I converted last year after finding out I had Jewish heritage (Spain). I agree it’s a never ending journey but it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made in life.
I found out I have Jewish heritage too, from Italy and Spain. I wanted to convert way before that, but finding that out gave me the confidence and moving by accident into a Jewish neighborhood solidified my desire. 😊❤ Somehow almost all my friends are Jewish, it just ended up that way. 😊
After watching this, I'm in tears! Throughout my life, I've interacted with Jewish people, and made a lot of Jewish friends when I lived in the Bay Area. There's this curiosity within now that doesn't feel pressured. It just feels right. I attended the ADL conference in New York for professional development at work. I'm reading books by Jewish authors. I have "Living a Jewish Life" by Anita Diamant right in front of me, that I haven't finished reading. Two weeks ago, one of my neighbors donated the Israeli cookbook Zahav that was in the lobby of my apartment. One early morning on my way out, I noticed it--and picked it up. I belong to a Jewish affinity group at my job--these are all the signs. I just know that this will be an interesting journey ahead and looking forward to what awaits! Thank you Marion and Rabbi Tarlan Rabizadeh for this helpful video!!
Regarding rabbis turning converts away three times: my Reconstructionist rabbi explained to me that's not a very common practice anymore (although some branches of Judaism might still practice it). However, he did explain to me upon our first meeting that he would not "chase me down" or take the lead on my conversion meetings. He explained it was nothing personal and to not take it to mean he doesn't want me to convert, but that he wants me to make the effort to pursue Judaism, as it's a deeply personal decision and he doesn't want to be responsible for pressuring me in anyway. He said he would be more than happy to support my conversion, but that I had to be the one to make the initiative for myself. I've also said it before, but thank you, Marion for your videos! They were one of the many things to help me confirm that Judaism is the right choice for me and got me started on my own Jewish journey.
My rabbi just made himself REALLY hard to get ahold of until he was sure I was sincere. And honestly, I'm really thankful for that and other variations, I think it's basically informed consent in matters of spirituality, and that just makes so much sense.
I would recommend AJU’s course! I’m about 4-5 classes from the end of mine and it’s been excellent. There’s quite a lot of reading/studying and a weekly online class for a few hours and all the Rabbis that are instructors have been great to learn from. I’m on my path to hopeful conversion and am happy that this is just the beginning of my journey. Thanks Marion, I love tuning in to all of your videos (even though I’m not a mommy).
Marion, thank you for the bridge you are! You are a wonderful asset to UA-cam and to many families and mothers!! You’ve been such a wonderful help to us in my conversion and are a great example of a woman, mother and Jewish light to the world. I’m so thankful for your content!!
Great video! I went through the process 12 years ago. I am now in an Adult B'nei Mitzvah class. I also went to Israel. It is a continual process even after you convert to build a true Jewish identity.
Anyone pulled to spirituality right now, no matter the denomination is one step closer to healing the earth. Currently dark energies seem to be running rampant, like in the movie Ghost Busters where negativity oozes from the sewer. Light, prayer, gratefulness, kindness and love will win. Thank you for you efforts on helping others.
As an Atheist I find the Jewish faith so interesting and just as of this past November with the permission of the Rabbi I attended synagogue for the first time in my life, I recently decided to no longer attend due to what I could only best describe as imposter syndrome. I do still however enjoy watching sessions when possible online and watch videos of this nature on both the experience and educating myself on Judaism. Otherwise I wish you all the best and love from Cape Town, South Africa
Thank you so much this was great! I just converted last August of 2022. I'm so humbled, thankful and proud to be apart. This just encouraged me all over again! ❤
I have been following the Torah for four years now after being exposed to it in 2020 through a TV ministry program. It has changed my life to find the truth and my love for Israel has deepened over the years. I am ready to convert to Conservative Judaism.❤😊
I think it’s important for the viewers to note that not all conversions are recognized as “kosher.” For example there have been many people who converted through the Reform or Conservative movements and then found out that their conversions were not recognized by Orthodox Jews. Although an Orthodox conversion is very thorough and can take years of intense study and commitment, it is the only conversion that is recognized by all Jews.
I think it's equally important to state, the rabbinate within the State of Israel, do not recognize all or even most Orthodox conversions performed by Orthodox rabbis not on their list of approved rabbis. There are only about 30 approved rabbis within the US. This is vital to remember for those seeking to make Aliyah as converts. Also if the Orthodox rabbi who performed the conversion is ever scandalized, the conversions he performed could be ruled invalid by the rabbinate. Convert in the most meaningful manner that fits you. Own your Judaism, STUDY& LEARN, know there are those who possibly may view you as a non Jew, even if you did convert Orthodox.
@@MargaritaSage That would be the same as some Christian denominations not accepting members of other denominations as being truly Christian. I am a Jew and will always be a Jew except that I'm a Jew by birth and Pantheist by choice.
@@josephonwhidbey I hear ya. I am only sharing what I have come across in my efforts. Jews by choice, should be aware of the situation fully. To say only Orthodox conversions are recognized as kosher, is a bit misleading. It's not the whole truth, imo
@@MargaritaSage Well my view is that no matter which denomination you choose,there will always be someone who won't accept you. So just follow your heart. It nevertheless important to know if you are considering aliyah etc.
