My landlord has been stalking me for the past 3months. He keeps using “late rent” and “eviction notice” as an excuse to speak to me. He use to call and txt me a lot but I blocked him. Makes you realize anyone can be stalked.
Mine shows up near when the rent is due a week in advance I see him everywhere opening my gate checking the pipes and drains and inspecting my place without my knowledge. Then there are these random ppl threatening my security near my gate and I'm pretty sure I've never experienced this level of security problem before moving there lol.
I never heard it put like that before. When my ex managed to break into my house and confront me he said “I feel like you’ve died so I don’t see the problem with killing you”. Unhinged and genuinely scary.
Did we have the same ex?? My deranged ex did that right after we broke up and before the lock guy came to change the locks. I have never been so sure I was going to get killed
@@Sophia-ks9yu I hope not. I also hope if they are with other people they don’t treat them the same. I hope you’ve healed/healing from the horrid experience 🫶🏻
I did that with one co worker I had at walmart. She was the most annoying person I have ever met and no I dont have a problem with women my best friend at that location was a woman and my favorite boss there was a woman but this particular womans whole agenda was to make service difficult for customers and to run and tell on every employee for every little bullshit thing to the point of the mangers hating her as well. I dont think Ive ever met a bigger piece of human garbage than that woman and I ended up manipulating my schedule with the help of my aformentioned favorite manager so I would not have to work with her.
That’s still creepy in its own way Edit: so people seem to get upset by my comment so here is something to maybe change your mind(maybe it won’t I don’t really care) The word „anti-stalker“ includes „stalker“ and stalkers are people who actively pursue someone in order to learn their behavioral patterns (be it day to day routine or something very specific) So let’s say if someone where to tell me that it’s not creepy because they are „broadcasting their daily lifes“ i mean sure if you use the information at hand to dodge that person that’s totally normal and acceptable but „stalker“ means as stated above that you pursue that person in a proactive way to obtain information about the person which would not be presented by just coexisting with the person. (For instance: their address, their family members, their favorite restaurants, their sleep time, their commute route, their commute time and the list goes on (you probably know what I mean by now))
I think the ones who do not know that they are being weird and creepy are the least scary because it is most likely that they do not have bad intentions toward the victim. Once these types of stalkers are informed that they are being weird and creepy, they would most likely apologize and not bother the victim again.
It’s weird when you are aware that someone has a creepy curiosity about you but then, say when they are caught cyberstalking and confronted that they are annoyed by you and don’t really want to talk to you- weird energy- you can’t tell if they have a crush on you or they want to k*ll you!
in middle school and high school, a girl that had been stalking me for years made a facebook account of me, using pictures she had taken covertly when I was unaware. She then pretended to be me and talked to people who thought they were speaking to me. it was some really weird shit. I hadnt made a facebook account prior to this, and I didn't find out until my irl friends told me they spoke to me on facebook and I had to convince them it wasn't me. I eventually made an account solely to prevent this person from abusing my identity. susan, if you're reading this - leave me alone
I have a stalker. A family member who’s moved into our house this year. He follows me into my bedroom and the bathroom. He always sneaks into my bed or under it when I’m half asleep. And worse, he gets so close to me when I’m trying to eat, watching me take every bite. Worse, he has a terrifying habit of licking my things, and in my sleep, my skin. It freaks me out how little space and privacy I have when in my own home under the fear that he’s always watching me. I knew I should’ve gotten a cat instead of a dog...
I’ve been stalked twice. Literally ladies, a guy being obsessed with you is not something you want. Always living in fear in your home, job, anywhere is insane and I’m so thankful that I got away.
Agree with you! Currently in a very serious situation that Im a complete wreck riddled with a horrid high heart rate and even more anxiety than I already deal with! Im fckin scared asfck! 😭
THIS!!!! The jokes are so insensitive, it was one of the most terrifying/suffocating experiences of my life. I was literally in danger because of this person.
Actually I’ve found that it has been much easier to stalk when your future husband is in a confined space that he cannot leave for the foreseeable future. You would think that somone would notice you in their house when they are and have to stay inside all day however it is easy to disguise myself.
Savage Bugaboo see you think that you are laying on your bed however i have disguised myself as a bed. Can you feel that itch? thats me covered in itching powder, pretending to be a matteress, listening to you watch youtube.
I'm stalking Thoughty2, he is a cool guy, he doesn't even know I watch him every day.... its Obvious, I don't even try hide it - but he has no idea.... I even leave a thumbs up, but he hasn't figured it out it was me.
In the case of the Predatory stalker; it's not about grief, it's about POWER AND CONTROL!!! You don't know anything about stalkers if you think it's grief or love sickness. Never!!! It's about REVENGE. TRUST ME. They're crazy sometimes
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
I am currently being stalked by people who are oddly overly concerned about my car's extended warranty. the weird part is I don't even own a car. haven't for 8 years.
I've been stalked in the tradition sense by an ex. I took all the legal routes. When that didn't work, I realized anything he can legally get away with- so can can I. When I was done with him, he was in tears begging the police to make it stop- they laughed at him- and I still grin when I reminisce.
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
I just stood around my ex' house for a couple of hours wearing a disguise. Trying to look inside to see whats going on. Gotta make sure she isnt stalking me or something.
I've been stalked by someone I saw a few times and didn't know had a girlfriend. The girlfriend was stalking to the point she placed 2 tracking devices on my car, coming to my home and work. Started texting and calling me with different burner numbers. She had men calling me and mentioning my kid. The cops couldn't do anything because I didn't have enough proof. So I had to hire a lawyer and private investigator. She and whoever joined her stalked me for over a year, but would wait 2-4 months then do something again, as if to wait for my guard to go down. That has broke me to the point I still have not healed. I'm very much afraid to go outside. But therapy is slowly helping.
Something similar happened to me but I am the wife and it’s the ap doing the stalking. It’s very creepy it seems to have slowed as of recently hopefully slows to a full stop! I know how it feels and it’s like the stalker being a woman makes it weirder like how do you even talk about it and hope people take you seriously? I’ll say a prayer for healing and freedom for us both ❤
Are you sure your relationship will last if you were to take arguements so likely or as a joke considering it is *always* frequent. I dont know i just feel that something is not right thats all and jesus christ stop saying its just a joke how the hell could u even assume that bruh.U cant make a joke out of that
I heard a serial killer describe how he felt when he stalked/murdered his victims, and he said the first time was such a rush and then when it wore off he wanted that same feeling but it's like he couldn't reach that level again so he would keep trying. It sounded like an addict describing their battle with drugs. It was pretty unsettling.
That's why so hard to believe this God n Devil stuff bc we are attracted to danger and drama, playing with death until it kills us . Thanks God for setting me up to fall
@@KJfromTheFort God never said life was going to be easy so you’re wrong on that. If it was so easy to be a good person all the time wouldn’t everyone be in Heaven? Next time you comment think
this is actually terrifying. every single point made in this video regarding the 'home stalkers' fit my dad perfectly. him and my mom have been arguing my whole childhood, and he lost full custody over me and my brother 4 years ago. he started sending agents after my mom to see if she had a new husband. he even started threatening to kill my stepdad if he even gets near me.. it has been getting better recently, and i’ve been improving my relationship with my dad - but everytime we meet up he starts insulting the hell out of my mom (which i don’t appreciate). he claims he’s gotten over her, yet there’s never been a time where we met up without him talking about her.
I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
There’s this technique that might work: “If they are following you and you know that they are, act like someone called you and they are about to pick you up. Once you let them realize that you’re getting “picked” up, turn around and yell “aye! Is that you! I think I see your car” and like wave your arms in front of them, now if that was just a regular person the worst thing you’ve done was yell in a strangers face.” -coryxkenshin
I do sth similar. I stop, look at my phone and turn and go back to the oppostite direction. Towards them. But acting like u are getting picked is better. Esp. If u really call someone
I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
A lot of stalkers seem to form online "social" groups, where they share tips on traumatizing and collecting video trophy "evidence" of the damage they deny they're doing. These jerks also seem to gravitate towards "service" jobs where they, or their demented buddies may find easier access to single women, whom they may traumatize much easier than any other category of people.
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
My ex definitely admitted to being a stalker. It was part of his trying to scare me games but he straight up said. "I know I'm crazy, and you're not out of my life until I say you are."
I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
"They do maintain more than one victim at the same time." Me: *glances at stalker* "Okay I see how it is smh, now get out my backyard tree before I call the cops. Our stalker-victim relationship is over!"
AkaJust Vih I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
gonçalo Baia You are free to believe whatever you want, although if you would like to observe proof I provided a myriad of screenshots throughout the video explaining my situation. I also ensured that the video had an 18+ age restriction on it since it contains quite a bit of vulgar content, so there is no chance of it ever being monetized if you think that’s my incentive. I’m just trying to get as many signatures on my petition as possible so the chances that someone with power will take it seriously are increased, because no one deserves to be put through what I went through. Law enforcement’s resources to handle this kind of situation are far too limited and it is imperative that that change. That’s all I’m trying to convey. Hope you have a nice day.
I’ve seen movies about stalkers and always thought “no way, just call the police” until I had a stalker, and it was actually terrifying. My sister found him in the window once, broke in, stole stuff, hacked my social media, slashed tires, egged my car. Called 40+ times a day. It was pretty scary/annoying always feeling watched, not knowing if something would be wrong with my car the next day. I found myself checking my house before and after, and waiting around at night watching my windows.
