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  • @TipsyRoo
    @TipsyRoo Рік тому +3755

    I desperately want an episode where Caleb audits himself, and it’s edited so that he is sitting on both sides of the table.

    • @David-B
      @David-B Рік тому +208

      I think it would be more fun to have another finance youtuber audit him

    • @Madkalibyr
      @Madkalibyr Рік тому +104

      Haha oh my gosh, maybe next year on April fools lol.

    • @Madkalibyr
      @Madkalibyr Рік тому +33

      @@David-B if we can find another finance UA-camr that’s legit! I had to unsub from Spencer Cornelia and Scott Schafer

    • @thepearlswirl
      @thepearlswirl Рік тому +6

      That would be hilarious 😂

    • @XenRiddle
      @XenRiddle Рік тому +66

      ​@@David-B Graham Stephan could do the audit!

  • @davidthosome623
    @davidthosome623 Рік тому +757

    I'd wager that this guy getting out of Venezuela and Colombia and into the us via debt is an EXCELLENT tradeoff. Welcome to the US brother, here's to you getting out of debt

    • @burymeinjhenny918
      @burymeinjhenny918 Рік тому +48

      I’m imagining a immigration officer telling him “Welcome to America Brother, don’t feel bad, everyone is in debt here, you’ll fit right in” when he arrived to the country

  • @usaconjuan
    @usaconjuan Рік тому +1021

    Thank you so much for the reality check, I really needed it Caleb! My wife and I are now watching it together!

    • @o0laieta0o
      @o0laieta0o Рік тому +33

      Suerte con todo Juan! Podéis resolver todo esto rápido y concentraros en invertir y crecer después. En nada estaréis en una posición mucho mejor.

    • @skidiggydiggs4529
      @skidiggydiggs4529 Рік тому +25

      Good luck! You got this! ❤

    • @usaconjuan
      @usaconjuan Рік тому +16

      @@o0laieta0o gracias 🙏🙏

    • @Hewrin88
      @Hewrin88 Рік тому +16

      Rooting for you man!

    • @rashell6673
      @rashell6673 Рік тому +15

      You got this my friend!

  • @designthedays
    @designthedays Рік тому +1137

    He's come a long way! With his immigration process to finding a good paying job making $135,000/year. Good job to him!

    • @nly4607
      @nly4607 Рік тому +48

      Yeah it's almost like companies are required to hire a quota of people who look like him or something

    • @simonbelmont5801
      @simonbelmont5801 Рік тому +286

      ​@N Ly Yeah it's almost like he's worked hard to gain the skills needed to obtain a high paying job, and you're bitter because you have not.

    • @SuperbChicken
      @SuperbChicken Рік тому +72

      @@nly4607you act like they could hit the quota with just any guy that looks like him😭 they still need to be qualified

    • @Dre2Dee2
      @Dre2Dee2 Рік тому +15

      @@SuperbChicken Hrmm... no, actually they dont need to meet any qualification, companies can hire whoever they feel like. You have no idea what youre talking about at all

    • @nly4607
      @nly4607 Рік тому +9

      @@SuperbChicken You understand that the standards are lower for people who look like that at? Every. Level? Going back to high school right?
      Only way they are getting into a lot of universities and programs.
      Looking at the meteoric rise in medical malpractice lawsuits correlation with affirmative action doctors entering the medical field is staggering

  • @veautyfull
    @veautyfull Рік тому +353

    When my mom and I immigrated to the US from Venezuela, the best thing she did was not open a credit card. She had a debit card with a checking/savings acct and she cash budgeted EVERYTHING. She was extremely disciplined and we never went without anything. Love my mama ❤

    • @T.S.000
      @T.S.000 Рік тому +14

      Glad to hear that everything worked out for you & your mother.
      The thing is that, if your mother is "very discipline" with her budgeting, spending, and paying bills, then she could have been able to take advantage using the credit card.
      As for me, I try to use my 3 credit cards on, pretty much, everything (I do not use the debit card - look up advantages of credit card vs debit card). And at the end of the month, I would pay everything off. For the last 10-15 years, I have been getting a few thousand dollars back in cash rewards from those 3 cards every single year. And I have never, once, paid for annual fee, interest charge, late fee, or any other fees. Additionally, my credit score has been pushed to well over 800.

    • @veautyfull
      @veautyfull Рік тому +17

      @@T.S.000 that sounds awesome! I think her hesitation came from not completely understanding the financial system here in the US and like Juan mentioned, the uncertainty of wether or not we would be able to stay in the US (so owing any kind of debt would put us in a very difficult situation).

    • @jonboy9734
      @jonboy9734 Рік тому +4

      The best thing I did was open a credit card account. I went from non existent credit to 800 in 2 and a half years.

    • @geo865833
      @geo865833 Рік тому +3

      Your mother is a champ!