Kind of sounds to me, like probably one of the factors that created reform Judaism, I mean I don’t know if you can name me one religion that doesn’t have sex that disagree with the way the other part does it so I mean, potato potato, dude
This is so interesting even for people that are Jewish but didn’t have the privilege to grow up in a country that we wore allowed to practice. I love all your videos because you explain things that I never knew about. Thank you so much.
Thank you for this video. My grandfather was Jewish. I was not raised Jewish but I have such strong emotional connections to Judiasm that I am interested in formal conversion but I am also “exploring my options” I guess. To hear the Rabbi say “in diversity we thrive” literally brought tears to my eyes. I’m not sure if I will take the next step in the process but I want to.
This was a very well done presentation. Todah Rabah! My wife had one more step after the Mikvah. At the following Erev Shabbat we were called up and she held the Torah and made the declaration based on Ruth's words.
This is amazing, thank you so much. I'm near DC, and my husband and I have been talking about converting. His maternal grandfather was Jewish (Reform), and I grew up with Jewish (Conservative) extended/chosen family, so it's always been a presence in our lives. We're seeking more truth and authenticity in our lives. We were going attend an open community Seder last week, but then we got covid 🤦♀️
What a fantastic video. Many thanks to you, Rabbi. I have been seriously considering conversion, but have been hesitant due to some pretty scary stories on the internet. This is amazing and I'm truly excited to take this course. Thank you doesn't begin to express my true appreciation. Many blessing!
And those stories are likely to be true. Your personal experience, good, bad, or otherwise, will be tied in with the dynamics of the community which you join.
Finding a welcoming congregation is key to a great conversation experience, imo. If there's an Intro to Judaism course in your area, chances are it's taught by multiple rabbis. If you jive well with one (or more!) you can check out their congregation for a shabbat service and see how you feel about it. Alternatively, many congregations now offer live-streamed services, if you're not ready for people quite yet. It's like shul shopping without pressure! Mazel tov and best of luck on your journey!
@MachaMongRuad, thank you for your suggestions and support. I will check into my options and choose one. My hubby has cancer, and I'm a bit tome limited, so I will probably be attending an online shul for now. I'm grateful for responses! Shalom.
I watched another UA-cam video where she explained she had two conversions , first conservative and later Orthodox. For her conservative conversion, I was surprised to learn that she was not required to keep kosher or keep Shabbat. In her Orthodox conversion she had to accept keeping all the rules.
That’s because an orthodox conversion requires adhering to Torah law and Shabbat and kosher are very important “mitzvot” commandments that are stated in the written Torah. The written Torah and the oral Torah (the Mishnah, Talmud and commentaries) were given to the Jewish people by G-d, our Creator, through Moses on Mount Sinai.
I am not jewish, I am LDS but I do like to learn about other religions because people sometimes think its complicated to become LDS. The process of how you convert to other religions are interesting. Since I think it sheds a light on the religion itself.
What a fantastic woman. At 05:24 when I can't sleep she made me smile, giggle and the world is better because she's in it. Sending her a virtual hug, apparently my hugs are good. I missed her name sorry.
When I aproached communities in Brazil (I am Brazilian) all the replies I got was that one can only convert in Israel or USA or I was simply ignored. *Now I'm gonna watch the video.
@@FlowerPowerNZ I'm from Rio (second biggest city in Brazil) and was the place where I tried harder to connect, I tried to reach one community in São Paulo (biggest city) and the answer I got was a negative telling me that is not possible to convert in Brazil. When the community from São Paulo gave me an answer so similar to others I got from Rio (that a person can only convert in Israel or USA) I think I was blue and lost.
@@yazziefernab There are a bunch of other countries as well. It sounds like one of those situations where the community is neither big nor vibrant so they don't have to do anything. But a forthright question is - do you really want to join a religion which is on the decline? Judaism does not have a monopoly on these ideas and its likely many were influenced from Egyptian occultism and Zoroastrianism. Marion presents a friendly picture but she is in the USA which is one of the Jewish hotbeds in the world. So to that extent what you were told still has some validity.
And fully disclose that the conversion described here will not be accepted by all congregations and certainly not accepted in Israel for right of return etc.
Hello, i am very interested regarding the American Jewish University online so i can start the process. I've live being Jewish but i just need to get converted. I would appreciate if you can give me the link of the University and Rabbi's contact. Thanks in advance
Conversion is something I'm very interested in and want to learn more about. Online was mentioned in the video for the course but when I went to fill out for an information pack it only let's you fill in a US address 😔 and I have no Jewish connections geographically close to me
Welcome aboard if this is your desire. A good first step is to approach a local community and attend some events as a visitor. If you decide to proceed you will need to do this 'conversion' thing with them.
Marion, I wish that I could convert. I will be embedded in a non Jewish community. I celebrate Jewish holidays. I feel Jewish. Continue your online service to people like me.
@Joseph Kavanagh - Hello. I’m writing because your comment confuses me. _”I _*_wish_*_ that I could convert.”_ and _”I will be embedded in a non Jewish community”_ are the quotes that stood out to me. First, there is absolutely _no_ harm in being in a non Jewish community, you can live a life as a righteous Gentile. 😊 Please don’t feel the need to convert to something that isn’t ringing true to you on a spiritual level. Live the life you want to live! 😊 I can assure you that we will still accept you as a Gentile! Live your truth, friend. Edit: Formatting
When Rabbi Tarlan Rabizadeh answered that she went through the Reform process I was confused. I thought she was saying that she went through the reform conversion process. As a Persian, did she convert from Islam to Judaism? But perhaps she was born Jewish and did not convert. Maybe she only means that she became a Reform rabbi, not a reform convert.
