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How To Make Him Really Miss You! | Two HUGE Ways That Make A Guy Miss You
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How To Make Him Miss You | Two HUGE Things That Make A Guy Miss You
Do you ever think to yourself, “How to make a guy miss you?” “how to make him miss you?” “How to make a guy miss me?”
Questions I get asked a lot by women is “how to make a guy miss you?” and “what is the best way to make a guy miss you?”. It’s normal to want to make the guy you like miss you while you’re away, so I want to make this video today teaching two FUNDAMENTAL concepts of the best way to make a guy miss you
Giving advice to women on how to make a guy miss you and how to make him miss you and how to make your boyfriend miss you is one of the most interesting jobs I have as a dating coach/relationships coach. There’s a lot of bad advice out there when it comes to making a guy miss you… tactics, games, “chat to another guy”, “act disinterested”, “pretend to be unavailable” - it’s all bad advice that doesn’t get to the heart of the problem and doesn’t teach a real and authentic way to make a guy miss you.
Good dating advice and relationship advice on making a guy miss you will teach you the two things that make a guy miss you without any games or manipulation. In this video, I teach the most POWERFUL way to make a guy miss you, make your boyfriend miss you and how to make him miss you without you having to play any games at all (the best part is it makes a guy miss you better than any games ever could)
When a woman comes to me saying “how to make him miss me?” “How to make my boyfriend miss me?” and “How to make him miss you?” my first thought is “Important question” This woman knows that a guy missing her is essential to her maintaining her relationship and his attraction for her, but it’s important she goes about how to make him miss you and how to make a guy miss you the right way, or she could make things worse, not better.
In this video from Make Him Yours, I (Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach) am revealing the two ways to make your boyfriend miss you and how to make him miss you. There’s some simple mindsets you need to make a guy miss you and it will work better than any games, and that’s exactly what I’m teaching in todays ‘how to make a guy miss you’ video!
If you’ve struggled with making your boyfriend miss you or knowing how to make your partner miss you, this is the video for you. I’m demonstrating the only two things a man needs to miss you and how to make a guy miss you in a hugely emotionally attractive way!
This dating and relationships dating advice video is my comprehensive guide to how to make a guy miss you, how to make him miss you and how to make your boyfriend miss you. No longer will you be left wondering “How to make my boyfriend miss me?” or “How to get a guy to miss me”. Instead, you’ll know the exact (and only) two things you need to make a guy miss you and how to get a guy to miss you.
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So good and so true the f bombs 💣are great they add passion to what you're conveying. I swear you're a God send. Your videos are REALLY educational, entertaining, empowering and overall inspirational. I truly enjoy them all. Thank you Mark for being so wonderful!!
Funny you mentioned this... at 58 just learned this and actually doing it. It work!!
Great points and very true for marriage also. you helped me reflect on what i may have done to cause my hubby to miss me. he would text me and tell me how much he misses me. Watching your video helpme me to try to remember what i did to cause him to miss me. The positive emotional experiences are key. i am a fun loving woman and he enjoys my company. so after 20 years of marriage, he still chases and misses me.
Hey mark I completely agree with Nisa's comment that you truly are God send,I really badly need your help,how can I communicate with you in person,my problem is hugely complicated,please let me know as soon as possible
Nice mark
1. He has to associate you with POSITIVE emotional experiences,
2. Space to appreciate those experiences (freedom)
Aahhh you're so kind thanks! 💘
The more I watch these videos, the more I think relationships and dating are way too complicated, so daunting - how do people even get married?! uh
Hahahaha. I need to post less videos. Too much to absorb!
I think my channel TL;DR byline needs to be. "Work on yourself, have boundaries". Pretty much all encompassing
MEYOUUS60 Amen to that!!! lol... relationships are for the birds haha!!
On the other hand, birds of a feather do flock together. ;)
MEYOUUS60 we didn't grow up the way our parents and grandparents did. Sadly now there are too many choices because of the internet, and we are an instant gratification society and do not want to put in the work like they did. Also most people never went more than 50 miles outside of their hometown
Don't give up
I learned to give him space lol. It works. Makes the meeting times more memorable
I have been dating a guy for 3 months. He asked me to go on a ski trip with two single women and a married couple. I had to work so I told him I couldn't go but I didn't this exact thing. I told him to have a fucking amazing time and to send snowy mountain pics. I didn't text him a lot... but enough. He had a great time. I gave him total freedom. Was positive and happy and supportive. He came back more in love with me than ever. :)))). Great advice! I also believe that if you take care of yourself (go to the gym, keep a solid social life, and killing it financially (working hard in your career) will always make you feel great and you can project that into your partner! Love all of this!
