To any man never be afraid of losing any woman you should be worried if you are losing yourself because your future and your destiny is not located between the legs of any woman as a man your future and your destiny lies in your hands a word to a wise is enough
Magnificent person reading this… The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! 🌟- Love, Nat ❤️
Thank you. It is hard to believe that when the heart seems so deeply shattered and wounded and you ask God, so where are you, where were you, when I was defenseless and now have to live with a heart that will not trust? Maybe YOU are his messenger, saying come on child, I got you. I am with you. Thank you.
As I think about what Jessica said, and in the order she said them, I think of something I heard sometime back, but especially with today’s topic: “Never make someone a priority in your life when they only see you as an option!”
The last 2 signs... Wow! I did the right thing to save myself more emotional damage. It's quite sad when you see what was once beautiful crumble so quickly before your eyes but, you know what? Chin up and let's do our utmost best be better than we were in our previous relationship. Thank you for clearing it up for me Jessica 🙏🏿
Good day Jess...keep up the exceptional content. Yes absolutely correct.. relationships is truly overwhelming. I've already been thru a divorce in my mid 20's. Thank you for spreading the knowledge. Do have a bless week. Legend!🙏🙏
You literally just described things i went through last year...im actually a well read well experienced guy on these matters but somehow they still come as a surprise..lol idk...but still you never disappoint...its always good to relearn and reinforce yourself on these information. KEEP IT UP JESS.
Ehh, if a woman loves and respects you, she’ll be focused on aligning with your mission and vision (if you have one) and supporting you, even if you’re going through a rough patch. If she doesn’t want to do that and is only concerned about her “happiness,” let her go. Who cares let her go be “happy” somewhere or learn how to be happy on her own. There’s no point in trying to make something work with someone who isn’t bringing real value, love, and respect into your life as a helpmeet and is only making demands or someone who isn’t accountable for their own happiness. The advice in this video really only applies if you have a truly great woman and you’re a great partner as a man. If those conditions aren’t met, it’s a waste of time anyway.
It also only works with two healthy, strong partners - if either party is focused only on themselves, then it'll be impossible for both to feel satisfied.
Everything you speak is so true ,after most women eat out some Men pocket they Dump them ,but women should member what's goes around comes around ,some time times when they have kids it will backfired on there Kids , Sins is what Travels. Men & women should member if they are not serious in a relationship don't play with Persons Brain 🧠
The very reason my relationship just ended recently. I had no problem expressing things in my relationship. She did and said she was scared to communicate. Shit sucks but its life.
The signs are most likely describing a narcissit. For example if someone loved you and was all over you at the beginning then somehow during the relationship they lose that interest it means they got what they wanted and have no use for you. It's that simple it was love bombing
@@ezekielmwachi4339 I get your metaphor very well ! However, sex is not a commodity and besides being a physiological act, it has a relational and emotional aspect to it. People relate to sex a bit differently. Some people are satisfied with just the physical aspect of it while others want to take it to the next level and enjoy the other aspect too, regardless of the hassle this pursuit usually entails. 👉🏾 Always remember that one man's meat is an other man's poison.
Dearest Jessica, You are tempting me to go and live in Ghana! What an entertaining and intelligent person you are! I simply enjoy every single video and everything you say is so meaningful! I love everything that comes from you! Cosmic Blessings and lots of Love and Light to you forever! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Never be blind in love. Keep your eyes and ears wide open. Don't ignore warning signs. Don't live in a fool's paradise hoping things will improve. If she doesn't respond, stops texting, doesn't take your calls, doesn't want to see you, bro what more you want to know? Treat the most important person in your life with care, affection and love - you !!
100% facts, I've experienced all of this over 26 years of marriage. I communicated on all bases of every sign here with her and there were excuses and denial signs, total waste of time and energy and sad. Thanks J.OS Everything you've stated have been my state of mind questioning of my relationship throughout.
It would be great to see a collab between you and Coach Corey Wayne. Your delivery and vocal variety are awesome, very calm, and engaging. I'm taking notes.
