8 Warning Signs of a Creep

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  • Опубліковано 28 гру 2024

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  • @TrueMedallion
    @TrueMedallion  2 роки тому +12

    Scroll back up and gently tap the like button. It isn't a creep. :)

  • @arians3713
    @arians3713 6 місяців тому +33

    Ok. So if someone is shy or socially anxious, just judge the hell out of them and outcast them. Got it.

    • @OldSchoolL4D-zb2kt
      @OldSchoolL4D-zb2kt 4 місяці тому

      Sounds like someone who is shallow would do or is just blind and self absorbed. Aka the normies. People lack psychological education and mental health

  • @PikRabbit
    @PikRabbit 2 роки тому +49

    With all due respect, I'm not exactly sure what type of creep you're referring to. Looking at these signs, I had a majority of these when I was growing up with the intention of trying to get along or make friends when I had no prior experience (especially at a later age).
    While yes, I agree there will be times that "creepy" people CAN be dangerous, I don't necessarily see the signs I expected for when you encounter an actual crappy + creepy person.
    (ie: They keep pushing your boundaries even if u said no, they ask you for favours when you barely know them and don't need it or if they OVERLYYY compliment you and sometimes insert their preferred image onto you that can invalidate the identity you want to adopt)
    Just because someone stares too much doesn't mean they are a person worth avoiding. From how I see it (and from watching the videos from this channel back then) these signs just remind me of someone having a crush on you excluding smelling bad or being unkempt.
    There are a handful of young individuals (including teenagers) that I know of that are unkempt due to depression or other circumstances. A lot of them mention that it feels like a chore to even do. Plus, most creepy guys I actually encounter in real life tend to look normal so I don't think the hygiene thing is the issue.
    I'm sorry if this comment was at all rude, it was not the intention. I actually really love this channel, I've been following it for a few years when I was trying to improve my own social cues or understanding of people's actions that I never got to experience.
    However, I don't think it's ideal to call anyone a creep if they share these "signs" without mentioning that you should have a conversation with the individual to establish basic boundaries. Painting a bad image on a (basically) clueless person is likely going to make them be more clingy or more persistent if they, again, don't know it's creepy.
    So again, my only issue with this video is how it targets people who are having issues social cues (as you said) or have a crush on you + not mentioning to set boundaries + not mentioning signs on if you meet REAL creeps (aside from feeling uncomfortable) + Not having a clear reason on why someone should avoid them or acknowledge their appearance/ behavior with the label of "creep"

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  2 роки тому +9

      Non taken. Thanks for the response. You're absolutely correct, that's why you need to talk to them, trust your gut, and see if this person is doing something that you are uncomfortable with. At the end of the day, they can do whatever they want, but if someone doesn't like someone or something, they can distance themselves. Not saying that this is for everyone.

    • @bryanmccallum4614
      @bryanmccallum4614 2 роки тому +7

      It means everyone has a different opinion. I admit I do feel creepy sometimes, I was raised differently!

    • @anishpaunikar6234
      @anishpaunikar6234 2 роки тому +6

      I completely agree with you, these people just don't have the social skills to attract others

    • @halo9lady
      @halo9lady 6 місяців тому +2

      All creeps have a crush. If they didn’t crush on you, they wouldn’t creep on you.

    • @DimMak74
      @DimMak74 4 місяці тому

      ​@@halo9lady That's weird........

  • @southpark7178
    @southpark7178 2 роки тому +30

    They stare too intensely,they have a grimmy appearence,they get too close,there comments are inpropriant,they show up uninvited,they never leave,they are too eager,they make you uncomfortable.

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  2 роки тому +4

      :)

    • @allclassallthetime4739
      @allclassallthetime4739 Рік тому +3

      just sounds like someone when it all boils down is a desire or yearning, in effect a conscious definite progressive plan and action to make contact and lacking the means of approaching one individual and continually and increasingly trying to make it happen. the problem is that it doesn't work that way and if one wants to meet people or at least not feel like a jerk, then be pleasant to everbody then secondly, if an encounter doesn't feel quite right, not to go out of their way.

