BISEXUAL TIKTOK CONFUSES ME | NOAHFINNCE
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- BISEXUAL TIKTOK IS VERY CONFUSING IT CONFUSES ME BUT IT'S FUN SO WHO CARES!!! ARE YOU BISEXUAL? OR GAY? OR LESBIAN? OR BOTH? OR NEITHER? OR ALL? OR STRAIGHT?
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Even if someone's bisexuality was "just" a phase, doesn't mean those feelings aren't real. Sexuality is fluid and can change over time and however you're feeling rn is valid no matter if that will change in the future or not and you don't owe anyone an explanation for those changes.
👏👏👏
preach
Homophobes bouta use this to complain
absolutely. i only felt attraction for women a year ago, now i feel attraction for everyone!
PERIOD!!! Thank you!!
“But you wouldn’t do the nasty with men or women”
Ladies and gentlefolk… *✨ASEXUALITY✨*
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@@hxppymexls1770 ua-cam.com/video/bD_JvVx4XL8/v-deo.html
yess, I’m Ace but not sex repellent ace
@@olilikesleovaldez it's sex repulsed,
but imagining it's just an ace with a can of -bug- sex repellent spraying everyone is so much better-
@@AnEldritchBeing LMAO I FORGOT HAHA **proceeds to write scenario of spraying sex repellent spray**
I literally cannot stand the whole stereotype that ALL bi girls love women and are meh about men.
I'm a bisexual girl(?) but I prefer men and that somehow makes me less valid 🤷
I prefer men too and people always invalidate me when I say I'm bi with a boyfriend or a crush that's a boy
Yeah like fr its like all men are trash and women are not, it just depends on the person in the end of the day, it doesn't matter if they are a man, woman or non-binary imo
men😩💕🥵
I DO TOO AND SOMETIMES I DONT FEEL VALID :(
@@bumble_kiwi bi girls with male preferences are so lovely 🥰💞
As a bi woman, it annoys me when you like a guy and ppl are like "see? You're straight." And when you like a girl it's like "see? You're gay." You can never win
I feel you girl…
I KNOW RIGHT?!??!?!!??? I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME
Why? Is your objective proving people wrong? Those who say it like that just want to claim they're smarter or more "psychic" than they really are by basically implying like they knew you better than you knew yourself. If you ask me, just avoid those type of people who are that narcissistic or egomaniac to basically try to use any topic to claim they're flawless or to demand spotlights to always be on them. If you can't avoid them, just ignore them.
@@tobe3940 I completely agree! The fact that they say that makes you want to prove them wrong but you can't win so you just have to deal with it
Ikr same
2:22
"And now I'm Bi man"
Noah I'm glad you decided to tell us your secret of being a Vigilante: Bi-man. The superhero who runs around England flipping up the jean cuffs of Bisexual teens
the hero we need but don’t deserve
The hero to destroy Christian Thanos who’s attempting to make the whole world
Straight
if i could give your comment an award i would
The Bigilante
This comment is gold
You said "there are some ugly people in the world - black screen" and my jaw dropped lmfao that was the best thing I've ever experienced in my life
The fact that i read thus comment exactly i had my own jaw drop at the black screen- 💀
@@dishatripathi7904 SAME!!
I have a bi friend *female* who has had bad experiences with sex with other women so now finds it harder to engage in anything sexual with other women and generally prefers to just have more of a romantic non sexual relationship when she’s in relationships with women and that’s totally valid, just because she doesn’t feel comfortable having sex with the same gender anymore doesn’t make her less bi.
ua-cam.com/video/CfTLMcc9hxA/v-deo.html - so? You still want to be like the wicked ones, corrupted and only after money? And no, I do not ask from you to go and to learn to be a doctor yourself, no, I do not ask it. What I do ask is, to pray, have a change of heart and mind and pray.
yep! also bi people on the asexual spectrum are also valid!
@@Kris.krisis ua-cam.com/video/aBux3GOvpKc/v-deo.html
Don+t any of you still see? No matter how much one tries - the gender/sex didn´t changed. Only the looks did.
i know this is so noisy but can you tell me what was wrong about it? like did they not care, did they not respect her boundaries, did they pressure her, did they body shame her, were they not able to make her feel good?
@@haleyandrews74 just bad experiences in bed, some would push her boundaries to much or they didn’t make her feel comfortable.
