How Men Love Women - How Men Fall In Love ft. Jason Silver & Antonio Borrello
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How Men Love Women - How Men Fall In Love ft. Jason Silver & Antonio Borrello
Have you ever asked yourself “how men love women” “how do guys fall in love?”, “how men fall in love?” “how a man loves a woman?” “how to get a guy to fall in love with you” or “how to make a man fall in love?”
A dating advice question I get asked a lot by women is “how men fall in love?” “what are the steps to a man falling in love?” “how men love women” and “why do men fall in love with a woman?” Today, I’m talking about How Men Love Women & How Men Fall In Love ft. Jason Silver & Antonio Borrello.
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This is a special video for me, because I’ve never before done a video on how men fall in love (the exact process) and giving dating advice to women on how men fall in love and how men love women has always been a crucial part of my role as a dating and relationships coach. In fact, it was so important, that because I’m talking about it for the first time, I brought in two of my favourite people to discuss it with me! Jason Silver from Attract Great Guys and Antonio Borrello from ask Dr. Antonio both came in to chat with men and give their expert panel opinion on how men fall in love, how men loves women, how a man loves a woman, the signs a guy is falling in love and how you can authentically get the man you want to fall in love with you.
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Creating a video for you on How Men Love Women & How Men Fall In Love ft. Jason Silver & Antonio Borrello is a video that I never thought I’d do… especially not with these amazing experts by my side!! Yet here I am, talking about how men fall in love with women and how a man loves a woman with these two awesome, genuine guys who have fallen in love themselves. The truth is, I meet and see a lot of women who have challenges with understanding how men love women, how men fall in love and thus don’t know the process works when a guy falls in love. By understanding men and how men fall in love and what a man wants to fall in love as well as signs a guy is falling in love, you can embrace love with a man who is right for you.
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In this dating advice video from Make Him Yours, I (Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationship coach along with Antonio Borrello from Ask Dr. Antonio and Jason Borrello from Attract Great Guys), am talking about how men fall in love, how men love women, how a man loves a woman, what makes a man fall in love and signs a guy is falling in love. Coming from the expert panel, this is content you must see about what makes a man fall in love and how men fall in love, as well as how to get a guy to fall in love with you.
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Yes, watching from Lithuania :) awesome content!
Found a what I thought was a great connection...The guy even mentioned several times that he was so addicted to me...Yet only ever text me now and isn't asking me out on a conventional date. We slept together once and then I began backing up and letting him know, I am into him but do not wish this to turn into a hook up event etc...I feel we have a connection yet will not pursue this guy if he doesn't pursue me. I'll reciprocate to his advances. I am however experiencing an ache for him to reach out to me and I NEVER feel this way about guys!!! I've been off the dating scene purposefully as I raised 3 beautiful daughters who are now grown and flown. I do seek high quality men and yet feel they only ever fall in love with the "idea" of me...I appreciate all you guys and the work you put forth in helping us ladies who are not needy yet wish for a productive relationship as partners in crime!
Do you guys understand that one of the reasons women rush for commitment is because we are bombarded with messages that say “If he’s not committing to you he’s playing you/not really that into you “ and then the woman freaks out “Oh he doesn’t really like me! I’m not this, I’m not that ...” and we also confuse not receiving emotional honesty from men as meaning the same thing!!! Help us to understand how to overcome these societal messages!
Yep.
Let me save you 14 minutes of your life: JUST BE YOURSELF. Men love women who aren't afraid of showing who they are and don´t need external validation from anyone because they love themselves first. Also... strong, confident and elegant women are always super hot! and last but not least: don't go chasing after someone that doesn't want to be with you!
Amen!!!
Real talk 😍
So have all these things myself,
Be myself
self confident is sexy.
self control
self defense
self acceptance
self kindness
self determination
self respect
self help
self happy
self esteem
self belief
self believe
self heal
self health
self care
self independent
self understanding
self optimist
self expression
self understanding
self knowledge
self spiritual
self belief
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self involved
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Hey ladies
noted those guys online want hookups shorts causal open relationship or porn or friends with benefit from women and nothing else. There rushing things go to fast. Lol.lamf that not how relationship works. Those guys that do that behavior just pigs who want sex and those guys are not boyfriends or husbands material.
A lady has to respect herself to say no to that behavior.
either way because if women give them what they want its lowing stands and after 1 night stand they just walk away and leave what make you think that those type of men won't be doing anything wrong to other women. The guy who plays the victim drumra man to gain trust but if really see the red flags guys online then you know well enough that those type of men are not dating material either way.
The best advice is avoid these type of men who bully abuse women men that stupid behaviors of there actions says it all depends needy clinging codependent possiveses cruelty controlling jealous man who manipulate threaten women, emotional verbal abuse isolation blame and denial that ain't love ladies that abusive. Its unhealthy.
Best solution is to avoid these types of men.
A healthy relationship is better then toxic relationship.
totally agree with u. ..just b down to earth ...simple n goofy ...
u way of thinking is that of a virgo
Never allow a guy to see you as someone needy and always available...keep your distance, until you're certain that hes here to stay!
....OR you can just NoT be needy and be busy instead.