I used to be a stalker, but I’m recovering and rarely think about her. What I did was schedule my day so I never crossed paths with her, and I changed all my passwords and usernames to random stuff so I couldn’t recover them.
I had girl who thought I was stalking her. We both had similar schedules and lived/worked in the same 1 mile area w no car. I don't think it would have come up but, we we're both bar workers (most of the bars in that town are in sight of each other, so if you work at one you get an idea of who's working the others) and we walked the same direction. I didn't know I was stalking her until she jumped out of a bush & maced me. It took some work for the cops to get her to realize it was all in her head. Even then we had a couple of run ins & it eventually led to a spat of bar bans on others who got involved...
Me too, and I was eventually attacked by her. Had a class with this girl and never said two words to her but for some reason she became obsessed with me and eventually attacked me.
I never thought it would be me, I lived life very naively until I found out I was being stalked by 2 men online when I was 16- one of them was a senior in my school who watched me from class to class and wrote out my entire schedule so he could follow me, the other man lived 7 hours away and came to my school to find me. This was all because I had a public Twitter account as a teenager, please stay safe out there you guys ❤
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
@@nothingnewunderthesun4292 holy shit … that’s stalking .. please stay safe because your ex gf is crazy and there is no reasoning with a crazy person. as Whoopi Goldberg says , you in danger girl!!!! Stay safe ❤️
@@closerrl9851 But what kind of stalking are talking about? Are you following random people? Or just gettin informations that are public domain on the social medias?
@@closerrl9851 Hahahaha That's not stalking, it is more keeping them fit and lowering healthcare costs in the long run! So altruistic!!!! Well done hahaha!
I think most people probably think that and maybe that’s why they don’t think they’ll ever be stalked. But, I don’t think stalkers think like that. I mean, if they were thinking rationally, they probably wouldn’t waste their time stalking somebody to begin with.
When I worked at Amazon (literally the woese place ever, don't work there), I heard stories of a man who worked in shipping. He would save all female addresses, then stalk them. He was later fired.
@@thriftyfreebies I have no idea. At the end of my shift, I was too tired to drive, so I took an hour-long nap in my car. But I was still tired afterwards, so I gave up.
It was at this exact moment when I realized that I used to stalk my ex. Not too much, I think, but I was looking for every occasion to meet him. And a couple times I was standing under his balcony, looking into his window. I didn't realize back then how creepy it was. I genuinely felt like someone close to me died, I couldn't let him go. One time he told me that he saw some footprints on snow leading under his balcony and asked if it was me. I confessed. And he was really scarred after that. To be honest, I was glad, because the rest of the time I always felt like a victim in those relationship, especially as it was him who dated other girl behind my back and when I found out and told him he has to choose, he dumped me. But now I realize that it was for the best because that relationship made me paranoid and stalkery and was bad for me. I never hurt him on purpose though. But I was totally obsessed. I have never been so obsessed in my life before. This is really weird.
It's brave of you to say this on here. I think most of people have done something bordering on "stalking" especially regarding actual relationships, but have a hard time admitting it. Cheers
"they think they are the victim." That's fucking terrifying. This guy who used to be my friend, who followed me around and even molested me had actually gone around telling people I was playing hard to get, lashed out at him for no reason and that I rejected him unreasonably. He isolated me and got people to stop talking to me. He really went around convincing people he was the victim when I expressed disinterest.
I used to be a stalker. I eventually got therapy and joined a 12 step program and a day at a time I work on making sure I never harm anyone in that way again.
They would love that actually. You'd be easy to find. In my experience a stalker really only wants to know where you are, it's satisfying to them and the stories they would make up in their head about you are usually what makes them "excited" not whether or not you leave the house and where you're going... but again, that's just my experience as someone who is an introvert and a homebody, and as someone who has been stalked.
@@marystellarosetarot5700 well, shit... Lol but no, I believe you're 100% right about that. I can't believe that happened to you, I'm so very sorry. I'm glad you're doing okay. Were you able to out your stalker and get a restraining order? Has he bothered you since?
@@LoLowashere unfortunately, the situation with my ex boyfriend who was stalking me, ended in a rape and when I called the police, they said there was nothing they could do #defundthepolice. So, after my sexual assault and having night terrors living by myself for a few years, I decided to move in with a man who I thought was my friend, and who is my current roommate, but after he started to display similar obsessive behavior like my ex, I told him I was thinking about moving and he physically assaulted me, giving me extensive prefrontal cortex damage which has made it more difficult for me to find a job and move out. It's a really issue and really isn't always easily detected. I hope you or anybody else never has to go through what I've gone through 🙏
@@LoLowashere truth be told, the humor in your comment was a bit refreshing though because it reminded me of myself before all of this happened. So thank you for that, it added a moment of lightness for me in my current situation. One love 🙏❤
My mom was stalked by her ex boyfriend as a teenager, and he made death threats and threatened to kill himself. My mom felt bad for him (he had a mental disability as well, I’m not sure what it was)so she tried dating him again to see if he would change. One day she broke up with him and he “drove her home”, but actually drove her to an empty parking lot and tried to choke her. But he came to his senses pretty quickly and stopped. He then sought help and they no longer communicated, but my mom was very lucky because if he hadn’t have come to his senses things could’ve gone much worse
i know i have problems with obsession and compulsion and loneliness on top of that. i started to think i was stalking my crush and felt very bad because i legitimately cared for him and didn’t want to harm him, but if he knew how much my world revolved around him it would be weird to say the least
Hmm, I used to be liked this to my ex. He was very secretive and private even to me (we dated online).. I probably was too obsessed I wanted to know what he was up to since we're really far away. I recognized my issues and thought I'm too pathetic to be stuck on viewing his life instead of living mine.. I'm slowly trying to stop the urges.
What if a stalker realizes they are being a stalker? I lost a friend once and tried to find them because I missed them and realized I was being a stalker so I stopped. Don't worry i caught up with them later and even discussed it with them and we were okay about it.
Its not stalking unless you are going the extra mile. I have a friend i been looking for. A Joe Angel. I spent a year searching. Never found him thats not stalking though.
I dont think thats stalking at all. Perhaps you had a deep connection with that friend, no matter how long you have known them, and you just wanted to find them. And like he said, you cannot convince a stalker that they are a stalker, so if you felt that what you were doing might have been creepy, chances are you know your boundaries and are not a stalker.
I was stalked by my ex. There were so many red flags but I was 19 and was totally unaware how dangerous he really was. I always felt like he was near by though we were broken up for two years and couldn’t explain it. When we started dating again he told me he’d sit in his car outside my home in the middle of the night. He told me he got a construction job down the street from my house and was “around a lot”, and then he got a security job two minutes down the street from me. Everything started to make sense at that point. I’m so glad he ended up ghosting me. As much as it hurt at that time, I realize now that he was abusive and so dangerous.
I never leave my house and I'm currently being stalked. Single woman alone here. Stolen garbage can, car broken into random notes on my door, and they bring my newspaper to the door.
False on my case. he frequently entered our house and peeks into my windows without me knowing. never knew it until he got caught and confessed he did it for 4 years
@@donotreadmyprofile9373 yup. the scary part is that he successfully broke into my house while everything is on blackout and i was alone. istg I'm thinking of leaving this house but i really can't. I don't have anywhere to go
I had a stranger stalker a few years back. He used to come into the restaurant I worked at, but then he started leaving notes on my car, following me around, and driving by my house. When I told him I wasn't interested and had a boyfriend he turned nasty. He would come into the restaurant and just sit and glare at me. My tires started getting slashed. My boyfriend, who I lived with at the time, was a cop. That didn't seem to stop him, at first. But the word got around to my bfs colleagues and they upped their presence in my neighborhood. That must have gotten the point across because he stopped coming around after that, thank christ.
Sorry to hear of your past circumstance, but glad to hear it has improved. Just wanted to say despite some levity in the comments with the nature of this video, I for one understand the serious nature of this as I'm sure everyone does.
@I'm super EVIL I don't think I'll ever know what his true intentions were, but even if he had never started bothering me I would have said that there was something not quite right about the guy. For one, he never smiled. Not once. He used to come in with a girlfriend before they broke up and he turned his attention towards me. And in the 2 or so years that I knew him as just a regular customer he never smiled. It's almost as if it wasn't physically possible for him to do so. He also had cold, dead eyes. When you're talking to most people you usually notice some kind of light or spark in their eyes. This guy had nothing going on there, you couldn't get any kind of read or energy off of him. And the last creepy thing was that when he and his girlfriend split up she left in the dead of night without telling him and without taking anything but the clothes on her back. She just took off and ran. For someone to leave like that and to leave all of their things behind tells me that something must have been pretty bad and that she didn't feel safe leaving under any circumstances where he could have tried to stop her.
@@KayleeCee Holly Shit it's like you're describing a psycho killer from a movie , how was his personality ? was he confident & masculine in interacting with you ?
In some ways I understand guys like that. The movie "one hour photo" was very good before they started demonising the man who stalked a woman. Sometimes when you have no life, you just want to watch someone else's from the outside. Of course, threats or violence is bad. I'm not talking about that.
I remember a creep that stalked my wife for three months eleven years ago. He stopped. We had a conversation at 3am in the alley under our bedroom window at the time. Amazing how good I am at negotiations. He saw it our way, quickly. The stranger stalker didn't inspire fear. No. He inspired rage. He didn't like that but he did agree with me that he made a big mistake.
