TRANSGENDER VS "TRANS TRENDER" Q&A (FT
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- Опубліковано 10 чер 2024
- HERE'S MY TRANSGENDER VS "TRANS TRENDER" Q&A WITH MY BUDDY @EzButler AND YOU CAN WATCH THE VIDEO WE FILMED FOR HIS CHANNEL HERE: • REACTING TO MY HATE CO...
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“do you miss your boobs?”
“no!”
*both laughing*
As a cis girl, sometimes I wish I could remove my boobs too lol. I wouldn’t miss them at all. The freedom of not wearing a bra with nothing moving around would be 👌🏻 chefs kiss
As another trans guy who is yet to get top surgery and really hates his body, I would exactly miss my chesticles either!
@@pyotrtchaikovsky1840 lmao
TWO TRANS KINGS COLLABING MY LIFE IS COMPLETE :>>>
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
real
@@p-__excuse me what 😀
@@p-__ what…😭
@@Pinkcatedits. Guys its a bot. Just report it for harassment and dont engage. Engagement only makes them stronger.
THE TWO TRANSGENDERS OF ALL TIME‼️‼️
we are so proud of them for being the two transgendereds in the world 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
@@p-__NOT YOU AGAIN
We just need Jamie!
We just need Jamie!!
my headache just faded, it lasted 3 days
:0
I have had a headache since yesterday morning
You doing okay??
I see what u did there :>
My headache is still here, it’s been here for three days
noah really hit us with the back in my day
old man noah
Noldah?
I think "trans masc" is an umbrella term for every trans person identifying on the male spectrum. So it can include binary trans people and non-binary trans people
transmasc means youre transgender and either your gender is masculine or youre transistioning towards masculinity :)
No such gender, only male and female
I always felt it referred to nonbinary masc leaning folks. I definitely would prefer to just be called a trans man. trans masc makes me uncomfy
why are u even here @@brucedunn6845
@@brucedunn6845I understand you not understanding non-binary people. But you're saying that intersex people don't exist and that's verifiable untrue.
I started watching Ez's videos on tiktok and insta, He made me feel so much more comfortable dressing feminine as a trans boy knowing there's someone else that also sometimes dresses feminine ^_^
I’m a trans guy and I have insecurity about wearing makeup, dresses, etc., but I also love all of those things. It’s a really weird feeling
@@xx_MatteoUwU_xx fr it just sucks because when i dress how i wanna dress (feminine mostly) My friends always start referring to me as like a girl and it sucks so bad. But i get it. love the pfp btw lol!
Damn I haven't heard that phrase 'trans trender' in more than half a decade.
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
I went from hating "transtrenders" and being miserable to being one (at least if you look at the stereotypes and stuff. Enby, feminine presentation, piercings, tattoos, weird haircut/dye etc.)
@@p-__what the flip flop 😨
As someone who's transfem the part about not leaving the house and having no interest in sex or relationships is so relatable to me. I never really thought I had strong dysphoria but I literally never leave the house and have panic attacks over my appearance.
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
replying so u don’t have to deal with the one not reply
I hope it gets better for you, much love from a transmasc person
Transman here from Jamaica sending love
I'm a trans man and I constantly get kicked out of the women's bathroom it got so bad that I refuse to go in any public washroom unless it's a unisex washroom I'm currently in the process of getting approved for top surgery I can't wait you two are awesome thanks for sharing your experiences
Honestly same here I’m pretty nervous about using restrooms even though I am pre t I look pretty masculine enough to pass. I just get self conscious about it that if I were to ever go into a male restroom I would get checked but I also don’t like making women uncomfortable when I use the women’s restroom.
Wishing you the best with your surgery ❤🙏
@@gooeater1544 thank you so much
I'm almost 4 months in on T, and I don’t think I look masculine enough to use the men's room (especially given I have a big chest, and sensory issues keep me from using a binder). That said, I was 'sir'd' at Walgreens today. I'm going on a family vacation to Florida on Saturday, and I'm now terrified of using the restroom while in public. I have to use the women's (unless there's a gender neutral bathroom, which I'm hoping for), and I'm worried a stranger in a bathroom in Florida might see me as a man (though I swear I'm really nowhere near passing yet) and make a big deal.