Boom that's amazing!! Great job and so good to hear the advice helped you.
This is true. I find as I encourage my new boyfriend to hang out with his friends and to have fun, he tends to miss my company and texts "I miss you" and kisses.
YES. THIS.
Maria Macias 💖💖💖
Does it still work, just curious.
My insecurities had ruined every relationship in my life. Now I will never ever show or let my insecurities on someone. Thanks!
Insecurities are normal Eun - just make sure you take responsibility for them :)
Mark Rosenfeld , hi Mark, that's very true & it's make relationship & marriages to be perfect 😍😍😍, you are talented guy, from Norway
Eun, a little bit of insecure is being human. Since, it is also negative if it is constant then try to take control and not letting it control you. If you are that quality woman in a man's life and yet he messes up, sweetie, you are not the problem, he is. Be strong and do not give up yet, Eun. There is a man out there for you who will embrace the real you.
Mark, are your services only available in Australia? Or do you already have international clients?
mescis Thank you so much. Thank you for your kind words. I'm still learning a lot of things in life.
Mark, you start to freak me out. Every time I come across a problem in my new relationship, you post a video about it. I'm leaving for three weeks to france. But my relationship is so new. This is super helpful.. Thank you as always
Ahahahaha Sanne immaculate timing for you! Don't forget to transition over to the long distance video once he has left town :)
There is no way that I am going to stand by and let my BF go off and sleep in a tent with another woman and him still be my BF.If he feels the need to want to do that then I will take my ASSets and look for a better man.
Fair enough Ann. If you consider that disrespectful, it's not something you should be accepting.
That's what I said!!!🤣
I agree Ann, to a point. Men have women friends just as women have male friends. The part I would take issue with this if he was sleeping in a tent with a woman that was into him. Sort of like 'choose your battles'.
exactly and therefore I ditched my ex cause if he is making me going crazy like that, he is not worth it.
That's why that girl is his ex. If you care about someone, it is almost not possible to accept that. He didn't love her at all apparently.
Mark this is spot on. The man I've been seeing just came back from a trip without me and I handled the time away very close to your advice(I just watched your video) and I hadn't expected to hear from him much due to phone expenses. But he texted me several times each day. I was particularly happy when he went out of his way to share his experience with me so far away. He took this trip with a female friend. By not being insecure and needy I believe it brought him to wanting to share with me even more. Before he left he asked if I wanted to chain him I put my palm out to him open and said no I want to hold to lightly like this its your choice to stay or go but my hand is here.
Love this video!!
I have done some serious practicing of this way of life in the last couple years and was single for most of that. In my previous relationships, I didn't give men space to miss me, and I smothered them with my Love, and I was insecure. All the pitfalls!
I've spent probably 5 years being intentionally single and 2-3 more on top of that, all the time trying to get better at self Love, becoming a person I am proud of, improving my thought patterns and beliefs, changing my habits, and changing how I behave in relationships. So much of what you advocate for! I have been listing to your videos and a few other dating coaches for a few years now.
Now I am in a new relationship with a wonderful man, and we've only been dating for two months and I can already tell he sees me as the one and only! He says he misses me immediately after I leave. It's so wonderful.
It's easy, we love eachother.. we accept imperfections and places we don't agree when it's not important.. we give and take and take turns. I know how to say what I want and I know what I want! I give him space, I appreciate him, I'm proud of him, Lots of positive feedback, and when I give constructive feedback I've managed to learn how to make it either like a teasing joke or a "would be" compliment, or I'm able to say how something makes me feel, or how I'd prefer x, or that x would be awesome, or that I need x to feel y.. I'm able to stick up for myself, stand tall, be proud, and therefore hold my stance and not waver into insecurity. I no longer need constant attention; I can accept that love isn't 100% constant love, that there is an ebb and flow, different moods, situations, and that he needs space to go away so he can come back again.. I can accept now that there are times during the day that our love feels more like friendship or maybe we arent attached to the hip or hes busy or not affectionate.. and it's fine!! All because I am secure in myself.
On top of all that, I have had lyme disease this whole time. Dating with a disease is such a struggle, and previously it was a big sore spot for relastionships to go awry. This is because I'm not busy enough, or I have too many symptoms, I need too much help, or I'm too much in self pity victim mode. But I have finally overcome this! I still have the illness (although it's a bit better) but what's changed most is my ability to handle a relationship during illness and not have the illness swallow it up or dominate it. I believe strongly that this is because I now come across as high value, and before I came across as a low value woman because of all those insecurities and therefore neediness. I also accomplished the "when to tell him I'm sick" strategy, finally, with success. Before I may have said it on a first date or even on a dating profile! Just because it's in my mind a lot. But no, that was wrong; I need to treat it like more of a secret so that my other life and personality things are at the top of our connection..leaving occasiobal breadcrumbs about individual, normalized symptoms here and there (ex. Small headache or stomach ache or foot cramp or eye twitching or my leg hurts or a food allergy or tiredness, etc), so its not too huge of a surprise.. and then my illness becomes something I can share when the connection is strong enough that I can be vulnerable and it is then an act of trust to share my secret struggle. Amazing!
