I agree with the sentiment that a couple should try meet halfway. Let me share my story. We had agreed on 3 children. My first child almost killed me, but what is a woman’s brain when it wants to forget☺️. My husband would not hear of more children, he kept telling me he was fine with a family of three coz he wanted a family with me not just a family. Long story short we were assured that any other pregnancies would be monitored closely throughout and during delivery. So we went on and got pregnant again. Yours truly here was still adamant about 3 children. Four months into the second pregnancy, I called my husband for a meeting and informed him that 2 was going to be the number of our children coz I knew without a doubt that I wasn’t going to be pregnant ever again. I even went aged and had my tube tied. I was D. For DONE. Sometimes we think we know until we really really know. Next time I will share how I found out I was addicted to it’s definitely Wednesday brought to Us by TMI love and Light 💕💕
Am an FGM victim and intially i thought like Lyd, i once had even written to Lyd concerning this coz it was really affecting me, as for my own experience i changed that narrative that its never the same especially sexually and this really affected my sexuality for years and this inturn affected my pleasure but one day i decided to first make peace with the situation coz there was nothing else i would have done. then went on a journey to educate my self and its been the best decision ever because i got to learn that pleasure can de derived from many ways just like Murugi says, so many that you would be shocked and now from my experience i enjoy like nothing, i got to learn my body, got to learn other pleasure spots, i had to deal with that mindset that just coz i dont have a clit i wont enjoy pleasure and as a victim i would say everything changed for me after all this journey and i dont need even penetration to climax. Thanks to my friend who walked this journey with me, i can say alot honestly. About a guy rejecting me coz of a situation that i didnt have control for thats their problem honestly what i strongly believe a man that is genuinely for you wont mind coz and this am talking again through experience.
Not me doing the happy feet dance when singing it’s definitely TMIIiiiiiiiiiiiiiii intro 😅😅Murugi and Lydia are definitely the sisters we always needed. Happy birthday ladies💜 Okeey..let’s watch now 😊
Y'all really are a safe space for a lot of people..especially the young ones. Keep up the good work. I think it would be a good learning experience to hear from a victim of FGM and how that impacts them in general as well as in matters intimacy. And, although I know this may be tricky due to cultural norms and stigma, an uncircumcised man.
Am an FGM victim and intially i thought like Lyd, i once had even written to Lyd concerning this coz it was really affecting me, as for my own experience i changed that narrative that its never the same especially sexually and this really affected my sexuality for years and this inturn affected my pleasure but one day i decided to first make peace with the situation coz there was nothing else i would have done. then went on a journey to educate my self and its been the best decision ever because i got to learn that pleasure can de derived from many ways just like Murugi says, so many that you would be shocked and now from my experience i enjoy like nothing, i got to learn my body, got to learn other pleasure spots, i had to deal with that mindset that just coz i dont have a clit i wont enjoy pleasure and as a victim i would say everything changed for me after all this journey and i dont need even penetration to climax. Thanks to my friend who walked this journey with me, i can say alot honestly.
We can't compare circumsission and FGM in this case. I don't think girls choose FGM for themselves, it's an act that's imposed on them. One if the biggest reasons why it's being fought against. Circumsission is for health benefits which are already scientifically proven......And FGM causes the biggest long life risks that I have ever seen.....From trauma to scars that can't stretch which cause alot of tears during delivery. FGM isn't circumsission....it's Trauma and invasion We can't use it as a double standard ❤️
My siblings and I used to compete about who could burp the most when we were kids. Haha. Me and Joe one side. And yeah, you just swallow air then burp. Easy peasy🤣🤣
So proud of Murugi Munyi and her strength. I see me and my bestie in you two. WE WILL ALSO MAKE IT HAPPEN. Thank you two for making it possible to believe
I had this mind set back then because from my tribe does it, but after dating different people from various cultures a man being cut or not is not an issue as long as he is clean. As long as the pencil can draw...if you catch my drift.😘
About the femme-femme dynamic in a relationship. Hetero folks are raised in a hetero environment so they find it hard to imagine that in a sexual encounter there is just two women. But it works. Provided the basic of respect, consent, attraction and selflessness are there, the mechanics are a low priority.
Hehe... indeed the hetero lens loves to force human energies into gender boxes, hence why most first borns share so many traits, irrespective of gender, but heteronormative'ness will have a firstborn daughter dim her tenacity/clarity of purpose so as to appear "less aggressive" / "more feminine" or a last born son will try and be less laid back / "que sera sera"... The femme-femme pairing gets the hetero socialisation puzzled as it's one of the few pairings that doesn't necessarily need the partner to "act a role" but just come as they are; lead here; follow there. BE.
