This is How a Stalker's Brain Works And It's Really Disturbing

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 14 тис.

  • @OmiTheEel
    @OmiTheEel 4 роки тому +11965

    Stalkers hate this technique
    "Stalker no stalking"
    "Stalker no stalking"
    "Stalker no stalking"

    • @yoongi9424
      @yoongi9424 4 роки тому +800

      *snaps fingers* aw man

    • @mcpugh
      @mcpugh 4 роки тому +601

      I tried this and they blocked it with
      “Stalker yes stalking”
      “Stalker yes stalking”
      “Stalker yes stalking”
      Anyway, so that’s how I died.

    • @honeybubble9649
      @honeybubble9649 4 роки тому +306

      @@mcpugh just get a uno reverse card dude

    • @doodlescnof4424
      @doodlescnof4424 4 роки тому +52

      omg that made me lol

    • @catnoirsimp6779
      @catnoirsimp6779 4 роки тому +75

      You’ve achieved comedy

  • @stinkytoby
    @stinkytoby 5 років тому +15251

    "Have you ever received an unwanted gift, a series of strange phone calls, or a weird letter?"
    Not even if you remove the adjectives

  • @DelightfullyGrace
    @DelightfullyGrace 4 роки тому +18743

    “A domestic stalker never thinks they’re a stalker”
    Me: “Wait. _Am I a stalker?”_

    • @angelross3135
      @angelross3135 4 роки тому +234

      I was the same way XD

    • @angelross3135
      @angelross3135 4 роки тому +300

      Like am I really one or..? This makes me question everything

    • @zoopylove2937
      @zoopylove2937 4 роки тому +46

      👀👀

    • @MissJellybean
      @MissJellybean 4 роки тому +254

      If you questioned if you were stalker you probably are not.

    • @ryanhiggins8869
      @ryanhiggins8869 4 роки тому +37

      Miss Jellybean depends on the conclusion you come to I suppose

  • @Smashingblouse
    @Smashingblouse Рік тому +2236

    I never heard it put like that before. When my ex managed to break into my house and confront me he said “I feel like you’ve died so I don’t see the problem with killing you”. Unhinged and genuinely scary.

    • @SC-sn3xs
      @SC-sn3xs Рік тому +231

      Oh hell naw!!! Smhhh glad you’re alive today cuz that’s wild!

    • @Smashingblouse
      @Smashingblouse Рік тому +121

      @@SC-sn3xs thanks man. Yeah it sucked. I had to move

    • @drakeduped2872
      @drakeduped2872 Рік тому +5

      🧢🧢

    • @Sophia-ks9yu
      @Sophia-ks9yu Рік тому +89

      Did we have the same ex?? My deranged ex did that right after we broke up and before the lock guy came to change the locks. I have never been so sure I was going to get killed

    • @Smashingblouse
      @Smashingblouse Рік тому +32

      @@Sophia-ks9yu I hope not. I also hope if they are with other people they don’t treat them the same. I hope you’ve healed/healing from the horrid experience 🫶🏻

  • @jillianfry4520
    @jillianfry4520 4 роки тому +44776

    Im an anti stalker. I learned the schedule of someone I dont like just to avoid them.

    • @dieforfunk
      @dieforfunk 4 роки тому +2638

      Nebula Hahaha this is actually so relateable 😅

    • @jillianfry4520
      @jillianfry4520 4 роки тому +1840

      @@dieforfunk it's a lifestyle 😌💅

    • @ZiqpY
      @ZiqpY 4 роки тому +416

      What about this person makes you dislike them so much? @Nebula

    • @southernmalesubmissive4570
      @southernmalesubmissive4570 4 роки тому +535

      I did that with one co worker I had at walmart. She was the most annoying person I have ever met and no I dont have a problem with women my best friend at that location was a woman and my favorite boss there was a woman but this particular womans whole agenda was to make service difficult for customers and to run and tell on every employee for every little bullshit thing to the point of the mangers hating her as well. I dont think Ive ever met a bigger piece of human garbage than that woman and I ended up manipulating my schedule with the help of my aformentioned favorite manager so I would not have to work with her.

    • @mycatjoe4
      @mycatjoe4 4 роки тому +295

      That’s still creepy in its own way
      Edit: so people seem to get upset by my comment so here is something to maybe change your mind(maybe it won’t I don’t really care)
      The word „anti-stalker“ includes „stalker“ and stalkers are people who actively pursue someone in order to learn their behavioral patterns (be it day to day routine or something very specific)
      So let’s say if someone where to tell me that it’s not creepy because they are „broadcasting their daily lifes“ i mean sure if you use the information at hand to dodge that person that’s totally normal and acceptable but „stalker“ means as stated above that you pursue that person in a proactive way to obtain information about the person which would not be presented by just coexisting with the person. (For instance: their address, their family members, their favorite restaurants, their sleep time, their commute route, their commute time and the list goes on (you probably know what I mean by now))

  • @ironheadfm
    @ironheadfm 4 роки тому +1585

    "The only thing that a paparazzi differentiates from a stalker, is his camera."
    Charlie Sheen

    • @Retr0Sk1ll
      @Retr0Sk1ll 4 роки тому +95

      One has an expensive high-quality digital camera for professional use, while the paparazzi takes pics of celebrities

    • @truckerhatadventures5649
      @truckerhatadventures5649 4 роки тому +3

      Good one!!

    • @seilove7044
      @seilove7044 4 роки тому +2

      Time to get a camera btfu.
      Idk why I though that was funny so I had to post it

    • @monejohn9973
      @monejohn9973 25 днів тому +3

      But A we later found out in Britney Spears cases.Her own family was telling the paparazzi where to find her and she had the worst stalking in history Besides the princess diana tragedy. Basically between their stories, your family and the family you marry into can be your own worst enemies.That's why nobody should judge people who don't like their family.

  • @FEARLovingGirl
    @FEARLovingGirl 5 років тому +6592

    "There's a good chance that you've been a victim of stalking."
    Me: "You flatter me, good sir."

  • @Poppy-yx8js
    @Poppy-yx8js 10 місяців тому +204

    It’s weird when you are aware that someone has a creepy curiosity about you but then, say when they are caught cyberstalking and confronted that they are annoyed by you and don’t really want to talk to you- weird energy- you can’t tell if they have a crush on you or they want to k*ll you!

    • @ParDiss-e4i
      @ParDiss-e4i 25 днів тому

      @@Poppy-yx8js when you can't tell it's a stalker. When you feel fine they are love 🥰

    • @monejohn9973
      @monejohn9973 25 днів тому +1

      Yeah, it's weird when you're a girl and it's a girl because you're used to guys being that creepy.It's weird when it's a gay person and you're straight.It's weird when it's people from different races trying to compete with you.People are just weird to the point that I now avoid all of them...

  • @I.v.king24
    @I.v.king24 4 роки тому +5154

    My landlord has been stalking me for the past 3months. He keeps using “late rent” and “eviction notice” as an excuse to speak to me. He use to call and txt me a lot but I blocked him. Makes you realize anyone can be stalked.

    • @ellenoresalvi8870
      @ellenoresalvi8870 4 роки тому +398

      Or he has a major crush on you and maybe wants to know you better. Or is hella lonely. Wait wtf what if he is a stalker and I’m backing him up? AHHHH-

    • @hillarymcdonald9954
      @hillarymcdonald9954 4 роки тому +191

      Mine shows up near when the rent is due a week in advance I see him everywhere opening my gate checking the pipes and drains and inspecting my place without my knowledge. Then there are these random ppl threatening my security near my gate and I'm pretty sure I've never experienced this level of security problem before moving there lol.

    • @gaarasama1247
      @gaarasama1247 4 роки тому +150

      That IS creepy. Be careful and check everywhere for cameras 😦

    • @MrRyan-wu4jx
      @MrRyan-wu4jx 4 роки тому +80

      Whatever you do don’t give him keys to your place.

    • @darrenrobertc3238
      @darrenrobertc3238 4 роки тому +104

      @@ellenoresalvi8870 I think she doesn't pay her rent

  • @mminguriicc
    @mminguriicc 4 роки тому +5355

    Victim: You're a stalker please stop stalking me
    Stalker: Understandable have a nice day

    • @berryraspberry162
      @berryraspberry162 4 роки тому +34

      LOL

    • @serien194
      @serien194 4 роки тому +176

      Ok but it would be much better if stalkers actually did that instead

    • @hannahmarieartistry4603
      @hannahmarieartistry4603 4 роки тому +48

      I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking

    • @el_tdg
      @el_tdg 4 роки тому +48

      @@hannahmarieartistry4603 just whoop his ass

    • @mayflower2158
      @mayflower2158 4 роки тому +24

      Shame on you for using stalking for your sponsored advertisement

  • @dankdopths6955
    @dankdopths6955 2 роки тому +5782

    The scariest stalkers are the ones who don't know that their actions are super weird and creepy, or they don't care.

    • @sunnyd8585
      @sunnyd8585 Рік тому +360

      I think the ones who do not know that they are being weird and creepy are the least scary because it is most likely that they do not have bad intentions toward the victim. Once these types of stalkers are informed that they are being weird and creepy, they would most likely apologize and not bother the victim again.

    • @andydo9308
      @andydo9308 Рік тому +41

      Those stalkers are mainly women

    • @santanapage5044
      @santanapage5044 Рік тому +141

      ​@@andydo9308I totally disagree, it's men

    • @aina1307
      @aina1307 Рік тому +184

      @@andydo9308 that's funny bcs the crime statistic show the opposite

    • @COOLEVELYNNN
      @COOLEVELYNNN Рік тому +5

      Yes………

  • @alolaunica
    @alolaunica Рік тому +418

    I’ve been stalked twice. Literally ladies, a guy being obsessed with you is not something you want. Always living in fear in your home, job, anywhere is insane and I’m so thankful that I got away.

    • @savannahleeross7373
      @savannahleeross7373 4 місяці тому +15

      Agree with you! Currently in a very serious situation that Im a complete wreck riddled with a horrid high heart rate and even more anxiety than I already deal with! Im fckin scared asfck! 😭

    • @Crystal-l4f
      @Crystal-l4f 3 місяці тому +4

      I stop going to random discord groups.

