I Think I Want A Boyfriend

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  • Опубліковано 28 чер 2022
  • My NYC gay pride experience & pondering whether or not I want a boyfriend.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 271

  • @darrylmorrison6127
    @darrylmorrison6127 2 роки тому +79

    My advice from 32 years with my husband, when you find that man, it will just click. If there's drama, things you think you can "fix" with him, feeling insecure, whatever, he's not the right one. If anything you should feel like you are a better person when you are with him. Doesn't mean you won't ever have a disagreement, but they'll be fleeting. Trust me.

  • @DavidWilliams-ck4ce
    @DavidWilliams-ck4ce Рік тому +10

    Quincy 100% husband material. So wholesome and down to earth. He's the type of lover most guys are searching for.

  • @stevenk.1333
    @stevenk.1333 2 роки тому +67

    I think most of the people who watch you Mr. Q like your maturity and openness and your personality. I know that I do. We wish you success and let us know how we can help you and your channel grow. Love & Success!

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you, I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you!!

  • @jankinzett5847
    @jankinzett5847 2 роки тому +16

    Quincey, you are a gorgeous guy! Your voice is wonderful and your intellect is unquestionable! I am a straight 73 grandma with two daughters and four grandchildren and two sons in law. Hope your plans work out well for you. Your external beauty and your wonderful personality will attract lots of guys who will love you. Your wisdom will ensure that you proceed wisely. Good luck darling boy! 💙💙💙. I forgot to say that I live near London in the U.K. My husband of 48 years sadly died in January and I am struggling to carry on without him but “they” say time is a healer and I really hope so! Bye for now! 💛💛💛💛

    • @davidholland4489
      @davidholland4489 Рік тому +2

      Sending my love to you grandma as you cope with the loss of your husband 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽❤️😘🥰

    • @jankinzett5847
      @jankinzett5847 Рік тому +1

      @@davidholland4489 David, thank you so much for your good wishes! I will get there eventually but after 48 years with my husband it is difficult without him! ❤️🇬🇧❤️🇬🇧❤️

  • @TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom
    @TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom 2 роки тому +6

    Happy Pride, Quincy! I really enjoy your content. I understand the struggle of navigating the process of pivoting the kind of content that you want to create and share with us. All of that is possible. I say pursue whatever content makes you happy. When it comes to doing UA-cam more seriously or putting more time into UA-cam, have you ever considered doing live streams where you interact with us who watch you and answer any questions that we would pose for you in the chat? That will definitely increase the watch hours for sure, which can increase the money made off of UA-cam in addition to your vlogging videos. Just throwing that out there. It’s possible to get into. I’ve seen many content creators who I follow do live streams once or twice a week as well as vlogging and it definitely increases the subscriptions and the watch hours as well as the engagement with some of us who watch you regularly. You are definitely a joy to watch. You exude a level of radiance that is captivating and you are definitely worth watching, whether on an iPhone or on a television screen. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. I hope that you enjoy the rest of your Pride month. 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

  • @andreparris6689
    @andreparris6689 2 роки тому +3

    I love this video. Especially the part about dating and the holidays. So warm and fuzzy. I literally envisioned misltoe. You touched on so many points that apply to me. I need to get back to the gym. I have not been in months. During pride I spent the whole day waiting for a refrigerator that never came. I had to get a refund and will soon find another refrigerator at a different store. You are such a great conversationalist. I feel like you may be an air sun sign with a fire moon. I need friends for now. That's all.

  • @kristophe1667
    @kristophe1667 2 роки тому +2

    Hey Quincy, really enjoyed this vid & the update on your life & Pride wkend. I enjoy your "podcast type vids" along with yur vlogs. Keep it coming.

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Thanks so much! Appreciate the support

  • @lukegrant-ve2ek
    @lukegrant-ve2ek Рік тому

    I love your videos. They are so calm, chill, and relax

  • @sirvirgo1705
    @sirvirgo1705 2 роки тому +5

    I can't wait to see you reach your creative potential! I know it's hard and I'm trying to learn how to not ramble on camera myself but i think you're gonna do great cause you're already good at it! Good luck! And happy pride!

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks so much for the positivity! 🙏🏽❤️

  • @dynamict4722
    @dynamict4722 2 роки тому +11

    Quincy is a breath of fresh air!

  • @tyantoine356
    @tyantoine356 2 роки тому

    First off Happy Pride honey! I just recently got out of a relationship about 8 months ago, and I was trying to start to date again….. but I’m now realizing I need to focus on self love before I make that step to getting to know someone further for where I am in life currently.