A police officer here stalked a 17yr old girl and shot her dead with his gun in front of everyone here. She was working in the supermarket, the next day this case against police was closed and we are advised to not speak of it or be next. She refused relationship.
Honestly exactly my thoughts too. I have a friend with BPD and she's been my best friend for 20 years. It's manageable but very hard to deal with and things like this do not help whatsoever
Stalking has such a horrifying impact on the victims. It's kind of upsetting when people say "I wish I had a stalker" or "any attention is attention". Being sexually harassed or stalked is not something to be trivialised or idealised; if you experience it you'll definitely understand.
@bryan diaz varela I'm really sorry to hear that and I hope you're doing okay. Stalking isnt the kind of attention anyone would actually want to get though, trust me.
Yes. I am a victim of stalking and constant threats and it is so frightening. Just someone trying to ruin my life and my reputation by stealing my identity and threatening people I know pretending to be me. I have suicidal thoughts as I am very alone.
Never stalked anyone, however I've been accused of it. I'm an introvert and I usually avoid people. So God forbid I take an interest in someone. It's why I seldom talk to people. In today's day and age, you can't even "like" someone without being called a creep.
the stalker who is stalking me is twisted and now is saying i am to blame while she peeps on my comments, sees all my private messages with my friends , comments on exact post i comment on and says i sleep all day long and somehow she says she is not a stalker?!! she even popped on a live on instagram and i deleted that app so now she is following me on youtube !! i am just raging how this creepy freak thinks she is entitled to creep on others privacy and then whine to say she is the victim?! i am lost for words for this situation i am in.
If you're been accused of it, they're probably right. Don't do things that make others uncomfortable. That's not bringing anything to their table. That's being selfish.
I’ve been receiving creepy calls for almost three years now. They are mostly silent hang up calls. Sometimes it’s breathing. I’ve changed my number atleast 4 times, I block all the numbers (they use fake numbers through apps), creepy messages asking for nude photos and saying they’ll hurt a child if I don’t give them “what they want”, countless police reports (they don’t do anything, say I need a “court order”) and hearing this is so creepy...don’t know what else to do or if I should be worried
If you've changed your number 4 times and they've been able to keep calling, who have you shared your new numbers with? It could be someone you know but would never suspect.
When I was younger, I helped my friend out of an abusive relationship after we had found out he’d cheated on her. He blamed me for their breakup, and I became one of his targets for about 1-1.5 year. He wanted me to know he was there, threatening. He also used his large friend circle to stalk me, which was scarier, since I didn’t know who these people were. At a job I briefly worked, my supervisor was his friend and fed him information without me knowing. That was about fifteen years ago, and it still stays with me. Ps, if you made it this far, fun fact: the abuser’s father killed his mother in a murder-suicide when he was a toddler. So you can imagine it’s scarier knowing he has those genes…
"all my fiends are bearded so you know.If you like to shave well carry on. You dont know the amount of care it takes we brush wax n shove'.I dont know the text anymore but its 'heathens' turned into bearded.D great song
I had a stalker. He stalked me for almost 2 years. I got in some very scary situations with him and then it suddenly stopped one day. I brought my experience up to a new friend about a year later and I found out they'd been at school together... he'd had a random heart attack and that's why it stopped.
my mom is being stalked by her ex boyfriend for almost 2 years now... the police won't do anything about it, he reads all her text messages, e-mail, everything, he follows her, he always knows where she is, he hacked her computer, phone, home security system... it's really scary and I hate that there's nothing we can do.. :'(
yeah, you can. have every picture on her phone, computer, and email have a penis pic with his face attached at the head of it. you start stalking him, hack his computer and ruin his life. fight fire with fire and be weirdly gross with it. Go to his job and talk to his boss about him stalking you, call his mother and tell her that he's outside the window. If he is close to you carry maze spray and flaunt it in his face. if you notice that he is following you, then go to a gun shop and start looking at rifles. go to a shooting range and have his picture as the target.
Me to the police didn’t help me cuz I show them a pic of he’s face what’s so scary is he Lives right near me an he don’t know it Ik where he lives and he’s Ip so If the police won’t help I’ll do it myself
By the way a Good tip is Get a VPN or get a new modem so then your WiFi will change and he can’t access your internet change password on everything fb ig snap YT skyp Idk what u have change password
Ive been stalked by a 71yr old man for a year now and it is so scary... and his my neighbor! My husband work everyone has told him to leave me alone and he wont! Its scary
It’s so important to know your self worth. When you start to view other people as being more worthy than you, it’s very easily to become obsessed with them
@@laurenj432 She is extremely narcissistic. She humiliated me multiple times and after she left me behind completely confused i almost committed suïcide. Something snapped inside of me. I went through a severe depression and build up an enormous hate wich made me decide to stalk her pure out of revenge. In the moment itself i enjoyed it, but afterwards i felt a bit bad about it. People who noticed it call me a creep and stuff. I admit it was not a good thing to do, but when you lose your mind, you are capable to do anything.
that twisted “it’s not my fault”, “s/he made me do it” victim mentality is what makes stalkers dangerous and extra hard to deal with.. because you just can’t reason with unreasonableness
my mum had exactly the same problem!! a reliable solution that worked for her was making mushroom soup for the 3rd night in a row. hope this helped, plz let me know your results as they vary from person to orphan! 😊
The best advice to avoid getting stalked is to let people down gently and be accessible and communicative. Never rub peoples noses in it and just be friendly and if possible, wait for them to break up with you. Breaking things off in certain ways takes away the other person’s power, creates a dark dynamic and can trigger feelings of powerlessness and revenge in the other person. Also applicable to most social interactions. Source- 30 years being a player/partier ;D
I’ve experienced both types of stalkers. Everything he says is spot on. The Domestic Stalker is very aggressive and more likely to cause harm. The Stranger Stalker would just hang around in the background and watch wherever I go.
I have survived both kinds of stalkers too. I thought I'd be part of a very small group...& as much as I hate it happened to you, I'm glad I'm not alone. My first relationship, when I ended it at 22 years old...he stalked me for years. Resulted in a restraining order. Unfortunately my second stalker was way worse. It happened when I was 35. As the District Attorney told the Judge, it was the most aggressive form of stalking between strangers in Sacramento County history. He ended up having to serve prison time over it. It made national news as the 'Buffalo Head Stalker.' He's been connected to several missing women, so I'm unable to speak about it online too much. I dont want to interfere with law enforcement's active investigations on him. I wish you peaceful days. I was left with a wicked anxiety disorder, but working out and therapy have gotten me a lot better. Good luck to you, my fellow sister.
The issue is for every nine women who have been legit stalked and are talking about it online, there's one woman who claims to have been but hasn't. She had type #3...the imaginary stalker who feeds her narcissism. Believe women is a nice sentiment, but sadly ~6% of women have cluster B personality disorders that make them prone to lying in order to garner sympathy and attention. So the thinking men who aren't simps can't blindly believe all claims. Glad you're okay.
I've been a victim of stalking. I noticed the pattern very quickly and let my friends, parents and even colleagues know about it. That was the time I started to carry pocket knives with me (and it hasn't failed me yet, actually saved my life four times). I threatened my stalker and avoid him whenever I spot him in the streets as if he's the plague. I still can hear his "endearing remarks" though. Truly traumatizing and only served to increase my anxiety levels and panic attacks frequency.
Same to everything you said, the best thing you can do is to educate those around you and yourself about how to deal with this situations. It's traumatazing and isolating but it really does get better with time. 1 year into my healing process I wasn't afraid of being in my own house anymore, 2 years I started talking about my situacion openly with no pain, 3 years in I would laugh at his attemps of contacting me, 4 I wasn't afraid anymore of having a public acount on social media, now 6 years later I do yoga, have tons of friends and go where I want when I want to, and my anxiety after 2 years in therapy feels like a thing of the past. Be strong and know you are never alone.
@@xcangrejo Exactly. I've only talked to my friends about the situation and how it affected me, a couple months ago. And they had seen my reaction to seeing the guy in a cosplay convention. I only told them about all this after talking to my girlfriend and understanding nobody would judge me weak or anything. It was all in my head and I could count on my dear ones.
hi, sorry pretty late to the party. i’ve been thinking about pocket knives and how i (as a woman) could use them for my self defense. if you’re comfortable answering this question, how did it save you? because i’m pretty scared that it could be used against me
When I was beginning out in high-school I broke up with my boyfriend and a lot of my friends went missing and one was found. My ex had borderline personality disorder and was already obsessed with me. Stay alert please!
I’m a stalker victim. This old man keeps coming to my job asking about me and once he tried to get my number. Recently last night he was in the parking lot of my job watching me. He waited till there was no customers in there to come in and look for me. Guys I’m scared
"Have you ever received an unwanted gift, a series of strange phone calls, or a weird letter?"
Not even if you remove the adjectives
Lol. Good
😂😂😂😂😂
Toby, one of the best comments I've ever read
Toby LOLLL
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Stalkers hate this technique
"Stalker no stalking"
"Stalker no stalking"
"Stalker no stalking"
*snaps fingers* aw man
I tried this and they blocked it with
“Stalker yes stalking”
“Stalker yes stalking”
“Stalker yes stalking”
Anyway, so that’s how I died.
