To any man never be afraid of losing any woman you should be worried if you are losing yourself because your future and your destiny is not located between the legs of any woman as a man your future and your destiny lies in your hands a word to a wise is enough
Magnificent person reading this… The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! 🌟- Love, Nat ❤️
Thank you. It is hard to believe that when the heart seems so deeply shattered and wounded and you ask God, so where are you, where were you, when I was defenseless and now have to live with a heart that will not trust? Maybe YOU are his messenger, saying come on child, I got you. I am with you. Thank you.
As I think about what Jessica said, and in the order she said them, I think of something I heard sometime back, but especially with today’s topic: “Never make someone a priority in your life when they only see you as an option!”
The last 2 signs... Wow! I did the right thing to save myself more emotional damage. It's quite sad when you see what was once beautiful crumble so quickly before your eyes but, you know what? Chin up and let's do our utmost best be better than we were in our previous relationship. Thank you for clearing it up for me Jessica 🙏🏿
Good day Jess...keep up the exceptional content. Yes absolutely correct.. relationships is truly overwhelming. I've already been thru a divorce in my mid 20's. Thank you for spreading the knowledge. Do have a bless week. Legend!🙏🙏
@@ezekielmwachi4339 I get your metaphor very well ! However, sex is not a commodity and besides being a physiological act, it has a relational and emotional aspect to it. People relate to sex a bit differently. Some people are satisfied with just the physical aspect of it while others want to take it to the next level and enjoy the other aspect too, regardless of the hassle this pursuit usually entails. 👉🏾 Always remember that one man's meat is an other man's poison.
You literally just described things i went through last year...im actually a well read well experienced guy on these matters but somehow they still come as a surprise..lol idk...but still you never disappoint...its always good to relearn and reinforce yourself on these information. KEEP IT UP JESS.
Ehh, if a woman loves and respects you, she’ll be focused on aligning with your mission and vision (if you have one) and supporting you, even if you’re going through a rough patch. If she doesn’t want to do that and is only concerned about her “happiness,” let her go. Who cares let her go be “happy” somewhere or learn how to be happy on her own. There’s no point in trying to make something work with someone who isn’t bringing real value, love, and respect into your life as a helpmeet and is only making demands or someone who isn’t accountable for their own happiness. The advice in this video really only applies if you have a truly great woman and you’re a great partner as a man. If those conditions aren’t met, it’s a waste of time anyway.
It also only works with two healthy, strong partners - if either party is focused only on themselves, then it'll be impossible for both to feel satisfied.
Everything you speak is so true ,after most women eat out some Men pocket they Dump them ,but women should member what's goes around comes around ,some time times when they have kids it will backfired on there Kids , Sins is what Travels. Men & women should member if they are not serious in a relationship don't play with Persons Brain 🧠
Never be blind in love. Keep your eyes and ears wide open. Don't ignore warning signs. Don't live in a fool's paradise hoping things will improve. If she doesn't respond, stops texting, doesn't take your calls, doesn't want to see you, bro what more you want to know? Treat the most important person in your life with care, affection and love - you !!
Dearest Jessica, You are tempting me to go and live in Ghana! What an entertaining and intelligent person you are! I simply enjoy every single video and everything you say is so meaningful! I love everything that comes from you! Cosmic Blessings and lots of Love and Light to you forever! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The very reason my relationship just ended recently. I had no problem expressing things in my relationship. She did and said she was scared to communicate. Shit sucks but its life.
100% facts, I've experienced all of this over 26 years of marriage. I communicated on all bases of every sign here with her and there were excuses and denial signs, total waste of time and energy and sad. Thanks J.OS Everything you've stated have been my state of mind questioning of my relationship throughout.
The signs are most likely describing a narcissit. For example if someone loved you and was all over you at the beginning then somehow during the relationship they lose that interest it means they got what they wanted and have no use for you. It's that simple it was love bombing
I stopped kissing her and made her understand why. You can't be kissing me with lot of saliva in your month, it's my turn off. She took it personal and the blame games came in (getting it elsewhere). That was the end of it.
She's doing almost 90% of these things. She doesn't have an energy for this relationship. It hits real hard and so unbelievable that it's really happening. She doesn't see anything wrong at all.
