30 People Rate Their Own Attractiveness From 1 - 10 | Social Experiment
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It's very interesting how people see it as an insult to be considered averagely attractive and think it's humble to call yourself a 7 or even higher.
Real
People are delusional
Especially women can't accept reality about their looks
But hey if it makes them feel better about themselves who cares I guess
It is just delusional tbh. The vast majority of us are in the middle area of the bell curve within many aspects of our lives, attractiveness, skills, personality, profession, etc...WIth the most basic understanding of statistics, unless you're really sure, putting yourself within that 4-6 range has like 80% of being objectively correct
Yep. I'm someone who has literally been told several times that I "could model" by women and still only think i'm a 6/10. I can't imagine how guys who are less attractive than me who don't get these types of compliments could possibly think they're 7+/10. Same for women lol.
If you were told you could model, then you are definitely not a 6 and are very likely to be higher than 7.5, probably pushing 9. So you may be delusional but in the opposite sense, that you lower your attractiveness.@@thelonercoder5816
@@thelonercoder5816if you could model then you are most definitely not just slightly above average
People's perception of a "5" is so low despite it being bang on average. If asked a little differently, I feel like most folks who call themselves a 7 would agree they're realistically only "average"
Would be interesting to see a test like that
But considering how many women literally rate themselves 10/10 perfection I think the results wouldn't be that different
It’s probably because of people viewing the spectrum as if it’s a grade, in which 70% is equated as a C and treated as a decently average score, whereas anything below that is failing. Therefore, 6 and below is terrible, and 7 is average
A 7 is when you have average looks but you make an effort.
@@ShadowJinxXOX agree with this. Our mind goes back to school in which a 50% is terrible but a 70% is just about adequate.
@@ShadowJinxXOX its because people usually dont want to classify them selves as average, its called the "above-average effect" if you ask people their driving skills, looks etc most of them will claim they are above average.
People unironically rate themselves 10/10, I get that confidence is good, but come on.. there's a difference between _confidence_ and _delusion_
I know right how dare these ugly mofos have confidence and see themselves in a positive light. How dare they not think of themselves as I see them
How did you get that emoji
Lol that's true hahahha
Where the hell did you find that emoji 😂😂
The emoji lol
the issue is the people are answering a different question than what they're being asked.
they're being asked "where do you think you statistically belong on a scale from 0 to 10"
and they're answering "how do you feel about your body image on a scale from 0 to 10"
basically there is a validity issue in your sociological research because you are measuring something else than what you think you are. the research is, in my opinion, invalid. maybe the findings could be used to explore how people mix up the two
I completely agree. The question specifically asks how they rate their *looks* on a scale from 1 to 10 (at 0:23), not how confident or attractive they see themselves. I think they should have clarified the question or they should have guided the subjects beforehand. They could also ask a follow-up question on how they view their overall attractiveness. The way this was handled makes the results pretty useless and shows how easy it is to miss the obvious problems in such a survey.
@@CaptainPanick Yes this flaw in the study is punctuated by multiple participants saying something like "I don't think others see me this way but this is how I see myself" kind of thing.
Yes, kaelia1118, people were answering the question incorrectly! I was really frustrated with some of "wishful thinking" answers!
This is spot on
Absolutely agree 💯
Confident people don't need to self rate them a 10 to feel good, they'll be realistic and be fine with it
@@CRM-114what about someone that's not craving for validation? Or an old man, you think grampa gives a dump if he's not attractive anymore?
100%. A truly confident person would say with confidence I'm a solid 5!
@@CRM-114that's the problem. A 5 is not ugly. 5 is average. Below 2 is ugly. Below 5 is just off average. For example being 15 lbs overweight makes a 5 turn into a 4. Being a 5 but not fixing orthodontics or having unkempt hair turns them into a 4. Being a 5 but having a great six pack or yoga fitness level turns a 5 to a 6.
People clearly don't understand what average means. 0 is Quasimodo and 10 is like reputable model agency picks you out of a crown and offers you a contract.
It depends on the question, are they saying it's specifically about physical attraction? And who determines this objective standard? Someone 10 could be another person's 8
@@Tily-vh3ly exactly, I can agree there is of course objectivity linked to our natural desire to seek out healthy partners, and certain features being markers of health. Things like healthy bodyweight, facial symmetry and harmony, taller height amongst men (generally), wider hips amongst women, etc
Asking people what they rate their own attractiveness is more of a social and psychological question than it is an objective beauty standard question.
spot on
So you mean it's something more Subjective?
With that said. ... I rate myself a minus 5. I'm not compatible with anyone and I would not be a good wife to anyone. I am less than human because I'm a woman.
@@phoenixtoash2396girl, you need therapy.
@@phoenixtoash2396are you trolling?
When I was a child I noticed that when we got a new kid in class they looked weird to me but after a few weeks they looked normal like the others. I guess I experienced exposure effect and it was much stronger when I was so young because I haven’t seen many faces before.
That’s a really interesting point! I experienced the same thing & never thought about it until just now lol
While I understand that feeling, this year I started uni and the first days I swear I felt pretty intimidated by all the “good looking” people there were on my classes. But after a couple of weeks I realized they were all ugly asf lol like average at most haha and I talked about it with a friend and she said had a similar experience. I guess after spending more time seeing each others faces I started noticing all their imperfections and probably my perception on their personalities affected how (un)attractive I started seeing them
@@agme8045That’s really interesting, back in my 20’s I felt like people were much prettier in my college town than in my smaller home town and it made me feel insecure. Now that I think about it, it propably wasn’t even true.
@@agme8045 Interesting. I experience the opposite affect. I generally find people more attractive the longer I know them, not less. As an artist, I also tend to see most people as attractive because I find unique features so interesting and appealing. It's like looking at variations in landscapes. In my experience, I can find beauty in each one.