No woman is EVER certain. Sure, you might marry but he could still cheat, he will stay but not for the right reason.
Being too available is a sure sign to lose him.
@@rhondastrode2072 you are so right! I was very and always available for him and he always got the idea that I don't have a life outside our texting time and that I don't have a job to keep me busy. I thought that giving him all my attention it will benefit both but noooo.it turns all upside down. And now i understand why all that happened.
Anya, you're absolutely gorgeous 💓💓💓❤🌹and I will be glad to know you
Fall in love with your own life, doing what you love, the rest will fall into place.
Brenda B, you're so beautiful 💓💓💓❤🌹and I will be glad to know you
@@oscarwilliamson1264 thats very sweet
Rubbish rubbish
One sentence : let the course take action. Let him commit by himself. Don't invest in him. Continue your daily schedule like before you met him. Don't prioritise him. Use your time on other productive things. He will chase you like crazy.
Eye opening...
I’m married, I’m a 26 year old female but I’ve taken some advice from these videos and it’s really improved my marriage. Thank you!
That means a lot, Laura! Thanks so much for sharing! 🙏
WOW. This was SO much fun and the day went way too quickly. These guys were genuine, humble, and coming from such a caring place with what they do. Make sure you’re subscribed to their channels and follow @makehimyours on insta for behind the scenes! x
@@AntonioBorrello couldn't agree more!
I enjoyed the combination of all 3 insights 👌💯🙌 would love to see more of this 👍😊 great job guys!
Will do 👍 thanks for the heads up Anthony 😊
Thanks Sir Mark...
Another Great Video! 👍
As a woman who knows what she wants - I don't want to have ANY experiences with anyone with whom I can't have a deep human connection first. If I am an open book they should be too. but that's just me- I fit best with men who can tell me their life story the on first day I meet them. The more genuine they are and the more in tune with their emotions/ self reflecting they are- the better the communication ...even the fun is felt on a more sincere level.
this authentic self - makes me think of the radical approach good quality women need to take- to sort out the good from the bad matches. My dating profile is designed to repulse 95 % of men for that reason. and finally it works. 5% out of 3,5 k of daily nonsense is still a plenty to pick from.
Sounds like training a dog: dont give him the treat before he made the trick😂🤣😂🤣😂🐕
Haha love this!🤣😂
Of course it is 😂👍🏼🤷🏻♀️
Too Funny!
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They LOVE us by Sacrificing, Satisfying, and Providing. 🌺
NO, they don't
@@freestylingwithnad9091 I've gathered enough dusties that don't want to put forth any type of Sacrifice, they suck at satisfying and they don't want to provide because they are either homeless, unemployed, or just plain self absorbed so for a Man to do all those 3 is a Man that really loves you and wants you for life. If I were you I would EXPECT MEN to do all 3.
@@echadmiyodea Oh HELL YES they do.
@@Markrosenfeld Mark your videos are Awesome and the best advice out there also having other dating coaches help makes for better advice. Keep up the 👍 work it helps women who are still in that bubble of trying to figure what a man's true intentions are, thankfully I know what I want from a man and won't settle for less. 😉
Absolutely. ! There is no love , if not sacrifice by both men and women.
I’m feeling a little proud of myself to see the 3 amazing men I subscribe and listening to weekly sitting on a couch together . My personal growth as been second to none over the past 12 months and I do have you all to thank. Being my authentic self, enjoying life, going to the gym, loving my own space, surrounded by great friends , the list goes on, now this girl knows her WORTH .💕 love and blessings to you Mark, Jason and Anthony
IMO - for most women, falling in love is an emotional rollercoaster full gut-wrenching twists and turns
Be your true self and have nice positive experiences together and find out if you fit together. If not, it is not your fault nor his. You don't fit together. Good luck girls and enjoy yourself.
Thanks for writing in, I Bronder!
Irma, you're so beautiful 💓💓❤😍😍🌹and I will be glad to know you
3 talented men who are truly helping not only their viewers but those with whom we 're in relationships. Great work, guys.
Bless Julie xx
I love when Mark says not to force man's vulnerability. It's so true, and checking out irl.
Monika Cenarska totally agree! I want my man to know me personally, my character and it’s a plus if he’s really attracted to me.
@@oscarwilliamson1264 You've made my day, Oscar. Keep well!
@@silverlinings3946 Thank you so so much my dearest💓💓❤❤🌹🌹🌹.I'm Oscar Williamson from Alabama, USA. Are you on hangout or gmail so we can always talk privately?
@@silverlinings3946 I'm still waiting for your reply my dearest 💓💓💓💓❤❤🌹
@@oscarwilliamson1264 I will not reply after this. You have crossed boundaries here. I thanked you for compliment and wished you good day - that's the extend of my reply. Goodbye.
3 of the best dating coach's on UA-cam collaborating!!! Yes please... Go Team😊
Awesome team
Love yourself and stop worrying about who’s going to love you ! If they don’t love you they’re not for you .
As much as these gurus are appreciated they are from Mars, women like commitment lay the boundaries, not be taken advantage where guys are known to enjoy and the challenge wears off, men pull off ! Ladies voice your values ! It depends on the length of time committed etc . Lots of women waste time and the guys regret later !!!