Communication is one key, of late my relationship is really messing up, she doesn't talk when unless I ask her something, she is too quite on me and is really hurting me up, our plans we keep on planning she doesn't even think on does plans again, it isn't easy given ur heart out and just little misunderstanding she holds on to that, you ask her what's the problem she tells you nothing. Thanks dear.
I am a man in exactly this situation. Married for 17 years with two kids. I understood it was over some time ago but I can't leave my children behind. I can't do that to them. The daily and constant disrespect is so much but I can't leave because of my kids. It's almost like I am living with a whole other person I don't recognise. She is very unreasonable and constantly picking fights for no reason. I now fiercely protect my peace and am conscious of not assimilating the constant and daily diatribes into my spirit. Having to do daily affirmations to remind myself of who I am. When the other person is in her eyes always right and cannot be corrected and doesn't listen to what anyone has to say then there's nothing left. Even innocent small talk can result in some diatribe from hell. She has made herself very unapproachable and unlovable. I think that was the plan all along. I cannot fathom how someone can sit down and hatch a plan or approach to life like this by being so toxic. Well I am living it 😭
oh, you got me with sign 6 too. she picked fights with me over everything, especially if i felt like it was a concern that i wanted to address. She even admitted that what i was asking for including checking in when she went out of town or to parties, reassurance, identifying im a priority to her and where i stand with her in her life, compromising the idea of sharing thanksgivings with my family instead one day, and creating a safe place for me to voice my concerns were all reasonable requests and doesnt know why she got so mad about it.
Well strange thing is I know a guy was in a relationship like that suddenly he came into a lot of money and she started calling again he told her sorry plenty of fish out there
you definitly hit me with sign 3. She had gone to a law firm holiday party with her sister in las vegas and then was going to another party in town the very next day. she never invited me and i was hinting to her that i was available for both. Even said i could be her DD if she needed someone. that was the weekend we broke up
Ding Ding Ding! My Ex GF of 3 years just broke up with me recently. Sad part was she had to resort to a lie to justify what she did. I was blindsided for the most part but her last Ex just got out from being incarcerated. I even made a UA-cam video about it. Jessica Os has it right. My ex displayed almost every single sign. Listen to Jessica guys! She is right on the money in her videos.
Why i broke up with ma woman was a bit similar to one of the points. In my situation I was the one doing the calling, if decide not to call for as long as a month or 2 she feel not bothered, so I said to her "I can see you are no more interested and I don't want to force you so move on while I do same". I'm ok ever since and I believe she's also.
Absolutely dear you're right , because I went through all that you said. After all that before I came home , she and everything has vanished. Thank you for this video
It would be great to see a collab between you and Coach Corey Wayne. Your delivery and vocal variety are awesome, very calm, and engaging. I'm taking notes.
It's a Full Time Job at best....and Yes sometimes you wonder is it worth it. I say No at 52 years old for myself the Mental Energy is draining over small petty stuff. I can sound really hard but I'm just not into a unhappy Woman. I'm going too do the single thing for a very long time, I don't need a Relationship like most Men would probably want it Sex. I'm not the weak Man for Sex at this stage of my life. Jessica you are hitting on some real topics. GM
Thanks Jessica, you are the best and I appreciate your service to us all because it's very inspirational and also an eye opener for a lot of us. Love always!
typing this i am crying...my wife has suddenly become everything you mentioned...i am in serious pains girl....i wish i could make this end myself...i am tired of begging to be loved...a lot i cant really talk about here, but my marraige is heading for the water loo...i wish i could just run away....we hav a son together and the only reason i havent left is because of him....all the signs you mentioned are so clearly coupled with the other videos i have watched which lines up everything...thinking of leaving and finding my life again....she doesnt value me, no respect, insults me all the time, threatens my peace, wish i could say it all....allows her friends to decide what happens inour home, always proofing too know, and everything so negative...i really dont know how to go about it from here...but its obvious her heart is somewhere else...the pain i feel is so much that i feel my heart bursting open, she has outrightly told me shes going to leave the marraige, i have done everything, sacrificed everthing, time, money, my life and what have you....shes been seeing someone else lately and have been making me look stupid, each time i ask her, she bolts off, gets angry, irritated, starts shouting, talks disrespectfully and rudely, the spark we had is gone, we could never do without each other, i dont know what happened, but i can possibly tell that the day she began bringing friends into our lives that was when issues began cropping up....i dont know how to begin all of these...but in as much as i am so in love with her, i also want to protect my heart, incase she comes in with the worst one day........i need to find me again...i have lost it with her...i am in pains...i need help from this trauma.
