CCGRWM : DATING IN YOUR 20s VS 30s WITH JULES GAITHO

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • Hey loves! ❤️
    First of many! Hope you enjoy and let me know below who else you'd love to see on my channel.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 74

  • @terrybouko8961
    @terrybouko8961 Рік тому +234

    Where there is Jules I shall be there !!!!

  • @wanguigrace2957
    @wanguigrace2957 Рік тому +41

    The way I look at ghosting is: Did they really ghost you or did his girlfriend catch him? 😆😆😆 I tell myself that to feel better 😆😆

  • @Journalsbymaureen
    @Journalsbymaureen Рік тому +25

    Do attachment styles change? I have always been an anxious attachment person, then I started to date someone who is secure, I still throw tantrums sometimes, but I know he will be there after the argument even when he says it's over, lol... N it's because overtime he has realized am a runner, he will get furious sometimes and then when he calms down he remembers my anxieties and helps me work on my feelings ( my me problem, like he calls it)... I love it that he takes the time to understand how am feeling at the moment. It's like am slowly calming down. It felt boring at first, now the connection is just everything!!!

    • @assumptanini4252
      @assumptanini4252 Рік тому +2

      Wooow I'm happy for you, I wish to someday get there too

    • @angelmartins2621
      @angelmartins2621 Місяць тому

      Yes attachment styles do change especially when dating a secure person. That's why anxious and avoidant people are best paired with secure people because the experience steers you towards a secure attachment style.

  • @mercyowino_
    @mercyowino_ Рік тому +36

    LOVED THIS SO MUCH!!!
    I think it is worth noting that yes, the best partner for someone with anxious attachment is one with secure attachment. However, that does not mean that being in a relationship with that person will automatically heal you of your anxious attachment style or tendencies. It'll only provide an environment where you will thrive while you work on yourself, you always have to put in work to do better and do better.

    • @carolinewamuyu6222
      @carolinewamuyu6222 Рік тому +1

      So so well put. I think my ex provided that and I found healing in our relationship. I healed well enough to realize I deserved better than him. I hope he finds love that is good for his soul.

  • @pixiekai1138
    @pixiekai1138 Рік тому +12

    Gaithoo steph is your soul sister🥳. You two really connect. I loved watching you two❤ beautiful chemistry

  • @stephaniesteph3068
    @stephaniesteph3068 Рік тому +6

    Avoidants like this comment 😂😜

  • @waridirose8734
    @waridirose8734 Рік тому +10

    Landed here from Jules Instagram stories... Wonderful content 😍

  • @mercychepkirui900
    @mercychepkirui900 Рік тому +7

    I have never related to anything more.I'm definitely an anxious preoccupied

  • @thee_okutowie
    @thee_okutowie Рік тому +9

    I just wish it didn’t have to end, this was so interesting considering I’m trying to figure out my relationship. I’m definitely subscribing💯

  • @TaiMmoja
    @TaiMmoja Рік тому +6

    Just realised men never do this dating prefences thing and dating in their 30s etc

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 Рік тому +4

    Jules brought me here😍. Great conversations warembo🔥. Cherono is a vibe😄, hapo kwa hygiene nakubali💯👌🏾.

  • @bethmaina8983
    @bethmaina8983 Рік тому +4

    New subscriber cause anywhere I see Jules, I know am here to get inspired.

  • @jessicahchepngetich5817
    @jessicahchepngetich5817 Рік тому +6

    Enlightening episode guyss
    But mixing it with the make up session kinda distracted you and couldn't give 100 % attention to the content

  • @wendybird8752
    @wendybird8752 Рік тому +2

    LOVE THESE TWO ANGELS. Stephanie, kindly what did you use on your lip? the inner nude part

  • @marknjoroge2267
    @marknjoroge2267 Рік тому +1

    Cherono iyo ni uongo buana.Huwezi oga saa nane usiku.Surely🤣🤣🤣.

  • @katelynleigh94
    @katelynleigh94 Рік тому +1

    The name Jules Gaitho, made me make a second turn, that's why I'm here. Love from 🇺🇬

  • @harrietawuor4806
    @harrietawuor4806 Рік тому +3

    This was so insightful and entertaining to watch. You two🔥🔥🤩

  • @tamii.malinki
    @tamii.malinki Рік тому +1

    Loved the conversation, new subie here.
    I wish your manager or one of you would've read out the questions instead of putting them up on the screen since it's more interactive. I'm not sure why there are so many cuts in the video but I'll go through your videos and probably get used to it

  • @Mswanjikuuu
    @Mswanjikuuu Рік тому +2

    I absolutely love your laughter😂😂 such a mood lifter

  • @dianageno2485
    @dianageno2485 Рік тому +1

    I wish my younger self was more open to search conversations...
    I thank God that the younger generation is more self aware as they venture into relationships.....

