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  • Some narcissists will try to control you by messing with your schedule and talking bad about you to the kids
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  • @JenYin.
    @JenYin. 4 місяці тому +71

    Too accurate, I remember as children me and my sister would stop my dad dead in his tracks when he tried to make a negative comment about my mother. Even as kids we weren't having it😂👏🏽

  • @jodynori1214
    @jodynori1214 4 місяці тому +32

    🤣He said get your stuff cause I’m taking you back home

  • @LongIslandNY-op8su
    @LongIslandNY-op8su 4 місяці тому +14

    They’re Famous for wanting to ruin EVERYTHING 🙄

    • @wakeupluv
      @wakeupluv 3 місяці тому +2

      Ommggg THIS!

  • @yuikowhite9568
    @yuikowhite9568 4 місяці тому +15

    This is exactly how my ex talks to our son. Thank you so much for your accurate contents.

  • @cathleenburton-noble418
    @cathleenburton-noble418 4 місяці тому +12

    My kids didn't want to do visitation. My oldest tried to discuss it with him. The ex said "You have a good time here". My kid says "No I don't."
    Butt-head comes back with, "ARE YOU CALLING ME A LIAR?!"
    Can you imagine such a bizarre thing??!!!!!!

    • @roberts.valkyrie
      @roberts.valkyrie 4 місяці тому +2

      I could totally picture my ex husband saying that. He would try to intimidate the kids to prevent them from telling me things.

    • @freemell6938
      @freemell6938 3 місяці тому +2

      My goodness, thats crazy 😢

    • @cathleenburton-noble418
      @cathleenburton-noble418 2 місяці тому

      @@roberts.valkyrie My kids told me "Dad said we'd be in so much trouble if we tell the bad things that happen there".
      I got it on tape😁

  • @meniafrazier1855
    @meniafrazier1855 4 місяці тому +25

    Oh now all of a sudden his stomach hurting 😭

  • @poppett.m4481
    @poppett.m4481 4 місяці тому +26

    Pimpin with the Minnie Mouse ears bro 😂😂😂

  • @SassyDiva53
    @SassyDiva53 4 місяці тому +7

    I almost spit my water out... Lol... I wasn't ready... Lol

  • @cazjay017
    @cazjay017 4 місяці тому +4

    They’ll talk to your toddlers, fussing and giving them attention when he is deliberately giving you the silent treatment for days on end - in front of them. They don’t think about the kids.

  • @Natanecov
    @Natanecov 4 місяці тому +10

    Lee, I feel like you’re peeking into my life. 😂😂😂The only difference is that it was Minnie Mouse earrings and crocs.

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 4 місяці тому +19

    This shit is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @strawberrysangria1474
    @strawberrysangria1474 4 місяці тому +2

    My dad's destroyed plenty of my belongings and childhood toys, but he "forgets" about it. Poor old man and his convenient amnesia.

  • @Vixindamix
    @Vixindamix 4 місяці тому +3

    They really be having an inner sensor letting em know when we’re having a good time cus E👏🏽VER👏🏽Y👏🏽 time I’m having a blast not stressin they find a way to MESS THAT UP even if the kids don’t even know what I be doin! High key eerie af lol … it’s like they have their own personal assistant demon that follows us and reports back letting em know “ yo, they havin too much fun without you… fk it up” 😒

  • @777Pattie
    @777Pattie 4 місяці тому +4

    At end of video Dad finds out Mom is out on date night with her boyfriend and suddenly now doesn't want anything to do with the kid so as to ruin her date night. Usually when Father's break up with the Mother's in the beginning & during the breakup Dad's want the kids all the time or custody just to hurt the Mother's. Dad finds out Mom's been having a good time when the kids are with him & sees a new opportunity to hurt Mom by dumping kids back in her lap ending any plans she's made when kids are with him. Anything he can do to make Mom's life harder. Typical toxic behavior 👹

  • @BigmommaD82
    @BigmommaD82 4 місяці тому

    Not the Micky ears 😂. Poor kiddo. Going through this right now. Its hard. Just have to keep parenting and being supportive of your kids and don't worry about what the other parent says. Kids will see their parents and know them in their own eyes.