Well strange thing is I know a guy was in a relationship like that suddenly he came into a lot of money and she started calling again he told her sorry plenty of fish out there
Hey the quality of your videos, background, and content presentation (structure and flow) has improved a lot in the last few months. Even the way you are presenting yourself (makeup and dressing) is way much better. Your speech sounds more professional and touching (with the background music in the videos). I don't know what you guys have changed, but Whoever helped you to implement the changes you should keep them and increase their salary .... It's looking really nice. Congratulations
I am a man in exactly this situation. Married for 17 years with two kids. I understood it was over some time ago but I can't leave my children behind. I can't do that to them. The daily and constant disrespect is so much but I can't leave because of my kids. It's almost like I am living with a whole other person I don't recognise. She is very unreasonable and constantly picking fights for no reason. I now fiercely protect my peace and am conscious of not assimilating the constant and daily diatribes into my spirit. Having to do daily affirmations to remind myself of who I am. When the other person is in her eyes always right and cannot be corrected and doesn't listen to what anyone has to say then there's nothing left. Even innocent small talk can result in some diatribe from hell. She has made herself very unapproachable and unlovable. I think that was the plan all along. I cannot fathom how someone can sit down and hatch a plan or approach to life like this by being so toxic. Well I am living it 😭
She's doing almost 90% of these things. She doesn't have an energy for this relationship. It hits real hard and so unbelievable that it's really happening. She doesn't see anything wrong at all.
Communication is one key, of late my relationship is really messing up, she doesn't talk when unless I ask her something, she is too quite on me and is really hurting me up, our plans we keep on planning she doesn't even think on does plans again, it isn't easy given ur heart out and just little misunderstanding she holds on to that, you ask her what's the problem she tells you nothing. Thanks dear.
typing this i am crying...my wife has suddenly become everything you mentioned...i am in serious pains girl....i wish i could make this end myself...i am tired of begging to be loved...a lot i cant really talk about here, but my marraige is heading for the water loo...i wish i could just run away....we hav a son together and the only reason i havent left is because of him....all the signs you mentioned are so clearly coupled with the other videos i have watched which lines up everything...thinking of leaving and finding my life again....she doesnt value me, no respect, insults me all the time, threatens my peace, wish i could say it all....allows her friends to decide what happens inour home, always proofing too know, and everything so negative...i really dont know how to go about it from here...but its obvious her heart is somewhere else...the pain i feel is so much that i feel my heart bursting open, she has outrightly told me shes going to leave the marraige, i have done everything, sacrificed everthing, time, money, my life and what have you....shes been seeing someone else lately and have been making me look stupid, each time i ask her, she bolts off, gets angry, irritated, starts shouting, talks disrespectfully and rudely, the spark we had is gone, we could never do without each other, i dont know what happened, but i can possibly tell that the day she began bringing friends into our lives that was when issues began cropping up....i dont know how to begin all of these...but in as much as i am so in love with her, i also want to protect my heart, incase she comes in with the worst one day........i need to find me again...i have lost it with her...i am in pains...i need help from this trauma.
I'm so sorry brother just get your self back together,you're the man brother you can do better. just let her go out of ur space I know it's hard brother but you gotta give it a push,protect your mental health may God give you the strength
You must be a silly man to be in so much love with a cheating woman. I left mine with 4 kids and moved on. I know you love your son but you will have to leave and forget about him. For your prosperity!
Never beg or chase anything in this life because you’ll be taken advantage off. I tried to get my ex back for a face to face chat for either closure or another chance. She said she will see me if I paid her £225 for her beauty treatment. I gave her the money via bank transfer and she blew out 3 hrs before the date. She told me she had no intention of ever seeing me and wanted to hurt me as much as possible so that I get the message. I’ll never forget 28th November 2023.
you definitly hit me with sign 3. She had gone to a law firm holiday party with her sister in las vegas and then was going to another party in town the very next day. she never invited me and i was hinting to her that i was available for both. Even said i could be her DD if she needed someone. that was the weekend we broke up
Absolutely dear you're right , because I went through all that you said. After all that before I came home , she and everything has vanished. Thank you for this video
I stopped kissing her and made her understand why. You can't be kissing me with lot of saliva in your month, it's my turn off. She took it personal and the blame games came in (getting it elsewhere). That was the end of it.
oh, you got me with sign 6 too. she picked fights with me over everything, especially if i felt like it was a concern that i wanted to address. She even admitted that what i was asking for including checking in when she went out of town or to parties, reassurance, identifying im a priority to her and where i stand with her in her life, compromising the idea of sharing thanksgivings with my family instead one day, and creating a safe place for me to voice my concerns were all reasonable requests and doesnt know why she got so mad about it.
I was blindsided after a 12 year relationship, I didn't see it coming, I agree we had lack of intimacy, I am so hurt by this, it's been 5 months, I asked her a month ago what happened? She said " let it go.