I feel like bixeuality is too often seen as part of the discovery process, and not it’s own thing. Like people will tell their stories on how they came to discover they were gay, having identified as bi before fully accepting themselves. I’m not saying that isn’t valid, it definitely is, this is just a reminder that if your feel you’re bi, don’t doubt yourself. Don’t convince yourself you’re gay but in denial if you’re not. Don’t convince yourself your straight but seeking attention if you’re not. Bi is a very valid way of existing all on its own, remember that :)
Exactly. Bisexuality can be part of the journey for some but the destination for others. It all just depends on the individual and both are equally valid :)
thanks for this, i keep going back and forth with myself thinking i’m a straight ace looking for attention but slowly i’ve become more comfortable identifying as bi :)
oh god, i could really use your comment when i was 17-23 and thought maybe i was bi, but was scared I don't actually like girls but like being Not Like Other Ppl
(which turned out not true at all: turns out, i am bi and i HATED being Not Like All The Others due to bullying and alienation in school)
As a bi woman myself, I will gladly tell you that you do indeed give off bi vibes Noah, for sure! :D
It’s true they do 😌
lmao they do 💀
I agree
as a bi demigirl, he does give off bi vibes for sure
Yes, I agree as a bi woman myself
They’re extremely evident
you and heartstopper helped me accept my bisexuality 🤩 i was identifying as lesbian for a couple of years after some not very fun times in year 10 and 11, and feeling not queer enough so i guess by labelling myself as lesbian was a way of trying to prove myself??? but also i think i was wanting to distance myself from the experiences i had which is ridiculous and rlly sad. i eventually found comfort in YOUR comfort coming out and then having such good bi representation in heartstopper. so thanks bestie. i finally feel like i understand that part of me after going back and forth for like 6 years 🫶
congrats, dude! i’m still struggling with coming to terms with bisexuality after labeling myself as a lesbian most of my life. i had a realization that i also like men, but it’s hard to really accept that i’m bi. i’m hoping i’ll be able to reach the point of confidently expressing my bisexuality without insecurity soon
@@queenthot1438 it’s hard! a lot of the time this is talked about it’s the other way around, people realising they’re not bi but gay/lesbian so i think that makes things even more confusing! there are still a lot of times where i question myself but now i try to think of myself as if i was not me if that makes sense? accepting myself as i would accept someone else. i’m not biphobic so why would i give myself a hard time making myself overthink everything? for now don’t pressure yourself into accepting yourself. when you find yourself overthinking things, try to remind yourself that labels are literally just words we made up to push ourselves into categories. i hope self acceptance will come for you eventually
@@fernij thank you! i live in a small, narrow-minded community and a lot of people think the lgbt community is just a few boxes that people neatly fit into. because of that i always feel pressured to label myself. it’s hard to remember that i don’t owe anyone labels and that i can just be myself. thank you for reminding me, i really needed that
@@queenthot1438 totally get you and relate :/ lots of love to you, i wish you all the best
Same here
I'm a 56 year old proud bisexual male who can honestly say it's not a phase and I'm not confused. I've been married twice to two amazing, sexy heterosexual women, and widowed twice. I've also dated men. I happen to be equally attracted to both genders. I find watching these videos entertaining and interesting. Thanks for sharing
"I've never had a dream where I kissed a girl but last night I had a dream where I got stabbed." -Noah Finnce, 2022
And about trying to be an example for others, dear soul, we all failed. That was one of the 2 reasons CHRIST came to be among us, TO SET AN AXAMPLE OF HOW TO LIVE ( LIVE AND SIN NOT).
We, humans, no matter our gender, age and race - we all FAILED. Many still FAILING.
Romans 3:23 | View whole chapter | See verse in context For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; Lamentations 5:16 | View whole chapter | See verse in context The crown is fallen from our head: woe unto us, that we have sinned!
Jeremiah 33:8 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And I will cleanse them from all their iniquity, whereby they have sinned against me; and I will pardon all their iniquities, whereby they have sinned, and whereby they have transgressed against me.
Romans 2:12 | View whole chapter | See verse in context For as many as have sinned without law shall also perish without law: and as many as have sinned in the law shall be judged by the law; Romans 5:12 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
Therefore worried not about topics, that are not yours to do. For yours to do is:
- REPENT,
- BORN AGAIN,
- EXPOSE THE EVIL DOERS,
- KEEP THE 10 COMMANDMENTS.
= DO THE WILL OF GOD. (get saved and return home after time on earth is done aka earthly death have accrued.
There`s nothing carnal to be saved, ONLY SPIRITUAL. You, me and other humans - we are all SPIRITS.
1 Corinthians 15:53 | View whole chapter | See verse in context For this corruptible must put on incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality.
Therefore, if what once was carnal, becomes SPIRITUAL, then why we should worrie about what`s carnal?
