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The six figure income totally depends on where you live. The standard of living varies greatly depending on the area of the United States you live in. Most women aren't looking for a rich man they're looking for a man that is financially secure enough that the strain will not hamper the relationship. We have learned that people who cannot manage money also tend to make bad partners. Experience has taught us that if a man is unable to provide for himself we certainly can't carry his weight. We have also learned that there are many many men who are happy to use women these days so we avoid them at all cost. So no we are not gold diggers we are looking for safety and security.
Oh you can start out with a secure attachment style that if you date an avoidant you're going to become an anxious attached person. Always avoid an avoidant.
Thanks Jonathon. I have some conflict with my partner regarding religion. I wonder if there’s really someone out there who is right for us. I turned 50 this week! Have a great weekend
Any man who is not average height 5’ 9” should consider, if they can, maintain a desirable weight and diet and strength train. Not kill himself but keep up with his weight and health. Most importantly they may st have good and healthy oral health. Good teeth and a great smile go a long way.
CJ, thank you for sharing your story and being so vulnerable. If both of you have such strong beliefs it is always going to be hard. I say this as strong-believing Christian myself, and desperately tried to make it work with a non-Christian.
I fell totally in love with a bald guy .. my ex had a full head of beautiful hair .. I’m happy to have learned that about myself. If a man is confident , takes care healthy care of himself . Incidentals like that don’t matter . Work the best with what you’ve got…and women should do the same .
Physical Attraction for women: The world, & this channel, will never stop the BS until the end of patriarchy. Every woman knows that physical attraction is a larger issue for women than it is for men. Women are pressured to repress the fact bc: 1. traditional sex roles, 2. Men are less attractive overall, 3 males die off faster (statistically, more males are born; they die off faster until 60 or 70, I think, when the population evens out) Beyond that, physical attraction is more nuanced for women than it is for men who are conditioned by the media from boyhood to arouse to a cookie cutter model. Ladies: Don't be gaslit! Dont date someone you're not physically attracted to. Never! We burned our bras for a reason. Ain't no frogs turning into princes. You get stuck w a frog!! John Gray is a fellow chauvinist who makes up his own science & tells women to never let her body lead . Just say no!! to this BS. Let them tell it to the men.
JA, you are correct, my last relationship guy was definitely not my type, but he grew on me and I found him very very attractive. After that another guy who was very attractive and my type...3 dates in and no chemistry for me. Attempting to read the Hoffman Process finally. It's been on my table since summer. I always resonate with your words, and have thought them said them myself. CJ- she should move on.
The problem is it is an illusion. I have dated very tall men who were not protective whatsoever. Quite the contrary in those instances. One of my closest friends is about 5ft 5in and he is the kindest, warmest most protective man ever. We assume tall or big means they will protect, not necessarily so.
I feel the same way bout the size of men & dogs: I want to know that I will not be overrun by their size & power. That makes me feel safe & protected. You're awfully trusting....
Jonathon, its so good to hear the confidence you have in yourself, and your worth. And how you mesh this with absolute honesty and vulnerability. Wouldn't relationships be more straight forward if we could all do this.
How sad women feel that way about hight. Even though my first husbands happened to be 6‘2“, I have dated men of various nights. The man I am currently dating one inch taller then myself, I’m 5‘4“ and I love that we stand eye to eye and hugging is amazing with a man this hight.
Sad. The last six of the 3 is so off. The way that a man make a woman to want him like crazy, have nothing to do with how tall, rich, or P. ize. That's a cacabu story.
Definitely an interesting conversation with CJ and I wonder if she stopped having sex with him, would that change his mind? Maybe he feels guilty about having sex with her or maybe he only wanted to have sex with her to begin with? Regardless of the intimacy piece, I do agree with both of you, that the distance and spirituality differences would create challenges in the long run.......Also, I've heard it as, 6 ft, 6 figures and a 6 pack?
Finally I've connected with a great guy after so many misfits, and horndogs etc on brief 1st meets from dating site. Personality wise, he's all I've wanted in a man. We're in a committed relationship. I'm praying I'll feel more physical chemistry for him with time.. No way do I want to throw a rare gem out of my life.
Any man who is not average height 5’ 9” should consider, if they can, maintain a desirable weight and diet and strength train. Not kill himself but keep up with his weight and health. Most importantly they may st have good and healthy oral health. Good teeth and a great smile go a long way.
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The six figure income totally depends on where you live.
The standard of living varies greatly depending on the area of the United States you live in.
Most women aren't looking for a rich man they're looking for a man that is financially secure enough that the strain will not hamper the relationship.
We have learned that people who cannot manage money also tend to make bad partners.
Experience has taught us that if a man is unable to provide for himself we certainly can't carry his weight.
We have also learned that there are many many men who are happy to use women these days so we avoid them at all cost.
So no we are not gold diggers we are looking for safety and security.
I’m with you, Jonathan… I get asked why are you single quite a bit and don’t care for that question either. It’s a real turn off for me.
It's actually rude too... 😒
I feel protected bt a man that carries. A man that watches out for me.
Yes
Jonathon you are an intellectual.
Thanks
Oh you can start out with a secure attachment style that if you date an avoidant you're going to become an anxious attached person.
