that is not a chad or tyrone or a bad boy,but a hard working man with both feet planted firmly on the ground,and women cheat on that every day,with said bad boy.
I like how the sister whines how she "can't trust anyone, even family" when she was the one trying to seduce her own sister's boyfriend and her cousin's boyfriend before that. Good on the cousin for calling out her BS.
All I know is that op better not spend the night at her parents house EVER! With how psychotic that sister sounds it would not suprise me if she try's something. I might be paranoid but as the saying goes "hell hath no fury, like the fury of a scorned woman". And this chick probably thinks she's been scorned.
@@jaye4157 You're not the only one. I got cheated on by a girl in high school. When she got dumped and tried to get back together with me, I tolder no and called her a 4or for what she did (I was a virgin and she had lost hers to the guy who she cheated on me with) She called me a sexist and rumors spread through that I was a sexist racist nazi kkk member. Needless to say, I blocked her and anyone who took her side.
@@noonespecial9704 I mean, calling her a wh*re is a sexist insult. But you absolutely didn't deserve either to be cheated on or to have that vile rumor going around about you.
"Hannah's friends liked Bea's comment calling Hannah out for flirting with people's boyfriends." Yeah, that gives me the feeling that Hannah got a little too personal with some of their bfs too.
I have no doubt. She has serious boundary issues. The parents seriously failed her. She still thinks she can take from others if they have something she wants with no consequences. Im glad Bea called her out.
he was probably worried that she might not be ready for long term relationship talk but it looks like it worked out for the best for both of them :) it was a great message
"He's like family" Uh, I live with my siblings, and I would rather bite my own fingers off than have any of them see me in my underwear. Sister is full of it.
Damn the bf is such a nice guy and I love the message he sent to Hannah. He is so right that kind of behavior to attract a man will attract the wrong man . She needs to grow up a lot .
So Glad they have good communication in their relationship! Sis needs therapy to undo the superiority complex the parents instilled in her! She also got no support from her friends because she was doing the same thing to them!
Agreed. He not only confirmed his relationship with OP (and a hint of the future) but respectfully gave Hannah a real life lesson. She's probably to self absorbed to take it to heart, though. But that guy is a keeper.
Glad OP was able to get the harlot-sister out. Pretty RICH that the parents thought OP was going to be the promiscuous one! Quite surprised they helped take the trash out. But OP should not let them off the hook, unless they're prepared to apologize for all the crap they've put her through. Since they only care about their precious reputation, I doubt that's going to happen.
OP needs to get closer to literally everyone else in the family. They can provide a support network and also rake the parents over hot coals for any other stupidity. They will eventually give in to the little princess if unchecked. I hope OP is ready for that.
The boyfriend replied to her very appropriately, (from my perspective) and that's great, but I really do hope OP'S sister can see herself for the person she's become and pulls a 180.
More than likely it’ll take her most of her life to pull a 180. Being raised as a golden child makes the consequences of your actions everyone else’s fault. My own mother is 50 and still acts like this. OPs parents raised a monster and will probably continue to enable Hannah too, which won’t help her.
Nope. Wrong. He did EXACTLY what was required to. The man was being sexually harassed and preyed upon. Victims, male/female/non-bi's, ALL have the right to speak up. The toxic sister needs the wake up call the parents won't give. She lives in such a warped reality that she can't see anything wrong with her behavior. She's been enabled and given the golden ladle all her life. He is right. This behavior will eventually attract a dangerous man. Who WILL take advantage. She needs a severe wakeup and you can't do that with baby talk or gentle behavior. The wakeup call will be a horrible one if she ends up in an abusive situation. It's not a way anyone should be woken up to reality. But it will be hers if this doesn't snap her out of it.
The only way that will change is if everyone around her stops enabling her. For that reason, it was good that the bf told her what he really thought of her.
She’s just turned an adult and is under 25. There may be hope yet, but it’ll require a huge overhaul to her reference level. (And, of course, the enabling has to STOP.) Her personality isn’t fully set, but I’m also not going to hold my breath either. Here’s hoping for the best.
My sister slept with all the guys I was ever interested in. If I had a “school boyfriend” the innocent, holding hands, occasional kiss kinda relationship, she screwed them, telling them I was too frigid to “put out” but she was “a passionate woman” she was 2 years younger than me. Ok I might be a bit uptight, but I was SA as a young child and R’d when I was 13. When I was in college my sister slept with my first real boyfriend, in our family home while I was upstairs in my room! I actually caught them, my parents decided I either imagined it or was sleep walking. So he swiftly became my ex and my parents treated me terribly because they liked him and I was throwing away the best man I’d ever know. In evening during college my sister got a job working in the same pub as me, and she screwed all the Male staff, and was caught screwing a customer while on duty... our boss caught her! When I met my husband, she came on to him... he replied with “pack it in you weirdo!” She’s had several husbands now and she cheated on all her husband’s, but told everyone they cheated on her. She’s cheating on husband no 4 with the guy she wants to be husband no 5. Husband no 4 believe she was divorced ONCE because he cheated and abused her. So she cut off anyone who could let slip that she had so many exes. She didn’t even visit our parents when they passed. She came to the funerals, but left in her arms of her husband and she was “sooooo upset” she did the same “trying to leave, got too upset and fainted” act at both funerals. She has most of the family believing her crap, she has to aunts adoring her, but I know she screwed BOTH of their husbands too... she will joke about how ALL men want her, none are off limits or out of bounds or can resist her charms. She almost got a teacher fired from our old HS. She hit on him, he was the “young, cute, inexperienced” archetype. He told her off.... she was so angry she waiting until she was in college. She saw him out with friends drunk and she slept with him, perfectly fine and legally... but then she tried telling people they slept together... true. But it was while he was her teacher... blatant lie! Sometimes family are NOT family, you just have to let them go... for your own family and sanity...
I feel bad for the ex husbands cause their reputations are basically ruined. You gotta find them and expose her lies through messages and show them to the family. Record a conversation or something to prove she's lying. I'm one for giving people what they deserve, an eye for an eye, an arm for an arm, broken hearts for broken hearts
Agree with kicking the sister out. The BF needs to be fully on-board with that. Severing the ties with her toxic family is the only way to go. Immaturity is no excuse for her actions. But the BF is the real hero here in this one.
