And sometimes we may not really be going through those dilemmas but the advice helps us know how to deal with certain situations in case we encounter them.Truly grateful and feeling blessed
With this issue of one sided friendships, sometimes the friend who listens is actually the problem. If I continue to ask you what's wrong and how are you and you always say you're fine then there's no way for me as a friend to know that you're not okay. We are adults. You have to tell me how to be there for you. How else can I know? (Some friends actually have a saviour complex. I used to be that friend)
Beautiful and gorgeous as usual, in the first one, that girl will eventually leave, there is no love, she is just trying to feel the high they had when they were together but that is no longer accessible
Hey Lydia & Murugi. I LOVE!!! the conversations you have here and in your individual platforms too. I would like for you guys to have a/more conversations on transitioning from uni to adulting. Trying to get into the current job market or even creating a job for yourself. Have a lovely day😘
On that question of the lady dealing with a guy who has a stroke + divorced twice + has trust issues etc. That guy is in a crisis that he should first pull himself out of before trying any relationships with someone's daughter. This babe should stop playing savior and rather look for a healthy i.e., psychologically and stable guy. Otherwise, he will suck her into his misery and ruin her self esteem. What he needs is a friend from a distance. Not a lover.
The first dilemma, he will still leave again😁and leave you in the desert without water sis. Most men are like water, if it gets too hot, they evaporate, wanarudi winter, wanakupatia pneumonia, ndio uende ICU, to prove that you love them. You do not even deserve a better man for now, you deserve yourself,be whole so thst he will find you whole(are we even whole as humans?). Love you just a little bit more. Coming from a person who was in a worse situation thats yours. Wishing you well.
The dilemmas today are not giving…Dustbin much! Queenbetweeners we need to start having dilemmas relating to career progression, enterpreneurship scaling, emotional, physical, mental, financial investmentsand good relationships growing.
Wewe si ufungue podcast yako huko ,so you decide on the topics. This is TMI😊they are reading people's dilemmas si ati they are making the questions up, sister Deborah.
Let me come to my own defense here. Real quick. Honestly, TMI has great content on everything; friendship, younger lives, sex, romantic relationships, family, business and their careers. This encompasses everything that I mentioned in my comment. Now, it was not in bad light. They offer information based on their own opinion. Their advises are gorgeous. We just need as queenbetweeners to learn and see the red flags in our situations. Clear the boulders on our paths before they actually become mountains!
@@msdeesubtle8105 hata you'd not have defended yourself. What happened to people just respecting other people's opinions? We don't have to agree with other people's opinions but we can just respect them without being as some people have been. Anyway, peace and light.
Honestly, I deserve an update on all or most of the dilemmas! These ladies have been going through it. If any and all inbetweener(s) can second this…its been real up in here😢
Is this why we are in betweeners as in ive been in some of these dilemas and looking back now ....i would never ever repeat those things again...ata afadhali kuwa single jo.
I love you guys even though might not always agree with some of your views. I find you both so warm and honestly got excited when I saw this upload! Y’all look so pretty ❤
Another episode to be watched daily till next Wednesday. That aside, i FEEL LIKE😂 Lyd's makeup sometimes does not translate well on camera but Murugi's always does. Lyd could you have Sly glam you once we see whether there's a difference?🤷🤷
15 minutes in and you are spitting facts!!😅...I love that my friends and I usually have these conversations; when they aren't able to afford or when I'm not able to afford we don't find it hard to communicate
As the friend who kept paying the bills i can tell you she's ok but alway try to do something for her however small, even if that means welcoming her to your house for lunch thats fully catered for by you. So sge doesn't feel taken advantage of.
Dilemma 1. I agree with Murugi , dump him already... what she has failed to say ( the girl) is that the reason why sometimes she feels she's inlove and sometimes not is based on how he treats her...Most probably he was just trying to see if she would take him back and probably he wasn't done with the lady he dumped her for and she took the bait and took him back.
Usually our big age difference between me and you two lovely ladies, makes most of your podcasts not relevant for me and I'm a subscriber. However, and this is nice, I enjoyed this episode alot!
