My now ex gf of 8 months went back to her ex husband. They have a 6 yr old. They were toxic, she has character issues. She said I didn't care. She went back. She was wrong, but her needs weren't met. I'm working in a avoidant attachment.. the ex pressured, pleaded, manipulated etc. This is the time to fix myself. Have a great weekend everyone
This is almost exactly what happened with me. Only difference was that I cared but was giving to a narcissist and a fault, a detriment to myself. To say she’s a mess is an understatement. In and out of the ex’s house thrice in two yrs, no job, no car, no family except her kids. Never appreciated whatever I did. I took all the calls when she bawled her eyes out. But once she used me as a doormat or walking wallet more than a person, I dropped her. She’s a whacko Biden supporter in a big blue city, wouldn’t work anyway. She’s big into the woke cult. She lied to me about not being political.
@Mike_Cosentino Mike, my situation ended due to me. My habits caused l9ss of attraction. Did she have red flags? Yes! She works. Her mom got sick, her cat died, I was there but bo present. Regardless of the situation, she went back, and she left fast. She was needy, wanted me to chase the last night. I'm aware of a lot, and she wasn't I correct about me. The last night, she told me she was leaving and to five of her space bc she couldn't be convinced to stay... so I need to walk on eggshells in my place. I told her to go to her exes that night. She's 5 min away from me. Earlier that day, she kissed me, said she loved Me. She had this planned for a few days to maybe a week or 2. Who knows! It's cool! The best gift was I put my ego aside. Regardless of her behavior, I learned so much. In a way, she gave me a gift. However, her ex is bad news. So good luck to them. The 4th try in 12 years may be a charm
„I‘m working a 9-5 with the vision in mind to make a better life for us“ that‘s your mistake bro you should be focusing on making a good life for yourself not for her
I was just dumped by one similar to this one after 4 months. Although, she always reached out over the phone about 90-95% of the time, was spending so much time with me, told me that she loved me first, acted as if we were in a relationship but would have a bunch of "guy friends" and when she would get drunk, she would flirt with them in front of me. She has daddy issues and other stuff and then broke up with me because I would confront her for flirting with the guys and exchanging numbers. Her excuse was that I was insecure, lol.
Damn this literally sounds like the girl that just dropped me. I finally put a stop to her calling everyday despite us being broken up. She had some good good, so that kept me coming back for a while BUT I can’t come off the bench and be a backup.
PULL THE RIP CORD MAN!!! Time to say adios to that chick. You could turn into her dream man but she’ll always view you as the guy she dumped. Once it gets to that point there’s no use in trying to get her back. I know why you do but trust me it’s not worth it!! Besides, it puts you in a weak position. You want a woman who will admire and respect you, not someone who’s actively looking for your replacement and not even afraid that you know she is! The disrespect might be subtle but that’s just the beginning. She’s definitely thinking much further ahead than the way she’s acting. She’s already over you. By the time her actions show you she’s gone it means she’s already emotionally finished with you. That’s a bad place to be and very difficult to recover from and almost never worth it. You’re much better off (as painful as it is and will be) to PULL THE RIP CORP and go on a relentless journey of self improvement. Make it your sole purpose in life to improve your fitness, your wardrobe, your income, (after some emotional healing if you need it) your “game”/charm with the ladies, your hobbies, etc. Not as some ploy to show off to the world or even heaven forbid not to show off to your ex. You’re doing it for yourself, and more importantly so you don’t make the same mistakes with the next girl (coach talks a lot about that). It’s a tough pill to swallow man, many of us have been there, but I promise you if you do those things and what coach teaches IT WILL GET BETTER. You will be grateful and happy on the other side with new women in your life. Use it as a tough learning experience. Like a new boxer getting slapped around in the ring by a veteran as he learns the ropes. It’s not fun but it’s life and you can only improve with some pain, grit and fortitude. Just keep a positive mental attitude and keep chugging along. I believe in you. You got this.
why is she toxic? he displayed unattractive traits & turned her off. sounds pretty normal to me. if a girl displayed unattractive traits you wouldn’t be turned off?
Video fits my situation perfectly. Although, i was being pretty pushy and needey towards the end. And it became too much for her. Her interest dropped fast. She didn't offer friendship but said she was open to trying again in the future.