Parents have lost face with the extended family thanks to OP's spoiled sister's behaviour. They will have to work very hard to regain status and the sister will find her special status gone.
Yeah, that's the only reason why they finally decided to act like actual parents. I wonder how long it will last. They've treated OP horribly and said awful things to her in the past, and treated "Hannah" like she can do no wrong/let her get away with anything.
There are some lines even family can't come back from, no matter how much dom(vin diesal) says otherwise. The parent's doing this sort of bs as long as they have is not something they'll likely ever fully come back from. My parents and i almost had an irreparable divide because we disagree on how the world works. By that i mean i was laid off due to covid related shut downs. Spent 1 year applying to over a thousand places with no luck. Coasting on my savings while teaching myself new skills and looking for work. They felt i wasn't trying hard enough and that evicting me would somehow be a motivater. At which point i plainly stated that theyd put their son on the streets during a pandemic for being unable to get a job during a time where no one was hiring. Pushed me to suicidal tendencies as I've never been able to live for myself but for others. And i hit a point where i saw no road that lead to my being able to help others. So i didn't see a point in living anymore. That got them to back off and consider group therapy. Which helped a lot. I still don't know how to live for myself and i don't think i ever will. But i managed to get a job and have been more involved in my siblings lives now and that gives me something to live for. I honestly have no idea what my condition is but it sucks. Its great when u have someone/a group of people i can devote myself to. But when im cut off and isolated I'm just lost on what to do. Ill just be like a drone. Wake up. Work. Go home. Sit there. Not doing anything as nothing gives me joy when alone. So i fall asleep. Day after day after day. I basically NEED another human to be doing something with me in order for me to have joy in my life. Although I've gotten good at distracting myself with making jam, homework, learning new skills, and whatever else i can distract my brain with. But yea. I haven't fully forgiven my folks for their threat. Plus im a co owner and my college funds were used as the downpayment. So like idk if they could evict me like a normal tenant. But yea. Family can cause irreparable damage. Arguably more so than non family.
Love how Hannah said you can't trust anyone, even family. Like really.? The hypocricy is real. "If you help me there'll be something nice in it for you ;)." She didn't learn anything. If he didn't take the bait before why did she think he would now.? I'm glad he shut that shit down. Hannah thinks she's some prize but she really isn't. Man I would have loved to have seen hannahs face when she read OP's bf's response
One day I hope the parents realize just how badly they messed up and genuinely apologize for how they treated op. I can’t imagine having a good kid and insulting and belittling her the way that they have just because she happened to have a boyfriend she kept from them. it’s really pathetic
There is zero chance of that. The only reason they acted was because they thought the BF was a “catch”. If he wasn’t they’d be whining all day long about Op. they don’t care about Op only their “reputation”
Omg when the bf was hesitant to show her the sister's facebook message, I thought, "oh noooo he didn't! He's been flirting or leading her on!". I was so surprised that it was actually THE PERFECT RESPONSE we wish a partner would respond with. He is definitely a good guy and loves OP. great story @Lostgenre 👏 👌 👍
@@Fcutdlady Exactly. They WANT to be victims and you beating them down may feel like vindication at the time, but you've just given them all the ammo they need.
I've have a friend with a sister like op's. She's never learned that actions have consequences, and continues to be the perpetual victim, it's always someone else's fault. Some people just never get it.
I have that same friend! She burned bridges and caused so many fights. We think she's attracted to the unavailable guys, gets a thrill out of chasing them. A lot of the girls hate her because they caught her flirting with their bfs through text. Heck my cousin from a different part of the country hates her for flirting with her bf online, my younger sister's friends hate her for being a college student flirting with high schoolers.
She won't like what happens to her either. Because people who truly love one another will IMMEADIATELY shut someone down who is trying to hit on them. So again she won't like what happens to her. Because most normal people don't tolerate this type of behavior tbf.
Several of the comments remark that she is 18, not 15. It's not about age, it's a major parenting failure. If one of my siblings acted like this at any age, my parents would have gone scorched earth. I'm so glad I don't have sisters when I read these stories.
I hope the cousin who saw and commented on the status, tells her parents that Hannah is up to it again and then in turn the parents tell the extended family. It seems like Hannah and OP parents will ONLY do anything if it means it will otherwise "ruin their reputation". Its so infuriating when people are like this, only caring about public perception and not actually trying to be good people/raise good people.
Have you ever noticed that people who are obsessed with putting up the _image_ of being good oftentimes have some of the worst dirty secrets? They are about reputation and face more than actually just being decent people.
I love this OP, her cousin, and her boyfriend. "You can get out or get your a** beat." And Bea's pettiness on Facebook - hahahahahahahahahaha. I love it!
Sister is on her way to an unhappy life and she will continue to be a thorn in the couple's side, not with flirting but single motherhood, wanting financial help, complaining about sister's good life, etc
Why have children if you hate them?? Like, I honestly don't understand. "Hey, I'm going to go through the hard work of raising this human for several years and then call her names, antagonize her and push her away completely! Yeah, that sounds about right!" What??? Lmao "how does it feel to kick your sister out on the streets". Girl, you're not going to the streets. You're going home to your cushy home where your parents will pay for everything. You just don't want to go back because your parents will actually be doing some long, overdue parenting for a change.
Because a lot of parents feel like their kids, first of all, have to _earn_ their love, and only exist in the first place to serve the parents purposes. That's exactly why a lot of parents have children specifically for the reason to support them once they are elderly, or to ensure that they raise a clone of themselves to take over their personal business, etc. I have seen both of these happen, though mainly the former.
wow, OP's sister has some serious issues. "Punishing" her is not going to work. She needs a mental health evaluation and some serious counseling. The parents need a kick in the ass for creating this monster.
Story 1 OP needs to talk to her sister and also her parents. OP's parents must be made to see how inappropriate her sisters behaviour is. The sister is 18 and old enough to know that her behaviour is wrong. If her sister really doesn't know any better then OP's parents have failed to bring her up properly.
The OP should also add that what she is doing is considered sexual harassment and can get their little golden child put in jail, if the boyfriend decides to press charges.
Some stories are just too much, I think some people are not normal. I have 3 older sisters, with one being 4 years older than me so we are so close. I have never even thought any person my sister was dating as being attractive and if my sister breaks up with someone, no matter how friendly they are, I no longer speak with them. My loyalty is to my sister.