What a treat! 🙌👌
3 of the MASTERS all at once! 😎💪Thankyou so much gentlemen for your insights 💯
Very nice of you Alison. Glad you enjoyed it!
Our pleasure Alison - thanks for wathcing our content and taking the time to leave a comment!
Absolutely
Thanks Mark 😊
Always enjoy your informative and sometimes humorous videos! 😄👌
I was married and we had a great relationship overall, but my husband was never vulnerable, never really opened up and after 8 and a half years of relationship I fed up of not having this real bond.
I'm sorry you went through this. I hope you find a soul connection with a wonderful man some day, please don't give up on love. But first, realize that you truly deserve that kind of connection. Sending hope and joy your way..
Exactly. Nothing is guaranteed.
@Kamila, I did the same thing... for 27 years.
First step if a man loves you.
He has to communicate directly❤
Open and transparent communication - so important Coach Mary CYoung Image /Fashion Stylist
Dr. Borello, Thank You!! You’ve now helped me understand that “experience”.
My story: I’ve been dating a great guy for 9mos. I knew from the start he was right for me, and I wanted him to know I was right for him. After 3mos. I wanted us to ‘define’ the relationship. So I asked..? I told him I didn’t want to be a passenger not knowing where the car was going!? I thought that was valid. He told me to just enjoy the ride and see where we end up. That didn’t quite sit well with me at first cause I don’t have time to waste!! LoL!! But I threw caution to the wind and allowed myself to let go of asking such questions because I also just want to enjoy life no matter what. Fast forward...by now we’ve spent numerous weekends together (we live in different cities about 1.5hrs apart). He’s taken me to several concerts, countless dinners, shopping sprees, other types of venues, or just staying home at his place etc... But it wasn’t until yesterday that what you said turned the light bulb on! We just got back from a long trip. He first took me to Disney World for a weekend, a cruise to the Keys and Havana, Cuba through the week, then back to Universal Studios the last weekend. Had an absolute blast of a time!! So after flying back home to Texas and driving from the airport he said “ I now know I can travel with you” I was like WTF?? We ALWAYS have a good time no matter what we do!! What made that so different?? But now I know!! It was just another “experience” for him!! Even though I’d like him to be more verbal, he always says his actions will tell me how he feels more than anything else. So I’ll continue to watch & wait to allow him the time he needs. But I’m not gonna wait 3-4yrs!! LoL!! Thanks again for the insight!!!
Ok i'm loving the collaboration! I'm not even sure the ladies understand how truly lucky we are right now. Can I say MORE PLEASE without looking needy 🤣🤣🤣! 😊😘
Thanks Nina! I've got another coming soon.
@@jasonsilveryt You guys are good to us. I'm patiently waiting (well maybe not patiently) 😊
HAHAHA this is legit the best comment ever!! Thanks Nina!
@@Markrosenfeld awww, thanks guys. I'm blushing ☺
Replies from all three of us Nina - nicely done!!
There should be a video on emotionally damaged men!!
Yesssss please! Was just with someone who couldn't open up. Boy it's so hard that they have it all bottled up for so long. It seems like when they finally see that you might be leaving is when they feel like they need to crack open their vulnerable can of worms so that you finally have something to hold onto. Unfortunately my guy and I broke up - but it's ok as it was still a great learning experience, good practice and fun. We broke up because we can't meet each others needs naturally enough. We're both bending over backwards to try to meet the other person's needs and this is only after 3 months together. I found out he has a serious distaste for affection and I am apparently extremely affectionate. I deserve someone who is enthusiastic about hugging and so glad I'm a hanbd holder! Not someone who can try to tolerate that and give me sex like three times a year. He was cheated on previously so I thought maybe this was a confidence issue, and then he mentioned working on hius 'dad bod' dad body type so that confirmed what I guessed. But gosh. I felt like a baby that hadn't been held in hours. I asked for cuddles and all he could manage was knee to knee or barely foot to foot contact. Then I end up forcing myself into his chest .. conflicting needs just make one of you needy/sad and the other irritated! You can try as hard as you want to communicate and make it work, but there's a time and place for recognizing that it should still be mostly easy, 80% or more of honeymoon heaven for like, what, 18 months? It's hard to break up with someone you still care about. But Hey, I figure I'm letting him free so he can find someone asexual who is so glad that he respects their personal space.
The killer was when I asked to cuddle and have a sleepover, but we skipped the bonding activities like cleaning his room together or cooking together and opted for a movie. A movie is not a bonding experience! It's a lazy cop out that should only be an exception! Anyway he apparently can't be affectionate when he feels disconnected because of lack of bonding activity. We were going to hike the next day. Should've scheduled it the opposite way as hiking would have been bonding. But in the end we're still the same people with conflicting needs And even if I could have changed that night's scheduling strategy, I think this breakup still was necessary.
Cooking together and experiencing nature together are so important to me. I hadn't realized that until I was deep into dating this guy, realizing that he was trying to like what I like but not actually liking it. My mom says it is actually more meaningful for someone to try to learn to like an activity because you like it , and they like you, than to be with someone who already likes it. What's your take on that Mark?