The lot for Azazel, the black stone, contrary to all the laws of chance, came up 40 times in a row from 30 to 70 AD! This was considered a dire event and signified something had fundamentally changed in this Yom Kippur ritual.
I am ready to convert after 2 years of finding Judaism thanks to someone very special that taught me about H'. I live in Brooklyn,NY. I would like to know if anyone knows of a Rabbi I could go to for conversion? Thanks!!!
I really strong desire to convert, unfortunately the city I'm from only has a small othodox community and synagogue. I've contacted them and asked but they've said I'd need to move e to a city woth a larger Jewish community. Due to care responsibilities and having joint custody of my child I can't relocate at this time. I think the problem is, the city where I live is a big city but the Jewish community is spread out and so there isn't a big enough community to support a conversion.
I am very curious, I had noticed that reform converts then turn to convert into orthodox converts but I had never seen orthodox converts trying to convert into Reform Judaism. And my second question is to convert into Reform Judaism does an adult still got get a circumcision? Cause as an adult circumsicion is a very invasive intervention. Thank you for your time🙏
A reform convert may seek to convert Orthodox for a variety of reasons including being considered Jewish in very Orthodox communities or due to a personal desire to go deeper into Judaism and Jewish learning. An Orthodox Jew does not need to convert to reform if they decide to join a Reform synagogue since they are simply taking a more liberal approach to Judaism. It's all the same religion just different levels of observance. Someone may choose to convert Orthodox for the learning and then live a more reform life.
I'm from Fiji 🇫🇯 how can I get excess to the program? I came out of Christianity 25 years ago and been studying the Bible through watching Rabbi Tovia Singer and Rabbi Weiss enlightening videos on UA-cam, now I think I am a Noahide, a Gentile, Judaism is my faith. Should I convert or should I remain being a Noahide ?
If you have to ask the question, you should definitely continue being a Noahide. There's nothing wrong with that - you can be a blessing to many others!
You could contact a local congregation to inquire about a class. However, the AJU program class is online, and you could connect with a local Rabbi to complete your conversion. HTH. ✡♥
I don't understand what motivation people would have for converting. One would think keeping the 7 Noahide laws would be so much easier than everything an observant Jew has to do.
Hello, thank you for this video 🙏🏻 ı have some questions... If there is no Synagogue where we are, how can we convert to Judaism online? Will we be accepted when we study online and convert to Judaism? Will Israel or Jewish organizations and society accept us? Please inform us and if we can convert to Judaism online, through which institution should we convert? Thanks 🙏🏻
Nice video. Are we talking from a Reform or Orthodox perspective? There are great resources from the Israeli government too. And what about learning Hebrew? Any advice appreciated. Is this aimed at Americans mostly, with the mentions of L. A., or could you perhaps kindly point us toward resources for international audiences and those who specifically seek Orthodox conversion and some concersion resources from Israel? Could we also gain some insights about making Alia please? Many thanks
What if you can't swim or breath under water? ( For the Mikva?).I also use a walker for balance and afraid of slipping. I know most of the blessings in English, do you have to say the blessings in English or Hebrew?
being that conversion is based on arpah, Ruth the moabite & how there mother in law naomi told them 3 times to return to their people after there husbands died, which arpah did but ruth didnt budge,part of the reason for the conversion process taking at least a year is to learn the process and 613 commandments, yes its a verry high bar to meet and if somone is not prepared to accept all of the commandments i dont see how they can become jewish
Are there Torah classes for women who are not Jewish? I have released worldly celebrations (Christmas, Halloween, Easter, etc), and no longer eat unclean meats. I have a hunger for learning Torah, but I live in the mountains of Northeastern Utah and am many hours away from cities like Salt Lake City or Ogden where there are synagogues.
I have heard of classes that accept friends and family of Jews who are interested in learning more about Judaism but not converting. I recommended going online to find one online or possibly in your area.
But the problem is, for your own good, watch out, if you convert improperly you will bring issues to your children later. Should they choose to be chozer btshuva it may be hurtful to them to find out they are not Jewish (it were dealing with the mothers conversion of course)....or even not considering that issue....if they travel/move to various countries that do not recognize invalid conversions they will not be able to marry under their current circumstance. Doesnt pay to do that to your children. Do something SO monumental RIGHT, or better not do it at all.
You bring up important points. However, there is so much disagreement among the Orthodox community that even if one has an Orthodox conversion that is accepted today, no guarantee exists that it will be accepted in twenty years. The policies of the Israeli government change, too.
@@DiorGenealogy not really.... there are mostly certain batei din that are very well respected that geirim come through. There is a reason why geirim are all accepted. If it was constantly under disagreement there would be no accepting of geirim which is not the case.
There are different denominations within Judaism. A traditional conversion would require a circumcision. During the times of the 2nd Temple, many gentiles wanted to become Jewish but stopped because of not wanting to get circumcised. Christianity made it so much easier when they did away with circumcision, dietary laws and Shabbat. Of course, today there is Reform Judaism.
