This song hits harder when you finally decide to leave that abusive relationship .. and you start to feel that inner peace, that freedom .. that self love that they destroyed for years.. 🙏🏼.
yohana perez if he’s toxic think about someone good you could find. He’s not worth it because your staying in a bad relationship watching other people having the time of there lives with there partner. Find someone better so you can keep a REAL smile on your face and be happy, don’t ever say you can’t and don’t ever give up.
It's heartbreaking seeing so many of us beautiful females broken hearted, going through hell, never feel like we're enough because how we're treated in relationships. In the end we always come out stronger than anyone can think. Yall are beautiful keep shining💜
Nicki Lema you not a dumb bitch you prolly a beautiful woman with a lot of intelligence and skill just work hard in life some boys just don’t be getting it nowadays 🤦🏽♂️
“you let him cheat on you, you let him beat on you..” “you scared to be single huh ?” y’all if you inna toxic relationship LEAVE because you all deserve better!🥺 don’t let anyone treat you less that you are 😕🥺🥺
Just left a toxic relationship yesterday. I’m 21 years old and have been in relationships since 15. In total I had 4 boyfriends throughout my younger years and they were all very toxic and older than me. I even started to become toxic myself after so many insecurities. I never knew how to be alone which is why I kept falling into another relationship after going through a breakup and not dealing with those feelings first. From experience, just ANYONE who is reading this wether you are in between that age gap or not, know your worth and value yourself. And only keep those who make you feel good, around. PLEASE. I love you and your all so beautiful❤️!!!!!!
@@ppaula8615 don't be afraid to put a foot down when neccesary, and put yourself first ALWAYS. don't be afraid to tell people no, go with your gut feeling and intuitions and you will be happy with the outcome that'll bring to you! happiness starts within you.. and removing toxic people is always good for your own soul, wanting peace does not make you selfish so don't let anyone manipulate you by telling you that you are because you expect better for yourself.
I’m 23 and I just ended a 7 year toxic relationship. He was toxic for majority of the relationship and I started becoming toxic at the end of the relationship. I also bounced from relationship to relationship and that’s why I’m taking my time to heal.
3 days ago, at 3 am i did all I could to protect and defend myself.. 3 days ago was the last day i put up with toxic abusive shit. I’m so grateful to be alive today ❤️
@@calebcorrent6721 and you sir are irrelevant. Bless your little heart. But it doesn't seem you have one . Grow the fuck up and quit beating women. Cause with that comment you made, sounds like you are an abuser yourself!!
I left. I never thought I’d be able to. He was my everything for 10 years and 2 little girls. But I was scared to be alone and single. He was my comfort but he cheated all the time & talked to be so bad and I couldn’t handle it anymore. It’s been 6 months.. i have my hard days but I know my worth now. I did it for my kids and myself ❤️🥺
I can't wait until I feel every word in this chorus because rn I'm still in the sad, depressing, lonely phase.. 😭💔 that boss up phase too far away like I'm tired of these guys coming into my life pretending to love me but they really don't.. ❗❗
“Fuck that lil nigga, you don’t deserve that, you can do better, you fell in love with a fuck nigga” you deserve the world girl. Fuck all the fakes. Just do you boo. Stay beautiful and love yourself. You a bad bitch. Do better than what people think you will. Fuck that lil nigga. You are amazing.
Period Pooh but my philosophy is boss up for self and just show out cause u deserve it but never try to prove a point cause ppl stay waiting on ur downfall so as a woman graceful made and humble because of my life good, bad or ugly I owe it only to #SELF💪🏾🤞🏾💋
Amen it isn't too far..if you dnt knw God.babygirl i hope you chose to get to knw Him and accept the Lord Jesus as ur Lord n savior..if you have..baby you have bounce back ability..you hear me..u will bounce back boo..even if you dnt knw God because He reign on the just and the unjust..subscribe to sarah jakes roberts..babygirl..she is the truth trust me😘
He left me pregnant with my now 2yo daughter. I'm still dealing with that abandonment. I completed my bachelor's tho, it was hard but I had to do it for my baby girl.
Stay strong mama's we got this, leaving is the hardest part. Never will I ignore the red flags ever again sending love too all u strong powerful amazing women from UK x
I was sooooooooo in love with him and I didn't think I could do better...I thought being hit and being put last was acceptable... then I found Mr. White..... he changed my life... the day he met me i had a black eye, stitches in my face, staples in my head, and bruises every where..... he told me I was beautiful and came to see me everyday.... he loves my kids and he loves me and he waited 7 mos for me to get over the other guy.... he's amazing and he's proof that I can do better!!! He's a real BOSS and I'm lucky he found me. 😍 Mr. White I'm keeping you and I am gonna marry you. 😍😘
GIRLS WE COULD DO BETTER!! SHOW HIM YOU WORTH IT, DONT LET HIM DO YOU WRONG OR EVEN MAKE YOU THINK THAT YOUR NOT GOOD ENOUGH, NOWW PICK YOUR CROWN 👑 BACK UP SIS!!👑❤️
9 years here, i can't find it in me to leave even though everything in me wants to be happy for once. Im scared i have 2 little boys and i dont know where to start or even how to be on my own. Im having a hard time finding work which just makes me more scared. Im tired of dealing with it im tired of feeling like this and thinking of myself like this. Deep down i just want to die but im fighting for my babys. I just need god to show me the WAY !!
