when she told me goodbye it broke my heart. i wanted to jump through the screen and make her change her mind . instead , i simply said goodbye as well. i really thought she was gone forever . 4 days later she contacts me i truly believe that if i had begged her to stay it really would have been the last time .. thanks corey had it not been for you i would have made every contact possible . less is more less is more
In other words, conquer uncertainty by focusing on your purpose and by understanding that time, space, and her uncertainty are the ingredients necessary to fuel a fantasy about you. Bother her all the time, interrupt/ruin her fantasy, and she'll never be a part of yours.
4:42 A woman’s romantic interest in you rises slowly over time, like baking a cake. 5:10 Be careful to overcompliment in the beginning. Let women come and go as they please. 7:20 Like a guy being in his man cave, a woman needs some space and time to sit with her emotions so the emotional dough can rise like a cake. 9:15 When you act dopey, you act weak. You’re basically communicating that you don’t have any emotional self control. When a woman sees that and senses that, you’re basically starting to act like a stalker, needy guy, or a guy who becomes an abusive boyfriend would act. When she backs away, let her go. Space out the time in between your dates. She should be doing 70%-80% if initiating contact. *When she goes cold, stick to once a week asking her out.* Back off and wait to see if she contacts you, and if she does just say, “Hey I’d really love to see you. When are you free next week? What nights are you open for dinner?” Set a definite date and then don’t open the oven up until it’s time for your date. 11:40 Letting her girlfriends talk about you raises her level of interest in you. Instead of volunteering everything you’ve been up to, let her ask you what you’ve been up to. And don’t tell her everything - let her work to find these things out about you. If she’s interested she’s going to want to know and ask these things.
"...you're basically communicating you don't have emotional self control... like a stalker would act, like a needy guy would act, like an abusive boyfriend would act." I have never heard a man GET IT like you did right there. 100% Right.
Grace Culver hey grace so walk away even of y'all co parenting???? so when the baby is sooo. young like 9months and she asking me are we on the same page of a friendship?? she keeps asking but she said it already I don't care no more she keeps bringing it up so what should I do when she calls me with video chat for the baby but what's for.me to do besides getting things for what the baby needs!
when you display dominant male behavior by being centered and strong then she will pursue you and want to be with you more bc she's uncertain of where she stands with you women are attracted to men who they don't know where they stand with them, whose feelings are unclear you want a woman to wonder about you, don't constantly text them a woman's romantic interest build up a slowly like a cake in the oven, a mistake that a lot of guys make is to constantly open the oven to check "is it done? is it done? etc." a lot of guys fall for the illusion of action - that you constantly need to pursue her to make her like you
Hello there works even with beautiful women.. I didn't reach out to one girl for 2 months and she started texting me and asking me out, asking where am I, why I don't text as much as I used to.. lol and on badoo, there was one extremely hot chick and I bet she receives AT LEAST 20 messages a day. So I just made a profile like coach said, put photos, description and just let it stay there. We matched and first thing I would do one year ago is either text her 10 min later OR text her the day after. Now I waited 5 days, it was kind of hard, but I got INSTANT response (it said she was last online 6 hours ago) but she answered in matter of minutes.. I just asked her how her day was and in next message what she likes to do.. Bet she doesn't get a lot of that. I didn't go online since then, focusing on my mission and purpose and work! When she answers, gonna text a bit more and ask for video call and if it goes well, make a definite date :D
Don't work at it at all. Just saying 'hello' is enough to get ghosted these days. If you dare to even write a sentence, then you're 'showing weakness'. Call b.s. on all the complications that these 'coaches', apps & dumb broads have created. Make your life abt more than chasing pussy....there really IS a lot more to life than obsessing about all this.
I feel all this but I’m dealing with someone who I assume gauges my interest on her on how much I contact her. I want her to know that I’m interested in a future with her but I know it’s not an overnight thing: She can be needy sometimes, but we are working with our types of communication. Regardless, I’m working on not getting too attached until it’s a definitely thing. I just find it difficult showing her my interest while maintain the topics Corey is pointing out.
Great explanation Corey. Less chasing and more being focused on yourself. Only use the phone to set up appointments. Thank you Corey and your style of coaching fits my character.