To those; who believe them being mentally ill and suicidal: 1 Corinthians 3:16-17 - Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? (Read More...) Ecclesiastes 7:17 - Be not over much wicked, neither be thou foolish: why shouldest thou die before thy time? Psalms 34:17-20 - The righteous cry, and the LORD heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles. (Read More...) 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 - What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? (Read More...) Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Proverbs 3:5-6 - Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. (Read More...) 1 Corinthians 6:20 - For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. 1 Corinthians 3:17 - If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are. Psalms 13:2-4 - How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart daily? how long shall mine enemy be exalted over me? (Read More...) Psalms 147:3 - He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds. John 12:25 - He that loveth his life shall lose it; and he that hateth his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal. Deuteronomy 30:19 - I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live: 2 Corinthians 12:9 - And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Romans 10:13 - For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. John 10:28 - And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand. After all, we all were lied about LIFE AND LIVING. So why should we die before our times? For lies? Is it not knowledge that truly keep us safe? ua-cam.com/channels/2ngIq9YI0c31pJ1YWLh69Q.htmlplaylists And no, we are not Conspirators We are whose who expose the evil doers royals and freemasons. Psalms 26:5 | View whole chapter | See verse in context I have hated the congregation of evil doers; and will not sit with the wicked. Job 8:20 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Behold, God will not cast away a perfect man, neither will he help the evil doers: James 1:22 | View whole chapter | See verse in context But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. Romans 2:13 | View whole chapter | See verse in context (For not the hearers of the law are just before God, but the doers of the law shall be justified. Jeremiah 26:3 | View whole chapter | See verse in context If so be they will hearken, and turn every man from his evil way, that I may repent me of the evil, which I purpose to do unto them because of the evil of their doings. Psalms 101:8 | View whole chapter | See verse in context I will early destroy all the wicked of the land; that I may cut off all wicked doers from the city of the LORD. Ezekiel 7:5 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Thus saith the Lord GOD; An evil, an only evil, behold, is come. Romans 12:17 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. James 4:4 - Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God. Romans 12:2 - And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. 1 John 3:13 - Marvel not, my brethren, if the world hate you. 1 John 2:15 - Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 1 John 5:19 - And we know that we are of God, and the whole world lieth in wickedness. 1 John 2:1-29 - My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous: (Read More...) James 1:27 - Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world. James 4:1-17 - From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members? (Read More...) Ephesians 5:11 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. Mark 8:36 | View whole chapter | See verse in context For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Luke 9:25 | View whole chapter | See verse in context For what is a man advantaged, if he gain the whole world, and lose himself, or be cast away? Matthew 16:26 | View whole chapter | See verse in context For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? Ecclesiastes 1:3 | View whole chapter | See verse in context What profit hath a man of all his labour which he taketh under the sun?
NASA still lies. and the dome still cover all our heads, no matter does one reads out of bible, the world of "round" or "flat". The word "FLAT" is used, to help to break the nasa spell. For there is only 3 HEAVENS - 1 earth - 1 Hell. There is nothing more. Above us and below us are THE WATERS. (for we were placed to live in the endless oceans - so to speak). Is that more clearer? Or do some of you still don`t have the heavenly wisdom and understanding? Where`s the COMFORTER? - Why haven`t you all received HIM?
As long as we still state that: "no, no - the earth is still round" - we keep the nasa lie alive and lose souls to satan and risk to be the CAST AWAYS ourselves. Why on earth are we (some of us) THAT BIG FOOLS? Luke 9:25 | View whole chapter | See verse in context For what is a man advantaged, if he gain the whole world, and lose himself, or be cast away?
@@theharshtruthoutthere Congrats ig. Not listening tho
@@MJ-dw3zc to not kill humans, not even in your thoughts. Humans thoughs = their actions, cause if it were possible, many amongst us will act their though out.
And analysing humans, sadly we ain`t very caring at all. Sadly, many amongst us is like:
John 8:44chapter context similar meaning copy save Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it
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Dear souls, who were too prideful to listen: Dear souls, we told you so (we have told ye all that was needful to say):
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ua-cam.com/video/xfnc3f92O_I/v-deo.html (mRNA (Speed of Science) - ORIGINAL SONG)
Different ways, but we did surely told you all about all.
Why weren´t ye all willing to take a listen? Why weren´t ye willing to search? To gain the MISSING KNOWLEDGE.
Why didn´t ye want to be FREED?
When all is truly over and we are in the day of THE JUDGMENT, getting judged by GOD righteously about all topics/spots of our lives. ua-cam.com/video/ttviqvfTBTg/v-deo.html
Those, who didn´t bother to listen nor search, all of you shall ask yourself these questions.
@@MJ-dw3zc You listening or not, you reading or not, ain´t my problem. Me not sharing knowledge, is my problem.