  • @Falon_2004
    @Falon_2004 Рік тому +16

    I barley met a creep guy this year. This year was my freshman year in college. Dude’s name was Isreal and he always kept trying to hug me and try to talk to me about sexual topics and it was impossible to leave him😳😳

  • @InappropriateShorts
    @InappropriateShorts Рік тому +12

    Is it creepy if you smell the seat after someone gets up?

  • @Channel8-f8m
    @Channel8-f8m 10 місяців тому +60

    A lot of what your describing is people on the spectrum. Doesn't mean they're creepy.

    • @MXMLLN
      @MXMLLN 8 місяців тому +6

      That's why everyone has to wear a label. When things aren't going well on a date, I use the Asperger's card

    • @MXMLLN
      @MXMLLN 8 місяців тому +4

      On the other hand, if the video was titled and framed, "How to not come off creepy", it would be perfectly harmless

    • @Bluemoonjellyfishh
      @Bluemoonjellyfishh 7 місяців тому +4

      Or ptsd/generalized anxiety disorder

    • @halo9lady
      @halo9lady 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Bluemoonjellyfishhnot even close.

    • @Bluemoonjellyfishh
      @Bluemoonjellyfishh 6 місяців тому +1

      @@halo9lady You are misinformed… I’ve been studying psychology for over 15 years. Mental illness manifests in differently depending upon the individual. I kindly ask you to do some research before you post opinions that hold no credibility. I’m talking statistical facts, you are out of your depth clearly.

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 2 роки тому +25

    I just have poor taste, I feel uncomfortable around large groups of people.

  • @Key_Di19
    @Key_Di19 Рік тому +12

    Number 9, which subconsciously unites all the previous 8 numbers: POOR LOOKS/GENETICS.

  • @priscalovable44
    @priscalovable44 7 місяців тому +12

    This world is so corrupt Big Big groups of people get together and target vulnerable people and disabled people

    • @Chris-uo5it
      @Chris-uo5it 6 місяців тому

      Thankyou, apparently this ignorant bh has never heard of Autism!

    • @arians3713
      @arians3713 6 місяців тому +1

      The worst part is we just have to let them do as they feel. No matter how the vulnerable person may feel

  • @okzoomer5728
    @okzoomer5728 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm autistic and I've done all of these things before out of awkwardness, except for saying creepy things. I think that's a class of its own.

  • @Unknown-dh3ei
    @Unknown-dh3ei 2 роки тому +10

    Me personally almost everyone call me a creep because i don't join conversations and likes being alone literally.

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  2 роки тому +3

      That's not a creep. I like being alone too. :)

  • @mustasheolll2020
    @mustasheolll2020 11 місяців тому +7

    I’m a creep, I hate it it makes me feel like a bad person.

    • @_Dark222Angel_
      @_Dark222Angel_ 8 місяців тому

      no youre not shut up

    • @lovelymarcellia5462
      @lovelymarcellia5462 25 днів тому

      Don't label yourself that. You might just be socially awkward. We're human. We are all weird at times.

  • @fernandomescalito5307
    @fernandomescalito5307 Рік тому +19

    If the person was attractive he would be considered cute😂. It's the halo effect.

  • @fernandooliveira3432
    @fernandooliveira3432 Рік тому +25

    So basically a creep is someone who's trying to fit in, in the wrong way.

    • @Uselesswmv
      @Uselesswmv Рік тому +18

      a creep is someone who is trying to fit in but isn't good looking enough

    • @fernandooliveira3432
      @fernandooliveira3432 Рік тому +4

      @@Uselesswmv Well that's just prejudice..

    • @jadensmith900
      @jadensmith900 Рік тому +6

      @@fernandooliveira3432 makes a lot of sense, when a creepy guy who's attractive has all those traits women tend to overlook them and say "he is just shy" lol

    • @fernandooliveira3432
      @fernandooliveira3432 Рік тому +5

      @@jadensmith900 double standards

    • @X-rayAnon
      @X-rayAnon Рік тому +4

      ​@@Uselesswmvexactly

  • @AngelGuzman-f9c
    @AngelGuzman-f9c 4 місяці тому +3

    I got told straight up I give off a rapist vibe… people can be so cruel and rude like I’m sorry I don’t look like a million dollars but I’d never harm a fly people just suck

  • @prilen1
    @prilen1 2 роки тому +17

    Is this a way to socially exclude people from a set social group that you don’t like?