    • @naomirachel9161
      @naomirachel9161 Рік тому +2

      Extremely wise mom.

  • @miapestano766
    @miapestano766 Рік тому +344

    I hope we get another financial audit in the future with his wife. Juan has shown that he’ll work hard for a better life, so there’s little doubt that he’ll make it to where he needs to be! Good luck to him and his wife :)

  • @irr1sss
    @irr1sss Рік тому +126

    He made it out of Venezuela. It might take time but he is gonna 100 percent going to get through this! He is resilient af

    • @mymai5859
      @mymai5859 Рік тому +6

      Yep...& he knows how to focus on getting a 4 Yr UK course down to 3 yrs in a foreign country to save money. I'm impressed.

  • @Milweb1
    @Milweb1 Рік тому +79

    I badly needed you 7 years ago! But all good now. This is great education for the younger generations that I wish someone taught me when I was in my 20s. Keep up the great videos!! ❤

  • @tarasmith8314
    @tarasmith8314 Рік тому +224

    So nice to see a complete range of people in all sorts of positions with income and debts.

    • @Jason.Goldstriker
      @Jason.Goldstriker Рік тому +6

      its pretty crazy to learn that there are folks making 500 a month and some making 10k a month and the one making 500 will come out on top because the 10k a month person has no self control

    • @SrKinko
      @SrKinko Рік тому +1

      @@Jason.Goldstriker it's absurd how easy it is to launch yourself into debt and be living paycheck to paycheck

    • @skycaptain95
      @skycaptain95 Рік тому

      ​@@Jason.Goldstriker brother 500 a month is less than half the poverty line. There's no reason for anyone in this country to be making so little unless they are underage or severely disabled. Any part time job will get you much more than that.

  • @Nerdificationing
    @Nerdificationing Рік тому +57

    Juan wins the award for MOST LIKEABLE guest

  • @maclaindrake2891
    @maclaindrake2891 Рік тому +456

    His immigration process sounds as crazy as some of these debts these guests have. Made respect for him to get this far in it.

    • @javier5688
      @javier5688 Рік тому +24

      Immigration is pain. I’ve moved to a foreign country twice and you are never get to relax. I couldn’t imagine as an asylum seeker.

    • @nly4607
      @nly4607 Рік тому +11

      ​@@javier5688 Well yeah asylum seekers are exploiting a loophole where they should go to mexico or any country on the way from venezuela

    • @aleeh2109
      @aleeh2109 Рік тому +17

      @@nly4607 No, they are not.. not all countries have same specifications and it also depends if you are arriving here via land or if you arrive with a tourist visa. Not all asylum processes are the same

    • @nly4607
      @nly4607 Рік тому

      @@aleeh2109 sure everyone is a special snowflake case...sounds like they had money and options besides coming here and adding to the strain on our social services

    • @Outworlder
      @Outworlder Рік тому +6

      Unfortunately, his process is not all that remarkable. That's the kind of hardship a lot of people go through. Employment authorization in particular is a huge source of pain and financial hardship for many.

  • @MeghanGraceDIY
    @MeghanGraceDIY Рік тому +125

    As someone who opted to do a small “court house wedding” in lieu of a big wedding to save $$, the pressure to spend spend spend for your wedding is INSANE. We felt so bad over not being able to invite all the people we wanted and are hoping to have a bigger party when we are financially able and it won’t put us in crazy debt

    • @Crijoe
      @Crijoe Рік тому +4

      Good for you!

    • @richardmyers7847
      @richardmyers7847 Рік тому

      Why even get married if you're still in debt? Way to start off

    • @MeghanGraceDIY
      @MeghanGraceDIY Рік тому +10

      @@richardmyers7847 Getting married has a lot of financial benefits, and not just tax related

    • @michellecd4722
      @michellecd4722 Рік тому +6

      @Meghan Grace DIY You're smart. I did a small DIY wedding but was divorced in less than 4 years, our dating years were longer, he did me a favor in hindsight though ;) I think everyone should have a small intimate wedding and a HUGE celebration years later if they last that long on a special anniversary.

    • @MeghanGraceDIY
      @MeghanGraceDIY Рік тому +2

      @@michellecd4722 yup we’re hoping to do a 10 year vow renewal and that way if we have kids they get to be there!

  • @SpoonHurler
    @SpoonHurler Рік тому +349

    People complaining about "why don't they do it the right way" need to listen to this guys story. The right way is absolutely insane and run by the same people who couldn't make a functional home page in two years. I really hope he gets his green card, it should NOT be this hard or expensive.

    • @haleymist09
      @haleymist09 Рік тому +32

      I loled at "can't make a functional website." So true.

    • @eegernades
      @eegernades Рік тому +38

      Yep. Been daca for years now. I am not allowed to apply for a green card.Ive been in the US since i was 3 months old. I essentially onnly know america and thats it, But i ddont have any rights everyone else has.