    • @dharmabumpoetess
      @dharmabumpoetess Місяць тому +6

      THIS!!!! The jokes are so insensitive, it was one of the most terrifying/suffocating experiences of my life. I was literally in danger because of this person.

    • @JMMavulule
      @JMMavulule Місяць тому +2

      My abusive narcissistic mom was stalking me

    • @juliesmith6228
      @juliesmith6228 Місяць тому

      Same 😪 one was an ex and he was absolutely psychotic and then it happened AGAIN but it was a complete stranger who I had never even spoken too 😬🤦‍♀️

  • @AB-gz9yb
    @AB-gz9yb 4 роки тому +25840

    Stalking is when 2 people go for a romantic walk but only one of them knows about it.

    • @ItsDeebs
      @ItsDeebs 4 роки тому +1537

      By the way, you're out of milk.

    • @ibrahim-sj2cr
      @ibrahim-sj2cr 4 роки тому +350

      friendzone

    • @steviejrr
      @steviejrr 4 роки тому +55

      ur fit

    • @AB-gz9yb
      @AB-gz9yb 4 роки тому +204

      Josh Hsoj hahahahah thanks for the info. Now can I have my knickers back 😂

    • @avinashkatiki1505
      @avinashkatiki1505 4 роки тому +11

      lol

  • @alexandriacandler2877
    @alexandriacandler2877 4 роки тому +13090

    You look like a dad who says “I’m not mad, I’m disappointed” a lot.

  • @1javixD
    @1javixD 4 роки тому +5021

    Stalking is when you’ve lived with your husband under the same roof for 20 years and he doesn’t know it yet.

    • @daram.9565
      @daram.9565 4 роки тому +54

      Hyahaahhahahayayayayayhhahahahhehehhehyayayayayyahahayayyaayheehyeahhahaehehehah

    • @Cecily_Smith4
      @Cecily_Smith4 4 роки тому +87

      First born unicorn he’s not alive how would he know?

    • @catnoirsimp6779
      @catnoirsimp6779 4 роки тому +38

      UHM-

    • @myariah8921
      @myariah8921 4 роки тому +21

      LMAO

    • @paperbag4956
      @paperbag4956 4 роки тому +13

      555 likes can’t wait to ruin it...

  • @starrysparkles404
    @starrysparkles404 2 роки тому +513

    In the case of the Predatory stalker; it's not about grief, it's about POWER AND CONTROL!!! You don't know anything about stalkers if you think it's grief or love sickness. Never!!! It's about REVENGE. TRUST ME. They're crazy sometimes

    • @ConservativeHippie001
      @ConservativeHippie001 Рік тому +13

      Facts!!!

    • @TrinaGallo
      @TrinaGallo Рік тому +50

      I agree. Mine was SO ANGRY that I didn’t want to be in a relationship with him. So instead he terrorized me in every way possible.

    • @melonneleh
      @melonneleh Рік тому +7

      @@TrinaGallo oh no! I hope you are doing well now

    • @CoachK10190
      @CoachK10190 Рік тому +8

      @@TrinaGallothey deal with rejection terribly.

    • @nothingnewunderthesun4292
      @nothingnewunderthesun4292 Рік тому +17

      My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
      One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
      I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
      So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
      she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
      all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
      And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
      She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
      Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?

  • @TheNoirAlien
    @TheNoirAlien 4 роки тому +1877

    Must be hard for Stalkers at the moment, being outdoor types.

    • @metra8604
      @metra8604 4 роки тому +22

      I feel bad for them now

    • @Arirezz
      @Arirezz 4 роки тому +24

      Actually one of my childhood friends was one (idk them anymore) and can confirm that he was an introvert

    • @emilystevens6055
      @emilystevens6055 4 роки тому +51

      Actually I’ve found that it has been much easier to stalk when your future husband is in a confined space that he cannot leave for the foreseeable future. You would think that somone would notice you in their house when they are and have to stay inside all day however it is easy to disguise myself.

    • @sunnybugaboo9478
      @sunnybugaboo9478 4 роки тому +32

      @@emilystevens6055 hol up

    • @emilystevens6055
      @emilystevens6055 4 роки тому +38

      Savage Bugaboo see you think that you are laying on your bed however i have disguised myself as a bed. Can you feel that itch? thats me covered in itching powder, pretending to be a matteress, listening to you watch youtube.

  •  4 роки тому +18835

    ✔️ Unwanted gift
    ✔️ Strange phone calls
    It's confirmed, my grandma is a stalker

  • @Triferus
    @Triferus 4 роки тому +24055

    My girlfriend always calls me a stalker and tells me to get out of her house, then starts screaming at me. She's so funny and quirky.

    • @kittenrants
      @kittenrants 4 роки тому +872

      😅😂

    • @satanlovespussy9707
      @satanlovespussy9707 4 роки тому +577

      Are you sure your relationship will last if you were to take arguements so likely or as a joke considering it is *always* frequent. I dont know i just feel that something is not right thats all and jesus christ stop saying its just a joke how the hell could u even assume that bruh.U cant make a joke out of that

    • @blobmaster118
      @blobmaster118 4 роки тому +1605

      @@satanlovespussy9707 its a joke bro

    • @doodlescnof4424
      @doodlescnof4424 4 роки тому +914

      that’s so cute❤️❤️. I can relate

    • @sierralilbit7558
      @sierralilbit7558 4 роки тому +126

      @@RhythmWalkerKS 😆

  • @hushpuppy7694
    @hushpuppy7694 2 роки тому +121

    I've been stalked by someone I saw a few times and didn't know had a girlfriend. The girlfriend was stalking to the point she placed 2 tracking devices on my car, coming to my home and work. Started texting and calling me with different burner numbers. She had men calling me and mentioning my kid. The cops couldn't do anything because I didn't have enough proof. So I had to hire a lawyer and private investigator. She and whoever joined her stalked me for over a year, but would wait 2-4 months then do something again, as if to wait for my guard to go down. That has broke me to the point I still have not healed. I'm very much afraid to go outside. But therapy is slowly helping.

    • @simplyjane92
      @simplyjane92 2 місяці тому +2

      Something similar happened to me but I am the wife and it’s the ap doing the stalking. It’s very creepy it seems to have slowed as of recently hopefully slows to a full stop! I know how it feels and it’s like the stalker being a woman makes it weirder like how do you even talk about it and hope people take you seriously? I’ll say a prayer for healing and freedom for us both ❤

    • @jesuslovesyou6625
      @jesuslovesyou6625 Місяць тому +2

      What helped heal my traumas Jesus Lord himself. Repent and turn to Him for salvation. He will cover you with peace of mind and new garments. You will finally have a new name

    • @archnagangwar4691
      @archnagangwar4691 15 днів тому

      That's sad.. hope you're doing better now

  • @BonazaiGirl
    @BonazaiGirl 4 роки тому +13973

    I have a stalker. A family member who’s moved into our house this year. He follows me into my bedroom and the bathroom. He always sneaks into my bed or under it when I’m half asleep. And worse, he gets so close to me when I’m trying to eat, watching me take every bite. Worse, he has a terrifying habit of licking my things, and in my sleep, my skin. It freaks me out how little space and privacy I have when in my own home under the fear that he’s always watching me.
    I knew I should’ve gotten a cat instead of a dog...

  • @peachesandcream1523
    @peachesandcream1523 4 роки тому +866

    When you're afraid to be stalked but u remembered that you're not that interesting anyway.

    • @cow1234ful
      @cow1234ful 4 роки тому +9

      Same lol

    • @Xeyuno
      @Xeyuno 4 роки тому +14

      Ik right Idk why I got stalked like I’m lame asf I just play video games 😂😂

    • @dikithapa699
      @dikithapa699 4 роки тому +4

      Same 🤣🤣🤣

    • @coraroberts2999
      @coraroberts2999 4 роки тому +6

      I mean, nobody would need to stalk me. I'd invite them in for cake😂😂

    • @hannahmarieartistry4603
      @hannahmarieartistry4603 4 роки тому +3

      I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking

  • @camerondale6529
    @camerondale6529 4 роки тому +5309

    in middle school and high school, a girl that had been stalking me for years made a facebook account of me, using pictures she had taken covertly when I was unaware. She then pretended to be me and talked to people who thought they were speaking to me. it was some really weird shit. I hadnt made a facebook account prior to this, and I didn't find out until my irl friends told me they spoke to me on facebook and I had to convince them it wasn't me. I eventually made an account solely to prevent this person from abusing my identity.
    susan, if you're reading this - leave me alone

    • @leonamvinoy3008
      @leonamvinoy3008 4 роки тому +354

      She is still there stealing your identity?

    • @Ishmeueu
      @Ishmeueu 4 роки тому +602

      Identity theft is not a joke jim

    • @AnhTran-if2wk
      @AnhTran-if2wk 4 роки тому +73

      OFFICE REFER-

    • @vodkaklbd9598
      @vodkaklbd9598 4 роки тому +184

      leave then alone Susan.

    • @themanintheattic
      @themanintheattic 4 роки тому +19

      @Ishmu Ali
      You👏Are👏A👏Legend👏😂

  • @missbealovesalbert8353
    @missbealovesalbert8353 Рік тому +125

    I've been stalked in the tradition sense by an ex. I took all the legal routes. When that didn't work, I realized anything he can legally get away with- so can can I. When I was done with him, he was in tears begging the police to make it stop- they laughed at him- and I still grin when I reminisce.

    • @mariapiccioni5974
      @mariapiccioni5974 Рік тому +16

      Omg what did you do I need to know more!!

    • @TeaLaRee
      @TeaLaRee Рік тому +16

      Write a manual 💰 😂

    • @nothingnewunderthesun4292
      @nothingnewunderthesun4292 Рік тому +14

      My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
      One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
      I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
      So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
      she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
      all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
      And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
      She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
      Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?