  • @happysolitudetv
    @happysolitudetv 2 роки тому +16

    Karen is that you

  • @jibib.prasad426
    @jibib.prasad426 Рік тому +4

    I don’t agree with the second point though… that a creep would look unkempt.. nope! I have been creeped out by neat-looking guys with ironed clothes and sleek hair. A businessman, a teacher… my experience is that you cannot tell who the wolf is, especially in an unexpected scenario where supposedly “decent” people meet!!

  • @randyg22152
    @randyg22152 5 місяців тому +3

    First of all, the word “creep” was never defined in the video, nor was it ever explained why being labeled a “creep” made a person undesirable or unsafe to be around in first place. There was some oblique allusion to a creep maybe being some kind of “stalker” in some rare instances (and obviously no one likes a stalker), but the video also makes it clear that most “creeps” are NOT stalkers, and not all stalkers are “creeps”. So, what is a creep, then, and why is having someone who others call a “creep” as a friend somehow bad for you? Are you afraid to associate with unpopular people?Apparently a “creep” is just any eccentric person that you think is uncool or unpopular, and therefore it is OK for you to slander, bully, or exclude him/her from social activities just because you feel like they are not cool enough for you.
    I understand that no one has any obligation to socially associate with anyone that they do not want to, and that sometimes you will not be compatible, or comfortable, with everyone that you meet, as you will probably have nothing in common with certain types of people, but slandering people by calling them a “creep” just because you find them to be a bore is immature and uncalled for. One person’s creepy weirdo (because he/she has unusual and boring hobbies) might be another person’s best pal. Just because you don’t like playing D&D on the weekends, and you don’t get the inside jokes and references, doesn’t mean that this person is evil or something because you don’t get them. Like I said, the video never really said what a “creep” was, or what made a “creep” unsafe to be around, other than to give some vague indication that a creep was just anyone who made you feel “uncomfortable” somehow, which sounds like the video is trying to justify being prejudiced against eccentric people.
    Second of all, many of the things that the video describes as making a person a “creep” sounds more like symptoms of autism, as other people have mentioned in the comments already. Sounds like this video is just trying to shame people who have mental disabilities by labeling them as “creeps”. This sounds like just a justification for prejudice, rather than an attempt to keep people safe. The discussion in this video is too vague, and sadly lacks any nuance, to actually be useful.

  • @okzoomer5728
    @okzoomer5728 2 місяці тому +1

    I don't like the last one because discrimination and bias can be the root of somebody's discomfort. As an autistic person I've been on the recipient end of this shallow behavior of neurotypicals who won't bother to ask why I might behave a certain way and take things in an incorrect and unfair interpretation. People will demonize people like us for the smallest things because they can't communicate.

  • @discord_and_entropy
    @discord_and_entropy Рік тому +5

    goddamn. So this is why people avoid me.
    I'm am extremely excitable, especially at the prospect of social interaction which is obviously because I don't get a lot and am uncultured, I'm questioning grooming conventions(c'mon hear me out, hear me out don't just do something because everyone else does), I love literally anything dark or niche.
    I've been working on the social side by trying to make sure any stranger I talk to has the choice to leave at any time, and always having some excuse for why I'm talking to them.
    But yeah, people often tell me I'm weird and seem uncomfortable around me. Actually, every single person I've ever known to any level at all says I'm weird, except the drug addicts and my friend who's 69 and grew up in an actual insane asylum.
    I do have a question though. Are these warning signs the things that people inherently don't like, or is it because they're afraid it means something else?
    What do you guys think I should do, and is there a reason I should do it besides that other people want me to and they'll like me for it?

    • @justus7181
      @justus7181 Рік тому +3

      it means you maybe dealing with jerks and creeps, like this person that made the video.
      if you're genuine to who you are, you actually care to be respectful to people you've never known, it means you find joy in life.