My grandmother was adopted during WWII. My aunts and uncles took a DNA test due to the fact that my grandmother had early onset Alzhiemers age 50. The results were eastern European Jewish. I as the rest of my family were raised Catholic. I'm In my middle 50s and am curious about my Jewish heritage. I would like some clarity on this like am I and my family technically Jewish. Thank you for any information. Additionally my mother now has Alzhiemers.
Question! I want to become Jews how to choose if I want to choose if I want to be reform Jews ur orthodox.? When I become in Jews that I have to choose which one I want to be or it is in general Jews?
I am glad that some jewish leaders are taking this initiative. I have no interest, but I wish more global minority religions do so, because God, or nature loves equality and not exclusivism like nazees did or in current days this one is doing in name of chosen ones.
It depends. Some Conservative and Reform conversions have been accepted for purposes of immigration. The religious courts, however, are run by very Orthodox Rabbis, and they might decide that you are not Jewish; therefore, you would not be permitted to marry in Israel. Or everything that I just wrote could change tomorrow afternoon.
There are two separate definitions at work. The only official Judaism in Israel is Orthodox. If you don't have an Orthodox conversion, you will not be Jewish according to the official rabbis (rabbanut). Therefore, you cannot marry a Jew or be buried in a Jewish cemetery. At the same time, a different definition is being used for purposes of immigration. I know a young man who had a reform conversion, then went on a Birthright trip to Israel, followed by aliyah (immigration) to Israel with assistance from Nefesh b' Nefesh.
The 3 way turnaway has always been funny to me. In the Tanakh i only know of Ruth getting that But numerous examples of tanakh, and non scriptures maccabees, of Egyptians, Gibeonites, Ninevehites, Kennizites, Hittites, Qedarites, and thanks to Solomon, some portions of the Ammonite and Moabite nation, all converting to Judaism, And the John Hyrcanus outside the Tanakh forcing the Edomites to convert to judaism. And some mild evidence of Essenes practicing proselytizing. I've considered converting myself. But conservatively, orthodoxly. Not reform. I tend to be a conservative.
I converted last year after finding out I had Jewish heritage (Spain). I agree it’s a never ending journey but it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made in life.
Wow that's amazing!!
I found out I have Jewish heritage too, from Italy and Spain. I wanted to convert way before that, but finding that out gave me the confidence and moving by accident into a Jewish neighborhood solidified my desire. 😊❤
Somehow almost all my friends are Jewish, it just ended up that way. 😊
After watching this, I'm in tears! Throughout my life, I've interacted with Jewish people, and made a lot of Jewish friends when I lived in the Bay Area. There's this curiosity within now that doesn't feel pressured. It just feels right. I attended the ADL conference in New York for professional development at work. I'm reading books by Jewish authors. I have "Living a Jewish Life" by Anita Diamant right in front of me, that I haven't finished reading. Two weeks ago, one of my neighbors donated the Israeli cookbook Zahav that was in the lobby of my apartment. One early morning on my way out, I noticed it--and picked it up. I belong to a Jewish affinity group at my job--these are all the signs. I just know that this will be an interesting journey ahead and looking forward to what awaits! Thank you Marion and Rabbi Tarlan Rabizadeh for this helpful video!!
Converted two years ago, and forever to go. My heart is full and I am so content.
Love that!
I'm j starting my journey and this made me tear up. the wholeness and peace I've felt in just the first 2 services I've gone to is so powerful
I'm jewish born and raised. You cannot be Jewish if u r not born Jewish
Sorry but truth is truth
@@tamishapiro4022 where does it say that in the Torah?
Whatever........
Regarding rabbis turning converts away three times: my Reconstructionist rabbi explained to me that's not a very common practice anymore (although some branches of Judaism might still practice it). However, he did explain to me upon our first meeting that he would not "chase me down" or take the lead on my conversion meetings. He explained it was nothing personal and to not take it to mean he doesn't want me to convert, but that he wants me to make the effort to pursue Judaism, as it's a deeply personal decision and he doesn't want to be responsible for pressuring me in anyway. He said he would be more than happy to support my conversion, but that I had to be the one to make the initiative for myself.
I've also said it before, but thank you, Marion for your videos! They were one of the many things to help me confirm that Judaism is the right choice for me and got me started on my own Jewish journey.
Thank you for sharing that!!
My rabbi just made himself REALLY hard to get ahold of until he was sure I was sincere. And honestly, I'm really thankful for that and other variations, I think it's basically informed consent in matters of spirituality, and that just makes so much sense.
As someone who is thinking of conversion, thank you so much for this video!
You're so welcome!
I would recommend AJU’s course! I’m about 4-5 classes from the end of mine and it’s been excellent. There’s quite a lot of reading/studying and a weekly online class for a few hours and all the Rabbis that are instructors have been great to learn from. I’m on my path to hopeful conversion and am happy that this is just the beginning of my journey. Thanks Marion, I love tuning in to all of your videos (even though I’m not a mommy).
Aww thank you for sharing!!
@@MyJewishMommyLifehow are you '' iam a Muslim from last year iam interested in jewish religion kindly guide me
Marion, thank you for the bridge you are! You are a wonderful asset to UA-cam and to many families and mothers!! You’ve been such a wonderful help to us in my conversion and are a great example of a woman, mother and Jewish light to the world. I’m so thankful for your content!!