When you hear this, you just move on looking for someone better and treat her as a fuck buddy if that suits you… remember there’s a regular bud service, even at my age 60🕺🏻🕺🏻🕺🏻😁
15:34 “The Waiting” Tom Petty ♥️ He got me started in music at 15/16 I remember tearing up to “Here Comes My Girl” (Doesn’t she looks so right? She is all I need tonight… Watch her walk!) I’m 31 on the 19th this month and still play. Love that man. Love your stuff, Corey!
My girl of 5 months, is staying at my apartment for a couple of weeks since her job is super close. We’ve never argued and I never over-pursued. However, I am wanting to find that space to where we don’t burn out our relationship while she’s staying with me. We’ve both have been working a lot so that helps. But I’m currently reading the book and watching her attraction level to me. I really like this girl so don’t want to ruin it. Also she mentions many times about her gaining weight, either straight forward or jokingly in which I always use positive reinforcement and say stuff like, well I think you’ll look hot as hell all sweaty in your gym clothes”. She recently told me that she feels like I’m agreeing to her gaining weight when I say stuff like that. Any advice on how to handle that situation?
just let her know to stop bringing you into it like "babe you know I think you’re hot but if you think you’d be happier doing something about your weight do it, if not then be happy & confident in yourself because confidence is what I like” it reassures her & lets her know whatever choice she chooses she has to stick with it without sounding like a whimpy little beta "i'll love you no matter what babe"🤮 that will turn her off trust me because it’s not true
@@makuIaI said something similar to first line with my ex. She stopped working out to focus on school and my attraction dropped. It really depends on the type of woman you’re with. Leading by example should be good enough for most women.
People avoid things that feel uncomfortable and directly rejecting is, and opens them up to a butt hurt reply, so they give reasons, but do they want you to believe those reasons or get the hint?
hey Core , would be nice to know the ages of these people , to get the fair balance . do high 40 '50's 60's women and men act the same way as the younger set ?
Dudes gotta realize that women behave this way because that's how they function naturally. Sadly, if they aren't clearly into you and pursuing you, it's gonna be a headache pursuing her. As a man, never chase a woman. All it does is literally make her far less interested
It's something women say when they feel pressured. Guy did way too much chasing and did not give her the time and space for the feelings to grow. Requires testicular fortitude. However, she belongs to the streets. This guy is squeezing fruit that's not worth the juice.
Lmao at 5:50 ….she’s testing free agency! So true though, and great analogy. It’s like when teams or players get in trouble for tampering during a prohibited period. Same this with this girl, tampering while in a relationship! Spot on and hilarious analogy.
I met a girl and she was realy was into me. She was beautifull. She came to my place and we had a lot of fun the whole night. After that she still was making plans to meet, but the problem was she just came out an 11 year realtionship and het old stuff was still in the appartement which she had with her ex. Also her father passed in april. During those events she send me a long Message that we met to early and she first needs to proces those things. So its possible thats she realy was into me and could contact me in maybe 6 months. I think it was just bad timing. I will never contact her again until she contacts me. I did not overpursue. She looked into my eyes and said “ i really really like you”. So its not always excuses.
I haven’t watched yet but IMO if she says she has a lot going on, and can’t get into a relationship, it means she has a lot going in her, and to F off until she’s ready to settle.
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My now ex gf of 8 months went back to her ex husband. They have a 6 yr old. They were toxic, she has character issues. She said I didn't care. She went back. She was wrong, but her needs weren't met. I'm working in a avoidant attachment.. the ex pressured, pleaded, manipulated etc. This is the time to fix myself. Have a great weekend everyone
This is almost exactly what happened with me. Only difference was that I cared but was giving to a narcissist and a fault, a detriment to myself. To say she’s a mess is an understatement. In and out of the ex’s house thrice in two yrs, no job, no car, no family except her kids. Never appreciated whatever I did. I took all the calls when she bawled her eyes out. But once she used me as a doormat or walking wallet more than a person, I dropped her. She’s a whacko Biden supporter in a big blue city, wouldn’t work anyway. She’s big into the woke cult. She lied to me about not being political.
