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Lol wish I had a camera man, it'd be funny doing interviews like these in randomly populated places or where ppl are under the influence of alcohol/drugs
I'm 23 and still a virgin, I'm not ashamed to admit it or anything, it's not big deal, what i miss the most is a deep genuine connection sometimes. I hate casual dating and hookups. And I don't want to be just another guy chasing meaningless sex...
Your SMV is low. As a man, you need to make things happen. Don't get a girl pregnant or into a stupid situation or even engage in fornication but you need to take steps to resolve this before it is too late.
Nah keep doin you. Got a brother your age who decided to fck around kids in high school and act like I'm crazy when I want nothing to do with him anymore. Nah keep doin you. Got a brother your age who decided to fck around kids in high school and act like I'm crazy when I want nothing to do with him anymore.
It’s really not that difficult tho to up the game. Just workout, IF, cut out drinking and smoking and stop fuckin chicks below 7, and don’t spoil girls just cause they’re above a 7
No they don't! Delusion women are! They believe that all they have to do is wear fake eyelashes, slap on a lots and lots of makeup and it automatically makes them a 10/10, which means that they deserve a 6ft 6'' man with a six-pack who earns $1million+ pa who also has a mansion with lots of expensive cars on the driveway.
You need to realise that looks aren't everything to being attractive. Have you ever spoken to a dumb or selfish or slutty chick? A woman can have good looks but that may be all she have. Attractiveness can also be personality
buy car from auction and sell for more than you paid. learn about cars so you can profit on each one. scale up until you have a fleet. cash out the fleet if you really want to have 100k or keep doing it and have high revenue. its good to save money but cash flow is more important than hitting some random arbitrary number of saved money. ppl dont get rich from saving u get rich from investing @@Methy_Watches
Carlos is exactly what i've been saying for years, but people online never believed me. Nowadays, they know i was right. Dating apps is a losing battle for men since dating app developers need a constant paying customers to keep the service live. Meeting people in person, especially within your friend circle, is always the best.
Carlos is very short, ethnic/ Latino, he's obviously not rich or a baller or extremely good looking like the top dudes in Miami ... He's going to get black pilled very soon from both dating apps and real life if he doesn't get the fck outta Miami ASAP.
@@730holdings2you must be good looking then. If you aren’t in the top 20% looks wise, dating apps will only waste time and destroy your ego. Granted I met my ex on there too, but these are low quality women typically
Bro Carlos seems like a smart guy, he realized that this isn't a regular debate you have with your friends so he had no choice but to agree to disagree because he didn't want to make fitx look bad to his followers!
@@mob_one71 tbh to me I think that online dating is best for long distance like another state or country, it's a different feeling and I would invest more but using it for local women is more for the hook up culture!
Carlos is right. Social media made dating super difficult. I remember back in the day it was super easy to pick up girls, i was cute back then and still im attractive. Yet dating has been become pretty damn hard. Its sad
Lol you claim your cute so how can you not be able to meet women? Just walk up to a woman and break the ice it's not really hard bro. Just be yourself and be respectful and the rest will follow
@@caloFi Well we all have high standards, at least some of us lol, but I rather meet someone in person and see how it goes from there. On a dating app everything is rainbows, sunshine, and butterflies 🤣
@@maryamadedeji24 Lol Mary am I right or what? Would you be flattered a gentleman approached you on the street and started talking to you? I'm sure you would l.
I don’t approach women anymore my success rate with women is very low and I have no confidence whatsoever to even talk to a female I didn’t use to be this way but after constantly getting rejected left and right I gave up and don’t plan on getting back into the dating game
@@dtf92BL yeah true my confidence is so low it’s ridiculous I have no woman looking my way or every time I try and talk to a female she’s so fucking shy and nonchalant so I gave up completely on talking to women it’s not worth the risk nor self esteem damage the only men who can talk to women are Chad and Tyrone’s with me being average my rate with women is low as hell plus even if I do get a woman in my life she’ll most likely cheat on me with the man she really wants
Im 6'1, 38 a physical therapist, keep myself physically fit, decent looking and sure i can get laid but sometimes it feels like im scrapping the bottom of the barrel and women that i start becoming interested just start treating me as a "ATM" its brutal out there.
It’s just hard to get laid, period. Social media, and stuff. Dating coaches make it seem like it’s supposed to simple. Fit just has looks money status. But for the normal regular man its a challenge unless you pay
Facts these dating gurus just want you to buy their 5 thousand dollar courses just for you to still struggle women’s standards are damn no impossible to compete with my solution is to get your passport 🧳
You dont need money & status though. Just looks, physique, good dress sense & good social skills. That alone puts you right up there. Sure the media has brainwashed & ruined women. So no, you wont likely get a good modest woman. Those days are near over. But you’ll deffo get casual one night stands no doubt. The real dating problem actually starts when you no longer want casual one night stands and want a decent woman. Thats when youre likely to find nothing. Because the good respectfull women almost dont exist anymore in certain parts of the west.
@@Kumari_44 ''You dont need money'' Really! So you think that the seriously 'hot' females (not the 304's who think that they're 'hot) are going to be happy dating/living with a man who lives in a tiny studio apartment and eating sandwiches from Subway , KFC and McDonalds day in day out and doing their day job which is delivering pizzas on his clapped out electric bicycle? GTFOH!
Good video , i agree with all points because ive personally have had all those excuses and still currently working out my own issues so i can be a better me. FitX is right , dudes need to drop the ego and just accept the fact they not as good as they think they are and use every excuse in the world to not approach.
Many of us are just not interested in playing the game anymore. Sure, we can admit we're not the best when it comes to meeting, attracting, and keeping women but we'd rather focus our energy elsewhere. Not every man is destined to be a ladies' man. Not every man wants to be.
@@Kevin-qn2kw I get that and you don't have to be a ladies man to be happy. However I'm a realist and I want a tsudo wife one day and a certain type at that. I also know the type of chick I want would have her pick of the litter so why wouldn't I want to compete for that? I'm not saying to simp out but self improving is always the answer to getting what you want.
@@RogueHeroyou do what makes you happy. I'm 5'5" and not terribly masculine. I'm not interested in jumping through hoops to get a woman. It's not worth it IMO.
