an infp's guide to life

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  • @twitzmixx8374
    @twitzmixx8374 2 роки тому +41

    I think one the reasons we INFPs are so interested to MBTI and whole personality topic, is because people hardly understand us.
    1.) They hardly hear us, if they do, we hardly explain everything because of the massive thoughts in us we just can't explain in one go.
    2.) We're too complicated, like every single time we think of one thing, there's more branching thoughts that will go on. One thing, two things, and then hundreds of things till we don't even know where did we start because of how much things we make in our minds.
    3.) Despite our minds that keeps going on and on and on, we are so bad at expressing things. If I could wish and get that one thing I wished for. It would be device, that fully translates everything I think of, that will be ingestible for people. WE ARE SO BAD AT EXPRESSION. My english vocabulary isn't even enough for my so called theories and thoughts to be properly discussed.
    And because of those things. We thought "why am I like this, is it even possible for people to understand me?"
    We come across this MBTI topic, where people relate to others, where people get what we say when we said it like this. why, because WE'RE FREAKING DOCUMENTED.
    I know as an infp, despite we're documented there's still a part that people will never get, but that's fine. Just the thought of a community where I have thesame personality, same way of thinking, I can talk and discuss to, is more than enough to make me happy. Because wow! People can actually UNDERSTAND ME. That's like a big thorn removed.
    anyways, I don't want to get more deep, I have more to say but I can't possibly get this going lmao
    Introverted Feeling - Decisions based on oneself's value
    Extroverted Intuition - Gathering information and make new connections
    Introverted Sensing - Organizing the facts and information we have
    Extroverted Thinking - Logical Decision based on other people's combined thoughts and opinions.
    We are creatures which rotates around our own values partnered with the mind that branches thoughts and ideas almost infinitely, and because of that we are one the most creative types.

    • @braaierman
      @braaierman 2 роки тому +9

      INFP here. Our complexity is probably one of the main reasons we're so withdrawn.

    • @twitzmixx8374
      @twitzmixx8374 2 роки тому +3

      @@braaierman Yes, the complexity, plus being the most introverted type out of all the personality types.

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 2 роки тому +5

      I have one particularly amazing friend who listens to me; I will just text her random theories or thoughts, and she listens. She's awesome, super grateful for her.
      As for remark #2, I was actually just thinking about this today. Where one thought leads to another random one, and so on and so forth. I wonder how our brains store all of the knowledge/facts that we think is worthwhile or interesting. For instance, let's say I had a memory involving birds. Then I remembered a random fact about a particular bird. Is all of that compartmentalized into one "section" of our brain? I don't know if this is how everyone thinks, or if it's just me or an INFP thing. 🤷

    • @angelagoodwin5758
      @angelagoodwin5758 2 роки тому +1

      Eloquently expressed and so true💙

  • @marvinbeachy1893
    @marvinbeachy1893 11 місяців тому +1

    So spot on,Wow you’re awesome. INFPs are some of the nicest people in the world. Known one for forty years. They usually have those expressive eyes and a big smile. They are the best listeners. Good mothers for your children. They can live in their feelings and fantasies. And not communicate the best. They kinda need someone to help them pay the rent, so they don’t get locked out of their apartment. If you hurt their feelings too much, even accidentally, they might ghost you. Or turn treacherous. As an INTJ I still admire them. When the relationship is good, it’s really,really good! But it takes lots of work from both to make it work. 😊

  • @kambi8337
    @kambi8337 2 роки тому +11

    I found out I’m a INFP recently and the world kinda makes so much sense now. The anxieties, the endless thoughts, the inability to express my thoughts, which I thought for my most part of my life was something wrong with my brain. Thank you for doing these videos. Let’s walk this journey of understanding ourselves together.

  • @dieresis9
    @dieresis9 2 роки тому +6

    The one thing for me was language - writing, learning different ones, even computer languages. Being an infp feels like being water because of how easily we absorb everyone and everything, so coming back to the one thing during quiet times certainly keeps me going.

  • @Xxzaunite.princessxX
    @Xxzaunite.princessxX 2 роки тому +3

    (INFP here)
    I had to rewind the video for whole minute because I was already conjuring hypothetical situations and reminiscing on my own past acts of kindness after you brought up empathy. The irony of it all forced me to write this, and heavy self invalidation almost forced me to not write this.

  • @Mal-go5dl
    @Mal-go5dl 2 роки тому +18

    Found out I was infp and your videos are very relatable. Even the way you speak and express yourself feels so familiar to me, nice to know there's people out there who just "get" you

  • @carefulcarpenter
    @carefulcarpenter 2 роки тому +6

    Kindness is our golden lining. Others may not know that about us.

  • @782myhero2
    @782myhero2 2 роки тому +5

    It's been a rough journey being an infp, but at 22 I finally decided to embrace it. Thank you for these videos!

  • @Subtlepicklee
    @Subtlepicklee 2 роки тому +6

    Infps are so cute. Love you infps

  • @os-xq6sc
    @os-xq6sc 2 роки тому +4

    be a normal person for 8 hours lol
    I agree with you.

