Bmike - I Deserve Better [Official Music Video]

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  • Опубліковано 10 гру 2024

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  • @BMIKEMUSIC
    @BMIKEMUSIC  6 років тому +3644

    New music video "I Deserve Better". I made this song to show the effect of carrying pain from previous relationships over to a new one. I hope you guys enjoy it and relate to it. Get your Black Heart merch here www.blackheartofficial.com/store/
    My Instagram is @itsbmike

    • @M.W.K6996
      @M.W.K6996 6 років тому +28

      Can you do projects with MASS OF MAN, PHORA, CHVSE, NF, JayteKz, Token, Presence, Witt Lowry, Enkay47, BurdenWorld, Cryptic Wisdom, Young Merkules, TraGik, Sik World, Ivan B, Ashtin Larold, Solan Patrick & sKitz Kraven in the future?

    • @bethany442
      @bethany442 6 років тому +12

      I love itttt

    • @prpazzZ
      @prpazzZ 6 років тому +5

      Nice bro🇭🇷🇭🇷❤

    • @princelesta
      @princelesta 6 років тому +8

      I live in the UK.why is it so expensive to ship the merch here? $15 plus the $50 for the top.

    • @samnegasi7190
      @samnegasi7190 6 років тому +1

      Great Massage bro!! 🤘🏾

  • @breal4real460
    @breal4real460 Рік тому +1728

    Hurts worse when you know you deserve better but you don’t want better you just want the better version of that one person ❤ #lifeDOESgoOn100

    • @anthonygoodluck798
      @anthonygoodluck798 Рік тому +19

      Hurts when ONE person can just leave you w no closure. But in the mean time he's narcissistic ass ask he's family to relate a message .❤️‍🩹

    • @83baby-cakes83
      @83baby-cakes83 Рік тому +6

      Yes!
      It really does 😔

    • @83baby-cakes83
      @83baby-cakes83 Рік тому +6

      @@anthonygoodluck798 No closer, message, note I mean nothing. I came home to a empty bedroom after taking my son to school. He's a gaslighting Controlling NARCISSIST , but I do miss and wonder what he was thinking every day I wake up... Sorry 😐

    • @stephentoshort150
      @stephentoshort150 Рік тому +2

      SO TRUE

    • @Bigbird1104
      @Bigbird1104 Рік тому +1

      Exactly

  • @tanielabakoso2498
    @tanielabakoso2498 5 років тому +5103

    You dont know how much you loved some one until you're up late at night begging and pleading to GOD to make the pain stop

    • @stephenesparza1153
      @stephenesparza1153 5 років тому +21

      Truth!

    • @krishnacheeks7767
      @krishnacheeks7767 5 років тому +32

      Taniela Bakoso yessssss I felt every words u typed💯

    • @brandonreeves3003
      @brandonreeves3003 5 років тому +27

      But it doesn't stop... Still games taking place so fucked up

    • @baggetts4836
      @baggetts4836 5 років тому +56

      been there im struggling to keep my marriage and life together of almost 10 years but wondering if HES even worth the pain that goes unnoticed I DESERVE BETTER!!!

    • @silviadeharodavila1726
      @silviadeharodavila1726 5 років тому +3

      Yes 💔😭

  • @teen42
    @teen42 8 місяців тому +158

    There's nothing like grieving someone who is still here, but can't change. 😢

    • @Emoneywife45
      @Emoneywife45 4 місяці тому +3

      That big facts

    • @JosieJune-r8b
      @JosieJune-r8b 3 місяці тому

      Fact that is not helpful I am ok with dealing

    • @JosieJune-r8b
      @JosieJune-r8b 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Emoneywife45my life growing fast ⏩ very naughty lol I appreciate you

    • @nix-cipher
      @nix-cipher 2 місяці тому +1

      I feel that in ❤️

    • @nicolegirard3967
      @nicolegirard3967 Місяць тому +2

      Yessss, for real! You just have to get to that point of not allowing their toxicity to affect you. ❤

  • @shannonmasterson4406
    @shannonmasterson4406 2 роки тому +582

    This song helped me get over someone who mentally drained me. I never thought I'd wake up without him on my mind. I still do somedays. It's been a year and he treated me worse than I've ever been treated. And I loved him more than I'd ever loved anyone. Makes no sense.

    • @alanaC.Walden86
      @alanaC.Walden86 2 роки тому +14

      I know how u feel and ur constantly wondering wth u did wrong. I rack my brain as far as I know I did nothing to deserve it

    • @SaraiRivka
      @SaraiRivka 2 роки тому +28

      Trauma Bonded

    • @ryanr9792
      @ryanr9792 2 роки тому +15

      Time won't heal you, but you'll heal over time 🙏

    • @ladyglocxliv7561
      @ladyglocxliv7561 2 роки тому +8

      Going Through This Rn We've Been Broken Up For 4 Months After A 2 Year Off And On Relationship.. How Do You Get Through It Cause Tbfh I'm Tired Of Missing Him, Craving Him, Feeling Like I Need Him I Could Go On Lmao But He Mentally Fucxed Me Up And I Still Love Him Idk What To Do Anymore...

    • @amandaa2119
      @amandaa2119 Рік тому +16

      He probably was a narcissist. Much like what I just experienced. Mentally, emotionally, physically draining. 🥺 Ugh 😩

  • @l1araj695
    @l1araj695 6 років тому +2972

    My heart goes out to everyone going through a recent breakup, or just struggling to move on from a past one. They are rough, and they suck. I have finally found someone who I'm truly in love with, and the idea of losing him is unbearable. So if you are out there and lost your special someone, I'm so sorry and I hope time does heal your broken heart.
    Edit: Well everyone, I hate to say this but he was messing around behind my back. Now just like the rest of you, this is the song I cry my eyes out to. Love hurts, but it’s worth loving someone. We’ll get through this.

    • @the09rickyd
      @the09rickyd 5 років тому +4

      Same here.