    • @chuckieischosen9714
      @chuckieischosen9714 Рік тому

      Shut up with your political BS! Most Americans don’t even have the money to go somewhere else 😂 even if they tried.

    • @Dre2Dee2
      @Dre2Dee2 Рік тому +23

      How is that my problem, as a taxpayer? Apply somewhere else, he doesnt HAVE to live in the US. Rediculous.

    • @calebpeters6267
      @calebpeters6267 Рік тому

      ​@Dre Ruiz that's suck a dick thing to say. We shouldn't have open boarders but damn, help people who want to come here. This dude will probably be a better citizen then any white trash rural American.

  • @aran7teen
    @aran7teen Рік тому +76

    This has to be the first episode where I have full confidence that the guest will sort this finances out. In fact, with his wife’s income added when she gets one, I think he can easily get this done in a year. Especially considering what he’s already overcome immigration wise.

    • @woodside4life
      @woodside4life Рік тому +5

      I was thinking something similar. It’s the first guest where I’m rooting for them from the beginning to end.

    • @lindajohnson.
      @lindajohnson. Рік тому

      I agree!😊

  • @elise12345
    @elise12345 Рік тому +82

    Juan & Amanda, we are fortunate to have you here in the US, but my condolences over all the stress and uncertainty during your emigration. You can do this!

  • @deviantaj
    @deviantaj Рік тому +119

    I’m always debating seeing if I would like to submit a request to go under the audit. But would love to see some couple interviews and some folks who are actually doing well and highlighting the decisions and actions they’ve taken to do so! Keep up the good consistent work Caleb!

    • @dylanairmet3676
      @dylanairmet3676 Рік тому

      If only I could convince my shy girlfriend to come on this show! Caleb has helped me so much

    • @dvassi123
      @dvassi123 Рік тому +4

      I tried and Caleb said not at this moment so I unfortunately won't be on here haha

    • @popyNcorny
      @popyNcorny Рік тому +1

      @@dvassi123 did he say why? It’s weird that he won’t do it because so many people are asking for it

    • @dvassi123
      @dvassi123 Рік тому +3

      @@popyNcorny I'm going to assume because of my situation. I offered him to help not only get audited but at the same time be able to offer some services/tips I used to get out of debt because I am debt free now. I live in Dallas and told him I'd come see him. The email just said thanks but at the moment no thanks

    • @Liimpy
      @Liimpy Рік тому +1

      @Dylan Airmet How exactly has he helped you?
      Staying out of debt and being responsible is common sense, if people were just responsible this show wouldn't exist or be needed

  • @aleeh2109
    @aleeh2109 Рік тому +50

    As soon as he started talking about his immigration process I knew exactly where he came from, because.. same. Coming here and having to wait months for a work permit and depend so much on having everything done on time is incredibly stressful and also costly, I think people born and raised here in the US truly have no idea of how difficult it is. To add on that knowing a lot of the people that move to the us have no idea how this country works and make so many financial mistakes and wreck their credit so early on. I know he will figure it out but it so much hard work, kudos to him for putting his situation out there for all the people that have no clue how hard this process is and how expensive it is.

    • @basednwhitepilld
      @basednwhitepilld Рік тому +5

      It shouldn't be easy.

    • @aleeh2109
      @aleeh2109 Рік тому +3

      @@basednwhitepilld not easy.. but it shouldn’t be this difficult.

    • @jakeleisure8326
      @jakeleisure8326 Рік тому

      ​@dhutsass it shouldn't be a glorified shakedown available to the richest immigrants either

    • @dildoshwagginz8284
      @dildoshwagginz8284 9 місяців тому

      ​@aleeh2109 stay in ur own country stop coming here and fcking ours up

  • @SolitudesSanity
    @SolitudesSanity Рік тому +51

    If there's 2 things I can take from every video: it's either stop spending money or get a better paying job. That's what every video boils down to, and it makes me feel better knowing that finances are in fact, NOT rocket science.

  • @iXmetalXi
    @iXmetalXi Рік тому +33

    The fact he’s only 3 years in the us and making 110k a year is crazy to me. I’m comfortable making 50k, but damn and being this hard in debt. I grew up poor, over spending terrifies me, it’s crazy seeing people come here and get in that hard of a financial situation

  • @skidiggydiggs4529
    @skidiggydiggs4529 Рік тому +26

    Props to the Hammer Financial Video Squad for the upgraded visuals. Looks very polished and sophisticated. 🎉

  • @sailorscorpio27
    @sailorscorpio27 Рік тому +30

    Thank you for having a Latino immigrant guest on. So many people are in this situation and I just know this video is going to help with clarity and help us feel seen.