On the one about the woman wanting more kids, I believe a woman should only have the number of kids that she is comfortable mothering alone. Because our society doesn't hold men accountable and you might be left with them and each one of them should be your choice. If it's a deal breaker for him, would you rather have the kids and no husband? Or is it better to have one baby and a happy marriage.
It's the, dead silence alafu, 'today drained me' that send me😂😂😂😂 jili, what? Kuna kinks lakini hii sasa. In her words, 'you are asked to bark and now that's your job'. Maze, hio kazi ni nyingi. That long distance finna be snipped and I move closer to someone else coz.
You girls are doing great. I’m almost 66 and love what you are doing. TMI that most people don’t want to talk about. Kudos to you Happiest birthday to both of you
If a man said to me he doesn't want another baby I wouldn't even try having one with him the rejection that would come with ignoring that idea can cost you and that baby
I APPRECIATE YOUR CANDIDNESS!! WE SHOULD REMEMBER, THIS IS THEIR CHANNEL AND WE ARE EAVESDROPPING ON THEIR CONVERSATION. WHETHER YOU AGREE OR NOT, IT'S 100% NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS!!
Not me wondering how I always miss out on sharing my dilemmas but still hear my own or something similar to my own situation here....been with my uncircumcised boyfriend of 7 years and really I've never seen the big deal of course except from the health issues, other than that it's a ka non-issue...I can't burp either together on that Lydia...
Joining your podcast late loves but got a comment on fgm Actually, FGM leads to loosing a certain gland responsible for lubrication hence most circumcised women fail to get wet . This will cause blisters during intercourse and chances of contracting infection is high
Happy birthday Queens One of my 2023 intentions this year is to be an intentional partner, to communicate more and to express my feelings to my boyfriend. This I learned from you guys,, hii mwaka hatuachani tunapambana until the time universe will say it can’t 😅
This episode was heavy, ladies thank you so much for the efforts and vulnerability that you express here. Wednesday are my favorite becoz of TMI ❤ Lydia, your breakup story is all I needed in this season of my life. Thank you 🙏🏼
I love this for us. Creating awareness when the nation is debating the LGBTQA issue. And you ladies going about it respectfully without infringing any side, love that. I'd like to know to burp on command too🤭😉
I agree with the sentiment that a couple should try meet halfway. Let me share my story. We had agreed on 3 children. My first child almost killed me, but what is a woman’s brain when it wants to forget☺️. My husband would not hear of more children, he kept telling me he was fine with a family of three coz he wanted a family with me not just a family. Long story short we were assured that any other pregnancies would be monitored closely throughout and during delivery. So we went on and got pregnant again. Yours truly here was still adamant about 3 children. Four months into the second pregnancy, I called my husband for a meeting and informed him that 2 was going to be the number of our children coz I knew without a doubt that I wasn’t going to be pregnant ever again. I even went aged and had my tube tied. I was D. For DONE. Sometimes we think we know until we really really know.
Next time I will share how I found out I was addicted to it’s definitely Wednesday brought to Us by TMI love and Light 💕💕
We are sorry that you went through this. Thank you for these words ❤️
Am an FGM victim and intially i thought like Lyd, i once had even written to Lyd concerning this coz it was really affecting me, as for my own experience i changed that narrative that its never the same especially sexually and this really affected my sexuality for years and this inturn affected my pleasure but one day i decided to first make peace with the situation coz there was nothing else i would have done. then went on a journey to educate my self and its been the best decision ever because i got to learn that pleasure can de derived from many ways just like Murugi says, so many that you would be shocked and now from my experience i enjoy like nothing, i got to learn my body, got to learn other pleasure spots, i had to deal with that mindset that just coz i dont have a clit i wont enjoy pleasure and as a victim i would say everything changed for me after all this journey and i dont need even penetration to climax. Thanks to my friend who walked this journey with me, i can say alot honestly. About a guy rejecting me coz of a situation that i didnt have control for thats their problem honestly what i strongly believe a man that is genuinely for you wont mind coz and this am talking again through experience.
Hi. I have some questions kindly
Not me doing the happy feet dance when singing it’s definitely TMIIiiiiiiiiiiiiiii intro 😅😅Murugi and Lydia are definitely the sisters we always needed.