I'm so sorry brother just get your self back together,you're the man brother you can do better. just let her go out of ur space I know it's hard brother but you gotta give it a push,protect your mental health may God give you the strength
You must be a silly man to be in so much love with a cheating woman. I left mine with 4 kids and moved on. I know you love your son but you will have to leave and forget about him. For your prosperity!
Never beg or chase anything in this life because you’ll be taken advantage off. I tried to get my ex back for a face to face chat for either closure or another chance. She said she will see me if I paid her £225 for her beauty treatment. I gave her the money via bank transfer and she blew out 3 hrs before the date. She told me she had no intention of ever seeing me and wanted to hurt me as much as possible so that I get the message. I’ll never forget 28th November 2023.
This episode for made for me and I finally realized all this points lately. It's so sad we had a child together but her mom won't even let me speak to my son. Foreigner in the hands of south Africa women is a deadliest thing on earth because these people have no conscience or care anymore as long as your struggling with your biz. It's a shame people still keep falling for them, they only settle for what to gain and as long as it's no longer there they out of the way.
Everything you said is just facts. But knowing ahead is better so you the one who invented more in the relationship can be in the better mood to handle it.
I was blindsided after a 12 year relationship, I didn't see it coming, I agree we had lack of intimacy, I am so hurt by this, it's been 5 months, I asked her a month ago what happened? She said " let it go.
Hey the quality of your videos, background, and content presentation (structure and flow) has improved a lot in the last few months. Even the way you are presenting yourself (makeup and dressing) is way much better. Your speech sounds more professional and touching (with the background music in the videos). I don't know what you guys have changed, but Whoever helped you to implement the changes you should keep them and increase their salary .... It's looking really nice. Congratulations
I guess I Actually left long ago then.... I've felt all of those things and have been very vocal since day 1 when those feelings came about. He won't leave and says the only way out is death or him going to jail for hurting me... 5 kids, 13 years invested in a toxic and dangerous environment with my kids.... He doesn't understand we can walk away peacefully, but he wants war and has proved it 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I find that many of us makes it all to complicated. Just be straight up. I want to split, I want to be with you, I want a open relationship etc. Find someone who wants to play on your field and end the madness by saying one thing and then do the opposite. I see that most women loose interest after having kids and I even see women having a heard time excepting this fact. If you are with a covert narcissist, then it becomes much more complicated. Because you may get all the sex you need, and she may even love bomb you, but it does not mean she is happy with your nor will seek out of the relationship. Once you approach this fact with her, you will be gaslighted, manipulated and made a fool out of, getting blamed for everything you did in the past, which in her mind allows her to be the way that she is.
If you only communicate about your daily chores your relationship are in danger. It is easy to get there when you have small children and you are constantly busy. Note that how you communicate can make the difference between chores and desires. What shall we do during our vacation? Can we do X?(Chore) I'd like us to do X during our vacation. (Desire)
To any man never be afraid of losing any woman you should be worried if you are losing yourself because your future and your destiny is not located between the legs of any woman as a man your future and your destiny lies in your hands a word to a wise is enough
Thank man, really needed that right now!!!!
Great
Well captured bro
That advice would be more profound if you had used punctuation.
@@larryhall2805 my teacher died whilst I was still in kindergarten , but anyway thanks for your advice
I'm convinced at this point that love doesn't last and it only turns to terrible pain. So why waste your time.
In short, avoid relationship and focus on your dreams.. Relationship will come to you on its own
snort the coke
Preparing myself for the woman that deserves me. Patience is key
Facts
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💯Stay up kings.
The moment a woman becomes your need, you have already lost her.
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Facts
Can u explain, trying to understand?
@@demarcogordon2979 She's an accessory to your life not a need.
Thank man!!
“Relationships are hard work” Real talk ‼️‼️‼️
No doubt
I really don't think it should be that hard. Some hardship but not the norm.
