and from generational wealth. Wealth is not created overnight remember that. Also Besos said it online that he got tired of living on the West Coast he's no longer the CEO of Amazon and decided to move back to Miami to be closer to his parents and he grew up here and went to school here as well. The rich people from California and NY moved here due to companies like Citadel relocating to South Florida and the employees moved with the company obviously taxes and cost of living here is cheaper than those states I previously mentioned. Also star island, fisher island, Indian Creek country club where Bezos Carl Ichan, Julio Iglesias,Tom Brady, etc live all these places you mentioned are for exclusively millionaires and billionaires which you and I aren't and there not for the average Joe so why even talk about that and compare yourself to the wealthy and elite? It's just ridiculous man seriously lol
yeah he's actually delusional i've noticed when it comes to this topic. it's like he has no clue what is a normal style of living. This is what I call toxic self-improvement. It's when you take self-improvement so seriously that you forget to soak in life and just be content. When will people understand? If you cant be happy with 100k and a nice condo, you WILL not be happy with a million dollars and a bugatti. Money only takes away anxiety if you're poor, otherwise it's useless.
I’m goin on my first trip to Miami next week for fresh and fits live event. They thought my voice was cap when I would call in since it’s really deep. So imma prove em wrong lol. Plus it might be good for exposure in terms of getting my voice out there. Can’t wait
Brickell is like influencer land living wise. The real money is in coral Gables in south Miami, Adventura up North or South Pointee right by South beach. Literally have millionaire condos there where everyone has Rolls and bentleys
@@trxndesign3331 as a Miami local I would say it just depends where in Miami you want to live. Brickell is a good option but there’s also Brickell Key as well. Which in my opinion, is definitely better.
who cares. Dont get too jealous. All that shit is meaningless at the end. My dad was a multimillionaire (20 million USD) most miserable guy id ever met. None of his wealth followed him to the grave.
@@loverofhumanity what in this comment section translates to jealously? Also, just because his wealth did made him miserable or lead to that doesn’t mean the same for others 😂
@@AlexVega1998 never seen anyone prove it wrong. Money is like health. Having it doesn't make you happy but not having it makes you miserable. Studies upon studies prove it.
Born and raised in Miami , it has definitely changed in the last 5 years , don’t get me wrong it always had a “rich flashy” aspect to it but now it’s insane it’s becoming the new New York more and more high rises and prices on living going up more and more , it’s better to live on the outskirts of downtown,brickell , Miami Beach and just got visit from here and there for a nice dinner or just a walk around
I had my homegirl move to Miami it’s been a year and she’s moving back next month 😆🤦🏽♂️ she said women are fake and dudes are assholes and when she lived in Portland most guys wanted her so the level changes for everyone and having friends is a must in a place like Florida. In most states you need two friends and your family and you can make it in Miami you need a NETWORK of ppl and no family
lol my homegirl did the same thing. She moved back to Austin after a year i was hoping she would stay longer so i had a place to crash ha. She said the same thing she couldnt get no attention down there you gotta be on top of your game lol.
Bro being in shape only makes you stand out when your face is busted or you are short 😂😭just having money in MIA will get you girls most of you guys who live out there pay for it anyways they don’t care my G
I love it here..been here 3 years...as someone whose traveled outside the country for 10 plus years I don't have trouble anywhere..also he's right about women who come here to visit..trust me I KNOW.
@@ALsn-xz9ix lmaooooo trust me fitx is jokes when he compares his life to millionaires and then belittles his work. Like dude just be content. Trust me that never ending comparison is the worst way to live your life. Someone will always be better than you. Learn to work hard but also appreciate and value yourself. Understand, that some will be better always and some are far worse off so be grateful.
Living in NY or Miami will have you thinking about money and hustling everyday. I'm from NY and when you walk down Park Avenue, it screams to you, I must get my weight up and start doing more. Miami, especially Brickell has that exact vibe. FITXFEARLESS - Would you say you need a minimum of $15,000/ month or that's on the super low side? I'm curious.
@@ALsn-xz9ix I think the competition is good to push you as a young man. Then when you're ready to start a family move somewhere more sane and wholesome.
@@awakenedsystems i disagree. its actually toxic as hell especially for your mental health. Comparison in general is just silly. You'll always have people richer than you. Better looking than you etc. All it does is make you think you dont have any value. Makes you feel small and inferior. Never have that attitude in life. Have money to be comfortable. yes, ofcourse but understand that ultimately its all just pretend. Society in general is just making up #'s and jobs. Your value is determined by your bravery and ability to live authentically. Your thoughts imho are the only valuable thing you own.
Bro, Im NYC native born and raised. But theres a big difference between NYC vs LA, Miami, ATL, Vegas etc. NYC dont do : "fake it until you make it". Either you really got it like that or you dont.
The completion is inspirational but I would never move to a place like Miami tbh. I’d rather be in a lower competition place personally. Have the Miami mindset but not actually be there.
Most people in Colombia can’t even speak english that well, unless you know spanish or something I have no clue how that was ever going to work, huge cultural difference as well
@@ALsn-xz9ix like I said, “unless you know spanish”, either way there’s a cultural barrier, he’s not Colombian, unless he was raised there he would have to live there for maybe 15 years to get fully entrenched in culture and everything
I get what you’re trying to say but I think you’re wrong. A lot of women in these 3rd world countries like foreign men specifically because they’re foreign lol. A lot of them are attracted to the exotic aspect of dating someone different, and yes some do associate being American with automatically having money but it’s still attraction nonetheless. If these women only wanted to date their own men from their countries that they’re already familiar with, the whole passport bro movement wouldn’t be a thing to begin with.
@@ALsn-xz9ix you’re missing the mark on this, the whole “passport bro movement” is predicated on finding quality women somewhere else, when in reality most of them just want a way out of their home country or a green card, it’s all a sham. If you’ve lived long enough you know most people, including women, will gravitate to others that have stuff in common with them, thats just how it is. There might be a situation where maybe theres a foreigner that is extremely attractive to a woman and they hit it off, but all things being equal, if a woman finds a man from her own country that is just as good looking and rich as the foreigner, she’ll stick with the man from her own country. Familiarity and things in common are stuff people want, why would anyone want to go to some other unknown country, leave your family, learn this other language and culture because of a guy, when they wouldnt have to go through all of that if they were to find a guy fron their own country who’s just as rich and handsome??
@@Dean543-cc3fd agree with you. All evidence indicates your correct. People will almost always be more attracted/marry to those they have things in common with.
He's absolutely correct. If you get in the wrong friend group here in Miami, it WILL ruin your life. I was born & raised here in Miami, I should know. 🙏❤🙏 Club Space is insane.
any big city in the west is vapid and awful. The best people you'll ever meet are actually in more isolated areas generally speaking. You will feel more love in a community of 100 people than in a city of millions. And it makes sense, since you'd probably have to have no soul to be able to integrate in these soulless and vapid cities.