You Mark Rosenfeld, as well as Clayton Olsen, Matt Boggs, Matthew Hussey, and shein wade media /the feminine woman.. You have ALL helped. Thank you so much for what you do!
One other youtube video that's helped me over and over is by actualized.org where the bald guy (whose name I forgot) talks about masculinity and femininity. How most issues are because we treat dogs like they're cats and we want cats to act like dogs.
Boyfriend and I agreed that the "ten years ago" versions of us would not have liked eachother.
I am so glad I have taken control of my life and rededigned my mind. This stuff works!! I hope lots of people continue getting your anazing advice Mark! May all the women reading this be inspired and have hope that they too can change.. it happens by changing you into someone you will love and respect for 70 years, then changing how you see yourself, and then everyone else sees it too.
Have a great day ⚘
Thank you Matk for ..
1. Your honesty
2. Explaining what men are thinking on a women's intellectual level. Men and women are so different. You are the bridge I need.
This video is GOLDEN.. nothing but truth.💯 I recently watched a video (another dating channel) encouraging the "hot/cold" method and honestly, it didn't vibe with me at all...i have too much going on in my life to remember whether I'm supposed to be playing hot today and cold tomorrow 😂 I seriously can't keep up with the psychotic shenanigans of that method LBVS 😂 BUT YOUR advice is pure gold 💯and it resonates with me Every. Single. video of yours that I watch ...thanks for bringing truth 🤗
Thanks Cyn! That's a super beautiful comment and very inspiring :)
This is one Of the best advice I have ever heard about relationships. It's hard but what is hardest is usually the best. Thank you for your great videos
Mark, this works like a charm. I gave him space, went out with my friends and the next morning I got a frantic text from him asking me if I was alright and why didn't I answer my text so that he could say goodnight and asking me to please NEVER do that again because he thought he was losing me. Amazing! Thanks Mark. I've followed you for a long time and will continue to follow you. I hope you are well. Thank you so very much.
I've come back to these older videos today for a refresher course on Mark's healthy, common sense approach to relationships. He's never steered me wrong!
I have binge-watched soooo many of your videos the past hour.. and I gotta say you are the best dating coach I've ever stumbled upon! Keep the good work up! You are truly amazing!
Awesome video Mark! I have struggled with this many times, having a good female friend to unload your crap onto during these times is paramount. It saved me from this torrid path of self destruction and allowed me to build a solid foundation with my guy. His security and validation came in due course and without coercion. Love your work 😍
That's fantastic Carolyn!
I LOVEEE that you got right to the point instead of dragging and wasting 10 minutes of the video like most youtubers do 😩
Mark, I love how genuine and honest you are. You are a real man. Thank you for making this video for us. I hope in the near future I can be with a guy who has the same quality like yours.
All the best! 💖
Yep, you nailed it.
Remember to be the person he fell for in the first place, don't shift, don't project your insecurities.
Suuuuuuper important Judy
serious. real. genuine. you take it out of emotions and insecurities and bring logic, thinking, and presence. thank you for keeping it real. this summer was excruciating. I almost lost the most important person in my life. I know I have to keep my daily mental health self care routine so that I can do all the other things I need to. maria
Thankyou so much Lisa. That comment means so much to me x
I am also a psychologist , I love the way you explain situations and not afraid to use your simple vocabulary ! I do that as well
Thank you for taking the time to make these videos. I feel like a weight came off of my shoulders after listening to your words, the theory is clear but the practice is a bit hard sometimes, but listening to your words have made me feel like I'm on the right path, I don't feel like I'm exaggerating with the trust I give my boyfriend during our time apart, as a couple women around me have stated. Happiness comes from within and real love doesn't hold on a leash, quite the opposite, if you truly love a person, you want them to be happy and to reach their goals. A most sincere thank you.
Wauuu! Congratulations Mark! I can say, without of doubt, that you really are one of the best expert in this matter of relationships.
You are very subtile, imparcial, tactile, and tremendous center hearted - minded.
I really appreciate your excellent work and I'm sure women will be grateful to you.
Thank you!