Magnificent person reading this… The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! 🌟- Love, Nat ❤️
Thank you ❤️☑️
Thank you. It is hard to believe that when the heart seems so deeply shattered and wounded and you ask God, so where are you, where were you, when I was defenseless and now have to live with a heart that will not trust? Maybe YOU are his messenger, saying come on child, I got you. I am with you. Thank you.
Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
I'm blown away by the sings you give uhmm thank you..I'm already your greatest fans.. 🤞🏼
@@spiritNmind you’re so welcome, my friend! :)
As I think about what Jessica said, and in the order she said them, I think of something I heard sometime back, but especially with today’s topic: “Never make someone a priority in your life when they only see you as an option!”
While others are in level 1 you keep us in level 10 where none can try get us..good work
The last 2 signs... Wow! I did the right thing to save myself more emotional damage. It's quite sad when you see what was once beautiful crumble so quickly before your eyes but, you know what? Chin up and let's do our utmost best be better than we were in our previous relationship. Thank you for clearing it up for me Jessica 🙏🏿
Am a contractor from uganda experiencing it but your knowledge and advice has always helped me think positive about life
The chemistry will fade or disappear....from the onset I knew you were talking about my situation.. thanks Jessi...
Same here
Same here
Good day Jess...keep up the exceptional content. Yes absolutely correct.. relationships is truly overwhelming. I've already been thru a divorce in my mid 20's. Thank you for spreading the knowledge. Do have a bless week. Legend!🙏🙏
🎶🎵 When a woman is fed up , there is nothing you can do about it. 🎶🎵
We 1st talk of the value they create if u remove sex in the relationship. Do u think a lady is an asset or a liability?
@@ezekielmwachi4339" A liability mostly 🤔"
@@SarcasticSplendor it easier and cheap to buy milk than keep a cow.
@@SarcasticSplendor why care if she get tired. let her be.
@@ezekielmwachi4339 I get your metaphor very well !
However, sex is not a commodity and besides being a physiological act, it has a relational and emotional aspect to it.
People relate to sex a bit differently. Some people are satisfied with just the physical aspect of it while others want to take it to the next level and enjoy the other aspect too, regardless of the hassle this pursuit usually entails.
👉🏾 Always remember that one man's meat is an other man's poison.
You literally just described things i went through last year...im actually a well read well experienced guy on these matters but somehow they still come as a surprise..lol idk...but still you never disappoint...its always good to relearn and reinforce yourself on these information. KEEP IT UP JESS.
I'm going tru this right now ..she said I lied to her..
Ehh, if a woman loves and respects you, she’ll be focused on aligning with your mission and vision (if you have one) and supporting you, even if you’re going through a rough patch. If she doesn’t want to do that and is only concerned about her “happiness,” let her go. Who cares let her go be “happy” somewhere or learn how to be happy on her own. There’s no point in trying to make something work with someone who isn’t bringing real value, love, and respect into your life as a helpmeet and is only making demands or someone who isn’t accountable for their own happiness. The advice in this video really only applies if you have a truly great woman and you’re a great partner as a man. If those conditions aren’t met, it’s a waste of time anyway.
Absolute Truth
I guess it's a waste of time for me .cause I was the one who contributed most of the things in the relationship..I mean monetary too
It also only works with two healthy, strong partners - if either party is focused only on themselves, then it'll be impossible for both to feel satisfied.
Everything you speak is so true ,after most women eat out some Men pocket they Dump them ,but women should member what's goes around comes around ,some time times when they have kids it will backfired on there Kids , Sins is what Travels. Men & women should member if they are not serious in a relationship don't play with Persons Brain 🧠
Never be blind in love. Keep your eyes and ears wide open. Don't ignore warning signs. Don't live in a fool's paradise hoping things will improve. If she doesn't respond, stops texting, doesn't take your calls, doesn't want to see you, bro what more you want to know? Treat the most important person in your life with care, affection and love - you !!
Seriously, it's better to invest in oneself as a man.
Be the best u should be and the best will reach out to you.
Story of my life
Exactly as a man one needs to just add value to himself first then more good things will come to u
No doubt
Public comment. The power of making decisions to protect your dignity and integrity and respect. Protect your heart.
Dearest Jessica, You are tempting me to go and live in Ghana! What an entertaining and intelligent person you are! I simply enjoy every single video and everything you say is so meaningful! I love everything that comes from you!
