How to Change a Conditioned Behavior | Q&A Eckhart Tolle
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- Опубліковано 10 гру 2020
- How difficult is it to change a conditioned behavior? In this video, Eckhart answers this question and teaches us the steps to evolve in life.
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The ego doesnt want to die. Leaving some habits is like you would abandon yourself.
Those words are so powerful.
It’s only your self you’re ever dealing with.
Yep
Don’t know what I would do without this guy
you would be yourself .
Scary thought to be eckhart-less....
@@karanfield4229Someone else would've taken his place, as he is merely speaking the truth
The mind is a faithful servant but a terrible master. Thank you Ekhart 🙏 blessings everyone
Faithful servant is sometimes a terrible master
Blessings to you too🙏🙏
Sri Krishna
"The mind should be a gentle disciple" Manly P Hall
Did you mean "Eckhart"?
bad habits and addiction are like toxic friends. they convince you that you need them, that they’re worth more than your friends or family, but every time you’re with it you feel worse and worse. eventually you have to learn to say “no, i will not listen to you because i don’t have to. you will not make me feel better and i don’t need you to”
The Song :( I Get Out ! )
I have been a fitness instructor and personal trainer for over a decade and it wasn’t until I started implementing Eckhart’s teachings into my own work did I start to see long lasting change in the clients that I work worth. There is hope through suffering. Thank you for sharing this video 🙏🏻
When i am not in trouble these things leave me awestruck but when i am in even slightest disturbances around me i get anxious and doubtful ,feel something will go wrong . Something i am not able to grasp .
@@reenasingh-id9zh just focus on feeling you have when anxious. Take your consciousness and awareness to your body fully, on that feeling. Dont judge, think about it. That's all you gotta do to start the process.
@@deeman2200 thanks ,i have started this recently . I used to suppress my feelings earlier but now focus and let it pass . But i am concerned when dealing with everyday situation especially with kids when i am thinking of their wellbeing and they tend to move in random directions ,not safe and i get anxious and fear conflicts in the family .
@@reenasingh-id9zh that's great, keep continuing!
Do read power of now. Especially the concept of resistance. When we suppress feelings or worry, it's usually that we live in our minds not reality.
We are afraid of mind made situations. Since we identify with mind so much, we think its real.
This is also when we try to control situations or outcome. Because fear overpowers and we want things to be right.
Make a habit of watching your mind silently, each thought that appears and how mind builds a story will help you realize this.
I am also practicing and realizing this.
Good luck :)
I concur
This reminds of my pregnancy. How I loved my baby growing inside me. How afraid I was as time came to give birth.. Then suddenly I just wanted the baby to be born. The fear of giving birth left. And she was born. The joy of new life the pain of letting go of the pregnancy and accepting with joy new life.
That's really nicely said. )
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Thanks Eckhart. I hit a very low point in my life. I gave up drugs alcohol and cigarettes 3 weeks ago today. It has been surprisingly easy because I was ready to blossom.. I realize its still early days but I feel stronger then ever and don't think ill ever go back. Thank you for your guidance.
Keep going friend and be strong. Best wishes from India.
How are you?
@Hazel Allison I hope you are doing well too! this channel has lured amazing people :)
Well blooming done, not easy, how brave you are, keep going you are heading in the right direction.
Thank you for sharing! I'm sure you're example of change is inspiring others! It would be great to hear how you are going now?
Seeing this video at the moment not wanna go to sleep, the smile I got when she gave that as an example.
Conditional behavior can be changed by living in the Now intensely. Living in the present moment leads to the acceptence of the reality.
"Go to the place of not knowing" I really like that, that i can do.
The hard part is embracing where you are……wherever you are. Even the suffering. Your heart exists in this entire human experience. Becoming enlightened doesn’t mean you no longer have problems, or are beyond mental challenges.
Many times the wisdom that results from trauma-like situations has the power to permanently change conditioning - it's definitely not nice, but very powerful. Cheers to all suffering from trauma =)
-marred, -mar*ring.
"The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear and the acceptance of Love." ~Marianne Williamson ❤️
That is mine, in a nutshell. 😊
Wonderful 😊❤️💕
Marianne over Ginger any day.
Or acceptance of now:)
There is no "spiritual journey". It's a misleading metaphor. You don't travel anywhere. You just become still and look inside.
The caterpillar analogy is quite accurate and helpful.
And funny!
It’s the human desire for pleasure in the moment that causes us to break our healthier choices . I know I feel much better eating healthy but sometimes that cake is what I want in that very moment.
I was guided to this. It is exactly what I needed to see. Thank you so much.
This is just the beginning Madam.
There’s much much more in life.