    • @suzubee9602
      @suzubee9602 11 місяців тому

      Yeah. Definitely hit home, especially with extra debt for immigration stuff

    • @dildoshwagginz8284
      @dildoshwagginz8284 9 місяців тому

      Immigrants are ruining this country
      Goo back 😊

  • @alexandrab4933
    @alexandrab4933 Рік тому +61

    This episode really highlighted how trauma can affect financial health. Wishing the best for Juan and his wife!

  • @berri6015
    @berri6015 Рік тому +24

    Seems like this is gonna be a good one! Thanks for not having the same people/situation always on! CALEB TO THE MOON 🚀

  • @allisonisis
    @allisonisis Рік тому +61

    Caleb, please come up with your own financial app so I can hear notifications of you yelling at me when I make poor financial choices.

    • @dakotareid1566
      @dakotareid1566 Рік тому +9

      This would be awesome, have it pop up every time you purchase something making you justify the purchase.
      Gets McDonald’s
      App message: was this necessary?
      You: yes
      App: explain why
      You: was hungry
      App: eat at home

    • @allisonisis
      @allisonisis Рік тому +2

      @@dakotareid1566 😂

  • @beekiebookie452
    @beekiebookie452 Рік тому +35

    Caleb at 22:00, he doesn’t have Amazon Prime, that was PRIMERICA a MLM insurance company… 😢

    • @Kero7th
      @Kero7th Рік тому

      Yep nothing like pyramid scheme life insurance to take advantage of immigrants.

  • @kendrickpfaff4805
    @kendrickpfaff4805 Рік тому +14

    this one hits me the moat out of any of calebs video’s i’ve seen. juan is such a hard worker and fighter from all the stuff he’s dealt with in venezuela, to going thru immigration, to going to college while having multiple side hustles. respect🙏🙏

  • @w8ting4fri
    @w8ting4fri Рік тому +55

    I can't imagine how stressful this guy's situation must have been/continues to be. Props to him for keeping his head up. He should be proud of making it this far! I know he'll get it together once he has the time to get on his feet.

    • @_2315_
      @_2315_ Рік тому

      Stressful? Not even close homie is making more then your average US citizen 😂😂 there is thousands of illegals asking for asylum just so they can stay in the US. How manny illegals do you know who are making over $100,000 off the jump. 🤷🏾‍♂️ Something doesn’t seem right but I’ll be quiet. 🤫 AND now he has debt. Hahaha true American.

    • @dildoshwagginz8284
      @dildoshwagginz8284 9 місяців тому

      Deport him 😊

  • @carofantastic
    @carofantastic Рік тому +56

    Shout out to Juan and his family because the immigration process is so long and grueling and they have come so far . I really hope he’ll be able to obtain citizenship so he can have more opportunities to thrive . Rooting for Juan and my fellow immigrants ❤

  • @Noidzor
    @Noidzor Рік тому +30

    Damn what are the chances, my parents and I immigrated from Venezuela in 04 and moved to Palm Bay in 07. Started as an asylee as well, best of luck to the dude. It’s a long process but as long as you follow all the rules it’s straight forward to get your permit/citizenship.

  • @ianidas300
    @ianidas300 Рік тому +29

    This guy is such a trooper though. I love his tenacity in getting his education and using it effectively

  • @Joe_Serious
    @Joe_Serious Рік тому +33

    Caleb, please do some research into Primerica, and contact Juan with an update. It is an MLM.

    • @TheVikingblonde
      @TheVikingblonde Рік тому +3

      Yep, my cousin got roped into working for them. Didn't turn out.

    • @moneyonmymind4594
      @moneyonmymind4594 Рік тому

      Yea plsssss Caleb

    • @lazerfreeze7023
      @lazerfreeze7023 Рік тому +2

      @@TheVikingblonde they came to my school and I heard they were a risky company.

  • @dotKevinWong
    @dotKevinWong Рік тому +10

    Rooting for Juan! Just helped a family member through the immigration process - a pain and I can relate. Juan and his family will have an amazing future! Welcome to the US!

  • @Wilshaw007
    @Wilshaw007 Рік тому +8

    Watching here from the UK. Can honestly say the education and awareness shared on this channel is excellent.. there are many people around the world that need a wake up call to the life long issues associated with poor money management. Education systems just don’t seem to be able to teach the young and the old the good basic principles shared on these videos. Many thanks for the content.❤

  • @guitarheartnsoul1
    @guitarheartnsoul1 Рік тому +19

    I'm currently in a similar situation in terms of the wedding, (took out a personal loan to fund it) and I've been regretting starting the whole process. I don't regret my choice of marrying my fiancee, but just the whole wedding ceremony. It's insane how expensive and honestly predatory with how many expectations society puts on us and how conditioned girls are to have amazing fairy tale weddings since they are young. We have a solid plan to get everything taken care of, but it is definitely setting us back a couple of years in terms of retirement etc.