@@agme8045 usually you start finding people more attractive the more you see them unless you find their personality really unpleasant, i think the fact that you start finding people ugly stems from your own insecurities and you trying to protect yourself from feeling too inferior, thus you actively look for reasons to find people ugly
Interesting how often 7 is said, for most people it seems as if 7 perfectly encapsules "I look good but not perfect" which I believe is a really common thought most people have regarding their looks. It does not make any sense mathematically for everybody to be a 7, but it all falls down on how you define "good but not perfect". Everybody wants to be above average as well, which might contribute to the trend towards 7.
7 becomes the new average, all the scale is now out of 14
People are delusional
The thing Is they look good for themselves, they base that 7 on how some days they look better, but they're not comparing their looks to the most attractive people they have seen, If they did they would know they're average
@@NoRockinMansLandPoatan is a 10 tho
@@TetsuoTakayamaCyberpunk facts lol
Average is 5 btw, a lot of people always rate themselves as 7 but what they don’t understand is that’s ABOVE AVERAGE
@@CRM-114 I don't understand, how do you guys go about calculating that
Actually what they don’t understand is that logically on a bell curve a 7 is in fact a LOT above average 😂😂😂
@@Havana428Not everyone automatically tries to gauge a score out of 10 based on where they think it would stand on a normal distribution… that’s like saying you have to rate every average movie you watch 5/10. I dont blame other people for not being on the same page as you…
@@AerisNotAerith well yeah, this may be true. It depends on how you view stuff. If you are more analytical you may wanna be more exact and closer to reality but it’s hard to judge your own level of attractiveness nonetheless.
These people rating themselves a 7 is pretty fair though if you consider a huge percentage of the population is over 40 and obese.
I found quite a few of those people pretty unattractive and im surprised they rated themselves this high
Me too 😬
Same I was really surprised by some of them.
I think the girls tend to overrate themselves more too
Same here there would be a girl I'd rate a 2 and she'd be like "well today I didn't really dress up so I'd say a 7" lol
How dare they see themselves with kindness and optimism right?
I'm curious how the results would change if you rephrased the question as "how do you believe others would rate you" instead of "how would you rate yourself"
Some of these ppl seem to live in lala land so it would still be high.
Why do ppl always think rating yourself 10/10 is unrealistic? If your first way of thinking is to compare yourself to someone else who looks nothing like you, you’re never going to win… why not truly rate yourself by your own standards un compared to others 😂
@@ShutupandListen is it not equally valid to have a concrete assessment of how others see you, thus enabling you to accurately predict and model your expectations on the world's response to you?
@@ShutupandListenis it healthy to have a high weight, matted hair, unclear skin, and lopsided features? Fetal alcohol syndrome also causes certain facial features
Now that's a good idea. Would hopefully wake up to reality the *countless* males in my country that are in the 1-3 category and have the nerve to act as if they were above-average, let alone "a perfect 10".
The people that call themselves a 10 and then say "Gotta be confident" are literally the most insecure people you're ever gonna meet. And also that's not confidence that's straight up delusion.
Yeah it's not a real rating and they don't even pretend it is. Can they fool themselves that easily?!
They're the same people that when you reject them politely they absolutely flip out and insult you.
Trust me when I say that reality will hit most of them like a truck. Even then some of them will still justify their behavior, thinking it's because they're a 10😢😂
These are the people who install ten dating apps just to ghost all their dates to boost their confidence
You're mixing it up. Many of them are aware of the fact that they're likely not perceived as 10s. They just do so LITERALLY because they feel as though that's going to boost their self esteem
I don't think people willing to speak in front of a camera are "regular" people. They are obviously more confident than when you ask in the streets.
Get a literal 10/10 model to interview them and see them stammer snd sweat when their perception of their own beauty is thrown into their face by a god
@@lizxu322lol you have a really weird value system that you refer to 10/10 as a “god” 😂😂
Closest things to gods in our world are the mega powerful: musk, bezos etc
Or the mega successful and respected: Conor McGregor and Taylor swift.
I would never feel that intimidated by someone good looking, as being able to fight gives you power over them and they need to submit to you to keeep their life ultimately
@@lizxu322I just looked at your photo and you aren’t even attractive so I don’t know why you subscribe to a value system that harms you
@@synchronis346 some people didn't take creative writing classes and it really shows
@@lizxu322 How so? Explain how that relates to you calling someone attractive a god?
Huge issue with this social experiment being how the question was asked - the fact that so many of them are bringing up confidence and personal anecdotes shows that they’re not trying to rate themselves realistically in a logical distribution. They’re answering about how they feel about themselves, which is a totally different question than “how attractive do you think you are objectively respective to the rest of the world”
Yeah, but if you’re attract a lot of people regardless of the “objective” standard. You are attractive so the rating is right.
Also there really isn’t an objective standard it’s influenced a lot by culture, your personal age, what other people say, social media, and trends.
@@sweetxjc If there was no objective standard, then there would not be a tendency of models to have similar features. All models are tall. All models are lean. All models have sharp eyes and defined jaws. All models have decent hairlines. All models have very clear skin. All models have well-sized lips. All models have good jaw projection.
Moreover, these things are on a scale themselves. As in they're normally distributed, so the degree to which you fall into the upper percentiles indicates the degree to which you are model-tier looking. Models are in the 99th percentile for every one of those features. People who are average either are average in all those aspects or they're in the upper percentiles for some features and in the lower percentile for others.
Most of the people in the video had some decent qualities but also had major flaws that would make them lean more toward average. Other people were below average. E.g. no person with a recessed jaw is ever going to be at or above a 5. Also, a lot of them were fat. So, that drops you down by 1 to 2 points by default.
Even then, many comments here conflate overall attractiveness with literal beauty, as in looking at the face and ignoring everything else that actually makes a person attractive.