Last time was in 2015. Im 37 average 5"10 man. I work eat sleep. Im no CHAD. I used dating apps last 5 years and no matches and no dates. This is very common for the average man
I'd be interested to hear some clarification on what you mean by "no matches"? Did the apps (firstly, the fact that you used multiple apps and got the same result is suspicious to me, but I digress.....) not give you a single profile to look at? Did you bother to browse through women's profiles at all? Or did you wait passively and expect them to contact you? If you did look through profiles and yet found no-one you wanted to speak to, could your standards have been too high? With the thousands of women out there looking for dates, what exactly was it that prevented you from attempting to arrange a date with a single one of them for FIVE years? And if you did send out messages and yet got no replies, how many messages did you send? I found that the majority of my messages were not replied to, so I just had to keep sending them. I probably got replies from about 10% of the women I messaged. It's a numbers game, you just have to keep trying. You don't have to fall in love with the woman before you can send her a message, she merely needs to look promising enough that it's worth trying to initiate contact. I'm a pretty shy guy, but in six years of using dating apps I went on numerous dates, and I'm the kind of guy who NEVER approached women when I was younger. I met my girlfriend just over a year ago now, and she's the best thing that ever happened to me, the perseverance was absolutely 100% worth it. If a nerd like me can do it, what was stopping you? Did you really try hard enough?
I feel you my brother. Make friends if possible and try finding people who basically understand you and honestly want you around. Take it a step at a time as it will come naturally meeting someone worth it down the line.
Its simple really. Guy with money = women say I love you. Guy who is built physically and knows his priorities = Boss and knows which women is worth his time.
So in 2022 i stumbled across a fitx fearless video and have watched fit's videos get better and better till today. My fellow African bro keep up the good work on the content. Alot of guys look up to you man.🇿🇲🇳🇬 .
I remember being a teenager and my parents talking about how many girlfriends I would have when I grew up. I'm 22 now and I have already given up on it.
Putting too much pressure on yourself, keep going even tho it does seem hopeless, I didn’t start getting any serious play until I was 17 18 (lost my v card then) now I’m 20 been w my woman for a year now
@@emilianoyaboi5911 Not really putting any pressure on myself since I've given up on it. I focus on my hobbies and I guess if I found "the one" I would change my mind but I don't live in a fairytale so I won't hold my breath waiting for some imaginary person to appear.
I feel attacked lol. I'm 30 years old ( just turned) never had a girlfriend, never dated, and I'm still a virgin. I used to be looking for relationship until I was 22 years old. Women standards are too high. They all just want some bad boys. The reason why I stopped caring when I was 22 because I've realized it was a waste of time and money. Now I'm just focus on career goals now instead of talking to women. Yes, I also dont go out as much anymore unless I get some gas out of the gas station or food. That's it!
@@2jjulian what you mean its not a waste of time? The moment when I was 22 years old, I realized I need to work on myself more before I go after women. I'm chasing dreams, not women. Yes, any woman that approach me ( like they ever do in the first place) , I ignore them. I must stay focus while all the bad boys be fun with them in their 20s because I'm not helping them in their 30s or 40s.
@@Herozonex200 That's just cope, women aren't a waste of time because you have to learn to be around them and experience. Hamza has even said this before,obviously if you are just focusing on women and leaving your goals then it's a waste of time. But it's not bad If you go out on dates once in a while
@@2jjulian I'm not coping lol you sounded like this therapists that I'm currently talking overseas. He literally saying the same thing! I'm not completely ignoring women, I'm just staying focus on my goals and not letting beautiful women blocking my path. Yes I do think talking to women in small talk like "Hi" or "How you're doing". I'm not ready for that next step of taking anyone women on dates. No I'm not poor either. I have a good steady paying job, a kickass car, I'm just saving for a house and looking to go into a career field. Until I get these things, I won't be attractive to women or be ready to get into relationship with women.
@@Herozonex200 I have my own business,I have money and a nice car too and got a gf at the age of 24. You are 30 with no gf experience like I'm not trying to put your down you clearly need to focus a little bit more on women. You do you tho. Goodluck
If a woman rejects you on any dating app, she might still do it in the “real” life. the best way to start solving the issue you deny facing is by accepting it and then figuring out what is wrong with you in order to fix it. none says that this is going to be easy, but if you don't try, things won't change for the better for you. Im getting a lot of compliments since I've been improving my physic. I even look younger!
I really look bad on pictures . Whatever I do. Be failing hardcorely on dating app. However I be sitting outside or going to club and having women approaching me or sending choosing signals. Don’t know what to do cause with my dating problem
Nothing wrong with that. Having a lot of sex is draining & sets you back in every way. God’s will is for u to master lust and when you get married sex is a gift for you to grow closer to someone you will be with for Life.
I think lots of men are indeed afraid of rejection or think that’s what’s going to happen if they approach so more of a confidence problem. I also get that feeling sometimes but I try to remember is just a woman, the opinion of a woman I don’t even know yet shouldn’t really matter at all.
I've been rejected many times. It doesn't deter me from continuing to approach and ask women out. Being anxious is normal but men need to be bold and strong not meek. It doesn't bother me. I move on and ask the next one!!
Miami is hard. Huge competition. i went to a club LIV up north beach and the average dude there was like 6 foot 2, i am 5'11 and felt short. I was one of the ugliest dudes in the entire club, been all over the US and never seen anything like it lmao
miami is a different breed i met a chick down at the club on south beach fine af and the very next day some smooth latin dude flying kites on the beach stole her away lmaooo
I laugh every time someone says Tyrone 😂 I knew a homeless guy named Tyrone and he lived in a run down rv and would help with small tasks at my work in exchange for some money. He was a character for sure.
I didnt know how to or which women to approach outside on the streets. Then I start trying to go after only the ones that stare/look at my eyes when we see each other crossing by. If they look for more than 2-3 seconds then I may Approach them and see if they are interested. Sometimes the ladies are very awkward, especially if they are young but it is what it is. It does work sometimes, just gotta have confidence and know it’s just the opinion of a woman, an interaction which you shouldn’t let it define or determine your value as a man in any given way.