I appreciate your kind words so much, thank you!!
Great video! I went through the process 12 years ago. I am now in an Adult B'nei Mitzvah class. I also went to Israel. It is a continual process even after you convert to build a true Jewish identity.
That's so cool!!!
I attended my first Synagogue for Shabbat. It was such an emotional peaceful moment I was in tears, so thank you for this video.
Anyone pulled to spirituality right now, no matter the denomination is one step closer to healing the earth. Currently dark energies seem to be running rampant, like in the movie Ghost Busters where negativity oozes from the sewer. Light, prayer, gratefulness, kindness and love will win. Thank you for you efforts on helping others.
Definitely feel the pull myself, always looking for more and deeper connection!
Is it true that if you convert conservative you aren’t considered Jewish because you didn’t convert orthodox?
As an Atheist I find the Jewish faith so interesting and just as of this past November with the permission of the Rabbi I attended synagogue for the first time in my life, I recently decided to no longer attend due to what I could only best describe as imposter syndrome. I do still however enjoy watching sessions when possible online and watch videos of this nature on both the experience and educating myself on Judaism. Otherwise I wish you all the best and love from Cape Town, South Africa
Thank you so much this was great! I just converted last August of 2022. I'm so humbled, thankful and proud to be apart. This just encouraged me all over again! ❤
Thank you for sharing, love that!!
I have been following the Torah for four years now after being exposed to it in 2020 through a TV ministry program. It has changed my life to find the truth and my love for Israel has deepened over the years. I am ready to convert to Conservative Judaism.❤😊
Rabbi Tarlan taught the AJU class that I attended. She was a blessing!
I think it’s important for the viewers to note that not all conversions are recognized as “kosher.” For example there have been many people who converted through the Reform or Conservative movements and then found out that their conversions were not recognized by Orthodox Jews. Although an Orthodox conversion is very thorough and can take years of intense study and commitment, it is the only conversion that is recognized by all Jews.
I think it's equally important to state, the rabbinate within the State of Israel, do not recognize all or even most Orthodox conversions performed by Orthodox rabbis not on their list of approved rabbis. There are only about 30 approved rabbis within the US. This is vital to remember for those seeking to make Aliyah as converts. Also if the Orthodox rabbi who performed the conversion is ever scandalized, the conversions he performed could be ruled invalid by the rabbinate. Convert in the most meaningful manner that fits you. Own your Judaism, STUDY& LEARN, know there are those who possibly may view you as a non Jew, even if you did convert Orthodox.
@@MargaritaSage That would be the same as some Christian denominations not accepting members of other denominations as being truly Christian. I am a Jew and will always be a Jew except that I'm a Jew by birth and Pantheist by choice.
@@josephonwhidbey I hear ya. I am only sharing what I have come across in my efforts. Jews by choice, should be aware of the situation fully. To say only Orthodox conversions are recognized as kosher, is a bit misleading. It's not the whole truth, imo
@@MargaritaSage Well my view is that no matter which denomination you choose,there will always be someone who won't accept you. So just follow your heart. It nevertheless important to know if you are considering aliyah etc.
Kind of sounds to me, like probably one of the factors that created reform Judaism, I mean I don’t know if you can name me one religion that doesn’t have sex that disagree with the way the other part does it so I mean, potato potato, dude
❤️ 💙 💜 💖 💗 Converted about 16 years ago! Still learning!
This is so interesting even for people that are Jewish but didn’t have the privilege to grow up in a country that we wore allowed to practice. I love all your videos because you explain things that I never knew about. Thank you so much.
Thank you! And yes that's such a good point.
What a great guest speaker. She sounds so relatable! Please have her again.
Thank you for this video. My grandfather was Jewish. I was not raised Jewish but I have such strong emotional connections to Judiasm that I am interested in formal conversion but I am also “exploring my options” I guess. To hear the Rabbi say “in diversity we thrive” literally brought tears to my eyes. I’m not sure if I will take the next step in the process but I want to.
I am Ex Muslim from Pakistan 🇵🇰 now I am on my way to Judaism ✡️❤
I converted in 2021 and had my beit din and mikvah at AJU. Thank you so very much for sharing this video.
This was a very well done presentation. Todah Rabah! My wife had one more step after the Mikvah. At the following Erev Shabbat we were called up and she held the Torah and made the declaration based on Ruth's words.
That’s wonderful! Mazel tov ❤
This is amazing, thank you so much. I'm near DC, and my husband and I have been talking about converting. His maternal grandfather was Jewish (Reform), and I grew up with Jewish (Conservative) extended/chosen family, so it's always been a presence in our lives. We're seeking more truth and authenticity in our lives. We were going attend an open community Seder last week, but then we got covid 🤦♀️
What a fantastic video. Many thanks to you, Rabbi. I have been seriously considering conversion, but have been hesitant due to some pretty scary stories on the internet. This is amazing and I'm truly excited to take this course. Thank you doesn't begin to express my true appreciation. Many blessing!
And those stories are likely to be true. Your personal experience, good, bad, or otherwise, will be tied in with the dynamics of the community which you join.