It's a Full Time Job at best....and Yes sometimes you wonder is it worth it. I say No at 52 years old for myself the Mental Energy is draining over small petty stuff. I can sound really hard but I'm just not into a unhappy Woman. I'm going too do the single thing for a very long time, I don't need a Relationship like most Men would probably want it Sex. I'm not the weak Man for Sex at this stage of my life. Jessica you are hitting on some real topics. GM
Thanks Jessica, you are the best and I appreciate your service to us all because it's very inspirational and also an eye opener for a lot of us. Love always!
I never understand why a woman will sideline you emotionally and leave you wondering and sweating while they can just tell you they don't want the relationship no more.. wanting to leave is not a problem at all but if you can keep me in the dark until I probably find out something fishy then it's painful
Trust me , I was in the same situation where my ex-girlfriend dragged the dead relationship. She had silently checked out 3 months ago. The thing is, she didn't want to be the bad guy .. She was waiting for me to end the relationship. It painful 💔 I must say 🙏
Exactly what l am going through now. She's been dragging this for like 8months now. I have to painfully connect the dots. She waited to get to UK 🇬🇧 and started showing it well.
Ding Ding Ding! My Ex GF of 3 years just broke up with me recently. Sad part was she had to resort to a lie to justify what she did. I was blindsided for the most part but her last Ex just got out from being incarcerated. I even made a UA-cam video about it. Jessica Os has it right. My ex displayed almost every single sign. Listen to Jessica guys! She is right on the money in her videos.
Why i broke up with ma woman was a bit similar to one of the points. In my situation I was the one doing the calling, if decide not to call for as long as a month or 2 she feel not bothered, so I said to her "I can see you are no more interested and I don't want to force you so move on while I do same". I'm ok ever since and I believe she's also.
This episode for made for me and I finally realized all this points lately. It's so sad we had a child together but her mom won't even let me speak to my son. Foreigner in the hands of south Africa women is a deadliest thing on earth because these people have no conscience or care anymore as long as your struggling with your biz. It's a shame people still keep falling for them, they only settle for what to gain and as long as it's no longer there they out of the way.
Everything you said is just facts. But knowing ahead is better so you the one who invented more in the relationship can be in the better mood to handle it.
My lady and I been together for ten years. March the 3rd made ten. When we first got together we both lied about somethings. I was still seeing the mother of my kids and she was still spending time with her sons father. Now years later when we discuss or disagree on something she brings up the pass, that supposedly she forgave me for. I ask her do you wanna move on? Her face tells it all she can't answer me or even look at me!! If she won't confess I'm just gonna decide for her. Cause at this point we're both unhappy with the relationship. But we team drive together as truckers and just holding on cause we make good money. I'm on my last straw 😤.
Ya i can identify with 3 of those signs. My wife left me 3 months ago. I was blind to see the signs at the time. She broke with me over a phone call. Had to put her on the spot & ask if its over. She had no choice but to answer then & there. Didnt see her for 3 days. When she came home any photos connecting me & her she burned them in the fire. Total erasure of me over a period of not even a full week. Understood it takes 2 to break up a marriage but what she did was extreme. She walked out. No communication for 6 weeks. When she demanded divorce & sell the house she and her sister brought the police to my door step then i reaIised no hope of getting back together i just ran out of the house wasnt entertaining it. At least she knows now im not giving into demands. But will have to be settled at a later date. I realise now shes better off outta my life.
44 years into a relationship where there is no love - no real connection - no real affection - no longer empathy - no feelings and we are sleeping in separate quarters. Is there any hope to salvage ???
I find that many of us makes it all to complicated. Just be straight up. I want to split, I want to be with you, I want a open relationship etc. Find someone who wants to play on your field and end the madness by saying one thing and then do the opposite. I see that most women loose interest after having kids and I even see women having a heard time excepting this fact. If you are with a covert narcissist, then it becomes much more complicated. Because you may get all the sex you need, and she may even love bomb you, but it does not mean she is happy with your nor will seek out of the relationship. Once you approach this fact with her, you will be gaslighted, manipulated and made a fool out of, getting blamed for everything you did in the past, which in her mind allows her to be the way that she is.
Just watched this video, everything you just said is what my woman is showing, she don't come to my place, she allows male friends into her apartment everytime i call her she's with her friends. We don't do the things we normally do. I've talked to her she'll listen but won't make any adjustments. She's now being outrightly disrespectful to me.