I lived in NYC, Miami and now I’m in Medellin. If I would make lots of cash , I’d just be living in Colombia where everything is cheap , find a good woman who’s not too spoiled (very hard to do in Medellin though) and live in a peaceful neighbourhood close to nature. In Miami your girl is gonna look at the Lambos and yachts and keep thinking that maybe she can get a better man …You can never be the richest or the most muscular or ripped, there will always be someone better looking and with much more cash than you are. … Cool video bro, keep them coming 💪😎
Women’s demeanor in Miami vs New York (where I live currently) is night & day. In Miami I’ve had 10s- shit maybe even 11s- basically falling in lap. In New York women are not like that at all… sure some may come up to you but the ones that do are usually 7s at best or slightly older… in Miami, a girl will be 23, crazy body and sexy as hell walking up to ask your name and be down for whatever by the end of the night
And the irony is one of those 10s I was with in Miami was actually visiting there from New York, so there’s definitely something about Miami specifically that changes the way women choose to interact-they become much more open and wanting to approach you. guarantee here in New York that same girl would have not been moving like I was water in a desert… the gender politics are different, out here women are much more on guard
Bruh you stayed in the main cities medellin and bogota the whole time. You know how big and diverse colombia is? You gotta travel around the country to say that colombia wasnt as good as miami. When i was in the smaller cities and towns it was easy to pick up girls, i might look a little bit colombian but everyone could tell i was a foreigner based off my style and accent. Colombia is 1000× better for dating than american its also way cheaper, women are more beautiful, nature is amazing, ive always felt safe there and its generally a incredible country. Btw if you making 6 figures a year in colombia youre living like a prince, a 3k to 6k a month apartment in miami will give you a pretty big house or even rent for a mansion in colombia. Colombia tops all of miami and rest of u.s.a ten fold.
Bro he’s scamming don’t listen to this pos . I was carefree a and dating wa set better he just another agent to keep u trapped in This hellhole so he can sell dtaing courses .
No it doesn’t. Maybe in terms of women, but what about the crime for one? Also, you don’t have access to so much stuff that you have access to in America. Hence why Columbia is considered a 3rd world country and why so many people from South America are trying to immigrate to the US. People always talk about how it’s so cheap in countries like Columbia but never think critically and ask themselves why that is. Not trying to hate, I’m sure its a beautiful country with great people, but let’s not kid ourselves lol
@@ALsn-xz9ix Pretty sure its like London but in a high volume of Crime but it's simple to take precuation since I haven't visited the country myself. Bear that In mind I've been to Somalia the most poorest country and yet It's still safe than London but not much cos of infrastructure and roads that is dangerous itself and Turkey Istanbul where you know it's safe but Pickpockters was a problem. Expect the same as Colombia almost the same rate as Somalia but is like Turkey in terms of bringing new stuff into table and still trying to work out safety for new people to come. London is nowhere near like Medellin but it's exactly the same as London where I haven't been robbed or stabbed so I would just walk around Medellin with caution and just be a normal guy and then it would be good.
Notice how these youtubers mysteriously supposedly have money, but nobody ever knows how they get it? They never talk about it? UA-cam adsense don't pay that much
Facts the other day i went to Fisher island for a meeting,when i go back home ,i told my brother we’re not broke,we’re poor. I live in Fort Lauderdale beach by the water i thought it was cool 😂… When i was on the boat to go to the island i was surrounded with RR, range rover,bentley,and a bugatti.
Miami was a small beach town Ghost town and then one day Columbian smugglers decided to use that place as an entry point into the U.S. coke market. They began to poor that money into the Miami economy. As it gew it atrracted Americans to it and it became the city that it is today, the lavish life capital of the United States.
I’m born and raised in south Florida. Miami is nice to go every once in awhile but forget living there. Even if you have the money to me it’s not worth it. I live 35 minutes from brickell and it costs way less. I’d rather have a bigger house with land then be in a concrete jungle for 10x the price. I live close enough that I can go enjoy it whenever I want but I don’t have to pay the price. This is just my opinion and thought on it. There are a lot of rich people in general in south Florida. You don’t have to live in Miami to experience this. But either way bro great video. It’s good to have that motivation to make yourself a better version of yourself.
I agree because I used to think that way about my friend that used to visit Jamaica to date and get married to girls. I used to be like can't you find a girl in America. I was 21 at the time thinking this!
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im from NYC native lived in miami 4 years.. its cool but overhyped if your a normal guy. Its legit a playground for the rich and the girls you interview are the toys, and they are ok with it, based on their prices.
Love how real and authentic this is. Put things in perspective with where I am and how high the bar really is. Exposing how high and crazy the mountain is. Really motivating
It's a lot of OF girls in Miami. That's probably who you see smashing on the balconies
im looking to move my auto transport company to brickell soon is it better than downtown or the beach?
Colombian woman want to come to the u.s. for better life education etc,take that advice,from a latino,it would be alot easier if you knew spanish to mingle with the colombianas lol.
Chasing ultimate greed and lust is like chasing ghosts. It’s never satisfying enough. There’s always better. You need God brother
That’s what Miami really sounds like.
You sound weak. Imagine substituting what makes us human which is chasing strength and prosperity just for you to get on your knees and submit to a God daddy that doesn’t exist because you need someone to save you. You need the gym, and when that weight you’re benching doesn’t go up no matter how hard you for cry for a savior god won’t help you, only yourself. For those who understand grow stronger and make your bloodline strong. Don’t chase “ghosts.” There’s nothing wrong with wanting to improve and attract women. This is how we survive as a species and is encoded in us.
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I stopped watcging a long time ago i merly just came across this video
@@Theohybrid Andrew Tate said its a soulless city
I’ve lived in Miami for 30 years and I’ve had a ton of “hot girls” funny I can barely remember any of them. I’m 46 successful older (400k a year) man now and realize that a good woman and a family is what truly makes you rich! Too much focus on Money and pussy nowadays focus on family, friends and health happiness will come in abundance!
400k post tax? 😂
@@ME-ls9de even pre tax aint bad, florida dont got crazy taxes
Basically everyone is competing for the same type of woman in Miami.
Exactly! It’s pretty stupid lol
Cali girls too
And all the women want the same Top 10% men
In conclusion, Miami is definitely not the ideal place to start any type of serious relationship or long distance relationship.😂 Solely for partying.
Fit chasing waterfalls. smh dude says he's competing to get women that Athletes get smh you'll never make as much money or have the access or resources those guys have😅 chasing ghosts
I grew up in a Miami, it’s cool for the hustle, but at this point it’s for rich people, it’s not really the place to go to build, you go there after you have some success and network from there.