He said he likes being with me when I cook.. But not cooking. So then I'm picturing me Cooking for us for the rest of my life instead of him sharing the load. Sometimes that's an ok dynamic, but if cooking together brings m e so much joy then maybe it's something I need!
I realized that cooking together is so important, it's like a sixth/seventh love language to me. I haven't ever had a store bought birthday cake. Sure, it was my female family members showing love most of the time. But my dad was right there the whole time! He and my mom shared the burden of cooking for 5 people every day for years; and they even added music, singing and dancing to the fun. Homemade milkshakes were the solution after surgery. Things like that. When I developed a crazy large number of food intolerances, they were right there making food for my freezer storage to help share the burden. Cooking together happens at holidays. For us it is not about gender at all. My ex was used to gendered chores and I think enjoying cooking with me was just too much of a stretch for him. But anyhow I realized I deserve someone who is SO glad that cooking and nature are my favorite things and that they are eager to cook with me. Cooking together is an opportunity for joy and bonding and when we do that, it's a minor thing to accommodate my intolerances. It's about joy, not my disability. When I'm with someone who eats pre-made food all the time And doesn't want to cook with me, it becomes a painful reminder that I'm the girl with the disability, a painful reminder of my problems. So while everyone else or just him eats their crap, I am cooking away for just me. A lost opportunity for joy. Then I come home to my roommates and have the best time cooking with them, and I forget about my issues because we're in a culture where cooking together is a joy and food intolerances are easy to accommodate through home cooking!
So this is how I learned some things I need!
I eventually learned that he was avoiding hiking with me because he's scared, because nature walks trigger him to want to smoke really badly and he's trying to not increase his smoking. Finally! Some vulnerable details!! But it was too late.
He eventually confessed that he accidentally has this strategy where he saves up the energy for being affectionate so he can dole it out in a large amount when it's really needed. .. so.. obviously not working. That's like starving me of touch until I have wounds all over, and then putting on bandaids, instead of regular maintenance of my needs. I don't think he's abusive but I do think he has issues. In a sexy massage scene of a movie I said, so you're not attracted to that at all, are you? Nope! He hates massages and hates giving them! Which was devastating to me. The last straw. I thought maybe this was a skin issue because he said his skin goes raw if I stroke his hand (I was blessed with a possessed thumb)- combine that with low sex drive, young age, moodiness and tiredness.. sounds like a possible health problem to me. So I asked, but was totally shut down.
Whatever. His loss. Most guys would be overjoyed that I want touch right??
Lesson: Don't bend over backward for eachother if you met online and have only dated 3 months and it involves too much "making it work" and overcoming obstacles. For us, we clicked for awhile but eventually you realize it just stops clicking if they aren't the one.
Anyway, it would be nice to have a video on emotional damage. I'm not sure how you would do that.
This guy had major issues about being told to never cry and to stop feeling sadness, which unfortunately seems run of the mill average among men's experiences.
He had tons of friends but in private described himself as solitary, alone because he was unable to actually confide his emotions in them.
Hard to confide in me, too. At the beginning he did ok but then found too many blocks.. I think it's hard when they've been taught toxic masculinity - to be stoic - and as a result they don't know how to deal with their sadness or other fear, and then they don't know how to handle yours either. I had to teach this guy to hold me or hug me when I'm sad, which he couldn't very well manage. He treated my sadness like a hot sack of potatoes. He said he wanted to learn emotional intelligence from me and that he wanted to get better at this. But that is just too long of a process. I gotta put me first!
I learned that he was dating for future him, unintentionally, not current him. I shouldn't date with the promise of him changing into a person I like more with skills and hobbies I connect with better! Date someone else! Obviously this would be different if lots of other things were right or if we'd neen together for a long long time and these were small things..
But no. I can't date him with the promise of him changing and I'll like that version of him better. Even if it's true. Date someone in the NOW version of themselves! So glad I realized that.
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I love the ending... was truly fun to see them real sessions and love the advice. Overall as a person be yourself and love n respect yourself, because if you don’t truly appreciate who you are don’t expect that someone else will. Just remember we’re connected, we are like mirrors we attract what we are.
I’d like to see all of you working together mentoring women about understanding the psychological dynamics of man’s heart. Amazing to see you in this video. “Kudos”
I met a guy at Starbucks where we got into this deep conversation mostly talking about him and his desires in life. At the end of the conversation he made a point to tell me he wasn't attracted to me. I wasn't thinking about him in that way I was simply interested in him. So I said "Does ot bother you that you are not attracted to me?" He said "Yes." I wanted to know why. He said it was because he usually don't have conversations with a woman on such a deep level as our conversation. I thought that was interesting. I was ok with it and told him so. He was surprised that I was ok with it. Afterwards he started to flirt with me. I reminded him he wasn't interested in me. He said things could change. Know they don't.
He was probably trying to play 'mind games' with you by using reverse psychology. American men seem to like to use this tactic a lot. Great thing that you were nonchalant about his comment. It probably backfired on him and ur response made him automatically want you bc you showed that you cared less. I applaud you. I don't know how woman fall for these type of men.