My brother she is cheating on you and she don't respect you she talk about you to her male friends that's to many signs.....she's not loyal or trustworthy
I guess I Actually left long ago then.... I've felt all of those things and have been very vocal since day 1 when those feelings came about. He won't leave and says the only way out is death or him going to jail for hurting me... 5 kids, 13 years invested in a toxic and dangerous environment with my kids.... He doesn't understand we can walk away peacefully, but he wants war and has proved it 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
If you only communicate about your daily chores your relationship are in danger. It is easy to get there when you have small children and you are constantly busy. Note that how you communicate can make the difference between chores and desires. What shall we do during our vacation? Can we do X?(Chore) I'd like us to do X during our vacation. (Desire)
If a woman won't kiss you , Talk with her about what is wrong and why there is a Lack of Kissing , if there is still a Gray Cloud in her Conversation and Nothing Black or White , then you need to pay attention to her goings and comings . If a Woman isn't kissing You , She's kissing someone else .
Mine wont kiss me because all her teeth are rotten due to no brushing but it didn't stop her from popping that cleavage and yoga pants everywhere. New gym membership? Gotta have a new wardrobe mostly consisting of traslucent yoga pants and other skimpy clothing.
To any man never be afraid of losing any woman you should be worried if you are losing yourself because your future and your destiny is not located between the legs of any woman as a man your future and your destiny lies in your hands a word to a wise is enough
Thank man, really needed that right now!!!!
Great
Well captured bro
That advice would be more profound if you had used punctuation.
@@larryhall2805 my teacher died whilst I was still in kindergarten , but anyway thanks for your advice
I'm convinced at this point that love doesn't last and it only turns to terrible pain. So why waste your time.
Preparing myself for the woman that deserves me. Patience is key
Facts
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💯Stay up kings.
In short, avoid relationship and focus on your dreams.. Relationship will come to you on its own
snort the coke
“Relationships are hard work” Real talk ‼️‼️‼️
No doubt
I really don't think it should be that hard. Some hardship but not the norm.
Magnificent person reading this… The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! 🌟- Love, Nat ❤️
Thank you ❤️☑️
Thank you. It is hard to believe that when the heart seems so deeply shattered and wounded and you ask God, so where are you, where were you, when I was defenseless and now have to live with a heart that will not trust? Maybe YOU are his messenger, saying come on child, I got you. I am with you. Thank you.
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I'm blown away by the sings you give uhmm thank you..I'm already your greatest fans.. 🤞🏼
@@spiritNmind you’re so welcome, my friend! :)
The moment a woman becomes your need, you have already lost her.
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Facts
Can u explain, trying to understand?
@@demarcogordon2979 She's an accessory to your life not a need.
Thank man!!
As I think about what Jessica said, and in the order she said them, I think of something I heard sometime back, but especially with today’s topic: “Never make someone a priority in your life when they only see you as an option!”
While others are in level 1 you keep us in level 10 where none can try get us..good work
Am a contractor from uganda experiencing it but your knowledge and advice has always helped me think positive about life
The chemistry will fade or disappear....from the onset I knew you were talking about my situation.. thanks Jessi...
Same here
Same here
The last 2 signs... Wow! I did the right thing to save myself more emotional damage. It's quite sad when you see what was once beautiful crumble so quickly before your eyes but, you know what? Chin up and let's do our utmost best be better than we were in our previous relationship. Thank you for clearing it up for me Jessica 🙏🏿
Good day Jess...keep up the exceptional content. Yes absolutely correct.. relationships is truly overwhelming. I've already been thru a divorce in my mid 20's. Thank you for spreading the knowledge. Do have a bless week. Legend!🙏🙏
You literally just described things i went through last year...im actually a well read well experienced guy on these matters but somehow they still come as a surprise..lol idk...but still you never disappoint...its always good to relearn and reinforce yourself on these information. KEEP IT UP JESS.
I'm going tru this right now ..she said I lied to her..
Ehh, if a woman loves and respects you, she’ll be focused on aligning with your mission and vision (if you have one) and supporting you, even if you’re going through a rough patch. If she doesn’t want to do that and is only concerned about her “happiness,” let her go. Who cares let her go be “happy” somewhere or learn how to be happy on her own. There’s no point in trying to make something work with someone who isn’t bringing real value, love, and respect into your life as a helpmeet and is only making demands or someone who isn’t accountable for their own happiness. The advice in this video really only applies if you have a truly great woman and you’re a great partner as a man. If those conditions aren’t met, it’s a waste of time anyway.