@@mcpugh just get a uno reverse card dude
omg that made me lol
You’ve achieved comedy
My landlord has been stalking me for the past 3months. He keeps using “late rent” and “eviction notice” as an excuse to speak to me. He use to call and txt me a lot but I blocked him. Makes you realize anyone can be stalked.
Or he has a major crush on you and maybe wants to know you better. Or is hella lonely. Wait wtf what if he is a stalker and I’m backing him up? AHHHH-
Mine shows up near when the rent is due a week in advance I see him everywhere opening my gate checking the pipes and drains and inspecting my place without my knowledge. Then there are these random ppl threatening my security near my gate and I'm pretty sure I've never experienced this level of security problem before moving there lol.
That IS creepy. Be careful and check everywhere for cameras 😦
Whatever you do don’t give him keys to your place.
@@ellenoresalvi8870 I think she doesn't pay her rent
I never heard it put like that before. When my ex managed to break into my house and confront me he said “I feel like you’ve died so I don’t see the problem with killing you”. Unhinged and genuinely scary.
Oh hell naw!!! Smhhh glad you’re alive today cuz that’s wild!
@@SC-sn3xs thanks man. Yeah it sucked. I had to move
🧢🧢
Did we have the same ex?? My deranged ex did that right after we broke up and before the lock guy came to change the locks. I have never been so sure I was going to get killed
@@Sophia-ks9yu I hope not. I also hope if they are with other people they don’t treat them the same. I hope you’ve healed/healing from the horrid experience 🫶🏻
Im an anti stalker. I learned the schedule of someone I dont like just to avoid them.
Nebula Hahaha this is actually so relateable 😅
@@dieforfunk it's a lifestyle 😌💅
What about this person makes you dislike them so much? @Nebula
I did that with one co worker I had at walmart. She was the most annoying person I have ever met and no I dont have a problem with women my best friend at that location was a woman and my favorite boss there was a woman but this particular womans whole agenda was to make service difficult for customers and to run and tell on every employee for every little bullshit thing to the point of the mangers hating her as well. I dont think Ive ever met a bigger piece of human garbage than that woman and I ended up manipulating my schedule with the help of my aformentioned favorite manager so I would not have to work with her.
That’s still creepy in its own way
Edit: so people seem to get upset by my comment so here is something to maybe change your mind(maybe it won’t I don’t really care)
The word „anti-stalker“ includes „stalker“ and stalkers are people who actively pursue someone in order to learn their behavioral patterns (be it day to day routine or something very specific)
So let’s say if someone where to tell me that it’s not creepy because they are „broadcasting their daily lifes“ i mean sure if you use the information at hand to dodge that person that’s totally normal and acceptable but „stalker“ means as stated above that you pursue that person in a proactive way to obtain information about the person which would not be presented by just coexisting with the person. (For instance: their address, their family members, their favorite restaurants, their sleep time, their commute route, their commute time and the list goes on (you probably know what I mean by now))
The scariest stalkers are the ones who don't know that their actions are super weird and creepy, or they don't care.
I think the ones who do not know that they are being weird and creepy are the least scary because it is most likely that they do not have bad intentions toward the victim. Once these types of stalkers are informed that they are being weird and creepy, they would most likely apologize and not bother the victim again.
Those stalkers are mainly women
@@andydo9308I totally disagree, it's men
@@andydo9308 that's funny bcs the crime statistic show the opposite
Yes………
"There's a good chance that you've been a victim of stalking."
Me: "You flatter me, good sir."
Lol
If you have never had a stalker, maybe you are one. LOL
A stalker here!
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@@hedleypanama yucky.
Lol
It’s weird when you are aware that someone has a creepy curiosity about you but then, say when they are caught cyberstalking and confronted that they are annoyed by you and don’t really want to talk to you- weird energy- you can’t tell if they have a crush on you or they want to k*ll you!
"The only thing that a paparazzi differentiates from a stalker, is his camera."
Charlie Sheen
One has an expensive high-quality digital camera for professional use, while the paparazzi takes pics of celebrities
Good one!!
Time to get a camera btfu.
Idk why I though that was funny so I had to post it
in middle school and high school, a girl that had been stalking me for years made a facebook account of me, using pictures she had taken covertly when I was unaware. She then pretended to be me and talked to people who thought they were speaking to me. it was some really weird shit. I hadnt made a facebook account prior to this, and I didn't find out until my irl friends told me they spoke to me on facebook and I had to convince them it wasn't me. I eventually made an account solely to prevent this person from abusing my identity.
susan, if you're reading this - leave me alone
She is still there stealing your identity?
Identity theft is not a joke jim
OFFICE REFER-
leave then alone Susan.
@Ishmu Ali
You👏Are👏A👏Legend👏😂
I have a stalker. A family member who’s moved into our house this year. He follows me into my bedroom and the bathroom. He always sneaks into my bed or under it when I’m half asleep. And worse, he gets so close to me when I’m trying to eat, watching me take every bite. Worse, he has a terrifying habit of licking my things, and in my sleep, my skin. It freaks me out how little space and privacy I have when in my own home under the fear that he’s always watching me.
I knew I should’ve gotten a cat instead of a dog...
They got us in the first half ngl
Holy shit
I was so disturbed until that last sentence omg 😂😭
Good shit👏
Omg
I’ve been stalked twice. Literally ladies, a guy being obsessed with you is not something you want. Always living in fear in your home, job, anywhere is insane and I’m so thankful that I got away.
Agree with you! Currently in a very serious situation that Im a complete wreck riddled with a horrid high heart rate and even more anxiety than I already deal with! Im fckin scared asfck! 😭
I stop going to random discord groups.
THIS!!!! The jokes are so insensitive, it was one of the most terrifying/suffocating experiences of my life. I was literally in danger because of this person.
My abusive narcissistic mom was stalking me
Same 😪 one was an ex and he was absolutely psychotic and then it happened AGAIN but it was a complete stranger who I had never even spoken too 😬🤦♀️
You look like a dad who says “I’m not mad, I’m disappointed” a lot.
I see it 😂😂😂
Diddily.
Lol. For real D
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
for real-
Must be hard for Stalkers at the moment, being outdoor types.
I feel bad for them now
Actually one of my childhood friends was one (idk them anymore) and can confirm that he was an introvert
Actually I’ve found that it has been much easier to stalk when your future husband is in a confined space that he cannot leave for the foreseeable future. You would think that somone would notice you in their house when they are and have to stay inside all day however it is easy to disguise myself.
@@emilystevens6055 hol up
Savage Bugaboo see you think that you are laying on your bed however i have disguised myself as a bed. Can you feel that itch? thats me covered in itching powder, pretending to be a matteress, listening to you watch youtube.
I'm stalking Thoughty2, he is a cool guy, he doesn't even know I watch him every day.... its Obvious, I don't even try hide it - but he has no idea.... I even leave a thumbs up, but he hasn't figured it out it was me.
In this case the victim is getting paid for being stalked " watched ", i wouldn't mind that type of stalking. #justSayin
@@D_Marrenalv he's just kidding...
Drone_Video i obsess over T2’s moostash .....
Or maybe you're the victim and Thoughty2 is stalking you!
GET OUT OF HERE S.T.A.L.K.E.R. !
In the case of the Predatory stalker; it's not about grief, it's about POWER AND CONTROL!!! You don't know anything about stalkers if you think it's grief or love sickness. Never!!! It's about REVENGE. TRUST ME. They're crazy sometimes
Facts!!!
I agree. Mine was SO ANGRY that I didn’t want to be in a relationship with him. So instead he terrorized me in every way possible.
@@TrinaGallo oh no! I hope you are doing well now
@@TrinaGallothey deal with rejection terribly.
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
“A domestic stalker never thinks they’re a stalker”
Me: “Wait. _Am I a stalker?”_
I was the same way XD
Like am I really one or..? This makes me question everything
👀👀
If you questioned if you were stalker you probably are not.
Miss Jellybean depends on the conclusion you come to I suppose
Stalking is when you’ve lived with your husband under the same roof for 20 years and he doesn’t know it yet.
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First born unicorn he’s not alive how would he know?
UHM-
LMAO
555 likes can’t wait to ruin it...
I am currently being stalked by people who are oddly overly concerned about my car's extended warranty. the weird part is I don't even own a car. haven't for 8 years.
hahahah good one
dude those people are annoying
Especially when you are looking for work haha.
Mannn I keep blocking they number and they call from a new one...
These people are obsessed with getting their hands on your money.
I've been stalked in the tradition sense by an ex. I took all the legal routes. When that didn't work, I realized anything he can legally get away with- so can can I. When I was done with him, he was in tears begging the police to make it stop- they laughed at him- and I still grin when I reminisce.
Omg what did you do I need to know more!!
Write a manual 💰 😂
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
definitely stalking. @@nothingnewunderthesun4292
@@nothingnewunderthesun4292
She stalked you.
I just stood around my ex' house for a couple of hours wearing a disguise. Trying to look inside to see whats going on. Gotta make sure she isnt stalking me or something.
lol
Smart move, you can never be to safe these days lol
You're the stalker bro
@@IshaFarzana say it with me. R\whhhhhooooooooooooooosh
Isha Farzana your a genius my man
I’m a night stalker, I don’t know why this guy is creating such a stigma. The groceries on the shelves won’t just replace themselves over night!
Are you telling me shelves AREN'T infinite food making machines???
Are u meaning to tell me that stores don't just have free food there everyday and someone restocks them
HSKSJKEJR
✔️ Unwanted gift
✔️ Strange phone calls
It's confirmed, my grandma is a stalker
Comedian
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Haha. Made my day.