Every time I watch these videos it feels like the first time
Good Morning and happy Friday y'all ☮
Good morning to you❤️ here in north Europe it is evening ☺️☺️
@@tiinaikonen6353 I'm late but Good Evening from Los Angeles! ❤☮🤞
Listening to his speeches, makes a calm mind 😊👍 Thank you Eckhart 😊👍👍
The mind made self loves drama and problems so much it can go on and on with fake arguments but you have to focus a lot more to keep it interested in something positive
Oneness ❤️❤️
It’s not easy for me feeling alone, but I’ll keep trying
Allow the feeling to exist, it’s not about getting rid of unpleasant feelings, it’s about simply being the observer of the feeling. Be the witness of the feeling instead of the victim of the feeling❤️take care beautiful friend❤️
@@ArianaReflects Thank you. 💖
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Umm... Never knew a single comment on UA-cam can make me feel connected to this much. It has so much of positivity and deep sense of awareness.
I don't subscribe to channels easily, snob about my choices, but hey.. I'm your 200th subscriber.
Wishes to you!
I saw 2 women at wrk killing an insect that was right next to an open door. They could have put it outside. It upset me. They think im insane . To quote one of them.. "you're one of 'those", i presume they meant a hippy, or something. They dont recycle or learn anything that could benefit the earth. They drink coke, eat terrible food etc etc. I'm judgmental and harsh even thinking like this.....but omg awakening, it's changed me. I realise I have so far to go.
Perfect synchronicity.
Had my own condition behaviours to let go off, thank you for this wisdom ❤
you are glowing, master
My first time here! Per oprah Winfrey recommendation, I must say I love this man of enormous depths of life practicality
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Lordy, where have you been!?!
Welcome :) eckhart will teach you how to calm your nervous system and therefore be calmer and happier so you can enjoy life from a deeper more present moment :D his teachings are the basis mindfulness and meditation etc
People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar. -Thich Nhat Hanh
Change happens when the pain to remain the same is greater than the pain of change. -Tony Robbins
The lady who asked the question has an amazing presence and honesty about her..like I can feel it merely by watching the video...
I was thinking the same thing. I really liked her question and how she framed it as well.
I was about to say that lol
It’s the presence in her that you feel within yourself...we are all connected on some level 🙌🏻
I can relate to that experience where you Know you can be free but also at the same time feel lost . Because its like entering in complete emptiness! It takes courage to dive into that unknown emptiness and leave everything behind which you can never get back once you dive. It happened to me once but I will dive this time. 🤞
How well said, two directions, I feel
like you!
Wow....could I relate! To lose that edge of enthusiam is painful....I have to give myself a pep talk most days....because the pain of the cater pillar did get THAT unbearable.
The temptation of staying in fantasy world is huge. I became present for some days. It was a awsome, I loved it. But the pull of the thoughts brought me back in the hole from where I came from.
Until now..
@@davidholm645 until now👉🤯
Friendly Reminder:
Those "Voices" that You Hear in Your Head ..
Are NOT You !
Thank for you the reminder ❤️ Wish they would stop harassing me
She totally caught me out, I’m watching this after midnight 😂
Wow, Thanks so much for your words of wisdom.
Life-changing message 🙏🏿🙌🏿
Through living out of consciousness, you understand the behavior of egoic and conventional thinking.
Understanding still implies mind activity though. See through it and don't get caught up in ego activity - even by understanding it.
Thank you Mr. Tolle. I love you. 🕊️🌟😇
To awaken, to see the truth about the world and about yourself, it's very important to destroy all unncessary conditionings within you
Omgoodness - I literally just asked you that question at the coffee machine whilst making my morning coffee 10 mins ago! 😄🙏🏽
Thanks this is great! I think I can actually get through the night without self medicating.
Thank you, came in the perfect moment. Butterflies.
I can so relate to this…thank you for enlightening me on this topic Eckhart 🙏💜
Thank you Life, for you are an amazing teacher!
observing mind on the spot it talks is a great revelation
This came in the perfect time for me. Thank you.
I “stumbled” across this at the perfect time. Thanks Mr. Eckhart Tolle
A perfect answer to a perfect question.Thank you for both.💚
Such a beautiful and honestly asked question ❤️
...and Answer!
To be free you awaken to who you are and go beyond your history and your life situation
A lot of wisdom.
This made me laugh so much... I can recognize myself in that caterpillar... I hope I moved on at last, but if not, I shall be patient with myself as I grow more aware of what still holds me back, until I am ready to become the butterfly I am meant to be!
You will get there. Patience and self respect are the ingredients
Thank you , Eckhart, such a profound answer to the great question 🌌
Mary Canada 🇨🇦
Thank you Eckhart 🙏💗🤗
Wow amazing video. I love how amazing technology is & how we can use it to transform our lives with info like this 🙏🏼 I learned that many people are not ready to let go of self harming habits because its who they think they are which is comforting for them. Most of the time until life becomes unbearable by those habits they won’t change, so what we control is sharing the triggers but its has to be taken by them at the end.
Thank you! Love. Love. Love!
Thank you so much for other video sir!!