, exactly why I was being a scardy cat, lol. I'm not exactly fond of confrontation. 🙀
Finding a welcoming congregation is key to a great conversation experience, imo. If there's an Intro to Judaism course in your area, chances are it's taught by multiple rabbis. If you jive well with one (or more!) you can check out their congregation for a shabbat service and see how you feel about it. Alternatively, many congregations now offer live-streamed services, if you're not ready for people quite yet. It's like shul shopping without pressure! Mazel tov and best of luck on your journey!
@MachaMongRuad, thank you for your suggestions and support. I will check into my options and choose one. My hubby has cancer, and I'm a bit tome limited, so I will probably be attending an online shul for now. I'm grateful for responses! Shalom.
Aww I'm sorry you've heard negative things, i hope this video helped!
Thank you for this, as someone currently seeking meaning and a spiritual home (and Judaism is looking warm and welcoming) this is very helpful.
I watched another UA-cam video where she explained she had two conversions , first conservative and later Orthodox. For her conservative conversion, I was surprised to learn that she was not required to keep kosher or keep Shabbat. In her Orthodox conversion she had to accept keeping all the rules.
That’s because an orthodox conversion requires adhering to Torah law and Shabbat and kosher are very important “mitzvot” commandments that are stated in the written Torah. The written Torah and the oral Torah (the Mishnah, Talmud and commentaries) were given to the Jewish people by G-d, our Creator, through Moses on Mount Sinai.
I am not jewish, I am LDS but I do like to learn about other religions because people sometimes think its complicated to become LDS. The process of how you convert to other religions are interesting. Since I think it sheds a light on the religion itself.
What a lovely, lovely, inspiring and informative talk. Thank you always, Marion!
I’m a black South African 🇿🇦 and would like to convert.🙏
This was so helpful! Thank you so much for sharing this. ❤
What a fantastic woman. At 05:24 when I can't sleep she made me smile, giggle and the world is better because she's in it. Sending her a virtual hug, apparently my hugs are good. I missed her name sorry.
Aww I'm glad to know you enjoyed this one!
Very helpful. Thank you for posting!
Hello, I am a Muslim and I am serious about my question. I want to convert to Judaism, how is that? I live in a Muslim country by the way.
I plan on coverting soon. Sadly closest synagogue is 40 miles away.
I go 65 miles each way to mine...
When I aproached communities in Brazil (I am Brazilian) all the replies I got was that one can only convert in Israel or USA or I was simply ignored. *Now I'm gonna watch the video.
That's not true but what they really mean is they don't want to sponsor people. How many synagogues/communities where you live?
@@FlowerPowerNZ I'm from Rio (second biggest city in Brazil) and was the place where I tried harder to connect, I tried to reach one community in São Paulo (biggest city) and the answer I got was a negative telling me that is not possible to convert in Brazil. When the community from São Paulo gave me an answer so similar to others I got from Rio (that a person can only convert in Israel or USA) I think I was blue and lost.
@@yazziefernab There are a bunch of other countries as well. It sounds like one of those situations where the community is neither big nor vibrant so they don't have to do anything. But a forthright question is - do you really want to join a religion which is on the decline? Judaism does not have a monopoly on these ideas and its likely many were influenced from Egyptian occultism and Zoroastrianism. Marion presents a friendly picture but she is in the USA which is one of the Jewish hotbeds in the world. So to that extent what you were told still has some validity.
I'm so sorry that happened to you!
Im so sorry! Thats horrible
Thank you for this!
I took the Miller program, was really nice.
It would be nice to have a video that explains Orthodox conversion, so non Jewish viewers can understand the difference between this and it.
Love that idea!
And fully disclose that the conversion described here will not be accepted by all congregations and certainly not accepted in Israel for right of return etc.
@@ehaley6838a reform or conservative conversion is valid within the Law of Return
This is actually inaccurate, Israel accepts reform and conservative conversion now, nice try
@@ehaley6838From what I know that law has changed. It could always reverse though. Good point. She does bring it up in another of her videos.
This was great. Thanks to you and the good Rabbi for laying all of it out there!
I signed up! Finally after 38 years I’m following my soul!
Hello, i am very interested regarding the American Jewish University online so i can start the process. I've live being Jewish but i just need to get converted. I would appreciate if you can give me the link of the University and Rabbi's contact. Thanks in advance
What a BLESSING! Thankyou so much for this video, and blessings to both of you! 🙂
Thank you so much 😊 for this live
I'd love to convert from Christianity to Judaism.
Conversion is something I'm very interested in and want to learn more about. Online was mentioned in the video for the course but when I went to fill out for an information pack it only let's you fill in a US address 😔 and I have no Jewish connections geographically close to me
Welcome aboard if this is your desire. A good first step is to approach a local community and attend some events as a visitor. If you decide to proceed you will need to do this 'conversion' thing with them.
Definitely give them a call or connect on Instagram I'm sorry about that!
Thank you for this post informative warm and encouraging if that's my your direction not disparaging.
This was very informative
Marion, I wish that I could convert. I will be embedded in a non Jewish community. I celebrate Jewish holidays. I feel Jewish. Continue your online service to people like me.