Thanks Noemia - that's an absolutely lovely comment. I might just save it :) You honour me x
Love this Mark. I have 2 years more in a long distance relationship. These tips are so helpful. I know I give it my all and treat this man like gold. If he leaves I know it's the best I had to give. We have a blast during every visit. Thank you Mark, you help so many people. ♡♡♡♡
Thanks so much Jay - lovely comment :)
Mark, this was a phenomenal video! Love how raw and real you are. I actually paid more attention to how you were verbally articulating the analogies. Being a positive person can be exhausting, but I have done exactly what you stated, and it works! Thank you for sharing. ~Bambi (xoxo)
A lot of good advice in your videos Mark! Being in the dating scene again, it takes a lot of patience.. and courage putting yourself out there. And I'm 61 makes it tougher, for competition out there. I haven't found someone yet, but I give myself a pat on the back for putting myself out there, going on dates, and having faith that someone that I truly connect with will come along. Ladies don't give up! I would say, that I've learned- Don't be in your head too much, and be enslaved by your expectations- Don't wait by the phone, wonder when or if he'll call- keep your own life. Nurture, love and focus on you in the meantime. If you're interested in him & he calls back-great. If he doesn't- don't text him back, he has your # is he is into you. And don't be impatient about instant results.. it's all a process, and it takes time. Just keep a positive frame of mind, and faith that eventually the right man will come into your life..
I think my man friend can have plenty of fun without sleeping in a woman’s tent... that is not insecure ... that is wisdom.
... that cannot be an example you really stand by.
The ONLY reason these slew of women do not call you on this ... is because you are good looking ... and they want to appear a certain way to you. You know this as well.
Have fun ... yes ...
boundaries also... yes ...
This is what I need right now. Been battling with major depression and anxiety lately and it's affecting our relationship. My boyfriend is out of the country and I am always anxious about him being away from me. I'm drowning in my own thoughts and insecurities. Thank you for this video, Mark.
Thanks Sher. Make sure you check out this one too if you haven't already :)
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Mark Rosenfeld I really appreciate that your major message to us ladies is to work on ourselves and be high quality with solid boundaries. I can personally attest that when I create a great life for myself, the ex's always want back. Everyone can feel that energy. When you are either chasing or trying to rope your man closer, he feels it and pulls away. Keep the great videos coming. I've shared them with girlfriends here in Chicago.
I'm the same. I'm thinking he might find someone else.
One reason I value your videos is that you encourage self-improvement. I also appreciate that you don't advocate the advice that seems like head games to me. The positive experiences really rings true with me. When I was married, I encouraged him to do some things with his buddies. I also told him he should go visit a high-school girlfriend who had called to let him know she had cancer. My current boyfriend, I encourage him to have a good time with his golf buddies. They both had my trust.
Great videos! Just came across them and am enjoying listening to you. One thing I try and notice in relationships is the saying......A person may not always tell you how they feel, but they will always show you....watch what they do. It saves time because some people hang on to long to something they should let go of. I hope you have a great day!
Wow!! I am now officially a fan of yours! I have been watching several of you videos, but this one takes the cake! You are so honest and humble and so logic!! Thank you so much for this video! It has helped me a lot to understand men 🙌🏻👌🏻👌🏻❤️❤️❤️
hi mark! i have been following you for a year now..i love all ur videos and i learned a lot from them..thumbs up for you!! the only thing i can hardly deal with now is that my bf has so much negativity in life but i keep on inspiring him by giving some messages because we're having an LDR now..he's in France and i am in Thailand..he thinks all of the world's problems and he's so much concern about what is happening around us and that sometimes makes me sad but i keep on pursuing him by being so positive in life and telling him that i am his number one supporter in everything he does and that i will stand right beside him no matter what it takes.. :-) because of that i don't know if he really misses me or not..but i never oppose him yet i keep on being positive on him..every time, we chat, he always says about the problems in the environment..and that i reply him by giving some positive messages..
Hey Lihzie - thanks for supporting my channel for all this time.
Sounds like you're being a pretty fcking awesome long distance girlfriend to me. I sure as hell would miss you if I was him. Though it does sound like he might be a drain on you?
yeah sometimes..but i keep on thinking the happy things we have encountered so i keep going on with our relationship..thanks for the reply, mark!! goodluck and please keep on uploading some..i love ur videos... :-)
Incredible video as always ✌ I have worked hard on myself for a long time now and I 100% agree with you. I think it boils down to recognising that inner mean girl will always be there, but acknowledging her in your own time is what's needed, not letting her out in public. Thanks again Mark, your a romantic genius.
Very powerful :) Thanks Miss M
What about long distance relationships . He doesn't answer my text always. We are both pensioners
I like what you say. A great part of our life's journey is to stay grounded in ourselves and know that no matter what, we will be ok. This kind of strength comes from within and from the deep connection with yourself first:)Thank you Mark and bless you for your fantastic videos. Very sane advise in this insane world! lol!