Cosmic Blessings and lots of Love and Light to you forever!
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is really and Jessica you have broken all the signs of a dead relationship. Good job.
Really good overview. Well analyzed 😉. Keep Inspiring your community 👏
Jessica, just looking at you is so satisfying to me. You're beautiful and knowing that you know so much about relationships, you are my kind of girl.
Communication is the most important thing in a relationship. Thanks.
Thanks
True.
The very reason my relationship just ended recently. I had no problem expressing things in my relationship. She did and said she was scared to communicate. Shit sucks but its life.
All I want is the truth and the things you are saying I have been seeing and noticing what’s going on I don’t have time to use anyone period
Relationship is a hard work😢
100% facts, I've experienced all of this over 26 years of marriage. I communicated on all bases of every sign here with her and there were excuses and denial signs, total waste of time and energy and sad. Thanks J.OS
Everything you've stated have been my state of mind questioning of my relationship throughout.
The signs are most likely describing a narcissit. For example if someone loved you and was all over you at the beginning then somehow during the relationship they lose that interest it means they got what they wanted and have no use for you.
It's that simple it was love bombing
Tell me about it.
Madam Jessica you are GOD sent to the Man's world as regards Relationship Eye Opener.God bless you with more wisdom.
Great advice. I needed this 30 years ago.
I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago okay..., contact Dr wilson,🏃🏃...,he do alot of work okay.., and keep to his words
Don't waste your time here he can help you and you get fast and effective results he deal with all kind of problem.,
Fact ❤️ thanks for sharing best option is for you to move on
Thanks Queen for this viable information ❤️
Very well to the point!
Infact, not just withdrawing from everything!
She clearly voiced out "she wants a separation"!
I stopped kissing her and made her understand why. You can't be kissing me with lot of saliva in your month, it's my turn off. She took it personal and the blame games came in (getting it elsewhere). That was the end of it.
She's doing almost 90% of these things. She doesn't have an energy for this relationship. It hits real hard and so unbelievable that it's really happening. She doesn't see anything wrong at all.
Time to get back to yourself and give yourself some space. I'm currently there. It gets a bit easier daily. Acceptance is key.
I learned a long time ago relationships are hard and I’m not good at them
I love this woman,she is doing wonderful jobs
I recently was in a relationship and my ex did every step that you explain... 😲 Wow.
Communication is one key, of late my relationship is really messing up, she doesn't talk when unless I ask her something, she is too quite on me and is really hurting me up, our plans we keep on planning she doesn't even think on does plans again, it isn't easy given ur heart out and just little misunderstanding she holds on to that, you ask her what's the problem she tells you nothing. Thanks dear.
Focus on your self and get options
You need an abundance mindset
@@jejemoviesug6807 thanks JEJE
I am a man in exactly this situation. Married for 17 years with two kids. I understood it was over some time ago but I can't leave my children behind. I can't do that to them. The daily and constant disrespect is so much but I can't leave because of my kids. It's almost like I am living with a whole other person I don't recognise. She is very unreasonable and constantly picking fights for no reason. I now fiercely protect my peace and am conscious of not assimilating the constant and daily diatribes into my spirit. Having to do daily affirmations to remind myself of who I am. When the other person is in her eyes always right and cannot be corrected and doesn't listen to what anyone has to say then there's nothing left. Even innocent small talk can result in some diatribe from hell. She has made herself very unapproachable and unlovable. I think that was the plan all along. I cannot fathom how someone can sit down and hatch a plan or approach to life like this by being so toxic. Well I am living it 😭
Funnily enough @Jessica these were what my ex was doing. I don't think this is only for females, males do it too.
oh, you got me with sign 6 too. she picked fights with me over everything, especially if i felt like it was a concern that i wanted to address. She even admitted that what i was asking for including checking in when she went out of town or to parties, reassurance, identifying im a priority to her and where i stand with her in her life, compromising the idea of sharing thanksgivings with my family instead one day, and creating a safe place for me to voice my concerns were all reasonable requests and doesnt know why she got so mad about it.