Happy birthday ladies💜
Okeey..let’s watch now 😊
"Bloody hell mate'' in the British accent got me screaming 😂😂😂. LOVE IT HERE!!!!!!!!
We love that you love it here!
It was needed tbh.😂😂😂😂
I loved how open minded and detailed the conversation has been
Me tapping on the like button even before I start watching because I already know it'll be good 😌
Mee too.these ladies make my Wednesday lunch break
Me too before I watch any TMI episodes or any channo I've subscribed to I must like the video first😊
same girl, same
The fearing women part got me on the floor
Lyd is dead ass funny🤣🤣🤣🤣
If you're fearing women, fear this one too!! 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂you think it's fun and games until its your job...hapo kwa barking
Happy birthday Ladies!
God really knew what he was doing sending the both of you!🥺
Thank you for sharing your light with us all ❤❤
Thank you so much!!
Not me trying the burping thing with murugi and getting excited that I can 😂😂this is hilarious
With tmi naona Wednesday inafika haraka..that shows how fast time flies..my love for you guys will never enddddd!!!!
It's my birthday today! That's one of the reasons I like you two coz it's literally 1st, 2nd, 3rd! Cheers to us!
Happy birthday beb♥️
@@eberelilian7790 Oh, thank you! You're so sweet!❤
Y'all really are a safe space for a lot of people..especially the young ones. Keep up the good work. I think it would be a good learning experience to hear from a victim of FGM and how that impacts them in general as well as in matters intimacy. And, although I know this may be tricky due to cultural norms and stigma, an uncircumcised man.
Thank you for this. Yes, we definitely need more spaces to talk about this.
Am an FGM victim and intially i thought like Lyd, i once had even written to Lyd concerning this coz it was really affecting me, as for my own experience i changed that narrative that its never the same especially sexually and this really affected my sexuality for years and this inturn affected my pleasure but one day i decided to first make peace with the situation coz there was nothing else i would have done. then went on a journey to educate my self and its been the best decision ever because i got to learn that pleasure can de derived from many ways just like Murugi says, so many that you would be shocked and now from my experience i enjoy like nothing, i got to learn my body, got to learn other pleasure spots, i had to deal with that mindset that just coz i dont have a clit i wont enjoy pleasure and as a victim i would say everything changed for me after all this journey and i dont need even penetration to climax. Thanks to my friend who walked this journey with me, i can say alot honestly.
Thank you much much ladies for creating a safe space,all this episodes I really learn and enjoy ❤❤SA 🇿🇦
We hope you love it here!
I keep thinking I’m open minded about kinks and then I hear something like this am I’m like “ bye”😂😂😂😂burp? What😂
😂😂😂 stop plz
Lol 😅😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love how candid, unfiltered and open you are when dissecting dilemmas or chosen topics of discussion. Thank you, ladies. ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
burp on command 😉🤣🤣 y'all never disappoint..
I proclaim favour ,blessings in this month for all in betweener 💕💕happy birthday girls 💕
The excitement when you know it's Wednesday, definitely TMI!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 burping on demand is having me on the floor... Lydia's astonishment is killing me
And Murugi was shy for being able to satisfy the kink🤣🤣😂
I was coming to comment this
Lydia's scream 😭😂
N it got mi on my lunch break trying to see if I can do it😂😂
Me too
Is it only me or what, I never get enough of these queens, ikiisha am just bored, like I don't know what to listen to from there 🥺🥺😍😍
That gets me preserving their videos until they post a new one 😂
We love this!
We can't compare circumsission and FGM in this case. I don't think girls choose FGM for themselves, it's an act that's imposed on them. One if the biggest reasons why it's being fought against. Circumsission is for health benefits which are already scientifically proven......And FGM causes the biggest long life risks that I have ever seen.....From trauma to scars that can't stretch which cause alot of tears during delivery. FGM isn't circumsission....it's Trauma and invasion
We can't use it as a double standard ❤️
We absolutely get it.
The queens👸 are here yall! And we are right here for all of it,
1:39 just here saying Happy Birthday ladies! Celebrating you on your born days! Love, light &blessings🙏🏼💕🎉
Thank you so much 😊
Great conversations always, I'm 19yrs and I eargly wait for your content every Wednesday and it's really educates me alot.i I love 💕 you,,
Glad you like them!