@@ariaarulasan Think of it like this. Women are like shoppers. When she’s dating you, it’s a free trial to your store. If you’re Sams Club,chances are she’s going to always come to you for all she needs. You have everything a person could need. Will she go to Dollar General and Publix sometimes? Yep but after time when she sees you have everything, the other stores will go out of business and she will purchase your membership card. Until then, who she “shops” with shouldn’t matter because you have other shoppers on your trial.
when u date, just dont give much attention to your girl. even though you really love her, try to act cool. this will make her wonder about you and miss you constantly but dont do it to the point where she thinks you dont apprrciate her. that's when problems occur ina relationship utimately resulting in a break up. keep everything in balanced.
yeah the latter was the problem for me. didn't read the whole book and got bad results. it's perfectly fine to see your girlfriend 3 or even 4 days a week after a few months when you're already dating. and you no longer need to stick to "call once a week" rule
@@TrickSnailG 4 days a week is too much. Maximum is 3, even that is pushing it. Gotta make them wonder. When you see eachother too much you both start getting into fights and getting sick of eachother.
This is important. Post breakup I learnt I wasn't being myself. I lost myself. I became emotionally weak. No woman will ever find that attractive! I would not have seen myself as attractive. So back to me being me now. Do I need my ex back? Nope! Might be nice though. I dunno. Not important but could be good. Future is unwritten. No fate but what we make. Either way nothing good comes from being broken.
Right ! Give her some space. Don't have demands about how she should act every time or in some ranges of time. Also, don't put too much thinking on body-language as I've noticed people misinterpreting my body language when I simply had a tooth-ache, or didn't get a full night sleep the night before...keep it light on her and yourself too, have patience, give her the respect of some space, time, and in the future let her know you still care for her.
I Looove you Corey !!! Your worked has really helped me,I had no idea until your work about the subtle things I did wrong with woman. Its a New Game Now!
From friendzoned to her saying, you're really confident, asking me questions and talking and talking. Almost a 180 but still working on it. Guys, that's what happens when you follow the rules and read the book. 😉
5:45 let them come and go. Not just physically but emotionally and verbally. This girl i have been seeing said "NOTHING" for me tonight. I thought haha. But bedtime came and she meant it. We had great dinner and evening. I was being james bond and she got a bit stern with me. So i pulled back. As it turns out. We went to sleep. We woke up and she curled up and said her throat was killing her. She said she just felt a little off and apologized about last night. And thanked me for being understanding. Bottom line is you must pay attention to her actions!! That is what they respect the most since we speak different languages.
Basic rule of thumb i operate under: if a girl that im not dating sleeps in my bed and doesnt put out, she gets 0 attention or invites into my bed again until she literally states out loud "can i stay with you? i want to fuck". I refuse to be repeatedly left high and dry in my own bed
Yeah, I have a female best friend and half the time I don't even answer her calls and she would text me "why are you ignoring me blah blah" I just send a "🤦🏾♂️" text back and continue not to give a shit LOL
ya it is rough, but being good at the game can make it pretty awesome. when you reach that smooth sailing level of abundance and attachments, shit gets pretty awesome.
I'm convinced...totally fucking convinced that Corey knows his shit..im buying the book..im 60 years old and the chance of me stroking out during sex just went up by 25%...what a way to go.thanx coach.wouldnt have it any other way........peaceout
A girl told me she knew I liked her after like the 5th date, because I was genuinely interested in finding out about her week, was a gentleman, and made sure she was enjoying herself. She was moving veryyy slow, I didn't give her enough time to let her feelings develop and let her show she liked me first or even get to the "What are We?" conversation. Shortly after, her interest started to fade, we stopped having sex, and she started cancelling plans. I lost her, but lessons learned. This was after reading the 3% Man book a couple of times and trying it out - after reading it 10+ times I've gotten girls to be completely in love with me and get to the "Where is this going?" conversation, basically them asking to be exclusive
you have saved my love life! say compliments but dont get attached to them becuase it may leave you depressed. Always Be Confidant if you lose it over a girl well you gotta think things over !
Your feelings dont have to be unclear you just need to go at her pace with the emotional investment. I agree with needing to be balanced and not move faster than she does or act desperate. Sometimes its tricky because some women can be deceitful while showing high signs of interest even if you play it cool. Sometimes you do have to say something if it goes on for too long. Obviously you dont have a meltdown just tell her how it is and let her know that you will walk away if we cant be on the same page.
I'm a teen and I text and call a little less than she texts me. Sometimes I don't read the messages and hold off a little to reply to build up some more tension. She still chases 80% and is always down. Maybe age has something to do with it?