Hi Mark! I'm a new subscriber. I found you because I randomly started thinking a lot about a guy I thought I was over. You helped me realize it was more about my neurotransmitters. I just finished a project that had me fulfilled and preoccupied and I have a lot of romantic associations with this time of year (summer in the US). Understanding all if this, I feel less victimized by these feelings.
I have to tell you though, what's kept me watching is seeing an amazing emotionally intelligent guy putting himself in service to others the way that you are. It reminds me not to lower my standards because there are really amazing men out there that I can reach the level of connection and intimacy that I'm capable of with.
That's really beautiful K LOVE. Certainly inspires me not to let you down
Another beautifully stated video Mark. Your approach in coaching comes from such a positive and loving place. Thank you my friend!
Sounds like it's okay to be attached to the one you love but not to the point of being dependent because then, it spoils everything, thank you again for your videos Mark.
Thanks Exposer. You never want to depend on someone - they'll sense that they're responsible for your emotional state and will want to pull away
Mark you are a godsend love all of your coaching just be sure to love the woman who stands with you behind every good man..
Wow, your advice is incredibly helpful! Long story very short, I had straight-up given-up and was diving into bushes to avoid men (who were "all the same" and "wanted only one thing"). Buuutttt, I found Marks videos and started listening during work; took notes and applied them to a situation I was working out with a dude who I adore but was not into me -except for the obvious). Once I applied the techniques, ESPECIALLY the respect video and worked on my degrading/past habits, within moments of me respecting myself, he is now interested. Pretty genius!
I feel completely different within two days of heavy listening and have had normal/non-toxic, kind and interesting men approach me and actually succeed at getting my number. No dick-pics or drama from these guys! Amazing! Thank you! I am beyond-words grateful for your awesome advice!
Omg!..thankx a lot for this video mark..I really love to hear how you explained being a high and uninsecure women..Unbelievable .I and my partner HAVING LDR but before he goes somewhere else..I always remind him..that I do alwaya TRUST him despite of everything..I do care but I dont compete..thanx a lot mark😙
That's awwwwwesome Cheryl!! Great work :)
when it's real you will know. There is no room for games and trying to make someone miss, respect when both of you are for real with your feelings. I know this because I found the man that I am meant to be with forever. we just had a connection to each other from day one. He missed me and I missed him when we were apart.
That's so beautiful Cheryl. Thankyou for sharing :) xx
I LOVE Mark's emotional and MENTAL maturity! Finally a smart and HOT MAN, who GETS IT!!!🌡🔥
You're so knowledgeable! Some guys would never think of how things work in the long run..such good advice/common sense... thanks.. 😊
I think if you tell a girl that she can have fun. Done ... you lose her. I would think that you don’t even care and maybe start looking for another option. It’s better not to say anything or just say that you gonna miss her, than to be crazy jealous or to tell her to have fun.
Wow. I watched tons of videos from many different coaches But never heard this before. Thank you mark. You gave me more self confidence on dating ❤️
Wise words. Thanks so much and for warning us about the advice NOT to take! So great to get a man's perspective!
Mark...this was a very positive experience...im not commenting again, therefore making you miss my comments and this positive experience...
Mark. I'm so glad I found you here. Can you plz share more video about long distance relationship, please? Love u
Try this one Mathilda :)
ua-cam.com/video/BUjIXUM68KU/v-deo.html
Actually we meet in my work but we just know for 3 weeks only am always happy wid him maybe thats why he misses me and cant forget me.. the way i show him kindness and thats true mark..Thanks🙂🙂
Hahaha That's great dmd
I have now watched so many of you're videos, great advice I'm upping my standards and making my life better for me 😊
This are things I have done always without knowing about it, till now.
It has worked every time for me and we're almost 30 years together now
Hii Mark!!! Omg this is perfect time for me right now to use these....
Thank you for all these advices....
i love your channel...
Much love to you Harseeta!
YOU, my sir..are the TRUTH!!!! You are affirming everything I'm experiencing right now....good vibes only!!! so glad I came across your channel! you are confirming and giving me life!!
Thanks so much Cyn - I love that! It's great to have you on my channel and I've got lots to come for you
I’m living in Aus and learning English. I watch your channel for English listening practice because you speak little bit Aussie English and put subtitle :) it’s great that I can learn about relationship at the and time! Thank you!
Glad you found the video helpful,みさみさ. Hope you liked the content too. 😊 Thanks for watching!