Absolute Truth
I guess it's a waste of time for me .cause I was the one who contributed most of the things in the relationship..I mean monetary too
It also only works with two healthy, strong partners - if either party is focused only on themselves, then it'll be impossible for both to feel satisfied.
This is really and Jessica you have broken all the signs of a dead relationship. Good job.
Jessica, just looking at you is so satisfying to me. You're beautiful and knowing that you know so much about relationships, you are my kind of girl.
Everything you speak is so true ,after most women eat out some Men pocket they Dump them ,but women should member what's goes around comes around ,some time times when they have kids it will backfired on there Kids , Sins is what Travels. Men & women should member if they are not serious in a relationship don't play with Persons Brain 🧠
Communication is the most important thing in a relationship. Thanks.
Thanks
True.
The very reason my relationship just ended recently. I had no problem expressing things in my relationship. She did and said she was scared to communicate. Shit sucks but its life.
The signs are most likely describing a narcissit. For example if someone loved you and was all over you at the beginning then somehow during the relationship they lose that interest it means they got what they wanted and have no use for you.
It's that simple it was love bombing
Tell me about it.
Seriously, it's better to invest in oneself as a man.
Be the best u should be and the best will reach out to you.
Story of my life
Exactly as a man one needs to just add value to himself first then more good things will come to u
No doubt
🎶🎵 When a woman is fed up , there is nothing you can do about it. 🎶🎵
We 1st talk of the value they create if u remove sex in the relationship. Do u think a lady is an asset or a liability?
@@ezekielmwachi4339" A liability mostly 🤔"
@@SarcasticSplendor it easier and cheap to buy milk than keep a cow.
@@SarcasticSplendor why care if she get tired. let her be.
@@ezekielmwachi4339 I get your metaphor very well !
However, sex is not a commodity and besides being a physiological act, it has a relational and emotional aspect to it.
People relate to sex a bit differently. Some people are satisfied with just the physical aspect of it while others want to take it to the next level and enjoy the other aspect too, regardless of the hassle this pursuit usually entails.
👉🏾 Always remember that one man's meat is an other man's poison.
Dearest Jessica, You are tempting me to go and live in Ghana! What an entertaining and intelligent person you are! I simply enjoy every single video and everything you say is so meaningful! I love everything that comes from you!
Cosmic Blessings and lots of Love and Light to you forever!
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Really good overview. Well analyzed 😉. Keep Inspiring your community 👏
Never be blind in love. Keep your eyes and ears wide open. Don't ignore warning signs. Don't live in a fool's paradise hoping things will improve. If she doesn't respond, stops texting, doesn't take your calls, doesn't want to see you, bro what more you want to know? Treat the most important person in your life with care, affection and love - you !!
100% facts, I've experienced all of this over 26 years of marriage. I communicated on all bases of every sign here with her and there were excuses and denial signs, total waste of time and energy and sad. Thanks J.OS
Everything you've stated have been my state of mind questioning of my relationship throughout.
One thing i have noticed is each video comes with a new introduction. Good work👊
Very well to the point!
Infact, not just withdrawing from everything!
She clearly voiced out "she wants a separation"!
Public comment. The power of making decisions to protect your dignity and integrity and respect. Protect your heart.
Funnily enough @Jessica these were what my ex was doing. I don't think this is only for females, males do it too.
It would be great to see a collab between you and Coach Corey Wayne. Your delivery and vocal variety are awesome, very calm, and engaging. I'm taking notes.
Well strange thing is I know a guy was in a relationship like that suddenly he came into a lot of money and she started calling again he told her sorry plenty of fish out there
Great advice. I needed this 30 years ago.
I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago okay..., contact Dr wilson,🏃🏃...,he do alot of work okay.., and keep to his words
Don't waste your time here he can help you and you get fast and effective results he deal with all kind of problem.,
I recently was in a relationship and my ex did every step that you explain... 😲 Wow.