OPs sister is a disgusting person for disrepecting her family members and their partners in the way she acts. She tries that with the wrong person now she is an adult and she is probably going to get beaten up over it a few times before she learns her lesson.
In the series: How I Met Your Mother, there is a episode about Shattering mirror, when your image of someone breaks like a mirror breaking. I think that was what happened to her parents. OP was Lucky because her parents werent entitled like her sister, they were only misled by the sister and in denial.
The good thing is that OP is finally get rid of her terrible sister. The bad news is that sister is never going to change according to OP last update. Her behaviour is unsufferable and she did look like she didnt learn a thing. Welp, its going to backfired to her parent anyway and OP doesnt have any good relationship with her parent either.
Im so glad my sister is asexual and has a good set of morals. Edit: ACE GANG!!! 😃 Yes, I'm close to my sister. She's a great person and a hardworker. She has always been there for me with my struggles, and I do the same for her. We're polar opposites, but I love her. 🙂
I love this story and this is an ACTUAL happy ending because OP has a heck of a catch of a man who despite continuously being seduced and disrespected by Hannah, he cared enough to give her brotherly advice, and never paid any attention to sister's antics.
While I understand how people feel about shaming and bullying, I think OP's sister needs to be publicly humiliated (like the FB comment) in order to change her ways. Shitty people rely on everyone else being afraid of confrontation to get what they want. Hopefully her whole "I can do what I want" attitude doesn't lead her to a really bad situation because what OP said was true. This is the real world and you can't be protected from the consequences of your actions
If Hannah moves in with roommates, if they're guys, she's gonna go after them; if she moves in with other girls and They have boyfriends, she's gonna go after Them. She seems to be a predator based on proximity.
I'm astounded by the level of disrespect the sister is showing to OP by trying to seduce her boyfriend. She's not even subtle about it. Seriously, who walks around in a thong and tank top in front of your sister's intimate partner? By the age of 18, any sane, normal human being knows what behaviour is acceptable as opposed to what's not. It's time for little sister to pack her bags and "hit the road."
1st story - If you need to let your sister abuse you in order for you to "have a family", you never had them to begin with. It's only a matter of time before they disown you. Kick. Her. Out.
I’m happy that OP is finally okay in her own home far away from her sister, but I think trying to reach out to her parents again is the wrong call, as she said, they don’t care about their golden child actions except when it is THEM getting the wrong end of the stick, if she tries to talk to them about her sister’s actions they will only try to excuse her saying things like “she’s only a child” “well, you _could’ve_ watch over her better” _it was all because of the city’s influence” and things like that And as long as it’s not flirting with someone else’s boyfriend they’ll let her get away with everything again while reprimanding OP for the smallest mistakes. The only way for OP to make their parents take her issues seriously would be to Threaten them to post her sister’s actions on Facebook for the whole family tree to see and reprimand them for it. Because as she said, their reputation in the family is the only thing they care about
Honestly, I'm petty. I wouldn't give them the chance myself. This would be on Facebook already. OP already knows what they are like. They won't give her any respect, they won't change and they won't take her seriously. I don't think it would be worth wasting time. Let the rest of the family know what her sister did, let them know how the parents failed to handle it, as well as everything they said about OP in high school. Let their reputation burn, they deserve it.
I'd start getting closer to everyone else in the family, they'd be a support network and can decimate the parents if they start being stupid again. Then even if OP cuts off her family she'll have everyone else to rely on
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That boyfriend is just stellar, not only playing it calm with this whole craziness, letting his GF crash at his place, offering to talk to the sister, but that message! Not only shutting her down, but doing it nicely and firm, and giving her damn good life advice!
That boyfriend needs to set his phone to record when OP leaves the room. OP needs to then have a talk with the parents and include the recording. The boyfriend needs to get a restraining order on crazy girl. This needs to be recorded with the police before crazy sister accuses him of something.
Sometimes people's desire to hurt someone is what motivates other desires. Like for example i remember a story where the sister wanted ops partner, but only to hurt her sister, and also stole the ops kids name which the sister had no ties to. She only wanted the name since she knew op wanted that special name. Some people just get joy seeing others hurt.
She never would’ve been kicked out if she just controlled herself. The world does not revolve around her. I’m glad the parents finally actually did something.
Lol the 18 year old saying “I’m an adult now so i can do whatever i want” made me laugh…. pretty sure i said the same thing at 18 (26 now btw) and uh spoiler alert….. i was very much still a kid lmfaooo only children say that 😂
I've been around the block a few times, and I hope OP is aware Hannah will almost certainly consider OP's BF as 'the one that got away' and her sister as the one who denied her that goal. I'm fairly certain, as her parents attempt at this very late date to rein her behavior in, Hannah will blame OP for all her woes, despising OP for exposing her to their parents, At some point, when she's grown a little more crafty, Hannah might attempt a believable contrition, saying she's learned her lesson, and was just a silly, immature child, but revenge will be something she dreams about and will take any available opportunity to grasp.
Okay, so if OP’s parents said all these nasty things and made unfounded assumptions about her, why would she even want them to be a part of her life? It sounds like she’d do much better to be rid of both of them. Having a relationship with her parents would not be worth it if this is what it’s gonna get her. She is literally getting nothing out of these relationships but grief. Ditch both of them, parents and sister and move on. After update edit: While I’m glad to hear that the parents were proactive about the situation and didn’t try to defend their daughters actions, the only reason they took the action they did was because their daughters behavior was starting to reflect poorly on them and I can’t help but feel that they just would have ignored things and let them persist had this not been the case, so either way, OP’s parents SUCK and I’d advise OP to keep them at arms length if she still wishes to have some sort of relationship with them as it was their fault things came to this point anyway.
"Im not a little kid i can do what i want." Says the one who doesn't even pay her own rent. I believe her when she says she doesn't even like ops bf. What she does like is thinking every guy no matter who they are or if they are with someone wants her. Bet if he was scummy enough to go for it hed be gone as soon as op was over him. Just so she can say. "I was just playing, I can have anyone so why would i stay with him? Lol" trust me, i know the type. Luckily none of them are my sisters. 😂
The boyfriend is correct. If she keeps flaunting herself like that, she would only attract the wrong crowd. Your friends and the company you keep is a reflection of you. If you keep acting like you're desperate for attention, those are the only company you'd get-most likely consists of vapid and shallow people because anyone else would eventually pull away. You can't even blame people for not wanting to be around you then.