Agreed. That makes the conclusion about familiarity inaccurate. I think people are rating themselves based on their individual potential but rating other people based on comparison. If you have more ability or potential, the standards you set for yourself are higher. Even if the number rating is off, people can accurately pick out pictures that are of similar attractiveness to themselves.
The average individual is out of touch and delusional.
For me it’s the question. Rating how attractive you are to yourself is not the same as thinking you’re a 10 generally.
Attraction is not purely physical
@@NoRockinMansLand it's like 90% physical
@@ramsaybolton9151 at first yes, and it also depends on what the type of relationship. But how a person makes you feel, their personality unironically, amongst other things can lead to genuine attraction that tips the scale over time
@@NoRockinMansLand Idk man there are people with great personalities that I will never be attracted to because they don't have the physical "pattern" I desire. Personality helps you decide between people that already have the physical "pattern" you desire.
@@ramsaybolton9151 yes, I agree. That's why I said it plays the largest part at first. People typically consider other factors after the person has met the looks threshold (when someone looks "acceptable enough" to date, according to that person).
"not too good not too bad... 8"
being an 8 is basically being essentially perfect wth
No It isnt
8 is model material I’d say but not perfect
The first girl who rated herself a 5 is better looking than all of the girls who rated themselves 7s and 8s. A lot of delusion going around. It's not self-confidence.
Sometimes delusional people are more confident than others without delusional thinking.
Yeah it’s her posture that’s bad, she’s very beautiful.
Exactly
Nah I think a couple of the ones who rated themselves as 8s really were 8s and she was like a 7 (but an actual 7 lol).
Some of the men here are delusional too 🤷🏻♀️ not just women. Also they asked them to rate themselves they didn’t ask you to rate them 🤷🏻♀️
Being a 3 and rate yourself 10 because you feel like a 10 is delusion, being a 3 and fully own it and happy being a 3 is confidence
Attractiveness is subjective, so I actually kinda get them
confidence comes in different forms
@@MultiSciGeek No, it isnt. Hundreds of high quality studies spanning many decades have shown this. Attractiveness is objective.
@@MultiSciGeek The real world responds to one's OBJECTIVE level of attractiveness.
@@kylerBD those studies are only done in 1 culture but different cultures really do have completely different beauty standards, and they often change over time. most girls rated 10 in america wouldn't be considered attractive in my slavic country or some asian country.
They are not asking you to rate your confidence. These people are delusional. SMH
Yes i am so furious
I think most didn’t understand the question. It was not asked the right way maybe 😅
Wtf, most of these people are 4 to 6. Actual 7-10s are literal models or people that you would stop and stare at on the street because they are gorgeous and stunning! I think people tend to think that a 7/10 is average because that corresponds to a 70% = C grade (in America). People don’t grasp the concept of a bell curve or normal distribution
The rating system is pretty stupid itself. I could never use it to determ someones attractiveness
The question wasn’t “where do you see yourself in the the curve of normal distribution” though. Avarage ppl around me seems still very good looking to me and I would still rate them 7. Because I see 10 as perfect, 9-7 as very good looking 5 - not great not terrible 4-3 unattractive 2-1 really unattractive. Everyone is havinh their own scale and I dunno what makes ppl think it should correspond to normal distribution.
@anastazka00 attractiveness is objectively distributed on a normal distribution. Most large data sets in life follow the normal curve where the vast majority fall somewhere in the middle of a scale (3-6 in this case). As you go to more extreme sides (1s and 10s), the number of people goes down because extremes are more rare in life.
I feel like most of the people on this interview are Australian or British. Not American, just based on accent
10s dont exist@@Anastazka00
I think you need to keep in mind that there's a vast difference between how people actually perceive themselves, and what they'll say if asked.
Many of them are giving an answer that will "save face" because they feel like attraction equates value, hence giving yourself a "bad" grade would reflect poorly on your worth and your perceived self-confidence.
Also, the question needs to be precise : "how do you think others would rate you" will not get the same answer as "how do you rate yourself". You can literally see these people answering based on their self-confidence, personnality, ego etc instead of social standards for beauty.
yea, just like the girl in video said that it’s so that to not “give off bad energy”
Actually a really good point
This + excluding number 7. :)
Well said
exactly. some of them even said it almost explicitly
..the people that said “10” , know damn well, that they are not…it’s ok to be average…u dont appear “confident” when u inflate ur rating, u seem to be insincere/delusional/etc…
I don't think that real 10 exist, everyone has mistakes, nobody has all perfect features
@@sarazigova1641 ..the closest i have ever seen is a prime Brad Pitt…and im a straight male, ha…but, gdamn, bro was flawless..hair/face/physique…unreal..
@@kramer1372im a girl and there are tons of male supermodels who are hotter than brad pitt
@@valleyofthedolls hahahaha
@@valleyofthedollsim a man and I say there isn’t
EVERYTIME I HAVE TO RATE MYSELF I REMEMBER HENRY CAVILL EXIST, AND IM NOWHERE OVER 5 LOL.
I do the same but with Megan Fox and Adriana Lima
That man...... 😍
😂
You look very attractive in your pic, unless you have some weird asymmetry with the eyes that is hidden by the sunglasses.
@@amnbvcxz8650he's probably fishing for compliments.
Its interesting that the noticably attractive people are the only people who are accurate with their rating. Probably just because most people fall into the same delusion, only the attractive people just happen to look like the delusion.
I suspect it's because the truth isn't as painful for attractive people as it is for unattractive ones.
Allowing them to be more honest with themselves without falling into despair.
@@sam1323123 yes
I think it was the channel Jubilee that had a thing where they put 100 people in a room and then everyone needed to find whoever was rated the hottest. Even in the beginning some very good looking people eliminated themselves.
The last 10 had like 3 people who were even fuckable. The uggos forced their way into the top 10 by being stubborn as hell and refusing to leave thinking it made them look confident but it did the exact opposite.