    • @hunterhenderson9978
      @hunterhenderson9978 5 років тому +17

      I just got out of a relationship and it hurts she left me and my ex sent this to me and I fell to my knees i found someone better that treats me good I love this girl alot

    • @katelynndubriel1030
      @katelynndubriel1030 5 років тому +11

      This is deep and stuff but then I see you pic

    • @nataleejohnson39
      @nataleejohnson39 5 років тому +3

      That would be me

    • @freebird3203
      @freebird3203 5 років тому +3

      Thank you

  • @beautifulthcgoddess3218
    @beautifulthcgoddess3218 5 років тому +2317

    It’s the worst when you’re still in a dead end relationship and you can’t let go...💔

  • @EmileeKathleenHunter
    @EmileeKathleenHunter 3 роки тому +450

    Just in case you needed to hear this, leave it in the past.
    Stay Strong

    • @Jungkook-wd2cy
      @Jungkook-wd2cy 2 роки тому +1

      I let go but they need to as well and grow better than me or be better than me to someone

    • @nikkiottley1835
      @nikkiottley1835 2 роки тому +4

      I needed this right now 💯👌

    • @RWRL
      @RWRL 2 роки тому +1

      What if you're married and holding out for the almost there

    • @reynaldoreyes1829
      @reynaldoreyes1829 Рік тому

      My favorite song

    • @bonnieboo8265
      @bonnieboo8265 Рік тому

      @@RWRLI let go of a 15 year relationship because he wouldn’t marry me. Sucks really badly!

  • @ashley__c
    @ashley__c 6 років тому +825

    3:54 👌 "As humas we carry all the pain from our previous relationships
    and we unintentionally give it to the next person.
    I know that hurt people...hurt people.
    So at the same time we also gotta be aware of that.
    We inherit all this baggage from one person
    then dump it on the next person and....
    The cycle just continues.
    So if there's anything to take from this song:
    Let it be to love openly.
    Love hard.
    But most importantly...
    LEAVE THE PAST WHERE IT BELONGS."

    • @mercedescorretjer2933
      @mercedescorretjer2933 6 років тому +8

      The past is the past..time to move on. Right on that.

    • @Brandon-bq7lv
      @Brandon-bq7lv 5 років тому +1

      How just tell me how?

    • @chicken-n-dumplin
      @chicken-n-dumplin 5 років тому +1

      Yes yes yes

    • @chicken-n-dumplin
      @chicken-n-dumplin 5 років тому +8

      @@Brandon-bq7lv stop looking. I used to look at my exes facebook and all. Ive learned it only kept reminding me. Once I stopped, the memories and feelings slowing started to fade. It only kept bothering me because I kept seeing his face and being reminded.

    • @zexysyoutube485
      @zexysyoutube485 5 років тому

      Hi

  • @BMIKEMUSIC
    @BMIKEMUSIC  6 років тому +136

    BLACK HEART GANG TILL WE DIE🖤 Let’s share this everywhere! Keep sharing it and let’s get it to 1 MILLION views! I love y’all so much thank you for riding with me🖤

  • @ashlynnmoore8747
    @ashlynnmoore8747 6 років тому +959

    Bmike and nf are my favorite artist in the game bc they keep it so real

  • @waterwednesday8807
    @waterwednesday8807 Рік тому +126

    This song helped me realize I deserved better with baby daddy. Now I'm states away with an amazing guy I just want everyone to know if you even slightly think you deserve better you do.

    • @jessierandolph5084
      @jessierandolph5084 8 місяців тому +1

      He deserves better

    • @FallenxAngels91
      @FallenxAngels91 6 місяців тому

      ​@@jessierandolph5084 You do not know their situation, so.. your opinion is kinda negated.

    • @jessicabenavidez4279
      @jessicabenavidez4279 4 місяці тому

      Go girl

    • @LR-wt2xd
      @LR-wt2xd 12 днів тому +1

      Thank you!! I needed to hear this song and I needed to read ur comments and others like it. I’m not the only one feeling this way even in some recent comments for this song and others with similar message.

  • @ramaqueen949
    @ramaqueen949 3 роки тому +296

    Who's listening this in 2021?
    Love this song❤

  • @spiritwalkerr
    @spiritwalkerr 6 років тому +661

    Who else LOVES Bmikes music soooo much ???

  • @macaileh9036
    @macaileh9036 5 років тому +504

    “She’s over me now i want her” 💀 this exactly why we CANT move on🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @josephstevens4032
    @josephstevens4032 Рік тому +22

    Letting go and moving on can be one of the hardest things one can endure. You are all in my ❤️

  • @moniquer.3768
    @moniquer.3768 3 роки тому +214

    Who else listening 2021 😌 this song will FOREVER HIT HOME !!!

  • @Sequeiramusic
    @Sequeiramusic 6 років тому +486

    Lyrics:
    Intro:
    "I love you... I just need more time...
    No, times up."
    Verse 1:
    Don't you tell me, this isn't you what, nah yeah (oh yeah),
    We almost had it, we we're almost there,
    These apologies are overdue,
    Now it's too late, because I'm over you (over you, over you),
    Yeah, she's over me and i want her back,
    I don't even wanna tell her that,
    Maybe it's pride, maybe it's ego,
    Maybe the fact is that I'm still attached,
    Maybe I do need to let her go,
    Maybe I just need time to grow,
    Cause she was so focused on loving me,
    And I was focused on models and centerfolds,
    Bridge:
    Issues with commitment,
    Issues with the distance,
    Issues with these issues,
    Cause he's fucked up with his feelings,
    Problems with the emotions,
    Problems with devotion,
    And when he left her,
    This is what she told him:
    Chorus:
    I Deserve better,
    You should've treated me better,
    Should've but couldn't, but why didn't you,
    And you were like, this was my fault, my fault,
    None of the any others, was my fault, my fault,
    So happy never, ever, ever,
    Shot the bullet in my heart without no beretta,
    And I aimed it at you, and you act like, all of this was my fault,
    My fault, none of the any others, was my fault, my fault.
    Verse 2:
    Baby girl, I know that it's all my fault,
    Broken promises, it's all my fault,
    But you know, it's all my fault,
    I wished that, that it all worked out,
    Don't you say, dont' take it personal,
    Cause even though left, it hurt to go,
    Now those memories, are on my mind,
    And I still think about it, all the time,
    Yeah, yea, yea,
    I know she's thinking about him all the time,
    All I did was try to make here mine,
    All I did was try to show, even if the rain fall,
    The sun still gonna shin,
    Maybe I shouldn't of let her in,
    It's probably the worst thing I'ver did,
    Cause I was so focused on loving here,
    And she was focused on someone who never did,
    Bridge:
    Issues with commitment,
    Issues with the distance,
    Issues with these issues,
    Cause he's fucked up with his feelings,
    Problem with no closure,
    Probably the older,
    And this is what he said when it was over:
    Chorus:
    I Deserve better,
    You should've treated me better,
    Should've but couldn't, but why didn't you,
    And you were like, this was my fault, my fault,
    None of the any others, was my fault, my fault,
    So happy never, ever, ever,
    Shot the bullet in my heart without no beretta ,
    And I aimed it at you, and you act like, all of this was my fault,
    My fault, none of the any others, was my fault, my fault.