@@LWeOAreVOneE its alright the best gauge is yourself , going to the males isnt as nerve wrecking as we make it to be sometimes :)
I had less dysphoria when I accepted it and planning the next 10 years of my life. Right now, is not a best time for me to transition and I accept it but I can in the future when I have more freedom.
Would love to see you react to the 2 openly non-binary artists from this year's eurovision contest, ireland and Switzerland. They are both representing the trans community loudly, and it's great to see
Agreed. It was a shame to see so many hateful comments under post/videos about them
Eurovision banned Palestinian flags, its zionistic asf, many people are boycotting it.
Nemo's song was decent.
Yess!! They were both super cool
Especially with Bambie’s trans flag bikinis XD
NOAH & EZ VIDEO ‼️‼️
this is what i needed in my life tbh
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
@@p-__why are you in like every vid?
REAL
I distinctly remember having strong chest dysphoria since when they first grew in and thinking every girl felt like and being so confused when I saw people wanting them to bigger I was like “what the heck don’t you guys want yours gone??” and then years later I realized what that actually was lol
Yes the same case in my early teenager years and I never get it how the other girls could actually like their boobs. I thought a long thime that every women would hate them
mtf and bathrooms cause panics, i just need to pee sometimes
I'm sorry dear... 🫂 I hope one day we can both pee in peace
No cause when Ezra was talking about how he realized he was trans, I was relating to everything he said (except the period). For a second there I thought that was my trans awakening, and now I don't know if I'm actually non binary
I mean, nonbinary is under the trans umbrella. I'd recoemmed you look into it, sounds like you're onto something there
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
it's fine to not know or even have a label at any point, you can do what makes you comfortable and not put a label to it
The cult continues.
@@mjones8170lmao yes that’s what happens when people are generally accepted. shocker how it works. but dw we view christians the same way 💀
I loved both vids, but this one a little more just cuz of the personal experiences mentioned, so nice to know I'm not the only one. My experience as a trans guy is much more like Ezra's and it's especially nice to see him more cuz of this(love both of you tho❤)
I've always been quite feminine while also feeling off and never fiting in, only figuring myself out at 14 cuz all this. I'm turning 21 in a couple months and my parent's still think I'm confused, hoping I grow out of it or smth, they just think I'll be mutilating myself by medically transitioning :|
I am finally getting my first appointment with the trans healthcare here in Sweden soon and I'm so excited! Hoping I'll be able to get on testosterone realitively soon, and top surgery, so I can finally live truly like myself.
I'm just hoping my family will finally understand that I'm actually a man when I begin hormones. I can't understand why it's so difficult to grip that trans men can be feminine sometimes, and still be trans! And I'm also a gay man so like what do you expect??
Anyway, y'all inspire me so much and it's so wonderful to see two creators I love collabing, and happy trans related content and happy trans people in general!!💞💞 Hope you have a good day/night
Hope your parents will come around. It’s really cool to see other trans people from nordic countries, so just came here to say hi :)
@@moniviljapaahto oh thank you, that means a lot! Where sre you from? :)
@@sickeninglysweetlikehoney9917 Finland! :)
As a kinda faggy transmasc person, I definitely relate to what Ez said at 3:14
I would have figured things out a lot sooner had I realized being flamboyant had nothing to do with my gender identity. I was especially confused growing up because I had two tomboy sisters to compare myself to, so if someone would have thought one of us would be trans, I don't think I would have been anyone's first guess, lol.
Society telling trans people we have to ascribe to standard gender norms or else we aren't trans is just a recycled version of a similar argument they used to use on us - We used to not be allowed to transition if we weren't transitioning into a straight identity, so lesbian trans women and gay trans men would have to pretend to be straight to receive GAC. It's all a conflation of identity, gender expression, and sexuality. Things are getting better though. Slowly but surely. :)
yep!