. I basically go through relationships like they have a shelf life. After some time I don't even want to work the problems out. Just let em go and get some new one. Younger and hotter. Im pretty fucked up and now I committed to a woman bc I have kids. Is it still wrong to walk away if youre both just not happy. I'm stuck on this one.....
Why don't you make a video on: When you and your girl gets back together what should you do to make her fall in love again when u made a mistake in the past but she was in love with you before.
What I find confusing is when she says she loves you and she knew she did all along. Then after you say it the next day there is no conversation. I will make myself available less often. Being there all the time while she isn't may be my mistake.
Got a 20 year old Romanian girl accusing me of playing games even though she has shit tested me from the get go. She lives in Romania and I’m in the U.S.. We met in the United States 7 months ago, she’s classy, reserved, super hot, comes from a good family and doesn’t seem to hoe around. Before she left she said she wanted a relationship with me after 7 weeks of having fun hanging out and hooking up. I’ve initiated phone calls once a week for a while now. She has slowed down and doesn’t initiate conversations through text or calling anymore. Just a meme once a week or two. I haven’t called in two weeks to see what she would do. She hasn’t done anything. Thoughts? Fall back or pursue?
What if you’ve been talking to this girl as friends for 10 months but now you’re dating probably for the past month, it’s a long distance relationship so we see each other once every couple of weeks we FaceTime all the time and she’s already telling me she loves me! She can’t keep her hands off me she’s always touching my ass or when we’re sleeping she always either is on me hugging me or if she’s not facing me she’ll take my arm and put it around her! Our sex life is good! I guess my question is, is there a red flag if she starts saying she loves you before week seven? Or is it maybe she just digs me that much and I’ve been doing way more things right then not! Maybe because when I give compliments I’m doing what you said, I’m giving them because it’s how I feel not because I want anything in return! I hold the door open for her I do all of that but I hold the door open for anybody that is behind me, it’s just who I am as a person! And maybe that’s the big thing that she senses that I’m not wanting for anything I’m just being myself and I am complementing her from my heart not from a place of neediness! She’s does all the texting n FaceTimes I just sit back And respond and we hang out when we can because like I said she’s lived a long ways away, but she’s doing all of them pursuing when we’re together like I said she can’t keep her hands off me and she just told her family about me! So I guess those are all good signs lol
Dear coach Wayne, I appreciate your work and I apply your methods and they work amazingly, the only problem that I'm facing now is that after setting a definite date, she starts to open up the oven frequently and texting and stuffs, what should I do in this case? thank you in advance.
so last night about three hours after our last text, slightly after midnight, she texted me name, I was on my phone so I replied right away with "What???" and its been almost 24 hours she still hasn't replied. I won't text her again until she texts me, but I'm confused.
What do you do if you plan a date already for the weekend, but she texts in between asking how my days going and randomly sending me pics of what shes doing?
Is that a poundcake in the oven? Sammy Hagar said Van Halen's "Poundcake" song is about the response to complexity of dating and courtship that seemed to comeabout over generations. He said song is about knowing what is in a person (woman).. a pound of this, a pound of that. It is simple and preferred, and song is about that.
Coach, what if there’s good sexual tension I text back only when she text me and I don’t pursue. It’s the 4th date coming up would you stick to going with seeing each other one day a week?
Its been 4 dates and you havnt banged her yet? Make the move dude, get PHYSICAL. You should have no issue at all getting her back to your place by the 4th date.. If you do, youre either acting needy or she just plain isnt into you. period
I honestly think that men need to be more attentive it's women that need to challenge men more!!! We love to much than we're walked on.. Elliott Scott says you are only other real coach!!!!
Coach Corey why would a woman send a naked picture of herself and ask if she could move in ? I don’t even know her and yes I said no ! Just curious about what she’s trying to do ?? Am very aware of shit like this and to protect myself from people out there that would take advantage of people !!
how about people that are in a long-term relationship already? People that are living together for over a year? I keep hearing you talk about long-term and or marriage this and that, but then you keep falling back on people that are starting out dating which is great but there's some of us that are in relationships for quite a while thanks
My ex and I still live together. We separated because she wasn't sure if she loved me. She wasn't showing no emotion. We still sleep in same bed but she layed turned away and clear on other side of bed. I was always moping around and she wouldn't give at all. I read your book. Now she sleeps closer to me. She seems to flirt slightly with me. Last night she got upset because I had to leave to go do a quick fifteen minute thing for work. Was that her getting jealous? Her words were "idk why you have to go in on your day off" and stuff. Does that mean I am making progress?