One of the best comments I've read under this video. Very well said.
1-Horrible disfigurement
2-Many glaring issues
3-probably one huge glaring issue perhaps a massive nose
4- perhaps a person with a weak jaw or slight overbite
5-average,not going to be stealing any looks.
6- people might look your way
7- either a pretty face,physique, or stature.
8-more than a couple good characteristics
9-Everything
10- i think the personality and exposure to this person makes them a 10. They have everything YOU like while also have everything a 9 is.
I did the same scale breakdown above lol
We disagree but brought up some similar qualifiers!
To find someone else so analytical is refreshing
I don’t think a weak jawline or slight overbite instantly qualifies a 4. I’ve seen very attractive people with this trait that make up for it in other attractive features, especially women.
Adriana Lima has a weak jaw
@@joshuasmith7089 idk what planet ur living on but that is not a weak jaw
Well by that I’m a 7! Was. I guess at 40 I’m probably a 6 now. 4 after waking up. 3 when I feel grungy & self conscious 😂
Did you explain to them that the scale is on a curve, or just asked them the question?
It sounds like a lot of people believe 7/10 is a C, which is PASSING. It should be a 5/10, which is equivalent to a C, but American grading systems push it higher up.
The really hot ones that rated themselves 8 are the only ones who seem to be self aware. The others are all 3-6 but all rated themselves 7-8.
Got to agree, imo most of those people were between 3 and 5 with the ones who were more attractive being more realistic about how they look...
Well said.
What does the curve mean? Like there are same procentage of people who are 9/10 and 1/10?
@@sarazigova1641 Yes. It is a bell curve, so the majority of people are 5. That is average, so people you see and forget. There are as many 10/10 as 1/10, which means basically none. To find one of those is basically impossible. Like, as humans, we can empathize even with grossly disfigured people, so having them genuinely be a 1/10 is difficult.
Most attractive people, then, would fall into the 7/8 category. Same with notably unattractive people really being 2/3.
@@scpdatabase969 why it's so hard to rate your own attractivness then? If it's so obvious
7:56 "9.5, pushing a 10...I don't really care what people think, and I can't really change my face" It doesn't matter if you care what people think or not. It also doesn't matter if you can't change your face. Neither of those facts change your face rating. I don't understand why everyone is so delusional and full of themselves in this video.
It's great you found so many confident young people, this honestly surprised me considering the impact of social media on mental health. I'd love to see the same survey done with people in their 40s and 50s.
That was overconfidence more often than confidence
Theyd be more realistic
Nothing's inherently wrong with overrating yourself. It's only wrong when you do that while looking down on others. Hell, it's wrong to look down on others even if you're indeed a 9 or a 10, yet these people in the comments would give you a pass simply because you're that good-looking. People think overrating yourself implies looking down on others when that's not necessarily the case.
No one thinks that lol. People in the comments simply are calling out on how these average-looking people at best, rate themselves rather high on the scale, and give all of these excuses about how they are comfortable in the own skin and they are very confident, when that’s literally not the point of the video or the question. They are supposed to objectively rate their attractiveness, and the only way of doing that is literally comparing the way you look to how others look. It’s not about getting a passing grade, it’s about truthfully stating your level of attractiveness. Your face is a 5 regardless of how confident you are. The people were literally saying “I know other people would rate me lower but I think I’m an 8”, THATS THE WHOLE POINT lol how would others rate you, how would most people perceive you.
Overrating yourself *does* imply that you expect a certain treatment from others. I've seen and heard of *countless* males in the 1-3/10 category acting as if not only they *deserved* women in the 8-10 category, but also that "they shouldn't compensate by providing" for such women. Nothing short of delusional.
No, I think a lot of people would look negatively at over-rating because it's an indication that you're not able to assess things more objectively, truthfully, rationally, realistically. It's an indication that you're not able to be fine with reality. And this is not a positive thing. Someone who can truthfully admit they are a 4 and be totally fine with it is someone who is actually confident and rational.
@@agme8045 The video is about how attractive _they_ think they are. Not how they think other people will percieve them.
There is something wrong with overeating yourself; it leads to you being overconfident and delusional.
7:56 i don’t believe anyone when they say they don’t care what others think
Yeah , social world is moved by what other's think and people's perception on you matters where you stand socially . Which is quite impossible not to care . Probably you can say that , so you can do some out of ordinary stuff , but still how social world will judge you will impact it .
Anybody who doesn't care and means it won't say it. They don't need to.
That's delusional to think. Some people have low fear and low/no empathy, whilst also having high positive impulse.
Hi Qoves Studio, I remember you once quoted a study that said people are more honest (realistic) about where they stand on the 1-10 when next to someone who truly has a high sexual market value (SMV).
With that in mind, if you did another video like this, would you consider having the men and women stand next to an actual high SMV model and then ask them to rate themselves? I would be curious to see what people would rate themselves 1-10 while standing next to an actual 8 in looks and body?
And ask them to rate themselves with excluding number 7.
And the high one should come and everybody, without enhancement, no make up, no super styled hair, natural hair, no jewellry, no nice clothes, NO surgery and fillers or whatever, a white or black T-shirt and basic jeans.
Then it would be more accurate.
Everybody in their NATURAL state.
This is how you know if you are naturally beautiful
That's really interesting. Great idea! Although I think if they stood next to a 10/10 model, they might still give themselves a 7 because a 7 is still obviously below the highly attractive person. Maybe put a solid seven next to them?
@@xDiananasok but how do you get rid of your fillers 😂
There was a documentary that did something similar, and what was most shocking is that the women (there were no men in the experiment) just rated the model higher. The researchers' hypothesis (which I agree with) was that rating yourself as a 6~7 is safe. It is above 5 which is average (and no one wants to be average) but not so high like an 8 or 9 which would cause them to face reality in the form of negative criticism from objective observers of their beauty.