The parents aren't ashamed or anything; they're up in their game of pitting one child against another, yet again. They've just switched the 'Golden child', considering OP has managed to be a more responsible person whom they can rely on to look after them in their old age, & their social prestige by marrying right.
When parent try to gaslight op into letting little sister to stay, she needs to remind them whose name is on the lease. And tell them that any damage sis causes to ops personal properly or apartment will be paid by the parents. Then go ahead with the eviction notice.
give her thirty days notice. When she ignores it for 29 days, wait until she's out, pack her stuff, put it on the front porch, call mom and dad to pick their golden child up and change the locks because you're done with all of them
The parents acted quickly because they are trying to get in front of the rest of the family finding out that she did this crap again only this time to her own sister
Ugh, I had a former roommate like Hannah, except it was her boyfriend that tried to come on to _me_ because he recognized me from a car expo where I posed in a swimsuit as a model next to one of the cars. I had proof that he had hit on me, but my roommate wouldn’t hear of it even when I showed her my camera phone footage. She demanded I leave and tried to forcibly evict me, I had to sue her and the landlord to make it stop, and when she badmouthed me online, I uploaded and shared the video footage with one of our mutual friends, she spread the word and exonerated me. I moved out as soon as my lease was up. The worst part was that my ex roommate was doing the same things to my at-the-time-boyfriend “Lance” that which she was accusing me of doing to hers. I found out after I had moved, Lance told me everything and said he would have told me sooner, but didn’t want to cause more drama for me.
in the first story, i would take pics of little sister prancing around in her thong in front of boyfriend to send to parents. undeniable proof. wow. just read the boyfriend's message to little sis. that is a true kind hearted gentleman.
The boyfriend's reply to that message just screams HUSBAND MATERIAL.
that is not a chad or tyrone or a bad boy,but a hard working man with both feet planted firmly on the ground,and women cheat on that every day,with said bad boy.
@@runeingebretsen8378lay off the incel forums
Seriously, such a good guy.
Put a ring on him quickly LOL
I like how the sister whines how she "can't trust anyone, even family" when she was the one trying to seduce her own sister's boyfriend and her cousin's boyfriend before that. Good on the cousin for calling out her BS.
All I know is that op better not spend the night at her parents house EVER! With how psychotic that sister sounds it would not suprise me if she try's something. I might be paranoid but as the saying goes "hell hath no fury, like the fury of a scorned woman". And this chick probably thinks she's been scorned.
@@jaye4157 You're not the only one. I got cheated on by a girl in high school. When she got dumped and tried to get back together with me, I tolder no and called her a 4or for what she did (I was a virgin and she had lost hers to the guy who she cheated on me with) She called me a sexist and rumors spread through that I was a sexist racist nazi kkk member. Needless to say, I blocked her and anyone who took her side.
I hope that when OP marries, that she makes cuz Bea the MOH because she's the one person who did the most to support OP's relationship.
@@noonespecial9704 I mean, calling her a wh*re is a sexist insult. But you absolutely didn't deserve either to be cheated on or to have that vile rumor going around about you.
Plus what’s often ignored in cases like this is she’s literally sexually harassing the boyfriend and he’s just supposed to take it
"Hannah's friends liked Bea's comment calling Hannah out for flirting with people's boyfriends." Yeah, that gives me the feeling that Hannah got a little too personal with some of their bfs too.
I have no doubt. She has serious boundary issues. The parents seriously failed her. She still thinks she can take from others if they have something she wants with no consequences. Im glad Bea called her out.
Oh, I can almost guarantee it. What surprises me is that this wannabe man-thief *has* friends.
@@brigidtheirish It's probably more of *had* and that's why they liked the comment.
@@straightblackgirl Yeah, that makes sense.
I thought the same!
My heart dropped when she said her bf was hesitant to show the messages. I'm so glad he's genuinely a great guy
I know right that dude gets a giant gold star for that message
"Oh god oh god. What is she gets pissed because I tore her sister a new one? A shit. Panic. PANIK!" -OP's boyfriend when asked most likely.
he was probably worried that she might not be ready for long term relationship talk but it looks like it worked out for the best for both of them :) it was a great message
"He's like family"
Uh, I live with my siblings, and I would rather bite my own fingers off than have any of them see me in my underwear. Sister is full of it.
Exactly ! Even with family that behavior does not fly.
ESPECIALLY a thong!?😱
@@princess2none Right?? If I ever start wearing a thong, the LAST group of people I’d want to know would be my family!!??
@@drawingdame7718 🤣if you ever do...your secret is safe with me though!🤐
Seriously I grew up with three sisters and not one of them ever pranced around in underwear.
Damn the bf is such a nice guy and I love the message he sent to Hannah. He is so right that kind of behavior to attract a man will attract the wrong man . She needs to grow up a lot .
Hope OP and her b/f broke the bed together, after the trash sister was gone!
So Glad they have good communication in their relationship! Sis needs therapy to undo the superiority complex the parents instilled in her! She also got no support from her friends because she was doing the same thing to them!
Agreed. He not only confirmed his relationship with OP (and a hint of the future) but respectfully gave Hannah a real life lesson. She's probably to self absorbed to take it to heart, though. But that guy is a keeper.
That part, his message made me smile, he’s a keeper. Still trying to help the crazy sister while putting her in her place.
He was 20 going after a 15 year old
Props to a boyfriend with integrity and a shiny spine!!!
Smart babies
Glad OP was able to get the harlot-sister out. Pretty RICH that the parents thought OP was going to be the promiscuous one! Quite surprised they helped take the trash out. But OP should not let them off the hook, unless they're prepared to apologize for all the crap they've put her through. Since they only care about their precious reputation, I doubt that's going to happen.
OP needs to get closer to literally everyone else in the family. They can provide a support network and also rake the parents over hot coals for any other stupidity. They will eventually give in to the little princess if unchecked. I hope OP is ready for that.
The boyfriend replied to her very appropriately, (from my perspective) and that's great, but I really do hope OP'S sister can see herself for the person she's become and pulls a 180.
