Communication Characteristics of Energy Vampires and Energy Givers
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
- Learn what the communication characteristics of energy vampires are. We discuss how to protect yourself from energy vampires and how to communicate with people who drain your energy. Not all energy drainers or energy vampires are narcissists. We are talking about energy vampires and energy drainers, not narcissists.
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I have a cousin who likes to pick out a negative topic to discuss at me (Notice, I didn't say With me). This topic is something that she could explain in five minutes, but she basically repeats the same information over and over and it can go on for literally hours. She talks more and more rapidly, and the faster she goes, the more you feel energy being pulled out of you. I have noticed this interesting thing. My phone battery also goes dead when I am on the phone with her. It's like she's sucking the energy from the phone battery as well.
Wow... Sorry to read that. I wish the best for you and a quick resolve in that matter. Love and light to you stranger 🙏
Oof I think I've been an energy vampire to my partner. Sometimes I expect more from the conversation, and when it doesn't go how I was hoping I get disappointed. My partner has expressed how he sometimes feels like there is a certain expectation that he can't fulfill.
Thanks for the reminder to dial it back a bit and refocus on the individual rather than myself!
Hi Sho! Thank you so much for this candid comment. You are not alone! We all take more energy than we give sometimes. It's part of being human. Most people like talking about themselves, having the conversation revolve around them and as long as we are aware of this and aim to balance it out in conversation and social interaction, no harm done! Honestly, the fact that you're self aware puts you ahead of the game. We all need reminders every now and then and communication is something that we can all improve upon. No one is a perfect communicator 100% of the time because no one is perfect! Please don't be hard on yourself, you're doing great :) Thank you for sharing!
is he a taurus cause i am and im usually like that
Really interesting video that confirms so much of what I'm experiencing having started a relationship with a narcissistic energy vampire. Thank you so much!
if you are talking to a wall end it
I'm actually the energy vampire to myself, I put alot of energy into talking thinking I need to keep their attention. I drain myself and I had an older mentor/friend who would say, "Well, I'm going to let you go because I know you're busy". haha. I knew what she was doing, she had to kindly cut me off because I wouldn't stop talking. haha
This video doesn't speak about manipulation, energy harvesting, mass-media trying to distract people and make them focus on entertainment and irrelevant things.
Nothing about the energy they get from negative emotions, the triggers
Nothing about fear, shame, guilt, causing pain, shock, disgust.
What about the drama mass-media promotes? What about the triggers? No word about massive energy harvesting.
Nothing about breaking news and reality shows and all the other festivals and concerts that drain the audience.
Nothing about the more serious aspects of energy draining.
it is often only heard about the three definite members in some families,with a total of four members though..only three sharing perfect bonding and harmony. two of them always happens to be the father and mother while the third member would either be a sister or a brother. the fourth member often would be an elder sibling who has always felt ignored unwanted in the own family thus never felt any emotional bonding but found love eventually in other's though. things could go wrong if the sibling always clinging to the parents even at his or her mature age has been a egocentric manipulative narcissist and an oppurtinist. being one such he or she would constantly manipulate the parents to isolate the other sibling even more due to narcissistic traits . with age some narcissists updates and plotting intenses to make the parents believe think and act in accordance. it is most likely that in some families both the father and mother irrationally supports and acts in a way what only one particular offspring says. in due course of time the narcissist offspring drain the parents off their loving good will energy and making them dry and manipulating them to turn into energy vampires to feed on energy of the other sibling. thus one narcissist can even make non narcissists into narcissists, good into evil.
this oppression in some families by the company of three members of a family against a fourth member in the family are not rare.
Some of my family members are energy vampires and have been worst since covid lockdowns,how does 1 ground themselves
They aren't intentional or dedicated predators like many Satanists so all you have to do is give love and positivity off each and every time you feel like someone is putting you down . No one has the power to change your own mood, and you maintain your power in the company of others. Unconscious "energy vampires" aren't aware of what they are doing and so you can deal with the situation with strength or love based things. Never allow the negative dumping to affect in any way. Personally I find my belief in Christ gives me total immunity but that's just me. Blessings to you and yours..
Ambivert here. However sometimes regardless, I need that recharge period.
Where's this blog post you reference? Oo
Energy vampires ??? I eat them up. Ssssssssssssssssss
I'd like to know what culture has no personal space! lol Some things are just human nature.
Some of it comes down to personal preference, but some of it is also instilled in us based on our native language/culture. In the US personal space (arm's length distance) is prioritized when the rapport has yet to be established otherwise it can feel uncomfortable. Every culture treats Proxemics in social interaction differently. The length of distance differs from culture to culture and in some cases someone's talking to you so closely there's no distance at all.
My family?🤷♀️😂
What makes you think you can post videos on such a topic? What is your expertise? Why should viewers consider you reliable?
How about a video on connecting with co-workers as a new employee, could be more useful than a negative video, which I categorized this video hence watched long enough to send you feedback.
Thanks for the feedback, we appreciate it! That's a good suggestion. Funnily enough, we had the same thought. What we decided was that it is important to show both the negative and the positive. By understanding the negative you can better implement the positive. And to drive this home in parts of the conversation we do discuss the inverse which is the power of providing the energy in a conversation and the exchange of energy throughout a conversation. I'm not sure if you made it that far but definitely give it a listen if you didn't.
@@ExplearningCo Thank you looking forward to the reverse video best of luck
Some amateur with no social skills teaching others social skills. misleading, immoral, unfair
You speak about energy vampires only from a communication point of view. It is a personality disorder. The ones who are actively/intentionally siphoning/harvesting energy are a totally different thing.
You beat around the bush with introvert/extravert, teacher mentor and student.
This has nothing to do with the energy draining a person feels after an energy vampire has tried to steal their most precious resources.
It is one of the worst materials I have seen.
It doesn't touch the most important aspects - somatization, physical effects, how to protect, how to recognize them.
Yes, some people may be energy vampires in some contexts but they don't actively or intentionally engage in this maleficent activity
This video contains a lot of misinformation and you mislead people into believing anybody can destroy other people's lives, which is unfair and immoral.
So, basically anyone can be an energy vampire, so what's the use of this video if you don't speak about toxic people, parasites, energy harvesting, energy siphoning, nothing about this pattern of behavior.
You put everyone in the same category, an empath can sometimes be an energy vampire, it's normal for an introvert to feel drained. Many logical fallacies.
You don't understand the topic you discuss.
Saying that basically anyone can be toxic because they display this behavior once in a while is not the same with emotional abuse, energy parasites, energy harvesting and energy siphoning.
Speaking about the distance between people and ignoring the energy draining techniques used by mass-media.
So many irrelevant aspects discussed.if someone from a different culture has a different attitude towards personal space, does that make him/her an energy vampire?
This is what you imply.
Pathetic.
One of the most misleading videos about energy vampires.
You two are pretty arrogant to pretend to be expert in social skills, communication and other areas.
It is misleading, unfair and immoral.to consider yourselves superior without offering any valuable information.
Everybody can speak about this subject in a general sense.
Very arrogant to consider yourselves experts in these areas.
Very dangerous for people to let themselves guided by amateurs.