    • @emilyvassel4569
      @emilyvassel4569 6 років тому +2

      It's Beretta not bravour homie

    • @Sequeiramusic
      @Sequeiramusic 6 років тому

      Emily Vassel thanks 🙏

    • @AlexSmith-lz5gl
      @AlexSmith-lz5gl 6 років тому +5

      Don't tell me, this ain't what you want, oh yeah for the intro bro

    • @AlexSmith-lz5gl
      @AlexSmith-lz5gl 6 років тому +5

      Good job, I don't have the patience for posting this shit lol

    • @allysonmorgan8155
      @allysonmorgan8155 6 років тому +7

      Im Sequeira It’s “and you act like all of this was my fault, None of any of this was my fault”

  • @dianalopez876
    @dianalopez876 6 років тому +1137

    I just broke up with my fiancee last month of 5 years. Shit was hard it was so toxic not to mention he was 10 years older then me, I grew up with him. I been with him since I was 17 😣.Anybody in a toxic abusive relationship don't worry stay strong and leave, its not worth losing your sanity and health. YOU DESERVE BETTER ! NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS EVER

    • @daniellejones8481
      @daniellejones8481 5 років тому +5

      I get you sometimes you just gotta get through it .

    • @lowendbeats6218
      @lowendbeats6218 5 років тому +4

      All of you just remember if you need anybody to talk to you can text me

    • @kylerobledo2022
      @kylerobledo2022 5 років тому +1

      Tiny' López I feel you on that

    • @marleesolomon1384
      @marleesolomon1384 5 років тому +10

      Tiny' López I am going through this right now after 10 years. He calls me the most disgusting names and I feel so worthless. He calls me names in front of my own relatives, told me I am a burden.

    • @yahswayorthehighwayarise4450
      @yahswayorthehighwayarise4450 5 років тому

      ua-cam.com/video/uMyzUbiJx0s/v-deo.html

  • @mickeycorona1679
    @mickeycorona1679 Рік тому +58

    2023 and still a master piece of a song 🎵

    • @paulacrowell2572
      @paulacrowell2572 Рік тому +2

      Mickey Corona agree 💯 still badass !! Hell yes 2023

    • @FallenxAngels91
      @FallenxAngels91 9 місяців тому

      2024 now, still an amazing song but regardless of the year, it'll always be an amazing song.

    • @lakenpriester5883
      @lakenpriester5883 Місяць тому

      ALWAYES

  • @candyapple5924
    @candyapple5924 5 років тому +89

    Made me cry 😢 I just want “him” to be the better that I deserve 💔

  • @mommymuhhwie11
    @mommymuhhwie11 6 років тому +76

    “Cause I was so focused on loving her and she was focused on someone who never did” oh shitttttt 😩😩

  • @shawnavanpool07
    @shawnavanpool07 6 років тому +689

    I deserved better.... better by no hands around my throat, better by no more black eyes, better by no more getting thrown into walls... so I got better!!!

    • @carolinachickfrombrooklyn664
      @carolinachickfrombrooklyn664 5 років тому +1

      Shawna Muller deep..... ❤️

    • @shawnavanpool07
      @shawnavanpool07 5 років тому +18

      @Kim Gow I am so so sorry about your mom. Things happened in my marraige and it never got better. After 10 years I couldn't look at my daughter's and them think we had a normal life. The screaming the physical and mental abuse was not right. Until someone told me shawna what would do if your daughter was grown and in the same situation, but she put up with it because she watched YOU stay and didn't walk away. That was my opener. So I left because not only did I deserve better for myself but for my beautiful amazing daughter's I owed them my all.

    • @jackiebengelee5785
      @jackiebengelee5785 5 років тому

      Cazy

    • @katestewart6196
      @katestewart6196 5 років тому

      Trust me on that girl that’s why I can’t relate to he’s music I actually am in love with him lol 🙈❤️

    • @katestewart6196
      @katestewart6196 5 років тому

      Can***

  • @billielewis7508
    @billielewis7508 8 місяців тому +10

    My heart is cold now 😢

  • @jrichards5184
    @jrichards5184 5 років тому +57

    ❤️❤️❤️ self love is the best middle finger

  • @jada8789
    @jada8789 6 років тому +104

    Real shit though. I carry all my pain into every relationship and I don't even get why I do it. I don't want to but I do.

    • @feelingthevibe9362
      @feelingthevibe9362 6 років тому +1

      Archer Graves drop the bullshit and keep ya head up young buck

  • @kattyarce7382
    @kattyarce7382 4 роки тому +90

    Who else is or has been in a relationship when him / her don’t know what he wants and can’t decided about u . And even if you love him you have to let him / her go bc you know you deserve better ! 💔2020

    • @karigibson9627
      @karigibson9627 4 роки тому +3

      I'm there now.... And my heart hurts

    • @porshertrussell6947
      @porshertrussell6947 3 роки тому

      Evry 1

    • @dannydonaldson6337
      @dannydonaldson6337 3 роки тому +1

      Try meeting someone you instantly just fall right for and I'm not young but then she treats you like shit breaks up with you to be with an ex then runs him off and calls on me and this goes on for a while well to come to find out she suffers from borderline personality disorder now when i was younger i would have handled things a lot differently in a bad way but no i decided to study and study about BPD and she is classic with it now we have known each other for awhile now and her behavior still the same but i haven't abandoned her and i take her abuse and im there when things are bad another words I've been what a true friend should be unfortunately I'm still alone and as everyone tells me i deserve better but i can't seem to let to walk away because everyone needs someone to not leave even me lol just haven't found her yet sorry for the book

    • @goldenj4204
      @goldenj4204 4 місяці тому +1

      I was just in a relationship like that and she left me for her ex

  • @ladyrandom8380
    @ladyrandom8380 3 роки тому +22

    Love the message of this song!!! Seriously love it!!! In order to get what we deserve we must work on ourselves too!!!