@@theharshtruthoutthere ok boomer
I’m glad to hear the amazing “hello underachievers!” Again. It makes feel like I’m in a safe place :)
Same
If you saw that sentence without context it would seem really weird
Same !!
@@hoopa_axolotl9293 yeah
Yeah same
I came out to 4 of my friends yesterday and I was so nervous. It wasn't planned I just had the opportunity and took it. My friend 2 minutes before me came out as bi so I came out as trans because I decided this was the time. I do not regret it and earlier one of my friends ran to my house and gave me a pride flag. Thank you Noah for helping me find my true self!
Aww that’s so sweet! Congrats on coming out! 🫶🫶
OH WOW I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU?!??? CONGRATS
@@woah2850 LOVE YOUR PFP!?! REKI IS THE BEST
@@shwethashankar3321 AHH TYSM! I ABSOLUTELY LOVE REKI LOL 🫶🫶
congrats!
Fun fact, I had dreams about being chased by wolves CONSTANTLY growing up. Years after they had stopped, I got a book of dream interpretations. Guess what one of the potential meanings for being chased by wolves was? Oppressed attraction to women. Looking back I realized, the dreams started around the beginning of puberty.... and ended WHEN I FINALLY CAME OUT TO MYSELF.
wait that's actually cool
Interesting. Wolves were traditionally tied to male sexuality. I guess that changed with the times.
yo no way lmao
@@sammyvictors2603 maybe that could be that ur being chased by all these men when rly u want a bit of women too
When I was 8 I had a dream that I was a little knight and I saved a princess from up in her tower and kissed her in the forest. This was during the time I started to not like being a girl so idk maybe this was my brain tell me something?
12:14 I use both "gay/fruity" and i'm a bisexual women-They're umbrella terms, both mean being attracted to the same sex either way
same
Gay means gay.
Thanks Noah. You have really helped me to feel comfortable with my own sexuality:)
Same here
Me too.
same bestie:))
I stopped considering myself bi when I discovered nonbinary was a thing, calling myself pan instead. but I like Alayna Joy's definition of bisexuality: "being attracted to both your own gender and others"
tldr I now identify as both
For me I stopped considering myself Pan when I read some excerpts from the Bisexual manifesto, I feel like it really affirmed to me that I am bi and that bisexuality isn't just liking girls and boys. The bisexual manifesto really gets me ✊
TLDR; Now I identify with Bisexuality
Tbh, I kind of like my (straight) boyfriend's definition of my bisexuality: I'm attracted to binary and non-binary people 💀
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought the definition of pan was that you are attracted to personality, not gender? That is why I use bi for myself, also according to the "being attracted to your gender and other genders" thought. Because I find different things attractive on masc folks and other things on femme folks. But physical look is important to me, so I don't feel pan
Bisexuality has always included non binary genders
I'm nb and bi and solely bi because I like the flag better, I have no idea what the differences between pan and bi are everyone seems to have a different answer so I'm just staying out of it
as a biromantic ace dude, it was so nice to have that mentioned! i often see people forget biromantic ppl exist
Ayyyee! Another biro ace! Hi!
Cue the Spider-Man meme
"I feel like I sound gay when I say that I love women." -Noah, a man in a long-term relationship with another man
Also I'm bi!
Also also you've given me the bi vibes since I started watching you in like 2020
Raise your hand if you were just personally attacked by a black screen.
🙋♀️
✋
I very audibly gasped after being so viciously and personally attacked😔🤚
Yes ✋
🙌 i knew someone would comment this and im gonna be honest i feel attacked we need an apology/hj
One of the biggest troubles with the het couple looking for a third thing, is that they’re soo often horribly dysfunctional mono couples who are desperately trying to save their relationship by spicing things up by toying with the idea of a threesome. I’m poly myself so I’m totally up for joining a poly couple. But that’s not what happens. You get asked by one party, you either never hear from the other or they seem uncertain with it in which case it’s obviously a no go. or they stop replying/block me after I start making actual plans to meet. It’s just time wasting
yeaaah I was just today watching a hoooorrrible serie from my country which depicted EXACTLY what you mentioned and I remember saying the same thing to my family.
break news: the str8 monogamous were not really interested in the truth :( they disgusting(my family)
Oh my, just had a similar thing happen to me recently. I met a guy in a bar, and he talked about him and his girlfriend being interested in a threesome. I said I was fine with him taking my number, but all communication has to be in a group chat with his girlfriend, just so I know she is also on board with it. I've had bad experiences where people cheated on their partners with me, telling me they are in an open relationship when that wasn't the case. Guess who never texted me?