Really helpful. Please can you talk about relationship and money and the principle of giving and taking
I can’t agree with you more Jessica. Well done and thank you for this amazing content.👌🏾
One thing i have noticed is each video comes with a new introduction. Good work👊
Those signs are true
Am really torch with this message,thanks for sharing God bless you.
Well strange thing is I know a guy was in a relationship like that suddenly he came into a lot of money and she started calling again he told her sorry plenty of fish out there
U are a Gem 💎 thank you.👍🏾
Wory about what your next meal will be that's a real stresser
Thank you for everything ma cherie. You are awesome. Very happy with today's talk. Take care.
Thank you Jes,keep up the good job and be blessed.
you definitly hit me with sign 3. She had gone to a law firm holiday party with her sister in las vegas and then was going to another party in town the very next day. she never invited me and i was hinting to her that i was available for both. Even said i could be her DD if she needed someone. that was the weekend we broke up
Ding Ding Ding! My Ex GF of 3 years just broke up with me recently. Sad part was she had to resort to a lie to justify what she did. I was blindsided for the most part but her last Ex just got out from being incarcerated. I even made a UA-cam video about it. Jessica Os has it right. My ex displayed almost every single sign. Listen to Jessica guys! She is right on the money in her videos.
Why i broke up with ma woman was a bit similar to one of the points. In my situation I was the one doing the calling, if decide not to call for as long as a month or 2 she feel not bothered, so I said to her "I can see you are no more interested and I don't want to force you so move on while I do same". I'm ok ever since and I believe she's also.
Thank you my dear, is very true I have experience this before! Good job 👏
You are one great advisor to us, men, thank you so very much.
Thanks Jess your vedios are always educative
Absolutely dear you're right , because I went through all that you said. After all that before I came home , she and everything has vanished. Thank you for this video
It would be great to see a collab between you and Coach Corey Wayne. Your delivery and vocal variety are awesome, very calm, and engaging. I'm taking notes.
I'm currently facing all these you highlighted ma'am, and it hurts so much. But i'm still doing whatever it takes to be a better version of ma self
It's a Full Time Job at best....and Yes sometimes you wonder is it worth it. I say No at 52 years old for myself the Mental Energy is draining over small petty stuff. I can sound really hard but I'm just not into a unhappy Woman. I'm going too do the single thing for a very long time, I don't need a Relationship like most Men would probably want it Sex. I'm not the weak Man for Sex at this stage of my life. Jessica you are hitting on some real topics. GM
That's fine , if she doesn't want to be with me anymore , You just have to accept that , A true women knows who the real men are in this world .
The points are just not debatable.
Thanks Jherss. We love your dedication ❣️
This is so spot on Jessica
I hope so and soon
Thanks Jessica, you are the best and I appreciate your service to us all because it's very inspirational and also an eye opener for a lot of us. Love always!
typing this i am crying...my wife has suddenly become everything you mentioned...i am in serious pains girl....i wish i could make this end myself...i am tired of begging to be loved...a lot i cant really talk about here, but my marraige is heading for the water loo...i wish i could just run away....we hav a son together and the only reason i havent left is because of him....all the signs you mentioned are so clearly coupled with the other videos i have watched which lines up everything...thinking of leaving and finding my life again....she doesnt value me, no respect, insults me all the time, threatens my peace, wish i could say it all....allows her friends to decide what happens inour home, always proofing too know, and everything so negative...i really dont know how to go about it from here...but its obvious her heart is somewhere else...the pain i feel is so much that i feel my heart bursting open, she has outrightly told me shes going to leave the marraige, i have done everything, sacrificed everthing, time, money, my life and what have you....shes been seeing someone else lately and have been making me look stupid, each time i ask her, she bolts off, gets angry, irritated, starts shouting, talks disrespectfully and rudely, the spark we had is gone, we could never do without each other, i dont know what happened, but i can possibly tell that the day she began bringing friends into our lives that was when issues began cropping up....i dont know how to begin all of these...but in as much as i am so in love with her, i also want to protect my heart, incase she comes in with the worst one day........i need to find me again...i have lost it with her...i am in pains...i need help from this trauma.
I'm so sorry brother just get your self back together,you're the man brother you can do better. just let her go out of ur space I know it's hard brother but you gotta give it a push,protect your mental health may God give you the strength
You must be a silly man to be in so much love with a cheating woman. I left mine with 4 kids and moved on. I know you love your son but you will have to leave and forget about him. For your prosperity!