    • @uluruise
      @uluruise 10 місяців тому

      definitely stalking. @@nothingnewunderthesun4292

    • @Trobtwillis
      @Trobtwillis 4 місяці тому

      ​@@nothingnewunderthesun4292
      She stalked you.

  • @cornpop5898
    @cornpop5898 4 роки тому +3661

    I am currently being stalked by people who are oddly overly concerned about my car's extended warranty. the weird part is I don't even own a car. haven't for 8 years.

    • @ryanjung4416
      @ryanjung4416 4 роки тому +62

      hahahah good one

    • @abcd-oh2te
      @abcd-oh2te 4 роки тому +107

      dude those people are annoying

    • @noonehere4332
      @noonehere4332 3 роки тому +35

      Especially when you are looking for work haha.

    • @ThemysticsageLeeza
      @ThemysticsageLeeza 3 роки тому +43

      Mannn I keep blocking they number and they call from a new one...

    • @lisabeam4354
      @lisabeam4354 3 роки тому +19

      These people are obsessed with getting their hands on your money.

  • @zilverplayer8805
    @zilverplayer8805 4 роки тому +12551

    Im being stalked by mosquitoes, but the police wont take me seriously.

    • @arikakarin2323
      @arikakarin2323 4 роки тому +86

      I don't want to be stereotypical but...
      Are you Os?

    • @hannahmarieartistry4603
      @hannahmarieartistry4603 4 роки тому +97

      I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking

    • @Kiemixo
      @Kiemixo 4 роки тому +16

      Haaa

    • @aliviaaudioss5573
      @aliviaaudioss5573 4 роки тому +6

      Sksks

    • @stqrcles
      @stqrcles 4 роки тому +21

      They might be radioactive..

  • @jesshazen6220
    @jesshazen6220 5 років тому +3210

    It’s all fun and games until you wake up in a glass cage

    • @Zeldarw104
      @Zeldarw104 4 роки тому +18

      Hahahahha!😂😂😳

    • @jesshazen6220
      @jesshazen6220 4 роки тому +30

      Young Goodman Brown I read that in Paris Hilton’s voice😂

    • @catsfirst
      @catsfirst 4 роки тому +1

      Lia Lane not glass.

    • @555starangel_
      @555starangel_ 4 роки тому +2

      Ha! I see what you did there😂

    • @nvmffs
      @nvmffs 4 роки тому +2

      @Young Goodman Brown Disgusting actually

  • @realmiu
    @realmiu Рік тому +79

    this is actually terrifying. every single point made in this video regarding the 'home stalkers' fit my dad perfectly. him and my mom have been arguing my whole childhood, and he lost full custody over me and my brother 4 years ago. he started sending agents after my mom to see if she had a new husband. he even started threatening to kill my stepdad if he even gets near me.. it has been getting better recently, and i’ve been improving my relationship with my dad - but everytime we meet up he starts insulting the hell out of my mom (which i don’t appreciate). he claims he’s gotten over her, yet there’s never been a time where we met up without him talking about her.

    • @pip.pip.pooray
      @pip.pip.pooray Рік тому +3

      Sheesh this is frightening..im really sorry for your family. what have the police etc said about it? do they take it seriously?

  • @DanielJohnGaming
    @DanielJohnGaming 4 роки тому +576

    I’m a night stalker, I don’t know why this guy is creating such a stigma. The groceries on the shelves won’t just replace themselves over night!

    • @totallynotafanficreader7850
      @totallynotafanficreader7850 4 роки тому +46

      Are you telling me shelves AREN'T infinite food making machines???

    • @cyberspino6277
      @cyberspino6277 4 роки тому +27

      Are u meaning to tell me that stores don't just have free food there everyday and someone restocks them

    • @staymad.3616
      @staymad.3616 4 роки тому

      HSKSJKEJR

    • @michaelmappin4425
      @michaelmappin4425 9 днів тому

      Man, I got beat on that by 4 years😢

  • @LilMissTravelPants
    @LilMissTravelPants 4 роки тому +1473

    Me, who refuses to answer unknown numbers or open my own mail: I'll never know

    • @neighborhoodsunbear9838
      @neighborhoodsunbear9838 3 роки тому +68

      Me, who's never shown his face on the internet for more than 5 years, and never uses any form of social media tied to my irl life: same.

    • @jve89
      @jve89 3 роки тому +27

      Same here. I don't respond to unknown numbers and block them right away.

    • @serenitycat
      @serenitycat 3 роки тому +18

      @@soggybanana i told the stalker eating cat is delicious,after that it gone silent

    • @soggybanana
      @soggybanana 3 роки тому +5

      @@serenitycat LMAOOO

    • @mrguy561
      @mrguy561 3 роки тому +7

      You don’t open your own mail?

  • @samanthajohnston9269
    @samanthajohnston9269 2 роки тому +4229

    I heard a serial killer describe how he felt when he stalked/murdered his victims, and he said the first time was such a rush and then when it wore off he wanted that same feeling but it's like he couldn't reach that level again so he would keep trying. It sounded like an addict describing their battle with drugs. It was pretty unsettling.

    • @Bouwe99
      @Bouwe99 2 роки тому +115

      That’d sooo creapy

    • @sammu101
      @sammu101 2 роки тому +82

      there’s an episode of criminal minds that says the exact same thing! i know that’s fiction but i just wanted to mention 😅

    • @KJfromTheFort
      @KJfromTheFort 2 роки тому +20

      That's why so hard to believe this God n Devil stuff bc we are attracted to danger and drama, playing with death until it kills us . Thanks God for setting me up to fall

    • @Dylan-bj4fx
      @Dylan-bj4fx 2 роки тому +77

      @@KJfromTheFort God never said life was going to be easy so you’re wrong on that. If it was so easy to be a good person all the time wouldn’t everyone be in Heaven? Next time you comment think

    • @ridealongwithnicolle1581
      @ridealongwithnicolle1581 2 роки тому

      That isnt a stalker. That is a serial killer.

  • @Nickilove259
    @Nickilove259 Рік тому +46

    I’ve seen movies about stalkers and always thought “no way, just call the police” until I had a stalker, and it was actually terrifying. My sister found him in the window once, broke in, stole stuff, hacked my social media, slashed tires, egged my car. Called 40+ times a day. It was pretty scary/annoying always feeling watched, not knowing if something would be wrong with my car the next day. I found myself checking my house before and after, and waiting around at night watching my windows.

    • @S.O.M-l5i
      @S.O.M-l5i 7 місяців тому +7

      Damn that. I hope Jesus can help you. He will protect you if you let him. I pray he will protect you regardless.
      God bless.

  • @longdongmc.johnson
    @longdongmc.johnson 5 років тому +1550

    I just stood around my ex' house for a couple of hours wearing a disguise. Trying to look inside to see whats going on. Gotta make sure she isnt stalking me or something.

    • @jpeg.600x2
      @jpeg.600x2 4 роки тому +19

      lol

    • @guy8360
      @guy8360 4 роки тому +129

      Smart move, you can never be to safe these days lol

    • @IshaFarzana
      @IshaFarzana 4 роки тому +9

      You're the stalker bro

    • @ASmartNameForMe
      @ASmartNameForMe 4 роки тому +68

      @@IshaFarzana say it with me. R\whhhhhooooooooooooooosh

    • @dimitrivanderhel9261
      @dimitrivanderhel9261 4 роки тому +24

      Isha Farzana your a genius my man

  • @shadowdancer5330
    @shadowdancer5330 3 роки тому +11388

    Has anyone ever stalked a stalker before? The hunter becomes the hunted.

    • @izukumidorya1379
      @izukumidorya1379 3 роки тому +492

      Theres a comic about that

    • @EvelynCorvin
      @EvelynCorvin 3 роки тому +160

      Tv version of Hannibal?

    • @kovarcoley8418
      @kovarcoley8418 3 роки тому +459

      Killing stalking

    • @mansisharma7375
      @mansisharma7375 3 роки тому +37

      The player by kresley Cole

    • @silvercandra4275
      @silvercandra4275 3 роки тому +160

      I mean... I just found out that I'm stalking my ex, while I'm being stalked by my own father so... kinda?

  • @drone_video9849
    @drone_video9849 5 років тому +2460

    I'm stalking Thoughty2, he is a cool guy, he doesn't even know I watch him every day.... its Obvious, I don't even try hide it - but he has no idea.... I even leave a thumbs up, but he hasn't figured it out it was me.

    • @mubarakadam2102
      @mubarakadam2102 5 років тому +108

      In this case the victim is getting paid for being stalked " watched ", i wouldn't mind that type of stalking. #justSayin

    • @33_sorin
      @33_sorin 5 років тому +42

      @@D_Marrenalv he's just kidding...

    • @cedricpod
      @cedricpod 5 років тому +9

      Drone_Video i obsess over T2’s moostash .....

    • @sebastienbolduc5654
      @sebastienbolduc5654 5 років тому +16

      Or maybe you're the victim and Thoughty2 is stalking you!

    • @SiliconBong
      @SiliconBong 5 років тому +5

      GET OUT OF HERE S.T.A.L.K.E.R. !

  • @bethanyfury1209
    @bethanyfury1209 Рік тому +172

    I was stalked by an ex for 3 years. My heart goes out to victims of this.

    • @poppopper33
      @poppopper33 Рік тому +3

      You prob betrayed him and berated him and caused all of it

    • @anmyarchive
      @anmyarchive Рік тому +37

      @@poppopper33nobody is to be blamed for any sort of abuse except for the abuser.

    • @poppopper33
      @poppopper33 Рік тому +3

      @@anmyarchive nah that’s emotional abuse to betray your partner.

    • @poppopper33
      @poppopper33 Рік тому +3

      @@anmyarchive so you deserve whatever happens after breaking someone’s trust like that

    • @danbaker7640
      @danbaker7640 Рік тому

      Thank you !@@poppopper33 speaking facts !

  • @amandaowens8458
    @amandaowens8458 4 роки тому +4134

    I had a stalker once. I stalked him back. I was left alone. Sometimes you just have to outcrazy them

    • @VijayThakurMD
      @VijayThakurMD 4 роки тому +284

      You took all the fun of staking
      Don't do such evils deeds to anyone ever, no one deserves such harsh punishment.