Anyway the model used was about a 7.5~8 but because most of the women wanted to label themselves as a 7 they knew standing next to another 7 would instantly make them a lair so they rated the model as a 10... Oh, and the reason I said the model was a 7.5~8 is because of another prior experiment in which they had a few hundred people rate the model from 1-10.
Personally, I thought most of the women fell into the average range 4~5, so I don't know why they were so determined to be 7's.... Seriously! Ask any unfortunate person whose looks rate about 2~3.5, and they would LOVE to be considered at least average (5 out 10) looking.
This would be such a great video
They all pick 7/10 because they think it's not too risky but still 2 points above 5. It means that they're afraid to be average. 6 is not far enough from the averageness so they pick the number just above.
It's more like they think 7 is the average. Their scale is just different.
I just love that they put effort into looking and feeling nice! This goes a very long way, and there's something so... cute about it. Taking care of yourself is important!
They don't put that much effort into their appearance or their guts wouldn't be hanging over their jeans
Sometimes I think I'm cute and sometimes I think I'm ugly so 5 feels about accurate
If that's you in the profile pic, definitely not a 5. ❤
Maybe on a good day!@@malzzzzzzzzzz
@@malzzzzzzzzzzfacts she is attractive
why do people always assume that not rating yourself as perfect = low confidence? You can be objective about where you stand and still be confident in yourself. I rate myself based on my dating success. Unless i'm a guy who gets women at the snap of a finger, i'm not a 10/10 lol. Objectively, i'd say i'm a 6/10. Slightly above average.
A 6 is not just slightly above average bro, it’s literally above the average.
Probably they wishful think that overrating themselves will magically increase their attractiveness in the other person's eyes. Never the case though. In fact, if someone who's (for example) a 3-4/10 in my eyes starts acting c0cky, they usually become a 2 or even 1.
@@kiravampira1456 esp if the person feels entitled to people because they think they're this extremely attractive person. Literally delusional. I've dealt with this before where below average to average looking women act like they're 10s and get mad when I reject them lol
@thelonercoder5816 Dealing with the same scenario on a regular basis, only gender-reversed.
Thank you! Besides, being confident when you have nothing to be confident about is silly. If you look like a failed science experiment, stay out of other people’s sight as much as you can and be humble. Contribute to the world using other skills
It's always the people that say "self love is important" and rate themselves a 10 that are the most insecure about their bodies and hate themselves. I don't know why people falsely portray confidence, it's not attractive to be fake or delusional.
Yes!!! I dont get it! I would give myself 2 (maximum) and i look better than some of them. ( I am a woman)
@@5-es4mnI think that’s the other extreme. People who looking alright but rating themselves a 1-3 are trying to fish for compliments or want to get seen as very very humble
The better question would be "how do you think others would rate you?" People would be more honest
yoooo new quoves vid
the people getting angry at rating themselves high are interesting to me. even if to you it may not be “correct” it does feel like people get angry at people being happy with themselves and the way they look(yes, being happy with yourself is different to objectively looking attractive to people). although i do agree that people who rate themselves higher without any thought into it are interesting i don’t think it’s reasonable to put them down or say “they look bad” because obviously they do to themselves and is why this is rating themselves. not other people rating them.
Right! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Maybe its because of access
They believe they are a certain number and once someone they believe to be on the same level rates themselves higher
They get angry because they got degraded and cheated of a chance with them.
YES this weird phenomenon where a “ugly” person rate themselves higher on beauty scale and the negative reactions they get is odd. Like so what a “ugly” person think they’re attractive 😭
those people who get mad are so insecure
@@shelby9510none here was ugly tho
I feel so bad for the people he interviewed for this video. They were just asked to rate themselves and because they rated themselves “too high” the comments take every opportunity to shit on them. If most of the people in these comments were in this video they’d be deemed “ugly” by the comments too.
What's the point of such a video if we can't react to their answers ? Nobody shits on them btw, people are just saying they're delusional.
@@nairdazitro7460 no some of these comments are definitely shitting on these people really harshly
@@BlackCat-qr6gy I have seen none.
@@nairdazitro7460 would you rate yourself a 5 if you were asked on the spot?
@@nairdazitro7460 also there are clearly attractive people being interviewed yet there’s comments saying “everyone is average or below”. imo that’s far too harsh.
I am very confident in myself and I can say that I look about 1.5. Delusional is not a confidence, lmao.
1.5? This is deformed are you really THAT unattractive?
1.5 is literally a deformity, an ugly person would be 4
I thought I'm 1.5
Shit, now I have to go even lower 😢
@@Arka_Das 1.4 will be fine!
Wow. These people have so much self confidence. I'd give them all a 5 or a 6.
no most of them or a 4
@@lookismcel I disagree. 4s were not the majority here. Most people were around 5
love you guys of this channel.
i refused for long to watch these videos of you with opinions of other people because in majority is useless.
but you didn't make just another of these videos that just show the opinions, you showed the data and reality behind. and that's the useful thing.
love you.
I have to say I love this channel, I run a model scouting agency in London and you do such fantastic work x
Are those confident people really just lying to themselves? Even at my best I never would have rated myself so high. What is it like to live without insecurities!! A dream!!
I rate myself as a 5.5 but I'm probably a 5 somedays and a 6 others.
A young attractive person would rate me lower whereas an old person who was never highly attractive growing up would rate me higher. So it depends who's rating.
My mom rates me as an 8.
I totally agree with you
I agree. I'm a 4 when I wake up, a 5 on average, a 6 if my skin is clear, and a 7 if my skin is clear with makeup
Calling yourself an 8, 8.5, or 10 is crazyyyy. Nobody in this video was above a 7 and most were like a 5 or lower lmao. It's insane that people think "well i put effort into being presentable" or "I'm confident so therefore I'm a 10" lmao like plz be so for reallll
Some people live in delusion
True none were high on the beauty scale. Most were 3 or 4 at best.