Lived in Florida for 10 years lived in Miami for six. It’s got overcrowded and became the new LA with a bunch of superficial people and scammers… Move to Colorado bought a nice house more of an outdoorsy activity guy then paying hundreds of dollars at a nightclub, it’s not worth it. It’s fun to visit but living here… Don’t do it.
everyone is leaving miami
Miami is a dump
Thanks, agree 💯
Even Colorado is turning into the same thing. It's like LA in the snowy hills
@@GloFazo ehhh many Denver not where I am
Comparing yourself is the thief of happiness
Not in Miami! 😂😂 I’m born and raised there and he’s 100% right. It’s an extremely competitive city! Either rise to the top or get left behind.
@@mikea.4477 and a lotta mf's die young from that unnecessary stress........There's more to life then some of that superficial bullshit
@@mikea.4477compete with who? There is no competition if you enjoy yourself
@@Blackice850 your exactly right
If you don't compete, how do you even achieve success?
FITX really levelled up his looks and content over the years, respect.
He still needs to height max, he's only 5 foot 7, my last girlfriend was taller than he is...he's short no way around that.
Fitx says he has more success with Miami women. That seems a highly unlikely claim given the fact he cold approached 100 Miami women and they all rejected him. 100 percent failure rate.
I don't see how that proves Fitx is successful with women. It actually suggests the opposite!
I don't wish to be harsh on Fitx but a failure rate of 100 percent is kinda a red flag. It doesn't prove you have any game nor any expertise in dating women.
Yeah he used to have 🐴 face and 5kg lips
@@bryceherring946he’s 5’5
@@YTguySmithy-lk6go cold approach wise fitx got no game. But that’s better bc you can learn and get better at game 100%
I spent a lot of years in Miami. I was shredded. Getting women was easy. Especially during spring break
I don’t remember missing in Miami lol 😂
You just have carry a decent amount of cash for drinks and clubs though.
I think what he’s saying is getting the top 1% of women not just the gender women .
But finding a wife is hard.
@@tidey4 Back in my day it wasn't a problem. But today is a whole different animal.
I bet the easiest girls to pull are the ones vacationing in miami VS the locals. You might be a superstar in a girls eyes thats from Nebraska. Plus, we already know about "girls trips".
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Yes sir
Nebraska you don't feel like you're in a third world country
Hawaii is the same way. I was stationed there while in the Navy. Tourists were the best!
I’m single and if I’m making six figures I’m staying near a small town and getting a strong 6 female. I don’t need a woman that is surrounded by “ballers.” More then likely ur around women that have way too much experience and r ran thru. Take ur six figures be in a small city or town and enjoy ur peace instead of trying to compete with a whole bunch of men who have way more then u
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Strong 7*
Face doesn't even have to be that good I just want a nice body. And she's in control of what her body looks like, it's insane how many women in modern society completely let themselves go and still can pull a high value mate.
But even harder to find is a girl with any sense of morality. If she thinks cheating is liberation, and not a mortal sin, we're inherently incompatible. Unfortunately, there's very few religious women these days.
I already got the 6 figures thing handled. I have a very active dating life, but quality of character is a serious issue. But yea, as soon as I find that solid 6 woman with real morals, I'm buying some land out in the middle of nowhere and we'll peacefully live out our days comparing ourselves to no one and chasing after nothing.
This guy is living a a fantasy world… you DO NOT need to impress anybody BUT YOURSELF young man!!
I think he seeks validation from women constantly because hes short
He ain’t lying, Miami is the new Hollywood🙅🏾♂️pure rich folks, Michael Jordan, and tiger woods live there.
Messi, Tom Brady, Jeff Bezos, J Lo, Lil Wayne, there’s ALOT of celebrities that have a home or atleast a second home in South Florida
miami is broke dude
@@jaycasado5029 lil wayne lleft miami for LA years ago
@@jaycasado5029 miami isnt shit to la
@@SA-hz1rs Still has a condo there. Drake too
Working on urself & focusing on ur purpose gets u everywhere No matter where u are!!
Fitxfearless, you have no idea about Miami. As a local Miamian I can tell you a few things accurate about Miami..
1. Brickell is only a small place full of part timers who live in Miami and are not locals,or are new to Miami and exploring around and some are tourists just trying to experience the hype of Miami.
2. Miami has alot affordable places all you have to do is go west of Brickell and your money will stretch further out.
3. The real people with money are located in Gables, West Miami, Bay Harbor, Key Biscayne, Brickell Key, Fisher Island, Venetian Island, West Doral, West Kendall, South Miami, Pinecrest, and Miami Lakes.
4. You dont need to be shreded or look like model type to get girls in Miami. Just go west my man, and you will see so many, short, fat, ugly, regular, nerdy dudes with beautiful local girls. Theres an abundance of Miamian girls on the west side of Brickell that look like 10+ with regular broke dudes or dudes who make a decent 6 figure income.
5. Yes you can live on 6 figure income in Miami and still survive. You just got to know where to spend it and where to rent or buy.
6. Miami has 75% of fake millionaire or fake it till you make it people. The other 25% lives in does area I mentioned on #3.
7. Girls are very easy to get here in Miami especially the locals, you don't need a yacht or helicopter or a Lambo, just confidence and high self esteem.
8. Eat and drink where the locals hang in Brickell not the flashy restaurants and bars, and your money will stretched.
I’m from Miami but live in Seattle now. I will say Miami is very motivating to get your ish together.
miami is broke dude
I like the honesty in this clip.
Four months isn't enough. You haven't lived in Miami yet. It just gets way worse LOL
He moved back to Miami and been back for only 4 months.
Miami is the greatest city in the world
Miami is super amazing but homeboy is sugar coating it quite a bit. Also good luck competing with Heats players if all you got is a YT channel and some PUA coaching, no offense
BS! I live in Miami 10 years and i loved!
The most superficial place. No depth or substance not a true melting pot. Everyone tries so hard to be like NY. Even at NYs worst it’s still better than the trash that is MIA. Most low vibrational deplorable people. Miami used to be somewhat chill place to visit not to live and now not even to visit. If you’re superficial shallow person it’s the ideal place for you
The girls trip thing is so true. I’ve never been to Miami but I’ve worked and spent a lot of time in Nashville. My G’s, if your wife to be or your girl is a bridesmaid and she’s going to Nashville, she ain’t your girl. There’s a reason why Nashville has more male strip clubs than female strip clubs. I was invited to bachelorette after parties multiple times and it is truly appalling.