This and also like.. I'm poly but I'm expecting and wanting a romantically intimate side too I don't just want threesomes with straight monogamous couples looking for spice!!
Does anyone have any advice for poly couples to not come across this way? I’m happily married and genuinely really want to make a connection with someone that we can both spend time with but I feel like a lot of other couples have created a bad reputation for poly couples by treating the person they bring in poorly or like an object:(
@@kjlucky6501 honestly, just be friendly and chill, and not creepy. Be open about exactly what you both want and don't want. It helps if the person meets you both, not just one of you, so they know you are both into it, and they can see your chemistry and decide if it is something they want to get into. In my experience, these situations are tricky to navigate for everyone involved, and can sometimes feel like playing with a loaded gun of feelings knowing it will go off at some point. Everyone should be mature enough, and communicate clearly exactly what they want and what are they feeling at all times. That is just my two cents about it, good luck to you, I hope you and your partner find the right person for you ❤️
I am a non binary bisexual person and I hope y'all have a wonderful day!! 🏳️🌈
Rock on Kate!
I was once told by someone "I'm bi, but I could never date a girl or a nb person, only men. I just think women are beautiful."
2:22 I get this all the time, people think I'm straight and I'm just lying to myself. Sometimes I feel too gay to hang out with straight people and too straight to hang out with gay people :/. ANYWAY WELCOME BACK NOAH!!!
You literally described me
Absolutely, the worst part for me is having a bunch of gay and bi friends and then dealing with judgement for being happy with my bf. I'm still bi, just in a relationship with a man. Would it be different if they found out he's my first bf and I only dated women before him?
@@corridawn3851 Literally bro, just let bi/pan/omni/poly people date people of the opposite gender. Same for heteroromantic ace people, they're still part of the community.
Most of these seem very gatekeep-y. And the ones that just throw adjectives seem ridiculous. Those aren't inherently bi. Everybody is different 🙄
Gatekeep-y? Actually the opposite. I'm not even trans yet you have no idea how many people from both withing and outside the LGBT swore to me that they knew I was trans or intersex or gay/lesbian. The LGBT members especially seem very fond of all the billions of tags and labels both about themselves and others so much so that there are some out there who wouldn't even identify you as a human if you don't immediately tell them your tags or labels!!!
the one about "if you wear this you are a FAKE BI!!!" like how does an outfit have anything to do with what you are attracted too... the hell?????
8:10 Thanks for the biromantic rep! Not many ppl talk about being bi but still ace
I’m a lesbian and I know this might sound a little silly, but I’m ridiculously attracted to both femme and masc women. And the attraction feels very different but great in their own ways. I hear that’s a lot how bisexuals feel with men vs women, so in a way I relate to that in the way that I don’t have a particular type and can find myself attracted to multiple different women and other non men.
i don’t think that’s silly at all! you are very valid 🫶🏽
You helped me find out im transgender and i also found out my parents are transphobic so that is something
It's ok you have loads of other people who support you like I support you 100% my parents don't support me being bisexual and non-binary so I'm living with people who don't support me but hey here I am and you be you for yourself not for others just remember you're loved and supported ❤️
same for me. My mom is homophobic and transphobic, aaand unfortunately I just so happen to be bi and trans, so isn't that just lovely? But I do think you're 1000% valid so dw abt them
@@lausiv my mom is really transphobic and she is like “i don’t hate the gays and stuff i just don’t want them all over in my face” andnthen she gets a trans pan kid so that is really good right?
@@lausiv I support you no matter what ❤️
@@emmads5400 like I said you have other people who love and support you so don't worry about them just be you ok
As a person who's currently bicurious and confused as hell about myself, I can say those pov tiktoks honestly just confused me more
༼༎ຶᴗ༎ຶ༽ but I love your channel and it's community because I feel very comfortable in it! Your channel helps remind me that I'm in no rush to find myself and that's comforting 🫶
i am 100% of my bisexuality and honestly, i felt like too many of these tiktoks were oddly gatekeepy and just plain confusing, so can't blame ya there, lol
i hope you can find out what identity fits best though!!
@@Valentina-mv2ux thanks! I also hope to some day 🫶
as a bi woman i had such a hard time accepting the fact that im bisexual, like i kept trying to convince myself im either a lesbian or straight :'))
big mood
9:39
The funny thing is, I liked all these things before I realized I was bi
I just say I'm gay because explaining pansexuality and answering all the questions about it would be so annoying to keep doing, so I just say I'm gay
kinda like me but I am still not sure if I am bi, pan, poly, idek
You could always use queer as a catch all term
yeah exactly everyone thinks that pansexuality is like being bisexual and if i explain it they don't understand so when they ask me my sexuality I just say that I'm gay
@@goodnightosaka That is true, but also in my personal experience people give me shit every time I say it so it’s just easier to use the word gay in the same way.