Thanks Queen for this viable information ❤️
Hey the quality of your videos, background, and content presentation (structure and flow) has improved a lot in the last few months. Even the way you are presenting yourself (makeup and dressing) is way much better. Your speech sounds more professional and touching (with the background music in the videos). I don't know what you guys have changed, but Whoever helped you to implement the changes you should keep them and increase their salary .... It's looking really nice. Congratulations
I am a man in exactly this situation. Married for 17 years with two kids. I understood it was over some time ago but I can't leave my children behind. I can't do that to them. The daily and constant disrespect is so much but I can't leave because of my kids. It's almost like I am living with a whole other person I don't recognise. She is very unreasonable and constantly picking fights for no reason. I now fiercely protect my peace and am conscious of not assimilating the constant and daily diatribes into my spirit. Having to do daily affirmations to remind myself of who I am. When the other person is in her eyes always right and cannot be corrected and doesn't listen to what anyone has to say then there's nothing left. Even innocent small talk can result in some diatribe from hell. She has made herself very unapproachable and unlovable. I think that was the plan all along. I cannot fathom how someone can sit down and hatch a plan or approach to life like this by being so toxic. Well I am living it 😭
All I want is the truth and the things you are saying I have been seeing and noticing what’s going on I don’t have time to use anyone period
She's doing almost 90% of these things. She doesn't have an energy for this relationship. It hits real hard and so unbelievable that it's really happening. She doesn't see anything wrong at all.
Time to get back to yourself and give yourself some space. I'm currently there. It gets a bit easier daily. Acceptance is key.
Fact ❤️ thanks for sharing best option is for you to move on
Communication is one key, of late my relationship is really messing up, she doesn't talk when unless I ask her something, she is too quite on me and is really hurting me up, our plans we keep on planning she doesn't even think on does plans again, it isn't easy given ur heart out and just little misunderstanding she holds on to that, you ask her what's the problem she tells you nothing. Thanks dear.
Focus on your self and get options
You need an abundance mindset
@@jejemoviesug6807 thanks JEJE
I love this woman,she is doing wonderful jobs
Relationship is a hard work😢
typing this i am crying...my wife has suddenly become everything you mentioned...i am in serious pains girl....i wish i could make this end myself...i am tired of begging to be loved...a lot i cant really talk about here, but my marraige is heading for the water loo...i wish i could just run away....we hav a son together and the only reason i havent left is because of him....all the signs you mentioned are so clearly coupled with the other videos i have watched which lines up everything...thinking of leaving and finding my life again....she doesnt value me, no respect, insults me all the time, threatens my peace, wish i could say it all....allows her friends to decide what happens inour home, always proofing too know, and everything so negative...i really dont know how to go about it from here...but its obvious her heart is somewhere else...the pain i feel is so much that i feel my heart bursting open, she has outrightly told me shes going to leave the marraige, i have done everything, sacrificed everthing, time, money, my life and what have you....shes been seeing someone else lately and have been making me look stupid, each time i ask her, she bolts off, gets angry, irritated, starts shouting, talks disrespectfully and rudely, the spark we had is gone, we could never do without each other, i dont know what happened, but i can possibly tell that the day she began bringing friends into our lives that was when issues began cropping up....i dont know how to begin all of these...but in as much as i am so in love with her, i also want to protect my heart, incase she comes in with the worst one day........i need to find me again...i have lost it with her...i am in pains...i need help from this trauma.
I'm so sorry brother just get your self back together,you're the man brother you can do better. just let her go out of ur space I know it's hard brother but you gotta give it a push,protect your mental health may God give you the strength
You must be a silly man to be in so much love with a cheating woman. I left mine with 4 kids and moved on. I know you love your son but you will have to leave and forget about him. For your prosperity!
Never beg or chase anything in this life because you’ll be taken advantage off.
I tried to get my ex back for a face to face chat for either closure or another chance. She said she will see me if I paid her £225 for her beauty treatment.
I gave her the money via bank transfer and she blew out 3 hrs before the date. She told me she had no intention of ever seeing me and wanted to hurt me as much as possible so that I get the message.
I’ll never forget 28th November 2023.
Dude....walk!!!
I'm going through the same right now I feel your pain .... haven't processed it yet fully but each day gets better
you definitly hit me with sign 3. She had gone to a law firm holiday party with her sister in las vegas and then was going to another party in town the very next day. she never invited me and i was hinting to her that i was available for both. Even said i could be her DD if she needed someone. that was the weekend we broke up
I learned a long time ago relationships are hard and I’m not good at them
Thank you for everything ma cherie. You are awesome. Very happy with today's talk. Take care.
Absolutely dear you're right , because I went through all that you said. After all that before I came home , she and everything has vanished. Thank you for this video
Madam Jessica you are GOD sent to the Man's world as regards Relationship Eye Opener.God bless you with more wisdom.