You are making progress my guy! When she said that, you could of playfully said "are you going to miss me!" Confidently! Smiling at her while you say it
All you need to get a girlfriend and to find true love is to be your self that's all it takes we think because we watch and listen to people that if we do what they did it will work for us because it work for them but to get a girlfriend and to find true love they are no answers you need to know but what I can say if you be yourself you will get a girlfriend and you will find true love we all need to help each other no matter how small it may seem it could be ask how are you or saying thank you when needed it could help someone so much and they will help someone because they got help they need it I wish you all the best of good luck chase your dreams and goals and have a happy life I love you all
Hi , what to do when the girl u like always challenge / dare you . Like dare to do few stuffs like completing food competition , crazy stuff in public etc.,but no reward . So should I just accept the challenge just like that ? And why is she doing that ??
what if she txts all the time. how do i break the loop? i don't think ignoring her is the way to go cause thats weak and petty...what do i do?? be like I'm bored of texting?? do i say , if u want to see me call me up and we'll see each other? we aren't and haven't actually dated..
rodrigo Q tell her you would love to continue this chat in person becuase you cant give her your full attention cuz ur at work or whatever then set a definite date
when she told me goodbye it broke my heart. i wanted to jump through the screen and make her change her mind .
instead , i simply said goodbye as well. i really thought she was gone forever . 4 days later she contacts me
i truly believe that if i had begged her to stay it really would have been the last time .. thanks corey had it not been for you i would have made every contact possible . less is more less is more
What happened in the end bro
U win the war
Give us an update!
She blocked him in the end 😂
Yeah real question: did she come back to stay, was she submissive?
In other words, conquer uncertainty by focusing on your purpose and by understanding that time, space, and her uncertainty are the ingredients necessary to fuel a fantasy about you.
Bother her all the time, interrupt/ruin her fantasy, and she'll never be a part of yours.
4:42 A woman’s romantic interest in you rises slowly over time, like baking a cake.
5:10 Be careful to overcompliment in the beginning. Let women come and go as they please.
7:20 Like a guy being in his man cave, a woman needs some space and time to sit with her emotions so the emotional dough can rise like a cake.
9:15 When you act dopey, you act weak. You’re basically communicating that you don’t have any emotional self control. When a woman sees that and senses that, you’re basically starting to act like a stalker, needy guy, or a guy who becomes an abusive boyfriend would act. When she backs away, let her go. Space out the time in between your dates. She should be doing 70%-80% if initiating contact. *When she goes cold, stick to once a week asking her out.* Back off and wait to see if she contacts you, and if she does just say, “Hey I’d really love to see you. When are you free next week? What nights are you open for dinner?” Set a definite date and then don’t open the oven up until it’s time for your date.
11:40 Letting her girlfriends talk about you raises her level of interest in you. Instead of volunteering everything you’ve been up to, let her ask you what you’ve been up to. And don’t tell her everything - let her work to find these things out about you. If she’s interested she’s going to want to know and ask these things.
you rock !
Thanks dude
"...you're basically communicating you don't have emotional self control... like a stalker would act, like a needy guy would act, like an abusive boyfriend would act."
I have never heard a man GET IT like you did right there. 100% Right.
You'r fine
Grace Culver hey grace so walk away even of y'all co parenting???? so when the baby is sooo. young like 9months and she asking me are we on the same page of a friendship?? she keeps asking but she said it already I don't care no more she keeps bringing it up so what should I do when she calls me with video chat for the baby but what's for.me to do besides getting things for what the baby needs!
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Brian taylor meh
Want a woman to like you more...show her you have dallars
I followed Corey's advice 3 years ago. I now own half of the red light district in Amsterdam
Corey is like the God of dating advice. It is such lucid, non-BS advice. GOOD WORK, COREY!!!
when you display dominant male behavior by being centered and strong then she will pursue you and want to be with you more bc she's uncertain of where she stands with you
women are attracted to men who they don't know where they stand with them, whose feelings are unclear
you want a woman to wonder about you, don't constantly text them
a woman's romantic interest build up a slowly like a cake in the oven, a mistake that a lot of guys make is to constantly open the oven to check "is it done? is it done? etc."
a lot of guys fall for the illusion of action - that you constantly need to pursue her to make her like you
Hello there
works even with beautiful women.. I didn't reach out to one girl for 2 months and she started texting me and asking me out, asking where am I, why I don't text as much as I used to.. lol
and on badoo, there was one extremely hot chick and I bet she receives AT LEAST 20 messages a day. So I just made a profile like coach said, put photos, description and just let it stay there. We matched and first thing I would do one year ago is either text her 10 min later OR text her the day after.