    • @Goon_Less
      @Goon_Less 4 роки тому +196

      @@VijayThakurMD lmao

    • @eaipu4408
      @eaipu4408 4 роки тому +233

      big brain moves

    • @amandaowens8458
      @amandaowens8458 4 роки тому +396

      @@eaipu4408 If you understand your enemy you can defeat your enemy. It's not that hard

    • @eaipu4408
      @eaipu4408 4 роки тому +19

      @@amandaowens8458true

  • @LoLowashere
    @LoLowashere 4 роки тому +3561

    Well, my stalker would be bored as hell...I never leave my house

    • @marystellarosetarot5700
      @marystellarosetarot5700 4 роки тому +262

      They would love that actually. You'd be easy to find. In my experience a stalker really only wants to know where you are, it's satisfying to them and the stories they would make up in their head about you are usually what makes them "excited" not whether or not you leave the house and where you're going... but again, that's just my experience as someone who is an introvert and a homebody, and as someone who has been stalked.

    • @henrikwaschk1148
      @henrikwaschk1148 4 роки тому +8

      So true

    • @LoLowashere
      @LoLowashere 4 роки тому +57

      @@marystellarosetarot5700 well, shit...
      Lol but no, I believe you're 100% right about that. I can't believe that happened to you, I'm so very sorry. I'm glad you're doing okay. Were you able to out your stalker and get a restraining order? Has he bothered you since?

    • @marystellarosetarot5700
      @marystellarosetarot5700 4 роки тому +75

      @@LoLowashere unfortunately, the situation with my ex boyfriend who was stalking me, ended in a rape and when I called the police, they said there was nothing they could do #defundthepolice. So, after my sexual assault and having night terrors living by myself for a few years, I decided to move in with a man who I thought was my friend, and who is my current roommate, but after he started to display similar obsessive behavior like my ex, I told him I was thinking about moving and he physically assaulted me, giving me extensive prefrontal cortex damage which has made it more difficult for me to find a job and move out. It's a really issue and really isn't always easily detected. I hope you or anybody else never has to go through what I've gone through 🙏

    • @marystellarosetarot5700
      @marystellarosetarot5700 4 роки тому +33

      @@LoLowashere truth be told, the humor in your comment was a bit refreshing though because it reminded me of myself before all of this happened. So thank you for that, it added a moment of lightness for me in my current situation. One love 🙏❤

  • @Som3D
    @Som3D 5 років тому +1153

    "what stalkers don't realise is they have been stalked"
    Stalker: YOU DARE USE MY OWN SPELLS AGAINST ME POTTER

  • @soundofmoosixsoundofmoosix7963
    @soundofmoosixsoundofmoosix7963 Рік тому +90

    I never thought it would be me, I lived life very naively until I found out I was being stalked by 2 men online when I was 16- one of them was a senior in my school who watched me from class to class and wrote out my entire schedule so he could follow me, the other man lived 7 hours away and came to my school to find me. This was all because I had a public Twitter account as a teenager, please stay safe out there you guys ❤

    • @nothingnewunderthesun4292
      @nothingnewunderthesun4292 Рік тому +1

      My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
      One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
      I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
      So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
      she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
      all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
      And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
      She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
      Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?

    • @soundofmoosixsoundofmoosix7963
      @soundofmoosixsoundofmoosix7963 Рік тому

      @@nothingnewunderthesun4292 holy shit … that’s stalking .. please stay safe because your ex gf is crazy and there is no reasoning with a crazy person.
      as Whoopi Goldberg says , you in danger girl!!!! Stay safe ❤️

  • @maruftalukdar1805
    @maruftalukdar1805 3 роки тому +3761

    The way he walked us into that promotion at the end was quite smooth ngl.

    • @ManicMonster713
      @ManicMonster713 3 роки тому +15

      Definitely 🤣🤣🤣

    • @squirtbadazz0267
      @squirtbadazz0267 3 роки тому +22

      Got me good there I had to like after he did that

    • @lookaguy6255
      @lookaguy6255 3 роки тому +11

      why is this comment 3 months old and there is comment s on it from like today

    • @squirtbadazz0267
      @squirtbadazz0267 3 роки тому +2

      Didn’t even notice I did that today💀

    • @Firestar-zp5dq
      @Firestar-zp5dq 3 роки тому +7

      I didn't even notice the transition happened tbh

  • @Master_Therion
    @Master_Therion 5 років тому +2787

    Feb 14th, Valentine's Day.
    Other UA-camrs: Romance and love.
    Thoughty2: Stalkers!!!!!!

    • @lidunnester
      @lidunnester 5 років тому +19

      LMAOOOO

    • @AussieSusan1
      @AussieSusan1 5 років тому +2

      LOL

    • @Danilego
      @Danilego 5 років тому +3

      I always forget when Valentine's Day is! But that's because in my country we celebrate it in June lol

    • @omniyambot9876
      @omniyambot9876 5 років тому +4

      I literally stalked my ex and my bestfriend dating this afternoon lol gimme a rope

    • @gumunduringigumundsson9344
      @gumunduringigumundsson9344 5 років тому

      Hahaha!

  • @lurvad6615
    @lurvad6615 5 років тому +1377

    Bold of you to assume I'm important enough to be stalked

    • @X606
      @X606 5 років тому +37

      Yeah I feel that

    • @adzinferno415
      @adzinferno415 4 роки тому +10

      nina wallen you already know it why you askin

    • @alixlegend7952
      @alixlegend7952 4 роки тому +2

      nina wallen reply of the year lol

    • @thriftyfreebies
      @thriftyfreebies 4 роки тому +11

      I think most people probably think that and maybe that’s why they don’t think they’ll ever be stalked. But, I don’t think stalkers think like that. I mean, if they were thinking rationally, they probably wouldn’t waste their time stalking somebody to begin with.

    • @xfairy3800
      @xfairy3800 4 роки тому

      My point exact it's crazy to even assume that

  • @honiideslysses12
    @honiideslysses12 Рік тому +23

    "Every breath you take, I'll be watching you." Sting was always baffled why his tune was so popular at weddings.

  • @MegaMerlin96
    @MegaMerlin96 5 років тому +884

    "A domestic stalker never thinks they are a stalker"
    Good thing that I think I'm a stalker so I'm actually not a domestic stalker.

    • @AP-yx1mm
      @AP-yx1mm 5 років тому +17

      @Dustin Keil Not a domestic one, a normal on...

    • @closerrl9851
      @closerrl9851 5 років тому +2

      Haha that was my conclusion as well. I know I am a stalker so now I am not. Cool with me.

    • @AP-yx1mm
      @AP-yx1mm 5 років тому +2

      @@closerrl9851 But what kind of stalking are talking about? Are you following random people? Or just gettin informations that are public domain on the social medias?

    • @closerrl9851
      @closerrl9851 5 років тому +3

      I have followed random people when I was drunk with some friends to make them bike faster when I was young. But thats about it hahaha

    • @AP-yx1mm
      @AP-yx1mm 5 років тому +3

      @@closerrl9851 Hahahaha That's not stalking, it is more keeping them fit and lowering healthcare costs in the long run! So altruistic!!!! Well done hahaha!

  • @jovane486
    @jovane486 4 роки тому +1570

    The biggest stalker: UA-cam RECOMMENDATION!

    • @babydande
      @babydande 4 роки тому +25

      And if we really go to the core, it’s actually the artificial intelligence being the biggest stalker

    • @kamaalkatariya1088
      @kamaalkatariya1088 4 роки тому +3

      No they are shit now

    • @ihatebertram9719
      @ihatebertram9719 4 роки тому +3

      UA-cam Ads!

    • @tahtoeproject2751
      @tahtoeproject2751 4 роки тому

      I wanted to like your comment, but the number looks perfect 666

    • @_vlaix_
      @_vlaix_ 4 роки тому

      @@tahtoeproject2751 hahah its 667 now!

  • @Nia_The_Cow
    @Nia_The_Cow 4 роки тому +735

    There’s this technique that might work:
    “If they are following you and you know that they are, act like someone called you and they are about to pick you up. Once you let them realize that you’re getting “picked” up, turn around and yell “aye! Is that you! I think I see your car” and like wave your arms in front of them, now if that was just a regular person the worst thing you’ve done was yell in a strangers face.”
    -coryxkenshin

    • @regenx
      @regenx 4 роки тому +43

      Yessir we all love our CoryxAdvice

    • @nghtspawn651
      @nghtspawn651 4 роки тому +2

      You're*

    • @Nia_The_Cow
      @Nia_The_Cow 4 роки тому +1

      N!GhTSpÄwN thanks😂

    • @dimitrarena5643
      @dimitrarena5643 4 роки тому +31

      I do sth similar. I stop, look at my phone and turn and go back to the oppostite direction. Towards them. But acting like u are getting picked is better. Esp. If u really call someone

    • @choiya
      @choiya 4 роки тому +12

      I KNEW THIS SOUNDED FAMILIAR OMGGGG BYE

  • @Masha_Sulym
    @Masha_Sulym Рік тому +95

    It was at this exact moment when I realized that I used to stalk my ex. Not too much, I think, but I was looking for every occasion to meet him. And a couple times I was standing under his balcony, looking into his window. I didn't realize back then how creepy it was. I genuinely felt like someone close to me died, I couldn't let him go. One time he told me that he saw some footprints on snow leading under his balcony and asked if it was me. I confessed. And he was really scarred after that. To be honest, I was glad, because the rest of the time I always felt like a victim in those relationship, especially as it was him who dated other girl behind my back and when I found out and told him he has to choose, he dumped me. But now I realize that it was for the best because that relationship made me paranoid and stalkery and was bad for me. I never hurt him on purpose though. But I was totally obsessed. I have never been so obsessed in my life before. This is really weird.

    • @Charamelllo
      @Charamelllo Рік тому +1

      Real

    • @uluruise
      @uluruise 10 місяців тому +19

      Very brave of you to share. I hope you're in a better position now.