    • @michellecd4722
      @michellecd4722 Рік тому +1

      @Michael Olbrys just do NOT have kids right away whatever you do, if yo u want them, I never had children, but create a solid foundation on all levels first & you'll be OK in later years. Course, my ex bailed by phone & I waited til my mid-40s to get married, so it's never guaranteed.

  • @jesseszteinbaum
    @jesseszteinbaum Рік тому +32

    First time I've seen someone on this channel score themselves a 2/10 and Caleb also score them the same at the end. Hope Juan makes it - he's what America is all about!

  • @SofieKokelenberg
    @SofieKokelenberg Рік тому +16

    He started off by owning his own mistakes and ignorance. Plus, all the hoops he’s had to jump through with immigration, administration, emotionally,… I’m rooting for them ❤

  • @sallyuNKY
    @sallyuNKY Рік тому +12

    I got married in a living room with 20 people there. My dress was $75 off the rack. I am just as married (and for longer! ) than anyone else. Spent less than $500 total.

  • @dennissvitak148
    @dennissvitak148 Рік тому +38

    I was married in December, 1976. I was in the Air Force, and wore my uniform. My bride wore a $99 dress, off the rack at Sears. Ring was $49, for a 0.02 carat diamond. You could barely see it. My mother-in-law made a beautiful cake, and we were married in their living room. I paid $20 for a US Air Force Reserve Chaplain...Chaplain Willenbring. The ENTIRE wedding cost us $168, and we have been married now for 46+ years. This is about $3.60 per year of marriage. I would like to get it down to $3 a year..this will happen in 2033.

    • @dennissvitak148
      @dennissvitak148 Рік тому +7

      I have made it up to her, since.

    • @mymai5859
      @mymai5859 Рік тому +2

      So good yield to investment ratio? 😊

  • @snadwichesyes
    @snadwichesyes Рік тому +4

    caleb on the road to one million let’s go!!! so proud of you bud, all the effort and attention really shows. you’ve also been helping me a ton without knowing. had no concept or urgency with personal finance until watching you and i’m finally getting my stuff together, may even get to retire in my 60s thanks to you!! keep it up 💕🥳

  • @mariacamilamontenegro2683
    @mariacamilamontenegro2683 Рік тому +4

    I LOOOOOVED the graphics and visual explanation of this one!

  • @Bigdog5400
    @Bigdog5400 Рік тому +18

    Really respect this guy for coming on the show, best of luck to you, Juan

  • @JoeNBurns
    @JoeNBurns Рік тому +5

    Hey Caleb (or the editor), at the end of the video on mobile when he is giving the score, it can’t be seen because the video end cards cover up most of the screen. You may want to do something a little different so we can see the scores 👍🏼 Loving the content

  • @jameserickson5372
    @jameserickson5372 Рік тому +39

    Rooting for Juan and his wife. I’d rather be in debt here than anything in Venezuela. I hope they are granted asylum and can officially start a new life.

    • @samsims100
      @samsims100 Рік тому +2

      That's not the "well wish" that you think it is.

  • @christieplemons2023
    @christieplemons2023 Рік тому +10

    Just a heads up! The “prime” on that one card wasn’t Amazon prime, it was “primerica” which he said was his life policy.

  • @lra
    @lra Рік тому +5

    The grit and determination of this dude is admirable. Respect.

  • @runningdebate2670
    @runningdebate2670 Рік тому +5

    This guy is really intelligent, I am sure he will get out of this extremely quickly. With what he's gone through in his life this will be nothing to him. Goodluck!

  • @donnawalsh
    @donnawalsh Рік тому +6

    I desperately want an episode where Juan comes back after a year or so and gives us an update. I'M excited for their future!

  • @maclaindrake2891
    @maclaindrake2891 Рік тому +13

    Happy Friday, hope you guys have been crushing it in your financial goals!

  • @Pinoyguitarist5
    @Pinoyguitarist5 Рік тому +22

    Immigration isn't cheap or free. My wife came here 3 years ago as a nurse with a green card, and the processing fee's we still owe to her Aunt(who runs an agency) and its around 8k. Luckily, her Aunt isn't rushing or pushing for the payment otherwise we would be in the same point. She never needed to get a immigration lawyers or anything like that as well, which is fortunate.
    I was born and raise her in the US, so I never understood how expensive and cumbersome the immigration process was until I met her.
    On a side note: for those non-religious: The Church wedding is what start life as a married couple for Catholics. Without a church wedding, catholics are not considering married because its not recognized in the church. While it makes no financial sense, from a religious sense having a church wedding gives them the peace of mind to know they are truly married. I will note, they could have had a simple church wedding with a simple reception, so not making excuses for him going into debt for it. ***Please do not attack me or debate religion with me, I did not mentioned this to start a religious debate just putting some context is all as a catholic myself***.