His impression of the wife made me laugh so hard
Thank you Love and Peace
Jesus, in front row, checking to see if Eckhart is doing his job properly🤣
And he is my Lord. Believe me, he truly is.☮
You cannot force someone to evolve..........soooo true
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All you can do is fully accept them for where they are in each moment
Yes.. that is like non- acceptance of reality 🙂
Thankful and grateful for sharing this video
Ah, thank you for this.
Thank you for this deep and interesting talk 🙏❤
That was incredible timing! I needed to hear that! Thank you!🙏🏻
No better time than now
The title has nothing to do with the content... 🧐😒
But, the subject is interesting, and ever so true!! One can't push a person to evolve. Only show a way or direction. 🙏
Best answer ever! I put it in practice already! It works! Is a process
Perfect timing!
Thank you!
Yes
Thank you eckhart
Wonderfully explained
Thanks you for the wisdom
Love that caterpillar story
I had grown-up I guess and I will share this with any one who will hear it I was younger and my friend got me smoking.....and as a winner abuses things I maxed out smoking and was doing so much I realized it was not giving the satisfaction anymore because I did it so much and I quit cold turkey....because I decided to move on and a lot of times I have heard if u have a good reason and good habit to take the place of the bad habit couple with your will strong commitment to changing for good or the better that may work....but as things go a into talk yourself out of change....great question she did a real awsum job of explaining her question thanks
I'm going to try fasting and being silent for 3 days. I want to let go of everything! I want to become a healer.
Hmmm
@@Paul-dw2cl with feeling it AS IF real, imagine already having. Our subconscious believes & attracts like vibes, bringing our desires to our circumstances. Be sure to have gratitude for all being good, or we get our desires in unwanted ways.
I just ask how the fasting was, did you enjoy your reflection time?
Just a wanna say, the awakening on earth now have a form of eckhart tolle i don't know if it's right or wrong but I'm still here watching learning from you .thanks 🤠
This is the perfect approach to it. Just "don't know". Don't "be right or wrong". Just be and watch.
Thank You Eckhart ♥️😁
I don’t like people who try to make others believe in what they want them to and not letting them believe in what they know and see within themselves so who’s to say what they see and know within themselves is not right believe me their are a lot of people who know who they truly are without ever being told by others. I know the same thing he is speeding without ever being told by any advisor this I s why I started listening to him because we were speaking the same thing. Now when someone tries to get me to do something that I don’t trust I have a problem with that.❤️😀
That was profound thanks Eckhart! 💜
Change your heart to change the world.
Shams Tabrizi
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@Catch545 dusty 🌟
I am impressed by Eckharts' knowledge and his Spiritual growth. Even Jesus attends his seminars!
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…We want to be free…and we need a very safe environment to ‘let go’…and go to that place of not knowing. We’re so used to telling people, being told rather than simply Being with each other...that’s what would be so helpful-to see being with one another. 🙏🏼
Vielen herzlichen Dank 🙏
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This is so helpful! 🙏
I can do so much more if I live mostly in the now.
Like for example healthy eating:
Because I only have to do it *now* .
Not for the last ten years (that's just a story) and not for the next 20 years (the future never arrives, it's only now when it happens).
Honestly how hard is it to do something *now* ?. It's only about 1 second. Choosing to eat cake or salad takes seconds. It's so easy to say to myself: just make the best choice now. That's all. And go off and do something else.
Wow. What a revelation.
I agree. Morover also bad eating = part of ego. Blaming yourself, telling that we are weak etc. Let the ego die
Thank you Elkhart
I love you so soo sooo much. Have No Fear.
Thank you!
If eckhart is good enough for Jesus , he's good enough for me folks......🙏
You are a great person 😚.
Video to dekh le pahle
I know! And so are you😊
Thank you so MUCH for the lessons Dear Teacher!!!! Im learning how to acclimate to becoming a butterfly, i mean my habits/patterns r deeply set, n get in my way of teaching my wisdom from Crazy Cat Lady with a dream to guiding how-to enlighten others, as I go.... I've been practicing life coaching techniques, so I can help others when I get outta my coo-coo coccoon.... for NOW I'm content with feeling stable, not fully there.... cause coping with trauma is a daily management, but I SO APPRECIATE THE SUPPORT!!! God Bless!!! Love.... Peace.... Prosperity to the Many.... Clarity.... n CALM to US!!!
Thank You.
I love the catapilar analogy
Needed to hear your message ❤thank u
Waaaah magnificent example of caterpillar, thank you endlessly. Love from Mauritius.
love the story about the catepillar so true to life
Accumulation of negative experiences or embodiment of future promise in imagination.
Live in the Now. That's how!!! ❤❤
What a brilliant question.
Beautiful
Thank you very much 🙏💎💜
Thank you.
Thank you life
Thank you
Addiction is NOT a different force. Addiction to what was in the past is conditioning.
Hi my lovely one this is very helpful as usual thanks cxxx 🙏 💚 🇬🇧 🌹