Fit do u understand people can have their own preferences, just because somebody don’t want to use a dating app don’t mean they’re wrong or doing bad at dating.
For real and ive seen replies to people saying "cope" or "incel" its so weird😂 if you are out of the dating scene and give a reason those seem to be the most common responses. Its not cope or incel. The dating scene is a damn mess now thanks to social media and insanely high demands and unrealistic expectations
I approach women semi regularly and with my excellent memory I could easily make a PowerPoint of how every approach failed either immediately, or in the days and months or years afterwards. Trust me...roughly 50% of the time the women were expecting money ( for you to look like money, spend money on them or give them money). The other 50% of the time they had serious personality issues: some were hung up on an ex ( one couldn't continue because my freaking hairstyle reminded her of her ex), some hated or distrusted men, some were looking to cheat, others were still more into wilding out with thier friends (my last date was 30 years old and STILL in that phase), two that were not interested in men at all, but trying to please their parents, and two that were straight up sociopaths. The only subset of women I've come across that truly put some effort into finding or keeping a man were those that had kids and I'm not about that life. My stats are about 20% of women will give me a number. But at least half those numbers are fake. The juice ain't worth the squeeze
This guy is really teaching valuable skill sets and I would suggest everybody just to take in more than just the initial message that he's saying but just a lifestyle message it's really great to hear about this
Dating in Miami is COMPLETELY different than lets say dating here in Eastern Europe. miami is 🧢 city and everyone is money and fame hungry. If you look good and confident you are already ahead of many men. Why torture yourself in miami?
Guys work on being the best version of yourself. You can always rent a garden tool if you need one. Get your money right and travel to where you are valued by women that have value. The U.S. is bad place to fish because what you will catch has usually been caught and throw back many times.
You should do a video where you show a guy how to dress for a date. Show guys good fits to wear ( walk into hm and Zara show us how it should fit on a reg guy). Do a video wear you ask woman what cloths they think look most attractive on men. Show them two pictures both guys are equally attractive just dressed different.
I don't get the struggle. Do what you want. If you don't want to do it because it's against your moral values than don't do it. If you enjoy it and do want to than do it. 🤷
Thing is, in a city like Miami the women are a different breed. Miami is the capital of IG, OF, and gold digging. I lived there for years. You can’t compare the women there to the rest of the world, imo.
My image, lol. I'm 5'6". Maybe I'll just try harder to grow 6 inches taller. Dating coaches, "It's easy, just be blessed with good genetics like me! Then success begets confidence!"
People talk about not getting laid, but nobody talks about if its worth getting laid to begin with. If i have to put in effort and she doesn't then its called unfair.
@@rampagesmackssons508 I am not talking about no effort, im talking about equal effort. I dont see woman having to learn game, face constant rejection and being come after later with false accusations.
@@mydarling3272 That is not a solution. Game doesn't fix unfairness in dating. That is like saying i will abolish slavery by being a better slave, its absolutely self defeating. The only way this gets solved is by having either men compensated for dating or woman picking up the slack, otherwise we are better off being single.
I’m approaching and I’m still getting rejected even with a fresh cut, in good shape, good hygiene, nice clothes, good cologne, and a decent mouth piece. I am broke but they don’t know that yet. Sht is ridiculous
It’s hard to get laid for lots of dudes which used to be weird to me but once I started talking to more girls I’ll just say they’ll admit they just simply get bored.
Im 6'3, 6-pack, 6 inches and 60k. Ive been celebit since 2017 by choose! Why, because its not worth the price anymore and it always has a price! It sucked the first couple of years after a lifetime of indulging, but now, im very empowered by taking my power back and not allowing myself to be controlled by my base nature that actually puts the control of my being in her hands, someone much less competent! I have more money, better credit and more clothes and toys than Ive ever had before. I regret the years I wasted persueing and obsessing over women! I could have been where Im at now a long time ago, thats my only regret in life, wasted time and resources that came to nothing, a fools game!
I get attention and have been told I should model, but I do not have confidence. Confidence is definitely part of what makes you attractive! I'm doing better in this department though. Since it's 2024, I should say I am autistic... I always had this in my head, and was embarrassed of it. I realized I'm always going to be awkward, but it only makes it worse when I am anxious about it. In fact, it was embarrassing being good looking and having zero game! I really think an "ugly" person can be attractive if they are just calm, cool and collected
This is giving guys false hope. You absolutely ARE born with it. You can only do so much to make your face more attractive. Even if you smash the gym and get in phenomenal shape if your face isn’t cutting it then it won’t matter that much. It’s just the way it is. Women aren’t like men in that most of them won’t mess with an in shape guy if his face isn’t hot
I was 320 lbs. I now have a six pack, taller than average. guess what? my face did get more attractive, I"m above a 5 out of 10, and you guessed it, it didn't matter, I'm invisible to women, in the west that is. @@greatbuilder100
Least you keeping it real tho homie it ain't about what people think cause considering how horrible things are in America nobody can't laugh at nobody but much respect to you my dude
There is nothing wrong with that. I am 36 years old and I have NEVER been laid. I have never been on a date, never had a girlfriend, never been in love. And you know what, it doesn't bother me. I wouldn't have it any other way.
I used to be a simp in my 30's but through experience and growing confidence; having purpose in life, I ain't even have to try. They usually be approaching me now. Make men great again!!
So many facts in this video. Met my then girlfriend and now wife at a job. Been together for 12yrs and married 5years. Meeting girls at clubs should be just for fun.
What’s the point of approaching these days? If you are not over 6ft and look like a Chad you have very little chance. It’s incredibly difficult even for a coffee date.
@@anthonymanuel55000 you have no clue bro looks will only get you so far after that what else??? If your saying it mostly does then that’s shallow thinking and that’s okay for you
“Don’t you think you can apply the same to Instagram?” You can’t because the simple fact that she’s on Instagram or a dating app IS the issue. If you screen for attention seeking behavior then you have to automatically disqualify everyone on Instagram.
Invest in yourself, build your own business, go to the gym and get into the best shape of your life, and pursue hobbies that make you truly happy. Chasing sex is what makes guys weak and unhappy.