    • @anthonylozano8035
      @anthonylozano8035 Рік тому +2

      Catholic here. Had a wedding for 1500 dollars. Not 15000. Same in the eyes of God

    • @Pinoyguitarist5
      @Pinoyguitarist5 Рік тому +2

      @@anthonylozano8035 yes, not defending him bc he could have kept the wedding to something minimal and to what they could afford. Just understand possible why he had to have a church wedding(not sure how religious he is or he real reason, just guessing).

  • @macauleylewis3787
    @macauleylewis3787 Рік тому +2

    Caleb please start numbering your videos: it's so difficult to search them across platforms. Awesome video as always!
    Love from the UK. 🇬🇧

  • @quixomega
    @quixomega Рік тому +9

    Juan seems like a pretty normal guy in his situation, it can be very hard to make it when you're swimming up stream. But he has a lot of potential to reverse his fortunes if he makes the right moves. You can do it Juan!

  • @salli2883
    @salli2883 Рік тому +2

    These videos you make are incredible, I have a suggestion that you could have a giant whiteboard where you draw the person and you write down everything they have (cash, assets), their income, and then you write down all their debts (car loan, credit card debt, mortgage) and then there monthly budget. This could allow anyone you help to visualize their entire situation very clearly.

  • @marcellom
    @marcellom Рік тому +16

    Oh man. I got married a couple years ago and it was no joke. Thankfully we got some help, I was prepared to take out $0 in debt for what was basically a giant party. A very fun party, but a party.

  • @elenaacosta482
    @elenaacosta482 Рік тому +7

    The Catholic Church does not charge for wedding ceremonies. (Although it’s customary to pay the clergy a small stipend of $20 a pop.) There is no reason to spend $15,000 on a wedding!

  • @HasanBlankBurke
    @HasanBlankBurke Рік тому +7

    Been in the US for 3 years and is making 135k… my mom has been here 24 years and never broke 60k. PROPS FOR REPRESENTING FROM THE BAY!

  • @helenagastier
    @helenagastier Рік тому +14

    He should get a new life insurance that isn't an MLM company that loves to take advantage of people immigrating to the U.S.

  • @roxane1237
    @roxane1237 Рік тому +13

    Massive respect for this guy. Graduating one year earlier in a foreign country, in another language, from a politically unstable place to two wildly liberal countries (UK and US). He's going to be fine.

  • @hppirategirl17
    @hppirategirl17 Рік тому +2

    Saving this listen for my drive to Houston to see the Eras tour! Caleb, thanks for the consistent content!

  • @authenticallyallison
    @authenticallyallison Рік тому +15

    Hearing his situation he has faced makes me realize that I take things for granted. Things suck here generally speaking but thankful I didn't have to face things he has. I couldn't even imagine

  • @barbienostrant11
    @barbienostrant11 Рік тому +2

    Really enjoyed this one! Good luck to him and his bride!

  • @yvetteduran8617
    @yvetteduran8617 Рік тому +8

    Caleb, show getting on a phone call with them and their creditors/lenders to teach them how to negotiate a settlement and negotiate down their credit card interest.

  • @MrJojomylove
    @MrJojomylove 7 місяців тому +2

    I think he is doing well and seems like he will make great progress on what he is already doing.

  • @thepearlswirl
    @thepearlswirl Рік тому +3

    3:38 i love you for putting maps. I know so many ppl who have no idea where countries are especially in the 🇺🇸 it’s so shocking to me sometimes. I’m actually doing the same as him getting my masters in the UK next year✈️

  • @607AAG
    @607AAG Рік тому +2

    Full faith he will do this. He’s overcome a lot, this will be just a speed bump!

  • @katharenchamberlain5721
    @katharenchamberlain5721 Рік тому +7

    Just an observation: you speak very quickly, Caleb, especially when you are animated by emotion. Maybe slow it down a bit, especially for interviewees whose first language is not English. Keep up the good work! Signed, a new retiree figuring out how to live on SS so I don’t draw down my retirement funds. 😊

    • @vl8666
      @vl8666 Рік тому +3

      Yes, please speak more slowly and clearly for non-native English speakers though Juan is extremely proficient. Great job Caleb!

  • @stevenboddy4232
    @stevenboddy4232 Рік тому

    Thank you for making these videos. I'm 30 and I got really lucky with finances. My grandfather and father taught me everything.
    Nothing in middle or highschool was explained ever, there isn't real good advice out there until the last few years. People you do business with make it seem good where as it's a bank or anywhere. You're totally unbiased and that's extremely hard to find these days

  • @matthewcoleman5002
    @matthewcoleman5002 Рік тому +3

    Dude you are producing content nonstop

  • @noeliacerino1922
    @noeliacerino1922 Рік тому +1

    Hey, Caleb! I love your content and I’m always watching your videos on my downtime. I want to thank you for always emphasizing therapy and improving mental health on a daily basis with multiple videos. As a current student, majoring in psychology with a specialization in clinical/counseling psych (hoping to achieve my dream of being a therapist after I finish my masters degree), I’m always on board with improving mental health and getting the help individuals need on a daily basis. Thank you for bringing light to such a taboo topic.❤️

  • @AppaTalks
    @AppaTalks Рік тому +3

    Yes my daily does of Financial Audit! Thank you for the interview :)

  • @chevez924
    @chevez924 Рік тому +6

    As an Inmigrant myself I can say it's not easy coming here with no family, no credit history or job history. Now I'm on a way better position making 6 figures. You got this Juan ✌from a fellow Latin American.