Cant wait to listen to this discussion at lunch time. Its our birthday week ladies, mine is on the 4th
Happy birthday 🎉 in advance
Happy birthday🎂
Happy birthday gurl♥️
@Lynna sem as my dads😍
Happy birthday to you
Lydia's reaction while reading the burping on command dilemma got me on the floor 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My siblings and I used to compete about who could burp the most when we were kids. Haha. Me and Joe one side. And yeah, you just swallow air then burp. Easy peasy🤣🤣
Hahaha
"BLOODY ELL MATE!"😂 that first dilemma started out strong
😂😂😂
I like how you both appreciate each other !
To that dude who kicked Joan out 😂😂😂😂😂
We’ve all had those moments 😂
Happy birthday 🎂 🥳 💓 beautiful....
Yeeeeehhhhh
March babies come here..turning 41💃💃💃💃..11 March ..just have fun Murugi💃💃💃💃💃💞
Happy birthday sis
@@mbugajeraldyn6511 thank you❣happy birthday 🎂 to you too🥳
Lydia 👑🙌 You are a very wise woman!!!...
🤣🤣🤣 not me out here trying to burp on command🙈
So proud of Murugi Munyi and her strength. I see me and my bestie in you two. WE WILL ALSO MAKE IT HAPPEN. Thank you two for making it possible to believe
Been waiting for this episode the whole day 🤣😂🤣
Happy birthday beauties 🎉🎉🎊🎊
On time, every time. Its the consistency for me !
Happiest Birthday to the amazing and consistent #WCW Queenbetwneers 💐💐❤️❤️🎂🎂🎉🎉🎊🎊💃🏿💃🏿. Mob blessings and happiness🙏🏾😊. Definitely TMIIII🎶
Thank you so much
I had this mind set back then because from my tribe does it, but after dating different people from various cultures a man being cut or not is not an issue as long as he is clean. As long as the pencil can draw...if you catch my drift.😘
12:00sharp everytime. Same time same place ☺️❤️
Happy birthday Big sisters 🥳🥂❤️
Murugi you are the chosen one. Queen Arthur. I didn’t think it was possible.
😂😂😂
Most men won’t even know if you are circumcised or not some DONT EVEN KNOW WHERE THE CLITORIS IS LOCATED😢😢
Woah😂😂
Never thought my tomboy kid shenanigans can be a turn on to someone 😄 To the girls who can burp on demand..gather here with the likes.
It's the giant Clitoris for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Truthfully, TMI is therapy in itself... I'm never the same person after an episode...
Not me burping with Murugi 😂😂
I was driving and busy burping...like why?😂😂🤣
Me too
About the femme-femme dynamic in a relationship. Hetero folks are raised in a hetero environment so they find it hard to imagine that in a sexual encounter there is just two women. But it works. Provided the basic of respect, consent, attraction and selflessness are there, the mechanics are a low priority.
Hehe... indeed the hetero lens loves to force human energies into gender boxes, hence why most first borns share so many traits, irrespective of gender, but heteronormative'ness will have a firstborn daughter dim her tenacity/clarity of purpose so as to appear "less aggressive" / "more feminine" or a last born son will try and be less laid back / "que sera sera"...
The femme-femme pairing gets the hetero socialisation puzzled as it's one of the few pairings that doesn't necessarily need the partner to "act a role" but just come as they are; lead here; follow there. BE.
Wow I learned something today to stop this "if He wanted he would" & communicate how you want to be loved, I guess this is where we go wrong 💃
Exactly. Communicate always
I thought everyone could burp on command 😂😂😂
Apparently not 😂
Happy birthday Murugi!
It's the today drained me remark for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It really did😂😂
On the one about the woman wanting more kids, I believe a woman should only have the number of kids that she is comfortable mothering alone. Because our society doesn't hold men accountable and you might be left with them and each one of them should be your choice.
If it's a deal breaker for him, would you rather have the kids and no husband? Or is it better to have one baby and a happy marriage.
We get that❤️
It's the, dead silence alafu, 'today drained me' that send me😂😂😂😂 jili, what? Kuna kinks lakini hii sasa. In her words, 'you are asked to bark and now that's your job'. Maze, hio kazi ni nyingi. That long distance finna be snipped and I move closer to someone else coz.
Burping on command🤣🤣🤣🤣 17:38 I keep replaying 😂😂😂
People like different things🤣
You guys are so hilarious🤣🤣🤣 not Lydia asking Murugi "How are you drinking air?"