More than likely it’ll take her most of her life to pull a 180. Being raised as a golden child makes the consequences of your actions everyone else’s fault. My own mother is 50 and still acts like this. OPs parents raised a monster and will probably continue to enable Hannah too, which won’t help her.
Nope. Wrong. He did EXACTLY what was required to. The man was being sexually harassed and preyed upon. Victims, male/female/non-bi's, ALL have the right to speak up.
The toxic sister needs the wake up call the parents won't give. She lives in such a warped reality that she can't see anything wrong with her behavior. She's been enabled and given the golden ladle all her life.
He is right. This behavior will eventually attract a dangerous man. Who WILL take advantage. She needs a severe wakeup and you can't do that with baby talk or gentle behavior. The wakeup call will be a horrible one if she ends up in an abusive situation. It's not a way anyone should be woken up to reality. But it will be hers if this doesn't snap her out of it.
The boyfriend was very spot on
The only way that will change is if everyone around her stops enabling her. For that reason, it was good that the bf told her what he really thought of her.
She’s just turned an adult and is under 25. There may be hope yet, but it’ll require a huge overhaul to her reference level. (And, of course, the enabling has to STOP.) Her personality isn’t fully set, but I’m also not going to hold my breath either. Here’s hoping for the best.
My sister slept with all the guys I was ever interested in. If I had a “school boyfriend” the innocent, holding hands, occasional kiss kinda relationship, she screwed them, telling them I was too frigid to “put out” but she was “a passionate woman” she was 2 years younger than me.
Ok I might be a bit uptight, but I was SA as a young child and R’d when I was 13.
When I was in college my sister slept with my first real boyfriend, in our family home while I was upstairs in my room! I actually caught them, my parents decided I either imagined it or was sleep walking. So he swiftly became my ex and my parents treated me terribly because they liked him and I was throwing away the best man I’d ever know.
In evening during college my sister got a job working in the same pub as me, and she screwed all the Male staff, and was caught screwing a customer while on duty... our boss caught her!
When I met my husband, she came on to him... he replied with “pack it in you weirdo!”
She’s had several husbands now and she cheated on all her husband’s, but told everyone they cheated on her. She’s cheating on husband no 4 with the guy she wants to be husband no 5. Husband no 4 believe she was divorced ONCE because he cheated and abused her. So she cut off anyone who could let slip that she had so many exes. She didn’t even visit our parents when they passed. She came to the funerals, but left in her arms of her husband and she was “sooooo upset” she did the same “trying to leave, got too upset and fainted” act at both funerals.
She has most of the family believing her crap, she has to aunts adoring her, but I know she screwed BOTH of their husbands too... she will joke about how ALL men want her, none are off limits or out of bounds or can resist her charms.
She almost got a teacher fired from our old HS. She hit on him, he was the “young, cute, inexperienced” archetype. He told her off.... she was so angry she waiting until she was in college. She saw him out with friends drunk and she slept with him, perfectly fine and legally... but then she tried telling people they slept together... true. But it was while he was her teacher... blatant lie!
Sometimes family are NOT family, you just have to let them go... for your own family and sanity...
Wow. That's just sad. She's going to end up alone.
I hope no kids have the misfortune of having to call her “mom”
Wonder which one of her 'victims' might take her out one day 😆🔪
Duuuuude!!! I think she has some medical issues
I feel bad for the ex husbands cause their reputations are basically ruined. You gotta find them and expose her lies through messages and show them to the family. Record a conversation or something to prove she's lying. I'm one for giving people what they deserve, an eye for an eye, an arm for an arm, broken hearts for broken hearts
Agree with kicking the sister out. The BF needs to be fully on-board with that. Severing the ties with her toxic family is the only way to go. Immaturity is no excuse for her actions. But the BF is the real hero here in this one.
Parents have lost face with the extended family thanks to OP's spoiled sister's behaviour. They will have to work very hard to regain status and the sister will find her special status gone.
Yeah, that's the only reason why they finally decided to act like actual parents. I wonder how long it will last. They've treated OP horribly and said awful things to her in the past, and treated "Hannah" like she can do no wrong/let her get away with anything.
There are some lines even family can't come back from, no matter how much dom(vin diesal) says otherwise. The parent's doing this sort of bs as long as they have is not something they'll likely ever fully come back from. My parents and i almost had an irreparable divide because we disagree on how the world works. By that i mean i was laid off due to covid related shut downs. Spent 1 year applying to over a thousand places with no luck. Coasting on my savings while teaching myself new skills and looking for work. They felt i wasn't trying hard enough and that evicting me would somehow be a motivater. At which point i plainly stated that theyd put their son on the streets during a pandemic for being unable to get a job during a time where no one was hiring. Pushed me to suicidal tendencies as I've never been able to live for myself but for others. And i hit a point where i saw no road that lead to my being able to help others. So i didn't see a point in living anymore. That got them to back off and consider group therapy. Which helped a lot. I still don't know how to live for myself and i don't think i ever will. But i managed to get a job and have been more involved in my siblings lives now and that gives me something to live for. I honestly have no idea what my condition is but it sucks. Its great when u have someone/a group of people i can devote myself to. But when im cut off and isolated I'm just lost on what to do. Ill just be like a drone. Wake up. Work. Go home. Sit there. Not doing anything as nothing gives me joy when alone. So i fall asleep. Day after day after day. I basically NEED another human to be doing something with me in order for me to have joy in my life. Although I've gotten good at distracting myself with making jam, homework, learning new skills, and whatever else i can distract my brain with.
But yea. I haven't fully forgiven my folks for their threat. Plus im a co owner and my college funds were used as the downpayment. So like idk if they could evict me like a normal tenant. But yea. Family can cause irreparable damage. Arguably more so than non family.
I know we're giving props to OP and BF but can we also give cousin Bea a shoutout? Damn that clapback was amazing ❤️
Turned all her friends against her in one fell swoop. XD
@@TailsFan I was thinking she’s probably done this with her friends’ bfs too, and they were probably relieved when Bea spoke up
@@julianne089 that’s what I thought too. Her friends know exactly what kind of person she is.
I'd have hit her hard with, "And just because your legs are open like Denny's doesn't mean that EVERYONE will walk in."
@@julianne089 yeah they seemed ready to switch sides lol
rly don't love how no one said anything abt how hannahs behavior is literally *sexual harassment* and that makes it more than just a betrayal.