I stopped kissing her and made her understand why. You can't be kissing me with lot of saliva in your month, it's my turn off. She took it personal and the blame games came in (getting it elsewhere). That was the end of it.
oh, you got me with sign 6 too. she picked fights with me over everything, especially if i felt like it was a concern that i wanted to address. She even admitted that what i was asking for including checking in when she went out of town or to parties, reassurance, identifying im a priority to her and where i stand with her in her life, compromising the idea of sharing thanksgivings with my family instead one day, and creating a safe place for me to voice my concerns were all reasonable requests and doesnt know why she got so mad about it.
Really helpful. Please can you talk about relationship and money and the principle of giving and taking
I was blindsided after a 12 year relationship, I didn't see it coming, I agree we had lack of intimacy, I am so hurt by this, it's been 5 months, I asked her a month ago what happened? She said " let it go.
I would bet you did see the signs you just couldn't accept it. And secondly I would bet you couldn't supply her anymore lol
@@klausmakaneta6890 troll much ?
It is because you never kissed at all and this what happened to me in the year 2021.
Why stay in a 12 year old relationship at all.
she cheated
I can’t agree with you more Jessica. Well done and thank you for this amazing content.👌🏾
It's a Full Time Job at best....and Yes sometimes you wonder is it worth it. I say No at 52 years old for myself the Mental Energy is draining over small petty stuff. I can sound really hard but I'm just not into a unhappy Woman. I'm going too do the single thing for a very long time, I don't need a Relationship like most Men would probably want it Sex. I'm not the weak Man for Sex at this stage of my life. Jessica you are hitting on some real topics. GM
"She weeds you out" haha like the expressions.
Wory about what your next meal will be that's a real stresser
The points are just not debatable.
Thanks Jherss. We love your dedication ❣️
Am really torch with this message,thanks for sharing God bless you.
Thanks Jessica, you are the best and I appreciate your service to us all because it's very inspirational and also an eye opener for a lot of us. Love always!
I never understand why a woman will sideline you emotionally and leave you wondering and sweating while they can just tell you they don't want the relationship no more.. wanting to leave is not a problem at all but if you can keep me in the dark until I probably find out something fishy then it's painful
Word
They can be and mostly are cowards.
Trust me , I was in the same situation where my ex-girlfriend dragged the dead relationship.
She had silently checked out 3 months ago. The thing is, she didn't want to be the bad guy .. She was waiting for me to end the relationship.
It painful 💔 I must say 🙏
Exactly what l am going through now. She's been dragging this for like 8months now. I have to painfully connect the dots. She waited to get to UK 🇬🇧 and started showing it well.
@@rabotlhokotlhabane9546 I know it’s seven months ago
Did she eventually say something or left quietly
Did you ask her if she want to break up?
Contingency plans, that's what the black star's coach needed but....great piece Jess.
U are a Gem 💎 thank you.👍🏾
Thank you Jes,keep up the good job and be blessed.
Ding Ding Ding! My Ex GF of 3 years just broke up with me recently. Sad part was she had to resort to a lie to justify what she did. I was blindsided for the most part but her last Ex just got out from being incarcerated. I even made a UA-cam video about it. Jessica Os has it right. My ex displayed almost every single sign. Listen to Jessica guys! She is right on the money in her videos.
Why i broke up with ma woman was a bit similar to one of the points. In my situation I was the one doing the calling, if decide not to call for as long as a month or 2 she feel not bothered, so I said to her "I can see you are no more interested and I don't want to force you so move on while I do same". I'm ok ever since and I believe she's also.
This episode for made for me and I finally realized all this points lately. It's so sad we had a child together but her mom won't even let me speak to my son. Foreigner in the hands of south Africa women is a deadliest thing on earth because these people have no conscience or care anymore as long as your struggling with your biz. It's a shame people still keep falling for them, they only settle for what to gain and as long as it's no longer there they out of the way.
I'm currently facing all these you highlighted ma'am, and it hurts so much. But i'm still doing whatever it takes to be a better version of ma self
Road to 500k 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Congratulations Jessica 🎉👏❣️
Thank you my dear, is very true I have experience this before! Good job 👏
Everything you said is just facts. But knowing ahead is better so you the one who invented more in the relationship can be in the better mood to handle it.
This is so spot on Jessica
Just be free gentlemen. Stay focused and away from women, especially those in the west. Only deal with women who are willing to serve you.
My lady and I been together for ten years. March the 3rd made ten. When we first got together we both lied about somethings. I was still seeing the mother of my kids and she was still spending time with her sons father. Now years later when we discuss or disagree on something she brings up the pass, that supposedly she forgave me for. I ask her do you wanna move on? Her face tells it all she can't answer me or even look at me!! If she won't confess I'm just gonna decide for her. Cause at this point we're both unhappy with the relationship. But we team drive together as truckers and just holding on cause we make good money. I'm on my last straw 😤.