Like I called myself queer in front of my Mom once and she gasped and told me not to call myself that, and then I had to try to explain to her that it wasn’t a bad thing and yadda yadda sometimes saying gay can just be easier lol.
my preference for men is so huge it's just easier to go by gay lol
WELCOME BACK!!! For me I am someone who identifies as Biromantic Sex-repulsed Asexual meaning that I am romantically attracted to multiple of genders yet repulsed to have sex with them and have no sexual attraction to them either
Noah: "Black screen... Its you!"
12:14. I do this all the time, I'm omni and my preference is girls over any other gender but I have like one straight friend who knows absolutely nothing and I tried to explain it to them many a time but they just didn't get it and kept saying, "So you're Bi?" and so eventually I just started telling them I was lesbian so that they would stop saying I was bi, not that there is anything bad about being Bi it's just that so many people when I explain what omni means they say, "Oh so your bi, this whole 'Omni' thing kinda seems like you're just over complicating things" and it just pisses me off so much.
Sorry about going on a little rant there, but the point is that so many people don't get it and just say, "So you're bi" when I explain it so I just tell people who I know will do that, that I'm lesbian
Cis woman here. Broke up with my then boyfriend in October 2021. I think I am turning into a bisexual ever since. Dyed my hair purple and cut them shoulder length, wearing vans 24/7, wearing baggy button up short sleeves shirts and high rise jeans, attracting all the queer girls in bars. Also i've been loving LGBTQ+ content for many years. Life's been great!
classic bisexual now all you have to do are finger guns
Just remember you’ve always been bi you probably just didn’t know it til now ❤️
I thought I was bisexual but I realized I was more biromantic so I use that term along with heterosexual. I am in a committed hetero relationship and do not really feel the need to ~explore~ or anything. But putting a label on my feelings in case anyone asked and is genuinely interest is nice though.
My “friend” told me that I’m “not pan and it’s just a phase” so I told her that she’s not straight and she’ll grow out of it…apparently she has a gf now
i'm screaming at that twist
“You do look bi”😂
As a straight person, I don’t know what makes someone look bi or gay or stuff, but so many people said I looked gay or dressed gay💀ig I’ll never know
Bro you are my idol. I’ve been so nervous to come out as Trans to my parents. My dad told me I’m a girl not a boy and says i cannot change. My mom also said the same thing
I actually found a correlation in research between bisexuality and ADHD. I think that might explain some of the confused, impulsive, unfocused, and indecisive stereotypes. 😂
My mom is bisexual and has adhd, and I am also bisexual and have adhd😂 so this is funny to hear
Um. Whoa. Well, in my case I knew I was bi years before I found out I had ADHD. And I'm not indecisive or all that impulsive. I just have trouble focusing.
As a fellow bi can tell you that you do give bi energy
I’m pan and basically everything Bi people go through, plus “oh so you’re Bi”
When it said “you find male and female characters hot” I felt attacked as I’ve obsessed over many different characters both male and female
WELCOME BACK!!
8:02 Biromantic Asexuals watching that tiktok:
The best part of being non-binary is that no matter who I date It's not straight.
“I don’t think I’ve every had a dream here I kissed a girl..I did have a dream last night we’re I got stabbed” 4:12
IMAO 💀
Sometimes it feels like there is this shame around being a bi woman who is dating a man as if I “chose convenience” or “conformed” when really, I have a strong preference for women and made a real effort for years to strictly pursue women and nothing ever lasted until I started seeing someone I was already friends with who happened to be a dude.
12:08 Jokes on you I'm on my pc so I can't see my reflection
7:38 has no one heard of asexuality? 😭 - a asexual bi person
The girl who is next to my locker thought I would like her (I told her I was bi) and I was like- “ma’am, I’m dating someone. I don’t like you” but now she is my friend; I will never forget it though
You're right. I call myself bisexual, but if I go into details, I'm actually Grey-Biromantic and Grey-Heterosexual. Which in short translates to Bisexual.
4:45 remembers that one time I saw someone call people like that ✨spicy straights✨🤣
"My favorite part, personally, about being bisexual is getting atention on the internet...I'M JOKING" 😭😭😭
Also im pan and call myself gay all the time, but my friend prefers to not be called gay and just pan, so it varies from person to person but all is valid
I didn't realise how emotionally attached i am to Noah's intro and outro
I was a bisexual girl and now I'm a pansexual enby ... and I only ever dated guys ... and people are like "You're not bi/pan you'd never actually date a girl." no, I just never found one I liked romantically. I'm Androromantic. I'm mostly attracted to males or masculine presenting people. I do have a preference I recently discovered for femboys and genderfluid people.
edit: I had a straight BF. My ex was like "You can bring a girl into our relationship if you want." When I told him I might be polyamorous (I'm Ambiamorous).