Never beg or chase anything in this life because you’ll be taken advantage off.
I tried to get my ex back for a face to face chat for either closure or another chance. She said she will see me if I paid her £225 for her beauty treatment.
I gave her the money via bank transfer and she blew out 3 hrs before the date. She told me she had no intention of ever seeing me and wanted to hurt me as much as possible so that I get the message.
I’ll never forget 28th November 2023.
Dude....walk!!!
I'm going through the same right now I feel your pain .... haven't processed it yet fully but each day gets better
Thank you Jess your videos have really helped me 😊🙏
Thank you so much Jessica....
This episode for made for me and I finally realized all this points lately. It's so sad we had a child together but her mom won't even let me speak to my son. Foreigner in the hands of south Africa women is a deadliest thing on earth because these people have no conscience or care anymore as long as your struggling with your biz. It's a shame people still keep falling for them, they only settle for what to gain and as long as it's no longer there they out of the way.
Road to 500k 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Congratulations Jessica 🎉👏❣️
Everything you said is just facts. But knowing ahead is better so you the one who invented more in the relationship can be in the better mood to handle it.
Women can be crafty. Great information.
This is so true 😊
I was blindsided after a 12 year relationship, I didn't see it coming, I agree we had lack of intimacy, I am so hurt by this, it's been 5 months, I asked her a month ago what happened? She said " let it go.
I would bet you did see the signs you just couldn't accept it. And secondly I would bet you couldn't supply her anymore lol
@@klausmakaneta6890 troll much ?
It is because you never kissed at all and this what happened to me in the year 2021.
Why stay in a 12 year old relationship at all.
she cheated
Hey the quality of your videos, background, and content presentation (structure and flow) has improved a lot in the last few months. Even the way you are presenting yourself (makeup and dressing) is way much better. Your speech sounds more professional and touching (with the background music in the videos). I don't know what you guys have changed, but Whoever helped you to implement the changes you should keep them and increase their salary .... It's looking really nice. Congratulations
Am exactly going through this,eishhh so painful then, thanks so much for highlighting
I guess I Actually left long ago then.... I've felt all of those things and have been very vocal since day 1 when those feelings came about. He won't leave and says the only way out is death or him going to jail for hurting me... 5 kids, 13 years invested in a toxic and dangerous environment with my kids.... He doesn't understand we can walk away peacefully, but he wants war and has proved it 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Just be free gentlemen. Stay focused and away from women, especially those in the west. Only deal with women who are willing to serve you.
Thanks Jessica❤
Great Break down 😉. I love your Videos 💕
Thank you, Thank you, THAAANK YOU Jessica.
Contingency plans, that's what the black star's coach needed but....great piece Jess.
"She weeds you out" haha like the expressions.
Well done, your channel is very very good and educative.
Thanks a lot Jessi🌹
Always enjoying ya videos
Truly amazing knowledge and insight
Good advice at the end of video. Everything is true
Yes.
I find that many of us makes it all to complicated. Just be straight up. I want to split, I want to be with you, I want a open relationship etc. Find someone who wants to play on your field and end the madness by saying one thing and then do the opposite. I see that most women loose interest after having kids and I even see women having a heard time excepting this fact. If you are with a covert narcissist, then it becomes much more complicated. Because you may get all the sex you need, and she may even love bomb you, but it does not mean she is happy with your nor will seek out of the relationship. Once you approach this fact with her, you will be gaslighted, manipulated and made a fool out of, getting blamed for everything you did in the past, which in her mind allows her to be the way that she is.
The best post ever 🙌 you said it well. 👏
I have really learnt alot from your videos. Thank you
Happy to hear that!
Very good video😊😊😊😊😊❤
This has just happened to me.. Exactly the same way u put it here.. Thank you so much for opening mu eyes tomorrow I'm making a last move
If you only communicate about your daily chores your relationship are in danger. It is easy to get there when you have small children and you are constantly busy.
Note that how you communicate can make the difference between chores and desires.
What shall we do during our vacation? Can we do X?(Chore)
I'd like us to do X during our vacation. (Desire)
Awesome thanks for sharing this info dear Jessica
Jess, thanks so so much. Need I wait for No. 7;No