Its a pain in the ass yo date girls like that
@Mike_Cosentino Mike, my situation ended due to me. My habits caused l9ss of attraction. Did she have red flags? Yes! She works. Her mom got sick, her cat died, I was there but bo present. Regardless of the situation, she went back, and she left fast. She was needy, wanted me to chase the last night. I'm aware of a lot, and she wasn't I correct about me. The last night, she told me she was leaving and to five of her space bc she couldn't be convinced to stay... so I need to walk on eggshells in my place. I told her to go to her exes that night. She's 5 min away from me. Earlier that day, she kissed me, said she loved Me. She had this planned for a few days to maybe a week or 2. Who knows! It's cool! The best gift was I put my ego aside. Regardless of her behavior, I learned so much. In a way, she gave me a gift. However, her ex is bad news. So good luck to them. The 4th try in 12 years may be a charm
@@Mike_CosentinoI hope you actually learmed something out of this.
stay away from her bro
Everytime a girl messages me some bs I automatically read it in the voice that Corey does when he impersonates a woman 😂
🤣🤣🤣 best part
😂😂😂😂
Anytime I get a excuse on text from her I think of corey saying "in other words.. she has a drop in attraction" .. good stuff
If you are confused… it’s low interest. (Doc Love)
„I‘m working a 9-5 with the vision in mind to make a better life for us“ that‘s your mistake bro you should be focusing on making a good life for yourself not for her
I was just dumped by one similar to this one after 4 months. Although, she always reached out over the phone about 90-95% of the time, was spending so much time with me, told me that she loved me first, acted as if we were in a relationship but would have a bunch of "guy friends" and when she would get drunk, she would flirt with them in front of me. She has daddy issues and other stuff and then broke up with me because I would confront her for flirting with the guys and exchanging numbers. Her excuse was that I was insecure, lol.
I really hope you ghosted her. You mentioned 5 of the TOP red flags all in one post. Lmfao 🤣
That double bind.
@@dennisrobinson8008 yes
Damn this literally sounds like the girl that just dropped me. I finally put a stop to her calling everyday despite us being broken up. She had some good good, so that kept me coming back for a while BUT I can’t come off the bench and be a backup.
She doesn't have a lot of her plate, she is "spinning plates"... 😮
She had so much on her plate that the plunger got stuck and clogged.
If she does this Ill save you the time : ghost her . Move on . Next
Facts
PULL THE RIP CORD MAN!!! Time to say adios to that chick. You could turn into her dream man but she’ll always view you as the guy she dumped. Once it gets to that point there’s no use in trying to get her back. I know why you do but trust me it’s not worth it!! Besides, it puts you in a weak position. You want a woman who will admire and respect you, not someone who’s actively looking for your replacement and not even afraid that you know she is! The disrespect might be subtle but that’s just the beginning. She’s definitely thinking much further ahead than the way she’s acting. She’s already over you. By the time her actions show you she’s gone it means she’s already emotionally finished with you. That’s a bad place to be and very difficult to recover from and almost never worth it. You’re much better off (as painful as it is and will be) to PULL THE RIP CORP and go on a relentless journey of self improvement. Make it your sole purpose in life to improve your fitness, your wardrobe, your income, (after some emotional healing if you need it) your “game”/charm with the ladies, your hobbies, etc. Not as some ploy to show off to the world or even heaven forbid not to show off to your ex. You’re doing it for yourself, and more importantly so you don’t make the same mistakes with the next girl (coach talks a lot about that). It’s a tough pill to swallow man, many of us have been there, but I promise you if you do those things and what coach teaches IT WILL GET BETTER. You will be grateful and happy on the other side with new women in your life. Use it as a tough learning experience. Like a new boxer getting slapped around in the ring by a veteran as he learns the ropes. It’s not fun but it’s life and you can only improve with some pain, grit and fortitude. Just keep a positive mental attitude and keep chugging along. I believe in you. You got this.
Lots of emails of toxic girls lately... society really is going down the drain
why is she toxic? he displayed unattractive traits & turned her off. sounds pretty normal to me. if a girl displayed unattractive traits you wouldn’t be turned off?
Lol...society has been going down the drain
Narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism exploding in society is a statistical fact. Keep your eyes peeled
Video fits my situation perfectly. Although, i was being pretty pushy and needey towards the end. And it became too much for her. Her interest dropped fast. She didn't offer friendship but said she was open to trying again in the future.
I think people do deserve a second chance as long as they work on them selves and realize your value once you’re gone.
Aging well Corey!
That's cause he doesn't take any shit. 💪
@@numa333 Constipated people don't take a crap either.
When you hear this, you just move on looking for someone better and treat her as a fuck buddy if that suits you… remember there’s a regular bud service, even at my age 60🕺🏻🕺🏻🕺🏻😁
15:34
“The Waiting” Tom Petty ♥️
He got me started in music at 15/16
I remember tearing up to “Here Comes My Girl”
(Doesn’t she looks so right? She is all I need tonight… Watch her walk!)