    • @Masha_Sulym
      @Masha_Sulym 10 місяців тому +13

      @@uluruise yes, for sure. That's an ancient history.

    • @lolitanabukodonosorova6876
      @lolitanabukodonosorova6876 Місяць тому +2

      It's brave of you to say this on here. I think most of people have done something bordering on "stalking" especially regarding actual relationships, but have a hard time admitting it. Cheers

  • @AsielMe
    @AsielMe 4 роки тому +1282

    "You've probably beanstalked."

    • @talab6302
      @talab6302 4 роки тому +23

      Can't unhear it now 🤣👍🏾

    • @foggyfrogy
      @foggyfrogy 4 роки тому +13

      i red the comment at the same time he said it...guagagshhh I'm chocking

    • @sibusisofaya7874
      @sibusisofaya7874 4 роки тому +1

      Lol I read this as he said it lmao.

    • @jamiewulfyr4607
      @jamiewulfyr4607 4 роки тому +3

      Damn, synchronicity! Read it just as he said it too.

    • @flowerpower8722
      @flowerpower8722 4 роки тому +1

      Oh, peas!

  • @pleadureneedspain5649
    @pleadureneedspain5649 4 роки тому +1177

    When I was in high school a girl stalked me for about a week. When she found out how boring I was, it thankfully stopped.

    • @autumnolguin5329
      @autumnolguin5329 4 роки тому +29

      Pleadure Needs Pain 😂😂

    • @jodiehudson2325
      @jodiehudson2325 4 роки тому +6

      Hahaha your hilerious

    • @jungha265
      @jungha265 4 роки тому +57

      Are you really thankful, or hurt?

    • @dennisdevries2226
      @dennisdevries2226 4 роки тому +2

      That's nice

    • @wizardofahhhs759
      @wizardofahhhs759 4 роки тому +19

      Me too, and I was eventually attacked by her. Had a class with this girl and never said two words to her but for some reason she became obsessed with me and eventually attacked me.

  • @MTBR077
    @MTBR077 4 роки тому +1122

    "they think they are the victim."
    That's fucking terrifying.
    This guy who used to be my friend, who followed me around and even molested me had actually gone around telling people I was playing hard to get, lashed out at him for no reason and that I rejected him unreasonably. He isolated me and got people to stop talking to me. He really went around convincing people he was the victim when I expressed disinterest.

    • @hahapain.4521
      @hahapain.4521 4 роки тому +39

      the second amendment is there for a reason my friend

    • @la6136
      @la6136 4 роки тому +90

      I’m sorry that happened to you that guy sounds like trash

    • @rainsara2795
      @rainsara2795 4 роки тому +41

      That's awful I'm sorry

    • @amandag5125
      @amandag5125 4 роки тому +27

      I'm sorry you went through that.

    • @Icewind007
      @Icewind007 4 роки тому +94

      If people stopped talking to you because of what someone else said, they were never really with you to begin with.

  • @elizabethrose644
    @elizabethrose644 Рік тому +28

    i know i have problems with obsession and compulsion and loneliness on top of that. i started to think i was stalking my crush and felt very bad because i legitimately cared for him and didn’t want to harm him, but if he knew how much my world revolved around him it would be weird to say the least

    • @leighchannel.02
      @leighchannel.02 Рік тому +3

      Hmm, I used to be liked this to my ex. He was very secretive and private even to me (we dated online).. I probably was too obsessed I wanted to know what he was up to since we're really far away. I recognized my issues and thought I'm too pathetic to be stuck on viewing his life instead of living mine.. I'm slowly trying to stop the urges.

    • @S.O.M-l5i
      @S.O.M-l5i 7 місяців тому +2

      Have you ever tried confessing to him. Maybe it may work.

  • @freckledandred
    @freckledandred 3 роки тому +3059

    My ex definitely admitted to being a stalker. It was part of his trying to scare me games but he straight up said. "I know I'm crazy, and you're not out of my life until I say you are."

  • @MrLump
    @MrLump 4 роки тому +3816

    I used to be a stalker, but I’m recovering and rarely think about her. What I did was schedule my day so I never crossed paths with her, and I changed all my passwords and usernames to random stuff so I couldn’t recover them.

    • @zayn6699
      @zayn6699 3 роки тому +394

      Good advice. I think I'll do that

    • @kailzedillo
      @kailzedillo 3 роки тому +790

      Late to the party but good job. I'm glad u realized what u we're doing was wrong. There's so many people in the world

    • @nicholashodges201
      @nicholashodges201 3 роки тому +561

      I had girl who thought I was stalking her. We both had similar schedules and lived/worked in the same 1 mile area w no car. I don't think it would have come up but, we we're both bar workers (most of the bars in that town are in sight of each other, so if you work at one you get an idea of who's working the others) and we walked the same direction.
      I didn't know I was stalking her until she jumped out of a bush & maced me. It took some work for the cops to get her to realize it was all in her head. Even then we had a couple of run ins & it eventually led to a spat of bar bans on others who got involved...

    • @zayn6699
      @zayn6699 3 роки тому +133

      @@nicholashodges201 I hope you overcome your struggle

    • @nicholashodges201
      @nicholashodges201 3 роки тому +267

      @@zayn6699 I just moved the hell out of that college town. Those people are crazy Stoopid

  • @crackaby7075
    @crackaby7075 4 роки тому +3786

    Everybody gangsta until they realize the whole video was just a sponsor.

    • @Lilaliba88
      @Lilaliba88 4 роки тому +39

      Ikr?😂😂😂

    • @kitsune9376
      @kitsune9376 4 роки тому +78

      Fuck... Should I finish the vi- He’s talking about the sponsor...

    • @bellag3051
      @bellag3051 4 роки тому +76

      gotta respect the impeccable transition tho 😂😂

    • @helingunes955
      @helingunes955 4 роки тому +29

      I havent seen the sponsor part yet let me guess: vpn? Nord vpn or shark vpn haha

    • @crackaby7075
      @crackaby7075 4 роки тому +14

      @@helingunes955 Nope...... a site thats supposed to protect your password. Great guess tho :V

  • @TheBeanEnthusiast
    @TheBeanEnthusiast Рік тому +82

    I used to be a stalker. I eventually got therapy and joined a 12 step program and a day at a time I work on making sure I never harm anyone in that way again.

    • @Corvid-Conquest
      @Corvid-Conquest 9 місяців тому +31

      It takes courage to admit that. Good on you!

    • @deeprollingriver52
      @deeprollingriver52 Місяць тому +3

      As someone who has been a victim of stalking, thank you.

  • @nietzscheshorse7713
    @nietzscheshorse7713 5 років тому +7656

    Your mustasche makes you seem like an expert on the subject.

    • @Kabaumna
      @Kabaumna 5 років тому +54

      hahaha @AngelofDisease 666, you took the thoughts right out of my head... I was thinking that too.. :) :) Rocking it though :)

    • @nofilterfrankie7225
      @nofilterfrankie7225 5 років тому +121

      Rockin the 70's creeper stash !

    • @kimmypresley6621
      @kimmypresley6621 5 років тому +8

      Haha epic

    • @willherrin5650
      @willherrin5650 5 років тому +18

      like Jacksfilms' pedostache lmaoo

    • @MoonHowler340
      @MoonHowler340 5 років тому +2

      @Thawatchai Boonchuenchom Creeper, ah maan

  • @veeistiredasf
    @veeistiredasf 4 роки тому +809

    "They do maintain more than one victim at the same time."
    Me: *glances at stalker* "Okay I see how it is smh, now get out my backyard tree before I call the cops. Our stalker-victim relationship is over!"

    • @hannahmarieartistry4603
      @hannahmarieartistry4603 4 роки тому +13

      AkaJust Vih I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a UA-cam video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking

    • @goncalobaia1574
      @goncalobaia1574 4 роки тому +20

      @@hannahmarieartistry4603 if something really happened to you then I'm sorry, but if it hasn't, and that's my inclination, you're a ghoul

    • @hannahmarieartistry4603
      @hannahmarieartistry4603 4 роки тому +10

      gonçalo Baia You are free to believe whatever you want, although if you would like to observe proof I provided a myriad of screenshots throughout the video explaining my situation. I also ensured that the video had an 18+ age restriction on it since it contains quite a bit of vulgar content, so there is no chance of it ever being monetized if you think that’s my incentive. I’m just trying to get as many signatures on my petition as possible so the chances that someone with power will take it seriously are increased, because no one deserves to be put through what I went through. Law enforcement’s resources to handle this kind of situation are far too limited and it is imperative that that change. That’s all I’m trying to convey. Hope you have a nice day.

  • @ilya8132
    @ilya8132 4 роки тому +4663

    My heart goes out to those suffering from stalkers.

    • @yourordinarysmallyoutubech1373
      @yourordinarysmallyoutubech1373 3 роки тому +20

      Bro cmon why

    • @staar_bloom
      @staar_bloom 3 роки тому +15

      It sucks

    • @GOldenPROdigy115
      @GOldenPROdigy115 3 роки тому +17

      My dream is to be stalked by a woman

    • @GOldenPROdigy115
      @GOldenPROdigy115 3 роки тому +8

      @@ksnndnfr6101 Nothing wrong with wanting to be admired by the opposite sex

    • @wow-rs2kn
      @wow-rs2kn 3 роки тому +196

      @@GOldenPROdigy115 stalked and admired are quite different but humour is subjective so u do u

  • @fellownormie
    @fellownormie Рік тому +6

    obsessing on things is like, a coping mechanism to direct attention from one’s insecurity or current stress away. it’s a distraction

  • @spaceowl9246
    @spaceowl9246 3 роки тому +2441

    My stalker must be really bored with stalking me, because I never leave my house lol

    • @hearanecho
      @hearanecho 3 роки тому +155

      I never leave my house and I'm currently being stalked. Single woman alone here. Stolen garbage can, car broken into random notes on my door, and they bring my newspaper to the door.