Love how Hannah said you can't trust anyone, even family. Like really.? The hypocricy is real.
"If you help me there'll be something nice in it for you ;)." She didn't learn anything. If he didn't take the bait before why did she think he would now.? I'm glad he shut that shit down. Hannah thinks she's some prize but she really isn't.
Man I would have loved to have seen hannahs face when she read OP's bf's response
One day I hope the parents realize just how badly they messed up and genuinely apologize for how they treated op. I can’t imagine having a good kid and insulting and belittling her the way that they have just because she happened to have a boyfriend she kept from them. it’s really pathetic
Yeah, and she didn't even have sex with him!
I doubt it. They only care about their precious reputation.
@@DrownedInExile As expected of SE Asians... "face" is everything :/
There is zero chance of that. The only reason they acted was because they thought the BF was a “catch”. If he wasn’t they’d be whining all day long about Op. they don’t care about Op only their “reputation”
@@fnjesusfreak S Asians too
Omg when the bf was hesitant to show her the sister's facebook message, I thought, "oh noooo he didn't! He's been flirting or leading her on!". I was so surprised that it was actually THE PERFECT RESPONSE we wish a partner would respond with. He is definitely a good guy and loves OP. great story @Lostgenre 👏 👌 👍
OPs boyfriend sounds like a solid catch for her. He responded to this in the best way possible.
I'm the older sister. And I have the harder punch. See where this is going? If my sister pulled this crap, she knows she'd be sporting two black eyes.
belive me you'd be playing right into the little "victims" hands. She'd go running to her parents and you be lucky not to have the police called.
@@Fcutdlady Exactly. They WANT to be victims and you beating them down may feel like vindication at the time, but you've just given them all the ammo they need.
Just make sure _she_ lays her hands on you _before_ throwing your own.
Depends
Damn that sister is a crazy. Even if she were my sister I would report her for sexual harassment against my boyfriend.
I love how most of the time lost is professional but occasionally his inner sassy self bleeds out. Like in the red text in the thumbnail.
😬😅😁
Honestly! That's why I love this channel!
The quiet "sad face" was absolutely hilarious. LMAO.
Hahaha he got me then because I clicked thinking the bf and sister cheated 😂
I've have a friend with a sister like op's. She's never learned that actions have consequences, and continues to be the perpetual victim, it's always someone else's fault. Some people just never get it.
Until they cross the wrong person, which will happen. She might not learn a lesson, but her life will get much much worse.
Yep. Eventually.
I have that same friend! She burned bridges and caused so many fights. We think she's attracted to the unavailable guys, gets a thrill out of chasing them. A lot of the girls hate her because they caught her flirting with their bfs through text. Heck my cousin from a different part of the country hates her for flirting with her bf online, my younger sister's friends hate her for being a college student flirting with high schoolers.
Honestly I would’ve gone no contact
Place your bets- how long will it be before the sister starts flirting with the next family boyfriend?
She won't like what happens to her either. Because people who truly love one another will IMMEADIATELY shut someone down who is trying to hit on them. So again she won't like what happens to her. Because most normal people don't tolerate this type of behavior tbf.
@@selinakyle_ or worse if the next boyfriend turns her down, she can spin some lie that would end up ruining the dudes life
I doubt they'd invite her anywhere anymore 😂
When's the next family get together? I give it 15 minutes upon arrival.
@@jessbeingme8155 15? That’s too long I’ll say as soon as she sees them
Several of the comments remark that she is 18, not 15. It's not about age, it's a major parenting failure. If one of my siblings acted like this at any age, my parents would have gone scorched earth. I'm so glad I don't have sisters when I read these stories.
I hope the cousin who saw and commented on the status, tells her parents that Hannah is up to it again and then in turn the parents tell the extended family. It seems like Hannah and OP parents will ONLY do anything if it means it will otherwise "ruin their reputation". Its so infuriating when people are like this, only caring about public perception and not actually trying to be good people/raise good people.
Have you ever noticed that people who are obsessed with putting up the _image_ of being good oftentimes have some of the worst dirty secrets? They are about reputation and face more than actually just being decent people.
I love this OP, her cousin, and her boyfriend. "You can get out or get your a** beat." And Bea's pettiness on Facebook - hahahahahahahahahaha. I love it!
I'd encourage him to troll her honestly.
Her: "What's your favorite position?"
Him: Away from you.
Sister is on her way to an unhappy life and she will continue to be a thorn in the couple's side, not with flirting but single motherhood, wanting financial help, complaining about sister's good life, etc
The boyfriend's reply was super fucking hot. Like damn. The respect and honor of this man
Why have children if you hate them??
Like, I honestly don't understand. "Hey, I'm going to go through the hard work of raising this human for several years and then call her names, antagonize her and push her away completely! Yeah, that sounds about right!"
What???
Lmao "how does it feel to kick your sister out on the streets". Girl, you're not going to the streets. You're going home to your cushy home where your parents will pay for everything. You just don't want to go back because your parents will actually be doing some long, overdue parenting for a change.
Because a lot of parents feel like their kids, first of all, have to _earn_ their love, and only exist in the first place to serve the parents purposes. That's exactly why a lot of parents have children specifically for the reason to support them once they are elderly, or to ensure that they raise a clone of themselves to take over their personal business, etc.
I have seen both of these happen, though mainly the former.
The cousin is the secret hero in all of this.
People seem to be glossing over the most important part..her boyfriend is being harassed. The backstabbing is the least of the problems.
wow, OP's sister has some serious issues. "Punishing" her is not going to work. She needs a mental health evaluation and some serious counseling. The parents need a kick in the ass for creating this monster.
I feel so bad for the boyfriend that must have been horrifically uncomfortable
Story 1 OP needs to talk to her sister and also her parents. OP's parents must be made to see how inappropriate her sisters behaviour is. The sister is 18 and old enough to know that her behaviour is wrong. If her sister really doesn't know any better then OP's parents have failed to bring her up properly.
The OP should also add that what she is doing is considered sexual harassment and can get their little golden child put in jail, if the boyfriend decides to press charges.
the little "sad face :(" at 20:08 killed me dude, you have a new sub
I "like" when the entitled person is the one at fault,they always act like the "victim".
That's not 'seducing' that's literally sexual harassment.
