How to Design a Life You Love (with Adlerian Psychology)

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  • Опубліковано 23 тра 2023
  • How to design a meaningful life? Alfred Adler had some ideas. Adlerian Psychology proposes that each of us has to solve the three life-tasks of community, work, and love to create a life of purpose. Let me share what that looks like and what challenges to look out for in this video.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 54

  • @robyoung7995
    @robyoung7995 3 місяці тому +4

    Thank you for sharing your video. I am a trainee counsellor and really like Adlerian Psychology. I like how it empowers people to make changes now rather than just focus on the cause of their issue. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @andiletau1605
    @andiletau1605 8 місяців тому +8

    I recently read the book “The Courage to be Disliked”. It was my first interaction with Adlerian Psychology. I really enjoyed the read and I thereafter found your UA-cam channel and it’s helping me learn more about Adler directly. Thank you

  • @ajfresh8774
    @ajfresh8774 11 місяців тому +6

    ❤ I missed leaving in Germany. It was a culture shock to return to the states. Got into a heartbreaking relationship. I had to learn how to re-event myself, and understand my value.

  • @WakingUpToday213
    @WakingUpToday213 3 місяці тому +1

    Love your work. Adlerian work fits well with men's nature.

  • @xansiqueira
    @xansiqueira 11 місяців тому +2

    To reach a community task is an ultimate challenge, once we live in a society period focused on individuals, from the perspective of neoliberalism, driven by social media algorithms.
    Another challenge is related to the journey from felling inferiority to striving for superiority. I wonder how to deal with lack of power, which often makes us feel stuck.
    Alina, thanks a lot for this great content.

  • @user-zo8gz9yp7n
    @user-zo8gz9yp7n 3 місяці тому +1

    My dog ate my lifestyle, its' my excuse and I am sticking with it.

    • @deleted01
      @deleted01 8 днів тому

      there is the good boy, and there is the superior boy

  • @louisespringer3146
    @louisespringer3146 2 місяці тому

    So REAL

  • @migueladrianvalevelazquez8703
    @migueladrianvalevelazquez8703 Рік тому +1

    Another amazing video alina! 😊🙌

  • @adamwesselinoff126
    @adamwesselinoff126 Рік тому

    Thank you for another wonderful video Alina

  • @mKonline1978
    @mKonline1978 Рік тому +2

    What does a fulfilling life look like? A deep question that requires a lot of introspection, action and acceptance. Wonderful video Alina 👏 Thanks for your efforts 🙂

    • @PsychodynamicPsychology
      @PsychodynamicPsychology  Рік тому +4

      It's a deep question indeed. This made me think of one of my favourite quotes from Rilke (a German poet): "Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are now written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer." -- Thank you for your comment, Megh! Best wishes, Alina

    • @mKonline1978
      @mKonline1978 Рік тому

      Wow!! What a wonderful quote. It resonated immediately with me 👏

  • @arun553
    @arun553 28 днів тому

    Thanks!

  • @Amateur_storyteller93
    @Amateur_storyteller93 Рік тому

    Meaningful & inspiring as always.

  • @tuanhoanganh4419
    @tuanhoanganh4419 Рік тому

    Thank you, your video is so good

  • @BullzOfSteel
    @BullzOfSteel 8 місяців тому +1

    adlerian therapy/individual psychology makes perfect sense... im trying to incorporate this in my own life, but also in my practice. Do you have suggestions for treating clients? like a roadmap/case conceptualization.. i feel its a whole lot and its hard for me to implement in my roleplays with my colleagues that are also studying to become a Licsensed Professional Counselor. I don't know where to begin, and go from there to reach the end goal of having them successfully, say, develope a loving relationship with their mother and father again. Thank you! I will check out those books you recommended (I already read 1 of the 3, the courage to be disliked).. i love your videos, it is helping me understand it better, I need to take responsibility in learning this and being able to apply it in a smooth way to my client(s).

  • @yuliyasimonov8233
    @yuliyasimonov8233 9 місяців тому

    Thank you , it is very helpful ❤

  • @carmenlux1775
    @carmenlux1775 5 днів тому

    You are a very good presenter.

  • @TheTeamdom
    @TheTeamdom 9 місяців тому

    Love the Adlerian approach. Also Alina's podcast and this channel are great resources that I use in my as an agile coach. 👏

    • @PsychodynamicPsychology
      @PsychodynamicPsychology  9 місяців тому

      Thank you so much! Yeahy, please all come over and check out my podcast as well :) There will be quite some podcast-exclusive (or early-access) stuff over there - because ever since I discovered the ease of podcasting it got me fired up for more ("I don't gotta decorate the background?? say no more!").

  • @kenrattray6785
    @kenrattray6785 11 місяців тому

    Thanks for your videos. Very informative.

  • @user-hs1tc2bf4q
    @user-hs1tc2bf4q Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing such great and useful ideas. For sure, spreading applicable ideas and methods are part of the social interest concept .🌹🙏

  • @Dyslexic-Artist-Theory-on-Time
    @Dyslexic-Artist-Theory-on-Time 7 місяців тому

    Very nice set of videos, this Adlerian Psychology seems logical! This you look at Perennial Psychology? As you said in one of your videos belief is stronger that trust.

  • @manishkul5812
    @manishkul5812 Рік тому

    Excellent explanation

  • @sadahussain2467
    @sadahussain2467 10 місяців тому

    Enlightening talk indeed! please upload a lecture on the ideas of Enrich Fromm as well.

    • @PsychodynamicPsychology
      @PsychodynamicPsychology  10 місяців тому

      Thank you so much! I haven't ready Erich Fromm yet but once I do and understand his theories I will :)

  • @anapetkovic7133
    @anapetkovic7133 10 місяців тому

    You are amazing! The best psychology channel i came across. Your videos are always full of deep and interesting topics. You deserve more subscribers.

    • @PsychodynamicPsychology
      @PsychodynamicPsychology  10 місяців тому +1

      This is the sweetest comment! Thank you so much, Ana, that truly means a lot :) Right now I enjoy being small, it allows me to reply to all comments, email, and dms myself. But, who knows, one day my content might reach a bigger audience. Thanks for being here :)

    • @anapetkovic7133
      @anapetkovic7133 10 місяців тому

      @@PsychodynamicPsychology You're welcome 😊 i study psychology so your videos are very useful to me.

    • @PsychodynamicPsychology
      @PsychodynamicPsychology  10 місяців тому +1

      How wonderful, I wish you the best of luck for your studies 🤓

  • @justaman33
    @justaman33 3 місяці тому

    Thank you. I don't see the video you referenced at the of this video. Am I missing it? 😂 Cheers. 🌞

  • @mayanksrivastava3382
    @mayanksrivastava3382 Рік тому

    Thanks a lot 🧬

  • @mohibquadri4053
    @mohibquadri4053 5 місяців тому

    Too Good 💎
    Could you suggest some best books to read for gaining competence & confidence after some setbacks or hard times to keep going in ambiguity without being stuck in inaction..

  • @unique-username
    @unique-username 9 місяців тому

    Can you make a video where you talk to ChatGPT about Adlerian Psychology? I think it would be fun/interesting...

  • @PableshaEskobar
    @PableshaEskobar 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @asadbashir-oe7ql
    @asadbashir-oe7ql Рік тому

    Good 👍

  • @kanishak1
    @kanishak1 11 місяців тому

    Amaging vedio Alena dear I m from india

  • @evrensaygn1017
    @evrensaygn1017 Рік тому

    Everything doesn't seem possible, you are living in a dream world.

  • @mdsumon5831
    @mdsumon5831 10 місяців тому

    can I get your email?