@@gme_chnger8557 Personally I don’t live in the biggest city, I live in Denver and know too many people here. I think it’s embarrassing if people see me on there, and I can get way prettier girls in person.
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Nah😂
This is what separates Fitx from other gurus…..he actually touches grass and interacts with people. Other creators just rant behind a camera for 8 minutes then hit upload💀
It took a long time for Fearless to do these street interviews as well
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Lol wish I had a camera man, it'd be funny doing interviews like these in randomly populated places or where ppl are under the influence of alcohol/drugs
Makes sense definitely game changer
@jonathn____ don't come for the 🐐,homie.
I’m crying dude said he ain’t saying nun for UA-cam and now he got a whole ass thumbnail with him labeled as a virgin 😭
With a question mark. Whenever a statement in a title is closed by a question mark, we can safely assume that the statement is bs.
But he said I'm not doing a straight interview. Meaning he's gay and he doesn't want to get into the topic .
Hahahahahahahahahah
@@awemanyfit You all have it wrong hes having sex with that mutt.
@@27thAndBethanyhe said street interview. It’s totally okay if he doesn’t want to talk about his personal life
I'm 23 and still a virgin, I'm not ashamed to admit it or anything, it's not big deal, what i miss the most is a deep genuine connection sometimes. I hate casual dating and hookups. And I don't want to be just another guy chasing meaningless sex...
Your SMV is low. As a man, you need to make things happen. Don't get a girl pregnant or into a stupid situation or even engage in fornication but you need to take steps to resolve this before it is too late.
Nah keep doin you. Got a brother your age who decided to fck around kids in high school and act like I'm crazy when I want nothing to do with him anymore. Nah keep doin you. Got a brother your age who decided to fck around kids in high school and act like I'm crazy when I want nothing to do with him anymore.
Are you religious ?
@@Th3TrollinTroj4n Nope.
Guys who say that are coping hard
Social media keeps raising the bar for what attractive is
It’s really not that difficult tho to up the game. Just workout, IF, cut out drinking and smoking and stop fuckin chicks below 7, and don’t spoil girls just cause they’re above a 7
Not true. It’s making it harder though to keep someone
I remember when tall guys were the laughing stock from how ridiculously tall they were.... Now, everyone wants a tall langy noodle.
No they don't! Delusion women are! They believe that all they have to do is wear fake eyelashes, slap on a lots and lots of makeup and it automatically makes them a 10/10, which means that they deserve a 6ft 6'' man with a six-pack who earns $1million+ pa who also has a mansion with lots of expensive cars on the driveway.
You need to realise that looks aren't everything to being attractive. Have you ever spoken to a dumb or selfish or slutty chick? A woman can have good looks but that may be all she have. Attractiveness can also be personality
Show out to Carlos!! He knows what he talking!
I'm starting to think that fitx can only get the women he wants online because he can filter his photos, unlike AJ who meets women in person
@@Savageking0000 Facts, bro not slick, austin dunham filters his photos too.
@@Mr.StanddOnBusinessprobably so I've seen Austin in person before at a night club in Florida, he can pull some women
@@Mr.StanddOnBusiness also dating in Florida is hard in general, fitx is about to get a reality check!
Carlos nailed it. Women are mostly users.
Focus on money dudes trust me. Chasing box is for the weak
My plan - I have 9000 AUD - how do I get 100k saved ?
Keep coping , sex is one of the most basic needs of a man , if ur being deprived , it will fuck you up mentally
buy car from auction and sell for more than you paid. learn about cars so you can profit on each one. scale up until you have a fleet. cash out the fleet if you really want to have 100k or keep doing it and have high revenue. its good to save money but cash flow is more important than hitting some random arbitrary number of saved money. ppl dont get rich from saving u get rich from investing @@Methy_Watches
Real
Money won’t buy you hap-penis
Carlos sounds intelligent and knowledgeable. we need more paisas like him!
Yea Carlos kept it real and didn't beat around the bush on what's really going on out here
Carlos is exactly what i've been saying for years, but people online never believed me. Nowadays, they know i was right. Dating apps is a losing battle for men since dating app developers need a constant paying customers to keep the service live. Meeting people in person, especially within your friend circle, is always the best.
Carlos is very short, ethnic/ Latino, he's obviously not rich or a baller or extremely good looking like the top dudes in Miami ... He's going to get black pilled very soon from both dating apps and real life if he doesn't get the fck outta Miami ASAP.
That’s assuming we have a friend circle, lol.
It's hard to make friends period too many fakes
dating apps only work if you’re 8+
@@730holdings2you must be good looking then. If you aren’t in the top 20% looks wise, dating apps will only waste time and destroy your ego. Granted I met my ex on there too, but these are low quality women typically
I like how fitx asks questions sees the flaws and then cusses them
He roasts them post interview 😂
@@beatlesiracundos😂😂
@@beatlesiracundos😂😂 I liked that he did that though
Took Carlos a little bit of time to come around. But he knows what’s up. Keep up the good work Fit!
Bro Carlos seems like a smart guy, he realized that this isn't a regular debate you have with your friends so he had no choice but to agree to disagree because he didn't want to make fitx look bad to his followers!
Almost everyone has agreed with someone just because they knew their point wouldn't get across to them
@@Savageking0000 Agree with this!
@@mob_one71 tbh to me I think that online dating is best for long distance like another state or country, it's a different feeling and I would invest more but using it for local women is more for the hook up culture!
Carlos is right. Social media made dating super difficult. I remember back in the day it was super easy to pick up girls, i was cute back then and still im attractive. Yet dating has been become pretty damn hard. Its sad
Lol you claim your cute so how can you not be able to meet women? Just walk up to a woman and break the ice it's not really hard bro. Just be yourself and be respectful and the rest will follow
Yeah dating apps a waste unless you really that guy and got time otherwise it’s easier in person
@@bballah9969lmaoo😂, I see what you did their. As a woman it is very true that dating is more difficult, Carlos was spitting facts
@@caloFi
Well we all have high standards, at least some of us lol, but I rather meet someone in person and see how it goes from there. On a dating app everything is rainbows, sunshine, and butterflies 🤣
@@maryamadedeji24
Lol Mary am I right or what? Would you be flattered a gentleman approached you on the street and started talking to you? I'm sure you would l.