Thats pretty ungrateful
Grandma's calls are NEVER unwanted. DELETE THIS COMMENT IMMEDIADETLY OR THE GRANDMA DEFENSE SQUAD WILL FIRE 😡😡
I've been stalked by someone I saw a few times and didn't know had a girlfriend. The girlfriend was stalking to the point she placed 2 tracking devices on my car, coming to my home and work. Started texting and calling me with different burner numbers. She had men calling me and mentioning my kid. The cops couldn't do anything because I didn't have enough proof. So I had to hire a lawyer and private investigator. She and whoever joined her stalked me for over a year, but would wait 2-4 months then do something again, as if to wait for my guard to go down. That has broke me to the point I still have not healed. I'm very much afraid to go outside. But therapy is slowly helping.
Something similar happened to me but I am the wife and it’s the ap doing the stalking. It’s very creepy it seems to have slowed as of recently hopefully slows to a full stop! I know how it feels and it’s like the stalker being a woman makes it weirder like how do you even talk about it and hope people take you seriously? I’ll say a prayer for healing and freedom for us both ❤
My girlfriend always calls me a stalker and tells me to get out of her house, then starts screaming at me. She's so funny and quirky.
😅😂
Are you sure your relationship will last if you were to take arguements so likely or as a joke considering it is *always* frequent. I dont know i just feel that something is not right thats all and jesus christ stop saying its just a joke how the hell could u even assume that bruh.U cant make a joke out of that
@@satanlovespussy9707 its a joke bro
that’s so cute❤️❤️. I can relate
@@RhythmWalkerKS 😆
I heard a serial killer describe how he felt when he stalked/murdered his victims, and he said the first time was such a rush and then when it wore off he wanted that same feeling but it's like he couldn't reach that level again so he would keep trying. It sounded like an addict describing their battle with drugs. It was pretty unsettling.
That’d sooo creapy
there’s an episode of criminal minds that says the exact same thing! i know that’s fiction but i just wanted to mention 😅
That's why so hard to believe this God n Devil stuff bc we are attracted to danger and drama, playing with death until it kills us . Thanks God for setting me up to fall
@@KJfromTheFort God never said life was going to be easy so you’re wrong on that. If it was so easy to be a good person all the time wouldn’t everyone be in Heaven? Next time you comment think
That isnt a stalker. That is a serial killer.
Stalking is when 2 people go for a romantic walk but only one of them knows about it.
By the way, you're out of milk.
friendzone
ur fit
Josh Hsoj hahahahah thanks for the info. Now can I have my knickers back 😂
lol
this is actually terrifying. every single point made in this video regarding the 'home stalkers' fit my dad perfectly. him and my mom have been arguing my whole childhood, and he lost full custody over me and my brother 4 years ago. he started sending agents after my mom to see if she had a new husband. he even started threatening to kill my stepdad if he even gets near me.. it has been getting better recently, and i’ve been improving my relationship with my dad - but everytime we meet up he starts insulting the hell out of my mom (which i don’t appreciate). he claims he’s gotten over her, yet there’s never been a time where we met up without him talking about her.
Sheesh this is frightening..im really sorry for your family. what have the police etc said about it? do they take it seriously?
Victim: You're a stalker please stop stalking me
Stalker: Understandable have a nice day
LOL
Ok but it would be much better if stalkers actually did that instead
I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
@@hannahmarieartistry4603 just whoop his ass
Shame on you for using stalking for your sponsored advertisement
There’s this technique that might work:
“If they are following you and you know that they are, act like someone called you and they are about to pick you up. Once you let them realize that you’re getting “picked” up, turn around and yell “aye! Is that you! I think I see your car” and like wave your arms in front of them, now if that was just a regular person the worst thing you’ve done was yell in a strangers face.”
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I do sth similar. I stop, look at my phone and turn and go back to the oppostite direction. Towards them. But acting like u are getting picked is better. Esp. If u really call someone
I KNEW THIS SOUNDED FAMILIAR OMGGGG BYE
Im being stalked by mosquitoes, but the police wont take me seriously.
I don't want to be stereotypical but...
Are you Os?
I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
Haaa
Sksks
They might be radioactive..
A lot of stalkers seem to form online "social" groups, where they share tips on traumatizing and collecting video trophy "evidence" of the damage they deny they're doing. These jerks also seem to gravitate towards "service" jobs where they, or their demented buddies may find easier access to single women, whom they may traumatize much easier than any other category of people.
I guess they are the safe stalkers
@@1mol831 There's no such thing as a safe stalker.
@@kristinmeyer489 they said the stranger stalker is unlikely to follow through their threats, they must be safer stalkers
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
@@nothingnewunderthesun4292it was
My ex definitely admitted to being a stalker. It was part of his trying to scare me games but he straight up said. "I know I'm crazy, and you're not out of my life until I say you are."
That is terrible, what did you do?
@@Theofficialskzdormricecooker they got back together and are now engaged
@@Jose-gc3xt hahahaha tragedy
Is he away now?
Did he kill you lol
When you're afraid to be stalked but u remembered that you're not that interesting anyway.
Same lol
Ik right Idk why I got stalked like I’m lame asf I just play video games 😂😂
Same 🤣🤣🤣
I mean, nobody would need to stalk me. I'd invite them in for cake😂😂
I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
"They do maintain more than one victim at the same time."
Me: *glances at stalker* "Okay I see how it is smh, now get out my backyard tree before I call the cops. Our stalker-victim relationship is over!"
AkaJust Vih I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
@@hannahmarieartistry4603 if something really happened to you then I'm sorry, but if it hasn't, and that's my inclination, you're a ghoul
gonçalo Baia You are free to believe whatever you want, although if you would like to observe proof I provided a myriad of screenshots throughout the video explaining my situation. I also ensured that the video had an 18+ age restriction on it since it contains quite a bit of vulgar content, so there is no chance of it ever being monetized if you think that’s my incentive. I’m just trying to get as many signatures on my petition as possible so the chances that someone with power will take it seriously are increased, because no one deserves to be put through what I went through. Law enforcement’s resources to handle this kind of situation are far too limited and it is imperative that that change. That’s all I’m trying to convey. Hope you have a nice day.
I’ve seen movies about stalkers and always thought “no way, just call the police” until I had a stalker, and it was actually terrifying. My sister found him in the window once, broke in, stole stuff, hacked my social media, slashed tires, egged my car. Called 40+ times a day. It was pretty scary/annoying always feeling watched, not knowing if something would be wrong with my car the next day. I found myself checking my house before and after, and waiting around at night watching my windows.
Damn that. I hope Jesus can help you. He will protect you if you let him. I pray he will protect you regardless.
God bless.
I had a stalker once. I stalked him back. I was left alone. Sometimes you just have to outcrazy them
You took all the fun of staking
Don't do such evils deeds to anyone ever, no one deserves such harsh punishment.
@@VijayThakurMD lmao
big brain moves
@@eaipu4408 If you understand your enemy you can defeat your enemy. It's not that hard
@@amandaowens8458true
The way he walked us into that promotion at the end was quite smooth ngl.
Definitely 🤣🤣🤣
Got me good there I had to like after he did that
why is this comment 3 months old and there is comment s on it from like today
Didn’t even notice I did that today💀
I didn't even notice the transition happened tbh
It’s all fun and games until you wake up in a glass cage
Hahahahha!😂😂😳
Young Goodman Brown I read that in Paris Hilton’s voice😂
Lia Lane not glass.
Ha! I see what you did there😂
@Young Goodman Brown Disgusting actually
I was stalked by an ex for 3 years. My heart goes out to victims of this.
You prob betrayed him and berated him and caused all of it
@@poppopper33nobody is to be blamed for any sort of abuse except for the abuser.
@@anmyarchive nah that’s emotional abuse to betray your partner.
@@anmyarchive so you deserve whatever happens after breaking someone’s trust like that
Thank you !@@poppopper33 speaking facts !
Feb 14th, Valentine's Day.
Other UA-camrs: Romance and love.
Thoughty2: Stalkers!!!!!!
LMAOOOO
LOL
I always forget when Valentine's Day is! But that's because in my country we celebrate it in June lol
I literally stalked my ex and my bestfriend dating this afternoon lol gimme a rope
Hahaha!
I used to be a stalker, but I’m recovering and rarely think about her. What I did was schedule my day so I never crossed paths with her, and I changed all my passwords and usernames to random stuff so I couldn’t recover them.
Good advice. I think I'll do that
Late to the party but good job. I'm glad u realized what u we're doing was wrong. There's so many people in the world
I had girl who thought I was stalking her. We both had similar schedules and lived/worked in the same 1 mile area w no car. I don't think it would have come up but, we we're both bar workers (most of the bars in that town are in sight of each other, so if you work at one you get an idea of who's working the others) and we walked the same direction.
I didn't know I was stalking her until she jumped out of a bush & maced me. It took some work for the cops to get her to realize it was all in her head. Even then we had a couple of run ins & it eventually led to a spat of bar bans on others who got involved...
@@nicholashodges201 I hope you overcome your struggle
@@zayn6699 I just moved the hell out of that college town. Those people are crazy Stoopid
When I was in high school a girl stalked me for about a week. When she found out how boring I was, it thankfully stopped.
Pleadure Needs Pain 😂😂
Hahaha your hilerious
Are you really thankful, or hurt?