I'm bi. I've never told anyone 😜 thanks for being the first people I've come out to 😘
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
@@lj296 Thank you! I have the biggest smile right now 🥲
@@averycaveness6304 I’m so glad :)
As a bisexual female. I'm actually more attracted to men surprisingly. However, I've dated a few amazing girls. Both are good. But I am surprised that most bisexual females say they like women more 🤔
Bisexual woman(?) here, i think some girlies can relate to me - i would say i'm homoromantic bisexual therefore i technically like women more than men
and you are extremely valid!
i'm sure there are many others like you, but they might feel less encouraged to express their attraction in queer spaces because of a pressure to be more into the same gender (?)
but all shades and flavors of bisexual are lovely and amazing ❤️
@@Valentina-mv2ux oh yea for sure, we get shat on by some lgbt people for being "too straight" already, having a preference towards the opposide gender surely makes the biphobia from lgbt people even worse
because that's their preference? why is that so confusing to you?
@@toomanysandwiches8665 she was just saying she's surprised, no need to be offended
Hey Noah as a bi man I can feel the bi vibes around you if it makes sense 😅😊. Welcome back 🥰
i'm a bi she/they with a straight boyfriend and it was kinda scary when we first started dating bc i didn't know how to talk to him about gender related things but he was so cool about it and understanding and even bought me a binder (i couldnt afford one) 😭❤️ i love him lots, he's the best!
his family though.... VERY much not okay with lgbt+ people and that's been tough but he's always been supportive and confronts them when they say some dumb shit. its the bare minimum i guess, but also something kind of rare (based on what i've heard)
I don't care if anyone of any sexuality uses gay to describe themselves. what bothers me is people calling the lgbtq+ community "gay community" because that excludes pretty much all gender identities and kind of also the aromantic and asexual spectrum (yes, some aspec people use gay, no problem with that, but others don't, cause... no attraction to the same gender)
Welcome back Noah! watching your videos makes me feel secure in being Apathetic Gender. Thank you so so so much
Would you mind explaining what Apathetic Gender is? Just curious:)
@@hunter1739 Yes ofc!, essentially its where you feel as if your gender is neither boy nor girl and you just as a person. And as I dont really know nor do I care what gender I really am. I really hope this helped you and many others understand, Im so happy i got to explain it to you :D.
@@bouncy_bee8296 Thank you!
@@hunter1739 No problem, I love giving people more opportunity to learn about this stuff, and it makes me genuinely happy
@@bouncy_bee8296 wow, I’ve never heard of that, but it describes me perfectly! 😊 I usually just describe myself generically as non-binary, since it’s an umbrella term, but it’s cool to know of specific terms also!
(The TikTok at 9:05)
So basically all bi people are just neurodivergent …
Me being bi and having adhd is not a very good example against this
(Also according to autocorrect neurodivergent isn’t a word 💀💀)
a fellow bi with adhd! ❤
Welcome back! As an aromantic asexual, I guess I'm your polar opposite. lol.
Hi noah i just wanted to say thank you.
Im a lesbian who is still in the closet and you just inspire me so much im only 13 and i am scared of other peoples opinions so just thank you for making me realize that im still a human
Hey I’m 13 too, and I’m bisexual. Don’t be scared of what other people think, if they don’t accept you that says a lot more about them then it does about you. Also Noah is amazing, he helped me come out to my parents. You got this ❤️
Hi!! I'm 14 and also a lesbian, don't worry about what ppl think!! If people aren't going to accept you for who you are, that's their problem, not yours. You are valid and awesome, and don't let anybody tell you any different!!!
So my current friend group is 4 people: me (a bi transmasc), a bi cis dude, a bi trans dude, and our token cishet guy friend. The three of us bi guys didn't know the others were bi until months in. It was a friendship meant to be.
As a bi who sometimes still question my sexuality of whether im straight or bi or lesbian or pan or whatever else, this helps out a lot for making my day and accepting myself, so thanks a lot! :D
I told my parents I’m a pan oriented aroace and their reaction was like: you don’t know anything, you’ve never been in a relationship, you’ve never seen the world! And now I don’t know how to tell them that I Don’t Want To Be In A Relationship. Like, Ever.