  • @mlmalibu
    @mlmalibu Рік тому +3

    1 piece of recommendation from another Venezuelan dealing with "anything could change at any point" - open now a Roth IRA with $100. For now, contribute only what is matched in the 401k, once you are out of debt, start throwing money to the Roth IRA first, instead of maxing the 401K. In the future if anything happens, you can move the money into the Roth and eventually take it out with a little more flexibility. Also, close the Amex Gold, you don't need the fees of that card that incentives you to spend with a restricted budget.

  • @catherinefullmer983
    @catherinefullmer983 Рік тому +3

    Another Brevard resident! Wishing you luck, Juan. Would love to hang with you and the wife to help expand the friend group.

    • @usaconjuan
      @usaconjuan Рік тому +2

      Like Caleb exposed, you can find me at the cigar lounge in Downtown Melbourne 😂❤ open to making new friends, always! Thank you!!

  • @MylesHSG
    @MylesHSG Рік тому +5

    So typical of the UK government to kick this guy out when he could have been a positive impact on the country and economy

  • @jordanjenkins7460
    @jordanjenkins7460 Рік тому +1

    Really liked the new score breakdown!!! The evolution of your content is excellent, just started watching and there is so much value in what you do. Thanks from up in Canada, Caleb!

  • @ThatLoudCockatoo
    @ThatLoudCockatoo Рік тому +11

    I will never understand crazy wedding spending. Save that money. Put it towards a home. Just don't burn it on a marriage that (statistically) won't last.

    • @Dre2Dee2
      @Dre2Dee2 Рік тому +2

      Because they get to splurge money they dont have in front of all their friends and family to "impress" them
      Yes its insanely dumb

    • @erickn7985
      @erickn7985 Рік тому

      ​@@Dre2Dee2 Bro facts my cousin had his wedding in Cancun 4 years ago, they got divorced last year. The wedding was at least 20k😂😂

  • @realfinalsay
    @realfinalsay Рік тому +5

    I have to say this is one of the most interesting episodes ever!!

  • @athrunzala798
    @athrunzala798 Рік тому +2

    My wife's family is from Colombia so they fled back in the late 80s. Hope everything works out for you!

  • @unheardwordspodcast
    @unheardwordspodcast Рік тому +1

    Lifestyle creep and family boundaries. Great breakdown salute to him overcoming the struggles with his home country and journey here. Stick to your budget people

  • @1994ramfan
    @1994ramfan Рік тому +1

    Great guy, he'll do amazing in life!
    Just keep going and you'll get through this!

  • @zephyr2000V
    @zephyr2000V Рік тому +8

    Que felicidad ver a un compatriota venezolano!

  • @hands_bear
    @hands_bear Рік тому +2

    love when Caleb starts reading off the expenses!

  • @TheRealE.B.
    @TheRealE.B. Рік тому +3

    A decent traditional "church wedding" can be had for less than $1,000, and even that is largely "suggested donations" that could be waived for couples in financial hardship.
    Just like non-church weddings, most of the expense comes from the decidedly unnecessary buying/renting of expensive clothes and throwing a huge, lavish party afterward.
    $15,000 is a good price for a big wedding with hundreds of people, but a bad price for a small wedding with a few dozen.

  • @BlackstarBeast
    @BlackstarBeast Рік тому +21

    Great vid again - This guy and his wife will absolutely be fine and have a great life an future, all the best to them. A little point of constructive criticism Caleb - I get you do it to help people and for entertainment but there is something off about telling some people that they are “behind” and this was a perfect example. These guys literally had to claim asylum and leave a life behind, I’m not sure you can apply some arbitrary time milestones to them.

    • @Krashoan
      @Krashoan Рік тому +3

      That’s great and all, but the hardships they endured don’t extend their life or time until retirement, which is not an arbitrary timeline.