That's nice
Me too, and I was eventually attacked by her. Had a class with this girl and never said two words to her but for some reason she became obsessed with me and eventually attacked me.
I never thought it would be me, I lived life very naively until I found out I was being stalked by 2 men online when I was 16- one of them was a senior in my school who watched me from class to class and wrote out my entire schedule so he could follow me, the other man lived 7 hours away and came to my school to find me. This was all because I had a public Twitter account as a teenager, please stay safe out there you guys ❤
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
@@nothingnewunderthesun4292 holy shit … that’s stalking .. please stay safe because your ex gf is crazy and there is no reasoning with a crazy person.
as Whoopi Goldberg says , you in danger girl!!!! Stay safe ❤️
"A domestic stalker never thinks they are a stalker"
Good thing that I think I'm a stalker so I'm actually not a domestic stalker.
@Dustin Keil Not a domestic one, a normal on...
Haha that was my conclusion as well. I know I am a stalker so now I am not. Cool with me.
@@closerrl9851 But what kind of stalking are talking about? Are you following random people? Or just gettin informations that are public domain on the social medias?
I have followed random people when I was drunk with some friends to make them bike faster when I was young. But thats about it hahaha
@@closerrl9851 Hahahaha That's not stalking, it is more keeping them fit and lowering healthcare costs in the long run! So altruistic!!!! Well done hahaha!
Bold of you to assume I'm important enough to be stalked
Yeah I feel that
nina wallen you already know it why you askin
nina wallen reply of the year lol
I think most people probably think that and maybe that’s why they don’t think they’ll ever be stalked. But, I don’t think stalkers think like that. I mean, if they were thinking rationally, they probably wouldn’t waste their time stalking somebody to begin with.
My point exact it's crazy to even assume that
When I worked at Amazon (literally the woese place ever, don't work there), I heard stories of a man who worked in shipping. He would save all female addresses, then stalk them. He was later fired.
Wow, how did he find the time to stalk so many customers?
@@thriftyfreebies I have no idea. At the end of my shift, I was too tired to drive, so I took an hour-long nap in my car. But I was still tired afterwards, so I gave up.
pls tell me not in MA??
@@maiajade7457 I'm not sure. They didn't say at which location.
@@thriftyfreebies I know! 'ALL FEMALE ADDRESSES' Hmm🤔
It was at this exact moment when I realized that I used to stalk my ex. Not too much, I think, but I was looking for every occasion to meet him. And a couple times I was standing under his balcony, looking into his window. I didn't realize back then how creepy it was. I genuinely felt like someone close to me died, I couldn't let him go. One time he told me that he saw some footprints on snow leading under his balcony and asked if it was me. I confessed. And he was really scarred after that. To be honest, I was glad, because the rest of the time I always felt like a victim in those relationship, especially as it was him who dated other girl behind my back and when I found out and told him he has to choose, he dumped me. But now I realize that it was for the best because that relationship made me paranoid and stalkery and was bad for me. I never hurt him on purpose though. But I was totally obsessed. I have never been so obsessed in my life before. This is really weird.
Real
Very brave of you to share. I hope you're in a better position now.
@@uluruise yes, for sure. That's an ancient history.
It's brave of you to say this on here. I think most of people have done something bordering on "stalking" especially regarding actual relationships, but have a hard time admitting it. Cheers
Has anyone ever stalked a stalker before? The hunter becomes the hunted.
Theres a comic about that
Tv version of Hannibal?
Killing stalking
The player by kresley Cole
I mean... I just found out that I'm stalking my ex, while I'm being stalked by my own father so... kinda?
Everybody gangsta until they realize the whole video was just a sponsor.
Ikr?😂😂😂
Fuck... Should I finish the vi- He’s talking about the sponsor...
gotta respect the impeccable transition tho 😂😂
I havent seen the sponsor part yet let me guess: vpn? Nord vpn or shark vpn haha
@@helingunes955 Nope...... a site thats supposed to protect your password. Great guess tho :V
"they think they are the victim."
That's fucking terrifying.
This guy who used to be my friend, who followed me around and even molested me had actually gone around telling people I was playing hard to get, lashed out at him for no reason and that I rejected him unreasonably. He isolated me and got people to stop talking to me. He really went around convincing people he was the victim when I expressed disinterest.
the second amendment is there for a reason my friend
I’m sorry that happened to you that guy sounds like trash
That's awful I'm sorry
I'm sorry you went through that.
If people stopped talking to you because of what someone else said, they were never really with you to begin with.
I used to be a stalker. I eventually got therapy and joined a 12 step program and a day at a time I work on making sure I never harm anyone in that way again.
It takes courage to admit that. Good on you!
As someone who has been a victim of stalking, thank you.
Well, my stalker would be bored as hell...I never leave my house
They would love that actually. You'd be easy to find. In my experience a stalker really only wants to know where you are, it's satisfying to them and the stories they would make up in their head about you are usually what makes them "excited" not whether or not you leave the house and where you're going... but again, that's just my experience as someone who is an introvert and a homebody, and as someone who has been stalked.
So true
@@marystellarosetarot5700 well, shit...
Lol but no, I believe you're 100% right about that. I can't believe that happened to you, I'm so very sorry. I'm glad you're doing okay. Were you able to out your stalker and get a restraining order? Has he bothered you since?
@@LoLowashere unfortunately, the situation with my ex boyfriend who was stalking me, ended in a rape and when I called the police, they said there was nothing they could do #defundthepolice. So, after my sexual assault and having night terrors living by myself for a few years, I decided to move in with a man who I thought was my friend, and who is my current roommate, but after he started to display similar obsessive behavior like my ex, I told him I was thinking about moving and he physically assaulted me, giving me extensive prefrontal cortex damage which has made it more difficult for me to find a job and move out. It's a really issue and really isn't always easily detected. I hope you or anybody else never has to go through what I've gone through 🙏
@@LoLowashere truth be told, the humor in your comment was a bit refreshing though because it reminded me of myself before all of this happened. So thank you for that, it added a moment of lightness for me in my current situation. One love 🙏❤
Me, who refuses to answer unknown numbers or open my own mail: I'll never know
Me, who's never shown his face on the internet for more than 5 years, and never uses any form of social media tied to my irl life: same.
Same here. I don't respond to unknown numbers and block them right away.
@@soggybanana i told the stalker eating cat is delicious,after that it gone silent
@@serenitycat LMAOOO
You don’t open your own mail?
My mom was stalked by her ex boyfriend as a teenager, and he made death threats and threatened to kill himself. My mom felt bad for him (he had a mental disability as well, I’m not sure what it was)so she tried dating him again to see if he would change. One day she broke up with him and he “drove her home”, but actually drove her to an empty parking lot and tried to choke her. But he came to his senses pretty quickly and stopped. He then sought help and they no longer communicated, but my mom was very lucky because if he hadn’t have come to his senses things could’ve gone much worse
So scary
@R3TR0 30 IKR?
@R3TR0 30 she said he had a mental illness
@@lynseyjones1146 "ex boyfriend" *also he is reffered as "he" multiple times and the mother is reffered as "she" as well.
@@lynseyjones1146 why does it matter
i know i have problems with obsession and compulsion and loneliness on top of that. i started to think i was stalking my crush and felt very bad because i legitimately cared for him and didn’t want to harm him, but if he knew how much my world revolved around him it would be weird to say the least
Hmm, I used to be liked this to my ex. He was very secretive and private even to me (we dated online).. I probably was too obsessed I wanted to know what he was up to since we're really far away. I recognized my issues and thought I'm too pathetic to be stuck on viewing his life instead of living mine.. I'm slowly trying to stop the urges.
Have you ever tried confessing to him. Maybe it may work.
What if a stalker realizes they are being a stalker? I lost a friend once and tried to find them because I missed them and realized I was being a stalker so I stopped. Don't worry i caught up with them later and even discussed it with them and we were okay about it.
But you weren't doing it in a creepy way were you? You just wanted to find them
Its not stalking unless you are going the extra mile.
I have a friend i been looking for. A Joe Angel. I spent a year searching. Never found him thats not stalking though.
@@LadyMFUnicorn I hope you find your friend
I dont think thats stalking at all. Perhaps you had a deep connection with that friend, no matter how long you have known them, and you just wanted to find them. And like he said, you cannot convince a stalker that they are a stalker, so if you felt that what you were doing might have been creepy, chances are you know your boundaries and are not a stalker.
They are in your basement aren't they? Lol
"You've probably beanstalked."
Can't unhear it now 🤣👍🏾
i red the comment at the same time he said it...guagagshhh I'm chocking
Lol I read this as he said it lmao.
Damn, synchronicity! Read it just as he said it too.
Oh, peas!
Stalker: I'm just going to follow you all the way home
Quarantine: yeah buddy I'm about to end your whole career
@A Random UA-cam Account then kick him out and he gets arrested cause he's out in quranatine hours :D
@@myheartwillstopinjoy8142 or shoot him.
Got damm why
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"Every breath you take, I'll be watching you." Sting was always baffled why his tune was so popular at weddings.
Your mustasche makes you seem like an expert on the subject.
hahaha @AngelofDisease 666, you took the thoughts right out of my head... I was thinking that too.. :) :) Rocking it though :)
Rockin the 70's creeper stash !
Haha epic
like Jacksfilms' pedostache lmaoo
@Thawatchai Boonchuenchom Creeper, ah maan
My heart goes out to those suffering from stalkers.