    • @puglif3708
      @puglif3708 10 місяців тому +3

      man you're either in the wrong place , you're unlucky or you're talking to the wrong people

  • @justus7181
    @justus7181 Рік тому +7

    the announcer sounds like a creep

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  Рік тому +1

      Yeah

    • @justus7181
      @justus7181 Рік тому +5

      @@TrueMedallion your whole video is filled with examples exclusively filled with hate towards men, misandry, you keep playing women in the victim role, making this look like men are the problem and reserved for this designation.

    • @haydenstout2347
      @haydenstout2347 Рік тому

      @@justus7181no

    • @Chris-uo5it
      @Chris-uo5it 6 місяців тому

      Yeah, she probably does shit that's ten times worse!

    • @Kylebeard0720
      @Kylebeard0720 4 місяці тому

      @@TrueMedallionUnattractive = creepy

  • @oliviadonaldson3826
    @oliviadonaldson3826 Рік тому +4

    So having not been able to socialize in my youth at 20 when I had some freedom I tried to make friends and I get overly excited when they talk to me bc I feel important to people and they take interest and tell me they accept who I am which is rare where I live so I try to be myself around them cause they convince me they care and I'm a creep for wanting to hang out with them in social places nowhere private or I stick up for them?

    • @truth6186
      @truth6186 7 місяців тому

      This exact thing happened to me multiple times in my life and it's honestly deeply affected me. Everytime I try to make new friends I never get to know them on a personal level because I feel like a creep. I subconsciously isolate myself from people because I believe I'm a creep. All I did was try to hangout with people who told me they care and that they're my friends when behind my back they talked about me. I started believing maybe I am the problem and I still do. I just don't know how to fix the problem. I don't know what normal is because I've never had friends that fit the norm. I think that I'm a good person but I also think I'm a creep because everyone for one reason or another thinks I'm creepy. I honestly feel like I'm not the same as other humans and deep friendships or friend groups just aren't meant for me. It's more comfortable to just be alone and be who I want to and try to forget all the people who dislike me than to keep making new friends for it to end the same. I don't understand why it's weird to be excited about hanging out with people or wanting to know someone on a more personal level when they're the ones saying they like you and care about you. Wanting friends doesn't make you a stalker

  • @isaiahsturgis5037
    @isaiahsturgis5037 10 днів тому

    I have adhd and when I was in middle school, I’ll I’ve wanted was to be accepted and loved by my peers, so I showed up uninvited at times, and sometimes, people who have adhd have sensitivity towards rejection. I didn’t mean to make people feel uncomfortable or annoy them, but I don’t like feeling like an outcast that no one cares about.

  • @jennyaskswhy
    @jennyaskswhy Рік тому +2

    You definitely want to avoid people like this. Stay on the light side of life.

  • @TheRealVincentValentine
    @TheRealVincentValentine 2 роки тому +4

    This is the weres my hug at type of guy 😂😂

  • @systemsouth
    @systemsouth 2 роки тому +3

    Out of all the videos I have watched this is up there as the most toxic and unkind there is. Shameful nastiness!

  • @catwalkalex
    @catwalkalex 2 роки тому +10

    Thank you. I ve just confirmed what I suspected of a certain guy. Thanks!

  • @TinnyEngineer-rb7ud
    @TinnyEngineer-rb7ud 7 місяців тому +1

    why im watchin this vid is cuz if you were a man and you were to just say 1 simple simple word like "hi" even online some female would respond with "creep" or along those lines,its annoying thats why im watchin this vid to see WHY they think ALL men are a creep(im saying SOME women not all)i literally walked up to someone once with a roblox character in a roblox game and all i said was "hi" after i joined bro just called me a "creep" without thinking thats what i mean.(no one cares what im doing tho so dont comment "i didnt ask" cuz i already know.)