I know you may feel like you cant move right now, it may feel to foreign but i promise once you leave it'll feel like a breath of new air. I wish you luck
It's songs like this that reminds us of our worth and to find the strength within to change any situation that doesn't nourish our growth or value. We can ALWAYS do better....
Special prayer for all ladies trying to get out of a bad relationship for some reason or another we can’t make out the door. God gives strength n protect us from abusive men 🙏❤️😘
Sara Saccone You have that strength, you have it. I was feeling suicidal every single day, this is the father of my kids so I can never really escape him. But by Gods mighty grace, I’ve conquered and I will continue to conquer those fears
You’re just not tired of him yet. You’re tired of the way he treats you but you’re still hoping he will change. It hurts to hear this but it’s true, because I’ve been told it to. Baby girl he’s never going to change
My child’s father stayed dogging me out and he even choked me twice😭 I kept going back tho but then I finally got sick and tired and now since I have let it all go I have gained my weight back and I’m looking the way I use to look and I’m smiling more! I have a good ass man in my life and he older I’m 23 and he is 27 🥰❤️ he is so Good to me and my son❤️❤️❤️❤️💯 I knew I could do better and got better!
Bro this hits different when ur heartbroken or when ur going through a break up and every time I listen to this song I break down into tears bc of how much I relate to this song but TO ALL THE BEAUTIFUL MAMAS OUT THERE U GOT THIS MAMA,UR NOT ALONE AND STAY STONG AND DONT LET ANYONE BRING U DOWN❤️💜
Run, don’t walk away. My ex had his talons so deeply in me that when he killed himself his family got to listen to him choke me and put a gun in my face before deciding that wasn’t it. He spared me. Don’t ever let yourself get to that point.
8 years of dragging me through his pain and sorrow.He finally felt it was time to cut me off. Im thankful he did. I wouldnt have did it. Its crazy the shit people are willing to put them self through for "LOVE"
Me too .I'm leaving this month .he don't know it .I'm packing my shit and leaving while he is gone to the gym .this mofo has held a knife to my throat choked me until I almost passed out punched me several times.beat both my knees until they was swollen .punched me in my head several times.and just this weekend he throw s and pushup bar at me and threw my soda all on me .then tells me I would look nice in a coffin.
I don’t know who needs to this but your gorgeous, intelligent and worthy of so much more then settling for someone who treats you any less! If they ain’t treating you right then make 2020 your year love! You got this❤️ You can do better. Take care of YOURSELF.
I remember being a playful outgoing 19 yo. Until I got with him.. I was at 130 in weight when I met him. After 3 years of taking beatings from him ... him making me feel less then dirt and depression. I became cold. I didn't want anything to do with anyone on earth. I dropped weight to 90 pounds. Trips to hospitals and and to mental institutions. I remember finally taking a breath of life. The day I moved back into my moms house. I started to gain weight. Now 5 years later, I'm with a wonderful man and a blessing on the way. It's never too late to get out of a toxic relationship. You can and you will do it if that's what you really want.
thats beautiful but when people put there hands on me i put mine on them hader so i don't think i would ever let a guy hit me but got bless you and im gratful you got out of that relationship🙏🏽
Didn't know how this song hit until I left my toxic ABUSIVE relationship ... Thank you, brotha! Because a Sista needed this from a black man. A lot of my sistas going through it with our black men, no support. Glad I can fall back on this song 💕
My big sister is my everything. She used to blast this song in the car when we'd go for drives cause all her toxic friends were ruining her life and she'd pep talk me abt being careful abt who I fuck with cause they could turn around on me. Now I cant see her often so I listen to this song when sum shit goes wrong or I'm sad, close my eyes, and just imagine my sister by my side telling me to do better and that I deserve better than everything thats happening to me rn.
This song describes my whole 6 years of being married to a guy whom I thought was my soulmate. Last Friday was the day we ended it, in a bad way tho but I’m glad that I’m free now. Free from the toxicity and pain I felt. I used to think I wasn’t capable of living alone with my son but here we are, living every day to the fullest and being happy about it!
took me over a year to get out of a mentally , verbally & semi physically abusive relationship. I’m free. I’m happy. I cried to this song so many times and finally I can sing this song at the top of my lungs and be happy.
Been thru a messed up relationship didn't cheat but he was mentally physically and mentally abusive and I stayed after5yrs I left because I knew I deserved better than the bare minimum now I'm glowing and happy as ever to any ladies that still going thru it find you a exit plan and know you are worth it if I did it you can too promise you the feeling that your gonna have is like no other always remember you are worth a man loving you correctly and treating you like the queen you are❤💪🏽
My mom was in a toxic relationship..she never listened to me..she stayed with him and he drove her mentally insane she's paranoid 24/7 and hears voices she is no longer in my life and every time I hear this song I just cry.
I broke free from a Narcissistic, abusive alcoholic after 23 years of marriage. A narcissist is so violent and evil, they make domestic violence seem like cake walk. They’ll take you down in ways you never thought possible, until you’re a shell of a person. lil’ Donald, THANK YOU FOR THIS SONG, If I could, I’d give you the biggest hug for putting this song out here!! I listen to it ALL the time. It helps me to remember I am strong, I’m not broken! I’m single and loving it!! Thank you LD!! ❤️
All I can say is thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️this song is keeping me from going back to an abusive situation. Grew up with no daddy so it’s so good to hear a grown man speak these words . What a beautiful way to share your gift and talent
they always wanna come back when they see you in a better surrounding . turn your back nd say 'f u' . you dont need a man to be happy. you was born without him, you can live without him . stay safe ma .