@@1maybeline AMEN to your whole comment! 💯
Sounds like that guy was a true narcissist, or has some form or trait of narcissistic personality disorder, as he directed the deep conversation to being focused and centered about himself. No normal person would have a deep discussion about himself with a stranger, and then trample on the unsuspecting conversation partner afterwards with such blatant and calculated malice and callousness by ending the episode by saying that he was not attracted to her.
Well done for not being captured by an obvious loser, even if in conversation he may have painted a dramatically rosy picture of himself. He should actually have the same conversation with himself in front of a mirror, as he might have had more gratification adoring his own reflection.
@@4and20blackbirdsbakedinapi6 Well said!
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This guy was not a narcissistic, he was blind. A narcissistic would not be as generous with his money or his efforts as this guy was.
I thought itll be best to be as authentic and natural as possible during dating, if he liked what he experience then its all good, it will work and if not then thank you next...
Ladies, your time is too precious to be making upbeat "experiences" in the hope that some guy will fall in love with you. They're right about one thing live your own life. Don't give in to a guy's attempts to be intimate without some type of commitment. Whatever you do don't go out of your way to be accommodating or thoughtful. To a guy that is the relationship kiss of death.
I agree with Beatrice. I'm not sure that the intent of his statement was for you to do anything you're not comfortable with. I think the bigger idea is to live a lifestyle worth desiring.
I’m dealing with someone and we spend time together and do things together he would text me days later and says he working and he missing me already cuz we had a connection and love making is amazing😌he says he loves me and missing me he always want to see Me so I know he in love♥️💯
For me guys love to make promise's but they don't once you're in hook with them game over!!!!!
Great video! I think it's important to just allow the process when meeting someone new. Get to know eachother, go on dates, have fun. You had mentioned in another video that as long as there is consistent momentum and progression it is going in the right direction. That resonated with me. Just enjoy the unveiling and live in the moment with your new person, have fun! Thanks for your insight fellas ♥️
No. No no no. We do not have time to entertain your desire for great ‘experiences’. We aren’t ‘experiences’ we are women, human beings who want things that are important to us too. Know what you want before you take up my time. Make it clear. Do not dodge it if I bring it up. No more excuses.
Stevie Dawson exactly!
How else is a guy supposed to make up his mind about whether or not he wants to be with you if he doesn’t first get to spend time with you and create positive memories with you?
yeahh cool 👏☺️😘
Jill Sandwich because if a guy doesn’t know what he wants in his life, then it’s a gamble to hope he will want to ever settle down. I’m not playing the ‘do your best and convince me’ game. If you don’t want a wife and kids in the near next chapter of your life, stay away from me. We women can’t just be going around wasting years giving away free ‘experiences’ to men who think they’re entitled to our time. You don’t have to know what you want with ME, but you have to know what you want out of your life. Otherwise you’re just playing in your food. And dodging the conversation just means you’re unsure or commitment phobic but too much of a coward to admit it so I can choose not to gamble and move on from you.
You’re getting the wrong end here, who wants to hang around a downer? I’m living my best life with or without a man, the right man will come back because I’m awesome. It’s not about “proving” anything.
No one can get someone to fall in love with someone,either he loves you or not from the start
Mark, as a psychotherapist from Houston, I am amazed at how spot-on you are....just amazing what you're doing.
What can I do when we don't share time or anything? How can I create great experiences with him when I see him 1 second per day??.
About the video: I looooove how you welcome your ''competition''!!! I love the inviting openness to work together instead of fighting.
I already knew Antonio, never saw Jason, but he seems amazing!
Amazing content, Mark! You’re fantastic, gentlemen!❤️
Love it Allexandra! Yep, Jason is great!! Make sure you subscribe to him.
This video is so authentic. Thank you gentlemen for your positive male perspective on dating. It's tough for us quality women to attract and know how to get from dating into a committed relationship. This advice is really on point.
Is it just me or the Dr.'s advices (e.g. the more you make someone work for something the more he'll appreciate it more; make him work) are strategic and gamey? If I am with my best friend, I won't calculate things this way. I am not gonna play hard to get if I really like a guy either; if my moves scare him away/depreciate my value in his eyes, that guy is not meant for me. Simple. 🤔 Mark & Jason saved it by saying "don't try to force it" and suggest what we can do to improve ourselves.
Thankyou so much for another great video, really enjoyed it. And the out takes were hilarious! love to hear things from a mans perspective, especially with a treble dose of gorgeousness thrown in 🥰
@@AntonioBorrello thankyou so much for responding, I am a huge fan of yours and watch all of your videos, I especially loved the first installment with all 3 of you on your channel, hopefully there will be more. Dont be afraid, it shows that you all are human and can see the humour in life. Thankyou again, ❤❤❤
HAHAHAH these outtakes were legit the best. Thanks Nina xx
@@Markrosenfeld ❤❤❤
I guess something I’ve noticed is the ‘chase mentality’ is fairly strong in modern society. There is a concept of dominance in dating skewed towards men. If a woman is open with her wants and needs it is considered needy, or even intimidating.