  • @stephanienganga
    @stephanienganga Рік тому +1

    Thoroughly enjoyed this ! So many gems dropped 🥰🥳👏

  • @livingastyra9005
    @livingastyra9005 Рік тому +8

    Wherever Jules is am there 🎉
    And when you talked about the protest behavior whatttt your just full of knowledge 🙌
    I Loved this conversation ladies ❤

  • @cynthiakosgey4355
    @cynthiakosgey4355 Рік тому +1

    The part of tall, black..... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @bancykariuki6044
    @bancykariuki6044 Рік тому +7

    This was a kind conversation
    I love it! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @angelmartins2621
    @angelmartins2621 Місяць тому

    Its that pause at 43:52 that ends with 'heeee I know the story 😂'. Safe to add eye contact as a means of communication

  • @idahachieng1447
    @idahachieng1447 Рік тому

    Liked watching this 🥂. Yes! We want you back!

  • @saraholeng1365
    @saraholeng1365 Рік тому +2

    This was really nice to watch!

  • @jepkemboimercy6932
    @jepkemboimercy6932 Рік тому +2

    Love!! love!! love !!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @JuneJulyA.
    @JuneJulyA. Рік тому

    I enjoyed listening to you ladies so much! Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities with us and of course the wisdom! Bless :)

  • @sharonwachira2310
    @sharonwachira2310 Рік тому +2

    💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @gakuru_wambui
    @gakuru_wambui Рік тому +1

    This is so lovely.. y'all looked beautiful.

  • @suzannjeri190
    @suzannjeri190 Рік тому

    I just love Jules
    she's a whole vibe,,,, nice vedio guys

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 Рік тому

    Really really enjoyed this episode yhoo!!😍😍😍

  • @faithjepkogeikitocho4719
    @faithjepkogeikitocho4719 Рік тому

    Jules all the way,I love you so so much❤️

  • @LynnsTV
    @LynnsTV Рік тому +7

    I love Julia🤎🤍. I'll watch every she's on♥️

  • @violajemutai697
    @violajemutai697 Рік тому +1

    😊💯😁

  • @missk9038
    @missk9038 Рік тому

    What lippies have you guys used? They look really good with your skin tones.

  • @chumbatanui4020
    @chumbatanui4020 Рік тому

    These two melanated Queens are beautiful. Content Gold

  • @valmemo7801
    @valmemo7801 Рік тому +1

    What a duo❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @machembe
    @machembe Рік тому +2

    I believe that, most times, a person doesn't have the avoidant attachment style. They're just not feeling you the way you are feeling them or they have better options.
    Dwelling on the attachment styles theory in such a scenario will leave you wounded and more insecure.
    Also, the attachment styles theory is yet to be accurately proved. Therapists are using it on clients knowing very well that the theory doesn't apply to most modern relationship problems.
    I'm not a therapist but I have had a fair share of problematic relationships. And my observations led me to believing that attachment styles aren't that real in adults. Maybe on children in relation to their bonds with parents.
    Our generation is pretty traumatized to a point even a therapist wouldn't be able to help you figure your shit out.

  • @afrikannduta3072
    @afrikannduta3072 Рік тому +2

    Jules I aim to really study myself and become just as self aware as you are! This episode has been so informative. Lots to think about. You both did such a good job.

  • @kathrynmoraa6628
    @kathrynmoraa6628 Рік тому +1

    Niiiice 🎉🎉

  • @peggynjery7265
    @peggynjery7265 Рік тому

    I see Jules and am all ears

  • @pukwikwi
    @pukwikwi Рік тому

    1713

  • @becoming11
    @becoming11 Рік тому +2

    wow my first time watching u Stephanie and i really enjoyed the conversation...i relate 100%....self awareness is really important in a relationship....keep on...more loves too for Jules

  • @kevinlemayian
    @kevinlemayian Рік тому

    This Conversation was so Wholesome!

  • @alezandradavila2581
    @alezandradavila2581 Рік тому

    Yep

  • @deborahnginya6860
    @deborahnginya6860 Рік тому +1

    ❤️❤️

  • @kimmynaisimoi7149
    @kimmynaisimoi7149 Рік тому

    the duo we never thought we needed!❤

  • @beatrice_chepkirui
    @beatrice_chepkirui Рік тому

    Jules is a vibe

  • @ruthmwihaki6089
    @ruthmwihaki6089 Рік тому

    I love love Jules, I always relate to her. ♥️

  • @sweettea_5119
    @sweettea_5119 Рік тому +1

    You make a beautiful duo.😍😍😍

  • @faustinawanjiru8847
    @faustinawanjiru8847 Рік тому

    Jules always gives me Oprah Winfrey vibes🔥

  • @angeang4795
    @angeang4795 Рік тому

    Loved this so much
    at some point of self realization and acceptance and working on my flaws,
    , I was second guessing myself alot on aloot
    and you ladies just seconded that am on the right path!!! Thanks loves

  • @KINGANNEvlogs
    @KINGANNEvlogs Рік тому +2

    Been very much waiting for this🫠

  • @soniamamwacha
    @soniamamwacha Рік тому

    Why I’m I seeing this todaaayyy????? This brought the best in you twoooo😍🥹♥️♥️

  • @hildatuwei9047
    @hildatuwei9047 Рік тому

    Where there’s Jules❤❤❤❤ @cherono👏🏻👏🏻 🥰🥰