This song and the comment section is a therapy. Seeing people going through the same situation as me makes me feel that I’m not alone. We’ll get through this.
Yas but what the fuck is wrong with us that we will allow this treatment to happen as Cardi said" a nigga will only do what you allow!!? And I truly appreciate and believe that setiment because after two years of forgiving fuck shit he's finally took the last step and put his hands on me literally put his fingers around my throat and the really sad thing is here I sit on my bed with him next to me telling me how I'm acting now he's literally gas lighting me as I write this and it's MY Birthday!! I'm never getting out he won't leave and the treatment is getting worse he's making LIFE unbearable but I'm all alone in this world literally have no friends no family nothing I haven't left the house in about 7 months and I'm being more and more confined to my bedroom..I look around and I'm horrified that this is my life...I see no future nothing to look forward to I'm hoping to get a reason to go on but the hope is fading fast
I know what you mean... like there’s times where I love him and want the best for him as cause I don’t wanna see him getting hurt YET I’m the one whose getting hurt by him!!
I just heard this song for the first time after leaving a toxic relationship and moving into my new place with nothing because I depended on him the control was real!! I broke my own heart to get peace and baby within 3 weeks I gained ten pounds back after losing 55 pounds from stress.. I listen to this every day to remind me to stay on track!! Thank you 😊
This song has been my strength since the day it came out. Released 3 days before the trial hearing again my abuser. It's been 8 years since I made it out. It still haunts me to this day. I blast parts 1 and 2 everytime I catch myself watching over my shoulder ❤
I'm in that position now. Abuser and my real soulmate. I'm so sad. What am I going to do to stay with the guy I live with and who beat me up a couple of times before. And he is younger or to be with a man who has been coming back to my life for 20 years and knows everything and wants to be with me.My heart is broken.I love them both. I dont cheating. But sometimes messaging my ex. My real soulmate.. Sorry for bad writing.
my kids tell me the same thing but they gave up because we leave and he suckers us back in and he gets the kids to think that Im the one in the wrong and now im stuck
My son told me the same 3 years ago and I didn't listen until 2 months ago. I divorced him. I should've listen to him before. It got worse with physical abuse as well . Traumabond is the worse feeling. Knowing he was a Narcisst.
I went thru so much abuse and mistreatment this past year and I'm slowly growing back and finding myself, this song helps me find my worth and that I am worth something and that what I went thru should not destroy what I believe myself to be 💙 thanks for writing this song
I’ma guy too, and most guys don’t have enough balls to say what he’s saying he is speaking the truth and to all the girls who been going through hard shi, u got this don’t let no man define u, u are beautiful! Don’t let men make u think ur not
I’ve never been in a relationship, but my whole life I’ve watched my momma pick the worst guys ever. I grew up in a broken home, and this song hits deep.
People just don’t care about disliking. Like when he said good people come in your life and you push them away. It’s mostly because of people’s past which makes them have no trust
the fact that a whole ass man wrote this song to help women get through & leave a toxic relationship is truly beautiful 😢
Right.
A blessing to be encouraged.
Facts
Ikrr
Odette Mendoza I hope it wasn’t half of a man
J Code Charger idk what that’s supposed to mean but okay lmao
This song is currently my anthem. All you ladies who feel this song in their soul the way I do... you're beautiful! Keep strong, loves.
thank you and you should feel the same way fuck these boys that hurt us there just missing out
you too love
🤞🏼🖤
Hmm
Yall looking for love in all the wrong places their is a time and place for everything!!!! Gods time dont rush it !!!!!!
"you scared to be single" again felt that, deep asf
FACTS
Facts on that shyt
facts
I don’t know why people are scared
Same baby... But WE got this 👌 ❤️ pick your head up and move forward. Time heals US 😘
This song hits harder when you finally decide to leave that abusive relationship .. and you start to feel that inner peace, that freedom .. that self love that they destroyed for years.. 🙏🏼.
😩😩😭🥺🥺🥺
Facts
Ikr
🙏🏻
Facts, this song hit on point!!! We don't deserve that, we can do better on repeat!!! I left and started completely over but I'm gonna do better!!!
this song hits hard when your over him
periodt. Where did all these likes come from🥺🥺
aiyana xvn periodttt . How’d you get over him tho💀😭🥺..
@@aarionna i had better company by my side
aiyana xvn ohh , thank you!
I'm in a toxic relationship and I'm trynna get over him but its hard. 😔😔
yohana perez if he’s toxic think about someone good you could find. He’s not worth it because your staying in a bad relationship watching other people having the time of there lives with there partner. Find someone better so you can keep a REAL smile on your face and be happy, don’t ever say you can’t and don’t ever give up.
This is true ..we as woman need to Know are worth.. because we can do better..
nola woodlee yes girl u right just we women don't mean that we don't get to chooes2
I love this post just don't turn in to a feminist but yeah y'all do because we don't treat y'all right
😀
@@gabrielsanchez4053 UA-cam good
Yup
“Then a good man come along, and you push him away. You push him away.” I felt that
Facts
That’s what I’m trying to avoid.