  • @sherrizeno8453
    @sherrizeno8453 4 місяці тому +1

    Yep, my daughter told me how he he claimed she is ungrateful... like me. I told her to ignore him when he says stuff like that.

  • @pinkheartfairy
    @pinkheartfairy 4 місяці тому +6

    Love ur skit ..
    My husband narc talk ill about me 24 7 to my children i buy kids anything he says its cheap its bad and he never take them out of fear i will see anybody else if he take them constsntly accuse me that i will be outside in malls with guys roaming he tell kids but kids see i was home cooking and he keep ruining time with to pick them up even many times he arrange time as he likes and dnt come make them dress and run away saying i have work and disaper months.if takes give them ride bring them in 15 to max 30 mints back home and shout at me that im spying on him.
    Now he hardily see kids or wanna meet them in my children birth day too he disapers he prefere call girls and his guys friends and dance party over our kids.he tell kids that im bad and i lie about him that hes not working and he is out in hotels and schelle and i m working he says.
    And i stop them from meeting him while i try to let them meet him.the truth is he doesnt care abouts kids and he want them dead and gone and disaper.
    Sad truth 😞💔

    • @777Pattie
      @777Pattie 4 місяці тому

      Unfortunately your husband sounds like a Narcissist. I'm very sorry for you & your children. 💔

  • @taniahajackson1946
    @taniahajackson1946 4 місяці тому +3

    I know I shouldn’t have laughed but this is like watching my kids father when I moved on he locked the kids in the house so I had to kick the door in. Getting through the trauma of this is so hard ❤

  • @Blaqbeauty21
    @Blaqbeauty21 4 місяці тому +4

    Wow I dated one and had No kids and the Relationship by it self was a Headache but I could and did leave and don't have to be bothered with their nasty attitudes & bad behaviors anymore but untill I saw this skit i never imagine this is what the people who have kids have to continue to go through and put up with , smh😳 for those that have kids and have to put up with this kind of foolishness, boy that's Alot , your relationship is over with the other parent , don't need to ruin the time you have to spend with your children degrading the other parent , kids can't do nothing about it , Move On and let the other parent Move On, Wow 😲

    • @chayes3862
      @chayes3862 4 місяці тому +1

      My ex has three... he did shit like this to them as well, only difference is he'd terrorize them about maintaining contact and right before they went to see their grands. Mfkrs were actually jealous of the relationships they had with me.... I refuted his marriage offers and the idea of keeping contact with his cheating him. 🚮

  • @tamaraharvey3569
    @tamaraharvey3569 4 місяці тому

    Thank You Marcus for the knowledge this made me laugh while you educated us I'm in recovery from a narcissistic relationship and you have been such an integral part of my healing be encouraged you are Blessed beyond measure because you have no idea of how God is using you to free many 🎉🎉

  • @Mrs.Kirkland1980
    @Mrs.Kirkland1980 4 місяці тому +18

    Facts! 😂😅😂😅😂

    • @wakeupluv
      @wakeupluv 3 місяці тому

      😂mine told me he hated me in front of ours he's a POS! I'm so happy children grow up and see things for themselves especially when you don't talk bad about their fathers. It makes since when they see you literally being all you can be for them on every single level to the point nobody can lie or make them see you any differently other than you as a Mom!!! Mine is seeing it now...

  • @CatnessStrange
    @CatnessStrange 4 місяці тому +3

    Ugggh 🤣😂 💀. It's sad but that's accurate in so many unfortunate cases.

  • @marlenevillafana4120
    @marlenevillafana4120 4 місяці тому +1

    "My stomach hurts lets go home" all because mom's on date night😂😅😅🤣

  • @brend3901
    @brend3901 4 місяці тому +1

    your skits make me laugh😝. on point with this one!

  • @ReneeMorgan-le8ky
    @ReneeMorgan-le8ky 4 місяці тому +5

    Too funny I looked at this video five times already

  • @roxeys_reality_check
    @roxeys_reality_check 4 місяці тому

    I'm so glad i don't have to go through this.

  • @feliciajenkins5041
    @feliciajenkins5041 4 місяці тому

    And if they grow old they're dying alone. Spending a lifetime treating people who love you like they don't matter adds up.

