Why we compare ourselves to others and how it prevents our own happiness | Spiritual Sunday's
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Hey guys,
Today I am discussing something that we are probably all guilty of doing now and again.. social comparison. This is something I feel I have done for virtually my entire life, but as part of my self love journey I came to realise that it had to stop. True fulfillment comes form within. When did you last find yourself comparing your life to somebody else's?
Thank you for watching,
Claire x
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Brilliant video thank you keep up the good work xx🦋🦋
Thank you very much 💗xx
Thx for a great video sumtimes we just need a reminder that we all got different lives and experiences in life yes I am doing that not to look at other lives but worry about mine but I just need to change that old habit in my self cheers for the reminder 🌻💐💖
You’re welcome, I’m glad it was helpful 😊 For sure, it’s important to direct our energy inwards and take care of ourself first and foremost 💕🙏🏼 Have a lovely week ☀️
I have compared myself to other people in the past. But not much. I accept myself as I am. as an imperfect human being. My twinflame ♈️♌️😘😇😇is so much like me but he is unique. Thank you Claire, your sweet and refreshing. 💝Happy Easter 💋💋
I am learning to accept myself as I am.. it’s very liberating, and I’m happy to hear you do too 😌 I also feel that when we do this, we attract our twin flame/soulmate/ideal match ❤️ Thank you for supporting my channel 🙏🏼
Your welcome Claire, 💕 its our environment is a contribution what we take from other people is a vision of what we think we want, its an illusion.Its kind of instilled in our culture to also judge that may be a good thing to prevent ourselves from struggle and pain. Our thoughts need to change with acceptance of ourselves and others.
Interesting thoughts. I've always looked at it as we are not better or worse than someone else, we are all just different. I like to remind myself that I'm the first version of me, so I'm going to be the best I can be.
It is really hard not to compare yourself to others. Being a twin, I'm always asked, why are you not the same? Its because we are two different people, so it has always been something that I fight against, as a way of standing out as my own person.
That’s a great way of looking at things.. we are all unique in our own way and so cannot possibly compare ourself to another invidual. It must be so interesting being a twin! I can’t fully understand however I totally see why you would feel that way.. again it comes down to directing our focus inwards rather than looking at what others do or have 🙏🏼💕
You just described me to a tee! I've never been happy being 'me' Me isn't good enough. I'm always trying to model myself on someone else, to the point that I go spending money, to look like them and have the stuff they do. I'm far to materialistic and unconfident. Why can't I be happy just being me and? :(
Oh bless you, I can understand how you feel. It’s okay to model ourself on other people we aspire to sometimes, but it’s also great to find our own way of doing things. Perhaps you have been listening to other people’s opinions too much, rather than our own inner voice.. start to silence the thoughts (which most likely do not belong to you), and eventually your own intuition will shine through 💫
Thanks for sharing
No worries!
How to let go of beliefs & thoughts when the whole life is build upon them?
By replacing them with new thoughts and beliefs which will serve us better 😌🙏🏼