  • @KwameSings
    @KwameSings 2 роки тому +7

    Happy Pride! Quincy you are Awesome and I am sure you will find the right person who is compatible with the things you desire. Take your time, date and discover the city as you discover more about yourself. I wholeheartedly understand. I randomly came across your channel and I enjoy your video blogs. Keep em coming
    Wishing much Joy, Happiness and Love

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for the well wishes and beautiful words! Love back!

  • @rizuejigu7402
    @rizuejigu7402 10 місяців тому

    The way he kicked his feet up, got close to the camera, and pivoted into the boyfriend talk....😮🤣🤣

  • @markschill7289
    @markschill7289 6 місяців тому

    You are an amazing man! So easy to listen to your thoughts and experiences..the best to you!❤

  • @eurofree
    @eurofree 2 роки тому +16

    Happy Pride Quincy! Please don’t let anyone make you compromise your values. If you want a Monogamous relationship .Stick with that. Trust me. there are lots of people like you Willing to invest in just one partner. Take your time! & the ‘Blues’ after partying is normal, even if you had a BF. Best of luck & stay safe. PS. Your voice is very calming!

    • @loom1c
      @loom1c 2 роки тому

      You have an easy voice to listen to. I can imagine one would find similarities in all of your living life. The man who connects to you will be a fortunate man.

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Thank you! Appreciate the nice words and good advice.

  • @LMays-cu2hp
    @LMays-cu2hp 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing.. This music in the beginning here is very nice smooth music!! Very nice!!

  • @merriscurry7004
    @merriscurry7004 2 роки тому

    Happy pride!! Awesome vid I can definitely relate, I’m not tryna date anytime soon but I do miss having someone there when I get home after a long day

  • @CB102490
    @CB102490 2 роки тому

    As a travel lover I cant wait for this new content lol but in general love all the content and I definitely see the channel becoming what you envision it to be.

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Thank you, I appreciate that

  • @danl9020
    @danl9020 2 роки тому +1

    I really enjoy your videos and look forward to them. I use to hit the parties and that high from having a good time does fade back to normal life. As far as finding someone, all I can say is it’s not easy but don’t compromise your values. Also I love being in nature too and my suggestion would be to explore Upstate NY which is very beautiful in my opinion.

  • @MrSmith-ik4bx
    @MrSmith-ik4bx 2 роки тому +1

    I felt the exact same way about Pride this year. I actually saw you at Alegria but I enjoyed watching you vibe out and just dance and enjoy yourself.

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Aw, next time please say hello 🙏🏽❤️

    • @vgreen1106
      @vgreen1106 2 роки тому

      Thats so sweet Mr Smith!!!

  • @carloscalderon5743
    @carloscalderon5743 2 роки тому +4

    So I had a boyfriend. We were together for 9 years. He got sick with cancer when he was 30. He died at 36. It kind of forced me in a way to live by myself since I was grieving. It's been a long time and now I feel like I could possibly date again. This is my problem though, I got so used to live by myself (in peace) that now who ever ended up with me, needs to be worth more than the peace I have by myself.. Does that make sense?

  • @1TallJim
    @1TallJim 2 роки тому +1

    Happy pride Quincy! Sounds like you had a good time. Don’t wait to start dating someone, but also don’t be too swift to commit either. Be you, and by being you, you’ll meet him and he’ll understand your needs & limitations.

  • @jc2delaga
    @jc2delaga 2 роки тому

    1rst video I have found interesting and very authentic from U. Thanks. Good luck w ur endeavors 👍

  • @JoeG-lc5hx
    @JoeG-lc5hx Рік тому

    Dude!! I've watched your videos in the past, but I just realized something watching this video. You are gorgeous! I think I was focused on your content and not so much you. Keep doing what you're doing. It's working for you. Peace and blessings.

  • @richiechilds6849
    @richiechilds6849 Рік тому +1

    Quincy…. I met my husband in Halloween of 92’. I was 26 and he 29. So we both got to play the field in our earlier years and both realized we had something special, so we moved to Ft. Lauderdale for me to open a Italian ices business and bring him (Raul) closer to his family ! TRUST is SOO important and someone who is will to be vulnerable!
    All these videos you do, I’m sure help many people! It would have been helpful for us coming out during the beginning of the AIDS epidemic!
    So keep up the great work!!