*My fav guys on UA-cam!!*
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
Imma fart in your fart lil bro 😭 🙏 @@p-__
Biological females , simple genetics
@@PED1010 yeah your gender is genetic💀 lol what are saying
@@PED1010 What point are you trying to get across, exactly? Pretty sure everyone knows this.
Im still too terrified to go into the mens.
Never heard of Ezra. I really enjoyed this video!!!
Shall watch Ezra's vid now ^^
As a cis man who has testosterone from working out regularly I find it really strange that because you are on testosterone you cant cry when you're sad. such an interesting side effect and also the inability to cry when sad sounds terrible. I hope that's only a temporary side effect and you don't have to go through that forever.
Whatching this after my cousins funeral, it really made my day. Thank you
dude noahs experience with the nhs medical system is so massively similar to mine, you describing how it went for you was like hearing myself describe it
I stopped being friends with some best friends because they were transphobic. One of them basically said I couldn’t be a guy cause I enjoyed putting nail polish on.. this is a a dude who’s into those metal bands that wear like full face makeup. Right dude 🙄
Then Covid hit and they came crawling back cause they realised they had no other friends and were lonely but their apology was ‘we all did things wrong’ instead of actually apologising so I was like lol nah bye 🙃
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Hi, transmasc nonbinary here. I just wanted to say how I see on the term transmasc term because no one asked 👍 so like basically how I see it is that for me at least I’m nonbinary, but I want to medically transition and I feel comfortable with the he/him pronounce, but I’m still nonbinary. My gender still feels nonbinary and I wouldn’t feel comfortable to identify as a man but I still feel like my gender is more masculine leaning but not male leaning and I don’t present very masculinly if that makes sense. So yes yes that’s how I feel about the term transmasc but everyone has different definitions because people experience gender differently so yes yes swag swag
Same for me, I just feel like a person. Both things, equally balanced. Someone said I might naturally have XY so I need to get tested for that I guess. I feel like I’ve always been both things. 💜 I even feel physically split. My left side is slightly bigger, it just is what it is.
If you don't mind me asking what do you think the difference is between trans masc and demi boy? /gen q
@@wafflebeanart Transmasc is a wider term for any afab people transitioning into a more masc gender.
Demiboy is feeling partially boy, partially agender.
The biggest difference is that transmasc is for afab people and demiboy is for anyone.
I relate to you a lot on this, you’re not alone
That's interesting. I am both non-binary and a trans man. I don't feel like one needs to exist without the other, sometimes both can be true at the same time. Before T I identified as trans masc, moreso because I didn't feel like a "real man". But I am a trans man, I just also happen to be non-binary.
ez's experience realising he was trans is so relatable, i had such similar experiences !! and now im 21 and been on t for four months !!
thanks to this vid i already feel way less confused about my gender THANK U GUYS, y'all are awesome fr
NO WAYYYY EZZZZZZZ AND NOAHHHHH?! Dream collab frrrr
i'm finally not so dysphoric about my hair length. it's medium length at the moment and it still looks masculine or androgynous. i'm getting it cut soon but i'm fine with it 'till then. i'm not even on t yet.
2:46 BROOO THIS IS TOO REAL. i came out around the same time as noah did and it was this huge thing that was unthinkable to just casually drop.
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
Bro I'm a long haired trans guy and yo, long hair on guys is cool as fuck. I love long haired guys (like me) I might not pass as well but it makes me jolly and happy (and I look 6 when my hair is short)
My literal dream collab!!!!! 🫶😭 Love both of you ❤️
I heavily relate using the men’s bathroom AND women’s restroom. When with my parents I use the women’s but at school for the past two school years I’ve only ever used the men’s. But I have experienced more weird looks in the women’s restroom. But one specifically awful experience in the men’s at school.
I think you posting this video and me deciding to watch a bit of yt before going back to binging a show was a pure fate. You guys just validated me so much, thank you
so fun!!!
the collab of the century tbh ❤
Lets gooooo we got two legends in the room!