Bro cmon why
It sucks
My dream is to be stalked by a woman
@@ksnndnfr6101 Nothing wrong with wanting to be admired by the opposite sex
@@GOldenPROdigy115 stalked and admired are quite different but humour is subjective so u do u
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And if we really go to the core, it’s actually the artificial intelligence being the biggest stalker
No they are shit now
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I wanted to like your comment, but the number looks perfect 666
@@tahtoeproject2751 hahah its 667 now!
I was stalked by my ex. There were so many red flags but I was 19 and was totally unaware how dangerous he really was. I always felt like he was near by though we were broken up for two years and couldn’t explain it. When we started dating again he told me he’d sit in his car outside my home in the middle of the night. He told me he got a construction job down the street from my house and was “around a lot”, and then he got a security job two minutes down the street from me. Everything started to make sense at that point. I’m so glad he ended up ghosting me. As much as it hurt at that time, I realize now that he was abusive and so dangerous.
"Have you ever received an unwanted gift?"
*Itchy wool sweater has entered the chat*
*grandma has entered the chat*
*cat has entered the litter box*
*cat has left the litter box*
And grandma is disappointed
Jokes on you, its not wool. Its hair.
THE HOT SAUSAGE ewww that’s literally what it feels like, all weaved togethor, every hair constantly prickling and tickling your arms 😬😬😓
My stalker must be really bored with stalking me, because I never leave my house lol
I never leave my house and I'm currently being stalked. Single woman alone here. Stolen garbage can, car broken into random notes on my door, and they bring my newspaper to the door.
False on my case. he frequently entered our house and peeks into my windows without me knowing. never knew it until he got caught and confessed he did it for 4 years
@@seinonymousxx6294 that's scary as hell
@@donotreadmyprofile9373 yup. the scary part is that he successfully broke into my house while everything is on blackout and i was alone. istg I'm thinking of leaving this house but i really can't. I don't have anywhere to go
The fact that this sentence was said as if its normal for everyone to have a stalker gives me weird wibes. Like "MY stalker does this, yours?"
I had a stranger stalker a few years back. He used to come into the restaurant I worked at, but then he started leaving notes on my car, following me around, and driving by my house. When I told him I wasn't interested and had a boyfriend he turned nasty. He would come into the restaurant and just sit and glare at me. My tires started getting slashed.
My boyfriend, who I lived with at the time, was a cop. That didn't seem to stop him, at first. But the word got around to my bfs colleagues and they upped their presence in my neighborhood. That must have gotten the point across because he stopped coming around after that, thank christ.
Sorry to hear of your past circumstance, but glad to hear it has improved. Just wanted to say despite some levity in the comments with the nature of this video, I for one understand the serious nature of this as I'm sure everyone does.
@I'm super EVIL I don't think I'll ever know what his true intentions were, but even if he had never started bothering me I would have said that there was something not quite right about the guy. For one, he never smiled. Not once. He used to come in with a girlfriend before they broke up and he turned his attention towards me. And in the 2 or so years that I knew him as just a regular customer he never smiled. It's almost as if it wasn't physically possible for him to do so.
He also had cold, dead eyes. When you're talking to most people you usually notice some kind of light or spark in their eyes. This guy had nothing going on there, you couldn't get any kind of read or energy off of him.
And the last creepy thing was that when he and his girlfriend split up she left in the dead of night without telling him and without taking anything but the clothes on her back. She just took off and ran. For someone to leave like that and to leave all of their things behind tells me that something must have been pretty bad and that she didn't feel safe leaving under any circumstances where he could have tried to stop her.
Kaylee F Lol, how do you know all that? Did you stalk him?
@@KayleeCee Holly Shit it's like you're describing a psycho killer from a movie , how was his personality ? was he confident & masculine in interacting with you ?
I had one to at my job smh
i have bpd, i've had my own stalker without it, the "such people will take this obsession to anywhere it needs to go" hurt man lol
I stalked my stalker before. We ran into each other it was quite awkward but I wanted him to know how creepy it actually was
What happened next, did you scared him?
Wow, beautiful and smart, some one could become obsessed with you easy as.
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Lol
In some ways I understand guys like that. The movie "one hour photo" was very good before they started demonising the man who stalked a woman. Sometimes when you have no life, you just want to watch someone else's from the outside.
Of course, threats or violence is bad. I'm not talking about that.
When you're afraid to be stalked but you remember that nobody knows you since you don't go outside.
Ez clap
lol sorry
Facts
Sorry to break it to you that's when they stalk you through social media check whose following you there bet its some random stranger Good luck to you
@@hillarymcdonald9954 but like some people dont have social media
The more I look at him makes him look like a Russian soldier
Thanks! Now a I can't unsee the Russian soldier😂😂
@Żabia Herbata that's what I'm saying
GRENADA!
Great!
Now i can't unsee it
GERMAN!!
I remember a creep that stalked my wife for three months eleven years ago.
He stopped.
We had a conversation at 3am in the alley under our bedroom window at the time. Amazing how good I am at negotiations.
He saw it our way, quickly.
The stranger stalker didn't inspire fear.
No.
He inspired rage.
He didn't like that but he did agree with me that he made a big mistake.
"Or most commonly, an ex-partner" Guess I'm safe then
Subtle self-roast
lavalord I’ll drink to that bro
Why did I read this comment at the exact time I was watching the video
Marcello Berry let me translate what you said my dude “why did I do something that most people who watch UA-cam videos do?” There ya go.
Ayman Bahatheq no I meant I read that comment at the exact time it was said in the video
Have you ever received an unwanted gift?
Phone calls?
Anonymous mail?!
Nope nobody wants me lol
My bank is stalking me
Same
Let's not forget that the police won't do anything until you're physically hurt (or worse) by your stalker.
A police officer here stalked a 17yr old girl and shot her dead with his gun in front of everyone here. She was working in the supermarket, the next day this case against police was closed and we are advised to not speak of it or be next. She refused relationship.
@@mrkitty777 This stuff is real.
@@mrkitty777 They help each other with murder and rape and abuse.
Yes. And some won't even help you unless you have been in an relationship with them wtf
The police officer and 17 yr old girl had a relationship indeed, but the girl ended the relationship between them.
as someone with bpd it always makes me sad to see my condition villainized so badly
Honestly exactly my thoughts too. I have a friend with BPD and she's been my best friend for 20 years. It's manageable but very hard to deal with and things like this do not help whatsoever
Everyone: minding their own business
The Duolingo bird: _hoo_
💀💀💀💀
I laughed too hard at this
I get uninterested so fast in things I couldn’t imagine being a stalker
How do I know that’s not something a stalker would say 🤨🤣
Stephanie H ...you don’t 👀
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I know what yo... oh hi Kitty!!
Stalking has such a horrifying impact on the victims. It's kind of upsetting when people say "I wish I had a stalker" or "any attention is attention". Being sexually harassed or stalked is not something to be trivialised or idealised; if you experience it you'll definitely understand.
@bryan diaz varela I'm really sorry to hear that and I hope you're doing okay. Stalking isnt the kind of attention anyone would actually want to get though, trust me.
@bryan diaz varela wtf
Yes. I am a victim of stalking and constant threats and it is so frightening. Just someone trying to ruin my life and my reputation by stealing my identity and threatening people I know pretending to be me. I have suicidal thoughts as I am very alone.
@@ptsd73 so sorry to hear that, I hope you eventually feel better and that your stalker ends up in prison where they belong.
@@Luke-yl9oc Thank you, I hope so too.
Never stalked anyone, however I've been accused of it. I'm an introvert and I usually avoid people. So God forbid I take an interest in someone. It's why I seldom talk to people. In today's day and age, you can't even "like" someone without being called a creep.
the stalker who is stalking me is twisted and now is saying i am to blame while she peeps on my comments, sees all my private messages with my friends , comments on exact post i comment on and says i sleep all day long and somehow she says she is not a stalker?!! she even popped on a live on instagram and i deleted that app so now she is following me on youtube !! i am just raging how this creepy freak thinks she is entitled to creep on others privacy and then whine to say she is the victim?! i am lost for words for this situation i am in.
If you're been accused of it, they're probably right. Don't do things that make others uncomfortable. That's not bringing anything to their table. That's being selfish.
I’ve been receiving creepy calls for almost three years now. They are mostly silent hang up calls. Sometimes it’s breathing. I’ve changed my number atleast 4 times, I block all the numbers (they use fake numbers through apps), creepy messages asking for nude photos and saying they’ll hurt a child if I don’t give them “what they want”, countless police reports (they don’t do anything, say I need a “court order”) and hearing this is so creepy...don’t know what else to do or if I should be worried
That’s creepy a f maybe don’t answer calls u don’t know
@kijuro uzumaki in holland?
Or...you can track their number, stalk them, then kill em! Works every time bro.
@@suspiciousfigure3096 too much😳 plus wastage of energy
If you've changed your number 4 times and they've been able to keep calling, who have you shared your new numbers with? It could be someone you know but would never suspect.
my crush : what do u like to do for fun?
me: I stalk people
my crush: oh i like swimming
me: i know
Lmaooo- 😭
underrated comment
@@jmm5765 u mean "over used comment"
@@Shelby-rh8jz no
@@DrMonkeyxD wdym? I saw that same comment 100 times
When I was younger, I helped my friend out of an abusive relationship after we had found out he’d cheated on her. He blamed me for their breakup, and I became one of his targets for about 1-1.5 year.