  • @williamyoungastrosfan4ever658
    @williamyoungastrosfan4ever658 2 роки тому

    Happy End of Pride Quincy! Hoping you find someone who truly deserves your positive energy. Sending you nothing but love and positive vibes

    • @williamyoungastrosfan4ever658
      @williamyoungastrosfan4ever658 2 роки тому

      I'm actually still single because I never found the right person yet but with you I feel such a authenticity and positive vibes

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Thanks for the well wishes and continued support 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @presleyduhaney7578
    @presleyduhaney7578 2 роки тому +1

    Just don’t rush into anything to fast. I think you are doing awesome by yourself. People sometime want what they want and not necessarily what you want . And it can be very scary. You are a pretty awesome person. Blessings 🙏🏻

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +1

      Wise words. Will take them into account 🙏🏽

  • @blakaeg
    @blakaeg Рік тому

    You are such a Handsome, intelligent man and I hope you find that dream man very soon. Do not go against your own values, just to be in a relationship. I was recently in a Friends With Benefits situation and it made me feel very bad and lonely!! I learnt an important lesson to not deny myself of what I really want and do not settle for less!! I’m in my late 30s and dating isn’t quite like it was when I was in my 20s, but I remain hopeful. Sending you love from the U.K. x

  • @richarddeguzman8294
    @richarddeguzman8294 2 роки тому +6

    Hey Quincy,
    I’ve been in my relationship now for 13 years I’ve never strrayed away from my partner and we have a monogamous relationship. I believe it is possible to be monogamous. You are absolutely correct you can’t change someone . You are a very handsome guy and I would suggest going for an older guy if you want to be in a relationship seriously I would say from 35 to 40.. You need someone who is more settled in their lives and who knows who they are.

  • @rob9185
    @rob9185 2 роки тому

    Hi Quincy 😍
    I always watch your videos and I really enjoy them totally. I never comment. This is my 1st time commenting.
    I had to let you know that you are someone with a very positive outcomming and with a great great great personality. You're down to earth and your true to us and to yourself. You're heart speaks. Your vibes are totally awesome and positive. Your words/comments are always straight from your heart and you transport awesome vibes.
    Thank You for sharing your knowledge with me/us. You are well educated ans well informed. You're doing great and keep on making vlogs for me/us to enjoy. Take us to places you visit like the supermarket, the gym, dinner, friends, whateverrrrrrr.
    And that man you're looking for....... He's there right around the corner waiting for you. He wants to share his love and life with you. Don't make it all so complicated. Enjoy life. Every pot will find it's suitable lid. And so will you!
    Greetz from Amsterdam 🌷

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for the very kind words and positive vibes! It means more than you know and I appreciate your support! Be well, friend!

    • @rob9185
      @rob9185 2 роки тому

      @@quincyjay And I meant every word I said/wrote. Keep on doing what you're doing because you're doing a great job. Take care and stay helathy. And keep smiling because you're smile is killing 😁
      I see you have a new edit "My solo trip to Maine" I'll check it out tomorrow. It's bedtime now (01:45 AM) Got to get my beauty sleep😴

  • @michaelmetcalf2715
    @michaelmetcalf2715 2 роки тому

    I am a new subscriber. Enjoy everything I've seen so far. Love your vlogs and your voice. Glad I found your channel handsome 💪💪 🌈

  • @luvlacali
    @luvlacali Рік тому

    Excellent commentary points on this video. Congratulations on your relationship 🙌🏾

  • @omardeveraux1418
    @omardeveraux1418 2 роки тому

    Love your videos, sorry you rehomed your dog but I'm glad he's doing well. As far as dating goes, don't compromise what you want, for anyone.....the right man will come along, he will love you for you AND you all will be on the same page regarding major relationship things (ie. monogamy). Me dating.....yeah, I'm open to love and the right man. I know that a good partner will enhance what's already there, uplift you and not just be in your corner, but also have your back. I wish the same the for you......your maturity shines and you're an old soul. The right one is out there and you all will find each other.
    As for the gym.....I soooooo feel you lol. Sometimes, you need a break though, not just physically but mentally as well. It's okay to take a bit of time to relax, regroup and then get back into it. Slow and steady wins the race, in love, in life and at the gym 🥰🥰🥰...... sending you hugs, kisses and lots of luv.

  • @prl08
    @prl08 2 роки тому +7

    Monogamy vs non-monogamy is a hard thing to meet in the middle on. You shouldn’t try to stop someone from being open if they want to be, but you also shouldn’t force yourself to do something you don’t want to. Chances are someone is going to end up unhappy.