Yup , Nashville is the new Vegas so to speak .. in my eyes it's pure trash .. city of sin
FIT, sorry brother, let me give it to you 💯 as a US born dude with dual Colombian citizenship born and raised in Miami. The main thing is the elephant in the room. Miami as a multicultural city is WAY ahead in dating opposite race than Colombia. You mentioned women are more “traditional” in Colombia, that includes they still look for white boys. White Americans with blue eyes have NO PROBLEM finding a Colombian girl in Colombia. Straight talk and it is what it is.
Good comment
Maybe colombian girls are looking for a white guy but in realtiy they looking for someone that is religious again that's only for half of those women but pretty much Colombia is a religious and christian coutnry for most of the population due to watching those 4k videos and believe me the nightlife is all family bro. they are also looking for someone that can speak Spanish intermmediate or fluently and understnad the Pisa culture not just for white guys same goes with black guys and Latino men too (although preferrably since Colombia and colombia or latino men are very relatably but not a guarantee).
Colombias are not looking for white guys. Where u get that?
EXACTLY!
That is true for all of Latin America, not just Colombia.
So I've moved to Miami 4 years ago from NYC and by the looks of things you and I are neighbors. Looks like ur a block away. That said, most of the points you made are spot on. I found it to be easy af to pick up girls here compared with NY, I'm a 6 foot dude about 200 pounds. The 6 figure thing u mentioned is also accurate. I make over 200 grand and still feels like it's kinda tight but I love the life out here.
Lol you make over $200k and you feel tight living here you say? Guess you don't know how to manage yr money lol
@@bballah9969 keyboarding shit starts. 😂
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Care to clarify what you said? Cause how can you be broke making $200k unless you lying and working at Wendy's 😂
@bballah9969 when ull get there ull understand. 200k might sound like a lot of dough but it's not. Especially after 3 years of high inflation
@@dmitriya4670
Well I can't honestly speak because I don't know your lifestyle but still in Miami, FL and even in the US the percentage of people that make six figures is very low. I only have saved $450k and own two condos free and clear and I feel comfortable but by all means I don't feel wealthy or rich. I also don't live an extravagant lifestyle with super cars, boats, vacation homes, luxury vacations etc. I live a modest life sir
I don't give a f if a woman doesn't want me because I don't have s lot of money, don't drive a Lambo and don't wear a Rollex. I'll Keep wearing a G-Shock like a "peasant", it's ok. Continue to workout and stay fit is a must tho.
Rock the shit out of a $12 Walmart watch.😂😂 I’m just trying to keep time.
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Bro who gives af what women think? 😂 live your lives fellas. If you can live a BETTER quality of life for LESS, then DO IT. Don't let "society" tell you that you need to have outrageous overhead and debt just to prove to a broad you are valuable
Facts. Miami women aren’t worth it. Any woman you can find in Miami, you can find for a cheaper rate in another city.
@@JimastaJ that's true, and for the guys that do p4p more power to them. I meant living a better quality of life as far as not having to be in the rat-race of the western lifestyle. Yall boys burning the candle at both ends & going to an early grave trying to out-do the next man for some broads that's just gonna up and leave if the ends get low anyway. It doesn't make sense. When you could comfortably live a better life, with less stress overseas somewhere for a fraction of the cost
And they're doing all these things and still don't have meaningful, worthwhile relationships.
How are you so successful with women everywhere you go and can't get one solid girlfriend?
It's not a flex to sleep with women who sleep around. You think she's on your roster when you're really on hers.
@@JimastaJThey are all literally hos
@@keving.2983…..just came from Poblado Medellin. One year from retirement home paid for , rolodex stuffed with feminine dimes, no resting bit#% faces ,Money long there ate good lost weight. Still at that age where I can get at it man gonna get me a place there and move. Set up some rentals here in the states with the pension I get I’ll live like a king. Man I fuc%#^* made it.
Florida to expensive
Fake instagram life
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Not for me, the juice ain't worth the squeeze
This is the end all, be all right here. Makes no sense to compete for something thats simply not worth it.
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Only 7% of Miami residents are millionaires and .0003% are billionaires. I believe (correct me if I'm wrong) the average income is less than 50k. In Brickell y'all are basically cut off from real life lol It's not Miami that makes you feel broke, it's the seclusion of Brickell. Yes...most are definitely faking, but not the way you think. The thing is they are rich enough to pretend to be even richer. There are people there who make 300k+/year that can easily be or PRETEND to be a millionaire. That skews the perception, but since most people will never make 300k/year it might as well be a million to the average person 😂
Yep!
💯 ...people don't know that money works exponentially. Just having "a little bit more money" can finance an exponentially more expensive lifestyle...it is not quite "50k millionaires", but yeah...a ton of people that haven't seen anywhere near a million dollar income can pretend to be in those leagues. Eventually bankruptcies give away who was playing being rich with a high income and tons of credit access.
He speaking no lies about girl trips!! Smh I live in Atlanta.. it’s not even Miami.. but it’s another spot women take trips to why!? For the strip club and night life reputation.. soo they coming here FOR THE ACTION!!! trust and believe.. if ur woman even wanna go on girl trips then ur relationship is already OVER FAM
Don't save her
@@TheyCallMe_TC facts
Eehh some girls go on trips with their friends because it’s the only time they can hang. But that’s only for women that are married and have kids. Culture matters.
I’m from atl it’s literally the black Miami without a beach shout to atl tho 🤘🏿🤘🏿🤘🏿
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I’ve been living in Miami for 12 years. I live near the beach. I like to be able to run by the water. So meditative. Definitely promotes an active lifestyle. As far as the materialism, my car is paid off. My mom and I live together to help me save. I’m 6’1, 190, black male. I can get girls if I want, but I’m trying to change my career after getting laid off in 2023. My focus is not the girls. Stay on your purpose fellas. If you worship the materialistic lifestyle. It will eat you alive. Someone will always one up you.
As far as the Colombia thing, I’ve never been. But I’ve been to 10 countries mostly in Asia and I was treated very well.
FYI the real wealth is in West Palm Beach. Not Miami.
I understand exactly what you saying when it comes to MAKING MONEY ! It’s just like living in soho nyc ! You have to make money ! But other than that , life is better outside of America !
The new America dream is to leave America …….
Miami hasn't changed since the 90's. I used to tell my boys from up north (Philly, New York), that before you get married, you have to go to Miami to experience the women and lifestyle. You will get laid with ease and the women are hot. Listen, when you go to certain malls, it's like going to club. And FITX is right about the club scene. It's lively and it never stops. You can be overwhelmed if you're not used to it.
Fitx, about Colombia, it's not that just because you're not from there. Another main reason is because a lot of foreign men that go to colombia are low quality, so they tend to put all foreign men in the same boat. Being an american in argentina, brazil, or mexico, doesn't get the same negative reaction (yet) as Colombia.