Now I waited 5 days, it was kind of hard, but I got INSTANT response (it said she was last online 6 hours ago) but she answered in matter of minutes.. I just asked her how her day was and in next message what she likes to do.. Bet she doesn't get a lot of that. I didn't go online since then, focusing on my mission and purpose and work! When she answers, gonna text a bit more and ask for video call and if it goes well, make a definite date :D
Essentially, be a mystery. It gets my layed everytime being a mystery
Don't work at it at all. Just saying 'hello' is enough to get ghosted these days. If you dare to even write a sentence, then you're 'showing weakness'. Call b.s. on all the complications that these 'coaches', apps & dumb broads have created.
Make your life abt more than chasing pussy....there really IS a lot more to life than obsessing about all this.
I feel all this but I’m dealing with someone who I assume gauges my interest on her on how much I contact her. I want her to know that I’m interested in a future with her but I know it’s not an overnight thing:
She can be needy sometimes, but we are working with our types of communication.
Regardless, I’m working on not getting too attached until it’s a definitely thing. I just find it difficult showing her my interest while maintain the topics Corey is pointing out.
Great explanation Corey. Less chasing and more being focused on yourself. Only use the phone to set up appointments. Thank you Corey and your style of coaching fits my character.
While you are not with her, she is bonking other dudes. It's hopeless with them.
@@ariaarulasan Think of it like this. Women are like shoppers. When she’s dating you, it’s a free trial to your store. If you’re Sams Club,chances are she’s going to always come to you for all she needs. You have everything a person could need. Will she go to Dollar General and Publix sometimes? Yep but after time when she sees you have everything, the other stores will go out of business and she will purchase your membership card. Until then, who she “shops” with shouldn’t matter because you have other shoppers on your trial.
All this stuff is completely right. Girl's friend, who wanted us to end up together, told me to stop calling her and ignore her.
Wow😂 she was helping you by telling you to back the fuck up a bit! I love it
Update?
Do you have update ? Still going strong with her ?
when u date, just dont give much attention to your girl. even though you really love her, try to act cool. this will make her wonder about you and miss you constantly but dont do it to the point where she thinks you dont apprrciate her. that's when problems occur ina relationship utimately resulting in a break up. keep everything in balanced.
yeah the latter was the problem for me. didn't read the whole book and got bad results. it's perfectly fine to see your girlfriend 3 or even 4 days a week after a few months when you're already dating. and you no longer need to stick to "call once a week" rule
@@TrickSnailG 4 days a week is too much. Maximum is 3, even that is pushing it. Gotta make them wonder. When you see eachother too much you both start getting into fights and getting sick of eachother.
Thank you Corey you helped me regain some confidence. I can feel it in my voice and my personality feels more alive
This is important. Post breakup I learnt I wasn't being myself. I lost myself. I became emotionally weak. No woman will ever find that attractive! I would not have seen myself as attractive. So back to me being me now. Do I need my ex back? Nope! Might be nice though. I dunno. Not important but could be good. Future is unwritten. No fate but what we make. Either way nothing good comes from being broken.
Listening to this guy is the only reason I didnt mess things up again, yet...!
Right ! Give her some space. Don't have demands about how she should act every time or in some ranges of time. Also, don't put too much thinking on body-language as I've noticed people misinterpreting my body language when I simply had a tooth-ache, or didn't get a full night sleep the night before...keep it light on her and yourself too, have patience, give her the respect of some space, time, and in the future let her know you still care for her.
Hahahaha "is it done? Is it done? Is it done yet?"
Ryann Paqueo lmfao
ghost nappa
YES ITS ALREADY DONE ✅😂😜
That cake analogy should be a Proverb. Great one bro
I Looove you Corey !!!
Your worked has really helped me,I had no idea until your work about the subtle things I did wrong with woman.
Its a New Game Now!