This is helpful with regular guys. I just recently realized mine is a narcissist and it’s a completely different way I have to deal with him. We are more entwined with each other than either of us realized. It’s different tactics each day. I have to gage his attitude because it will change in a HEARTBEAT. It took me years to realize he is a narcissist and just recently saw just how far he push for total control. researching narcissism now and dealing with our relationship keeps me on my toes now that I know what I am up against. But otherwise, mark’s advice is sound and worth trying! I have watched a lot of mark’s videos and tried to apply the teachings, but my narcissist plays by his own rules...some things work and some don’t so I am going thru ALOT of trial and error with mine. And it’s easier said, than done...to just up and leave him. We are deeply entwined. Thank you mark
3rd: the possibility to miss out on these emotions by losing you or having only sporadic contact
Basically... yep!
You're super smart at this crap! Wish I could listen to your videos all night so it would actually stick in my head!!!
Ahahah thankyou Michelle :)
I was insecure and this really ruins my relationship. Now I am putting back the pieces together. Thank you Mark for great videos, this helps me to be a better partner and a better person. And see things from another point of view.
That's SO great to hear damonoch
This was GOLDEN, with only 2 videos I watched you have helped me so much. I can't wait to see the rest
Thankyou Alma - really glad you enjoyed the content!!
Thank god, women need to hear this!!!!
Thanks Tiffany :)
Mark Rosenfeld trust me it's my pleasure ! If only we could clone you lol
Sure wish I would have watched this a few months ago🤦♀️
Hey Mark, thank you for your work, you bring such positivity to our lives ..., when I see the notifications to your videos, I always smile ,and expect amazing content .
I swear you're the only youtube dating guru that actually talks sense and gets straight to the point and provides valuable details.
Arw, thanks so much AJCiti, that is so sweet of you. Thanks so much for supporting my channel xx
Love the shirt Mark 😃
Thaaaaaaaankyou Ade
I never ever chased any guy in my life. I believe it's guys job to chase girls
Fair enough Pinky. That's your opinion and you're very much entitled to it!
i agree
Pinky Khan amen to that girlfriend ---😄
Most people only want those they can't or don't have.
Pinky Khan exactly !!!
Well said. This is the ULTIMATE truth. Awareness is key thank you for your enlightenment and knowledge. This is so selfless of you to bring us this information. 😉🍾🍻 Cheers!
Ooh I really LOVE that,And Mark's energy As well:)
This is so helpful tips. I will surely apply this. Thanks Mark😊
Thanks so much Sha :)
How old are you sister?
sha guadez I don't like this video I don't wanna miss nun but a girl that's weird
I just read your are Australian. .. ye ye. love the australian accent 😊
Hahahahah I get that a lot!!
Marks my favorite. Great help and advice
Now thats real advice spoken with real unconditional love. 💕
How can I apply how to make a guy miss you in long distance relationship?
What do you mean Sheila? You mean this vid? ua-cam.com/video/BUjIXUM68KU/v-deo.html
I just missing your channel Damn am in love with this (Hii!! My 5years Xman he back saying he missed me but ..he madè me hate men when we break up how can I start making up with him
Great to have you on my channel Dianaah. Why would you want to make up with him if he made you hate him (btw, he doesn't have to MAKE you hate men - you control your thoughts and what you focus on, which means you can take your power and love of men back)
Thanks so much for your great advice can you pliz update something about loving again bcoz trust am just fucking gal I just hate men with passion bcoz of my Devil so called X (😭😭I have been single 5years know but I lost my feeling
Hey Dianaah. Sounds like you definitely have to examine some of those beliefs relating to men. This is something I work through a lot with clients x
Thanks #Mark I will be waiting for your next topic k
This is so true! You are awesome and inspirational Mark! Thank you 🙂
You are always so right on advice. We are lucky to have you in the world.
That's a lovely comment, Yami. Thanks so much! x
How about when he said "go have fun, enjoy your time with your family ( I went to visit my family in California) and I got back two months after, he told me that he got someone pregnant while I was away...
He should've answered this comment
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Do you feel pressures in your relationships to live up to your coachings
Yeh, I can do.
Wow great advice Mark! When I'm lucky enough to be in a relationship, I will definitely put your amazing advice to good use. Thank you! ☺️
Thankyou Leyla. I'm sure you'll find one soon with your amazing attitude :) My pleasure xx
I am so happy I found this. Such simple great advice without gimmicks or tips for playing games. I will def subscribe🤗
No sane guy would ever date a devious woman. Never bring another guy to provoke jealousy, we will see you as being devious and untrustworthy and will not hesitate to look for someone with more self integrity.
Yep Isaac - I certainly wouldn't.