  • @darkmagegaming8900
    @darkmagegaming8900 6 років тому +140

    Bmike music will always shoot in the feels how many people can relate like if.u can

  • @jeraldinepritchett4727
    @jeraldinepritchett4727 5 років тому +238

    Give your mind and heart time to heal before you promise something you are not ready to give.

    • @christopherarsalides9221
      @christopherarsalides9221 4 роки тому +4

      I wish they would make this a key aspect for everyone to learn in early stages of life. Maybe then there would be more hope for humanity

    • @jeraldinepritchett4727
      @jeraldinepritchett4727 4 роки тому +4

      @@christopherarsalides9221 I do agree on this, it seems almost nothing we learn in the early stages actually has anything to do with adult life.

    • @theSicariuselitealphaJOKES
      @theSicariuselitealphaJOKES 4 роки тому +2

      Amen ❤💯💯💯❤

    • @marli495
      @marli495 4 роки тому +1

      Needed this.

  • @prashantshahi743
    @prashantshahi743 6 років тому +440

    No one cares if your first or last just be thankful we got a good song

  • @EE_Lopez
    @EE_Lopez 5 місяців тому +3

    How does this song not have more likes!? Feels like sometimes the realest and most authentic songs don’t get as much recognition as they should.

  • @exey1776
    @exey1776 5 років тому +239

    Don't you tell me this ain't what you want, oh yeah (oh yeah)
    We almost had it, we were almost there (almost)
    These apologies are overdue
    Now it's too late because I'm over you (over you, over you)
    Yeah she's over me, now I want her back
    I don't even wanna tell her that
    Maybe it's pride, maybe it's ego
    Maybe the fact is I'm still attached
    Maybe I do need to let her go
    Maybe I just need the time to grow
    'Cause she was so focused on lovin' me
    And I was focused on models and centerfolds
    Issues with commitment
    Issues with the distance
    Issues with these issues
    'Cause he's fucked up with his feelings
    Problems with emotions
    Problems with devotion
    And when he left her
    This is what she told him
    I deserve better
    You should've treated me better
    (I should've, I could've, I didn't)
    And you act like all this was my fault
    Was my fault, my fault
    None of any of this
    Was my fault, my fault
    So happy never ever ever
    Shot the bullet in my heart with that Beretta
    And I aimed it at you
    And you act like all this was my fault
    Was my fault, my fault
    None of any of this
    Was my fault, my fault
    Baby girl I know it's all my fault
    Broken promises, it's all my fault
    Oh I know it's all my fault
    I wish that it all worked out
    Don't you say, don't take it personal
    'Cause even though I left, it hurt to go
    Now those memories are on my mind
    And I still think about it all the time
    Yeah, yeah, yeah
    I know she's thinkin' bout him all the time
    All I did was try to make her mine
    All I did was try to show her
    Even if the rainfall the sun still gon' shine
    Maybe I shouldn't have let her in
    That's probably the worst thing I ever did
    'Cause I was so focused on lovin' her
    And she was focused on someone who never did
    Issues with commitment
    Issues with the distance
    Issues with the issues
    'Cause she's fucked up with her feelings
    Problems with no closure
    Probably the older
    And this is what he said
    When it was over
    I deserve better
    You should've treated me better
    (I should've, I could've, I didn't)
    And you act like all this was my fault
    Was my fault, my fault
    None of any of this
    Was my fault, my fault
    So happy never ever ever
    Shot the bullet in my heart with that Beretta
    And I aimed it at you
    And you act like all this was my fault
    Was my fault, my fault
    None of any of this
    Was my fault, my fault
    As humans we carry all this pain from our previous relationships
    And we unintentionally give it to the next person
    I know that hurt people hurt people
    So at the same time we also gotta be aware of that
    We inherit all this baggage from one person then dump it on the next person
    And the cycle just continues
    So if there's anything to take from this song
    Let it be to love openly, love hard, but most importantly
    Leave the past where it belongs

    • @970remy
      @970remy 4 роки тому

      1
      1oo
      Plp

    • @timothyshepard5405
      @timothyshepard5405 4 роки тому +1

      Correction for the chorus;
      Instead of 'You act like they'll understand(was my fault)", it is;
      'You act like all of this was my fault'

    • @exey1776
      @exey1776 4 роки тому

      @@timothyshepard5405 thanks ❤️❤️

  • @oksanatyson6742
    @oksanatyson6742 4 роки тому +13

    This song has a different message if you sing it to yourself in a mirror and think of your past choices that hount you now. I cried when the I started yelling at myself the lyrics "I deserve better, you should have treated Me better!! " it brings me to my knees . Tell your future self what your past self should have told you.

  • @kenziex4941
    @kenziex4941 5 років тому +84

    “Most importantly, leave the past where it belongs” damn...yeah. Yeah. ❤️❤️

  • @djdeliciae-777
    @djdeliciae-777 16 днів тому +1

    Honestly the worst pain is missing someone so much and they are literally sitting rt next to you or sleeping rt next to you every night and their phone gets all the attention whole time for yrs after saying I do and they sitting on their phone through the whole reception on your wedding day not one dance. So grateful to God for allowing me to wake up and get the strength to let that shiiii go I may looked like a fool for a long time yet I came out stronger than ever. I appreciated that lesson. Not ever again better off without. To those whom have that true authentic love cherish it don't take it for granted or leave it alone, bc God is Love and if it can not be shown between two there is no point in saying it. God Bless and Peace and Love be with you all.

  • @sheynangians
    @sheynangians 3 роки тому +203

    I’m tired of holding it all together. Constantly forgiving just over all of it. It’s draining af....but love makes it hard to leave

    • @jennifermartinez6674
      @jennifermartinez6674 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly how I feel. Really well put.