There were definitely above averge people here.... I'm too lazy to find the rest buy 6:59 girl was super pretty. 2:32 girl also has a lot of potential like her eyes are pretty and features
you guys are too judgemental 😂 and yall perception of beauty is screwed.
@@victoriancarwash4393 nah you would just rather people lie to you so that your feelings don't get hurt. I'm begging y'all to be realistic. Not everyone needs to be beautiful but calling everyone a 8, 9, or 10/10 is delusional.
It's so funny when I compare them to people in my country, in my country everybody thinks that they are ugly, I really love our humble mentality
Where are you from?
@@nicochan1537 Perm, it's a town in Russia
@@gorilla_2282russians are always so negative 😂
makes sense coz there's a whole bunch of super attractive ppl there
The dating app thing is SO TRUE. Like omg you KNOW RIGHT AWAY when you see someone in person vs their photos. Also I start to like people the more I get to know them
Rating System IMO
1-4: Below Average
5: Average
6: Above Average
7: Cute/Handsome
8: Hot
9: Supermodel Territory
10: Perfect w/ Absolutely No Flaws
This
10s don’t exist. Highest should always be a 9. Separate 1-3 with 4. You can be below average but not hard to look at. Some people are legit hideous
In that case everyone below a 3 would have to have moderate to severe deformities
No one has no flaws, for me supermodels should be 10 - we're looking at people who exist, not perfect entities
Level 10 attractiveness does not equal no flaws imo. Perfection is actually less attractive, more of an anomaly or spectacle but not truly attractive, imo.
People foaming at the mouth in the comments cause people don’t rate themselves 3’s. You will live 💀
Exactly! 😅
LMAOOO exactly what i was thinking
@@aayushimajumdereng1615 Same
😂😂😂😂 this comment took me out. I think it's the audacity. like "😊 how dare you rate yourself high , don't you know you are ugly" 😂
It's more annoying when most of the girls there that are like 5 or 6 rate themselves 8+ as if they shouldn't be dating avg guys.
I feel attractiveness is subjective, and so much influences how we see/rate others and ourselves. One person in a line up could see someone as a 8 because they think they're very attractive, or it is there preference, while another person in the same line up could see someone as a 4. They have different preferences and ideas of what's attractive.
Majority of the commentators must be supermodel level gorgeous cause the way they're dragging these poor girls to hell💀💀
What are you trying to say exactly?
A) Normal people don't have eyes.
B) Unattractive people are not permitted to speak.
C) Only supermodels can form opinions?
@UnlistedAccount most of the people in this comment section are bitter and resentful tryna hide under a facade of self awareness and objectivity
exactly lol@@jonesyftw9120
The men were also over rating themselves.
No. They are just being honest. The majority of the ppl on this are 5s. Average. Nothing wrong with that. It's just a fact.
I think some part of it is, people will be more likely to hype you up if you’re ugly and more likely to drag you down if you’re pretty
How does that make sense in context of the video when they overrate themselves?
The problem is the scale is subjective. I see 10 as perfect, 9-7 as very good looking 5 - not great not terrible 4-3 unattractive 2-1 really unattractive. Lots of ppl in the comment section seems to think the scale should be according to the normal curve of distribution. So what could be a 5 in their scale, meaning “avarage”, would be 7 in my scale, as avarage people around me are still pretty good looking. You should define the question better.
7 is like a fucking model
They are like around 5s on a good day💀
Most of the people in this video were 3s, 4s, 5 and maybe three 6s. no one is over a 6
I'm a proud 6. But if you call someone a 6 they get offended. But this proves how delulu we are.
@@pcap8810 lool women have a problem with reality
Has to do a lot with their insecurity
i think a lot of people perceive the question asked as an overall score of how confident or overall good human being they are, when really the question is isolated to pure physical attraction of a human.
And based purely on physical attactiveness, a lot of these people would be 4/5/6 out of 10 with regards to being judged purely on physical attraction.
Maybe evolutionary it is an advantage to consider oneself more attractive to help with confidence in approaching a mate and finding a partner and ones general contentment with themselves. I dont know, but overall, it was interesting to see that there was a general trend of people thinking they were better looking than they were
No no they perfectly understood the question. They're just delusional because nobody wants to be average.
@@nairdazitro7460that’s what happens when you get told you’re special in school
People tend to over rate themselves or under rate even. Logically most people are 4-6.
Hardly anyone can be rated an actual 7 yet a lot of them are rating themselves 8'-10's. Remember it's about how other people see you, not yourself
people do the same when rating shows, anime and video games for some reason people don't understand how to use a simple 1-10 scale
@@JustAPokemonCommentingOnVideos it might as well be a seven through ten scale at this point
someone said it has to do with the western education system where 7 is the "mid" score in school but i am asian so i cannot confirm but in my opinion this 7 thing is more common in western world @@BitchChill for whatever reasons
@@JustAPokemonCommentingOnVideosA 70% is considered a C in our grading system for Americans I know. Can't confirm anywhere else
İt is not about how other see you though they asked how would you rate yourself. Why are you guys that harsh on people just because they love the way they look
this was so interesting, thank you for all the studies mentioned ^^
Something tells me that the people that always think theyre a 10 are the most insecure.
I have to wonder if people consider a 7/10 to be "average" because the U.S. grading standards for schools places 70%-79%, a "C," as average. And 50%-59% is an "F", or "fail"/"flunk."
yeah but these are British people... 7/10 isn't average in our grading
@zara1559 I understand the differences in the grading systems, and I'd say the American one is inferior for sure. I could be wrong, but would you agree that Americans lean on the 1-10 looks scale more than in any other region? If British people (or anyone else) are picking up on certain trends from Americans, like the 1-10 scale, I wonder if British people would adopt the same attitudes even though they would be lifted from the American grading system. But it could also be the case that people are just rating themselves favorably. I would never rate myself because I feel I'd be too much in my head worried about over/under-rating myself to be objective.