I'm afraid that my boyfriend thinks I did this but he's wrong. There's this creep that has been harassing and stalking me off and on for over 4 years now (from out of state). I mentioned it to my boyfriend a couple months ago just once. The creep has tried to contact me since I was in the relationship but I ignored it (as i always do) and didnt tell my bf so I didnt upset him. Well last week the guy moved near my home and left a note on my car. I'm pretty freaked out now. I told my bf calmly on the phone about the note and he totally blew up at me, said I was drama, that I should've had a tro on the guy (not easy to do) and he broke up with me in anger. I'm devastated, I just don't understand this. I don't see that I did anything wrong. Now not only do I have to worry about a stalker but also a broken heart. If any guys have any advice for me I would really appreciate it. This guy seemed great up until this happened.
Oh pls, if two people are dating and not exclusive both parties are free to do whatever they want.
Mindy Montague
Hi Mindy. I hope you feel much better now. It's been 7 mnths ago. But I just had to reply to your comment! So sad. I really don't think your bf had the right reaction. Not mature at all. If only that made him go so mad, and break up, well he is very impulsive indeed. I hope he grew up since, if you got back together, or you feel better off alone or with a better guy. Wish you well! 🤗
Lol. How freaky are you mark. This is exactly what i need right now. 👌🏻
Hahahaa you're the second person to say that Tweetie. Must be where the moon is atm.
+Mark Rosenfeld although i dont think this would work on my situation after all. Huhu
Oh that's annoying! Sorry to hear Tweetie
Very true. And i relate much. All your words is absolutely true. ❤❤❤
you are a real smart and positive man!Im gealous of the girl who will or has your heart! wishing you all the best and more videos please!🙄
This goes for women as well. Men do the same thing with make us want to...leave
Definitely Moni
u are just to beautiful and handsome to be a youtuber
Hahah get my face off camera Jalisa??
Haha so true
He does resemble some kind of god
Very helpful tips, thanks. I wanted to give more likes 👍
I understand why the games can work. But I am so happy to have come across your work Mark. For a long time I was feeling like a negative Nancy reading dating advice about the games of the chase. Like it was something you needed to get comfortable with to date successfully. Good advice isn't all easy but at least it sits well with me ... much more comfortable with the genuine honest version of myself than playing a foolish game.
More well received advice. Thank you.
Much love deviant - thankyou for that comment
What kind of f...k relation is this where partners are happy only with other people? B.S....Happiness must be shared together, as a couple.....otherwise, cheatings appear...often guys are saying... "I found at her, what you didn't give me" ...or "I realized that I had more fun with her"... or " I wanted to try something new"...If a guy is in a casual relationship, as you mentioned... Sky is the limit of his betrayal because he knows he has at home a girl that swallows all his crap in order for him to be happy and in a so called relation with him....
Hey Christina - thanks for watching and commenting. Basically, it's very important that you're not reliant on your relationship for your happiness, otherwise you're going to become dependant on it and start putting the weight of expectation on HIM (or her) for your happiness. You wouldn't do that at the start of the relationship when that person was so attracted to you, so why start doing it later on? :)
Mark Rosenfeld well...I learned through all my life not to expect anything from no one....You guys are changeable as the weather... So, please don't tell me about reliability...What reliability can you have with a person that runs from his feelings that " it's too much, too serious, too complicated "?! Horse shit...Main and absolute important things are.....LIFE, LOVE...Excuse me, if I have soo f...king big " expectation " regarding the fact that I want my (so called) boyfriend to be near me, to offer physical comfort( by hugging me) and mental support by staying with me, to calm me down with his presence... as I would do if the case would of been reversed...:(
It's not about asking him to resolve my problems is about him being there for me when I have bad days, when I'm moody as I would be, also for him...
It's not that I am insecure... It's just about care, words and actions....Things that you guys don't give a f...k!!!
Hi Mark,
Your videos are very informational and most of your advice already applies to my personality. However, I've had all negative experiences in relationships. Therefore, I will admit I am probably the most jaded person on this planet and completely anti-dating (very very very long stories). Now, a problem I've always had (and still currently have).....is they my ex's are constantly missing me for sex.....and new guys, who ask me out are also looking for sex (I can tell). So, it's a constant battle fighting these perverts off....which has resulted with myself refusing to date and living out my life solo. My question.....How do I get guys to leave me alone?
Errrrmm Carmen. If you don't want them to bother you, let them know you're not interested once, then just never reply to them again.