    • @darrencartier6694
      @darrencartier6694 Рік тому +4

      Maybe not the time line, but the point about the advice sometimes being arbitrary is true. Investing is the best way to save for most people but not all. They traded debt to get into the country, seems like a fair trade to me. What next, telling people who have escaped wars from poverty stricten countries that they have missed the best decade for compound growth and that they should grow up and not buy Netflix? Dude above was right, its really good advice and some people need it delivered harshly but this was tone deaf

  • @ihopethis1
    @ihopethis1 Рік тому +5

    As someone working in the Jewelry industry I can tell you that those mall jewelers like Kay and Zales sell terrible quality stones. Every kiss begins with Krap

  • @lindajohnson.
    @lindajohnson. Рік тому +1

    Good Luck Juan, you sound like a remarkable young man. 😊

  • @HistoryRoar247
    @HistoryRoar247 Рік тому +3

    Hey Caleb, at the end of your video your Hammer Financial Scores are covered by recommended videos on screen. We can hear you say them but just wanted to let you know. Can you put those more on top? Thanks for all you do!

  • @nutmegdonkey
    @nutmegdonkey Рік тому +2

    You don't have to form an LLC or Corp for a business checking account, in Florida you have to file a DBA or doing business as form for a sole proprietorship which costs 50$ and 30 $ for a certified copy of it, you can then open a business checking.

  • @christophervehon9554
    @christophervehon9554 Рік тому +1

    Great guy! Hope nothing but the best for him and his wife ❤

  • @EtherBunny-z7k
    @EtherBunny-z7k Рік тому +1

    We're rooting for you, Juan!

  • @AwpoTaco
    @AwpoTaco Рік тому +6

    Caleb chewing him out over a "Prime" charge when it says "Primeamerica"....lol. That was his life insurance

    • @Dre2Dee2
      @Dre2Dee2 Рік тому +1

      he should still yell because primeamerica is terrible

  • @luisqueremelmilani5023
    @luisqueremelmilani5023 Рік тому +7

    As a fellow Venezuelan who moved here and navigated some of the same things, I feel for Juan and I am also so incredibly proud of him and what he has been able to accomplish. I think Caleb unintentionally was a little harsh as he doesn’t understand Venezuelan culture, but fair.
    Juan if you need anything - reach out mi pana!

    • @usaconjuan
      @usaconjuan Рік тому +3

      Thank you mi pana!

    • @pabloescobarschanclas
      @pabloescobarschanclas Рік тому +1

      what does culture have to do with not being irresponsible with your money

    • @luisqueremelmilani5023
      @luisqueremelmilani5023 Рік тому +2

      @@pabloescobarschanclas I don’t want to generalize, but social meals is a huge part of who we are as a culture. In Venezuela most families and/or friends try to get together every so often and usually it all revolves around a meal. It becomes almost a tradition. Sunday family bbqs, brunch with friends, etc. we are very social people and our social interactions usually revolve around food. When you are in the process of migrating, sometimes you need a familiar feel or even a sense of normalcy during the adjustment period (for him and his wife it seems like brunch) and it is a huge cultural shock to move from a country where most things are scarce versus one that has plenty of choices. I am not condoning the behaviors, I am just articulating that there is a very different lens as someone who immigrated versus someone born and raised here.

  • @orenalbertmeisel3127
    @orenalbertmeisel3127 Рік тому +1

    Another Caleb Hammer is exactly what I needed now. Thanks

  • @swicheroo1
    @swicheroo1 Рік тому +7

    My family was in his shoes--war refugees. Dad was 48 with 8 kids when he got to the USA. Good to see Juan is slowly digging himself out of a difficult position. But he is lucky, because he is unencumbered by obligations like children. And he is very well educated. My family ultimately did very well and my parents got all the trappings of American success. But to do that, you can't lose focus: You have to be incredibly disciplined and very strategic.

  • @JohnNathanShopper
    @JohnNathanShopper Рік тому +16

    Stop taking out massive consumer debt! Save Caleb’s blood pressure! 😂

  • @Pandefly
    @Pandefly Рік тому +6

    This episode made me wonder if we’ll ever see someone in dept that was 100% justifiable and Caleb won’t even be able to get mad at the person for getting into debt.

  • @quentinalvarez8651
    @quentinalvarez8651 Рік тому +1

    Awesome content Caleb you’ve helped my family so much and I look forward to all of your videos 🤙🏻🤙🏻

  • @severinbender8403
    @severinbender8403 Рік тому

    Caleb, please start adding a UI overlay that keeps track of the assets vs liabilities as you go through the analysis. Would be a massive improvement for the viewer to follow along.

  • @jonathanbrutt
    @jonathanbrutt Рік тому +3

    @Caleb, near the end of your new videeos the hammer financial score sub-categories get covered by your pictures and video boxes. Can the pictures and video boxes go to the top of the screen or could your hammer financial score numbers be across the top? Some way that would allow us to see the numbers rather than have them all get covered up by other videos. That would be great. Love your content!

  • @101exex101
    @101exex101 Рік тому

    Rooting for him!! Caleb, you videos get better each time!

  • @Corndog1
    @Corndog1 Рік тому

    The graphics game has improved tremendously! lets go! Good video