Always avoid an avoidant.
Thanks Jonathon. I have some conflict with my partner regarding religion. I wonder if there’s really someone out there who is right for us. I turned 50 this week! Have a great weekend
These differences create conflict.
How so?
Any man who is not average height 5’ 9” should consider, if they can, maintain a desirable weight and diet and strength train. Not kill himself but keep up with his weight and health.
Most importantly they may st have good and healthy oral health. Good teeth and a great smile go a long way.
CJ, thank you for sharing your story and being so vulnerable. If both of you have such strong beliefs it is always going to be hard. I say this as strong-believing Christian myself, and desperately tried to make it work with a non-Christian.
Thank you so much A! I appreciate your share. It is a very serious consolidation. Talking on the show with Johnathon was really helpful!
I fell totally in love with a bald guy .. my ex had a full head of beautiful hair .. I’m happy to have learned that about myself. If a man is confident , takes care healthy care of himself . Incidentals like that don’t matter . Work the best with what you’ve got…and women should do the same .
Physical Attraction for women: The world, & this channel, will never stop the BS until the end of patriarchy. Every woman knows that physical attraction is a larger issue for women than it is for men. Women are pressured to repress the fact bc: 1. traditional sex roles, 2. Men are less attractive overall, 3 males die off faster (statistically, more males are born; they die off faster until 60 or 70, I think, when the population evens out)
Beyond that, physical attraction is more nuanced for women than it is for men who are conditioned by the media from boyhood to arouse to a cookie cutter model.
Ladies: Don't be gaslit! Dont date someone you're not physically attracted to. Never! We burned our bras for a reason. Ain't no frogs turning into princes. You get stuck w a frog!! John Gray is a fellow chauvinist who makes up his own science & tells women to never let her body lead . Just say no!! to this BS. Let them tell it to the men.
JA, you are correct, my last relationship guy was definitely not my type, but he grew on me and I found him very very attractive. After that another guy who was very attractive and my type...3 dates in and no chemistry for me. Attempting to read the Hoffman Process finally. It's been on my table since summer. I always resonate with your words, and have thought them said them myself. CJ- she should move on.
It's always a journey!
I just think it’s stupid wanting a 6ft tall man. Yes I must admit I do feel the need to be protected.
The problem is it is an illusion. I have dated very tall men who were not protective whatsoever. Quite the contrary in those instances. One of my closest friends is about 5ft 5in and he is the kindest, warmest most protective man ever. We assume tall or big means they will protect, not necessarily so.
I feel the same way bout the size of men & dogs: I want to know that I will not be overrun by their size & power. That makes me feel safe & protected. You're awfully trusting....
That religious retreat thing you were in 17 years ago sounds extremely abusive how awful that people would have to strip in front of others.
It was cathartic
@@JonathonAslay I'm glad it worked for you.
Jonathon, its so good to hear the confidence you have in yourself, and your worth. And how you mesh this with absolute honesty and vulnerability. Wouldn't relationships be more straight forward if we could all do this.
I'm glad im not on tik tok then because i think those 3 things are stupid. I must just be more badass than those whingers lol
That is so sad
How sad women feel that way about hight. Even though my first husbands happened to be 6‘2“, I have dated men of various nights. The man I am currently dating one inch taller then myself, I’m 5‘4“ and I love that we stand eye to eye and hugging is amazing with a man this hight.
I'm glad you've found a good match!
No, I don't !
Don't what?
@JonathonAslay Don't know anymore. But tell me about the unicorn 🦄? Have you seen one?
It's cute, but no real!
You are real, right?
Just asking.
I know. From the next down. All the area., and more.
Yes
Just wake up, wish that you were here!
I don't believe half have a secure attachment style either no way
I agree
❤
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What is a UNICORN?
A Unicorn is a horse with a horn.
@@maureenagnes6675 Thank you! But remember that they are not real. So how can you be one
Sad. The last six of the 3 is so off. The way that a man make a woman to want him like crazy, have nothing to do with how tall, rich, or P. ize.
That's a cacabu story.
Fantasy
My dad was 5' 3", all of his kids and spouse were taller...but he was a giant!
Yes!!!
@@PurpleChurchMouse are u saying ur dad had a dig bick
Definitely an interesting conversation with CJ and I wonder if she stopped having sex with him, would that change his mind? Maybe he feels guilty about having sex with her or maybe he only wanted to have sex with her to begin with? Regardless of the intimacy piece, I do agree with both of you, that the distance and spirituality differences would create challenges in the long run.......Also, I've heard it as, 6 ft, 6 figures and a 6 pack?
Maybe
Inquiring minds want to know 😎! Good points! Thanks Trista ;)
Finally I've connected with a great guy after so many misfits, and horndogs etc on brief 1st meets from dating site. Personality wise, he's all I've wanted in a man. We're in a committed relationship. I'm praying I'll feel more physical chemistry for him with time.. No way do I want to throw a rare gem out of my life.
Six seconds is too obvious lol 3 or 4 is enough
Any man who is not average height 5’ 9” should consider, if they can, maintain a desirable weight and diet and strength train. Not kill himself but keep up with his weight and health.
Most importantly they may st have good and healthy oral health. Good teeth and a great smile go a long way.