A c is below average in almost every American school. A B is considered average
@@bradentrice6615 C is considered satisfactory or good enough. The average grades are higher because of the competitive nature. If you get all Cs the chances you are going to higher education or whatever job opportunities is lower.
love these new kind of video where you apply theory to real life
The problem with this scales is pretty consistent throughout any kind of "ratings"
People tend to utilize barely half of said scale, so in the end we are coming to situation where the real 1 is 5, and 7-8 is like the middle, while anything below 5 just barely exist and almost never used
So, scales just stop making any sense whatsoever
I am a solid 2/10
Yeah, and when you look at the population around 5% of people are below 5/10, around 85% are average so 5 to lets say 7-10, leaving around 10% of being those above average 7+/10s.
@@cheytacpraetoriancomposite3413 the problem again is in perception. People often consider 5 as some kind of line for "less is definitely ugly", when 5 is literally just The Average. 5% you mentioned are not "slightly below average", they are on the lower end of the scale, so we should look at 1-2. Otherwise, again, 1-10 pont scale literally loosing it's meaning, because you use 1-5 scale with added 5 free point for everyone only to project "niceness", "positivity" and be "uplifting"
@@vanderdik7185 Yeah you are correct, I suggested that -5/10 being below average because of social experiments pretty much showing that if you are slightly below average in modern days you are basically fighting for scraps, those 5% and 10% people are the only major difference. The top 10% people are going to be attractive to absolutely everybody and the down 5% are going to be ugly for everybody and not a single person will say otherwise unless they are being dishonest. Those 85% of convencionally attractive people will be the target of preferance. I am in that range altho I have few strong features that stand out from the average and for one women I can be super ugly and for other I am a bedtime material.
Yeah, but physical attraction is to a large degree still subjective so how would anyone know it was accurately used? Unless you ask a specific population of the same culture and age range with the same exposure to similar media, there will never be an objective standard
Most people here were like 4s and 5s with some 6-6.5s sprinkled in. I think rating on a bell curve is the best way. According to the bell curve, a 7 and above is in the top 2% of looks, so a 7+ is reserved for models. I consider a 6 a good looking/cute person.
Bell curves can be highest at any number including 7. For example most people in the English exam scored a 70% so the bell curve is highest at 70.
Golly, just the fact hat youre talking about a bell curve when it comes to people...
I love that we now agree dehumanising people based on race is cruel and morally repugnant, but we're still thrilled to assign ourselves and others a number grade for our physical attractiveness. The disconnect is just astounding.
Yeah Im astonished at the comments in here. Many people here must be so miserable with themselves...
A better example here would be some white dude complaining to be descended from Vikings when he’s just a typical dude. Of course that would be annoying. No one likes delusion
I think the mere exposure effect is also the reason why some people may grow more comfortable with their looks as they grow older.
Such an interesting concept and in the end all I see is how funny people being overconfident is
Also, you are totally correct about how dating apps are too brutal, because they encourage participants to skip over people who would make good matches.
"I'm pretty average so I'm a 7 or 8".......... Wuuut... Seems we have a problem with math in the public school system.
If i ever get an 8 online i will not take it seriously like how is eight average....
nice to see a video like this from an educational channel
Don't take this channel too seriously. If it was a true educational channel they would have some sort of oversight by an authority be it a University or some other Institution. But as it currently stands they can basically upload anything, make it look objective and true when in reality there are possibly many biases involved. Most of their videos are pretty good but there are some where opinions definetly diverge. Point is don't believe everything at a whim. Especially for something which can be as subjective as beauty. They themselves said they changed their opinions over time how much is subjective and how much is objective. Just be critical.
A good scale is whether one kind of fades into the background, or stands out (one way or the other). If you are typically overlooked, then you're around average (4-6). If you really stand out (either really good, or really bad) then you're on the ends of the scale(1-2, 8-10), and if you are sometimes noticed but not enough to really stand out, then you're in the middle (3 or 7).
oh so that's why there were no updates last month! welcome back qoves 👍
There are people who rate themselves higher and here I am crying everytime im about to go out or see myself in the mirror with body dysmorphia .
Totally agree. I rate myself several points below what other people rate me. I often catch strangers staring at me appreciatively. I think it's cause other ppl have awful taste.
Wow people really overrate themselves I guess
Hmm I’m a Slavic woman and retired agency model, I would put myself at 6, especially living in the west. Most of my features are more fitting to East Asian beauty standards and I think location and culture really plays a big role in our attractive perception. Also,Regardless of where you rate yourself you can still put 10/10 effort and time into looking and preserving your beauty so you feel confident!
OK but did yall see the cute chunky dog close to the end. It's so cute omg, I just want to hug it🤗
Its not that deep, most people think average is 7, and 5 is below average and anything below 5 being repulsive.
Most these people are okay looking, and they think theyre okay looking. All these people in the comments usually without profile pics foaming at the mouth in rage is just laughable.
So they love themselves, Jung said the things that make people angry are usually also ditected towards themselves, so maybe u guys should learn to love yourself
Agreed. I'm starting to extremely dislike this channel and its community for its pretentious attitude about this. Most people simply see 7 as the average, so they're likely to rate themselves as that. Plain and simple. It doesn't mean they think they're above average. It doesn't mean they think they're extremely good-looking. Their scale is just different.
Imagine thinking 7 is average. 7 is literally the start of "pretty".