    • @preciousmarsh8393
      @preciousmarsh8393 3 роки тому +8

      U gotta learn to love yourself. If someone keeps doing u wrong, they don't respect u or the relationship. Trust me, im speaking from experience. I had to put myself on the priority list. Hope u find peace 😗

    • @myariete2011
      @myariete2011 3 роки тому +1

      Is it love

    • @ariellebarrow
      @ariellebarrow 3 роки тому +1

      @@preciousmarsh8393 needed this! In a similar situation and it is HARD

    • @amberefird7405
      @amberefird7405 3 роки тому

      It will always end up same results.

  • @Vanessa-jr2mb
    @Vanessa-jr2mb 5 років тому +13

    Going through a divorce, and this has given me a sense of peace... it reminds me that we both deserve better... for everyone hurting over someone, accept the hurt. Feel it, and move on. It isn't worth putting your life on hold. I used to beg him to stay with me, and now that I've accepted the divorce I've become happier... we can't force what can't be... head up! You're perfect!

  • @mstinatot
    @mstinatot 3 роки тому +30

    BMike...you the realest...putting words to feelings so many of us have...giving a way to relate...for real tho...you deserve so much more recognition.. Honest..deep..real ..truth. Thank you

  • @Yuzo-Sama
    @Yuzo-Sama 2 місяці тому +1

    Listening to Bmike is like therapy and you're a blessing to many. THANK YOU since 2018...now in 2024

  • @conor9213
    @conor9213 5 років тому +72

    I’ve never related more to lines than these😂 “All I did was try and make her mine, all I did was try and show her that even if it’s raining the sun still gone shine,maybe I shouldn’t have let her, that’s prolly the worst thing I ever did, cause I was so focused on loving her and she was focused on someone who never did.”
    Good song man.

    • @ellenstrano4079
      @ellenstrano4079 4 роки тому +1

      I look to you I'm sorry I read what you wrote twice is like this guy just told my story I'm like so in love my girl and she keeps saying I'm overthinking it I keep saying why you not here

    • @amylwackwitz2359
      @amylwackwitz2359 3 роки тому

      Yeah all I try to do is try with him and do everything for him show I love him and care about him and I guess it wasn’t enough for him to keep him in my life it still hurt so bad still everyday day

  • @jen7411
    @jen7411 5 років тому +220

    “Hurt people hurt people”

    • @lilip2418
      @lilip2418 5 років тому +6

      And healed people, heal self and other people

    • @christopherarsalides9221
      @christopherarsalides9221 4 роки тому +2

      This is too true.

    • @heliaalves9062
      @heliaalves9062 4 роки тому +4

      Straight up lie. Hurt people don't have to hurt people. Hurt people can move on and help others.

    • @christopherarsalides9221
      @christopherarsalides9221 4 роки тому +1

      Hélia Alves these are wise words and show a level of emotional maturity I’ve not seen in others lately. Well said!!!

    • @heliaalves9062
      @heliaalves9062 4 роки тому +1

      @@christopherarsalides9221 Thank you, to me it's just common sense.

  • @karlconway7372
    @karlconway7372 5 років тому +13

    Bmike has gone from raw talent to refined gold, saved my life a few times.

  • @skullsniper3493
    @skullsniper3493 4 місяці тому +4

    I lost my daughter 3 years ago seems like yesterday. But heard this song and all I can do is cry all I can do is think of her

  • @SCANDAL0USb
    @SCANDAL0USb 6 років тому +31

    this was my favorite song yesterday, today, tomorrow, and probably forever.

  • @hugofficial.m
    @hugofficial.m 6 років тому +559

    never clicked so fast on a notification 👀

    • @Your_Introductions
      @Your_Introductions 6 років тому +2

      haah me 2

    • @gaygay2161
      @gaygay2161 6 років тому +3

      OMG good job Bmike you make me so proud I love you so much. Ik you won't see this but hope you will. It meant so freaking much to me when you replied to my comment. Even though it was a few words Idc it meant millions paragraphs to me. You have inspired me to not harm myself and to love myself that I am worth something. I listen to your music every day and night...smile still every time. You have changed me. For the best...I thank you for what you do...you're not just a music producer or another human to me. You're my hero... someone I'm able to look up to💛 I love you with my whole heart and soul you make me generally so proud. Keep up with the fantastic work hope you have an amazing day as your personality 💕

    • @nevaehcastillo1133
      @nevaehcastillo1133 6 років тому +2

      Hugo same

    • @soupo5520
      @soupo5520 6 років тому +3

      I was fast as usaine bolt running the 100 m marathon

    • @shanecooke8802
      @shanecooke8802 6 років тому +2

      @@soupo5520 So, it took you 9.58 Seconds to click the notification? I'd say that's rather slow, like.. it sat there for pretty much 10 seconds before you noticied and clicked it... lol.. That's a terrible example.

  • @j.d.product1ons292
    @j.d.product1ons292 6 років тому +18

    Love this mans music so munch because he talks about real stuff unlike most rappers nowadays

  • @sylviaojeda6177
    @sylviaojeda6177 3 роки тому +6

    This is by far the BEST way to describe how failed relationships happen 👊🏽 hands down

  • @larissaaltamirano5792
    @larissaaltamirano5792 6 років тому +19

    He works so hard on his music and ugh I swear he needs more credit for it! He's so underappreciated 😤😤it kills me but that's life nowadays , fake is popular and real is so underated✨ But I have faith in his music and one day he'll have everything he's always deserved ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @princessnedy5828
    @princessnedy5828 6 років тому +168

    I CLICKED CAUSE I DESERVE BETTER..THEN THIS HIT HARD CAUSE I'M GOING THROUGH THIS RN...I WAITED 3 YEARS FOR CHANGE.😭

    • @silvapoolplastering1730
      @silvapoolplastering1730 5 років тому

      PRINCESS NEDY I wrote a song about the same topic and I was wondering if youd give it a listen and drop and comment or sub if you like it! It would mean a lot

    • @mackenziekistner9197
      @mackenziekistner9197 5 років тому +1

      PRINCESS NEDY I knoe how u feel my mom gave my dad 15 years to change he never did💔