So why don't you get the same negative reaction from Argentina, Brazil, Mexico if your American but in Colombia you do? This comment makes absolutely no sense whatsoever and yes I'm Colombian so I want to hear your take.
@@bballah9969 Then let me explain it for you. One reason is, in Colombia (esp MED and CTG, but not necessarily BOG), there is a general presumption that gringos are s3x tourists or only there for women. In the other places, that presumption does not normally exist. So in Colombia, as a foreigner, you can tend to be looked at as suspect, at least initially.
Colombia is done. Dunno why guys keep going there.
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Lol you know nothing
@@bballah9969 man yapping and sthu
As someone who grew up in Miami and moved 6 months ago, everything he said in part 4 & part 5 is dead on. It super competitive and you better get hip to the idea of competiting in every facet of your life; income, body, investing, networking, how you dress, the place you live, what you drive... it all matters.
Doesn't matter your feelings on how you think it should be, it matters what the reality is.
The lambos and APs are cool but a family is the equalizer a family who listens to you and respect you
Funny video with some Valid points. Miami is not a city for love so don’t look for it. In Brickell it’s a radius of everyone not from Miami who now live in Miami and so the interactions with women are alot different than say 2015. I lived in Miami my whole life and love the new drop of women moving in from Texas , Cali , New York , overseas , etc. they treat you different than the REAL Miami women. Move to Miami don’t live in an overpriced area like Brickell. Go to north Miami , north Miami Beach , Hollywood. You’ll save a whole lot more money and can definitely enjoy the perks on a budget.
That girls trip is so true I grew up in Florida and I would go to Miami for the weekend 6 to 7 hour drive easy. Get a room for three days and only messed with chick who said they in town for x days. Clap clap clap clap drive back home to jville. This was early 2000s when I was just an assistant manager at smoothie king😂.Now we got airbnb too. Free lunch for me
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Living in Europe for most of my life and went to my first time ever to America was south beach Miami and immediately fell in love with the city vibe, of course everything looks better on vacation but still great place to be,,expensive yes but so is whole western Europe,,very funny how you storytell your experiences, take care
Miami is not the place to be if you want to experience a different level of life.... just a bunch of people running around spending unnecessary money trying to impress each other
Sounds like Dubai
@@classic595 Nope in Dubai women throw themselves at you if you have money no matter your looks, height, and age. Lots of women come to Dubai to try and marry a rich guy. Miami is another level. Women who come there just want to smash the hottest guy, ride the yachts, and party. You gotta have everything or either go the sugar daddy route like most do. If you have a nice yacht you can smash a few girls a day in Miami. I lived in both places and Dubai was a cake walk compare to Miami where I was almost invisible due to being only 5'7 even though I was in great shape and wealthy.
Like NYC...and Dallas....and LA...and DC....
Born and raised here, he’s right about the women there’s a lot and they’re beautiful and you run through enough of em you realize it’s all bullshit without true love
I might disagree with some shit here and there but I think your perspective is one of the most real and beneficial, compared to most.
I’ve lived in Miami my whole life your right the friend group part is right I’ve had so many different type of friends gang members, drug dealers, normal people, million airs, so many different type of people so u need years of experience so hope u keep enjoying my city 🌆 305 till i die I used to be heavy in the party scene that club u said i been to i used to be a promoter but honestly bro I found Jesus and is the best advice I can give u I’ve had the girls the money it’s temporarily fun but Jesus is the truth to fully fill that emptiness we all have I know u said u been here for 4 months I’m telling u if you’re without Jesus between the new people u meet girls guys the drugs and the party scene will eventually suck u in. So accept Jesus if u haven’t and your life will be the best u can have in Miami take it from me bro I’ve lived here my whole life it’s literally the only way. Just try it because without Jesus is very very very very dangerous I’ve lost so many boys, ex gfs I love you all but remember Jesus Loves You more forget about the material temporary things Miami is full of fake ppl fake Rolex rentals fake girls to set u up 🆙 so keep your head on a swivel 👍🏻 ps I’m 28 btw just of anyone wonders cause I said I been here my whole life ❤
I'm 6'4, 230 lbs, average build. I wear shirts and pants from Ross and Burlington when I visit Miami and I still slay down there.
Ahh yeah cause your 6'4 😅
It’s better to be your self n not chase other people , chase personal success
6 figures is broke? 100k sure, but anything in 300k and you good Some forget what 6 figures is, 100k to 999k. With almost a mil a year, you can ball like insane in miami. Hermozi did a nice video that with 300k you can live billionaire life style. 7-10k month amazing apartment. 2-3k bentley/Porsche etc lease. 100k private flights (4-6 flights a year), one rental of nice yacht.
I’m so glad I’m secure within myself and don’t go around. wondering what other people are thinking or not thinking of me. being me and doing me is good enough wherever I am.
Love the energy of hustle being put out. Elevate
At 9:42. I believe him when he says you need more than just being well off. The issue is basic broke women think they are worth that. Most women the average guy thinks is an 8 or a 9, in reality is a 5 or 6. Its just when guys are horny, desperate or the women are just playing hard to get, we as men give in too much and push their rank way higher.
He not lying about the party life down there they have multiple 24/7 clubs it’s overwhelming
Fitx's business model: shame men into "grinding" to get women, when the truth is that there's no guarantee any of that will pay off. Spend years in the gym, "hustling", "grinding", for what? For what actually? What's the prize? Get the attention of people who don't give a fuck about you?
Pretty much. But judging by his apartment, the business model seems to be working. Lots of naive young guys falling for this stuff
Yep. Looks like he watched F&F and is trying to create a less-asshole version of their ‘advice’. Still a phony; just another variant. And his problems with women is because he’s still too street - he’ll talk normally for a few sentences then start talking like he’s a…
1:48 HOLY SHIT BRO YOU JUST VERBALIZED MY EXACT SAME EXPERIENCE. I've been told I'm a ridiculously attractive guy and I'm living in Chattanooga TN. I have the EXACT same experience that you said here. The girls think I'm weird for being here and that alone gives them an excuse to not mess with me. That's why I'm moving to Miami too and I can't wait.
You still live in chatt? Weird to see locals randomly on UA-cam 😂
@@Chris37555 lol yeah i moved here from NJ in 2020 and then i leveled up like crazy now everyone thinks i’m too good to be living here 🤷🏽♂️ Miami it is.
@@AB-yr2eo if you’re still in town let’s link!
Boy knocking down them Brainerd h**s😂😂😂
@@AB-yr2eo howd you level up lol
I’m from Miami it’s funny if you live in Brickell, Wynwood, Downtown, Miami Beach etc. you can get caught up in Clubs, Flashy overpriced Restaurants and temporary friendships You need discipline. Fits live in the heart of Miami it’s upper middle class. Miami Beach islands, Coral Gables, Coconut grove, Boca Raton etc are extremely rich families.