It's heartbreaking seeing so many of us beautiful females broken hearted, going through hell, never feel like we're enough because how we're treated in relationships. In the end we always come out stronger than anyone can think. Yall are beautiful keep shining💜
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STAY STRONG TO WHO EVER IS LISTEININ TO THIS, YOU GOT THIS MAMA , I promise you do.
On God 🙏
Thank YOU! so much i need this
Idk....if I do
@@EM-fv2dq you do
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When a good man comes and you push him away. Felt that hard af
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then the good man does the same shit 😕
@@nataliahill163 Because there is no good man it’s just nature
No such thing
This is my Reality af
“He call you ugly names
Your mind ain’t feeling the same
You going through bodily change
Girl get back on your game 🥺.”
Facts frfr tho
i feel that
Chillsss
My ex used to call me a “stupid delusional dumb bitch” because I confronted him with his phone that he was cheating...
Nicki Lema you not a dumb bitch you prolly a beautiful woman with a lot of intelligence and skill just work hard in life some boys just don’t be getting it nowadays 🤦🏽♂️
5 yrs strong without him! I remember the day my dad sat me down and said listen to this
Lol ur dad did
@alexisl7610 is that supposed to be funny?
yes ma’am happy ur doing better ❤
Damn pops really told you to sit down and listen to this?!! Pops a real one 💪🏽💪🏽
@@spiritualru2364 he sure did! My father made sure I knew my worth!
“Then a good man comes along and u push him away” damn I felt that.. you begin to loose trust for everyone 😞
Lose but this is so true💯
Lowkey i got sum bad trust issues thats how bad iv been hurt
10x
Denied every good guy for a loser & now we have a kid 🥴 I feel like I still try bc we have a little baby.
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“you let him cheat on you, you let him beat on you..” “you scared to be single huh ?” y’all if you inna toxic relationship LEAVE because you all deserve better!🥺 don’t let anyone treat you less that you are 😕🥺🥺
For real I been through that
Facts i need up lifting ppl in my life like u i fw that Periodt sis...aye u got snap????
@@sashaproctor5653 same
princess100. trust.nobody my snap is badqueen.sasha
princess100. trust.nobody yea I do
"he could cheat right in yo face, and you still gon believe him" I FELT THAT...
Sameee
@@iiamjaz am n ready 4 nxtz
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Ughh
RIP to the women who have died at the hands of abusive men. I wish they could have heard this song.
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I lost my cousin last year to domestic violence. I miss her so much.
And all the guys have died to abusive women lmao
Just left a toxic relationship yesterday. I’m 21 years old and have been in relationships since 15. In total I had 4 boyfriends throughout my younger years and they were all very toxic and older than me. I even started to become toxic myself after so many insecurities. I never knew how to be alone which is why I kept falling into another relationship after going through a breakup and not dealing with those feelings first. From experience, just ANYONE who is reading this wether you are in between that age gap or not, know your worth and value yourself. And only keep those who make you feel good, around. PLEASE. I love you and your all so beautiful❤️!!!!!!
How you start loving yourself ? Im in the same situation .the worse is i work with him
proud of you boo. love yourself.
@@ppaula8615 don't be afraid to put a foot down when neccesary, and put yourself first ALWAYS. don't be afraid to tell people no, go with your gut feeling and intuitions and you will be happy with the outcome that'll bring to you! happiness starts within you.. and removing toxic people is always good for your own soul, wanting peace does not make you selfish so don't let anyone manipulate you by telling you that you are because you expect better for yourself.
PERIODT SIS 😌✋🏼❤️ PREACH ✨
I’m 23 and I just ended a 7 year toxic relationship. He was toxic for majority of the relationship and I started becoming toxic at the end of the relationship. I also bounced from relationship to relationship and that’s why I’m taking my time to heal.
3 days ago, at 3 am i did all I could to protect and defend myself.. 3 days ago was the last day i put up with toxic abusive shit. I’m so grateful to be alive today ❤️
I'm proud of you girl💞💞
Nobody cares lmao
Proud of you!!! Ladies know your worth
@@calebcorrent6721 and you sir are irrelevant. Bless your little heart. But it doesn't seem you have one . Grow the fuck up and quit beating women. Cause with that comment you made, sounds like you are an abuser yourself!!
You won! Don't let this monster win
I left. I never thought I’d be able to. He was my everything for 10 years and 2 little girls. But I was scared to be alone and single. He was my comfort but he cheated all the time & talked to be so bad and I couldn’t handle it anymore. It’s been 6 months.. i have my hard days but I know my worth now. I did it for my kids and myself ❤️🥺
Good for you
im proud of you mamas!
Hell yeah QUEEN, do ya thang and raise those kings😈
Props to you. I know that alot of ladies go through it. And you never forget guys go through it. Trust me I am speaking from experience.
Hopefully I'm strong one day..... To actually walk away. I'm still a him and it's hard to walk away.... Hes always knocking me down...
this guy saw a problem and made a song to help us cope with it bro, that shit comes from real one 💯💯
I FINALLY GET OVER HIM. IM FINALLY HAPPY AGAIN. I FINALLY LOVE MYSELF AND KNOW MY WORTH . IT TOOK 6 MONTHS BUT IM HERE NOW
Amen
Im happy fo u
I’m happy for u
im sooo late , but im happy for youu , you deserve itttt:)
I am happy for you
I can't wait until I feel every word in this chorus because rn I'm still in the sad, depressing, lonely phase.. 😭💔 that boss up phase too far away like I'm tired of these guys coming into my life pretending to love me but they really don't.. ❗❗
That pretty girl Dij love ur self fight fuck aLL the bitches stoping u live life
You just playin around with the wrong dudes. Too many fuck boys out here. You're beautiful, don't settle for less.