He wanted me to know he was there, threatening. He also used his large friend circle to stalk me, which was scarier, since I didn’t know who these people were. At a job I briefly worked, my supervisor was his friend and fed him information without me knowing. That was about fifteen years ago, and it still stays with me.
Ps, if you made it this far, fun fact: the abuser’s father killed his mother in a murder-suicide when he was a toddler. So you can imagine it’s scarier knowing he has those genes…
I love this guy’s mustache
Well it don’t look right on him🤭
It looks like 2 dogs kissing 😂
Me 2
"all my fiends are bearded so you know.If you like to shave well carry on. You dont know the amount of care it takes we brush wax n shove'.I dont know the text anymore but its 'heathens' turned into bearded.D great song
agreee d
My girlfriend says I’m a stalker. Well, she’s not actually my girlfriend... yet.
Lol
Lmao
Lozzie74 bruh
Timesplitting Shapeshifter there’s this girl at my school. Should I try that with her?
Thanks for making me laugh mate 👌
I legit had a stalker when I was 14. He was in his late 30s. I'm 18 now and he still isn't in jail. 🤢🤢
Be careful, don't post on social media anything
Yikes
OMG! That's truly terrifying! I'm so sorry, I hope he leaves you alone.
@Alessandra Gabbana - confront him with a male adult ( preferably a big dude, or masculine)
@@marceldwayne8491 for male dudes, including dad and police
obsessing on things is like, a coping mechanism to direct attention from one’s insecurity or current stress away. it’s a distraction
Everyone is commenting funny comments about stalking, but I'm just here commenting about how the only subtitles are Dutch.
sophia vnuk nice
Thank you, I appreciate it
Stroopwafels
*laughs in Dutch*
Persoonlijkheidsstoornis
I had a stalker. He stalked me for almost 2 years. I got in some very scary situations with him and then it suddenly stopped one day. I brought my experience up to a new friend about a year later and I found out they'd been at school together... he'd had a random heart attack and that's why it stopped.
Plot twist; that new friend actually was the stalker.
I'm not even stalking you still
NecroMelodia It’s only stalking if you’re ugly.
@NecroMelodia why tf does that matter
OMG! How scary 😲
my mom is being stalked by her ex boyfriend for almost 2 years now... the police won't do anything about it, he reads all her text messages, e-mail, everything, he follows her, he always knows where she is, he hacked her computer, phone, home security system... it's really scary and I hate that there's nothing we can do.. :'(
yeah, you can. have every picture on her phone, computer, and email have a penis pic with his face attached at the head of it. you start stalking him, hack his computer and ruin his life. fight fire with fire and be weirdly gross with it. Go to his job and talk to his boss about him stalking you, call his mother and tell her that he's outside the window. If he is close to you carry maze spray and flaunt it in his face. if you notice that he is following you, then go to a gun shop and start looking at rifles. go to a shooting range and have his picture as the target.
little rugrat 😂 don’t be sayin jokes on him bro
Me to the police didn’t help me cuz I show them a pic of he’s face what’s so scary is he Lives right near me an he don’t know it Ik where he lives and he’s Ip so If the police won’t help I’ll do it myself
By the way a Good tip is Get a VPN or get a new modem so then your WiFi will change and he can’t access your internet change password on everything fb ig snap YT skyp Idk what u have change password
Next tip get a laser gun an make sure if your in your car and he’s still stalking you u might need to hit him of the road 👀 😬
Ive been stalked by a 71yr old man for a year now and it is so scary... and his my neighbor! My husband work everyone has told him to leave me alone and he wont! Its scary
It’s so important to know your self worth. When you start to view other people as being more worthy than you, it’s very easily to become obsessed with them
I did it out of revenge
@@wakeup6778 You stalked someone out of revenge?
@@wakeup6778 an ex?
@@laurenj432 She is extremely narcissistic. She humiliated me multiple times and after she left me behind completely confused i almost committed suïcide. Something snapped inside of me. I went through a severe depression and build up an enormous hate wich made me decide to stalk her pure out of revenge. In the moment itself i enjoyed it, but afterwards i felt a bit bad about it. People who noticed it call me a creep and stuff. I admit it was not a good thing to do, but when you lose your mind, you are capable to do anything.
@@PGOuma yes an ex. Great mistake
that twisted “it’s not my fault”, “s/he made me do it” victim mentality is what makes stalkers dangerous and extra hard to deal with.. because you just can’t reason with unreasonableness
They try to make whatever they do justifiable honestly shits bad
They should get the death penalty or be put in a mental institution and sedated for life. I don't feel bad for them.
nah... my best friend promised me the world, she doesn’t get the luxury of calling herself the victim after ruining my world.
@@deseodevida7511 I agree, people who make stalkers stalkers are disgusting
Victim complexes are dangerous in general
I have stalkers. They're little people who watch me when I poop and ask me for food, and call me "mommy" for some reason. 🤷♀️ 😊
that sounds terrifying i hope you find help ahahaha
😂😂
LOL!!!
Ah, the pain of the cute lil babies~
my mum had exactly the same problem!! a reliable solution that worked for her was making mushroom soup for the 3rd night in a row. hope this helped, plz let me know your results as they vary from person to orphan! 😊
The best advice to avoid getting stalked is to let people down gently and be accessible and communicative. Never rub peoples noses in it and just be friendly and if possible, wait for them to break up with you. Breaking things off in certain ways takes away the other person’s power, creates a dark dynamic and can trigger feelings of powerlessness and revenge in the other person. Also applicable to most social interactions. Source- 30 years being a player/partier ;D
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How to look like a stalker:
get a mustache.
damn it, you got me
Arran (this guy): Nervous sweating
@@mel-lt9or while we're talking about the mustache, his looks great ngl 😂
Step 2: keep one eyebrow always higher than the other, and the eyes halfway closed
MUMBO JUMBO HAS ENTERED THE CHAT
I’ve experienced both types of stalkers.
Everything he says is spot on.
The Domestic Stalker is very aggressive and more likely to cause harm.
The Stranger Stalker would just hang around in the background and watch wherever I go.
Glad ur okay
Damn
I'm sorry you had to go thru that. I hope you are okay now
I have survived both kinds of stalkers too. I thought I'd be part of a very small group...& as much as I hate it happened to you, I'm glad I'm not alone.
My first relationship, when I ended it at 22 years old...he stalked me for years. Resulted in a restraining order.
Unfortunately my second stalker was way worse. It happened when I was 35. As the District Attorney told the Judge, it was the most aggressive form of stalking between strangers in Sacramento County history. He ended up having to serve prison time over it. It made national news as the 'Buffalo Head Stalker.' He's been connected to several missing women, so I'm unable to speak about it online too much. I dont want to interfere with law enforcement's active investigations on him.
I wish you peaceful days. I was left with a wicked anxiety disorder, but working out and therapy have gotten me a lot better.
Good luck to you, my fellow sister.
The issue is for every nine women who have been legit stalked and are talking about it online, there's one woman who claims to have been but hasn't. She had type #3...the imaginary stalker who feeds her narcissism. Believe women is a nice sentiment, but sadly ~6% of women have cluster B personality disorders that make them prone to lying in order to garner sympathy and attention. So the thinking men who aren't simps can't blindly believe all claims. Glad you're okay.
Damn what’s the odds of having 2 stalkers how common is stalking ?
I've been a victim of stalking. I noticed the pattern very quickly and let my friends, parents and even colleagues know about it. That was the time I started to carry pocket knives with me (and it hasn't failed me yet, actually saved my life four times).
I threatened my stalker and avoid him whenever I spot him in the streets as if he's the plague. I still can hear his "endearing remarks" though. Truly traumatizing and only served to increase my anxiety levels and panic attacks frequency.
Same to everything you said, the best thing you can do is to educate those around you and yourself about how to deal with this situations. It's traumatazing and isolating but it really does get better with time. 1 year into my healing process I wasn't afraid of being in my own house anymore, 2 years I started talking about my situacion openly with no pain, 3 years in I would laugh at his attemps of contacting me, 4 I wasn't afraid anymore of having a public acount on social media, now 6 years later I do yoga, have tons of friends and go where I want when I want to, and my anxiety after 2 years in therapy feels like a thing of the past. Be strong and know you are never alone.
@@xcangrejo
Exactly.
I've only talked to my friends about the situation and how it affected me, a couple months ago. And they had seen my reaction to seeing the guy in a cosplay convention. I only told them about all this after talking to my girlfriend and understanding nobody would judge me weak or anything. It was all in my head and I could count on my dear ones.
hi, sorry pretty late to the party. i’ve been thinking about pocket knives and how i (as a woman) could use them for my self defense. if you’re comfortable answering this question, how did it save you? because i’m pretty scared that it could be used against me
@@annamaiaroli8848 same
@@annamaiaroli8848 same
When I was beginning out in high-school I broke up with my boyfriend and a lot of my friends went missing and one was found. My ex had borderline personality disorder and was already obsessed with me. Stay alert please!
I’m a stalker victim. This old man keeps coming to my job asking about me and once he tried to get my number. Recently last night he was in the parking lot of my job watching me. He waited till there was no customers in there to come in and look for me. Guys I’m scared
Omg I'm scared for you. Please take care. Report it to someone
Call the police and apply for a restraining krder
are you okay omg?!
What's the update?
@@biancalewis4232 I can’t get one in the state of North Carolina