I believe your information surrounding matching values is very important. In my experience with dating I have found conversations surrounding where the relationship is heading doesn’t need to come across as a yes or no question. It can come about in a more authentic way, where you find a way to test the other persons values, desires and boundaries.
I am a very self secure woman and have found ways to be confident yet not pushy. Although earlier on in our interactions I will ask how they are feeling about our time together? What their ideal person looks like and where they would like to go in life.
I think what they are wanting is very important, as many men aren’t interested in investing in our throw away society. Especially with online dating, there is always a prettier picture just waiting to waste another 3 weeks of your life. While they miss an opportunity to bond with you, for the next thing.
I realised this wasn’t an issue with me, like you all said. It’s about the right fit. I found my fit and I didn’t have to change who I was to have it. I studied human dynamics and psychology and found myself doing many tests on men consciously and unconsciously to find my fit.
I related a lot to the tests you guys spoke about and can understand how difficult it can be to find mr or Mrs right. I guess one thing I realised is, if you’re an interesting person, a high value person you will attract all sorts of people in that net. It’s important to understand that doesn’t make you any less of a person, just means you will need to have your wits about you so you can find methods to search through the large portion of people you have attracted.
With these techniques you guys have spoken about I believe people will find it much easier to realise this. Match the values. I appreciate your video. Also good to see an Aussie UA-camr in the lime light! I like to see the bogan stigma lifting around the world. So it’s nice to see an educated and well spoken Australian challenging certain perceptions of us around the world.
Thanks again
Love is spontaneous not something you will make happen with advices from"relationship coaches"
But I'm talking about real love
sOLz nw True True
Real love means unconditional love, and unconditional love doesnt require playing mind games ,like majority of these " specialists " suggest...
@@66hoodwitch and where do u find unconditional love? lol. humans dont know how to do that most times, its rare
Anya Vlad LIFE IS LIKE A GAME....sorry to tell u. & these men have a point. U just can’t see it. They’re helping a lot of us with their insights. So maybe u should move on if u have all the answers & leave the rest of us to enjoy their advices. 😉
Spoken like a true 14yr old girl
Love this video. I’ve been working on myself and I have had a personal battle with the thoughts of “I’m not enough”. When something wasn’t going well with a guy. It was because something was wrong with me “I wasn’t enough”. Through self healing and growth by watching your channels and reading. I realise now that all those other men it didn’t work because we were incompatible. We are just not fitted. The right man it will be easy. Are conversation will flow. I will feel comfortable. I will never be left guessing. I am enough just as I am. The right man will stay.
That's so lovely Claire Biltcliffe - really glad to hear the way you've empowered yourself. Thanks so much for supporting me with what I do. Mark xx
I feel way more that I’m not enough with a guy...than I do being single.
Dating and flirting and alone time, I feel enough & beautiful.
It’s climbing up against our society and access to instant gratification...that I feel hugely inadequate with any male long term. I feel I’d have to morph into thousands of different women and have little needs of my own to be in a relationship...and that sounds like misery.
The kind of relationship I’d like prob doesn’t exist in today’s warped world 😬
Good thing I like myself alone and have no desperate need to be with someone. Kind of actually wish I could be a professional wingwoman...
Bloopers were HYSTERICAL!!!
Great video, as always. But I got into a reverse situation and still ended up losing him. Second time we met, after hours of talking about values and visions for our future, he asked me to be his girlfriend, no fling, no seeing other people. The connection felt very strong. I agreed. We had an amazing few months, and when I was moving into a new place (same city), HE suggested we move in together. I said no at first, but he was always at my place already, so eventually I said yes. I was his first really committed relationship (which I didn't know at the time). And then life hit us hard. External factors weighed. But we got engaged and I was over the moon. Not even a year later, he broke up, after I had caught him lying several times and asked for more honesty (he was not cheating, by the way). He gave no explanation. I know we had a rough time, but HE was the one telling me that we'd get through the rough patches. I permitted him to 'put the cart before the horse'. I permitted him to want to bond emotionally so soon. When he left, I told him that: 'we haven't even had a chance to really enjoy one another; I wish we could just go back to dating'. Needless to say, I still love him. But I feel we broke us before we had a chance to shine.
vulnerability and deep acceptance and we're we are wanting your appreciation and your affection Dont PUt the Cart Before the Horse wanting the bond 1st Before the man has the Motivation.....he is having these positive experiences over and over again and then he feels Safer to go into these deep bonds
Loved this!! I checked out all three of your channels five months ago and benefited from them. How fun it is to see you three together!! The message was just what I was curious about too. Simply fantastic guys, thank you!!
Yaaas Love it Rosanna. Great to hear!!