“Fuck that lil nigga, you don’t deserve that, you can do better, you fell in love with a fuck nigga” you deserve the world girl. Fuck all the fakes. Just do you boo. Stay beautiful and love yourself. You a bad bitch. Do better than what people think you will. Fuck that lil nigga. You are amazing.
Period Pooh but my philosophy is boss up for self and just show out cause u deserve it but never try to prove a point cause ppl stay waiting on ur downfall so as a woman graceful made and humble because of my life good, bad or ugly I owe it only to #SELF💪🏾🤞🏾💋
Amen it isn't too far..if you dnt knw God.babygirl i hope you chose to get to knw Him and accept the Lord Jesus as ur Lord n savior..if you have..baby you have bounce back ability..you hear me..u will bounce back boo..even if you dnt knw God because He reign on the just and the unjust..subscribe to sarah jakes roberts..babygirl..she is the truth trust me😘
He left me pregnant with my now 2yo daughter. I'm still dealing with that abandonment. I completed my bachelor's tho, it was hard but I had to do it for my baby girl.
wow you got this girl that shit aint easy! good for you and godbless
Yassss congrats on your achievements 💜 you are so so strong
@@lexximccoy1 ♥️
@@SWEEKDEZTENE ♥️
@@lexximccoy1 ♥️♥️♥️♥️
look at you thinkin you couldn’t live without him now look at you livin
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Being in a toxic relationship is the worst 💔😔
Especially when you lose your self...
Yeah😕
I'm goneeeee
I was once that person
Yea it's sucks..
But if u stay your just letting it continuing to happen and you don’t deserve that at all
I fucking cry everytime I hear this song God give me the strength
🙌
Stay strong and stay safe keep your head up ma'am. 💯💚💚💚💚💚💚💚👆👆👆👆👆🤟🤟🙏🙏💯💯
@@stephaniestahly2373 you stay strong and keep your head up and stay safe also ma'am. 💯💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚🤟🤟🤟👆👆👆
SAME 🥺😢
Stay strong!
Stay strong mama's we got this, leaving is the hardest part. Never will I ignore the red flags ever again sending love too all u strong powerful amazing women from UK x
I was sooooooooo in love with him and I didn't think I could do better...I thought being hit and being put last was acceptable... then I found Mr. White..... he changed my life... the day he met me i had a black eye, stitches in my face, staples in my head, and bruises every where..... he told me I was beautiful and came to see me everyday.... he loves my kids and he loves me and he waited 7 mos for me to get over the other guy.... he's amazing and he's proof that I can do better!!! He's a real BOSS and I'm lucky he found me. 😍 Mr. White I'm keeping you and I am gonna marry you. 😍😘
Amazing!!👏💯💯
Amazing so happy for you
CONGRATULATIONS YEAAA LADY MARRYY HIM😉😎
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neda wright I am so happy for you , you are beautiful no matter what always stay strong and never settle for nun less ❤️ I’m glad you found better
GIRLS WE COULD DO BETTER!! SHOW HIM YOU WORTH IT, DONT LET HIM DO YOU WRONG OR EVEN MAKE YOU THINK THAT YOUR NOT GOOD ENOUGH, NOWW PICK YOUR CROWN 👑 BACK UP SIS!!👑❤️
Absolutely 💯
In a relationship rn and need to learn how to let go
13 years of mental torture... Devastation, pain, tears, mental wars with myself.
Finally feeling good
Finally glowing and smiling
9 years here, i can't find it in me to leave even though everything in me wants to be happy for once. Im scared i have 2 little boys and i dont know where to start or even how to be on my own. Im having a hard time finding work which just makes me more scared. Im tired of dealing with it im tired of feeling like this and thinking of myself like this. Deep down i just want to die but im fighting for my babys. I just need god to show me the WAY !!
@@xiannarodriguez831 funny how I wrote the exact same post. How you doing? Did it get better?
Keep growing yo...
Lyssa Brescia good for you!
17 years. I feel you baby. Keep pushing the glow up and happiness is the best revenge
I left my abuser. Thank You lord. And also he's locked up. Hallelujah God is so good. ❤❤❤❤
it’s not the physical abuse for me but the mental and emotional abuse. narcissism and gas lighting. i’m aware i should go but i can’t. 💔
I know you may feel like you cant move right now, it may feel to foreign but i promise once you leave it'll feel like a breath of new air. I wish you luck
I hope u find it in u to leave u deserve better girly💟
Narcs are peace killaz&soul snatcher's.
I feel your pain 💔💔💔I'm too beautiful too cry
I felt like I let him do that too me 💔💔
I listen to this song every day.... with my broken ass ❤️
Hey..
Don't be broken.
If no one told you today..
I fuckin love you.
I love you andI mean it
Don't feel that way u a strong woman 🥰💯💪🏾💪🏾
Sending you lots of love and strength ❤️
Praying for u.....as well as me as I'm trying to leave my toxic relationship of 5 years
How did your ass break? 😝
This is my pep song , it actually helps me to keep on track, moving forward and do better ...learning my worth..
Great advice.