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      That’s a great point.

  • @reynaldocordero4247
    @reynaldocordero4247 2 роки тому +20

    I say this Loud and Clear. Absolutely NO to a open relationship. Once you feed strays. They will hang around and they will be merely impossible to get rid of. You will in some cases. Have to get the law involved to rid yourself of invited guests. That overstayed their welcome. I say No honestly speaking. The only way you can play a relationship is one on one. That's the only way you can play the game. Once you make it a RPG then it becomes confusing. All the shuffling too much. Absolutely no to open relationships.

    • @duanemcarthur7936
      @duanemcarthur7936 2 роки тому

      The same happens in monogamous relationships

    • @vgreen1106
      @vgreen1106 2 роки тому +1

      Amen Mr Cordero!!!!

    • @reynaldocordero4247
      @reynaldocordero4247 2 роки тому +1

      @@duanemcarthur7936 And it ends in Divorce when it happens.

    • @duanemcarthur7936
      @duanemcarthur7936 2 роки тому +1

      @@reynaldocordero4247 no necessarily. That's seems either personal, and very heavily one sided. I know plenty of couples in thriving open relationships.
      Being open requires more communication but the level of trust is there.. cheating occurs emotionally or mentally in those that are also monogamous just as those that are open. so it's a not a which is better competition or that open relationships are all wrong. It's the people who entail that relationship. I've been in a closed relationship ad many people where that person, no matter how much you do for them, still looks , still engages, still lies and still cheats. Again, it's more on the mental state of maturity of the people than just deeming the relationship a flop

    • @reynaldocordero4247
      @reynaldocordero4247 2 роки тому +1

      @@duanemcarthur7936 You should treat your relationship like your relationship with GOD. There is Only One GOD. Your relationship should fashion that relationship. It's a One on One relationship. You worship One GOD. GOD never told us to worship multiple GODS. Your relationship shouldn't consist of multiple people as in a open relationship. No matter how mature the two are. You should respect your relationship to be a one on one relationship. If you want a open relationship stay single with no responsibility. A relationship is about honor and respect. In a open relationship there's no honor or respect. It's open to everybody. There is no exclusiveness to it. Just some random relationship.

  • @12345gospel
    @12345gospel 2 роки тому +1

    Quincy, I've studied psychology, spirituality and just human relationships. What I have learned is that you have to do a lot of Meditation and really learn about yourself. The more you learn about yourself, the more you learn about others. You have a beautiful spirit and I pray you find someone special. Your personality really comes through your videos and your adventures. Keep up the good work.....

  • @Eminenceprince
    @Eminenceprince Рік тому

    You manifested it, bruh! ❤

  • @romanwilliams8605
    @romanwilliams8605 Рік тому

    First of all, you're gorgeous!! Lol but single life for me has been amazing! Gave up on that love shit in my 20s believe it or not but it's been great. Different things work for different ppl. So just because careful who you choose

  • @loirinlancaster3
    @loirinlancaster3 2 роки тому

    It’s great that you do have that discipline to work out, imagine if you didn’t have that mentality, then you’d have to develop it. The mere fact that you have that discipline also speaks to your muscle memory in all areas of your body, for someone else it wouldn’t be easy but for you it is. And I know that necklace stands for something, please tell us the story IF YOU DON’T MIND. And May you find the man your seeking, that shouldn’t be an issue for you, the best of luck but you won’t need it. And coming up with new issues to talk about should be fairly easy, CURRENT AFFAIRS! Storm Monroe, among others you got this

  • @ctcarllthornton9
    @ctcarllthornton9 2 роки тому

    Quincy I stumbled upon your channel yesterday and am now definitely a fan. You are not only sexy AF, you seem like such a sweet genuine guy. Thanks for being so open and honest. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @jankinzett5847
      @jankinzett5847 2 роки тому

      Could you and Quincy be a match? Maybe DM him? I believe in ‘don’t ask don’t get’. You look sexy AF too so give it a go! Sending you good luck from the UK 🇬🇧

  • @awilder87
    @awilder87 2 роки тому +1

    I hear you! I did Pride in Chicago (I was traveling and missed NYC) and I went hard in the paint (do people still say that?).....I am in my mid 30s and I am reminded that I am not 22 with a bottomless pit for food and alcohol, even though I lie to myself all the time. I understand the "alone" feeling, I moved to NYC last summer and hit the ground running with work and dance and finding my peoples. The difference that we all need to investigate with "alone" is are we alone or lonely, they are different things. I wish you all in your journey! And open relationships are work but possible, the spirit will tell you what is right.