I don’t approach women anymore my success rate with women is very low and I have no confidence whatsoever to even talk to a female I didn’t use to be this way but after constantly getting rejected left and right I gave up and don’t plan on getting back into the dating game
I feel you bro it’s really hard out here for us men in this day and age . Gotta come together about a podcast for average to below average men
@@dtf92BL yeah true my confidence is so low it’s ridiculous I have no woman looking my way or every time I try and talk to a female she’s so fucking shy and nonchalant so I gave up completely on talking to women it’s not worth the risk nor self esteem damage the only men who can talk to women are Chad and Tyrone’s with me being average my rate with women is low as hell plus even if I do get a woman in my life she’ll most likely cheat on me with the man she really wants
Seems like a skill issue buddy
Im 6'1, 38 a physical therapist, keep myself physically fit, decent looking and sure i can get laid but sometimes it feels like im scrapping the bottom of the barrel and women that i start becoming interested just start treating me as a "ATM" its brutal out there.
You’re even locked in too. 😂 If you’re having a bad time we are all f*cked
It could be your attitude?
Date older.
What do you mean bottom of the barrel?
Gotta stay one step ahead of them
FITX you the only UA-camr that really be interviewing these folks. Asking them questions getting to the root of their issues.
You stepped up your videos by 100 percent! Seriously the dating app challenge, this video. Good solid stuff
Content getting more level headed. Straight 🔥🔥
It’s just hard to get laid, period. Social media, and stuff. Dating coaches make it seem like it’s supposed to simple. Fit just has looks money status. But for the normal regular man its a challenge unless you pay
Facts these dating gurus just want you to buy their 5 thousand dollar courses just for you to still struggle women’s standards are damn no impossible to compete with my solution is to get your passport 🧳
True be told dats facts brother social media totally changed the game an im very confident this game ain’t no where near how it was
You dont need money & status though. Just looks, physique, good dress sense & good social skills. That alone puts you right up there. Sure the media has brainwashed & ruined women. So no, you wont likely get a good modest woman. Those days are near over. But you’ll deffo get casual one night stands no doubt. The real dating problem actually starts when you no longer want casual one night stands and want a decent woman. Thats when youre likely to find nothing. Because the good respectfull women almost dont exist anymore in certain parts of the west.
Speak for yourself
@@Kumari_44 ''You dont need money''
Really! So you think that the seriously 'hot' females (not the 304's who think that they're 'hot) are going to be happy dating/living with a man who lives in a tiny studio apartment and eating sandwiches from Subway , KFC and McDonalds day in day out and doing their day job which is delivering pizzas on his clapped out electric bicycle? GTFOH!
Carlos definitely knows the plug on a personal level!
Good video , i agree with all points because ive personally have had all those excuses and still currently working out my own issues so i can be a better me. FitX is right , dudes need to drop the ego and just accept the fact they not as good as they think they are and use every excuse in the world to not approach.
Many of us are just not interested in playing the game anymore. Sure, we can admit we're not the best when it comes to meeting, attracting, and keeping women but we'd rather focus our energy elsewhere. Not every man is destined to be a ladies' man. Not every man wants to be.
@@Kevin-qn2kw I get that and you don't have to be a ladies man to be happy. However I'm a realist and I want a tsudo wife one day and a certain type at that. I also know the type of chick I want would have her pick of the litter so why wouldn't I want to compete for that? I'm not saying to simp out but self improving is always the answer to getting what you want.
@@RogueHeroyou do what makes you happy. I'm 5'5" and not terribly masculine. I'm not interested in jumping through hoops to get a woman. It's not worth it IMO.
@@Kevin-qn2kwdenial of inadequacy is named Kevin
Women standards are ridiculous nowadays
Yep, they should just date a woman
Seems like u just have a skill issue bud
“You need to have a life outside your career.” Ah crap, everything always tied to those pesky conditions 😂😂
Last time was in 2015.
Im 37 average 5"10 man.
I work eat sleep. Im no CHAD.
I used dating apps last 5 years and no matches and no dates.
This is very common for the average man
but are you not in your prime? 35-40
I'd be interested to hear some clarification on what you mean by "no matches"?
Did the apps (firstly, the fact that you used multiple apps and got the same result is suspicious to me, but I digress.....) not give you a single profile to look at? Did you bother to browse through women's profiles at all? Or did you wait passively and expect them to contact you?
If you did look through profiles and yet found no-one you wanted to speak to, could your standards have been too high? With the thousands of women out there looking for dates, what exactly was it that prevented you from attempting to arrange a date with a single one of them for FIVE years?
And if you did send out messages and yet got no replies, how many messages did you send? I found that the majority of my messages were not replied to, so I just had to keep sending them. I probably got replies from about 10% of the women I messaged. It's a numbers game, you just have to keep trying. You don't have to fall in love with the woman before you can send her a message, she merely needs to look promising enough that it's worth trying to initiate contact.
I'm a pretty shy guy, but in six years of using dating apps I went on numerous dates, and I'm the kind of guy who NEVER approached women when I was younger. I met my girlfriend just over a year ago now, and she's the best thing that ever happened to me, the perseverance was absolutely 100% worth it. If a nerd like me can do it, what was stopping you? Did you really try hard enough?
Compared to 2015 to now id say my luck on apps was better
33 5,9 regular build, and my last time was 2019. I no longer use dating apps and have checked out until I can passport bro.
I feel you my brother. Make friends if possible and try finding people who basically understand you and honestly want you around. Take it a step at a time as it will come naturally meeting someone worth it down the line.
Carlos is real asf
Its simple really.
Guy with money = women say I love you.
Guy who is built physically and knows his priorities = Boss and knows which women is worth his time.
Im in debt and a woman told me she loved me this week. They aren’t all the same brother.
@@certifiedzniper5848 they could probably be way more in debt than you tho.
That's BS. Women usually don't even know how much money you have, unless you are some kind of a celebrity
Here's a reality check. Most women are disgusted by muscles.