I’m 31 on the 19th this month and still play. Love that man. Love your stuff, Corey!
12:25 - dude, take the advice of Frankie Valley, walk like a man, fast as you can..walk like a man from heeeeeerrr! 😂
Confucius say, baseball wrong. Man with four balls not able to walk.
My girl of 5 months, is staying at my apartment for a couple of weeks since her job is super close. We’ve never argued and I never over-pursued. However, I am wanting to find that space to where we don’t burn out our relationship while she’s staying with me. We’ve both have been working a lot so that helps. But I’m currently reading the book and watching her attraction level to me. I really like this girl so don’t want to ruin it. Also she mentions many times about her gaining weight, either straight forward or jokingly in which I always use positive reinforcement and say stuff like, well I think you’ll look hot as hell all sweaty in your gym clothes”. She recently told me that she feels like I’m agreeing to her gaining weight when I say stuff like that. Any advice on how to handle that situation?
just let her know to stop bringing you into it like "babe you know I think you’re hot but if you think you’d be happier doing something about your weight do it, if not then be happy & confident in yourself because confidence is what I like” it reassures her & lets her know whatever choice she chooses she has to stick with it without sounding like a whimpy little beta "i'll love you no matter what babe"🤮 that will turn her off trust me because it’s not true
@@makuIaI said something similar to first line with my ex. She stopped working out to focus on school and my attraction dropped. It really depends on the type of woman you’re with. Leading by example should be good enough for most women.
It's literally my current situation. Good riddance, just gotta wait on that bus schedule always on time.
This used to happen to me all the time in my past life, then I died & came back as a Corey.
Problem solved.
People avoid things that feel uncomfortable and directly rejecting is, and opens them up to a butt hurt reply, so they give reasons, but do they want you to believe those reasons or get the hint?
Would like to know how to tactfully tell a woman I’m not paying for a first date. I guess I’m too blunt about it.
A lot’s name is Chad.
She sounds like a wonderful woman
Is this what coach means by "easy going and easy to get along with?" Or is that something different?...
Hahahaja
“Slide into her DMs”. What is a DM? Corey, you keep referring to guys sliding into her DMs but I am not sure what that means.
hey Core , would be nice to know the ages of these people , to get the fair balance . do high 40 '50's 60's women and men act the same way as the younger set ?
worse
She’s in the 304 Phase.
Jesus loves u all guys
Repent and Believe in the Gospel
So true amen
you got it backwards
@@YoogiNation Jesus loves u
Pull the ripcord.
Dudes gotta realize that women behave this way because that's how they function naturally. Sadly, if they aren't clearly into you and pursuing you, it's gonna be a headache pursuing her. As a man, never chase a woman. All it does is literally make her far less interested
It's something women say when they feel pressured. Guy did way too much chasing and did not give her the time and space for the feelings to grow. Requires testicular fortitude. However, she belongs to the streets. This guy is squeezing fruit that's not worth the juice.
In that case he should only allow her feelings to grow in case to hookup hangout and have fun. Then after he's had his fill ghost her
You mean when she's had HER fill 😏@@CJ-zp7qj
Lmao at 5:50 ….she’s testing free agency!
So true though, and great analogy. It’s like when teams or players get in trouble for tampering during a prohibited period. Same this with this girl, tampering while in a relationship!
Spot on and hilarious analogy.
I met a girl and she was realy was into me. She was beautifull. She came to my place and we had a lot of fun the whole night. After that she still was making plans to meet, but the problem was she just came out an 11 year realtionship and het old stuff was still in the appartement which she had with her ex. Also her father passed in april. During those events she send me a long Message that we met to early and she first needs to proces those things. So its possible thats she realy was into me and could contact me in maybe 6 months. I think it was just bad timing. I will never contact her again until she contacts me. I did not overpursue. She looked into my eyes and said “ i really really like you”. So its not always excuses.
I haven’t watched yet but IMO if she says she has a lot going on, and can’t get into a relationship, it means she has a lot going in her, and to F off until she’s ready to settle.
It mean she currently getting her cheeks clapped
‘Turd in a punch bowl… ‘ a beautiful analogy.
LMFAO Corey your impersonation of the chicks are WAY funnier 😂😂than your Robot impersonation
16:42 Turd in the punch bowl hahaha… always enjoy it Coach
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