Some stories are just too much, I think some people are not normal. I have 3 older sisters, with one being 4 years older than me so we are so close. I have never even thought any person my sister was dating as being attractive and if my sister breaks up with someone, no matter how friendly they are, I no longer speak with them. My loyalty is to my sister.
OPs sister is a disgusting person for disrepecting her family members and their partners in the way she acts. She tries that with the wrong person now she is an adult and she is probably going to get beaten up over it a few times before she learns her lesson.
Kudos to Cousin Bea !!!
Whenever you say "sad face" and "smiley face" and "winky face" in that tiny voice, I can't help laughing, it always makes me chuckle
In the series: How I Met Your Mother, there is a episode about Shattering mirror, when your image of someone breaks like a mirror breaking. I think that was what happened to her parents.
OP was Lucky because her parents werent entitled like her sister, they were only misled by the sister and in denial.
The good thing is that OP is finally get rid of her terrible sister.
The bad news is that sister is never going to change according to OP last update. Her behaviour is unsufferable and she did look like she didnt learn a thing. Welp, its going to backfired to her parent anyway and OP doesnt have any good relationship with her parent either.
Bf is more kind than me. I would straight up ask "Why would I help someone who stalks and sexually harass me? I want you out too!"
Boyfriend is already acting like a father, now that's some quality BF material.
Im so glad my sister is asexual and has a good set of morals.
Edit: ACE GANG!!! 😃 Yes, I'm close to my sister. She's a great person and a hardworker. She has always been there for me with my struggles, and I do the same for her. We're polar opposites, but I love her. 🙂
Go Aces!
Asexuals UNITE
Hope you two are close.
Being asexual simplifies *so much.*
Goddamn I love being Ace 😇 We're all pretty cool, huh?
The "Sad face... winky face" narration was my favourite part
Damn, the boyfriend has some crazy self control here. I'd be a lot harsher in this situation. Good for OP.
It's too bad the parents are only changing because they don't want an obvious trash fire in front of the rest of their family.
I don’t know why, but lg pronouncing all the little smiley faces and sad faces made me laugh
Always
Same. I love the way he says them.
It gets hilarious when you have someone reading /r/antimlm and calling out all the emoji... XD
It's so cute! 😄
Me too lol. I love it. And the voices he does crack me up.
I love this story and this is an ACTUAL happy ending because OP has a heck of a catch of a man who despite continuously being seduced and disrespected by Hannah, he cared enough to give her brotherly advice, and never paid any attention to sister's antics.
While I understand how people feel about shaming and bullying, I think OP's sister needs to be publicly humiliated (like the FB comment) in order to change her ways. Shitty people rely on everyone else being afraid of confrontation to get what they want. Hopefully her whole "I can do what I want" attitude doesn't lead her to a really bad situation because what OP said was true. This is the real world and you can't be protected from the consequences of your actions
If Hannah moves in with roommates, if they're guys, she's gonna go after them; if she moves in with other girls and They have boyfriends, she's gonna go after Them. She seems to be a predator based on proximity.
that sounds like another OP who got kicked out of their shared apartment because they slept with a guy who is their roomie's bf and didn't know (??)
I'm astounded by the level of disrespect the sister is showing to OP by trying to seduce her boyfriend. She's not even subtle about it. Seriously, who walks around in a thong and tank top in front of your sister's intimate partner? By the age of 18, any sane, normal human being knows what behaviour is acceptable as opposed to what's not. It's time for little sister to pack her bags and "hit the road."
Great way to enjoy a cold Sunday morning, snuggled in to listen to drama!
1st story - If you need to let your sister abuse you in order for you to "have a family", you never had them to begin with. It's only a matter of time before they disown you.
Kick. Her. Out.
I’m happy that OP is finally okay in her own home far away from her sister, but I think trying to reach out to her parents again is the wrong call, as she said, they don’t care about their golden child actions except when it is THEM getting the wrong end of the stick, if she tries to talk to them about her sister’s actions they will only try to excuse her saying things like “she’s only a child” “well, you _could’ve_ watch over her better” _it was all because of the city’s influence” and things like that
And as long as it’s not flirting with someone else’s boyfriend they’ll let her get away with everything again while reprimanding OP for the smallest mistakes.
The only way for OP to make their parents take her issues seriously would be to Threaten them to post her sister’s actions on Facebook for the whole family tree to see and reprimand them for it. Because as she said, their reputation in the family is the only thing they care about
Exactly, you took the words from my mouth... I'm sure OP's parents will be back to their old ways after this matter dies out...
Honestly, I'm petty. I wouldn't give them the chance myself. This would be on Facebook already. OP already knows what they are like. They won't give her any respect, they won't change and they won't take her seriously. I don't think it would be worth wasting time. Let the rest of the family know what her sister did, let them know how the parents failed to handle it, as well as everything they said about OP in high school. Let their reputation burn, they deserve it.
I'd start getting closer to everyone else in the family, they'd be a support network and can decimate the parents if they start being stupid again. Then even if OP cuts off her family she'll have everyone else to rely on
Fun story with a good ending (and even a "winky face"!) Thanks, for finding the good ones and sharing them so well.
It’s my pleasure as always Randy :)
Wtf the parents had the perfect daughter in op and they drove her away
I can tell you are getting much more comfortable with the red text and I absolutely adore it
Edit: dear god, the way you say emojis fills me with a sense of joy
"Please help ˢᵃᵈ ᶠᵃᶜᵉ, it'll be something nice in it for you ʷᶦⁿᵏʸ ᶠᵃᶜᵉ"
It's great to know you enjoy these little things I try to add :) Thank you Joudai!
lol ikr its so funny
Your bf should never be alone with your sister, not even for a second. She could claim he assaulted her.
"Sometimes you can't let other people get in the way of love! ;)"
Exactly, so she needs to butt out of OP's relationship.
That boyfriend is just stellar, not only playing it calm with this whole craziness, letting his GF crash at his place, offering to talk to the sister, but that message! Not only shutting her down, but doing it nicely and firm, and giving her damn good life advice!
Can’t afford an apartment of her own. That’s what dorms are for!
OP's BF response to sister made me SQUEE! Husband him UP, OP!
That boyfriend needs to set his phone to record when OP leaves the room. OP needs to then have a talk with the parents and include the recording. The boyfriend needs to get a restraining order on crazy girl. This needs to be recorded with the police before crazy sister accuses him of something.