All jokes aside there is a secret to all this madness. It’s simple, society has to change, pride and ego has to be put to the side.
So in 2022 i stumbled across a fitx fearless video and have watched fit's videos get better and better till today. My fellow African bro keep up the good work on the content. Alot of guys look up to you man.🇿🇲🇳🇬 .
He is not African though he is American.
bro doing infields and outside interviews, bro levelling up fitxxx u g
I remember being a teenager and my parents talking about how many girlfriends I would have when I grew up. I'm 22 now and I have already given up on it.
Life is full of disappointment
Putting too much pressure on yourself, keep going even tho it does seem hopeless, I didn’t start getting any serious play until I was 17 18 (lost my v card then) now I’m 20 been w my woman for a year now
@@emilianoyaboi5911 Not really putting any pressure on myself since I've given up on it. I focus on my hobbies and I guess if I found "the one" I would change my mind but I don't live in a fairytale so I won't hold my breath waiting for some imaginary person to appear.
Imagine being in the beginning of your best years in your existence and already giving up
Good for you. That's winning in life. Save yourself time, money and energy.
I feel attacked lol. I'm 30 years old ( just turned) never had a girlfriend, never dated, and I'm still a virgin. I used to be looking for relationship until I was 22 years old. Women standards are too high. They all just want some bad boys. The reason why I stopped caring when I was 22 because I've realized it was a waste of time and money. Now I'm just focus on career goals now instead of talking to women. Yes, I also dont go out as much anymore unless I get some gas out of the gas station or food. That's it!
It's not a waste of time but yea don't make it your priority
@@2jjulian what you mean its not a waste of time? The moment when I was 22 years old, I realized I need to work on myself more before I go after women. I'm chasing dreams, not women. Yes, any woman that approach me ( like they ever do in the first place) , I ignore them. I must stay focus while all the bad boys be fun with them in their 20s because I'm not helping them in their 30s or 40s.
@@Herozonex200 That's just cope, women aren't a waste of time because you have to learn to be around them and experience. Hamza has even said this before,obviously if you are just focusing on women and leaving your goals then it's a waste of time. But it's not bad If you go out on dates once in a while
@@2jjulian I'm not coping lol you sounded like this therapists that I'm currently talking overseas. He literally saying the same thing! I'm not completely ignoring women, I'm just staying focus on my goals and not letting beautiful women blocking my path. Yes I do think talking to women in small talk like "Hi" or "How you're doing". I'm not ready for that next step of taking anyone women on dates. No I'm not poor either. I have a good steady paying job, a kickass car, I'm just saving for a house and looking to go into a career field. Until I get these things, I won't be attractive to women or be ready to get into relationship with women.
@@Herozonex200 I have my own business,I have money and a nice car too and got a gf at the age of 24. You are 30 with no gf experience like I'm not trying to put your down you clearly need to focus a little bit more on women. You do you tho. Goodluck
If a woman rejects you on any dating app, she might still do it in the “real” life. the best way to start solving the issue you deny facing is by accepting it and then figuring out what is wrong with you in order to fix it. none says that this is going to be easy, but if you don't try, things won't change for the better for you. Im getting a lot of compliments since I've been improving my physic. I even look younger!
facts
I really look bad on pictures . Whatever I do. Be failing hardcorely on dating app.
However I be sitting outside or going to club and having women approaching me or sending choosing signals.
Don’t know what to do cause with my dating problem
Ur right I can always improve my looks...I'm constantly working on self improvement.
Fit is a real g wanting the best for us men keep up the great work 👊💪🔥💯
keep doing your thing fitx, appreciate the content
Nothing wrong with that. Having a lot of sex is draining & sets you back in every way. God’s will is for u to master lust and when you get married sex is a gift for you to grow closer to someone you will be with for Life.
You are correct but your SMV needs to be high or else the hot youth pastor will steal your wife
As a man just getting a few choosing signals from a woman will boost the ego.
@mateaukalua4426 it boost my confidence when im home or away from them. But I get REALLY nervous when they are showing that infront of me
Cope
@@abyss7082 🤓🤡
I think lots of men are indeed afraid of rejection or think that’s what’s going to happen if they approach so more of a confidence problem. I also get that feeling sometimes but I try to remember is just a woman, the opinion of a woman I don’t even know yet shouldn’t really matter at all.
I've been rejected many times. It doesn't deter me from continuing to approach and ask women out. Being anxious is normal but men need to be bold and strong not meek. It doesn't bother me. I move on and ask the next one!!
What I also see a lot of is a ton of fear being called a creep or sexual harasser etc..
Push towards legalizing brothels. Confidence will come after.
How about just approach women and be respectful🤷🏽♂️
@@misutasutanto6312does that actually work?
Miami is hard. Huge competition. i went to a club LIV up north beach and the average dude there was like 6 foot 2, i am 5'11 and felt short. I was one of the ugliest dudes in the entire club, been all over the US and never seen anything like it lmao
miami is a different breed i met a chick down at the club on south beach fine af and the very next day some smooth latin dude flying kites on the beach stole her away lmaooo
@@Andrembramwellthe Miami guys also get all the 18 year olds
i think all men lied at some point, if a guy tells you (about 2 weeks ago i got laid) maybe is 2 or 3 months
UU arent those dudes tho.
True
It's embarrassing to admit but I think the stigma is gone cos us straight guys all realize where in the same position
These sunday vids are the best 💪
I laugh every time someone says Tyrone 😂 I knew a homeless guy named Tyrone and he lived in a run down rv and would help with small tasks at my work in exchange for some money. He was a character for sure.
That sounds hilarious😂😂😂
if he had a rv that makes him not homeless right
I didnt know how to or which women to approach outside on the streets. Then I start trying to go after only the ones that stare/look at my eyes when we see each other crossing by. If they look for more than 2-3 seconds then I may Approach them and see if they are interested. Sometimes the ladies are very awkward, especially if they are young but it is what it is. It does work sometimes, just gotta have confidence and know it’s just the opinion of a woman, an interaction which you shouldn’t let it define or determine your value as a man in any given way.
Fit do u understand people can have their own preferences, just because somebody don’t want to use a dating app don’t mean they’re wrong or doing bad at dating.