YES SOME OF MY FAVOURITE TWO LGBTQ+ CONTENT CREATORS COLLABING YAYAYAY
the collab I KNEW I needed
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
i've been waiting for a collab for so long omg this is amazing
I NEEDED THIS FOR SO LONG💕
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
Ez replied to my TikTok comment on a video of u guys the other day and I almost screamed
Fr I screamed when ez replied to me cuz I ask where he got his shirt from but it feels so good to be reconised by my idol
ez is one of the reasons that im comfortable with being a fem trans man
I used to be so confused when people would say you can’t the trans without experiencing dysphoria and then some people would take it up further and say you can’t be without like physical dysphoria, but I always thought isn’t it still dysphoria if you’re uncomfortable with being referred to in a certain way with being called the terms of either gender language?
I’m still confused about it. To me it sounds like someone saying “you don’t have to be attracted to the same gender to be gay.”
People are right when they say you cannot be trans without experiencing dysphoria, that is correct. The reason why dysphoria is not simply disliking being referred to as certain gendered terms is because there is more often than not a reason for this that is not tied to being trans. An example of this would be a woman who doesn't like being referred to as anything regarding being a woman due to the way women are perceived, objectified and stereotyped in society. This is often unknown to them and they go on to believe they're actually transgender when they're not. This is also why there has been a sudden sharp increase in those identifying as "transmasc" or any male aligned gender in general. Dysphoria is the result of the sex of your brain not aligning with the sex of your body. There is no such thing as a trans person who is "comfortable" with their natal anatomy (and natural voice) and there is certainly no such thing as a trans person who loves their natal anatomy (and natural voice, once again). If such a person existed, they do not have dysphoria. There are definitely nuances but these nuances can easily be differentiated if you have common sense
You could be trans without experiencing dysphoria. Being trans is knowing that your gender doesn't match your assigned sex at birth. It doesn't mean you have to be unhappy with your body or the way that others perceive you.
The belief that people think they are or pretent do be trans in order to escape prejudice against women is a myth in my opinion, although some trans men do report that male privilege is real as they have experienced that people listen to them and take them more seriously once they've transitioned.
i started T about a year and a half ago and i can only crying when im tired and overwhelmed lol. I dont cry to things i would have last year and used to always cry watching a dogs purpose.
Omg I love your channel and Ezra’s content what a great collab!🫶🏻y’all give me hope for my future and make me so happy 💜💕
“Do ya miss your bewbs”
“No.”
The amount of relatability
One of the best collaborations I’ve ever seen 😆💖
The but hair animation jumpscared me😢😂😂
I HAVEN'T SEEN EZ IN SO LONG OMG I LOVE U GUYS
the collab we never knew we needed omg
im so ready for my de-boobinator surgery, these things are killing me
Read de-boobinator in dr. doofenshmirtz voice
@@bonkkus IM DYING 😭😭
Thankyou so much for this! Amazing video 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Its answered so many questions I didnt know I had, like is it wierd that I dont want bottom surgery?!
No, apparently not!
Happy pride month everyone ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I love how Noah has the biggest smile on his face this whole video
i realize i dont super love dressing masc all the time, but i look feminine so i need to balance it out until i can look more masculine- like for my sake- like when i got a haircut i felt so much better wearing certain feminine things- and once i have no boobs i think ill be able to wear things that make me happier-
dude the whole "imma buy a binder and imma hate it and prove to myself im not trans", I would try so hard like prove to myself that I wasn't a dude, even after multiple times being asked "are you a girl or a boy" when I was younger and saying "I don't know" as the answer, like I used to say that before I even knew what trans was. And now at this point, the only reason I realize im not cis dude now, is when I wake up and realize that I don't a the bottom parts taht I should be using to take my morning piss.
I need more of Ezra and Noah
Exactly! I’m a trans boy and I wear feminine shit:)
It’s my two favorite trans people
im nonbinary/ trans masc, to me it's feeling like my gender is somewhere inbetween nonbinary and trans man. It isn't specifcally about my presentation of what i wear more to do with how I feel about my gender.
The collab I was waiting for.
Collab of the century wuhuuu!!
This video made my day if not my whole week/year
never thought i'd see this collab!!!