    • @ivancoronado2124
      @ivancoronado2124 4 роки тому

      Ivan,😉😝😋☺️🙃🤨🤩🤩😍😛😎😎Love

    • @ivancoronado2124
      @ivancoronado2124 4 роки тому

      Live😎😛😍🤩🤨🙃☺️😋😝😉🤗🤣Lovelvan

    • @doglover-gq4sn
      @doglover-gq4sn 4 місяці тому

      🎉

  • @jessisander7314
    @jessisander7314 6 років тому +16

    Yasss!!!! I am shooketh to the core of my soul. This song is beautifully written. " hurt people..hurt people" like so many people need to hear this so they can realize and come to the closure they need! Thank you Mike for amazing music👏👏

    • @debraroy6510
      @debraroy6510 5 років тому

      Pow was a boy who was born with the same idea of the world in these pictures of a man who was the brother 9years of his father bound by his own girl instead headed for a car accident

  • @kaptaink420
    @kaptaink420 2 роки тому +5

    15 yrs too girls. Feel better now, I felt as I couldn’t leave her alone because I had family but she had no one. I thought I was abandoning her. Life goes on

  • @lali.x4658
    @lali.x4658 4 роки тому +40

    My 3 year relationship ended yesterday and “don’t you tell me this ain’t what you wanna hear, we almost had it, we were almost there”. gives me chills I’m crying:(

    • @kyzaiya4139
      @kyzaiya4139 4 роки тому

      Naila Garcia Head up naila 😭😭😭

    • @sabrinaday5381
      @sabrinaday5381 4 роки тому +1

      Want to cry

    • @isaacflores1975
      @isaacflores1975 3 роки тому

      1st time hearing this song and it ga e me the chills and a tear crazy just got out of prision and it maid me think of what i had with my ex before we broke. Up after a year how are yu.question to yur self.

  • @fernandomendoza4925
    @fernandomendoza4925 5 років тому +16

    I was told that sometimes going back over and over again to the one you love can be embarrassing and foolish. Because the more you keep coming back the farther and farther away, whoever/whatever it is you keep coming back for, gets. The more desperately you think want something, the more you’re never ever gonna get it.
    At this rate we will be worlds apart in no time and I will never ever get her back🥺

  • @cynthiasuggs8204
    @cynthiasuggs8204 5 років тому +12

    Just came across this video.... And this is so real ... I’m still trying to heal after my last breakup... But when you know a relationship is toxic and he is a narcissist you suck it up no matter how much you love them because it’s never gonna change.... Shout out to all those REAL people that have lost in love and shout out to the ones that hurt someone but truly learned from it and changed their ways...

  • @risseroe
    @risseroe 5 років тому +54

    “We almost had it we was almost there” ... that shit gives me chills 😪

  • @BrattieMena
    @BrattieMena 5 років тому +66

    Just found this guy. I absolutely love it! On repeat!! 😍

  • @tristasmart3508
    @tristasmart3508 4 роки тому +8

    Realist song...gave me chills... hurt people hurt people 🖤💔🖤

  • @gabriellakoons-lopez1104
    @gabriellakoons-lopez1104 9 місяців тому +1

    Been a fan for at least 8 years, Im almost 21 now and this song has brought me back. Except now I actually understand and part of me wants to leave bc I do deserve better but I want better from him so I stay and I dont know what to do anymore.

  • @nazkettu
    @nazkettu 4 роки тому +28

    So many people need to not only listen to this song, but watch the video too. I added this song to my playlist months ago and always liked it, but watching the video hit me deeper than ever and now I truly feel the weight of the lyrics.

  • @IamC.M
    @IamC.M 6 років тому +7

    This is the type of music I love,music that isn't just focused on sex,drugs or money

  • @DiablitaLoquita
    @DiablitaLoquita 5 років тому +21

    Oof almost cried. Especially what he said in the end. This song is powerful! We have to learn to work on ourselves fully mentally and emotionally before moving into a new relationship. Or we will continue with our insecurities from the last relationship.

  • @motivationmood3855
    @motivationmood3855 2 роки тому +9

    I absolutely LOVE this song ... I've listened to it at least 100 times this last few days! It just gets me right in the heart ..
    Thanks for all the lyrics that hit home bmike... You I really like! 💯♥️

  • @cheybeckk
    @cheybeckk 4 роки тому +51

    I listen to this song everytime I’m an asshole and treat my girl like shit .... she deserves better but I’m taking time to become the woman she deserves. We’re due to get married next year and she’s my absolute best friend. I would lose everything if I lost her. I got to not take her for granted... thank you for your music Bmike. You’re the realist artist I’ve listened too in a long time. So just thank you.

    • @kimgow7671
      @kimgow7671 3 роки тому +2

      I loss my late wife Jessica after 14yrs an this was last song I sent, hope you realize what you have till she is gone off this earth forever

    • @BubbleGumKush91
      @BubbleGumKush91 2 роки тому +1

      I hope you found inner peace to be able to treat others better. It's been a year and I hope you've grown ❤

    • @savannahsmith795
      @savannahsmith795 Рік тому

      But are yall still together today???

  • @InvisibleShadow
    @InvisibleShadow 6 років тому +334

    I just left a 3 year toxic relationship and it's hard but he's done so much to me And constantly told me he'd change but never did and I trusted him but he always lied and his friends lied for him I always had lies fed to me.. And he's my first love so it makes it even harder... But ik it's for the best we weren't good for each other... I only focused on loving him never loved myself and it was hard I did everything to try to make him happy and it never seemed good enough because he still did the things he did and it hurt..he's done some stuff that he don't know ik about but I won't let him know because he'll just lie again.. I hope it gets better soon..

    • @GreenDayFreak999
      @GreenDayFreak999 6 років тому +1

      I left my ex about two weeks ago. I can relate.