I don’t know what I did or how I did it. I have a man who’s completely head over heels in love with me. I have a lot of baggage and I m always telling him about my problems because he’s the only one I can trust. He sees the goodness in me when I fail to see it myself. I m completely trusting my luck
Mark is definitely my fave coat on YTube. In my last relationship, I followed his advice on creating positive experiences with the guy I want (to form deep attraction) and on having my own life in my own time. Mostly importantly, I tried to give critical comments to my man in more caring and less confronting way (hard to follow tho lol). After half a year he’s already smitten. We got married in after 1.5 years this month. Of course, on top of all that skills, my husband and I have had this genuine chemistry and compatibility most of the time. Thanks for sharing your valuable advices on dating and self development. I wish I had found your Chanel in my early 20s. Cheers to Mark and this Chanel!!
thank you Mark for being up front and transparent with us women lol sometimes we need a little help to understand you guys too! thank you guys for being so honest with us!
Three times the fun! I can tell you're in Jason's studio in Chicago. I think what y'all are saying is to RELAX and have fun with the guy. Don't stress and overanalyze everything.
I like it when a man is there for me, I like it when we can talk stuff out.. I like it when they are supportive, loving and care about me.
Is it just me, or sounded like the experts tips were:
1. Make sure he is always happy and having fun with you.
2. Don’t ask for commitment until he is ready himself.. complaining about commitment brings a negative experience to otherwise positive times
3. Men like to chase..so don’t be easy
4. Don’t scare them in any shape or form..period!!
😅😬
Almost looked like that Mark guy (who by the way seemed like the best relationship expert) had to stop him everytime..as he sits next hearing at the train wreck expert advice..and try to bring out an actual positive tip out of it..I did like some of his (host guy’)points..
Again..it all might be just me. Also..not a man-hater or fan/anti-fun of the blogger..just curious audience who could use some advice on subject-matter.. 😬🙈
No worries Himani, really appreciate your thoughts about this topic. I’m glad you’re sharing it with us xx
Learned so much and loved the back and forth with 3 great guys
Thanks Cindy! Much appreciated xx
What a great episode with some of the best dating coaches out there. Love the genuine approach!
Thanks so much Queen
Wow! This explains some dynamics of why my melancholic introvert has taken so long to open as much as he has. Thank you!
Thank you for your advice. It’s beautiful to know how men fall in love 😊
Love this therapy trio thing ❤️
We had a blast Maria - I might have to get these fellas back ey??
Mark Rosenfeld Absolutely. You compliment each other so well. Your humour is uplifting and I’m crushing out on all my fave dating coaches all at once. ❤️❤️❤️ yayyyy 😁
I'm a consultant and I'm watching your clips because they teach me so much about consulting people, active listening, asking the right questions, building relationships. Haha Thanks for this, Mark! 😁
Oh thanks Marie - always appreciate your lovely comments! Great to have you on the channel - lots to come in the future for you x
Wow...3 of my favourite straight- talking men in one studio together! ❤
Self-knowledge, self-love and self-respect have to be first. Be complete in yourself.
Absolutely! Love it, Alyx! Thanks for writing in 🙏
Mark and Jason in one video??? Yasss please👏
Hahahaha how great is Jason?!!? Zomg
Isn’t there a danger in being this carefree, happy go lucky girl to hook him, and then once he commits not being that girl anymore? It’s striking me a little bit like the movie “Ugly Truth.” Men cite the experience all the time - she was so cool in the beginning and then she switched up.
Good question. 😊
That's why you need to be yourself right from the get-go.
Angelina I agree
Wow I've learnt so much I'm just going to chill out and enjoy the friendship, you would have thought the only girl from 7 siblings I would have got it now, thanks guys, very thought provoking
Wow,wow,Mark powerful teammates!experts in the world of love.
Glad you liked them Melind!
Great point about if the experiences aren’t all that great- it doesn’t mean you aren’t- just maybe the fit is wrong. 👌🏾
Yep very true Lynn xx
Jason Silver makes so much sense His advice is very real!
Top video. I’ve read soo many book, but this is culmination of all that. Great stuff. Amazing., thank you. Man bun genius and co.
THanks Judy - so glad you liked it!
Judy Miller, you're absolutely gorgeous 💓💓💓❤🌹🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you
Love this collaboration! So much positive energy here!
BOOM! Glad you liked in Sonu x
🤣 loving the bloopers as much as the video. Some serious man-love going on there. So much fun to watch & see you all genuinely support one another.
P.s Mark, are you ok? You look to be in some pain in your legs. I was concerned seeing you in obvious discomfort. Hope all is ok. Much love xx
Antonio Borrello Thank you for your reply Antonio. I just watched your video & subscribed to your channel : )
Hahahah how good were they!! Ahahah no leg issues that I know of Shiela. Although I'm kind of worried now you've said that!
Jason and Mark Ive been following you for 9 months and now seeing you sitting next to each other ... amazing video amazing topic
That's brilliant - thanks so much Elle d
I love listening to men especially good looking men like that handsome man in the middle.
Awesome video guys! Men's perspective on this is SO invaluable and great to see you teaming up to share your wisdom.
Never mind the rest of the video. I love then ending. Thanks for being so real guys xx
Thanks Pam!- really appreciate it xx
Pam Jansen, you look stunning 💓💓💓❤❤🌹and I will be glad to know you
My relationship is just the opposite. He moved too fast for me. We spent a few nights together but have been communicating for about four or five months. He wants me to move in and he's already talking about marriage. That made me run like hell! Now we just talk and text. He lives two and half hours away so, it makes it harder to spend time with him.