20;25 that is illegal in a lot of countries...it's called stealthing... And it's sexual and reproductive abuse..... That one on the married sexless couple....why don't they just open up their marriage....sex is very important
I think women need to boost their selfesteem and economic Power. Some answers r so clear. Nowonder Murugi says there thing that cant Happen to her. People toleratinh crappy men n Friends ,that i cant tolerate.
Removes the condom without your permission and doesn't pull out??!! Baby that's called stealthing and it's a form of sexual assault. That man is evil and hates you PLS RUNNNN!!!
20:24 is actually criminal in my opinion. Because you did not consent to unprotected sex. That is absolutely rape. Who said the woman wants your gonorrhea or wants to carry a pregnancy? Such a violation of the female body.
The one who removed protection sounds like the kind who believes in getting you pregnant to trap or tame you. Not someone's genes you want to pass down to your kids. The one about who's decisions it should be about when to have kids, the number to have, e.t.c is tricky. On one hard yes if he wants and she doesnt its her body and she has the final choice but if she wants and he doesnt, yet he is the one to provide financially for the kid for 18+ years, despite not wanting to have another kid and knowing his financial capability, that situation requires extra Grace.
Im jealous of somebody just discovering this podcast,they have 100 episodes to go!!
Sth we are not talking about enough : The QUALITY of this video 🙌.
And sometimes we may not really be going through those dilemmas but the advice helps us know how to deal with certain situations in case we encounter them.Truly grateful and feeling blessed
😅❤2d😊😊
Murugi has cute laugh
Infectious indeed
With this issue of one sided friendships, sometimes the friend who listens is actually the problem. If I continue to ask you what's wrong and how are you and you always say you're fine then there's no way for me as a friend to know that you're not okay. We are adults. You have to tell me how to be there for you. How else can I know? (Some friends actually have a saviour complex. I used to be that friend)
Beautiful and gorgeous as usual, in the first one, that girl will eventually leave, there is no love, she is just trying to feel the high they had when they were together but that is no longer accessible
I learnt clarity from this podcast. I also can't suffer in silence 😅😅 thank you ladies ❤
You guys!!!! Is that 100k subs 🎉🎉 so so deserved!Congrats Lyd and Murugi ❤
Murugi: why do we break our hearts by going through the phone
Also murugi: hata mimi husoma kama Bibilia
😂😂😂
Hey Lydia & Murugi. I LOVE!!! the conversations you have here and in your individual platforms too. I would like for you guys to have a/more conversations on transitioning from uni to adulting. Trying to get into the current job market or even creating a job for yourself. Have a lovely day😘
Definitely 💯
Yes please
Yessss
Road to 100k. So excited for you 🎉🎉. OG gang since 2021 can understand
My two cents on the dilemma about the LDR where her partner wants them to film themselves is, don't do it if it doesn't align with your values❤
On that question of the lady dealing with a guy who has a stroke + divorced twice + has trust issues etc. That guy is in a crisis that he should first pull himself out of before trying any relationships with someone's daughter. This babe should stop playing savior and rather look for a healthy i.e., psychologically and stable guy. Otherwise, he will suck her into his misery and ruin her self esteem. What he needs is a friend from a distance. Not a lover.
Today's episode is giving "YOU BELIEVE MEN in 2023 urrgggh😢😢
The dustbin got full on this episode🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Hey bebs .....get ready for live drum rolls after 100k .🎉🎉🎉
I cnt wait congratulations geolss❤❤
Just checked and we’re almost at 100k🥺
Ching ching🥂🎉
Murugi: stop spending money on people who are not your kids‼️😂😂
When murugi read the first one and said he left for another woman I screamed 🤣....we need therapy for real
Ati she prayed for him to be back😢
Definitely TMIIII🎶💃🏿. Enjoyed the role play👌🏾🔥🔥. Hapo sasa CONSISTENCY is your middle name😎 and keep it 💯 always. #WCW❤️
🥂 to elevating our dilemmas....
Today's vibe- Leave girl,just leave!!!!😂
Almost at 100k! well done!
The first dilemma, he will still leave again😁and leave you in the desert without water sis. Most men are like water, if it gets too hot, they evaporate, wanarudi winter, wanakupatia pneumonia, ndio uende ICU, to prove that you love them.