    • @seinonymousxx6294
      @seinonymousxx6294 3 роки тому +154

      False on my case. he frequently entered our house and peeks into my windows without me knowing. never knew it until he got caught and confessed he did it for 4 years

    • @donotreadmyprofile9373
      @donotreadmyprofile9373 3 роки тому +107

      @@seinonymousxx6294 that's scary as hell

    • @seinonymousxx6294
      @seinonymousxx6294 3 роки тому +81

      @@donotreadmyprofile9373 yup. the scary part is that he successfully broke into my house while everything is on blackout and i was alone. istg I'm thinking of leaving this house but i really can't. I don't have anywhere to go

    • @julzzietasmr9590
      @julzzietasmr9590 3 роки тому +16

      The fact that this sentence was said as if its normal for everyone to have a stalker gives me weird wibes. Like "MY stalker does this, yours?"

  • @lizzistorm7474
    @lizzistorm7474 2 роки тому +2422

    Let's not forget that the police won't do anything until you're physically hurt (or worse) by your stalker.

    • @mrkitty777
      @mrkitty777 2 роки тому +194

      A police officer here stalked a 17yr old girl and shot her dead with his gun in front of everyone here. She was working in the supermarket, the next day this case against police was closed and we are advised to not speak of it or be next. She refused relationship.

    • @stefanniggemeyer9359
      @stefanniggemeyer9359 2 роки тому +46

      @@mrkitty777 This stuff is real.

    • @stefanniggemeyer9359
      @stefanniggemeyer9359 2 роки тому

      @@mrkitty777 They help each other with murder and rape and abuse.

    • @CaseyAvalon
      @CaseyAvalon 2 роки тому +46

      Yes. And some won't even help you unless you have been in an relationship with them wtf

    • @mrkitty777
      @mrkitty777 2 роки тому +29

      The police officer and 17 yr old girl had a relationship indeed, but the girl ended the relationship between them.

  • @lavalordYT
    @lavalordYT 5 років тому +1457

    "Or most commonly, an ex-partner" Guess I'm safe then

    • @princeraphaeljohnson2578
      @princeraphaeljohnson2578 5 років тому +52

      Subtle self-roast

    • @lukewhitaker3312
      @lukewhitaker3312 5 років тому +12

      lavalord I’ll drink to that bro

    • @marcelloberry6829
      @marcelloberry6829 5 років тому +2

      Why did I read this comment at the exact time I was watching the video

    • @neuro1073
      @neuro1073 5 років тому +4

      Marcello Berry let me translate what you said my dude “why did I do something that most people who watch UA-cam videos do?” There ya go.

    • @marcelloberry6829
      @marcelloberry6829 5 років тому +3

      Ayman Bahatheq no I meant I read that comment at the exact time it was said in the video

  • @maybememory1
    @maybememory1 Рік тому +7

    When I was younger, I helped my friend out of an abusive relationship after we had found out he’d cheated on her. He blamed me for their breakup, and I became one of his targets for about 1-1.5 year.
    He wanted me to know he was there, threatening. He also used his large friend circle to stalk me, which was scarier, since I didn’t know who these people were. At a job I briefly worked, my supervisor was his friend and fed him information without me knowing. That was about fifteen years ago, and it still stays with me.
    Ps, if you made it this far, fun fact: the abuser’s father killed his mother in a murder-suicide when he was a toddler. So you can imagine it’s scarier knowing he has those genes…

  • @delsunreys
    @delsunreys 4 роки тому +375

    Everyone: minding their own business
    The Duolingo bird: _hoo_

    •  4 роки тому +2

      Tash Maria LMAOO

    • @heavenlycutie11
      @heavenlycutie11 4 роки тому +1

      💀💀💀💀

    • @arikakarin2323
      @arikakarin2323 4 роки тому

      I laughed too hard at this

  • @gabbylopez8179
    @gabbylopez8179 4 роки тому +588

    "Have you ever received an unwanted gift?"
    *Itchy wool sweater has entered the chat*

    • @justsomegirlwithoutamustache
      @justsomegirlwithoutamustache 4 роки тому +28

      *grandma has entered the chat*

    • @paulgoogol2652
      @paulgoogol2652 4 роки тому +9

      *cat has entered the litter box*
      *cat has left the litter box*

    • @chimchim.13
      @chimchim.13 4 роки тому +1

      And grandma is disappointed

    • @allensmith8369
      @allensmith8369 4 роки тому

      Jokes on you, its not wool. Its hair.

    • @Ch10eeBloom
      @Ch10eeBloom 4 роки тому

      THE HOT SAUSAGE ewww that’s literally what it feels like, all weaved togethor, every hair constantly prickling and tickling your arms 😬😬😓

  • @windy4632
    @windy4632 2 роки тому +1734

    I stalked my stalker before. We ran into each other it was quite awkward but I wanted him to know how creepy it actually was

    • @mushroommagic1697
      @mushroommagic1697 2 роки тому +95

      What happened next, did you scared him?

    • @tobenfarrell1334
      @tobenfarrell1334 2 роки тому +66

      Wow, beautiful and smart, some one could become obsessed with you easy as.

    • @naxusv7232
      @naxusv7232 2 роки тому +32

      🧢

    • @jamiezebra23
      @jamiezebra23 2 роки тому +10

      Lol

    • @Siegfried5846
      @Siegfried5846 2 роки тому +34

      In some ways I understand guys like that. The movie "one hour photo" was very good before they started demonising the man who stalked a woman. Sometimes when you have no life, you just want to watch someone else's from the outside.
      Of course, threats or violence is bad. I'm not talking about that.

  • @NvsGalaxy
    @NvsGalaxy Місяць тому +4

    i have bpd, i've had my own stalker without it, the "such people will take this obsession to anywhere it needs to go" hurt man lol

  • @navaranjit673
    @navaranjit673 4 роки тому +1232

    The more I look at him makes him look like a Russian soldier

  • @DrMonkeyxD
    @DrMonkeyxD 4 роки тому +3160

    my crush : what do u like to do for fun?
    me: I stalk people
    my crush: oh i like swimming
    me: i know

    • @d3adg1rlw4lkingg
      @d3adg1rlw4lkingg 4 роки тому +79

      Lmaooo- 😭

    • @jmm5765
      @jmm5765 4 роки тому +53

      underrated comment

    • @Shelby-rh8jz
      @Shelby-rh8jz 4 роки тому +42

      @@jmm5765 u mean "over used comment"

    • @DrMonkeyxD
      @DrMonkeyxD 4 роки тому +12

      @@Shelby-rh8jz no

    • @Shelby-rh8jz
      @Shelby-rh8jz 4 роки тому +15

      @@DrMonkeyxD wdym? I saw that same comment 100 times

  • @oreonleach4845
    @oreonleach4845 4 роки тому +501

    Stalker: I'm just going to follow you all the way home
    Quarantine: yeah buddy I'm about to end your whole career

    • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
      @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 4 роки тому +6

      @A Random UA-cam Account then kick him out and he gets arrested cause he's out in quranatine hours :D

    • @betheone4837
      @betheone4837 4 роки тому +3

      @@myheartwillstopinjoy8142 or shoot him.

    • @kanewarren8759
      @kanewarren8759 4 роки тому

      Got damm why

    • @blrlfrstfy2176
      @blrlfrstfy2176 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/HGDfTxbThSE/v-deo.html

  • @StayAtHomeMeme
    @StayAtHomeMeme Місяць тому +4

    I had a stalker in college. It ended in a stand off with several police officers and him being dragged off to a mental hospital because he was schizophrenic and trying to kill me.

  • @Sam-bd8bl
    @Sam-bd8bl 4 роки тому +295

    When you're afraid to be stalked but you remember that nobody knows you since you don't go outside.

    • @elvis4868
      @elvis4868 4 роки тому

      Ez clap

    • @liabee7035
      @liabee7035 4 роки тому

      lol sorry

    • @Itsme_isabelly
      @Itsme_isabelly 4 роки тому

      Facts

    • @hillarymcdonald9954
      @hillarymcdonald9954 4 роки тому +1

      Sorry to break it to you that's when they stalk you through social media check whose following you there bet its some random stranger Good luck to you

    • @crazymadstriker766
      @crazymadstriker766 4 роки тому +1

      @@hillarymcdonald9954 but like some people dont have social media

  • @bellarose894
    @bellarose894 4 роки тому +1160

    My mom was stalked by her ex boyfriend as a teenager, and he made death threats and threatened to kill himself. My mom felt bad for him (he had a mental disability as well, I’m not sure what it was)so she tried dating him again to see if he would change. One day she broke up with him and he “drove her home”, but actually drove her to an empty parking lot and tried to choke her. But he came to his senses pretty quickly and stopped. He then sought help and they no longer communicated, but my mom was very lucky because if he hadn’t have come to his senses things could’ve gone much worse

    • @seth9577
      @seth9577 3 роки тому +46

      So scary

    • @bellarose894
      @bellarose894 3 роки тому +23

      @R3TR0 30 IKR?

    • @mjd4287
      @mjd4287 3 роки тому +56

      @R3TR0 30 she said he had a mental illness

    • @Camazotzer
      @Camazotzer 3 роки тому +64

      @@lynseyjones1146 "ex boyfriend" *also he is reffered as "he" multiple times and the mother is reffered as "she" as well.

    • @PenelopeAlys
      @PenelopeAlys 3 роки тому +50

      @@lynseyjones1146 why does it matter

  • @Trainfan1055Janathan
    @Trainfan1055Janathan 4 роки тому +463

    When I worked at Amazon (literally the woese place ever, don't work there), I heard stories of a man who worked in shipping. He would save all female addresses, then stalk them. He was later fired.

    • @thriftyfreebies
      @thriftyfreebies 4 роки тому +9

      Wow, how did he find the time to stalk so many customers?

    • @Trainfan1055Janathan
      @Trainfan1055Janathan 4 роки тому +24

      @@thriftyfreebies I have no idea. At the end of my shift, I was too tired to drive, so I took an hour-long nap in my car. But I was still tired afterwards, so I gave up.