@9:20 “who are also in good shape good looking lambo ain’t enough” Fresh Walter enters the chat 🤣🤣he has a rotation of 5 and he don’t have all you mentioned. I think some of the pressure in that sense you put on yourself tbh but it’s a good thing because you’re always striving for better 👌
Good comparison, I forgot all about Fresh. He even admitted that he’s not attractive, and he’s unfit but hopefully improving. But he has Money!! So yeah it’s possible to have beautiful women with Just money Alone. At the same time, always strive to be the best version of yourself, otherwise those “rotations” will start to hypergamize themselves into new D**k.
He pays and tricks with gifts. Y'all can't be that naive. He's got a rotation of ESCORTS
@@user69964 mate show me a beautiful high maintenance woman who you won’t spend money on ? Every guy knows if you’re dealing with these types of women you’ll always be spending money.
Fresh is a big trick. He’s paying LoL all those girls are from sugar dating sites
Yeah but Fresh is a known trick. What good is having a rotation of women who are just good diggers and clout chasers?
I lived in Miami Beach for only a month. That's all I needed. Tv , music, and movies glamorize it but the energy is actually pretty dark and gritty in nature.
same it was awful
Moving out of Miami as we currently speak because if you really have money like that why tf would you choose Miami when you could get so much more for your money elsewhere in the Caribbean and not have to deal with the crime and traffic 💀
Traffic everywhere lol
Curious to know where you moving to?
That place doesnt exist anymore
Caribbean has more crime than Miami
Smart guy
Yo i can tell yall Fit ain’t lying this shit is crazy fr fr, i see it everyday, especially on spring break.
5:00 true, but if you in to your bag, just go Brickell City Center and hang out there by the co-working space. Stay away from the clubs, majority of them in to some sort of ish. If they doing luxury rentals (cars, yachts, villas, etc) it is a cover for something more sinister. What I really did when I got there, was hang with real estate agents, they well connected with both high end customers and people.
Grew up there, yes there are people who are extremely rich, but the majority of the people are just faking it and living off debt. Rich rich are the people who live in Gables by the Sea, Cocoplum, and the private islands.
It’s easy to get girls that are flying in for a few days. “Weekend warriors” if you will. Miami natives or transplants that are now Miami-ized are not easy to get for the average guy
Close to 6 figures a year for an apartment? If 6 figures is $100,000, lets just assume you're paying $80,000 - $90,000 a year for your apartment since he said "close to 6 figures." That's $6,666 to $7,500 a month. Do you really need to spend $7,500 a month on an apartment to live in Miami? Because if so, that's even worse than New York. That much money to RENT a place is just outlandish, and if you're paying that much to RENT a place, you might as well buy a place and pay a mortgage.
That part!!! 💯💯
It’s all about appearances. Insanity. They can do that but you won’t be able to say you live in a high rise condo downtown.
Yes, he’s BS’ing. Or trying to act wealthier than he is. I bet most women who first meet him think he’s not straight.
Living in Manhattan - amplify everything he's saying 2x. Very competitive environment
Nonsense. Miami is straight up the more expensive, luxurious, and superficial city.
I remember wanting to move to New York for a job. After 5 minutes on my calculator it looked like I’d have been paying to work there 😂
no
I really don’t think foreign women think something is wrong with you
@AustonHolleman Everything is wrong with u
AUSTON YOU GOTTA LEVEL UP BRO INSTEAD OF COMPLAINING
I BET YOU SHOCK ITS GUYS HERE GETTING THEIR WAY
I BELIEVE IN YOU BUT YOU DONT HAVE MUCH PATIENCE TO GROW
GOING OVERSEAS WONT FIX ANYTHING.
YOU STILL THE GUY AMERICAN WOMEN DIDN'T WANT.
IF THOSE FOREIGN GIRLS WERE HERE MAYBE THEY'LL TREAT YOU THE SAME AS AMERICAN GIRLS...
IF NOT GO SOMEWHERE WHERE FOREIGNERS HAVE MONEY AND SEE HOW THEY TREAT YOU WHEN THEY DONT NEED YOU
I also think American women have their guard up more than any other nationality
@@AustonHolleman they do brother
That's why you got to get to know them
Genuinely and have a social life because they like to have fun
@@AustonHolleman you can do it bro don't be so negative
Keep it Playa
If we not getting our way it's something we not doing right
Take it as a challenge brother
No more of this depress stuff enjoy life
You a handsome young man
The world is yours fam
Lol man number four couldn't be further from the truth homie you're totally wrong Fit! I have lived and gone to school here in Miami Beach my whole life and I can honestly tell you, yes the cost of living in the 80's, 90's and today has gone up significantly just like in every city and country around the world due to inflation. Gas was $.99 cents decades ago now it's over $3. To say you need seven figures to live in Miami is absolutely ridiculous and it's a total lie and couldn't be further from the truth. If you make $40-100k a year or anywhere between those numbers you can afford to live here but of course it all depends on your spending habits and lifestyle. Fit the reality is many adults and kids are living with roommates and even there parents in order to make ends meet this is the truth and it's the reality. You can rent an apartment here for $1700 a month easily now if you want to live it up you can easily pay $3-4k plus for rent but you would be stupid to do so unless you are actually a ballah and don't care. And the reality is if your rich or a ballah it's because you were smart with your money. The lambos and McLarens and mansions and high end multi million dollar apartments are all from very wealthy high net worth individuals and from generational wealth. Wealth is not created overnight remember that. Also Besos said it online that he got tired of living on the West Coast he's no longer the CEO of Amazon and decided to move back to Miami to be closer to his parents and he grew up here and went to school here as well. The rich people from California and NY moved here due to companies like Citadel relocating to South Florida and the employees moved with the company obviously taxes and cost of living here is cheaper than those states I previously mentioned. Also star island, fisher island, Indian Creek country club where Bezos Carl Ichan, Julio Iglesias,Tom Brady, etc live all these places you mentioned are for exclusively millionaires and billionaires which you and I aren't and there not for the average Joe so why even talk about that and compare yourself to the wealthy and elite? It's just ridiculous man seriously lol
true 100k on rent alone is retarded.
yeah he's actually delusional i've noticed when it comes to this topic. it's like he has no clue what is a normal style of living. This is what I call toxic self-improvement. It's when you take self-improvement so seriously that you forget to soak in life and just be content. When will people understand? If you cant be happy with 100k and a nice condo, you WILL not be happy with a million dollars and a bugatti. Money only takes away anxiety if you're poor, otherwise it's useless.
@@loverofhumanity
Exactly well said my friend you said it perfectly
@@loverofhumanity Fit hasnt figured that out yet.