You do not even deserve a better man for now, you deserve yourself,be whole so thst he will find you whole(are we even whole as humans?). Love you just a little bit more.
Coming from a person who was in a worse situation thats yours.
Wishing you well.
❤want healthy conversations ? Boos you are in the right world .... The consistency podcast 🌟
Part of my Wednesday to-do list always
Lyd and Murugi saying Dust me in my bedroom shouting bin😂😂😂😂 enjoyed this one though..moral of it we just need to set the bar higher
So true
Dustbin Dustbin Dustbin it today 😂😂😂😂
You ladies look so beautiful today despite murugi looking so low hugs 🫂.
Murugi's facial expressions are 🔥🔥. I love you, ladies ❤. Thanks for the new word " DustBin"
The dilemmas today are not giving…Dustbin much! Queenbetweeners we need to start having dilemmas relating to career progression, enterpreneurship scaling, emotional, physical, mental, financial investmentsand good relationships growing.
I agree💯.
Oooooh please just stop being a negator that destroys the vibe.Litally !!!
Wewe si ufungue podcast yako huko ,so you decide on the topics.
This is TMI😊they are reading people's dilemmas si ati they are making the questions up, sister Deborah.
Let me come to my own defense here. Real quick. Honestly, TMI has great content on everything; friendship, younger lives, sex, romantic relationships, family, business and their careers. This encompasses everything that I mentioned in my comment. Now, it was not in bad light. They offer information based on their own opinion. Their advises are gorgeous. We just need as queenbetweeners to learn and see the red flags in our situations. Clear the boulders on our paths before they actually become mountains!
@@msdeesubtle8105 hata you'd not have defended yourself. What happened to people just respecting other people's opinions? We don't have to agree with other people's opinions but we can just respect them without being as some people have been. Anyway, peace and light.
Notification gang ! Ready for all the laughs.
In today's episode of "Dustbin" 😂😂😂
Loving the episode as usual.
Murugi randomly: this guy is cheating btw....a whole year????😅😂 This episode jameni ...... I'm hollering
Amen on Murugi prayer of the spirit of discernment. And start have serious dilemma.😅😅😅
Awwwh🥰😍Murugi u have a really amazing voice... that song u sang "keep ur money" wow❣️🔥
Its definitely TMI hour🎉🎉
I love you ladies❤
Honestly, I deserve an update on all or most of the dilemmas! These ladies have been going through it. If any and all inbetweener(s) can second this…its been real up in here😢
Yes they should do an update episode
Get together Wednesdays with TMI🥳🥳❤
Those women who are afraid of disappointing men, please read Robin Norwood's " WOMEN WHO LOVE TOO MUCH".
How Murugi has just replied to so what do we advise she shouted cheat😂😂😂😂😂
Is this why we are in betweeners as in ive been in some of these dilemas and looking back now ....i would never ever repeat those things again...ata afadhali kuwa single jo.
Heeey..... welcome back babes we missed u here ❤this was lit
100ke subscribers is that you✨✨🙈
I love you guys even though might not always agree with some of your views. I find you both so warm and honestly got excited when I saw this upload! Y’all look so pretty ❤
Hey Queens ......... can't wait to watch and learn
I love you girls❤️ thank you for your consistency!
Another episode to be watched daily till next Wednesday. That aside, i FEEL LIKE😂 Lyd's makeup sometimes does not translate well on camera but Murugi's always does. Lyd could you have Sly glam you once we see whether there's a difference?🤷🤷
Always trust women to pinpoint every little detail on other women, Lyd's looks do not take away from the insightful points made in this video
Try high quality....Lyd looks beautiful 😍
Relax
Maybe it's your eyes, I really love her make up
Really now!! Wow, can it be your phone that's a little bit of a letdown😊
you just gotta love the roleplaysssss
It's TMI day🎉🎉🎉🎉
15 minutes in and you are spitting facts!!😅...I love that my friends and I usually have these conversations; when they aren't able to afford or when I'm not able to afford we don't find it hard to communicate
Lydia you're looking freshhhh :)
Love the point on elevated problems, child!!! 🤭
As the friend who kept paying the bills i can tell you she's ok but alway try to do something for her however small, even if that means welcoming her to your house for lunch thats fully catered for by you. So sge doesn't feel taken advantage of.