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +1

      Some words of wisdom here. Thanks 🙏🏽 a little partying is always a good thing though, we gotta learn the balance 😅

    • @awilder87
      @awilder87 2 роки тому

      @@quincyjay balance is a life lesson I'm still learning. Like you talked about, I put so much energy and effort into fitness and working out, and I dance on top of that and I don't give myself rest... I'll learn eventually haha

  • @claudepolicano1632
    @claudepolicano1632 2 роки тому

    Love the content would love to hear more about your views on tennis and the tour today for wta and atp

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Appreciate the kind words!

  • @paul-mariebrou3134
    @paul-mariebrou3134 2 роки тому

    The level of vulnerability you have is what makes your videos such a good watch. Definitely in the same space as you regarding finally being in a place where I want to share my life with another person again. My two cents: set that intention out in the universe and sooner or later... actually scratch that. At the most opportune time the universe will draw you to the person you're a vibrational match to. My point is, the How or Who will be totally out of your control so might as well enjoy the journey 🥰

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Beat advice I’ve read. Words of wisdom right here. Thanks 🥰🙏🏽

  • @ronbrooks481
    @ronbrooks481 2 роки тому

    Definitely enjoy the bids and your ability to be candid 👍🏾

  • @brandonhill3780
    @brandonhill3780 2 роки тому

    Happy Pride Q! ❤️ I am currently dating, but dating this day and age is a shit show! So honestly, I've just been working & chilling and when the right person comes along.. I will know *fingers crossed* lol But to hear you're ready to date again sounds cool, we all deserve Loveee 🥺 So I hope all goes well King!

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      It really is a shit show! We’ll see if I actually start or hold off 😂 thanks for watching

  • @whattodo904
    @whattodo904 Рік тому

    Quincy.... Ur smile n that fresh face. .. OMG .u makes my day

  • @Chickennoodlesoupwlime
    @Chickennoodlesoupwlime 2 роки тому

    You are where you are meant to be. I agree it can get lonely, hard to trust guys, especially when you feel like you're just going through the motions and not being heard, more like experienced.

  • @Y5Warrior
    @Y5Warrior 2 роки тому

    Me personal I’ve gotten use to being on my own it feels like a huge milestone to be with someone. It’s like I know I can do it but I hope I can bring something to the relationship, sharing is very Important especially when your in another’s space.

  • @joncarllewis
    @joncarllewis Рік тому

    Every relationship I had before my husband prepared me for being with him in relationship for (now) 27 years. And we're open. But we both did the monogamy thing in previous relationships. Key is finding someone who is okay with your growth because, God willing, growth happens. And in freedom and growth together, there is joy.

  • @trevianscott1896
    @trevianscott1896 2 роки тому

    Your so adorable & handsome ! And I love all of your vlogs!

  • @beachboi83
    @beachboi83 Рік тому

    Hi Quincy! Where did you get that chain with your initials from? It’s really cute. Anyway love watching your vlogs… take care xoxo 🙂

  • @georgejones1569
    @georgejones1569 2 роки тому +1

    Quincy Quincy Quincy bayyy Bae what ever you do don't ever do something that's not you and I'm talking about the open relationship if that's not you don't settle for something just to be with someone cause honey you be heading for heartache , just started following you today I like your vibe you seem to know what you want just don't rush it or settle for less then you deserve thanks for sharing can't wait till you put more videos out till then be well and take care 💛

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Great advice…something to think about. Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @zachfagans5138
    @zachfagans5138 2 роки тому

    Aw!! To cute 🥰🥰 hope your having a great day!!

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      You too

    • @zachfagans5138
      @zachfagans5138 2 роки тому

      It's going; just jumble up" with homework and assignments for college!!
      Thanks for taking the time to reply handsome!! 😏😋

  • @manuelescamilla6994
    @manuelescamilla6994 2 роки тому +1

    Saludos guapote 🤩❤️💜💙💚💛🧡 grateful for practicing my English with your videos 😸💞 happy pride for everyone

    • @victorsevilla5246
      @victorsevilla5246 2 роки тому

      I do the same, I practice English with his videos, so I'm grateful and also in love with him 😂

  • @vgreen1106
    @vgreen1106 2 роки тому +2

    Team Monogamy!!!
    Its an Epic feeling to know of ALL the people in the World, your mate wants You and You Only!
    Cute Faces and Fit Bodies come a dime a dozen but when it comes down to that Unconditional Love...only a 1 on 1 can offer me that.