Carmen SanDiego said with love and only the best intentions: maybe the reason you're feeling negative about men and relationships is because you choose to view men who want to have sex with you as perverts. Just because a man is sexually attracted to you doesn't mean he's a "pervert." It means he's a man and he thinks you're beautiful. It's up to you to set boundaries and let men know if you're interested or not. There's nothing wrong with stating that you're not interested in general or even being as blunt as saying "I like you but I'm not looking for sex unless I'm in a committed relationship." Men usually lead with their physical attraction to us...and that's great! But it's up to us to keep them in check by respecting ourselves. If you're not interested in a man, it's literally as simple as saying "I'm just not on the same page as you." And if he won't respect your feelings, block him. There are so many amazing men out there and I'm sorry you've had bad experiences with some that weren't the best match for you. Keep the faith. I know it's hard. Best wishes to you!
Mark Rosenfeld Thanks for the input....but some guys are very persistent....and being nice doesn't work....which unfortunately, results with me having to be mean. 😡
LEIGHTON ....Thanks for your opinion. However, i disagree. Myself being jaded and not interested in dating....does not hold a "negative" connotation. I didn't elaborate on my life or experiences....but the fact is.....I absolutely, positively, love, love, love my life. I'm not looking for a man to enhance my life....because I'm already happy and content. Constant dating and relationships require too much work.....and I have better things to do with my life. In my "jaded" world.....dating/relationships shouldn't take any work at all. I believe it should be simple, honest, exciting, adventurous, and fun....and that should come natural between those two individuals....not all these steps, tips, advice, etc... Dating/relationships seems like it's all a mind-fuck....and it won't work in the end, cause all of your insecurities, personality, and true colors will all come out eventually. No thanks to all that drama and bull shit. I love me and my happy place. ❤️❤️❤️ Kind regards.
Carmen SanDiego not sure what you were disagreeing with and I'm not the one who called you jaded - you said that. And I completely agree with and understand everything you said. In fact, I'm very much in the same place in life. And it's a fabulous place to be. I feel like it should be that way. Anyone that comes into my life has to be able to fit in with my life as it is. My life is amazing and I'm 100% happy without a parter and not looking for anyone either. But...none of your response to me really addressed anything I said initially. I was just responding to your comment about men who want to have sex with you all being perverts.
You so right! It sucks, when the your partner puts them on you . Instead of you to him!
U r amazing ur advices works very well thank u and keep making videos about relationships ,really it’s different to take the advice from a high quality man like u.
Mark Rosenfield most attractive man alive
HAHAHAHHA you're ridiculous but thankyou xx
I'm on instagram @makehimyours and you can catch me there too
What about an open relationship? My insecurities are always heightened because he does have the option to sleep with other people.
Rachael it's exactly the same in an open relationship. It's more of a growth exercise so they're for you to deal with.
how do you guys do open relationships? like u need some extreme power to have the guts to be on that position? lol
I could be totally wrong but I'm just thinking out loud Sounds like you're not in an open relationship but more like a relationship where he said he wants to sleep with other people and you don't want to lose him... your situation sounds painful and possibly not the most suitable for someone like yourself maybe try talking to your partner and see if they actually care about your feelings about the topic.
Khloe Strong exactly if you have a problem with it then maybe an open relationship isn’t for you
omg...this helped me so much...its so simple and i was so blind..."postive emotional experiences" wow...gonna try it
Wow, great eye opener! It make me feel so much better to know woman's insecurities and and try to change old habits.. great video thank you Mark!
Thanks Kimberly!
I was "the best f****g girlfrnd he's ever had", (He so often said so. Without the "f****g" in his words!). But alas that didn't make him stay...he ran off... To come back, be a nice/angry person again and again... No true reason concerning me. But deep unworked issues in youth. He jst found it too difficult to be polite to me after a nice day of work together.... Hyper sad no? After having been in the lonely desert for 6 f****g yrs, prior to meeting him, we were so glad that at long last we had 'found' each other. So happy. So in love... But his terrible anger issues and his controlling habits (at few strange times), made the relationship into a calvary for me.
I just wish he wld've worked on his issues before meeting me. Or at least showing his will to want to work on them (in therapy) whilst together. I pray God works miracles. Either that he comes back a much better person to me, (because, besides the anger isdues, he was soooo good and a great man to me), or I am blessed w/ a fantastic superbe new man! Pray for me plse! Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Ambriel Apps pray for me too. Hugs!💞
Lisa McGuire
Ok, just done so! Blessings and love to both of us!
Lisa McGuire
💖 hugs
I'm in the same boat. Best gf one could have but he has serious anger issues from traumatic childhood. Luckily he's due to start therapy for real. Fingers crossed it yields results. Otherwise it's adios.
such distracting arms along with genius tips. 😅😥
Oh, Mark, I am so thankful for your content. I am from Russia. And we don't have such a speaker at all.
Mark, thank you so much for your insight, you're awesome, love your videos. Very heartfelt and helpful