When you feel like you don't belong in university

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  • Опубліковано 19 гру 2024

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  • @supremecourt8509
    @supremecourt8509 3 роки тому +59

    "We aren't as stupid as we think we are".
    You say that now but wait till you find out I accidentally brushed my teeth with soap

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  3 роки тому +7

      Jokes on you, I already factored in the fact that I showered in toothpaste

    • @supremecourt8509
      @supremecourt8509 3 роки тому +5

      @@Dargoyaki we out here setting the bar low

  • @chloelee03
    @chloelee03 3 роки тому +22

    this resonated with me a bit too much it’s concerning.. thank you for putting this out there :”)

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  3 роки тому +1

      all the best for your A Levels!

    • @miaomiao07
      @miaomiao07 3 роки тому

      Jiayou for your A levels!

  • @xiaopang254
    @xiaopang254 3 роки тому +3

    Man, thanks for stating this. I needed it. You've described the situation im facing right now, an imposter syndrome. I kept thinking im not good enough since everyone seems to understand the lecture and I did not. Y1 CS currently.. really thank you!!

  • @carmenj1006
    @carmenj1006 Рік тому

    Well said indeed! Going thru the toughest time but watching your videos help lots, dont stop making good content. Nothing better than the real stuff

  • @NicoleBernadette
    @NicoleBernadette 3 роки тому +29

    This hit really close to home :') Love the way you edited this video and thank you for sharing so vulnerably☺️ Also, CONGRATS BRO, you did it HAHAHA!! I knew this day would come and I'm super excited to see how much more you'll grow✨

    • @anomalies-rm8hv
      @anomalies-rm8hv 3 роки тому +2

      Happy to see that you're enjoying yourself better now! Stay strong girl!

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks so much Nicole! I always admire your consistency week in week out HAHA

  • @tamannamaan7240
    @tamannamaan7240 3 роки тому +6

    I have felt the same through 3 yrs of my computer science engineering and I'm in my 4th year now.This. Video is so motivating Thank you so much 🙏

  • @WildProof
    @WildProof 3 роки тому +1

    I'm nervously waiting for offer from nus. Anxiety is always there. Best wishes!!!

  • @tap2play991
    @tap2play991 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you, this hits at the right spot. Been feeling the same way as you did since day 1 bruh

  • @tigerpapanguyen
    @tigerpapanguyen 3 роки тому +3

    I used to have imposter syndrome too until I earned my first deans' list. I think keeping your head busy and strive for continuous improvements eventually gets you settled in somehow.

  • @miaomiao07
    @miaomiao07 3 роки тому +1

    Appreciate this video Dargo!!
    This is inspiring, I'm in my year 2 taking IT mods. We have got this!

  • @user-bk8sk5cl2o
    @user-bk8sk5cl2o 3 роки тому +1

    This is the positivity I need right now. Thanks man. Back to assignment😁

  • @dandyfadjarrheznandya6683
    @dandyfadjarrheznandya6683 3 роки тому

    I am actually feeling this way right now. Thanks for sharing and well done!

  • @subashree7379
    @subashree7379 3 роки тому

    this exactly what I needed right now....thanks dargo❤❤

  • @internetskid29
    @internetskid29 3 роки тому

    Great video man! I like how you are occasionally taking time off the norm(college vlogs, cs and stuff), and talking about issues that us students face daily! Thank you dargo!

  • @Monarch5759
    @Monarch5759 3 роки тому

    I agree.. i suffered imposter syndrome during my A levels , although I got 9As in my SPM (I'm from Malaysia btw) , i always compared my grade with my classmates that got 9 A+ or 10 A+, i cried every day because I felt that i was useless, stupid and not good enough. Eventually , i learnt that there will always be someone better than you, the only thing that you can do is to be a better person than yesterday. I'm still struggling with this, but now I focus on myself and not other people... :)

  • @manishchoudhary6404
    @manishchoudhary6404 3 роки тому

    That shot at 3:59 is so good! Fantastic video Dargoyaki!