You didn’t insert the rose photo 😂
tumebakisha hivi tu🤌🤌🤌tufike 100k subs
could we please have sub titles for sentences in Kiswahili😍? thanks
Beautiful attires
Great advice too
Thanks for today
Yay,new episode🥳
Lyd's facial expressions on this episode, wueh😂
Hi bebs...I love your singing bt naomba job ya kuwaimbia hiyo part
This is therapeutic 😌
Dilemma 1. I agree with Murugi , dump him already... what she has failed to say ( the girl) is that the reason why sometimes she feels she's inlove and sometimes not is based on how he treats her...Most probably he was just trying to see if she would take him back and probably he wasn't done with the lady he dumped her for and she took the bait and took him back.
I love how murugi pouts 😂😂😂
Dustbin is definitely the word of the day😆I am re-watching this episode coz I love love it so much. Murugi💞💞
Lyds advice on this episode.😂
It's the role playing for me 😂😂😂😂
Full bin this episode . Loved it still
countdown to 100k!....
I just love ladies! AKA "Big Sisters". We all need that big sister advice of one who has been there before you and would we raw and real.❤❤❤😊
Murugi many hugs to you...I noticed your energy was struggling in this one...
We are almost 100k guys🎉🎉🎉
Murugis HAIR! DAAAAMNNN❤❤❤❤. I've been admiring this hair. Can someone tell me what's the name please
Temporary locs
@@kairetuwairimu Thanks. Made from which brand of braid ?
@@SarahFamily-dw5jg Fluffy kinky
@@SarahFamily-dw5jg I don't even know 😂all I know is most people are in their temporary locs era 😂
@@kairetuwairimu 😆😆I'm definitely in my temporary locs era too. 4 months down
Usually our big age difference between me and you two lovely ladies, makes most of your podcasts not relevant for me and I'm a subscriber. However, and this is nice, I enjoyed this episode alot!
Another one 🎉🎉🎉
Here again as always ❤..
It's the "kaa chonjo" 😂😂😂weeh how is that your friend🚮🚮
hey murugi and lydia? am loving this, but i have one question, this generation we seem to be quick to cut people off is it reeeeaaalllly right?
hi ladies lot of luv from huku kwetu.
20;25 that is illegal in a lot of countries...it's called stealthing... And it's sexual and reproductive abuse.....
That one on the married sexless couple....why don't they just open up their marriage....sex is very important
Where is the picture!!😂😂😂
Premier Gang 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Dustbin is the word of the year😂.
I think women need to boost their selfesteem and economic Power. Some answers r so clear. Nowonder Murugi says there thing that cant Happen to her. People toleratinh crappy men n Friends ,that i cant tolerate.
Now me wants the rose suckeeeeeer🤗
Damn ladies niku hot hot,i love it already ❤
Amazing 😍
100K 😊😊😊😊😊
Removes the condom without your permission and doesn't pull out??!! Baby that's called stealthing and it's a form of sexual assault. That man is evil and hates you PLS RUNNNN!!!
20:24 is actually criminal in my opinion. Because you did not consent to unprotected sex. That is absolutely rape. Who said the woman wants your gonorrhea or wants to carry a pregnancy? Such a violation of the female body.
The one who removed protection sounds like the kind who believes in getting you pregnant to trap or tame you. Not someone's genes you want to pass down to your kids.
The one about who's decisions it should be about when to have kids, the number to have, e.t.c is tricky. On one hard yes if he wants and she doesnt its her body and she has the final choice but if she wants and he doesnt, yet he is the one to provide financially for the kid for 18+ years, despite not wanting to have another kid and knowing his financial capability, that situation requires extra Grace.
Dustbin 🚯🚯🚯🚯😄😄
Dustbin 😂😂😂
What if the in-betweener's husband who's not giving her sex is actually interested in men. And is in that marriage just because he has to hide it????
Murugi looks tired
❤️❤️❤️❤️
That guy would've probably cheated if roles were reserved
The pronouns got me spinning 😂
Ngl
Who is kate?
Stealthing is sexual abuse..... 😔
P R O M O S M 😇