Because it doesn’t make sense 😂
Loved it! Y’all are so funny! Happy birthday Joan & Lydia ❤️
You girls are doing great. I’m almost 66 and love what you are doing. TMI that most people don’t want to talk about. Kudos to you
Happiest birthday to both of you
Thank you so much. This is beautiful ❤️
Completely loved this episode ladies ❤🔥
Burping on demand left me on the grouund
“Bloody hell, mate”😂 was my reaction to almost every dilemma😂😭mnapitia😭
We should put this on a T-shirt
Circumcision is a real deal breaker for me too. Don't remind me, weuh
OOHHHH Goshhhh!! I have laughed so hard at burping!😂😂😂😂
Got me at The girl who burps on command 😂😂😂
Yaani kuburp ni kink?? Dear Loooord ..anyway nafanyanga nikitaka
It's the "Cindy do you have something to say"😂😂😂😂 I'm loving this episode so far
OMG I just learnt how to burp😂😂😂😂Thanks Murugi.
Whenever am here I always feel like am in for my therapy classes ❤️❤️
I just love you you two so much Murugi and Lydia❤️❤️😚. keep doing it 🔥🔥💯
If a man said to me he doesn't want another baby I wouldn't even try having one with him the rejection that would come with ignoring that idea can cost you and that baby
Joan , lol the burps 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Murugi with the double standards got me 🤣🤣
You two are such a hilarious combo🤣🤣
The burping part was actually not shocking to me because my boyfriend has a fetish of seeing me pee. I know, it's weird but why not🤷♀️
It's a rare occasion when u see these 2 speechless & the Burp by Command/On Demand did just that.
12:00pm sharp!!!! enyewe i love these babes❤️❤️❤️ wacha sasa i watch😁
I love these women so much❤️,and then there's something about Murugi😭😍
I left the group chat after burping on command 🤣🤣🤣🤣like what that’s new
There’s a lot out there!
Happy birthday ladies,aging like fine wine🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Can someone subscribe twice?? 😄Cant get enough of you two 💞
I APPRECIATE YOUR CANDIDNESS!! WE SHOULD REMEMBER, THIS IS THEIR CHANNEL AND WE ARE EAVESDROPPING ON THEIR CONVERSATION. WHETHER YOU AGREE OR NOT, IT'S 100% NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS!!
Not me wondering how I always miss out on sharing my dilemmas but still hear my own or something similar to my own situation here....been with my uncircumcised boyfriend of 7 years and really I've never seen the big deal of course except from the health issues, other than that it's a ka non-issue...I can't burp either together on that Lydia...
Literally thumbs uped this video because Jo burped on demand to demonstrate 😂😂😂 ...lol
We are a very educational channel 😂
the burping killed me😂😂😂😂😂
Happy birthday Ladies,Love you girls so so so much ❤️🥳🎉🎉🎉🥳🎈
Joining your podcast late loves but got a comment on fgm
Actually, FGM leads to loosing a certain gland responsible for lubrication hence most circumcised women fail to get wet . This will cause blisters during intercourse and chances of contracting infection is high
Thank you for this input
It's the silence after the burping on command question for me 🤣
Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii inbetweeners 🎉☺️💕
Heeey
3 minutes in and already 41 of you are already here?😂😂wow
Wait what? Burping? I had to remind myself the meaning of burping 🤣🤣..
I can actually burp on demand though 😅😅
A dude not circumcised is a deal breaker to me. I had an Ex who wasn't cut... The hygiene is just so poor...that thing stinks... I would never do it
The uncircumcised boyfriend watching this video 👀🤣
Khai😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣...he will definitely know its him
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣the intro is lit!!
Happy birthday to you too cuties🥰🥰🥰,thank you for gifting us you
Thank you 🤗
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂it's today drained me for me!!
That reaction naaaah😂😂😂
A whole meme
Loving this, you gals are on 🔥
Thank you 🙌
Happy birthday Queens
One of my 2023 intentions this year is to be an intentional partner, to communicate more and to express my feelings to my boyfriend. This I learned from you guys,, hii mwaka hatuachani tunapambana until the time universe will say it can’t 😅
This episode was heavy, ladies thank you so much for the efforts and vulnerability that you express here.
Wednesday are my favorite becoz of TMI ❤ Lydia, your breakup story is all I needed in this season of my life.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Thanks for listening
I love this for us. Creating awareness when the nation is debating the LGBTQA issue. And you ladies going about it respectfully without infringing any side, love that.
I'd like to know to burp on command too🤭😉
"I thought you only had s** with three people in your life"😂
Don't we all say that
We do😂
Happy early birth day Murugi😍 you guys are such a vibe
Thank you so much 😊
Happy birthday Lyds and Murugi🥂