Agreed I listen to this often to remind myself of my own worth
😭😞😭♥️🤍💌😭
It's songs like this that reminds us of our worth and to find the strength within to change any situation that doesn't nourish our growth or value. We can ALWAYS do better....
Special prayer for all ladies trying to get out of a bad relationship for some reason or another we can’t make out the door. God gives strength n protect us from abusive men 🙏❤️😘
Lord Jesus give me the strength to leave him before I get stuck
Bitch do it already
Babygirl u have the strength to leave him u just don’t know it yet til u try it
babygirl please leave him.
Sara Saccone You have that strength, you have it. I was feeling suicidal every single day, this is the father of my kids so I can never really escape him. But by Gods mighty grace, I’ve conquered and I will continue to conquer those fears
You’re just not tired of him yet. You’re tired of the way he treats you but you’re still hoping he will change. It hurts to hear this but it’s true, because I’ve been told it to. Baby girl he’s never going to change
My child’s father stayed dogging me out and he even choked me twice😭 I kept going back tho but then I finally got sick and tired and now since I have let it all go I have gained my weight back and I’m looking the way I use to look and I’m smiling more! I have a good ass man in my life and he older I’m 23 and he is 27 🥰❤️ he is so
Good to me and my son❤️❤️❤️❤️💯 I knew I could do better and got better!
@Sarah Nichols 💯
Nina Glenn yes ma’am✊🏻💯 look at u doing better 💯❤️
I hope I meet someone willing to treat me and my daughter good
Good job Mama. I AM PROUD OF YOU! ❤️❤️
Nina Glenn I’m proud of you keep doing you and being happy :)
Bro this hits different when ur heartbroken or when ur going through a break up and every time I listen to this song I break down into tears bc of how much I relate to this song but TO ALL THE BEAUTIFUL MAMAS OUT THERE U GOT THIS MAMA,UR NOT ALONE AND STAY STONG AND DONT LET ANYONE BRING U DOWN❤️💜
I cry a lot heading this!!
Thank you 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💙🩷
I just got out off a toxic relationship...i play this everyday to heal and remind myself im strong and that i deserve more
🖤🖤🖤
Run, don’t walk away. My ex had his talons so deeply in me that when he killed himself his family got to listen to him choke me and put a gun in my face before deciding that wasn’t it. He spared me. Don’t ever let yourself get to that point.
Absolutely, me too
“ I don’t think you know your worth “ I felt that to the max 😩💯
8 years of dragging me through his pain and sorrow.He finally felt it was time to cut me off. Im thankful he did. I wouldnt have did it. Its crazy the shit people are willing to put them self through for "LOVE"
I'm proud of you you're doing amazing goodjob ❤
@@andrea5833 a date with me and at the sweet and we are the sweet potato and onion soup at least a date and we will have a
Spot for me at work 🖕👌👌😴 seeing the same time
Same amount of years and everything for me too. Its been 1 month. I'm finally waking up and not already being angry lol
Damn l feel this song💔 Narcissist abuse is real protect your heart ladies
To all my girls going through something, ''love uuuu girl''
i love you more
🙏❤
I needed to read this. Going through the worst times of my life.
@@cherishdelorme4383 its okay
Love from Trinidad needed this today
straight up he is for real on this when other rappers are treating woman like shit this guy is a gift to this world we need more people like this
This song hits so different when you lived it and finally wake up. Thank God for clarity in the midst of a pandemic. Light and love
Yasss
Here 2024🤞🏽😮💨
Twin
Yess! 💕
Me too .I'm leaving this month .he don't know it .I'm packing my shit and leaving while he is gone to the gym .this mofo has held a knife to my throat choked me until I almost passed out punched me several times.beat both my knees until they was swollen .punched me in my head several times.and just this weekend he throw s and pushup bar at me and threw my soda all on me .then tells me I would look nice in a coffin.
I don’t know who needs to this but your gorgeous, intelligent and worthy of so much more then settling for someone who treats you any less! If they ain’t treating you right then make 2020 your year love! You got this❤️ You can do better. Take care of YOURSELF.
Lunar Eclipse Prayers for your sweet soul 🦋
Thank youuuuu
Thanks g I appreciate you much love from central phx
say less 💯‼
🥰😘😘😘😘 thank you love. Like wise.
I finally left that toxic relationship last Saturday. Congratulations
Its ok youll find someone worth it
Yess I'm proud of you ik I don't know you but I truly am proud and happy and I wish the best for you
soo glad for you frr . any good person deserves to b happy .
Glad u did nobody deserves that
Nancy O'Neal super proud Nancy! 💗
I have never listen to this is it’s entirety till today & I just left after 6 years 4 days ago. God bless you sir. Ladies, I love YOU
Been listening to this song for years.. so much truth to this song
I love how it's brought all these beautiful women together ... Stronger together
I used to cry to this song after my breakup. Now I can listen to it without shedding a tear or sick feeling.
This song is for my momma 😌I showed it to her and translated for her in Spanish and she started crying 😭💕
aww..
Aweeee
That is sooo nice i love that
awwww i hope she leaves that situation si dios quiere
Same I finna send it to her
I remember being a playful outgoing 19 yo. Until I got with him.. I was at 130 in weight when I met him. After 3 years of taking beatings from him ... him making me feel less then dirt and depression. I became cold. I didn't want anything to do with anyone on earth. I dropped weight to 90 pounds. Trips to hospitals and and to mental institutions. I remember finally taking a breath of life. The day I moved back into my moms house. I started to gain weight. Now 5 years later, I'm with a wonderful man and a blessing on the way. It's never too late to get out of a toxic relationship. You can and you will do it if that's what you really want.