    • @hennyxx6937
      @hennyxx6937 6 років тому

      I'm a Fatty cheer up girl , inbox me if anything. im a girl

    • @michaelmarshall164
      @michaelmarshall164 6 років тому +5

      Change your name. Don't do that to your self every time you click and comment on UA-cam you see that and you sub consciously hurt yourself that's no different than me burning and cutting myself. :711

    • @jenimoore4095
      @jenimoore4095 6 років тому +2

      I did the same 3 year relationship ....it's for the better

    • @stephaniegotay5405
      @stephaniegotay5405 6 років тому +4

      Same .. 3 weeks ago .. 4 year relationship 😩

  • @moonlit_child
    @moonlit_child 5 років тому +168

    I'm bawling listening to this. My boyfriend is so toxic.... I feel this

    • @pjmensah8897
      @pjmensah8897 5 років тому +5

      break up with him :) i hope u feel better

    • @hj9355
      @hj9355 5 років тому +2

      oh girl I feel you... I feel you

    • @SlayTheSlaughter
      @SlayTheSlaughter 5 років тому +2

      Kara DeRonda I hope you’re in a better place now :c

    • @harlandray5
      @harlandray5 5 років тому +2

      Hopefully you have moved on. I just did a year and a half down the drain...I couldnt handle any more

    • @sarahjohnson6196
      @sarahjohnson6196 5 років тому +7

      Something my mom used to tell me: stop crossing oceans for people that wouldn’t even step in a puddle for you.

  • @jamelia5160
    @jamelia5160 6 років тому +51

    Issues with these issues
    So true I can relate

    • @brandonreeves3003
      @brandonreeves3003 5 років тому

      I likes to know how u say someone cheated? Kind of confused as someone went off and got engaged

  • @kyleharper1395
    @kyleharper1395 6 років тому +57

    Just wanna say this hits man me and my girl friend just broke up last night after being together for a year and a half I love the music u make n u couldn’t of put this out at a better time much love and support

    • @catherinelutkowski5673
      @catherinelutkowski5673 6 років тому +2

      Kyle Harper I hope you feel better, I had a recent breakup too and this music video does really hit you hard if you feel this way

  • @creatingdanni
    @creatingdanni 5 років тому +16

    Knew a guy for about 4 years and been with him for over 2. was a toxic relationship
    I DESERVED BETTER
    And now I am progressing with someone new who is devoted to me, as I am to him. Thank you BMIKE for making this. You spoke for those of us who couldn't formulate the words and thoughts we needed together
    Much respect

  • @rhykerbresse0
    @rhykerbresse0 2 роки тому +1

    I was in a toxic relationship when I was just barely a teenager, we were abusing each other and it was just a really bad situation for the both of us. I'm happy to say I've grown and become better and apologized for all my wrong doings. Music like this helps me feel like I'm not alone when it comes to bad situations like this, like I have a chance to grow and be a better person for myself and the people around me. Thanks BMike.

  • @thaiiii_
    @thaiiii_ 6 років тому +16

    I deserve better fr 💯💯

  • @yesreneau
    @yesreneau 3 роки тому +187

    This song is underrated.

  • @jordanmorfoot
    @jordanmorfoot Рік тому +2

    You don't know how much you loved someone until your up late at night begging and pleading to GOD to make the pain stop

  • @sheenameek4190
    @sheenameek4190 4 роки тому +2383

    Who else listening to this in 2020

  • @mdiasrtt
    @mdiasrtt 5 років тому +19

    I don't
    Think I could love this man more all his music comes correct

  • @kingoggeorge3976
    @kingoggeorge3976 6 років тому +142

    Damn I can relate I still think about my pass ex like fk why does love gotta be so hard and so hurtful why can’t it just go away 💔

  • @kristyluckie6855
    @kristyluckie6855 3 роки тому +4

    This song is legit! ❤️ it! Couldn’t of said it any better. I think for me that I have been hurt some many times and for so long that I don’t even feel any pain anymore. I used to cry at night but now I dont even shed a tear. I have hit rock bottom and have stayed there and not gotten back up. My guard is completely up that it would take an Army and more to get into my heart. The only true love I have is for my 2 kids. Other than that receiving love I dont think it will ever happen.

  • @libra8660
    @libra8660 5 років тому +6

    Bmike has the words i really needed to say and he says it much more better than i could ever do...

    • @silvapoolplastering1730
      @silvapoolplastering1730 5 років тому

      josh frazier would you listen to my new song bro on my channel? Maybe drop a comment or sub if you like it please

  • @martimmacambira9416
    @martimmacambira9416 5 років тому +10

    This actually opened my eyes to a relationsbip I am going through...BMIKE YOU THE GOAT, I'm speechless 💯💯💯

  • @jenniferguzman896
    @jenniferguzman896 5 років тому +4

    Love this song ! So dam true ! My little love is only 6 months old and singing this song is the only way to get him to calm down and sleep

  • @goddess4303
    @goddess4303 Рік тому +1

    Your music saved me especially this song it made me walk away from a DV relationship thank you 4yrs ago I would have been dead if I stayed

  • @Enzomusic818
    @Enzomusic818 6 років тому +42

    🙌👌bmike u always over achieve man!
    Im never disappointed when I here ur music👌💯

  • @mandyezz
    @mandyezz 6 років тому +11

    omg you can FEEL the emotion in the song! love it im obsessed 😍💖

    • @codyderickson0
      @codyderickson0 5 років тому

      I can make you feel the same irl, jus lmk

  • @jamelia5160
    @jamelia5160 6 років тому +8

    I love your music it always means something not only to you but to most people that watch your videos

  • @May-ww4gp
    @May-ww4gp Рік тому +1

    Siiiiiirrrrrr.... RESPECT 👐🏽 👐🏽

  • @Sammerzz171
    @Sammerzz171 4 роки тому +4

    I carry so much pain from my previous relationships, sometimes I'm surprised my fiance is around. It's been hard for me, I have ptsd and sometimes it gets to me and I get scared. The past screwed me up and I'm glad my fiance sticks around to help me get better instead of bringing me down.