11:50- 12:05 is the golden gem
From friendzoned to her saying, you're really confident, asking me questions and talking and talking. Almost a 180 but still working on it. Guys, that's what happens when you follow the rules and read the book. 😉
Corey you're the man! Thanks a lot for your genuine help!
5:45 let them come and go. Not just physically but emotionally and verbally. This girl i have been seeing said "NOTHING" for me tonight. I thought haha. But bedtime came and she meant it. We had great dinner and evening. I was being james bond and she got a bit stern with me. So i pulled back. As it turns out. We went to sleep. We woke up and she curled up and said her throat was killing her. She said she just felt a little off and apologized about last night. And thanked me for being understanding. Bottom line is you must pay attention to her actions!! That is what they respect the most since we speak different languages.
Basic rule of thumb i operate under: if a girl that im not dating sleeps in my bed and doesnt put out, she gets 0 attention or invites into my bed again until she literally states out loud "can i stay with you? i want to fuck". I refuse to be repeatedly left high and dry in my own bed
B Reed
But what if you are dating? Same procedure?
Well said grasshopper :)
Coach Corey Wayne I shall master your ways Sensei.
Yeah, I have a female best friend and half the time I don't even answer her calls and she would text me "why are you ignoring me blah blah" I just send a "🤦🏾♂️" text back and continue not to give a shit LOL
Hey Coach,
Jus cut to the chase and tell us that relationships are nothing but a F@@king game.A game where, whoever cares the least wins.
It is I know it it a games
Robert Goodheart Your right girls just use u
Robert Goodheart have you read the book???
ya it is rough, but being good at the game can make it pretty awesome. when you reach that smooth sailing level of abundance and attachments, shit gets pretty awesome.
Use it to your advantage dude. Before, I'd flat out say no to a girl if she was cancelling on me or messing me around. Now I just fuck them.
I'm convinced...totally fucking convinced that Corey knows his shit..im buying the book..im 60 years old and the chance of me stroking out during sex just went up by 25%...what a way to go.thanx coach.wouldnt have it any other way........peaceout
just brilliant, thank you so much for your knowledge and wisdom Correy.
A girl told me she knew I liked her after like the 5th date, because I was genuinely interested in finding out about her week, was a gentleman, and made sure she was enjoying herself. She was moving veryyy slow, I didn't give her enough time to let her feelings develop and let her show she liked me first or even get to the "What are We?" conversation. Shortly after, her interest started to fade, we stopped having sex, and she started cancelling plans. I lost her, but lessons learned.
This was after reading the 3% Man book a couple of times and trying it out - after reading it 10+ times I've gotten girls to be completely in love with me and get to the "Where is this going?" conversation, basically them asking to be exclusive
Every night 1730, cooking, hearing that theme music. Best times
Silence is always the best tool
You remind me of lex luthor from smallville.... Anyway, great advice
🤣🤣🤣😂
Smallville and metropolis most creative city/town names in all of comics
I will never be able to unsee this.
Thanks
@@imposter6935 Smallville its basically Superman while it isnt Superman
😂😂😂 ikr lol
brilliant sir...LESS is more...thanks as always...
This advice is true. There have been women who I backed away from and they came back.
you have saved my love life! say compliments but dont get attached to them becuase it may leave you depressed. Always Be Confidant if you lose it over a girl well you gotta think things over !
This guy knows his shit
I just purchased your book. I have been putting it off for too long. Thank you for your help
Steve how was it
@@MattGarcyaDC very useful
Is there any Coach Corey Wayne video where he doesn't tell us that women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear?
Your feelings dont have to be unclear you just need to go at her pace with the emotional investment. I agree with needing to be balanced and not move faster than she does or act desperate. Sometimes its tricky because some women can be deceitful while showing high signs of interest even if you play it cool. Sometimes you do have to say something if it goes on for too long. Obviously you dont have a meltdown just tell her how it is and let her know that you will walk away if we cant be on the same page.
If you wanna text ..watch him..you will get the distraction at least for a day lol
I'm a teen and I text and call a little less than she texts me. Sometimes I don't read the messages and hold off a little to reply to build up some more tension. She still chases 80% and is always down. Maybe age has something to do with it?
What a great teaching thanks coach 🙏
. I basically go through relationships like they have a shelf life. After some time I don't even want to work the problems out. Just let em go and get some new one. Younger and hotter. Im pretty fucked up and now I committed to a woman bc I have kids. Is it still wrong to walk away if youre both just not happy. I'm stuck on this one.....