Janine Baby 😭❤️ God bless you
@@heygirlletstalkcrime god bless you more🥰
Damn thats must of been hard but glad you got outta that. All love to you baby girl💕
Thank you I need to head that
thats beautiful but when people put there hands on me i put mine on them hader so i don't think i would ever let a guy hit me but got bless you and im gratful you got out of that relationship🙏🏽
❤❤❤ this song is the releast...the realest. Much love to men like this who help us remember good men exist
To all the people who just broke up w someone, u’ll feel better, you’ll do better w/o them, it hurts I know, but u gotta do better, u deserve better
Didn't know how this song hit until I left my toxic ABUSIVE relationship ... Thank you, brotha! Because a Sista needed this from a black man. A lot of my sistas going through it with our black men, no support. Glad I can fall back on this song 💕
This
My big sister is my everything. She used to blast this song in the car when we'd go for drives cause all her toxic friends were ruining her life and she'd pep talk me abt being careful abt who I fuck with cause they could turn around on me. Now I cant see her often so I listen to this song when sum shit goes wrong or I'm sad, close my eyes, and just imagine my sister by my side telling me to do better and that I deserve better than everything thats happening to me rn.
This song describes my whole 6 years of being married to a guy whom I thought was my soulmate. Last Friday was the day we ended it, in a bad way tho but I’m glad that I’m free now. Free from the toxicity and pain I felt. I used to think I wasn’t capable of living alone with my son but here we are, living every day to the fullest and being happy about it!
took me over a year to get out of a mentally , verbally & semi physically abusive relationship. I’m free. I’m happy. I cried to this song so many times and finally I can sing this song at the top of my lungs and be happy.
Same, took almost 2 years before I opened my eyes and got the fk away
the saddest part is how many women here that can relate to this...
Ong😔😔
Tukzjxh1s ssf UBS 5 ha hir5
Me I can
Alexis Clark for real 🤧😕
Fax 🥺😢
" he can cheat right in your face and you still gon believe him"💔👎🏽
N
houstonntriinn that’s some real shit
houstonntriinn facts !
They
boy was i stupid
Been thru a messed up relationship didn't cheat but he was mentally physically and mentally abusive and I stayed after5yrs I left because I knew I deserved better than the bare minimum now I'm glowing and happy as ever to any ladies that still going thru it find you a exit plan and know you are worth it if I did it you can too promise you the feeling that your gonna have is like no other always remember you are worth a man loving you correctly and treating you like the queen you are❤💪🏽
“You don’t deserve that”
Too whoever is going through something. Just remember your strong. You got this💪 Make the right decision mama.
💪🏼🦾👐🏻 THIS MAMA WANTS OUT
My mom was in a toxic relationship..she never listened to me..she stayed with him and he drove her mentally insane she's paranoid 24/7 and hears voices she is no longer in my life and every time I hear this song I just cry.
"you LET him cheat on you, you LET him beat on you" felt thatttt
Sameeee
Mmhmm
I felt that too
Sad moments :(
Same here 😢
The movement against domestic violence, love this song
This song is never leaving my playlist. It’s a whole ass bop and it’s so true.
“Girl get back on your game” I felt that it went to my heart
when he said "he can cheat right in your face, and you still gonna believe him" I felt that.
we all have been their but it hurts even more when his own family helps
@@lostinwonderland6873 Wow that is horribly rude.
@@madisonmiller1187 I had no idea and she was always around
Me too
@@dripgodtv1210 This did happen to me but his family helped and it was mother's day so imagine the hate I have for them
Been out my toxic for 3yrs now. This song truly helped me. My edges did grow back too. ❤️💯
Swear I needed this like a decade ago 😔😢
Right man 😩
This song brings tears to my eyes everytime I hear it
It just hurts ...
I Kno the feeling
Yo fr
This song brings tears to my eyes everytime l hear it lt just hurts
This song brings tears to my eyes everytime l hear it lt just hurts
Frfr
This never gets old to me 😊
Same!❤
I broke free from a Narcissistic, abusive alcoholic after 23 years of marriage. A narcissist is so violent and evil, they make domestic violence seem like cake walk. They’ll take you down in ways you never thought possible, until you’re a shell of a person.
lil’ Donald, THANK YOU FOR THIS SONG, If I could, I’d give you the biggest hug for putting this song out here!! I listen to it ALL the time. It helps me to remember I am strong, I’m not broken! I’m single and loving it!! Thank you LD!! ❤️
I feel this so deep. I been through it for 3 years, and I thought I would never be better, this song gives me courage.
Young Saucy I’ve been going through for two damn years
You deserve better baby girl all love goes to u. You will find someone better💕
All I can say is thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️this song is keeping me from going back to an abusive situation. Grew up with no daddy so it’s so good to hear a grown man speak these words . What a beautiful way to share your gift and talent
i left my toxic relationship and he started coming back once he saw me doing better ..😭i think this song for me 🥺🥺
they always wanna come back when they see you in a better surrounding . turn your back nd say 'f u' . you dont need a man to be happy. you was born without him, you can live without him . stay safe ma .