11:25 Incorrect I’m bisexual and I’m never hungry like sometimes I just don’t eat for like two days because I don’t feel like it
You've helped me with so much. I seriously appreciate all that you do. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
I consider myself queer, but like all genders and my preferences change. I don't want a label, but i also sometimes wish i had one bc when i say i'm queer people think im just questioning. :/
I’m kind of in the same boat as you. I like all genders and my preferences are kinda just all over the place and I personally just stopped paying attention to them as a whole lol😭
I’d like to label myself as queer, but I don’t want to be asked a million questions about my identity or have too many assumptions thrown at me- so I just say I’m bisexual for ease. But I don’t really identify with the label, I haven’t really felt connected to it for years :/
11:15 that video described me perfectly but I’ve literally known I was a lesbian since 2nd grade (also I’ve never liked a guy)
I hate when members of the community comment on the fact that because Im bisexual, Ill most likely "just end up lesbian." as if I don't question my sexuality enough. Like, I get that bisexuality is just a phase for some people, but why tf are you telling me about MY OWN sexuality????
1:10 lol relatable on the rare occasion when I like men it still feels gay
the people in this comment section are absolutely adorable.
4:38 that creator actually is bi! he just makes a lot of posts about getting pegged
...noice
I’m aspec but I’ve always called myself gay, now trying to autocorrect it to queer to be more correct. The end of your video made me think for a bit and I might stop trying to correct myself☺️
my reaction to most of these tiktoks was like😐... why are there so many biphobic and gatekeepy people ahh... wish there wasnt so much in-fighting
i thought the majority of these tiktoks were gonna be about like "the experience of having crushes on both guys and girls in cartoons when you're a kid" (zuko and ty lee hehehhehehe)
WELCOME BACK !!!!! noah ur so like nnnghhh ur such an idol for me im starting to think im trans ftm and youve like helped me through it
🏳️🌈 I am Bisexual and I like men and women. For me, I can't decide between men or women. 🏳️🌈
8:48 I feel personal attacked by this one part I have blue hair a fake nose ring and I wear vans so Ig I’m a fake bisexual…ok
You helped me get the courage to tell my mother that I’m trans so I just wanted to say thank you:)
WELCOME BACK NOAH!! TOUR WAS SICK!
Awesome that you made a reference to biromantic ppl, it's not all about who someone sleeps or doesn't sleep with
My mom told me that every girl went to a Bisexual phase… then I realized they don’t. Also my parents told me I couldn’t change my pronouns because “that’s not how it works” I fr let them bully and gaslight me into thinking I can’t use she/they pronouns 😂😂 glad I’m gone
5:48 NOT THE BIOLATIORS 😫
i think not enough people know what being biromantic is lol
I have a friend who was gay and then after his boyfriend broke up with him he started only liking girls and says he's straight
One of the best things I’ve heard is that sexuality is based on attraction, and not action! Is especially nice for those of us who’ve never slept with anyone.
Welcome back!!! Love your videos so much Noah!!!! You make me feel so safe on your channel!!
the "I'm bi but i won't sleep with x" can just mean biromantic, but people sometimes don't know all the labels
Welcome back Noah! I actually didn't know 'gay' is used as an umbrella term (straight woman here, I just don't), I have a friend who is firmly in the Gay Camp, he's never been ambiguous about his sexuality, he identifies as all gay, has boyfriends and all that, but now and again tells me about women he erm has relations with. I never questioned it because I don't really care that much about people's sexuality, but I have wondered why he doesn't say he's bi. Now hearing "I'm gay AND bi" somehow makes sense in a weird (to me) way, so thanks for that. Trans youtube doing the good work here so straight people will someday do :)
8:10
as a bi (who is also ace), i mostly try to say bi, but i also will use bisexual instead of biromantic, mainly because it is too confusing to explain the whole "i am asexual and biromantic" thing because a lot of people are stupid and will not understand lmao
so yeah, bisexual it is.
Welcome back Noah!!! Hearing “hello underachivers” makes me feel safe I’ve never been this early!
noah casually saying he was stabbed in a dream slightly scares me and makes me question him
10:24 I related so much to this!! My ex boyfriend grew up thinking he was straight and was more or less denying his fruity side until our relationship. There were just so many things that he not understand, relate to or know about. I don’t blame him at all because heteronormativity is a real bitch but at times it was really exhausting having to explain things about LGBT+ topics to him that seemed like common knowledge to me. Also internalized homo- and transphobia were things that I had to deal with and shit was no fun. He’s a kind and open minded person don’t get me wrong but it just wasn’t my job to educate him
As a bi girl it reeeeeeeally annoys me when ever I’m nice to another girl my friends go OoOh Do YoU hAvE a CrUsH oN hEr. Lik, no, I don’t fall in love with everyone I see!