  • @ChristinaRogers-t8s
    @ChristinaRogers-t8s 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m dealing with a situation where I’m currently in a situation where I’m in a domestic violence shelter and and there was this janitor that was knocking on my door unit when he wasn’t supposed then I told my case manager then he randomly went past and smiled at me I was already having anxiety attacks and shaking I moved back other stuff I witness is he’s always there in areas in the building where I’m at and I run he would follow me and then there was a fire drill and he gave me a mean look and one of my roommate friends said he was staring at me and I was shaking I wasn’t aware but the part when he followed me to the front desk when I ran I didn’t know he was following me but but until I had turned around I ran them I came back to the desk and said to the lady why was the janitor behind me she said he was wondering where I was going does anybody have a answer to this there are going to investigate and check the cameras but still also the janitor looks like he’s in his 30s or 40,s I’m 24 years old height 5,3

  • @airgunacademy6764
    @airgunacademy6764 Рік тому

    if a friend asking too many things, is he/she a creep?

  • @allclassallthetime4739
    @allclassallthetime4739 Рік тому

    i'm a man and straight but i came here because i've seen a guy in my apartment complex in the hallway and maybe i'm overthinking it but he was shirtless. if this guy was not in shape then i'd have not given it a second thought but this guy was 8 stone then i got to thinking is this guy prancing around hoping to get one of the lady tenants attention? rather than feeling grossed out i was more pitying on someone who'd behave that way. i'll just have to keep an eye out.

  • @Willow-fk4kp
    @Willow-fk4kp 9 місяців тому

    I met someone on Roblox then we went to snap and we text about everything she seems nice and she’s “the same age as me” but on her “b day” I said happy birthday” and she said yeah I’m so exited to be 14 but she told me she was 14 before… help

  • @gabrielguzman6018
    @gabrielguzman6018 2 роки тому

    How do you fix #8?

  • @MovieFan34
    @MovieFan34 2 роки тому +1

    I don’t know if there is a video on the channel already made but do you think it’s a good subject talking about Borderline behavior.

    • @TrueMedallion
      @TrueMedallion  2 роки тому

      Haven’t made a video on that yet, but I’ll make a note of it.

  • @williamstafford8324
    @williamstafford8324 9 місяців тому +1

    Should I be creep that every wants me to be I'm just kind an selfless but I'm mentally impaired by motor skills general body language q's an thought process is delayed I just want to know should I be what thay want me to be or just be me I don't care what you pick I just want to know

  • @nobilityjudah5303
    @nobilityjudah5303 2 місяці тому

    Yes, his name is Joshua Oud

  • @ksshe3694
    @ksshe3694 2 роки тому +2

    The worst part for me anywsy. The person is way creepy, saying crap that makes no sense and all round negative vibe. People are saying to their face or walk away litterly saying what a CREEP. What does the CREEP DO thinks their impressing or did something DON'T HEAR THAT CREEP ........CREEP JUST WALK AROUND THINKING THEIR FUNNY NO ASHOLES YOUR A CREEPY. HOW DON'T THESE PEOPLE NOT HEAR THEIR REALLY VERY CREEPY. IDK. HOW DON'T THEY GET IT. SHRUGGING. CREEPY!

    • @fernandooliveira3432
      @fernandooliveira3432 Рік тому +1

      Creeps are protected by the first amendment, they can utter things that makes you feel uncomfortable, but at the end of the day, as long as it is not a threat, creeps are entitled to freedom of speech that all citizens have.

    • @haydenstout2347
      @haydenstout2347 Рік тому +1

      What

    • @fernandooliveira3432
      @fernandooliveira3432 Рік тому +1

      @@haydenstout2347 Keep crying

    • @haydenstout2347
      @haydenstout2347 Рік тому +1

      @@fernandooliveira3432 like why are you telling me to keep crying I simply didn’t understand what the creator of this comment was talking about I didn’t mean to be rude I didn’t mean to be harmful I just wanted the person to clarify what they mean in a way that makes sense.I’m not going to stop until you respond. I have tons of patience, I think about what you said to me every day.

    • @haydenstout2347
      @haydenstout2347 Рік тому +1

      @@fernandooliveira3432 I still can’t decipher what this comment means everything is spelt wrong, and it doesn’t make sense, since you understood can you help me understand?

  • @blep5271
    @blep5271 Рік тому

    I wanna Share my story. I have a male friend. We are talked each other face to face. He wants my Facebook account then I give him. But when we talk in online his massage was creepy. His massage is so uncomfortable for me. That is why I stopped talk with him in online. I'm so scared.