For real and ive seen replies to people saying "cope" or "incel" its so weird😂 if you are out of the dating scene and give a reason those seem to be the most common responses. Its not cope or incel. The dating scene is a damn mess now thanks to social media and insanely high demands and unrealistic expectations
I approach women semi regularly and with my excellent memory I could easily make a PowerPoint of how every approach failed either immediately, or in the days and months or years afterwards. Trust me...roughly 50% of the time the women were expecting money ( for you to look like money, spend money on them or give them money). The other 50% of the time they had serious personality issues: some were hung up on an ex ( one couldn't continue because my freaking hairstyle reminded her of her ex), some hated or distrusted men, some were looking to cheat, others were still more into wilding out with thier friends (my last date was 30 years old and STILL in that phase), two that were not interested in men at all, but trying to please their parents, and two that were straight up sociopaths. The only subset of women I've come across that truly put some effort into finding or keeping a man were those that had kids and I'm not about that life.
My stats are about 20% of women will give me a number. But at least half those numbers are fake. The juice ain't worth the squeeze
Where do you typically meet women at?
@@gme_chnger8557 just walking about on my daily business, otherwIse parties, dances, concerts, beach etc
I completely agree with you about women with kids. I've had the same experience.
Where did you meet most of them?
What race are u approaching
FIT you keep doing it man. Fantastic video!!
This guy is really teaching valuable skill sets and I would suggest everybody just to take in more than just the initial message that he's saying but just a lifestyle message it's really great to hear about this
Dating in Miami is COMPLETELY different than lets say dating here in Eastern Europe. miami is 🧢 city and everyone is money and fame hungry. If you look good and confident you are already ahead of many men. Why torture yourself in miami?
It is the same everywhere. At least in Miami guys have access to plastic surgery
@@I_Lemaire no its not.
Miami is an awful metric for long-term anything. Everyone is pounding poon every minute and making 7 figures
@@swinfeflueyou're insecure with your confidence
@@devonforsure260you need a ego boost
Video idea : approaching American women vs foreign women show the difference in feminine nice & how polite either curving or getting you a chance
The alcohol part are very factual points
first dude is capping saying he's 39.. Dude is def in his late 40s lol
exactly
white guys tend to age faster
you think so?
Some people look older than their age why would he cap?
I wonder if the guy would cap if you ask him if he does steroids? you know who I mean.
Good job switching up formats to curate an engaging collection of content, bruh. Respect the hustle💯
Guys work on being the best version of yourself. You can always rent a garden tool if you need one. Get your money right and travel to where you are valued by women that have value. The U.S. is bad place to fish because what you will catch has usually been caught and throw back many times.
You should do a video where you show a guy how to dress for a date. Show guys good fits to wear ( walk into hm and Zara show us how it should fit on a reg guy).
Do a video wear you ask woman what cloths they think look most attractive on men. Show them two pictures both guys are equally attractive just dressed different.
Struggling between societal pressure and sexual morality is tough bruh
🙄 Who cares about sexual morality other than you.
You shouldnt care about societal pressure. You must be young if you care what others are doing😂
I don't get the struggle. Do what you want. If you don't want to do it because it's against your moral values than don't do it. If you enjoy it and do want to than do it. 🤷
Yep I’m 40, last time laid about 36 years old
😳…
DAMN!
Damn dude it’s all good
hold on 40-36= whaaaaat ???are you okay bro
That's not that bad. This is America. It's common now
Thing is, in a city like Miami the women are a different breed. Miami is the capital of IG, OF, and gold digging. I lived there for years. You can’t compare the women there to the rest of the world, imo.
That’s ashame. I was going to visit Florida for 2 days. I’m Jersey. I heard Florida girls are hot.
23 and undefeated 😅
?? 23 of what? Your age or body count?
Undefeated in what?
23 year old here and no girls
@@MarijuanaSmog13Age.
Just be glad yall have lives in your 20's and not like my brother tryna fck teenagers
Big bro advice. Don’t sponge too hard on your sides just yet. Your hair is not long enough. But I see the vision 🔥 great vid
AJ can pull more girls then fitx, fit can only get attractive women online with filtered pics, he thinks he is that guy!
Love these new styles of videos you been doing bro
Zoloft killed my libido and helped my depression. Kinda sad but also freeing.
Fit working the blade 💪
My image, lol. I'm 5'6". Maybe I'll just try harder to grow 6 inches taller. Dating coaches, "It's easy, just be blessed with good genetics like me! Then success begets confidence!"
FITXFEARLESS is 5'7
you boys a whimps
Havent been laid this decade. Going to a bar or club by myself sounds so scary. I wish i could find confidence again
Are you joking, you look very handsome according to your profile picture I'm confused
Wait but you’re actually a good looking dude tho. It should be easier 🤔
@@scorpioguy94 That’s what I’m saying. If he was a ball player he would be getting celebrity women with those looks at a high rate
@@malibu3602 if he struggling I'm definitely I'm no snack to most women
Just cos he's good looking doesn't mean he gets laid or can get women it's the man who approachrs women not the other way around
You can spend your whole twenties building a life and legacy with someone and they can leave with most of it. It’s not worth it
First guy is right I'm getting a lot Fake Catfish Profiles and Profiles that want to sell investments or services.
FitX much love ❤️ from Ghana 🇬🇭 west Africa
People talk about not getting laid, but nobody talks about if its worth getting laid to begin with. If i have to put in effort and she doesn't then its called unfair.
If she puts in 0 effort then move on.
@@rampagesmackssons508 I am not talking about no effort, im talking about equal effort. I dont see woman having to learn game, face constant rejection and being come after later with false accusations.
@@zukodude487987 Thats the game point. Thats the resson why these videos exists.
@@mydarling3272 I did not understand your point, are you talking about using game?
@@mydarling3272 That is not a solution. Game doesn't fix unfairness in dating. That is like saying i will abolish slavery by being a better slave, its absolutely self defeating.
The only way this gets solved is by having either men compensated for dating or woman picking up the slack, otherwise we are better off being single.
Oh look here kids a Chad/Tyrone archetype trying to explain to Normies/Sub5 guys on how to get women.