  • @know973
    @know973 4 місяці тому +1

    My ex-husband and I shared our children. On my bday, he dropped the children off early in the morning . He said that it was a part of the custody agreement. The kids should be with me on my bday. It was his week.

  • @saragates2255
    @saragates2255 3 місяці тому

    He's not lying... Women can be narcissists, too.

  • @johannaalexander2009
    @johannaalexander2009 4 місяці тому

    You're phenomenal! So funny...!
    I love your comical posts 😁😂

  • @montaguerules
    @montaguerules 4 місяці тому +1

    Narcissistic injury

  • @dignifiedlady
    @dignifiedlady 4 місяці тому +1

    Even if the child is a toddler, they will talk down about you to the child. Meanwhile, you have to provide all food and clothes when it's their time too. They feel like they're babysitting and not parenting. They get worse as soon as babies are born. Sooooo disappointing.

  • @melaniewilliams6257
    @melaniewilliams6257 4 місяці тому +2

    🤣😭☠️💀 I swear you should be in Hollywood

    • @tranquility9325
      @tranquility9325 4 місяці тому +1

      He's been featured on the show fatal attraction
      images.app.goo.gl/Ei9hFFdp7KZydA7m6

  • @fenixdon8606
    @fenixdon8606 4 місяці тому +2

    Getcha stuff 😂😂😂 true story

  • @shantemoore6265
    @shantemoore6265 4 місяці тому +1

    No lies in this skit.

  • @LaDiva50
    @LaDiva50 4 місяці тому

    💯 So accurate...smh

  • @ronieGirl327
    @ronieGirl327 4 місяці тому +2

    Yup. That’s what my ex husband sounds like. God. I sure knew how to pick up. 😅😂 they was entertaining though. So glad to be over the stupidity of it all.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  4 місяці тому +1

      🤭

    • @ronieGirl327
      @ronieGirl327 4 місяці тому

      My reaction totally. The bad part. He wasn’t even the narcissist I be complaining about!
      But yet. I sure knew how to pick the ones who needed help. I was always into the less fortunate things I guess. You know stray cats and all. So makes sense. 😅😂
      Kidding. I loved them both at one time. I don’t see people the way others do. I saw potential. They just see it and I’m all about self growth.
      Why you always laughing at me. 😅😂😅😂❤❤❤ I know. I be laughing also! 😅😂

    • @Janis.7-
      @Janis.7- 3 місяці тому

      @@ronieGirl327what?

    • @ronieGirl327
      @ronieGirl327 3 місяці тому

      @@Janis.7-um… what part are you saying what to?
      And if you don’t get it. Be thankful.

    • @ronieGirl327
      @ronieGirl327 3 місяці тому

      @@Janis.7-the person i was obviously talking to understands what I’m saying. It also didn’t seem to be confusing so I’m a little stumped as to what you are actually asking. Perhaps a few more words could help us both out and then I might be more able to respond with what you are looking for.

  • @kairehymon8223
    @kairehymon8223 4 місяці тому

    My kids father does this 24/7 even when the kids are with me. Its sad 😢

  • @maxvodka9494
    @maxvodka9494 4 місяці тому

    Yep he would take the kids back to their mom. Child support took his fishing license so he took them back

  • @Nia62899
    @Nia62899 4 місяці тому +2

    The bow ❤😂

  • @SassyDiva53
    @SassyDiva53 4 місяці тому +1

    Spot on! But funnnny!!!!!!

  • @jhnsn1
    @jhnsn1 4 місяці тому

    Omg I witness this with my ex and his kids. I always said something to him about it. I wish I knew what a narcissist was.

  • @elderlypoodle9181
    @elderlypoodle9181 4 місяці тому +2

    Oh my parents both used this tactic on my brother and I. They divorced after 23 years of marriage 😏

  • @jeanetteann275
    @jeanetteann275 3 місяці тому

    My daughter's father has been doing this for years. Unfortunately, my daughter is 12 now and does not look forward or even want to spend any amount of time with him. She's heart broken and let down so much over the years, thinks her father dont like her or even thinks about her 💔 😢

  • @freemell6938
    @freemell6938 3 місяці тому

    My son was 5 when we split, even though he was really young he somehow knew not to talk about me. His father would pry, did you and mom have fun? What did you guys do? Etc. All our son would say was, oh fine, not much, don't know...
    Once I heard the father cry to our boy and say, you're not going to leave me just like your mom did right?!
    So mean to put that guilt trip on a little boys shoulders...