    • @_Dark222Angel_
      @_Dark222Angel_ 8 місяців тому

      yep you got yourself a bonofide creep

    • @Chris-uo5it
      @Chris-uo5it 6 місяців тому

      You must have failed English and spelling!

  • @JamesSilcox-n5e
    @JamesSilcox-n5e 4 місяці тому

    What a world we live in

  • @Randomswordfighter
    @Randomswordfighter Місяць тому

    Ma’am I’m socially anxious

  • @LostAlienThe
    @LostAlienThe 9 місяців тому

    these could also overlap with people who.jave autism or Adhd , soci anxiety or depression. i have Adhd and anxiety. I was never popular and was at times labelled a creep. Since I wasnt popular I never had the privelage of learning basjc conversational things. Now sImce ive become more physically atttactive people want to communicate with me so im learning how to have a good conversatiOn.

  • @petercdowney
    @petercdowney 2 місяці тому

    Girls think I'm a creep because I'm a Rammstein fan.

  • @Informant_is_back
    @Informant_is_back 2 місяці тому

    Improve your self-awareness and admit that creep = individual you deem sexually undesirable.

  • @mojojoji5493
    @mojojoji5493 4 місяці тому

    I have a creepy women coworker

  • @OldSchoolL4D-zb2kt
    @OldSchoolL4D-zb2kt 4 місяці тому

    No such thing as a creep. You can only know by personally knowing them and why. Typically who judge others are creep and shallow themselves. The part saying making others uncomfortable that would make a creep? In chat case most people are creeps. Since most people make me uncomfortable. But look at me call me creep. People fail to realize. People that make others uncomfortable is because they are uncomfortable themselves. Thats why. So naturally you got it opposite. Funny people hang out with who are actually creeps. I mean who hurt people and are narcisstic. But who appear creep from firet glence are genuine and kind. People need to educate themselves on psychology and stop being shallow and blind. Shallow people who got it easy talk like she does. Talk about uncomfortable. Im always uncomfortable. But have to hide it to not receive more abuse. Since I'm seen as bad guy for being in safe mode. Defense mechanism. Fight flight response. If its a girl its understood but if a guy who been through hell its ok treat him like he isn't even human. Reflect on yourself. I see it all the time. People like who are horrible behind their backs. But someone who genuine but traumatized with lots stress and anxiety seen as bad and treated poorly without thinking. If you knew you damage you cause you know you no different from who belongs in prison. So its typically calling other creeps is labeling yourself without putting yourself in other shoes. Lot people ended up dead and worse that lived half what i did and many others. I actually i see i said too much which might be too confusing.
    Only what i meant to say is uncomfortable part I'm always feel uncomfortable and have to fight it. Since I'm the evil one. But others understood. Lot of times we call people uncomfortable but they uncomfortable themselves. Thats why they make us uncomfortable.

  • @nothing-b2n
    @nothing-b2n 2 місяці тому

    Time to go

  • @nothing-b2n
    @nothing-b2n 2 місяці тому

    Just ask me

  • @radheshyamnandi3792
    @radheshyamnandi3792 2 місяці тому

    They're not so handsome 🤡🤡

  • @enekoanimegod3320
    @enekoanimegod3320 6 місяців тому

    i'm watching it becz i wanna know if im creep

  • @khabibthebear8555
    @khabibthebear8555 Рік тому

    That was meeee😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @thomasscott199
    @thomasscott199 4 місяці тому

    If you are a man under 6'2 and 7/10 in looks and a bit nervous when shooting your shot that is classed as creepy.
    If you are extremely tall and handsome you can be as forward and as inapropiate as you like and that is concidered flirty in the modern womans handbook.

  • @CharlieMurphy-sk3jc
    @CharlieMurphy-sk3jc 7 місяців тому

    I'm. A ceep!!!

  • @habiew8506
    @habiew8506 2 роки тому +2

    Babys

  • @msmith5801
    @msmith5801 6 місяців тому

    Smh and some of them think it's normal