Since she's 18 and has shown that she's perfectly willing to stalk and sexually harass OP's bf he might be able to get some kind of restraining order
How you read Hannah's voice was inspired, so funny!
That bf response!!@ omo.. he is such a catch. Made me tear up
Sometimes people's desire to hurt someone is what motivates other desires. Like for example i remember a story where the sister wanted ops partner, but only to hurt her sister, and also stole the ops kids name which the sister had no ties to. She only wanted the name since she knew op wanted that special name. Some people just get joy seeing others hurt.
That one was fun. Especially since that op went through with the name in the end.
@@johnbennett9504 yeah, but people really do be evil
In the words of Arako "There's only one place she belongs, she belongs to the streets!"
OP found a decent man, good for her.Not many people can find decent people nowadays.
She never would’ve been kicked out if she just controlled herself. The world does not revolve around her. I’m glad the parents finally actually did something.
Boyfriend is a god and OP rocks! Firm, fair and NO BULLSHIT. This is a couple that makes it.
Damn, boyfriends response was actually pretty excellent. Hell yeah. Good for them.
Love how he reads out the smiley faces 😂 brilliant
Lol the 18 year old saying “I’m an adult now so i can do whatever i want” made me laugh…. pretty sure i said the same thing at 18 (26 now btw) and uh spoiler alert….. i was very much still a kid lmfaooo only children say that 😂
I've been around the block a few times, and I hope OP is aware Hannah will almost certainly consider OP's BF as 'the one that got away' and her sister as the one who denied her that goal. I'm fairly certain, as her parents attempt at this very late date to rein her behavior in, Hannah will blame OP for all her woes, despising OP for exposing her to their parents, At some point, when she's grown a little more crafty, Hannah might attempt a believable contrition, saying she's learned her lesson, and was just a silly, immature child, but revenge will be something she dreams about and will take any available opportunity to grasp.
Next post...a few years later....Sister turns up at the wedding screaming "YOU LOVE ME!! NOT HER!!!!!" while in a wedding dress.....
@Hecatate If Hannah doesn't get some significant therapy, it's an all too plausible bit of histrionics.
LOL, Love the "sad face" & "winky face" comments.
My husband said the BF should offer her the number for counseling services for people with low self esteem since that’s what her behavior indicates
Okay, so if OP’s parents said all these nasty things and made unfounded assumptions about her, why would she even want them to be a part of her life? It sounds like she’d do much better to be rid of both of them. Having a relationship with her parents would not be worth it if this is what it’s gonna get her. She is literally getting nothing out of these relationships but grief. Ditch both of them, parents and sister and move on.
After update edit: While I’m glad to hear that the parents were proactive about the situation and didn’t try to defend their daughters actions, the only reason they took the action they did was because their daughters behavior was starting to reflect poorly on them and I can’t help but feel that they just would have ignored things and let them persist had this not been the case, so either way, OP’s parents SUCK and I’d advise OP to keep them at arms length if she still wishes to have some sort of relationship with them as it was their fault things came to this point anyway.
Parents taking off their golden child goggles?!?!?! HOW REFRESHING OMG!!!! That was so nice to read! T_T I hope it lasts!!
"Im not a little kid i can do what i want." Says the one who doesn't even pay her own rent.
I believe her when she says she doesn't even like ops bf. What she does like is thinking every guy no matter who they are or if they are with someone wants her. Bet if he was scummy enough to go for it hed be gone as soon as op was over him. Just so she can say. "I was just playing, I can have anyone so why would i stay with him? Lol" trust me, i know the type. Luckily none of them are my sisters. 😂
Does that mean your parents are tired of her running around half dressed also?
Boyfriend is husband material. Sister is displaying predatory behavior. Kick her out and remove contact. Also marry boyfriend.
The boyfriend is correct. If she keeps flaunting herself like that, she would only attract the wrong crowd.
Your friends and the company you keep is a reflection of you. If you keep acting like you're desperate for attention, those are the only company you'd get-most likely consists of vapid and shallow people because anyone else would eventually pull away. You can't even blame people for not wanting to be around you then.
The parents aren't ashamed or anything; they're up in their game of pitting one child against another, yet again. They've just switched the 'Golden child', considering OP has managed to be a more responsible person whom they can rely on to look after them in their old age, & their social prestige by marrying right.
I like the two bfs that had no interest in little sister trying to hit on them.
What a stand up guy!! Loving the boyfriend for standing up for OP. Finally someone on his partner’s side
The way you said “sad face” and “winky face” for emojis made me laugh out loud 🤣🤣🤣 just the sold subtle mocking almost 🤣🤣🤣
When parent try to gaslight op into letting little sister to stay, she needs to remind them whose name is on the lease. And tell them that any damage sis causes to ops personal properly or apartment will be paid by the parents. Then go ahead with the eviction notice.
give her thirty days notice. When she ignores it for 29 days, wait until she's out, pack her stuff, put it on the front porch, call mom and dad to pick their golden child up and change the locks because you're done with all of them
When sister asks do I look good in this no but you’re sister would look so much better
The parents acted quickly because they are trying to get in front of the rest of the family finding out that she did this crap again only this time to her own sister
OP, hold onto that BF of yours, he's a gem!
Ugh, I had a former roommate like Hannah, except it was her boyfriend that tried to come on to _me_ because he recognized me from a car expo where I posed in a swimsuit as a model next to one of the cars.
I had proof that he had hit on me, but my roommate wouldn’t hear of it even when I showed her my camera phone footage. She demanded I leave and tried to forcibly evict me, I had to sue her and the landlord to make it stop, and when she badmouthed me online, I uploaded and shared the video footage with one of our mutual friends, she spread the word and exonerated me. I moved out as soon as my lease was up.
The worst part was that my ex roommate was doing the same things to my at-the-time-boyfriend “Lance” that which she was accusing me of doing to hers. I found out after I had moved, Lance told me everything and said he would have told me sooner, but didn’t want to cause more drama for me.
Tyvm LG. Stay safe please. PEACE
It is time for Op to take videos of sis in her act and post for those “parents” to see just how their child is really flooding around. Good luck.
in the first story, i would take pics of little sister prancing around in her thong in front of boyfriend to send to parents. undeniable proof.
wow. just read the boyfriend's message to little sis. that is a true kind hearted gentleman.