@Joseph Kavanagh - Hello. I’m writing because your comment confuses me. _”I _*_wish_*_ that I could convert.”_ and _”I will be embedded in a non Jewish community”_ are the quotes that stood out to me. First, there is absolutely _no_ harm in being in a non Jewish community, you can live a life as a righteous Gentile. 😊
Please don’t feel the need to convert to something that isn’t ringing true to you on a spiritual level. Live the life you want to live! 😊
I can assure you that we will still accept you as a Gentile! Live your truth, friend.
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Wishing you all the very best on your journey!! I hope you find what you seek!
It would be a very flattering experience to become Jewish. The world consists of basically good people. I would not like to end my life as I am now.
@@josephkavanagh5221 - G-d forbid your life end now anyway, friend! Do you study the Tanakh?
Thank you for such an informative video ❤
When Rabbi Tarlan Rabizadeh answered that she went through the Reform process I was confused. I thought she was saying that she went through the reform conversion process. As a Persian, did she convert from Islam to Judaism? But perhaps she was born Jewish and did not convert. Maybe she only means that she became a Reform rabbi, not a reform convert.
The lot for Azazel, the black stone, contrary to all the laws of chance, came up 40 times in a row from 30 to 70 AD! This was considered a dire event and signified something had fundamentally changed in this Yom Kippur ritual.
I am ready to convert after 2 years of finding Judaism thanks to someone very special that taught me about H'. I live in Brooklyn,NY. I would like to know if anyone knows of a Rabbi I could go to for conversion? Thanks!!!
Thank you!!!!
I really strong desire to convert, unfortunately the city I'm from only has a small othodox community and synagogue. I've contacted them and asked but they've said I'd need to move e to a city woth a larger Jewish community. Due to care responsibilities and having joint custody of my child I can't relocate at this time. I think the problem is, the city where I live is a big city but the Jewish community is spread out and so there isn't a big enough community to support a conversion.
Is this course suitable for someone who wants to pursue an Orthodox conversion?
I am very curious, I had noticed that reform converts then turn to convert into orthodox converts but I had never seen orthodox converts trying to convert into Reform Judaism. And my second question is to convert into Reform Judaism does an adult still got get a circumcision? Cause as an adult circumsicion is a very invasive intervention. Thank you for your time🙏
A reform convert may seek to convert Orthodox for a variety of reasons including being considered Jewish in very Orthodox communities or due to a personal desire to go deeper into Judaism and Jewish learning. An Orthodox Jew does not need to convert to reform if they decide to join a Reform synagogue since they are simply taking a more liberal approach to Judaism. It's all the same religion just different levels of observance. Someone may choose to convert Orthodox for the learning and then live a more reform life.
This is interesting. Good to know if you want to convert.
I wish I can talk to this rabbi
I'm from Fiji 🇫🇯 how can I get excess to the program? I came out of Christianity 25 years ago and been studying the
Bible through watching Rabbi Tovia Singer and Rabbi Weiss enlightening videos on UA-cam, now I think I am a Noahide, a Gentile, Judaism is my faith.
Should I convert or should I remain being a Noahide ?
If you have to ask the question, you should definitely continue being a Noahide. There's nothing wrong with that - you can be a blessing to many others!
@@thedrama-mamas ❤
Thank you for your wonderful videos!
Thank-you SJ.
In Italy Is very difficolt to convert can you help me ?
How can we find this rabbi she is amazing
So beautiful!
Thank you! Any suggestions for classes here in Canada Toronto area?
You could contact a local congregation to inquire about a class. However, the AJU program class is online, and you could connect with a local Rabbi to complete your conversion. HTH. ✡♥
@@DiorGenealogy Thank you
Great video.
Is it possible to follow a course online?
super informative and inspiring chat!! i wish i'd had something similar in the uk as AJU etc
Glad it was helpful!
Is this converting to reform Judaism?
I believe that the AJU program is Conservative; however, it would be best to contact them to be sure.
I don't understand what motivation people would have for converting. One would think keeping the 7 Noahide laws would be so much easier than everything an observant Jew has to do.
I have felt the desire to convert ever since I learned that doing so was a possibility.
Hello, thank you for this video 🙏🏻 ı have some questions... If there is no Synagogue where we are, how can we convert to Judaism online? Will we be accepted when we study online and convert to Judaism? Will Israel or Jewish organizations and society accept us? Please inform us and if we can convert to Judaism online, through which institution should we convert? Thanks 🙏🏻
Do you recommend any books for conversion?
Yes - amzn.to/3xUIAer
Can a Catholic convert?
Nice video. Are we talking from a Reform or Orthodox perspective? There are great resources from the Israeli government too. And what about learning Hebrew? Any advice appreciated. Is this aimed at Americans mostly, with the mentions of L. A., or could you perhaps kindly point us toward resources for international audiences and those who specifically seek Orthodox conversion and some concersion resources from Israel? Could we also gain some insights about making Alia please? Many thanks
What if you can't swim or breath under water? ( For the Mikva?).I also use a walker for balance and afraid of slipping.
I know most of the blessings in English, do you have to say the blessings in English or Hebrew?
If you didn't finish college are you still able to attend this school how can I get into the online course? Also how does one join a community?
Great and very interesting video.