@@chillblue1650 With the millions of unique people on this planet, the obsession of beauty and the very narrow parameters placed on it is unfortunate. I feel for the younger generation who are exposed to so many videos centered on beauty and altering appearance. Besides TV and magazines, I had little of it growing up. The only people I have ever considered "ugly" have been cruel, mean, or perverted. There is a strong association for me with attractiveness and personality.
@@LoveAfterPookie No, 7 is above average beauty. 5.5 is average, 6 is pretty, pleasant, 7 is gorgeous anything 8-10 is rare.
Nah people just don’t want to admit that they are inferior. I like to think I’m smarter than average even though I’m probably normal intelligence.
People who rate themselves 7 do it because of self-preservation rather than because it’s the objective truth
also can someone explain this to me:
in this video he talks about individuals rating themselves higher because we see our faces everyday and that familiarity makes us perceive ourselves to be more attractive BUT have you every taken a selfie you thought you looked nice but the longer you stare at that it, the uglier and weirder you think you look??!!
This subject is really interesting because it brings in other topics that can be related to it suck as
If you rate yourself higher than average some would judge you or call you selfish or too confident or arrogant.
And the people that rate themselves lower would be seen as not confident or shy or "a pick me"
So the whole thing comes down to how you see yourself and how others see you and that can be poisoning
As it can either make you too aware or careless and other people's opinions matter to almost everyone even if they say they don't care what others say.
So in short this topic is very wide as it can be seen both positively and negatively and no matter what not everyone can come to an agreement on it in a lot of points
Great video it's really interesting seeing how people view themselves and view others in their life.
One thing for sure they all need to change to gain that 2 extra point is IMPROVING THEIR POSTURE,
Attractivnes is also:
- bodylanguage
- movement
- smell
- posture
- voice
Etc
Not to mention personality.
This was the most scientifically informed roast I've ever seen.
Please make a video about the width of the nose and the tip of the nose, and how it affects the beauty of women. For example, if a woman has an unusually wide nose for her ethnic group
I think the rating yourself from 1-10 scale is more for fun than anything. I see myself as about a 6 out of 10, a little bit above average but nothing out of the ordinary. Sundays when I don't really go out and haven't done my makeup much or focused too much on making my hair look nice, I'm about a 5. When going out on a date with my boyfriend, trying to look my best, I'm a 6.5. My boyfriend though for some reason thinks I'm a 10/10, which is really sweet (maybe he's just saying that).
In society beauty is tied to value. People may feel they dont value themselves if they rate themselves low
Thank you for teaching me ❤ i enjoy your content.
9:37 bro showed my face as an example of unattractiveness 💀
Felt that
Looks scale is objective and statistical. It isn't affected by how you "feel"
I completely agree with you
It can't be objective. Beauty is subjectve. What's a 10 to you could be a 3 to me.
Hi QOVES! Please start citing your sources, it would be much appreciated :)
This is like asking someone how much they make. And instead of saying how much they make, they say how much they WANT to make.
Kudos to the ⅓ of participants being accurate and sincere.
The woman in the icon with the green dress was nail on the head without sounding arrogant.
The guy who rated himself as 2/10 seemed more a matter of honest but skewed perception due to a lack of confidence, rather than false modesty. He was better looking than he realised.
I was surprised by this video, i thought a lot more people would have been more comfortable being honest. I also thought there'd by more false modesty.
I would rate myself at 6 on a good day, and 4 on a bad day. What i have in a face and shape, i lose in short stature and pale complexion
way too many 4-5s rating themselves as 7 here.
Thats a lot of 3/4's that think they are a 7.
I noticed a common misunderstanding when answering the question was that some of the participants replied with the number that they 'wanted' to be - not the number that they actually believe they are. I also can't help but feel that many participants mixed up being a confident person with what rating they'd give themselves.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!
I have a question.
13:38
Does the quote "more attractive couples" mean, that the two persons. which weren't friends before find themselfs as equally attractive than "less attractive couples" who were friends before? so does "less attractive couples" mean that they aren't attractive bc one person is much more attractive that the other one or does it simply mean "less attractive couples" are most likely friends before because they are both no so attractive people?
My reading of the study is that "more attractive couples", which I'd see as two people that are both 7+ have both crossed an attractiveness threshold where their physical features don't have to be warmed up to. They both look good with fit, toned bodies and well balanced facial features. They are both "easy on the eyes" and so then it is just their personalities that have to have good chemistry.
Meanwhile the "less attractive couples", who fall below a 7, but most likely are within a point of each other (so a 4 & 5, or a 5 & 6) are having to navigate becoming familiar with each other over time so that other qualities either emerge or get highlighted more by familiarity. "She is a bit heavy, which didn't turn me on at first, but as I got to know her more I noticed how beautiful her eyes were, and we share the same sense of humor and make each other laugh all the time. I didn't expect it, but now I think she is pretty sexy."
So in a sense it is how much initial friction there is. The guy who is a 5 who sees an 8 woman is going to think "Gawd damn... smoking! If only I could be with someone like that" whereas seeing a 6 woman will think "She's kind of pretty, I might be able to settle for her" but would still need to hang out with the woman and assess her more to see if she has qualities that will make the "settling" worthwhile.
as someone who watch beauty pageant since the early 2000s like Miss Universe Pageant..these people wouldn't make it to the top 15 if they join the pageant. i wish i have their confidence...or delusion.
Be honest. They wouldn't even qualify for the pageant.
These pageants are mainly an industry
Sure but arent the padgent queens like a 9.9999
Why so angry
But of you look at old old miss uni you'll soon notice your not even looking at natural faces. There's somuch surgery now.
I am officially down the looksmaxing rabbithole
I am ashamed of thinking that I fell that rabbit hole too.
I think I find it odd that people say 10 when that would imply to me that they believe they are human perfection, which I don’t think exists and I don’t think it comes across as confident, it comes across to me as egotistical and an ugly trait to not be humble and understand you have faults 🤔
You should get someone from the looksmax community too