Noah you’re so amazing and you make me so happy especially your music it’s amazing! So thank you for being….well so cool!
ezra would look so good with an eyebrow piercing
I love this collab
4:03 "What's the hardest part of transiting?" The wait times (for the bus) are unreal jk
Underrated comment omg
You too should make a music Colab it would be so cooollll
THE BEST COLLAB I'VE EVER SEEN!!!!
Bro I think I'm genderfluid but some times I'm just like in the mirror like....can I not be a girl in any shape and form for once. like different voice, body and shit? like how do you guys have such confidence in your body? and bravery to get top surgery and stuff. also you guys are awesome
ez i love you 😭🙏 i’m hyper feminine but soo dysphoric about being female. i think i’m trans but it’s so debated and i’ve had dms telling me to kms for ‘faking being trans’ bc i love having long hair and wearing makeup and i’ll never pass 😭 but i’m not a woman. but i’m so often disrespected 😔
all we need is miles and we have the perfect trio!!!yes i know noah has made a vid with him but all three together would be amaziing
The duo we never knew we needed
I could’ve sworn the title said trans tender and I was confused why trans people were being compared to chicken
TAKE THAT DEPRESSION!
Iykyk
my two favourite trans creators in the same room :0
super interesting!! y'all are awesome.
Im 46 and a half months on estrogen and i cry so much
wait me and ez are actually like the same age i think? and noah i think youre like 2 years older than me, maybe 3? im turning 22 in september
For the second question, Euphoria is just as valid of a reason to transition as dysphoria. theres this idea about being trans that you have to hate irself and ur body but like !! u dont !! its okay!! if you feel happier presenting as a different gender, a lack of uncomfortably in general doesnt devalidate that
I hope this made sense
can you even define what euphoria is? it sounds like a fetish
@@-metaknight-1135 My bro euphoria is joy and happiness 😂
a feeling or state of intense excitement and happiness.
Well this video made my day.
Love you guys both.🫶🏾
Autobots, transform and roll out!
Was searching for hate comments but you got me laughing.
The duo we didnt know we needed
This helps me a lot as a younger trans man
I ADORE THIS CROSSOVER
I predicted this collab 😈
I love these guys❤️❤️❤️
i clicked the notification so fast
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
I LOVE THESE TWO
3:05 - on the whole ”trans man can’t be feminine” bullshit, I get that so hard cuz I never knew/thought I could be trans cause of just being in denial but now that I’ve been trans for lik 3 years I still have lik thoughts of “man are ppl gonna perceive me as a girl cuz I’m wearing my favourite crop top and I wanna look lik a bad bitch today 😭😭😭” yk?
My two favorite people ever in the same room!!!!!
AAH THE 2 COOLEST UA-cam GUYS
Love noah's videos sm but I have to say, the editing in the last few videos has felt kind of disruptive? Like the clips dont necessarily add much idk- wondering if anyone else has noticed this?
(I am definitely not trying to hate on the editor, they do a great job, I've just noticed a pattern that I'm not personally a fan of, but thats fine, different strokes for different folks)
I love your music, and I'll like it even more knowing it's by a fellow transgender person, I don't know if there's something like how there's two of something instead of just an s, it's a new word entirely
Collab of the century fr been waiting for this one
Stop the world, I want to get off
The bathroom thing sucks for me because I’m stuck in school but still passing as a girl I get weird looks from the guys in there and I’m scared I’m going to be harassed
WE STAN💖💖
idk if advice is the right word, but i need some people's thoughts.
do you think i have to have a label for my gender? like, what if i just want to present femme most of the time but being referred to by masculine terms and pronouns and also fem ones just kinda makes me kick and giggle? do i have to label myself? also, does that count as trans? (im afab)
Ur probs under the non binary umbrella but anyone that changes their gender is trans (including nb and gender fluid) you don’t need a label
you definitely dont need a label, but if you want one maybe bigender or something similar? basically, what chips said ^^
Do what you want dude, don't have to label yourself if you don't want to.
Omg ez! I was the same with the pronouns went through them all! 😂😂
Love you guys