  • @owtsideperspective3588
    @owtsideperspective3588 2 роки тому

    Hey bud. Good video, glad it seems like all is well

  • @TillisWard
    @TillisWard 2 роки тому

    I've been single for 7 years now and I'm at that point to where Casually dating but definitely not already for a serious relationship ye at because I'm still Feel that I need time To trust somebody that fully again, And also I'm just enjoying myself and relearning myself fully. My last relationship changed me. I'm not sure where you are in your mental state QuincyBut there is definitely no shame in waiting you don't have to rush these things

  • @starlove7474
    @starlove7474 2 роки тому

    Hi Quincy, enjoying your video. Please be careful with the partying and especially the weed; it does kill brain cells. I've observed people for MANY years who do it all the time and it does dumb them down eventually- not a pretty sight. You deserve a good relationship and stay in NYC for there are so many opportunites here for your life on many levels.

  • @micahdonaldson2356
    @micahdonaldson2356 2 роки тому

    I love Quincy voice dam!!

  • @mmgg2465
    @mmgg2465 2 роки тому

    Where Do we sign up for a date?😅 I felt the same during that pride, coming back to a lonely apartment sucks Indeed but the goal is finding the right guy not just any approachable guy

  • @andremiller9182
    @andremiller9182 Рік тому

    ME... I haven't even begun the video 👀💀

  • @KRLWRGHT
    @KRLWRGHT 2 роки тому

    Where did you get your necklace… I really like it??!

  • @deebowilson7120
    @deebowilson7120 2 роки тому

    Ur such a rare soul. Stay true to who u r. Ur a lover. I understand wanting to compromise because it seems impossible in this culture to get what u want, but patience is indeed a virtue (and ur still young 😉).

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +1

      Good advice. Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @etamlous
    @etamlous 2 роки тому +5

    It’s 4th day after Pride and according to some sources working in hospitals, monkeypox cases in gay men have doubled here. I hope we won’t get hammered even more as Fire Island orgies and GBU sex parties were happening past week. CDC dropped the ball as they did not sound alarm on time, don’t have testing capacity and don’t have vaccines to quickly stop this virus that mutates fast.

  • @chrisk5651
    @chrisk5651 2 роки тому +2

    Happy Pride!

    • @chrisk5651
      @chrisk5651 2 роки тому

      Sunday I marched in the NYC pride parade with Planned Parenthood. I never thought that I would ever say that. When I was in grad school I almost went to Washington for the annual anti-abortion protest (I guess they won’t be having that anymore). But waited at the church for the bus that was chartered but it broke down so I didn’t get to go. I take that as a divine message. As we see with Uncle Clarence’s opinion, they don’t want to stop there with abortion. So you should be fearful for gay marriage & other freedoms.

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Glad you enjoyed pride! Sounds like the parade was fun.

  • @jstnm
    @jstnm Рік тому

    I've been dating since the beginning of the year, and it's been a headache. The obstacles are ridiculous, BUT I keep getting closer and closer to the TYPE of partner I want so I'm going to keep dating until I find him.

  • @grainofsalt2113
    @grainofsalt2113 2 роки тому +1

    hey quincy where are your white tank tops from?

  • @MelodicSmile
    @MelodicSmile 2 роки тому

    I'm absolutely available to hang out if you want. I'm in jersey so i'm super close. Also i've been a hope"full" romantic since i was a child i absolutely relate to pretty much all of your wants when it comes to looking for the ideal mate. I also applaud your openness and want you to know you have nothing but love and support here

  • @RichardRjmccoy
    @RichardRjmccoy 2 роки тому

    I just moved to NYC (Brooklyn) 3 weeks ago and one of the reasons I moved here was to try dating. As a 23 year old, Black/Mexican gay man I have never really ever dated anyone.

  • @kcorte1
    @kcorte1 2 роки тому

    i share your sentiments on relationship as i get older am tired of the drama and running around am over it.