  • @edwinm9036
    @edwinm9036 6 років тому +6

    Been on replay all day
    🖤 probably things will change

  • @fallenangel8923
    @fallenangel8923 4 роки тому +18

    This song hits my heart 💔 I was with my ex husband for almost 19 we were high school sweethearts best friends lovers we were each others other half!! We never fought we always were together loved all the same things we were that couple everyone wanted to be!! We were together 9 years before we had our first child we have 3 now. When our youngest was 2 1/2 months old he had a nervous break down and started hearing voices and seeing things that were not real. We had been together 13 years. That's when the love of my life started to loose his mind piece by piece slowly everyday!! I watched him in a sense die in every way except physically!! We both have been through hell and back and we always said if we ended up not being together we would still be best friends cause we were best friends a year before we got together!! I didn't want to call it quits because even after everything that happened things done and things said with both of us and let me tell you it was absolutely horrible some bad bad things happened he hit me with a car he was not any medication at the time and it was hell. But even after everything I still love him with all my heart because I know his heart and soul but his mental illness f$cked with his head!! If I wouldn't of walked away and said I was done when I did and let me tell you that was the hardest thing I have ever done if I wouldn't of we would of hated each other and and not be able to be friends!! We are still best friends but it's hard and it sucks I love and miss a man that is lost in a reality in his mind that is not real!! This song is deep and true!! Thank you you are an amazing individual very wise beyond your years in many ways!! 💯💯💯😘😘😘❤❤❤

  • @mustangsally3343
    @mustangsally3343 2 роки тому +1

    The music in the beginning of this song is beautiful. Then the words hit the soul hard. Going through it now..

  • @dylananthony
    @dylananthony 6 років тому +11

    I have never clicked a notification so fast in my life oh my!
    Who else just finished watching?

    • @silvapoolplastering1730
      @silvapoolplastering1730 5 років тому

      Shawna Alice_xo Watching rn! Would you listen to my new song on my channel and sub or drop a comment if you like it?

  • @MariaLopez-dj5zl
    @MariaLopez-dj5zl 5 років тому +56

    I dated a guy for 2 years and I finally had the balls to end it... he would tell me it was my fault he cheated and all the wrong he did when in reality it was all on him he made me feel like shit I gained weight and when I walked away finally everything in my life started going according to plan... I was so scared no one was going to love me so I settled for less but now I’m single and it ain’t bad like I just got me to worry about and me to get stronger when one leaves a toxic relationship you notice you deserved better and feel a weight off your shoulders like damn 🤦🏻‍♀️❤️

    • @kaitlynnpeters2288
      @kaitlynnpeters2288 4 роки тому +1

      Maria Lopez I wish I had the balls to do the same

    • @ttaylor8239
      @ttaylor8239 4 роки тому +2

      Cheating is a NO GO ZONE. NEVER tolerate that. YOU ARE A QUEEN, STRAIGHTEN YOUR CROWN AND WALK AWAY. The secret is when YOU LOVE YOU, you attract the people that will love you too. When you allow someone to gaslight you, you attract others that will do the same. Imagine it like picking a song, cuz it's frequency based. That's the key to the universe. If you want to listen to a sad song about how you get your heart broken over, and over, and over again by a cheater, then you allow it, even though you know what's wrong deep down. Pick a better song, you deserve THAT. 😉

    • @trinamckenzie5139
      @trinamckenzie5139 4 роки тому

      im going through this now and have been for a while

    • @danielmcmullin5607
      @danielmcmullin5607 3 роки тому +2

      @@ttaylor8239 iv never heard it out so real and or raw. but yet have to say some love is different than others and sometimes it is worth staying. depending on the situation over all and the love that was put in on either side and both sides... most of it doesn't matter as long as both individuals are happy and willing to put in 💯% and actually hold up to doing so then all should end up amazing for the rest of they're lives. if either doesn't want to put that 💯% into they're end of the relationship it should just be left alone and they should seperate from one another.if they stay there being fake saying they love one another then that would be like a game Wich would obviously show that they probably shouldn't have continued forward as a couple because that's not how a team works with eachother

    • @danielmcmullin5607
      @danielmcmullin5607 3 роки тому +1

      Sometimes it's better to leave, sometimes it's better to stay.... It's all up to how the both partners feel.every1s situation is different. If both partners want to bring it all back together than they can if both are honest and communicate about it do they can work through it. If they are both 100%with each other and stay faithful from the beginning to forever and they grow that bond there's no reason that they aren't capable of making it work together. This life we live is about growing, building, improving. Each of these elements of Life are attainable can you add them to your life experience. If you use problem solving skills for every aspect of your life you can figure out any part of your life across your journey till you reach the point that you're old enough wise enough my turn enough to make the right decisions that you have to stay learning as well if you don't take that skill and play everything fall apart with everything you've seen it put together

  • @Agony-co4pd
    @Agony-co4pd 6 років тому +5

    This guys lyrics are the best when it comes to reality

  • @Hogs2024
    @Hogs2024 2 роки тому +4

    This is one of my Golf warm up songs. Gets me in a headspace where I can focus on myself.

  • @Camaron9769
    @Camaron9769 5 років тому +15

    heard "you deserve better" for the entire relationship... turns out I definitely did.

  • @itsjaime305
    @itsjaime305 6 років тому +8

    Black Heart Gang🖤🖤

  • @sarahkemnitz4940
    @sarahkemnitz4940 6 років тому +44

    “Happy never ever after” damnnnn hit hard

  • @avaperry3714
    @avaperry3714 Місяць тому

    Walking away from 10yrs children no responsibility no truth from the man whos got fucked up with issue's i walk while i heal❤❤❤❤

  • @CLC9209
    @CLC9209 4 роки тому +339

    Dedicate this to all my exes who keep contacting me. I haven't changed, I wasn't good enough then, what you want now.

  • @OnlyKUDZAI
    @OnlyKUDZAI 6 років тому +5

    My man Bmike only drops heat

  • @hermosaresa6692
    @hermosaresa6692 5 років тому +23

    I always Love hard! Where does it get me? Taken for granted, neglected. Trying to love someone who doesnt/ wont love me. Just broke up with my bf because I deserve someone who wants me just as much as I want them. Damn I'm crying because I really thought he was the one.

    • @theadventuresofrachelandav6540
      @theadventuresofrachelandav6540 4 роки тому +1

      I am the same way! I always love someone hard that never returns love and breaks me all over again. It's made me lose all hope for a mutual love

    • @rachelhinsperger6066
      @rachelhinsperger6066 4 роки тому

      Always loved hard and as much as it hurts I think maybe that's what my purpose some time until we find that true love shit ..but will they ever forget us hell no ..no regret they will regret and always remember us ..love is crazy cruel and insane but never regret only learn move on and its just a chapter in our life story xo