  • @kslickentertainment
    @kslickentertainment Рік тому +2

    Curious creatures 💯 ❤

  • @christinaross5845
    @christinaross5845 2 роки тому +2

    infp- alwayyyyssss in the shadows lol i love that you made these videos are put yourself out there, your sacrifice in that way has made me feel like im not all alone, thank you

  • @jesus_is_the_way
    @jesus_is_the_way 2 роки тому +3

    Hi Kylie! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences, I can definitely relate. You have that dreamy, gentle vibe about you that a lot of infps have :)
    For the longest time, I was seeking "something", something to fulfill me, something that would make me feel whole. I always felt different, "weird", and "out of this world"... I got interested in spirituality, esoterism, and things of that nature, very early on in life, trying to connect with the "Source" of being, trying to transcend my struggles, my flaws, my limitations. In the end, I found the one thing that truly set me free and showed me who I truly am, and why I always felt so out of place. It was God! I thought I believed in God, I always thought that there was something/someone out there... But one day I met Jesus and He changed my life. I was seeking for Truth, with a capital T, as life seemed meaningless... And I found Him. I found out that He was waiting for me all along.
    Well... I am sharing this because I feel like you also have a part of you that is seeking, seeking true fulfillment and meaning, the purpose of life. Why are we here? What's the point of all this? And I just want to share my experience and hopefully encourage you to look into who Christ is, what He wants and what we can do to meet Him personally. I don't know if you're familiar with the Gospel, but it truly is life-changing. It's not about "religion", it's about getting to know the Creator of all things who loves you! I didn't know that I could have a close relationship with God, I didn't know how much He truly loved me and cared for me. But after that encounter, I was changed forever. More than 4 years later, I am a completely different person... I used to struggle with many things, mainly depression, eating disorders, and just hatred in general... But the Lord healed me from that. You can find a testimony on my channel regarding my experience with eating disorders if you're interested (absolutely no pressure though!).
    Okay, well... I didn't plan on writing such a long comment, but somehow I really feel like sharing this with you (and perhaps someone else will benefit from seeing this comment as well)... In case you'd like to learn more about the Gospel, from a rather in-depth perspective, I recommend this video: ua-cam.com/video/1uz5GQRpnRo/v-deo.html
    I pray that you meet the Lord Jesus just as I and so many others have. Remember, it's not about following a set of rules or following a religion, it's about getting to know the living God who gave Himself for us to redeem us, to give us hope, love, and eternal life.
    Many blessings to you from a fellow infp.~

  • @petemarch1384
    @petemarch1384 2 роки тому +2

    Wow! You are amazing!!! If I wasn't in a couple already, I would choose another INFP for sure! Are they really that nice???

  • @Caroline600100
    @Caroline600100 2 роки тому +3

    girl, these videos are so relatable!! that thing with the goal in our hearts that moves us forward was spot on. sometimes when I perceive the world around me it feels so hopeless and heavy, but then I come back to that one longing in my heart and dwell upon it, and it’s like a source of motivation, like a full tank of gasoline that keeps me going and lets me see the world with a new perception

  • @lars-gunnarronnkvist5116
    @lars-gunnarronnkvist5116 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your infp experience.👍

  • @clotildemartinezlopez7017
    @clotildemartinezlopez7017 2 роки тому +4

    I think for Fi the ‘purity’ of feelings is very important

  • @petemarch1384
    @petemarch1384 2 роки тому +1

    I LOVE your videos! THank you for them!!!! God bless you!

  • @pri6096
    @pri6096 2 роки тому +1

    I was constantly smiling while listening to this. What I feel is we are so overwhelmed with feelings that when it's time to talk about them, we can't get out of our heads and put those thoughts into words. If someone how am I doing, I say I am doing good but then I think about it after sometime and I have no definite answer for that. Maybe the world is too simple for our complex brains.
    Anyway, I started watching your videos recently and I absolutely love them! Keep up the good work :)

  • @TessavandieKaap
    @TessavandieKaap Рік тому

    I love this video, kinder spirits.
    I wonder why I’m mysterious like other infp. 🙂

  • @roselovelace1224
    @roselovelace1224 2 роки тому +2

    Lol you’re adorable :) I’m an INFJ but I relate to you nonetheless

  • @tahah.babikir7698
    @tahah.babikir7698 2 роки тому +1

    Comments are not always good..
    In real life, the people that like you surround you and protect you from that person that hates on everything that doesn’t happen as they like…
    But in the internet, the people that like someone cannot surround them like friends in real life do…
    So they can’t protect you from the haters.. or negative comments…
    They all look similar in the internet, haters and lovers..

  • @YDellamonica
    @YDellamonica Рік тому +1

    Omg you are so so rare to be inpf and American at the same time in the land of narcissism

  • @brandonrayner3655
    @brandonrayner3655 2 роки тому +3

    HELLO!!!! LOVE THE VIDEO

  • @TrebleKnight
    @TrebleKnight 2 роки тому +1

    I like to express my empathy through humor, but writing is very infp of you lol

  • @tahah.babikir7698
    @tahah.babikir7698 2 роки тому +2

    You might be an enfj..
    Enfjs and infps are mirrors of each other.