  • @charliewebster7726
    @charliewebster7726 2 роки тому

    I've rampantly dated from about November until now. No regrets, but...I'm done. Definitely done with online dating. I was just using Tinder. I just ended up having a string of one & done dates (not hookups), connecting with people I feel I wouldn't have been interested in had I met them in real life. The dates were perfectly pleasant, but the chemistry just wasn't there...it's too tough to evaluate for something like that from an online profile, even talking on the phone/texting before meeting up... So I'm going to transition to trying to connect with people in-person, but I'm going to give myself some breathing room before making that jump.

  • @rxlfe7177
    @rxlfe7177 2 роки тому

    This was really lovely. Felt like a chat. I'm 29 and I haven't dated since 2019 and I find myself feeling like I'm ready to have a man in my life as well (well there's a guy I'm seeing now, it's been a few months and I wanna see more of him) I enjoy being single but I'm keen to get back into it. You'll find someone just don't look too hard I think it should be easy. Good luck 🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @josechompre9066
    @josechompre9066 2 роки тому +6

    Quincy , if I were 30 years younger you’d be scooped up . LOL, … you’re an old soul young man . Don’t settle for anything less than an individual that will cherish you, stand by your side and value you for who you are . Don’t negotiate your “ values “ that is so important. In my experiences open relationships are a cop out. Besides , your health is the most important responsibility you give yourself . Anyway, I enjoy your videos continue to express who you are it will add to your mental health and keep you in check with who you are . Cyber hugs, and kindness to you always .

  • @Leftatalbuquerque
    @Leftatalbuquerque 2 роки тому +2

    Some advice from an older version of you: the grass will always seem greener. The stranger will seem more appealing than the person you actually know and share your time with. That is just your imagination filling in some gaps. Sooner or later, you will CHOOSE to know and love someone, just as they will hopefully choose to know and love you. This whole " not wanting to fall for someone" is bullshit that I really don't know what to say about - no man is an island, and to want to love and be loved is what being a human with a mind and heart is all about. Day after tomorrow, you will be 55 years old - it will literally go by THAT FAST. Do you want to wake up at that age still "swinging and single"? Trust me, when you are that age, people will see you as a grandfather, no matter how "hot" and physically active you may still be.
    OPEN RELATIONSHIP??? If you are secure enough to be sexually adventurous together, that's something, but if you are settling for someone that does NOT turn on both your body and your mind... well, just remember that someone may very well be settling for you. Bringing in a third (or more) can open the door to having one of you finding someone who, at the moment, may be a better fit. Are you able to deal with the consequences and fallout??
    Only fans - your videos will be captured and replayed on Pornhub or on someone's hard drive forever. You will age past your footage and someday no longer be the person onscreen. Commodifying yourself can have effects that are not obvious now. Being young and needing the money is one thing - just ask Marilyn Monroe. Think about what you are sharing of yourself and what you wish to keep close. YOU ARE NOT A PRODUCT.
    You will never find another version of yourself - you are the only one of you that there is. Loving someone else means LOVING SOMEONE ELSE- for who THEY are. Think about that.
    Be the lover that you wish to find. He is out there looking for you. When you meet him, be the one that says "yes". Say yes to dating, spending time, doing new activities that appeal to him and maybe not you at first.
    Here are some quotes from a wonderful movie "Miss Pettigrew Lives For A Day" - which as a gay man I hope you take a moment and watch. www.justwatch.com/ca/movie/miss-pettigrew-lives-for-a-day
    "You people, with your green drinks and your parties and your subterfuges! You're all playing at love. One minute her, the next minute someone else, flit, flit, flit! Well, I'm not playing. Love is not a game.
    Not everything comes along just when we want it. There are times when decisions just have to be made, or you certainly will miss out.
    I have no one. I am not an expert on love, I am an expert on the lack of love, Delysia, and that is a fate from which I wish most fervently to save you.
    Your heart knows the truth, Delysia. Trust it, for life is short."
    There - I have felt important for a moment! My best to you.

  • @matthewpegram7834
    @matthewpegram7834 2 роки тому

    😊 PRIDE DUDE!!!

  • @erickburrell9448
    @erickburrell9448 2 роки тому +2

    You're such a beautiful HUMAN BEING inside and outside

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Thank you, that’s very kind

  • @hubertfriperson8429
    @hubertfriperson8429 2 роки тому +1

    Wish you the best beautiful guy. Open relationship is like a brothel and monogamy is love is a marriage. I'm 69 and never had a lover, lovers enough and still alone and very happy 😊

  • @JamesIsCommenting
    @JamesIsCommenting 2 роки тому

    Grass is greener on the other side!