    • @maiajade7457
      @maiajade7457 4 роки тому

      pls tell me not in MA??

    • @Trainfan1055Janathan
      @Trainfan1055Janathan 4 роки тому +1

      @@maiajade7457 I'm not sure. They didn't say at which location.

    • @wesleytait7982
      @wesleytait7982 4 роки тому

      @@thriftyfreebies I know! 'ALL FEMALE ADDRESSES' Hmm🤔

  • @ericlondon2663
    @ericlondon2663 Рік тому +9

    I remember a creep that stalked my wife for three months eleven years ago.
    He stopped.
    We had a conversation at 3am in the alley under our bedroom window at the time. Amazing how good I am at negotiations.
    He saw it our way, quickly.
    The stranger stalker didn't inspire fear.
    No.
    He inspired rage.
    He didn't like that but he did agree with me that he made a big mistake.

  • @TheElectricCheeseProductions22
    @TheElectricCheeseProductions22 4 роки тому +4081

    I love this guy’s mustache

    • @ezratorres8195
      @ezratorres8195 4 роки тому +16

      Well it don’t look right on him🤭

    • @owenbush2991
      @owenbush2991 4 роки тому +20

      It looks like 2 dogs kissing 😂

    • @pochato2632
      @pochato2632 4 роки тому +2

      Me 2

    • @zsaz4453
      @zsaz4453 4 роки тому +4

      "all my fiends are bearded so you know.If you like to shave well carry on. You dont know the amount of care it takes we brush wax n shove'.I dont know the text anymore but its 'heathens' turned into bearded.D great song

    • @bingbong2816
      @bingbong2816 4 роки тому +1

      agreee d

  • @KayleeCee
    @KayleeCee 5 років тому +470

    I had a stranger stalker a few years back. He used to come into the restaurant I worked at, but then he started leaving notes on my car, following me around, and driving by my house. When I told him I wasn't interested and had a boyfriend he turned nasty. He would come into the restaurant and just sit and glare at me. My tires started getting slashed.
    My boyfriend, who I lived with at the time, was a cop. That didn't seem to stop him, at first. But the word got around to my bfs colleagues and they upped their presence in my neighborhood. That must have gotten the point across because he stopped coming around after that, thank christ.

    • @drone_video9849
      @drone_video9849 5 років тому +43

      Sorry to hear of your past circumstance, but glad to hear it has improved. Just wanted to say despite some levity in the comments with the nature of this video, I for one understand the serious nature of this as I'm sure everyone does.

    • @KayleeCee
      @KayleeCee 5 років тому +12

      @I'm super EVIL I don't think I'll ever know what his true intentions were, but even if he had never started bothering me I would have said that there was something not quite right about the guy. For one, he never smiled. Not once. He used to come in with a girlfriend before they broke up and he turned his attention towards me. And in the 2 or so years that I knew him as just a regular customer he never smiled. It's almost as if it wasn't physically possible for him to do so.
      He also had cold, dead eyes. When you're talking to most people you usually notice some kind of light or spark in their eyes. This guy had nothing going on there, you couldn't get any kind of read or energy off of him.
      And the last creepy thing was that when he and his girlfriend split up she left in the dead of night without telling him and without taking anything but the clothes on her back. She just took off and ran. For someone to leave like that and to leave all of their things behind tells me that something must have been pretty bad and that she didn't feel safe leaving under any circumstances where he could have tried to stop her.

    • @Beaneabean
      @Beaneabean 5 років тому +2

      Kaylee F Lol, how do you know all that? Did you stalk him?

    • @karamzidan9860
      @karamzidan9860 4 роки тому

      @@KayleeCee Holly Shit it's like you're describing a psycho killer from a movie , how was his personality ? was he confident & masculine in interacting with you ?

    • @princess_sonianevermind
      @princess_sonianevermind 4 роки тому +1

      I had one to at my job smh

  • @Lozzie74
    @Lozzie74 5 років тому +9393

    My girlfriend says I’m a stalker. Well, she’s not actually my girlfriend... yet.

    • @hollywoodsdestiny7919
      @hollywoodsdestiny7919 5 років тому +120

      Lol

    • @ShadowKAMII
      @ShadowKAMII 5 років тому +70

      Lmao

    • @NoName-kc4jn
      @NoName-kc4jn 5 років тому +58

      Lozzie74 bruh

    • @ryan19754
      @ryan19754 5 років тому +94

      Timesplitting Shapeshifter there’s this girl at my school. Should I try that with her?

    • @thestrays815
      @thestrays815 5 років тому +23

      Thanks for making me laugh mate 👌

  • @AngelaBailey-w4t
    @AngelaBailey-w4t 21 день тому +2

    I've gone through this before. You cannot control what another person does, but it surely messes up your life though.

  • @sebaseba6710
    @sebaseba6710 5 років тому +240

    Have you ever received an unwanted gift?
    Phone calls?
    Anonymous mail?!
    Nope nobody wants me lol

  • @sophiavnuk5898
    @sophiavnuk5898 4 роки тому +1276

    Everyone is commenting funny comments about stalking, but I'm just here commenting about how the only subtitles are Dutch.

  • @JM-wn6gu
    @JM-wn6gu 4 роки тому +907

    How to look like a stalker:
    get a mustache.

    • @rickard1200
      @rickard1200 4 роки тому +7

      damn it, you got me

    • @mel-lt9or
      @mel-lt9or 4 роки тому +26

      Arran (this guy): Nervous sweating

    • @melaniazihlavska4578
      @melaniazihlavska4578 4 роки тому +10

      @@mel-lt9or while we're talking about the mustache, his looks great ngl 😂

    • @Andreseme23
      @Andreseme23 4 роки тому +9

      Step 2: keep one eyebrow always higher than the other, and the eyes halfway closed

    • @sweeyangchen3710
      @sweeyangchen3710 4 роки тому +3

      MUMBO JUMBO HAS ENTERED THE CHAT

  • @deeprollingriver52
    @deeprollingriver52 Місяць тому +3

    Once I was stalked to the point that I trusted nothing. In fact, it got so demoralizing that I became extremely depressed. It’s as if your whole life is being “assaulted” without your consent. Nothing is your own anymore. They know everything. You’re locked in this mental and emotional cage and you can’t get on with your life because someone else is inside your life like an unwelcome virus, recking havoc. I’m a very independent woman so the stalking destroyed my feeling of safety and freedom. It was horrible. But soon, he got bored and found another victim, I guess. I feel so sorry for anyone who is being stalked.

  • @lolwolf1344
    @lolwolf1344 4 роки тому +299

    I get uninterested so fast in things I couldn’t imagine being a stalker

    • @stephanieh355
      @stephanieh355 4 роки тому +9

      How do I know that’s not something a stalker would say 🤨🤣

    • @lolwolf1344
      @lolwolf1344 4 роки тому +6

      Stephanie H ...you don’t 👀

    • @blrlfrstfy2176
      @blrlfrstfy2176 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/HGDfTxbThSE/v-deo.html

    • @TheEyez187
      @TheEyez187 4 роки тому +1

      I know what yo... oh hi Kitty!!

  • @csehestedt94
    @csehestedt94 5 років тому +391

    What if a stalker realizes they are being a stalker? I lost a friend once and tried to find them because I missed them and realized I was being a stalker so I stopped. Don't worry i caught up with them later and even discussed it with them and we were okay about it.

    • @yooghurt
      @yooghurt 4 роки тому +64

      But you weren't doing it in a creepy way were you? You just wanted to find them

    • @LadyMFUnicorn
      @LadyMFUnicorn 4 роки тому +36

      Its not stalking unless you are going the extra mile.
      I have a friend i been looking for. A Joe Angel. I spent a year searching. Never found him thats not stalking though.

    • @KevinRAAMAAAGE
      @KevinRAAMAAAGE 4 роки тому +13

      @@LadyMFUnicorn I hope you find your friend

    • @TheBizarre1
      @TheBizarre1 4 роки тому +23

      I dont think thats stalking at all. Perhaps you had a deep connection with that friend, no matter how long you have known them, and you just wanted to find them. And like he said, you cannot convince a stalker that they are a stalker, so if you felt that what you were doing might have been creepy, chances are you know your boundaries and are not a stalker.

    • @davidmacias7677
      @davidmacias7677 4 роки тому +1

      They are in your basement aren't they? Lol

  • @vgeez9952
    @vgeez9952 Місяць тому +2

    I was stalked by my ex. There were so many red flags but I was 19 and was totally unaware how dangerous he really was. I always felt like he was near by though we were broken up for two years and couldn’t explain it. When we started dating again he told me he’d sit in his car outside my home in the middle of the night. He told me he got a construction job down the street from my house and was “around a lot”, and then he got a security job two minutes down the street from me. Everything started to make sense at that point. I’m so glad he ended up ghosting me. As much as it hurt at that time, I realize now that he was abusive and so dangerous.

  • @Luke-yl9oc
    @Luke-yl9oc 4 роки тому +658

    Stalking has such a horrifying impact on the victims. It's kind of upsetting when people say "I wish I had a stalker" or "any attention is attention". Being sexually harassed or stalked is not something to be trivialised or idealised; if you experience it you'll definitely understand.

    • @Luke-yl9oc
      @Luke-yl9oc 4 роки тому +51

      @bryan diaz varela I'm really sorry to hear that and I hope you're doing okay. Stalking isnt the kind of attention anyone would actually want to get though, trust me.

    • @Luke-yl9oc
      @Luke-yl9oc 4 роки тому +25

      @bryan diaz varela wtf

    • @ptsd73
      @ptsd73 4 роки тому +23

      Yes. I am a victim of stalking and constant threats and it is so frightening. Just someone trying to ruin my life and my reputation by stealing my identity and threatening people I know pretending to be me. I have suicidal thoughts as I am very alone.

    • @Luke-yl9oc
      @Luke-yl9oc 4 роки тому +28

      @@ptsd73 so sorry to hear that, I hope you eventually feel better and that your stalker ends up in prison where they belong.

    • @ptsd73
      @ptsd73 4 роки тому +11

      @@Luke-yl9oc Thank you, I hope so too.