Can you help me for conversion in India ?
being that conversion is based on arpah, Ruth the moabite & how there mother in law naomi told them 3 times to return to their people after there husbands died, which arpah did but ruth didnt budge,part of the reason for the conversion process taking at least a year is to learn the process and 613 commandments, yes its a verry high bar to meet and if somone is not prepared to accept all of the commandments i dont see how they can become jewish
Hi ! Your all videos are informative, I enjoy it, I also study Jewish religion, please guide me.
I want to convert to Judaism because I am a descendant of russian jews who converted to christianty because of pressure of soviet society
Are there Torah classes for women who are not Jewish? I have released worldly celebrations (Christmas, Halloween, Easter, etc), and no longer eat unclean meats. I have a hunger for learning Torah, but I live in the mountains of Northeastern Utah and am many hours away from cities like Salt Lake City or Ogden where there are synagogues.
I have heard of classes that accept friends and family of Jews who are interested in learning more about Judaism but not converting. I recommended going online to find one online or possibly in your area.
I thought The American Jewish University was conservative (Judaism) but maybe not because Rabbi Tarlan Rabizadeh is reform.
I want to convert to Judaism,how do I go about it
What if we want to convert but don't have a community or synagogue anywhere near us?
AJU can help connect you with a rabbi!
But the problem is, for your own good, watch out, if you convert improperly you will bring issues to your children later. Should they choose to be chozer btshuva it may be hurtful to them to find out they are not Jewish (it were dealing with the mothers conversion of course)....or even not considering that issue....if they travel/move to various countries that do not recognize invalid conversions they will not be able to marry under their current circumstance. Doesnt pay to do that to your children. Do something SO monumental RIGHT, or better not do it at all.
You bring up important points. However, there is so much disagreement among the Orthodox community that even if one has an Orthodox conversion that is accepted today, no guarantee exists that it will be accepted in twenty years. The policies of the Israeli government change, too.
@@DiorGenealogy not really.... there are mostly certain batei din that are very well respected that geirim come through. There is a reason why geirim are all accepted. If it was constantly under disagreement there would be no accepting of geirim which is not the case.
very interesting topic. I really enjoyed . do uncircumcised males have to get circumcised to complete their conversion?
There are different denominations within Judaism. A traditional conversion would require a circumcision. During the times of the 2nd Temple, many gentiles wanted to become Jewish but stopped because of not wanting to get circumcised. Christianity made it so much easier when they did away with circumcision, dietary laws and Shabbat. Of course, today there is Reform Judaism.
My grandmother was adopted during WWII. My aunts and uncles took a DNA test due to the fact that my grandmother had early onset Alzhiemers age 50. The results were eastern European Jewish. I as the rest of my family were raised Catholic. I'm In my middle 50s and am curious about my Jewish heritage. I would like some clarity on this like am I and my family technically Jewish. Thank you for any information. Additionally my mother now has Alzhiemers.
Question! I want to become Jews how to choose if I want to choose if I want to be reform Jews ur orthodox.? When I become in Jews that I have to choose which one I want to be or it is in general Jews?
The conversion process must be different based on whether it is Reformed, Conservative, Modern Orthodox, etc.
No mention of Milah...
I am a hindu, from India..and thinking to become a jew..started watching some videos on Judaism
Hi, does this ladys miller classes and other stuff that help people convert would then allow the convert to make Aaliyah
The best thing to do is follow what is being said in current Israeli law.
I am glad that some jewish leaders are taking this initiative. I have no interest, but I wish more global minority religions do so, because God, or nature loves equality and not exclusivism like nazees did or in current days this one is doing in name of chosen ones.
Rabbi, what chapters in Shulchan Aruch deal with Kashrut. Specifically prohibited mixtures. Don't google it.
I notice you didn't mention circumcision.
Can I convert to conservative judaism as a gay man? Will the rabbi turn me away?
Why gay ?? Be human. Judaism and Christianity both faith don't allow this type of adultery. Leave it and be human
@@Dense197 what nonsense. gay people are human
Not an issue in reform or conservative/masorti.
I suggest contacting a Conservative congregation near you.
Awesome, Shalom! ✡️🙏💙
Would my conversion to be Jewish be recognized in Israel?
It depends. Some Conservative and Reform conversions have been accepted for purposes of immigration. The religious courts, however, are run by very Orthodox Rabbis, and they might decide that you are not Jewish; therefore, you would not be permitted to marry in Israel. Or everything that I just wrote could change tomorrow afternoon.
There are two separate definitions at work. The only official Judaism in Israel is Orthodox. If you don't have an Orthodox conversion, you will not be Jewish according to the official rabbis (rabbanut). Therefore, you cannot marry a Jew or be buried in a Jewish cemetery. At the same time, a different definition is being used for purposes of immigration. I know a young man who had a reform conversion, then went on a Birthright trip to Israel, followed by aliyah (immigration) to Israel with assistance from Nefesh b' Nefesh.
The 3 way turnaway has always been funny to me.
In the Tanakh i only know of Ruth getting that
But numerous examples of tanakh, and non scriptures maccabees, of Egyptians, Gibeonites, Ninevehites, Kennizites, Hittites, Qedarites, and thanks to Solomon, some portions of the Ammonite and Moabite nation, all converting to Judaism,
And the John Hyrcanus outside the Tanakh forcing the Edomites to convert to judaism. And some mild evidence of Essenes practicing proselytizing.
I've considered converting myself. But conservatively, orthodoxly. Not reform. I tend to be a conservative.