Doesn't sound too healthy and balanced Carrie... Make sure you're sticking to your own timeline with things...
@misssophisicated I know..something seriously wrong with that!
My three favorite dating coaches!!
Thanks for watching Michelle Grenier xx
What a powerful collab! 😱😱
Thanks Aira Jean! xx
ok perfect timing..i ws forcing my guy to open up but gt the answer thnpks
I "talked" to this guy for a year and a half. He has trust issues because he his ex gf left him and got married to someone she was talking to during the relationship. Eventually we stopped talking because I was going out of my way trying to be nice and accommodating his needs for trust and whatever but I never got my needs met. I told him off and he disappeared.. Sometimes I wonder if he'll contact when he's ready to get his shit together.
Kathleen Johnston ohh we have a very similar situation
@@lalipatnilkhum2428 just gotta let them go! You can only help them so much :)
Yeah i did let him go, I just really miss him and wondering has he ever missed me? Or when exactly when will he get his shit together :( but seriously though, i dont wanna wait for him any longer. But it is the hardest thing to do
@@lalipatnilkhum2428 I totally understand.. Sometimes its just better to let them go. I've been in this situation before where the guys has issues and I was really nice but it wasnt reciprocated. I told them how I felt, it scared them off but they came back months later and apologized for the way they treated me. But I didn't wait for them! You're dling what's best for You and that's what really matters.
Jason seem to be the guy who's not afraid to fall in love and stay in love... he doesn't have time for mind games.
This is what I call triple threat 🔥🔥🔥
I did it just like you said not to. Shoot I missed this before I messed up a relationship. 🤦♀️ Love fest😂💝
*Men fell in love when you give them pain*
Haha love this!
Boom!
Hahaha love it.
Kibula Desire past and present
Exactly
There really need to be more videos about how to figure out girl boy relationships from friendship. The steps are COMPLETELY different, if you've been best friends from childhood.
I love the bloopers at the end ha ha. It's great to see you enjoy each other's company. 😊
I agree about shared experiences. We associate positive or negative feelings with a person, and that definitely has an impact on whether a person gravitates or retreats.
@@AntonioBorrello 🌟My pleasure. I enjoy the content the three of you provide. 🌟
Oh my goodness!!!!! Loved loved loved the energy Gents! Thank you so much for this collaboration of great minds and exquisite personalities and also thank you for your willingness to share of yourselves with us. Very much appreciated
He never was my best friend. He rejected being vulnerable full stop. Doomed really.
I’m so excited after watching this. 🙂 I can tell a man I’m interested in is beginning to pursue me. I will continue to be a high value woman by having my own life and interests, and let him decide if my authentic self is something he wants. Thank you, Mark (and guests)! 🙂
Glad you liked the collab, Sabrina Angel! Great to hear you got something from the video. I'm excited for you as well! Cheers to a better you, better life, and better relationship! 😊
Yes, Jason! I love the way you think. I truly respect you and what you have to say.
I enjoyed your talk Mark....with two wonderful guys....awesome...keep it up💙💙💙💙it so much
Maryam from Malaysia
great mark, jason and dr.antonio. God bless u indeed!
You 3 are amazing 😍🤩 I follow you all for years. A great CHEER 🤸🤸🏽♀️🤸🏿to your advise ❤️thanks for the work guys‼️
Thanks so much, briejoana! x
LOVE THE CONTENT, GUYS!!! Mark's energy and Antonio's smile make it even better!✌ #TheBloopers 😂😂😂😂
Jason is being silly in the bloopers, haha... Like this.
What a day that was! 😂 Glad you enjoyed the video, Just. Thanks for watching! x
Mark Rosenfeld Always a pleasure! You truly help me understand a lot of things, themes *AND* interestingly: Aussie Masculinity, haha. I know you wouldn't like this label... I don't either but it is different; it is something else! And you happen to be the 'Evolved One' who embodies and reflects it in such a natural and coherent way; and your content advocates this too - boldness, play, genteelity, logic, action, trying, taking a risk, etc. So, I get it! ☺
You guys are great! Love seeing you together! ❤... And excellent advice a per usual. 😊
Thanks membering. Bless xx
What a amazing topic with tree great. Coach ! Thank you
By the way very nice tea cup on the table!!!
Yes , we are visual and detailed oriented creatures!! :)
Hahahah Hey Sheema - thanks a bunch. Really glad you enjyoed it. I love that you noticed the small details.
If a woman wants her man love him forever
1.always be positive and smile
2.less expectations
3.keep ur self always beautiful
4.be natural
5.be ambitious
6.trust him
7.fun
You guys make my day!😀 love your advice and the authenticity, i hope there is another part 2 of collaboration.
Awesome collaboration, please do more. Thank you.
Cheers Ravi Peiris
Wow! I'm putting the horse before the cart. Time for me to make some changes. Thank you!😉
Candy Cooley, you're absolutely gorgeous 💓💓💓❤🌹and I will be glad to know you
I didn't even know men could really fall in love. I never experienced it so I wouldn't know...and I'm almost 28
I'm 60
They don’t LOL