  • @miffedcuttlefish6139
    @miffedcuttlefish6139 4 роки тому +4124

    I have stalkers. They're little people who watch me when I poop and ask me for food, and call me "mommy" for some reason. 🤷‍♀️ 😊

    • @softbabeh
      @softbabeh 4 роки тому +610

      that sounds terrifying i hope you find help ahahaha

    • @diamondsparkle9967
      @diamondsparkle9967 4 роки тому +37

      😂😂

    • @RedRoseSeptember22
      @RedRoseSeptember22 4 роки тому +24

      LOL!!!

    • @tomeofslyev
      @tomeofslyev 4 роки тому +88

      Ah, the pain of the cute lil babies~

    • @yazoo8611
      @yazoo8611 4 роки тому +111

      my mum had exactly the same problem!! a reliable solution that worked for her was making mushroom soup for the 3rd night in a row. hope this helped, plz let me know your results as they vary from person to orphan! 😊

  • @scarlettkathrynrosevlogs9820
    @scarlettkathrynrosevlogs9820 4 роки тому +560

    I legit had a stalker when I was 14. He was in his late 30s. I'm 18 now and he still isn't in jail. 🤢🤢

    • @dillpickle5486
      @dillpickle5486 4 роки тому +61

      Be careful, don't post on social media anything

    • @pissapocalypse
      @pissapocalypse 4 роки тому +8

      Yikes

    • @rose4490
      @rose4490 4 роки тому +35

      OMG! That's truly terrifying! I'm so sorry, I hope he leaves you alone.

    • @marceldwayne8491
      @marceldwayne8491 4 роки тому +24

      @Alessandra Gabbana - confront him with a male adult ( preferably a big dude, or masculine)

    • @juliannahikaru9912
      @juliannahikaru9912 4 роки тому +9

      @@marceldwayne8491 for male dudes, including dad and police

  • @sly3186
    @sly3186 2 роки тому +5

    Ive been stalked by a 71yr old man for a year now and it is so scary... and his my neighbor! My husband work everyone has told him to leave me alone and he wont! Its scary

  • @YEETx
    @YEETx 4 роки тому +777

    Theres a good chance that you are a victim of stalking
    Quarantine: wait thats illegal

    • @Xeyuno
      @Xeyuno 4 роки тому +10

      If your sick you won’t get stalked

    • @obob5282
      @obob5282 4 роки тому +6

      Online stalking

    • @duskily2330
      @duskily2330 4 роки тому +1

      consider that it was illegal to stalk someone even before quarantine

    • @jonatankornievsky632
      @jonatankornievsky632 4 роки тому

      You still didn't notice me at the tree tho.

    • @drea6131
      @drea6131 4 роки тому +2

      As long as the stalker stalks you from 6 feet away, you're good 👌

  • @chocolateandicecream8568
    @chocolateandicecream8568 4 роки тому +515

    I’ve been receiving creepy calls for almost three years now. They are mostly silent hang up calls. Sometimes it’s breathing. I’ve changed my number atleast 4 times, I block all the numbers (they use fake numbers through apps), creepy messages asking for nude photos and saying they’ll hurt a child if I don’t give them “what they want”, countless police reports (they don’t do anything, say I need a “court order”) and hearing this is so creepy...don’t know what else to do or if I should be worried

    • @berrybee4437
      @berrybee4437 4 роки тому +64

      That’s creepy a f maybe don’t answer calls u don’t know

    • @nickmagma7745
      @nickmagma7745 4 роки тому +2

      @kijuro uzumaki in holland?

    • @suspiciousfigure3096
      @suspiciousfigure3096 4 роки тому +61

      Or...you can track their number, stalk them, then kill em! Works every time bro.

    • @_Madridista_
      @_Madridista_ 4 роки тому +21

      @@suspiciousfigure3096 too much😳 plus wastage of energy

    • @claustrum5534
      @claustrum5534 4 роки тому +96

      If you've changed your number 4 times and they've been able to keep calling, who have you shared your new numbers with? It could be someone you know but would never suspect.

  • @Awesomejadie1991
    @Awesomejadie1991 4 роки тому +550

    I had a stalker. He stalked me for almost 2 years. I got in some very scary situations with him and then it suddenly stopped one day. I brought my experience up to a new friend about a year later and I found out they'd been at school together... he'd had a random heart attack and that's why it stopped.

    • @samuelswenson1505
      @samuelswenson1505 4 роки тому +101

      Plot twist; that new friend actually was the stalker.

    • @nolifeking138
      @nolifeking138 4 роки тому +16

      I'm not even stalking you still

    • @bartg6937
      @bartg6937 4 роки тому +44

      NecroMelodia It’s only stalking if you’re ugly.

    • @spyho7406
      @spyho7406 4 роки тому +26

      @NecroMelodia why tf does that matter

    • @h.borter5367
      @h.borter5367 4 роки тому +3

      OMG! How scary 😲

  • @ExNAudioz
    @ExNAudioz Рік тому +4

    When I was beginning out in high-school I broke up with my boyfriend and a lot of my friends went missing and one was found. My ex had borderline personality disorder and was already obsessed with me. Stay alert please!

  • @ohitsclemenTIME
    @ohitsclemenTIME 3 роки тому +495

    "You've probably beanstalked"
    Jack: "yeah what about it?"

  • @IamNG8
    @IamNG8 4 роки тому +308

    my mom is being stalked by her ex boyfriend for almost 2 years now... the police won't do anything about it, he reads all her text messages, e-mail, everything, he follows her, he always knows where she is, he hacked her computer, phone, home security system... it's really scary and I hate that there's nothing we can do.. :'(

    • @littlerugrat6107
      @littlerugrat6107 4 роки тому +132

      yeah, you can. have every picture on her phone, computer, and email have a penis pic with his face attached at the head of it. you start stalking him, hack his computer and ruin his life. fight fire with fire and be weirdly gross with it. Go to his job and talk to his boss about him stalking you, call his mother and tell her that he's outside the window. If he is close to you carry maze spray and flaunt it in his face. if you notice that he is following you, then go to a gun shop and start looking at rifles. go to a shooting range and have his picture as the target.

    • @Xeyuno
      @Xeyuno 4 роки тому +15

      little rugrat 😂 don’t be sayin jokes on him bro

    • @Xeyuno
      @Xeyuno 4 роки тому +11

      Me to the police didn’t help me cuz I show them a pic of he’s face what’s so scary is he Lives right near me an he don’t know it Ik where he lives and he’s Ip so If the police won’t help I’ll do it myself

    • @Xeyuno
      @Xeyuno 4 роки тому +17

      By the way a Good tip is Get a VPN or get a new modem so then your WiFi will change and he can’t access your internet change password on everything fb ig snap YT skyp Idk what u have change password

    • @Xeyuno
      @Xeyuno 4 роки тому +8

      Next tip get a laser gun an make sure if your in your car and he’s still stalking you u might need to hit him of the road 👀 😬

  • @emmakeoghan9016
    @emmakeoghan9016 3 роки тому +751

    I’ve experienced both types of stalkers.
    Everything he says is spot on.
    The Domestic Stalker is very aggressive and more likely to cause harm.
    The Stranger Stalker would just hang around in the background and watch wherever I go.

    • @pikachulovable
      @pikachulovable 2 роки тому +11

      Glad ur okay

    • @HomoSapien-z5q
      @HomoSapien-z5q 2 роки тому +7

      Damn
      I'm sorry you had to go thru that. I hope you are okay now

    • @MissNevada08
      @MissNevada08 2 роки тому +19

      I have survived both kinds of stalkers too. I thought I'd be part of a very small group...& as much as I hate it happened to you, I'm glad I'm not alone.
      My first relationship, when I ended it at 22 years old...he stalked me for years. Resulted in a restraining order.
      Unfortunately my second stalker was way worse. It happened when I was 35. As the District Attorney told the Judge, it was the most aggressive form of stalking between strangers in Sacramento County history. He ended up having to serve prison time over it. It made national news as the 'Buffalo Head Stalker.' He's been connected to several missing women, so I'm unable to speak about it online too much. I dont want to interfere with law enforcement's active investigations on him.
      I wish you peaceful days. I was left with a wicked anxiety disorder, but working out and therapy have gotten me a lot better.
      Good luck to you, my fellow sister.

    • @tommycharles4666
      @tommycharles4666 2 роки тому +1

      The issue is for every nine women who have been legit stalked and are talking about it online, there's one woman who claims to have been but hasn't. She had type #3...the imaginary stalker who feeds her narcissism. Believe women is a nice sentiment, but sadly ~6% of women have cluster B personality disorders that make them prone to lying in order to garner sympathy and attention. So the thinking men who aren't simps can't blindly believe all claims. Glad you're okay.

    • @aimeekelly4121
      @aimeekelly4121 2 роки тому

      Damn what’s the odds of having 2 stalkers how common is stalking ?

  • @MuddyLives
    @MuddyLives Місяць тому +2

    Turned the captions on and was hit with a whole other language. Its 2am so I genuinely thought that I was tripping for a bit there.

  • @preshuzmelody
    @preshuzmelody 4 роки тому +272

    that twisted “it’s not my fault”, “s/he made me do it” victim mentality is what makes stalkers dangerous and extra hard to deal with.. because you just can’t reason with unreasonableness

    • @willgotrocks5348
      @willgotrocks5348 4 роки тому +3

      They try to make whatever they do justifiable honestly shits bad

    • @deseodevida7511
      @deseodevida7511 4 роки тому +3

      They should get the death penalty or be put in a mental institution and sedated for life. I don't feel bad for them.

    • @konpeitojellie
      @konpeitojellie 4 роки тому +1

      nah... my best friend promised me the world, she doesn’t get the luxury of calling herself the victim after ruining my world.

    • @konpeitojellie
      @konpeitojellie 4 роки тому +1

      @@deseodevida7511 I agree, people who make stalkers stalkers are disgusting

    • @Metalkid1500
      @Metalkid1500 4 роки тому +1

      Victim complexes are dangerous in general