  • @icarrus4u
    @icarrus4u Рік тому

    Quincy I’m right here! 😬

  • @lloydthurstondinwiddieakag297
    @lloydthurstondinwiddieakag297 2 роки тому

    I’d have wasted so many years chasing you in my twenties. Lol…. Just found ya vidz. Funny stuff.

  • @charleyyoung262
    @charleyyoung262 3 місяці тому

    I think you should do radio.

  • @michaelthompson3157
    @michaelthompson3157 2 роки тому

    Nice video and I would suggest now that you have more freedom and less responsibility since you no have Spock and it seems that he is in a good environment where he will be able to roam and enjoy the space and people who will love him so no need to worry about that and just enjoy your life and traveling and exploring and seeking out the adventures that you long for and you're only 30 years old and have plenty of time for a permanent relationship and doing your journey if it's meant to be you will meet Mr right along the way! Enjoy and be safe!

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks! 27 though haha! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jaijones2036
    @jaijones2036 2 роки тому

    It was so sexy when you said "listen to me closely" you're very hungry for a trusting man...hopefully you'll find one before cuffing season🙂

  • @patrickwillis8980
    @patrickwillis8980 Рік тому

    I do want a boyfriend, I have a big time crush on a guy in the Air Force. But I have to wait. Thanks for sharing your videos with us .

  • @ishaneooswald6178
    @ishaneooswald6178 2 роки тому

    You need to visit Jamaica for a summer break

  • @scottstanley8349
    @scottstanley8349 2 роки тому

    Awesome!..Your on your way..Travel would be cool!....😍😍

  • @increasemathers4042
    @increasemathers4042 Рік тому

    How can I apply for the position?

  • @ericsimon4517
    @ericsimon4517 2 роки тому

    I've never been in a serious relationship and I skipped Pride AGAIN, its a sad gay boi summer so far.

  • @anthonyellis2334
    @anthonyellis2334 2 роки тому +2

    I like your videos very much and know that you can be successful in anything you encounter. 😉

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you, that’s very kind. I appreciate your support

  • @tahj677
    @tahj677 2 роки тому +3

    If I’m being transparent, I was going to slide in your DMs a while back but I found out you were leaving Miami so I went about my business 😂😅 And if you’re wondering; yes, I’m an attractive guy with my sh$t together. I’m just shy 🙃🤣

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому

      Ahah should have said hello!!

  • @isaiahrodriguez5536
    @isaiahrodriguez5536 2 роки тому

    “Wasup “Quincy😋

  • @eltygiraud
    @eltygiraud 2 роки тому

    Is your necklace a scapular?

  • @derrickbraithwaite-mais8469
    @derrickbraithwaite-mais8469 2 роки тому

    I can relate to you from a head sexual man point of view I get you I have family and friends that are gay and we are still cool with each other you will find the right person just be patient and it will come to you with what is going on in american is going to affect all the laws one be one and when U.S has a problem the whole world is affected because its the free world country happy pride.

  • @ciel222
    @ciel222 2 роки тому

    GREAT VIDEO 😊

  • @davidemerald7690
    @davidemerald7690 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Quincy . just a thought , have you considered including story times as part of your content ??i feel like that would help your channel grow more and i think you would be an awesome storyteller

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +1

      That’s a good idea! I might have a funny one to start out! Thanks

    • @davidemerald7690
      @davidemerald7690 2 роки тому

      @@quincyjay 👌

  • @FBasora92
    @FBasora92 Рік тому

    Chileeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, no open relationships, ever

  • @swabyy
    @swabyy 10 місяців тому

    You are so adorable

  • @shalonsmith3653
    @shalonsmith3653 2 роки тому

    Make sure being in a relationship is what you really want. Don’t do it because you are feeling lonely because once that loneliness is fulfilled then that boyfriend desire will go away and then you will end up leaving the relationship. Ive seen it tooooo many times

    • @quincyjay
      @quincyjay  2 роки тому +1

      That’s a good point, I def need to think about what I actually want vs urges ahaha. Appreciate the words of wisdom!

    • @shalonsmith3653
      @shalonsmith3653 2 роки тому

      @@quincyjay Welcome. Keep the videos coming they are highly enjoyable.

  • @darkangel4405
    @darkangel4405 2 роки тому +3

    Do it! Fall in love!!
    Enjoy the rollercoaster 🎢 ride!
    I love, love!!!

  • @isaiahrodriguez5536
    @isaiahrodriguez5536 2 роки тому

    Boyfriend application sent lol