Out of touch.
I agree he could not relate to a regular guy he's a tyrone/Chad type
how's he tyrone when he's 5'7?
Get above a 7, Iceman. No excuses. Punish yourself with retention until you make it happen.
@@Prescotmills8732he still has face and physique. Probably a 6~ irl accounting for height and race failo
Yeah delusional privileged men
I like the new format, keep doing these street interviews
I’m approaching and I’m still getting rejected even with a fresh cut, in good shape, good hygiene, nice clothes, good cologne, and a decent mouth piece. I am broke but they don’t know that yet. Sht is ridiculous
Great video - love the content switch up - the game breakdown edits between live interview was smooth
im not alone 🙏🙏🙏 im 28 havent got laid since 23
It’s hard to get laid for lots of dudes which used to be weird to me but once I started talking to more girls I’ll just say they’ll admit they just simply get bored.
Im 6'3, 6-pack, 6 inches and 60k. Ive been celebit since 2017 by choose! Why, because its not worth the price anymore and it always has a price! It sucked the first couple of years after a lifetime of indulging, but now, im very empowered by taking my power back and not allowing myself to be controlled by my base nature that actually puts the control of my being in her hands, someone much less competent! I have more money, better credit and more clothes and toys than Ive ever had before. I regret the years I wasted persueing and obsessing over women! I could have been where Im at now a long time ago, thats my only regret in life, wasted time and resources that came to nothing, a fools game!
These are the best videos Fit make more
I get attention and have been told I should model, but I do not have confidence. Confidence is definitely part of what makes you attractive!
I'm doing better in this department though. Since it's 2024, I should say I am autistic... I always had this in my head, and was embarrassed of it. I realized I'm always going to be awkward, but it only makes it worse when I am anxious about it. In fact, it was embarrassing being good looking and having zero game! I really think an "ugly" person can be attractive if they are just calm, cool and collected
This is giving guys false hope. You absolutely ARE born with it. You can only do so much to make your face more attractive. Even if you smash the gym and get in phenomenal shape if your face isn’t cutting it then it won’t matter that much. It’s just the way it is. Women aren’t like men in that most of them won’t mess with an in shape guy if his face isn’t hot
Even with skincare
Getting in shape does improve your face tho
I was 320 lbs. I now have a six pack, taller than average. guess what? my face did get more attractive, I"m above a 5 out of 10, and you guessed it, it didn't matter, I'm invisible to women, in the west that is. @@greatbuilder100
@@greatbuilder100you obviously missed the point
Come to Colombia so your jaw drops to the floor
I don't care if you laugh at me pick on me etc but last time I got laid was 2016
Least you keeping it real tho homie it ain't about what people think cause considering how horrible things are in America nobody can't laugh at nobody but much respect to you my dude
There is nothing wrong with that. I am 36 years old and I have NEVER been laid. I have never been on a date, never had a girlfriend, never been in love. And you know what, it doesn't bother me. I wouldn't have it any other way.
@@yatessixecho1 Bro. Snap out of it. Have a plan. I'm not saying fornication but unless you pledge celibacy for God or a cause, make things happen.
Don't think anyone can
Less chance of disease i would say is a good thing. Cause people sure dont disclose if they have herpes before they try to kiss you gotta be careful.
I like carlos. Laid back intelligent level headed and realistic. Seem like a kool guy
Carlos a real one
Great video Bruv. Keep it coming 🔥
I used to be a simp in my 30's but through experience and growing confidence; having purpose in life, I ain't even have to try. They usually be approaching me now. Make men great again!!
So many facts in this video.
Met my then girlfriend and now wife at a job. Been together for 12yrs and married 5years. Meeting girls at clubs should be just for fun.
That Mexican dude had the 411 lol fellow raza layed down the facts tho!! 🔥💯
Fitx last week: you are more attractive than you think
Fitx this week: you aren’t as attractive as you think
Gotta keep changing the advice to keep subs confused lol
Wow u don’t understand context ?
@@albertwesker8883 never let them know your next move 🧠
@@HiImRheya lol out loud
dont get too comfortable around here ☠️🙏🏽
The times we live in don’t promote confidence & attraction in the average straight male struggling to pay rent.
I’m 29 and I’ve gotten one girl from an app. She ended up STEALING my CAR !!!
What’s the point of approaching these days? If you are not over 6ft and look like a Chad you have very little chance. It’s incredibly difficult even for a coffee date.
Fitx you are such a motivation. I will work to get a physique similar to yours. Keep up the great content.
28 years old 😭 i never even kissed or touched a women
Dude that is so brutal!
Who cares if anything that's a good thing that just gives u time to focus and improve on urself
@@Chainlerwhat do you mean he has had 28 years to improve himself you think 28 more will do the trick?
@@snoowbrigade ok
@@masterlee1988who says he ain’t winning in other areas of his life that actually matter.
Looks will only get you so far
Not true, it’s about 90% looks.
@@anthonymanuel55000 you have no clue bro looks will only get you so far after that what else??? If your saying it mostly does then that’s shallow thinking and that’s okay for you
“Don’t you think you can apply the same to Instagram?”
You can’t because the simple fact that she’s on Instagram or a dating app IS the issue. If you screen for attention seeking behavior then you have to automatically disqualify everyone on Instagram.
Invest in yourself, build your own business, go to the gym and get into the best shape of your life, and pursue hobbies that make you truly happy.
Chasing sex is what makes guys weak and unhappy.
100% facts
The only reason to use a dating app is if you don’t have time to go out in person
Why not use both is the point to have more women that are interested in you. To get yourself more options
@@gme_chnger8557 Personally I don’t live in the biggest city, I live in Denver and know too many people here. I think it’s embarrassing if people see me on there, and I can get way prettier girls in person.
That 39 year old is definitely a virgin
Fit did Carlos dirty lol
This guy’s interaction is so down to earth spitting facts every couple second
Carlos is a G
Yep Carlos kept it real about how phony the dating scene is and that he not letting it get in the way of him making his money instead
I grew a long beard and let the hair mat up to keep them away from me. It still doesn't work 100%
Amazing video thank you man ❤