  • @Alexa-yx6kh
    @Alexa-yx6kh 3 роки тому +2

    Spot on. Im also a nus comp kid second upper but im feeling so inferior everyday (for the past 3+ yrs) sigh.

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  3 роки тому

      think it kind of shows that no matter what level you're at most people think they should be better

  • @TamalBarua-nv2gp
    @TamalBarua-nv2gp 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks a lot

  • @oizhenhau251
    @oizhenhau251 3 роки тому

    Thanks man! This video helps me a lot.

  • @XiaoMega
    @XiaoMega 3 роки тому +26

    Yo, your video came at the right spot. I just saw my results for my programming PE1 and I scored 0.

    • @anomalies-rm8hv
      @anomalies-rm8hv 3 роки тому +4

      I scored 0 for pe before as well. I managed to piece my shit tgt n got B+. If I can do it, so can you!

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  3 роки тому +4

      I remember when I had my PE1 I struggled pretty much throughout the whole duration. Next to me sat this dude who was making grunting noises throughout the whole paper. At the end of it this dude straightup came up to me and was like "that wasn't that hard right?" Bruh I almost flipped

  • @MegaENCHANCER
    @MegaENCHANCER 3 роки тому +1

    #realtalk thanks for sharing your journey man :) I can totally relate!

  • @kevjumbaz
    @kevjumbaz 3 роки тому

    we're all gonna make it brah. mental health > grades

  • @eugenelim4779
    @eugenelim4779 3 роки тому

    This is really a good vid! Thanks boss

  • @amirulal-haq
    @amirulal-haq 3 роки тому +3

    ngl this vid came at the right time as im abt to start sem 2 of my first year in poly and aft looking back at my gpa and how average/mediocre my results were....this vid will sit with me as i try to improve in the future while reducing the amount of negative thoughts that i currently have. Thanks bro 😁

  • @frozenicebladez7508
    @frozenicebladez7508 3 роки тому

    Damn I love this motivational type video, very relatable and inspiring

  • @mdaburayhan9101
    @mdaburayhan9101 3 роки тому

    nice video man

  • @frozenicebladez7508
    @frozenicebladez7508 3 роки тому +3

    If you did not pick CS, which course would you have picked?

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  3 роки тому

      probably IS or Business

  • @lazycaterpillar8139
    @lazycaterpillar8139 3 роки тому +1

    im 3 or 4 weeks behind in lectures for 2mods, and lets not go to cs.... best thing is i ghost the only few acquaintances i have in uni cos i cant answer their qns regarding hw lol

    • @miaomiao07
      @miaomiao07 3 роки тому

      Ask them to ask the lecturer directly if you cant answer (you cant keep doing the mia thing , it will become a habit, you have to change and try to face it)

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  3 роки тому +1

      perhaps you should just be honest and tell them that you don't really know how to answer those questions :P

  • @travelmanic1749
    @travelmanic1749 3 роки тому +1

    Actually it’s kinda the other way.. Many of my course mates asking qns meanwhile I’ve no qn to ask because idk wat to ask at that point of time LOL

  • @Icebingsu
    @Icebingsu 3 роки тому +1

    Yes

  • @antheayip4541
    @antheayip4541 3 роки тому

    So appt bruv 🥲🥲

  • @ernestang5656
    @ernestang5656 3 роки тому +3

    "Year 1 was a tough"
    Meanwhile, all the 3k 4k mods waiting to destroy cohort
    All the y3s and y4s laughing/crying in pain 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  3 роки тому +1

      by y3 and y4 we have already conditioned ourselves to pain so it's easier to deal with it than experiencing it fresh 😌

  • @umar69420
    @umar69420 3 роки тому +2

    sad dude

  • @pekhuonglau4489
    @pekhuonglau4489 3 роки тому

  • @hillarykyliec
    @hillarykyliec 3 роки тому +2

    This hits close to home lol. I’m in an almost all-white University in the UK (Bristol) and I always get picked last in groups lmao. Aside from that a few of them seem really ‘smart’ and are doing amazingly well while I had to struggle with mental health issues in Y2 (during the pandemic) 🙃
    I’m in my last year now and I’m just relieved I only have a few months left