Haha me too
You are one great advisor to us, men, thank you so very much.
I wish I found you last year. My wife was a serial cheater and I was a good Husband for 25 years or so I thought. I'm moving on.
Better late than never
Ya i can identify with 3 of those signs. My wife left me 3 months ago. I was blind to see the signs at the time. She broke with me over a phone call. Had to put her on the spot & ask if its over. She had no choice but to answer then & there. Didnt see her for 3 days. When she came home any photos connecting me & her she burned them in the fire. Total erasure of me over a period of not even a full week. Understood it takes 2 to break up a marriage but what she did was extreme. She walked out. No communication for 6 weeks. When she demanded divorce & sell the house she and her sister brought the police to my door step then i reaIised no hope of getting back together i just ran out of the house wasnt entertaining it. At least she knows now im not giving into demands. But will have to be settled at a later date. I realise now shes better off outta my life.
That's fine , if she doesn't want to be with me anymore , You just have to accept that , A true women knows who the real men are in this world .
44 years into a relationship where there is no love - no real connection - no real affection - no longer empathy - no feelings and we are sleeping in separate quarters. Is there any hope to salvage ???
Hellooo Jess HAPPY NEW YEAR I have just shown you to my Uncle and He said we should make arrangements as early as possible 👸👌
Hahahahaha 😂😆
Thank you Jess your videos have really helped me 😊🙏
I find that many of us makes it all to complicated. Just be straight up. I want to split, I want to be with you, I want a open relationship etc. Find someone who wants to play on your field and end the madness by saying one thing and then do the opposite. I see that most women loose interest after having kids and I even see women having a heard time excepting this fact. If you are with a covert narcissist, then it becomes much more complicated. Because you may get all the sex you need, and she may even love bomb you, but it does not mean she is happy with your nor will seek out of the relationship. Once you approach this fact with her, you will be gaslighted, manipulated and made a fool out of, getting blamed for everything you did in the past, which in her mind allows her to be the way that she is.
Women can be crafty. Great information.
Hello Jessi please my girlfriend like pampering but I don’t know how to do it please what should I do help me 😢😢😢
Thanks Jess your vedios are always educative
Just watched this video, everything you just said is what my woman is showing, she don't come to my place, she allows male friends into her apartment everytime i call her she's with her friends. We don't do the things we normally do. I've talked to her she'll listen but won't make any adjustments. She's now being outrightly disrespectful to me.
My brother she is cheating on you and she don't respect you she talk about you to her male friends that's to many signs.....she's not loyal or trustworthy
7 valid Signs!! Thanks for sharing!!
Once you perceived a hint of any of these signs, you show her the door immediately.
Always enjoying ya videos
Well done, your channel is very very good and educative.
Whatever you talked about from numb 1 to 7,but she still with me doesn't move out from my place.instead she always blackmailing me out.
I guess I Actually left long ago then.... I've felt all of those things and have been very vocal since day 1 when those feelings came about. He won't leave and says the only way out is death or him going to jail for hurting me... 5 kids, 13 years invested in a toxic and dangerous environment with my kids.... He doesn't understand we can walk away peacefully, but he wants war and has proved it 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
thanks so much my beloved sister from Ghana, for such informative info, thumbs up! from Namibia
If you only communicate about your daily chores your relationship are in danger. It is easy to get there when you have small children and you are constantly busy.
Note that how you communicate can make the difference between chores and desires.
What shall we do during our vacation? Can we do X?(Chore)
I'd like us to do X during our vacation. (Desire)
If a woman won't kiss you , Talk with her about what is wrong and why there is a Lack of Kissing , if there is still a Gray Cloud in her Conversation and Nothing Black or White , then you need to pay attention to her goings and comings . If a Woman isn't kissing You , She's kissing someone else .
Mine wont kiss me because all her teeth are rotten due to no brushing but it didn't stop her from popping that cleavage and yoga pants everywhere. New gym membership? Gotta have a new wardrobe mostly consisting of traslucent yoga pants and other skimpy clothing.
This has just happened to me.. Exactly the same way u put it here.. Thank you so much for opening mu eyes tomorrow I'm making a last move
Great Break down 😉. I love your Videos 💕
The best post ever 🙌 you said it well. 👏
Thank you, Thank you, THAAANK YOU Jessica.
Am exactly going through this,eishhh so painful then, thanks so much for highlighting