I live in NY and I can say cities like Miami and where I’m from will motivate you to get ur life together but that also comes with many distractions.
I’m goin on my first trip to Miami next week for fresh and fits live event. They thought my voice was cap when I would call in since it’s really deep. So imma prove em wrong lol. Plus it might be good for exposure in terms of getting my voice out there. Can’t wait
Prove they goofy asses wrong and get out there it maybe your time. When it's your time it's time ⏲️
I remember you!
@@crispin_21 lol I cannot wait to prove them wrong. Imma be like aye Myron can you help me find my voice changer? 😂
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@@megaman2016 ?
Brickell is like influencer land living wise. The real money is in coral Gables in south Miami, Adventura up North or South Pointee right by South beach. Literally have millionaire condos there where everyone has Rolls and bentleys
I'm in Europe but Brickell and Miami overall looks like the best place to live in the US besides NYC
@@trxndesign3331 as a Miami local I would say it just depends where in Miami you want to live. Brickell is a good option but there’s also Brickell Key as well. Which in my opinion, is definitely better.
who cares. Dont get too jealous. All that shit is meaningless at the end. My dad was a multimillionaire (20 million USD) most miserable guy id ever met. None of his wealth followed him to the grave.
@@loverofhumanity what in this comment section translates to jealously? Also, just because his wealth did made him miserable or lead to that doesn’t mean the same for others 😂
@@AlexVega1998 never seen anyone prove it wrong. Money is like health. Having it doesn't make you happy but not having it makes you miserable. Studies upon studies prove it.
Born and raised in Miami , it has definitely changed in the last 5 years , don’t get me wrong it always had a “rich flashy” aspect to it but now it’s insane it’s becoming the new New York more and more high rises and prices on living going up more and more , it’s better to live on the outskirts of downtown,brickell , Miami Beach and just got visit from here and there for a nice dinner or just a walk around
Born and raised in Miami I’m never leaving
I'm from Dade county, i better not see you around here
@@anti-narc1343😂😂😂
lol I don’t blame you.. the women and weather is unmatched compared to the rest of the country.
As a reminder, the ONLY person you're competing with is yourself. Your scale is NOT others. . .it's MASLOW.
Bro I grew up in Costa Rica all my life & I've had no success. Went 1 year to the US, and in less than a month girls was on me. Idk what's going on😭
kinda real
W video! Great perspective on miami G. Took the advice
I had my homegirl move to Miami it’s been a year and she’s moving back next month 😆🤦🏽♂️ she said women are fake and dudes are assholes and when she lived in Portland most guys wanted her so the level changes for everyone and having friends is a must in a place like Florida. In most states you need two friends and your family and you can make it in Miami you need a NETWORK of ppl and no family
lol my homegirl did the same thing. She moved back to Austin after a year i was hoping she would stay longer so i had a place to crash ha. She said the same thing she couldnt get no attention down there you gotta be on top of your game lol.
Bro being in shape only makes you stand out when your face is busted or you are short 😂😭just having money in MIA will get you girls most of you guys who live out there pay for it anyways they don’t care my G
That last "Miami" video was vulnerable. Definitely appreciate the honesty, about to get into this one.
I love it here..been here 3 years...as someone whose traveled outside the country for 10 plus years I don't have trouble anywhere..also he's right about women who come here to visit..trust me I KNOW.
You can't fake it in Miami, everything is expensive.
miami income is 50k bud. Its basically detroit
Jesus Christ is Lord Jesus Christ is love you guys, seek him before it’s too late 🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏻
Sounds like a nightmare. Hard pass.
For real. So much vanity living like that in constant competition to try to compete with multi millionaires and billionaires sounds horrible lol.
Thats exactly why you should live there
@@ALsn-xz9ix lmaooooo trust me fitx is jokes when he compares his life to millionaires and then belittles his work. Like dude just be content. Trust me that never ending comparison is the worst way to live your life. Someone will always be better than you. Learn to work hard but also appreciate and value yourself. Understand, that some will be better always and some are far worse off so be grateful.
@@loverofhumanityYes bro is top 1 percent of men talking about how he's feels like he's behind that's toxic
Living in NY or Miami will have you thinking about money and hustling everyday. I'm from NY and when you walk down Park Avenue, it screams to you, I must get my weight up and start doing more. Miami, especially Brickell has that exact vibe.
FITXFEARLESS - Would you say you need a minimum of $15,000/ month or that's on the super low side? I'm curious.
That isn’t normal. Why even try to live like that.
@@ALsn-xz9ix it depends on your perspective. It's normal to a lot of people.
@@ALsn-xz9ix I think the competition is good to push you as a young man. Then when you're ready to start a family move somewhere more sane and wholesome.
@@awakenedsystems i disagree. its actually toxic as hell especially for your mental health. Comparison in general is just silly. You'll always have people richer than you. Better looking than you etc. All it does is make you think you dont have any value. Makes you feel small and inferior. Never have that attitude in life. Have money to be comfortable. yes, ofcourse but understand that ultimately its all just pretend. Society in general is just making up #'s and jobs. Your value is determined by your bravery and ability to live authentically. Your thoughts imho are the only valuable thing you own.
Bro, Im NYC native born and raised. But theres a big difference between NYC vs LA, Miami, ATL, Vegas etc. NYC dont do : "fake it until you make it". Either you really got it like that or you dont.
The completion is inspirational but I would never move to a place like Miami tbh. I’d rather be in a lower competition place personally. Have the Miami mindset but not actually be there.
I have lived in the Miami area for 10 and a half years and most of what you say is accurate
Most people in Colombia can’t even speak english that well, unless you know spanish or something I have no clue how that was ever going to work, huge cultural difference as well
He speaks fluent Spanish though and I’m pretty sure he lived there for like 3 years or something like that
@@ALsn-xz9ix like I said, “unless you know spanish”, either way there’s a cultural barrier, he’s not Colombian, unless he was raised there he would have to live there for maybe 15 years to get fully entrenched in culture and everything
I get what you’re trying to say but I think you’re wrong. A lot of women in these 3rd world countries like foreign men specifically because they’re foreign lol. A lot of them are attracted to the exotic aspect of dating someone different, and yes some do associate being American with automatically having money but it’s still attraction nonetheless. If these women only wanted to date their own men from their countries that they’re already familiar with, the whole passport bro movement wouldn’t be a thing to begin with.
@@ALsn-xz9ix you’re missing the mark on this, the whole “passport bro movement” is predicated on finding quality women somewhere else, when in reality most of them just want a way out of their home country or a green card, it’s all a sham. If you’ve lived long enough you know most people, including women, will gravitate to others that have stuff in common with them, thats just how it is. There might be a situation where maybe theres a foreigner that is extremely attractive to a woman and they hit it off, but all things being equal, if a woman finds a man from her own country that is just as good looking and rich as the foreigner, she’ll stick with the man from her own country. Familiarity and things in common are stuff people want, why would anyone want to go to some other unknown country, leave your family, learn this other language and culture because of a guy, when they wouldnt have to go through all of that if they were to find a guy fron their own country who’s just as rich and handsome??