Brian S ty .💞
Damn I’m sorry😪 quid_wkeys that my instagram If you ever need someone to talk to
Ur beautiful
This song is for me to but he cheated on me and I went right back to him again and he cheated again
This song and the comment section is a therapy. Seeing people going through the same situation as me makes me feel that I’m not alone. We’ll get through this.
I wish I had somebody like @lil Donald 😪
Rite 🌹u deserve the best ma remember that
Desmond 👶
The sad part is when you allow them to treat you terrible because you love them and don’t wanna let go
i felt, i cry myself to sleep every night and idek what to do anymore.
Yas but what the fuck is wrong with us that we will allow this treatment to happen as Cardi said" a nigga will only do what you allow!!? And I truly appreciate and believe that setiment because after two years of forgiving fuck shit he's finally took the last step and put his hands on me literally put his fingers around my throat and the really sad thing is here I sit on my bed with him next to me telling me how I'm acting now he's literally gas lighting me as I write this and it's MY Birthday!! I'm never getting out he won't leave and the treatment is getting worse he's making LIFE unbearable but I'm all alone in this world literally have no friends no family nothing I haven't left the house in about 7 months and I'm being more and more confined to my bedroom..I look around and I'm horrified that this is my life...I see no future nothing to look forward to I'm hoping to get a reason to go on but the hope is fading fast
I know what you mean... like there’s times where I love him and want the best for him as cause I don’t wanna see him getting hurt YET I’m the one whose getting hurt by him!!
All in hopes that he will change cuz you wanna believe in him 💔
Feel u
WE CAN DO BETTER GIRLS 🥺❤️❤️
>>>>>>girls like
i miss him tho......
I miss my boyfriend tho
@@breiannalove6456 i dont lmao u gon be ok i promise
PEWIODT ima do betta
we will always miss them but its so much better to miss and still have love rather than be dead or them dead to you
This Song actually helps me every time I listen to it 😩 it helps
Me get the courage to love myself first & leave who keep hurting me 🥺💯
To all survivors of abusive relationships we made it! Don't let these monster win!
Right
I need to see this
I’ve been though all this bullshit it wasn’t easy leaving and my dad tell til this day in strong and he’s proud of me !!! I love dad ❤️.
Yes we did ! We need to stand together against these pos
@@Min_Alina we're proud you got out when you did
I was a rebound girlfriend for a year. He went back to his ex after he broke up with me. But this song help me boss tf up ❤️☺️
I like that
I felt that one
I just heard this song for the first time after leaving a toxic relationship and moving into my new place with nothing because I depended on him the control was real!! I broke my own heart to get peace and baby within 3 weeks I gained ten pounds back after losing 55 pounds from stress.. I listen to this every day to remind me to stay on track!! Thank you 😊
This song has been my strength since the day it came out. Released 3 days before the trial hearing again my abuser. It's been 8 years since I made it out. It still haunts me to this day. I blast parts 1 and 2 everytime I catch myself watching over my shoulder ❤
“Then a good man come along and you push em’ away”😞💔 y’all just need to realize most men ain’t the same😩
You right
💯
I'm in that position now. Abuser and my real soulmate. I'm so sad. What am I going to do to stay with the guy I live with and who beat me up a couple of times before. And he is younger or to be with a man who has been coming back to my life for 20 years and knows everything and wants to be with me.My heart is broken.I love them both. I dont cheating. But sometimes messaging my ex. My real soulmate.. Sorry for bad writing.
This a fact
This song do something to my soul 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
My son dedicated this song to me after a recent broken off engagement with my ex and I.Should of listened to my son from the jump.💯💯💯
my kids tell me the same thing but they gave up because we leave and he suckers us back in and he gets the kids to think that Im the one in the wrong and now im stuck
My son told me the same 3 years ago and I didn't listen until 2 months ago. I divorced him. I should've listen to him before. It got worse with physical abuse as well . Traumabond is the worse feeling. Knowing he was a Narcisst.
Went through an abusive relationship and when I finally got out this song was on repeat 24/7 ❤️
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I went thru so much abuse and mistreatment this past year and I'm slowly growing back and finding myself, this song helps me find my worth and that I am worth something and that what I went thru should not destroy what I believe myself to be 💙 thanks for writing this song
I’ma guy too, and most guys don’t have enough balls to say what he’s saying he is speaking the truth and to all the girls who been going through hard shi, u got this don’t let no man define u, u are beautiful! Don’t let men make u think ur not
fax and true
@@morydiakite5390 hell yea fam
Too many good men out there who will be willing to treat and love you right.
26 yrs together 17 yrs married 4 kids an i walk away from his toxic ass .an am doing better ...this song hit harddd❤❤❤❤❤❤
I’ve never been in a relationship, but my whole life I’ve watched my momma pick the worst guys ever. I grew up in a broken home, and this song hits deep.
I’ve been listening to this song everyday for a month... it’s making me stronger.
Stay strong ma💯🇨🇮💚
This song makes me sob every time & knowing I’m cry my eyes out I leave it on repeat 😭😩
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😥😞🤍♥️
I feel like hes speaking to me in this song and I love the way it makes me feel. Makes me realize my worth. 💕 Big Fan.
Ppl that disliked this is the guys that Donald is describing
And girls
People just don’t care about disliking. Like when he said good people come in your life and you push them away. It’s mostly because of people’s past which makes them have no trust
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Oak Cliff what is so funny. I want to laugh.
@@emilycastellanos7262 read the comment.