Why don't you make a video on: When you and your girl gets back together what should you do to make her fall in love again when u made a mistake in the past but she was in love with you before.
The Producers It a conversation remind her a moment that you both liked . And do what this video says
Yes Coach. Intention is everything. What you say is irreverent
just wait for the cake to bake :) haha
lmao
yup, you have to shake it, before you bake it.
Is it done yet?
What I find confusing is when she says she loves you and she knew she did all along. Then after you say it the next day there is no conversation. I will make myself available less often. Being there all the time while she isn't may be my mistake.
Got a 20 year old Romanian girl accusing me of playing games even though she has shit tested me from the get go. She lives in Romania and I’m in the U.S.. We met in the United States 7 months ago, she’s classy, reserved, super hot, comes from a good family and doesn’t seem to hoe around. Before she left she said she wanted a relationship with me after 7 weeks of having fun hanging out and hooking up. I’ve initiated phone calls once a week for a while now. She has slowed down and doesn’t initiate conversations through text or calling anymore. Just a meme once a week or two. I haven’t called in two weeks to see what she would do. She hasn’t done anything. Thoughts? Fall back or pursue?
Women love a challenge and a bit of surprise.
yes
Thanks Corey!! Great stuff. Where do I find your book??
The moment she gets luke warm. She should do all the Pursuing or you never speak to her again. 😊
I've been fucking up man :/
xo. Sexy
That's ok. If you didn't fuck up, then you wouldn't have started watching these videos to learn how to better yourself.
You're now better for it
Good point! I loved this video, thank you so much!
This is your best video. All time.
What if you’ve been talking to this girl as friends for 10 months but now you’re dating probably for the past month, it’s a long distance relationship so we see each other once every couple of weeks we FaceTime all the time and she’s already telling me she loves me! She can’t keep her hands off me she’s always touching my ass or when we’re sleeping she always either is on me hugging me or if she’s not facing me she’ll take my arm and put it around her! Our sex life is good! I guess my question is, is there a red flag if she starts saying she loves you before week seven? Or is it maybe she just digs me that much and I’ve been doing way more things right then not! Maybe because when I give compliments I’m doing what you said, I’m giving them because it’s how I feel not because I want anything in return! I hold the door open for her I do all of that but I hold the door open for anybody that is behind me, it’s just who I am as a person! And maybe that’s the big thing that she senses that I’m not wanting for anything I’m just being myself and I am complementing her from my heart not from a place of neediness! She’s does all the texting n FaceTimes I just sit back And respond and we hang out when we can because like I said she’s lived a long ways away, but she’s doing all of them pursuing when we’re together like I said she can’t keep her hands off me and she just told her family about me! So I guess those are all good signs lol
Great stuff!
Haha he was like that's total fucking bullshit ..
Dear coach Wayne, I appreciate your work and I apply your methods and they work amazingly, the only problem that I'm facing now is that after setting a definite date, she starts to open up the oven frequently and texting and stuffs, what should I do in this case? thank you in advance.
Don't ignore her text, but be short and say you gotta run, but would love to hear all about it on your date.
So good Corey 👌🏼
so last night about three hours after our last text, slightly after midnight, she texted me name, I was on my phone so I replied right away with "What???" and its been almost 24 hours she still hasn't replied. I won't text her again until she texts me, but I'm confused.
What do you do if you plan a date already for the weekend, but she texts in between asking how my days going and randomly sending me pics of what shes doing?
Keep the conversation short
Hi coach Corey Wayne I've been watching you videos and just bought your book I hope it works bc I have a crush that is playing games
Where do I find the book??
Is that a poundcake in the oven? Sammy Hagar said Van Halen's "Poundcake" song is about the response to complexity of dating and courtship that seemed to comeabout over generations. He said song is about knowing what is in a person (woman).. a pound of this, a pound of that. It is simple and preferred, and song is about that.
Coach, what if there’s good sexual tension I text back only when she text me and I don’t pursue. It’s the 4th date coming up would you stick to going with seeing each other one day a week?
Its been 4 dates and you havnt banged her yet? Make the move dude, get PHYSICAL. You should have no issue at all getting her back to your place by the 4th date.. If you do, youre either acting needy or she just plain isnt into you. period
I honestly think that men need to be more attentive it's women that need to challenge men more!!! We love to much than we're walked on.. Elliott Scott says you are only other real coach!!!!