@@Dean543-cc3fd agree with you. All evidence indicates your correct. People will almost always be more attracted/marry to those they have things in common with.
He's absolutely correct. If you get in the wrong friend group here in Miami, it WILL ruin your life. I was born & raised here in Miami, I should know.
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Club Space is insane.
Sounds like a pretty degenerate place
Yeah, bbl empire
Ikr who in their right mind would want to live there. I guess if you’re super rich you’d love it but for the average guy it sounds like hell lol
@@cu11en76nasty work
any big city in the west is vapid and awful. The best people you'll ever meet are actually in more isolated areas generally speaking. You will feel more love in a community of 100 people than in a city of millions. And it makes sense, since you'd probably have to have no soul to be able to integrate in these soulless and vapid cities.
@@ALsn-xz9ix I live in a very small town in France and i feel like these people live in a different dimension
I really enjoy visiting Miami!!! Good times always
Miami seems to be place great for highly ambitious people. Sounds like a firestorm.
ambition lmaoooooo
I lived in NYC, Miami and now I’m in Medellin. If I would make lots of cash , I’d just be living in Colombia where everything is cheap , find a good woman who’s not too spoiled (very hard to do in Medellin though) and live in a peaceful neighbourhood close to nature. In Miami your girl is gonna look at the Lambos and yachts and keep thinking that maybe she can get a better man …You can never be the richest or the most muscular or ripped, there will always be someone better looking and with much more cash than you are. … Cool video bro, keep them coming 💪😎
As a Canadian, I've noticed women openly checking me out more. It was surprising, I'm still not sure why but it's reassuring lol
How do u know they’re checking u out
@@Flawlessofwgkta Because they're openly doing it, so it's clear.
@@Leukick I’m asking how just making eye contact could mess up scary
@@Leukick *mean
Women’s demeanor in Miami vs New York (where I live currently) is night & day. In Miami I’ve had 10s- shit maybe even 11s- basically falling in lap. In New York women are not like that at all… sure some may come up to you but the ones that do are usually 7s at best or slightly older… in Miami, a girl will be 23, crazy body and sexy as hell walking up to ask your name and be down for whatever by the end of the night
And the irony is one of those 10s I was with in Miami was actually visiting there from New York, so there’s definitely something about Miami specifically that changes the way women choose to interact-they become much more open and wanting to approach you.
guarantee here in New York that same girl would have not been moving like I was water in a desert… the gender politics are different, out here women are much more on guard
Imagine paying 6 figures just in rent alone 😮 mfs gonna go broke and have no life savings / retirement plan
😂😂i think its still a flex but flexing on who
Love "That Fire"!
Bruh you stayed in the main cities medellin and bogota the whole time. You know how big and diverse colombia is? You gotta travel around the country to say that colombia wasnt as good as miami. When i was in the smaller cities and towns it was easy to pick up girls, i might look a little bit colombian but everyone could tell i was a foreigner based off my style and accent. Colombia is 1000× better for dating than american its also way cheaper, women are more beautiful, nature is amazing, ive always felt safe there and its generally a incredible country. Btw if you making 6 figures a year in colombia youre living like a prince, a 3k to 6k a month apartment in miami will give you a pretty big house or even rent for a mansion in colombia. Colombia tops all of miami and rest of u.s.a ten fold.
Bro he’s scamming don’t listen to this pos . I was carefree a and dating wa set better he just another agent to keep u trapped in This hellhole so he can sell dtaing courses .
No it doesn’t. Maybe in terms of women, but what about the crime for one? Also, you don’t have access to so much stuff that you have access to in America. Hence why Columbia is considered a 3rd world country and why so many people from South America are trying to immigrate to the US. People always talk about how it’s so cheap in countries like Columbia but never think critically and ask themselves why that is. Not trying to hate, I’m sure its a beautiful country with great people, but let’s not kid ourselves lol
@@ALsn-xz9ix Pretty sure its like London but in a high volume of Crime but it's simple to take precuation since I haven't visited the country myself. Bear that In mind I've been to Somalia the most poorest country and yet It's still safe than London but not much cos of infrastructure and roads that is dangerous itself and Turkey Istanbul where you know it's safe but Pickpockters was a problem.
Expect the same as Colombia almost the same rate as Somalia but is like Turkey in terms of bringing new stuff into table and still trying to work out safety for new people to come. London is nowhere near like Medellin but it's exactly the same as London where I haven't been robbed or stabbed so I would just walk around Medellin with caution and just be a normal guy and then it would be good.
Notice how these youtubers mysteriously supposedly have money, but nobody ever knows how they get it? They never talk about it? UA-cam adsense don't pay that much
Facts the other day i went to Fisher island for a meeting,when i go back home ,i told my brother we’re not broke,we’re poor. I live in Fort Lauderdale beach by the water i thought it was cool 😂… When i was on the boat to go to the island i was surrounded with RR, range rover,bentley,and a bugatti.
Miami was a small beach town Ghost town and then one day Columbian smugglers decided to use that place as an entry point into the U.S. coke market. They began to poor that money into the Miami economy. As it gew it atrracted Americans to it and it became the city that it is today, the lavish life capital of the United States.
Miami is just like any city that people come and visit. How long is your money and can you stay consistent with your money.
I’m born and raised in south Florida. Miami is nice to go every once in awhile but forget living there. Even if you have the money to me it’s not worth it. I live 35 minutes from brickell and it costs way less. I’d rather have a bigger house with land then be in a concrete jungle for 10x the price. I live close enough that I can go enjoy it whenever I want but I don’t have to pay the price. This is just my opinion and thought on it. There are a lot of rich people in general in south Florida. You don’t have to live in Miami to experience this. But either way bro great video. It’s good to have that motivation to make yourself a better version of yourself.
That legal 🔫 🔥 is the one thing America got right. Thats why you can roll around with nice watches 😂
Remember, Everyone has one of those, too…
Why do you need a watch nowadays? Everyone carries a cellphone
@@gregpettis1113that mindset of carrying a heavy thing on my wrist is too much
Only thing i do wear issa damn bracelet
I live in South Florida and I think everything you said about Miami (Good and bad) is true.
BRUTAL💯‼️
Miami is the place where you have to be very careful. America in general, but Miami, New York, LA, Atlanta, you have to be very careful
I agree because I used to think that way about my friend that used to visit Jamaica to date and get married to girls. I used to be like can't you find a girl in America. I was 21 at the time thinking this!