  • @Mesowatchinu
    @Mesowatchinu 3 місяці тому

    my dad would always say Imma tell you some things about your mama when i’d visit him

  • @queenof2kings299
    @queenof2kings299 4 місяці тому

    THIS!!!

  • @Cmtjune5
    @Cmtjune5 4 місяці тому +11

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Janis.7-
    @Janis.7- 3 місяці тому

    Yeah loves to tell the kids that I’m mean and can’t be trusted . I’ll “ turn on them one day” but he’s perfect. Haha Smart kids soon learn who’s crazy .

    • @finallydone391
      @finallydone391 3 місяці тому

      He talked so bad to our kids about me for years that now they barely speak to him. They helped me escape!

  • @meloneymoore8856
    @meloneymoore8856 3 місяці тому

    My youngest brother Merkel spoke and acts exactly like your skit about his baby momma Cearrah😂😂😂😂-Xclusyph Icon

  • @sarangtokki2045
    @sarangtokki2045 4 місяці тому +2

    Marvin Leroy Jackson

  • @ladywesker5307
    @ladywesker5307 4 місяці тому +1

    It feels like youre describing my deadbeat older brother.

  • @antoniar8603
    @antoniar8603 3 місяці тому

    This 💯

  • @tijeraslack3
    @tijeraslack3 3 місяці тому

    This would be my child’s father and that’s why she’s not around him at all.

  • @Micasa7
    @Micasa7 4 місяці тому

    This is trueeeee😂😂😂

  • @reneehendrix7094
    @reneehendrix7094 4 місяці тому +1

    LEE!! WHY? BIG BRO!

  • @kimberlyartis6515
    @kimberlyartis6515 4 місяці тому

    🫢...the way u done the mickey hat was dirty...

  • @humilitybeforehonorsmk2311
    @humilitybeforehonorsmk2311 4 місяці тому +1

    Yoooooo!!!!! 😂😂😂

  • @31tamaramarie
    @31tamaramarie 3 місяці тому

    Dead on !!!!

  • @BrittneyK2
    @BrittneyK2 4 місяці тому +1

    🎯🎯🎯

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 4 місяці тому +3

    Lee 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lovefaith1794
    @lovefaith1794 4 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @ladyllf48
    @ladyllf48 4 місяці тому

    I love these skits, 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @alf8211
    @alf8211 4 місяці тому

    This is my ex with my son all of the time. It makes me really sad. I see why you put a trigger warning.

  • @TinaMarie36
    @TinaMarie36 4 місяці тому

    Omg always

  • @ninaangelique4811
    @ninaangelique4811 4 місяці тому +1

    WoooooW 😂🤦🏽‍♀️😂

  • @NormaDeLeon-yj9bh
    @NormaDeLeon-yj9bh 4 місяці тому

    1000%

  • @cc50918
    @cc50918 4 місяці тому +2

    Omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @aleciamoten6867
    @aleciamoten6867 4 місяці тому +1

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jenniferbloh-michael8662
    @jenniferbloh-michael8662 4 місяці тому

    Yes , and they make up shit instead of saying the pertinent truth. Because of the insecure loser thing. It's child abuse to make up ugly lies about a childs parent.

  • @vivalajuicey
    @vivalajuicey 4 місяці тому +1

    Lmfao 😂😂😂

  • @terryblossoms8653
    @terryblossoms8653 4 місяці тому +1

    😂😂😂

  • @imariholm2584
    @imariholm2584 4 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 bruh

  • @Mrs.Cherall
    @Mrs.Cherall 4 місяці тому +2

    😂😅🤣😂😭😭😭🤣😂

  • @BoadiceaHime
    @BoadiceaHime 3 місяці тому

    😂

  • @cassandramorehouse8650
    @cassandramorehouse8650 4 місяці тому

    😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 4 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 4 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @esthermagobane801
    @esthermagobane801 4 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 4 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 4 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