Awesome. The cake is a good metaphor.
this content that you are creating and this info you are giving to us is just awesome and really helpful thank you very much.
great content
So, what I’m getting from these videos is to stop trying to get her to do what she is already doing and will do if she is interested in me. Correct?
Words of wisdom. Thanx coach.
This guy is a fucking god....
Coach thank you for everything!
So in summary : be genuine
coach you are awesome im subscribing to you love you man
What if you can't spread out the dates because you live with her ?
What does it mean when a woman who is your boss suddenly starts responding "Yes Sir" to you?
Stratguitar man She sees you as a father figure and wants to sit on your lap
Whoa..!
@@kingdavid772 Funny you mention that I'm 20 years older than her LOL
"Busy writing and thinking that bullshit applies in reality" fucking poets 😂
i fucking love you corey wayne...
This guy is the best.
Coach Corey why would a woman send a naked picture of herself and ask if she could move in ? I don’t even know her and yes I said no ! Just curious about what she’s trying to do ?? Am very aware of shit like this and to protect myself from people out there that would take advantage of people !!
how about people that are in a long-term relationship already? People that are living together for over a year? I keep hearing you talk about long-term and or marriage this and that, but then you keep falling back on people that are starting out dating which is great but there's some of us that are in relationships for quite a while
thanks
Rance Sullivan how old are you now lol
Did you read his book? You have to treat your wife of 20 Years Exactly the same as the women you‘ve been dating for 2 weeks, the courtship never ends!
My ex and I still live together. We separated because she wasn't sure if she loved me. She wasn't showing no emotion. We still sleep in same bed but she layed turned away and clear on other side of bed. I was always moping around and she wouldn't give at all. I read your book. Now she sleeps closer to me. She seems to flirt slightly with me. Last night she got upset because I had to leave to go do a quick fifteen minute thing for work. Was that her getting jealous? Her words were "idk why you have to go in on your day off" and stuff. Does that mean I am making progress?
That of the guy she was thinking of leaving you for ignored her.
You are making progress my guy! When she said that, you could of playfully said "are you going to miss me!" Confidently! Smiling at her while you say it
@@creativekaii asking that question is weak!
Yes. Take her out on a fun date. Dont tell her it is a date. But do something away from a meal and a movie. Go bro!
All you need to get a girlfriend and to find true love is to be your self that's all it takes we think because we watch and listen to people that if we do what they did it will work for us because it work for them but to get a girlfriend and to find true love they are no answers you need to know but what I can say if you be yourself you will get a girlfriend and you will find true love we all need to help each other no matter how small it may seem it could be ask how are you or saying thank you when needed it could help someone so much and they will help someone because they got help they need it I wish you all the best of good luck chase your dreams and goals and have a happy life I love you all
no bro ,,,, coach Corey issshhh works
are you single ?
If you wanna text...just watch him at least its a distraction....😂
Your videos are so valuable
how about when she try to open up the oven frequently after setting a definite date? what should I do then should I ignore it or what?
Great stuff again
Hi , what to do when the girl u like always challenge / dare you . Like dare to do few stuffs like completing food competition , crazy stuff in public etc.,but no reward . So should I just accept the challenge just like that ? And why is she doing that ??
Nice advice im going to take it.
Hm. Thank you!!!! Saving my new relationship one video at a time 😆😆😆😆😆
that story about the high school guy , you seem so mad like crazy for a bit 😶 is that what happened to you before ?...
Great cake analogy.
You're the best man!
I don't want her anymore after disrespect, so many women in the world to forgive bullshit
what if she texts you every day how do you respond
Great advice
Well said broo!!!
I love the way you Bake Cake in every Video :p
most of this guys videos he addresses mostly the beginnings of relationships
Did you read his book? You have to treat your wife of 20 Years Exactly the same as the women you‘ve been dating for 2 weeks, the courtship never ends!
Dude you are a genius! I've been having cold
what if she txts all the time. how do i break the loop? i don't think ignoring her is the way to go cause thats weak and petty...what do i do?? be like I'm bored of texting??
do i say , if u want to see me call me up and we'll see each other?
we aren't and haven't actually dated..
Tell her your going away for a while or that your phone is broken and need to be repaird....
rodrigo Q tell her you would love to continue this chat in person becuase you cant give her your full attention cuz ur at work or whatever then set a definite date
rodrigo Q also READ THE BOOK !!!!!
@@raymondguzman5083 that's some great advice