7 Ways to SPEAK WITH CONFIDENCE to People Who Make You Nervous at Work

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  • Опубліковано 16 лис 2024

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  • @kararonin
    @kararonin  3 роки тому +17

    Thanks for watching! Do you get nervous when speaking to certain people at work? What was the reason you wrote down as to "why" you get nervous?

  • @PaulaAndreaGaviriaMarmolejo
    @PaulaAndreaGaviriaMarmolejo Рік тому +35

    Not seeking validation is the greatest tip that helps for me. I don’t like confrontation and always like people to like me which makes me super nervous when speaking up. I’m reminding myself that there are other principles that are more valuable to me than being liked, like staying true to myself. ❤

  • @VeronicaMokoka-jn3ci
    @VeronicaMokoka-jn3ci Рік тому +24

    This video was literally made for me.. I'm usually intimated by people more knowledgeable than me

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому +2

      I'm glad to hear this video was helpful!

  • @sarasarassss
    @sarasarassss Рік тому +41

    As the youngest person in my workplace and in all external meetings… I needed this. Also good to know that I’m not the only one struggling with this, since I’m surrounded by lots of outgoing folks. I appreciate you so much! Much love from Washington DC

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому +7

      You're definitely not the only person who suffers this. I hope this video and the others on my channel help you.

  • @lil.mushie
    @lil.mushie Рік тому +9

    I don't know is it just me who listen her so clear and easy to understand her English. Her articulation is purely gold! I'm not good in English but despite of the low volume, I'm so proud of myself that I can still listen your voice clearly.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому

      I'm so happy to hear that!

  • @jenniferogonda7816
    @jenniferogonda7816 Рік тому +8

    Your youtube is a hidden gem.
    Love it.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому

      I'm so glad you enjoy my content!

  • @sunvaj6754
    @sunvaj6754 Рік тому +3

    Hi Kara, I worked for a non-profit agency for 23 years. And, the executive director always put me down and oppressed me. I didn't know what to do because she was the ED. When she said negative things to me I just ignored her. Now, I'm out of there and I learned to forgive her slowly. Thanks for your valuable information.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому

      I'm glad this video has helped you now in your career. Thank you!

  • @shankar9191
    @shankar9191 Рік тому +2

    Hey Kara, I am from 🇮🇳 . I Must have done a good karma in my life to find your youtube channel, Your content's are really influencing my life in a big way. thank you 🙏🙏

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for your kind message Sivasankar! I'm delighted you found my channel too 😀

  • @rob5800can
    @rob5800can Рік тому +3

    This totally made sense to me. If I can sing in a band and we rehearse to be better, why would I not do this in business? Crazy simple, but until you said it, I never made the connection.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому +1

      I'm glad this video has helped you make the connection!

  • @fatoukanyi6666
    @fatoukanyi6666 6 місяців тому

    I am new at work, but I feel little bit nervous and unconfident. I wish I have watched this video before performance my Morgenkries yesterday in Germany. You are one of the best adviser I have had. I will use this video to improve my confidence and interlegent. I thank you!

  • @emmanuelkehindei
    @emmanuelkehindei 2 роки тому +10

    Stumbled on your channel and the practical tips you share here is invaluable. Just subscribed!

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much Emmanuel! I'm thrilled you like the content I create. Thank you!

  • @CharlesWilson-c5w
    @CharlesWilson-c5w Місяць тому

    You explain things with such clarity!

  • @YogaLoveAngie1118
    @YogaLoveAngie1118 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video. I'm always experienced this when I talked to someone specially my boss. But bcoz I watched your video. I am so impressed and learned. Thanks for sharing.🇵🇭

  • @MrTủm777
    @MrTủm777 Рік тому

    Thank you.😃watch again and again to learn it and also learn English

  • @Bill-ws4ke
    @Bill-ws4ke Рік тому

    Brilliant, thank you. I DO need to have a conversation like this.
    This was helpful. Again, thank you.
    Key: set a date. Don’t put it off. Be prepared. Practice.

  • @GUAYABAFELIZ
    @GUAYABAFELIZ Рік тому +1

    Hi Kara - I wanted to thank you for making this video and sharing this information. This is precisely what I need at this moment. I recently faced a challenging experience at work with an undermining boss. I felt that I was not valued or appreciated in my organization. I am slowly recovering from that situation. Your words about thinking I am capable and worthy have impacted me tremendously. I will be watching the video about becoming more acertive. Thank you, and God bless you.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому +3

      I am so happy this video and the concept of thinking you're capable has helped you. It's important to remember this because others may not always recognise your value (for their own reasons). But you need to so you can keep progressing. Thank you for watching Diana!

    • @Native_love
      @Native_love Рік тому +1

      Definitely those self encouraging words do help!

  • @janj5913
    @janj5913 Рік тому +1

    I am so passive, ugh. I will work on this going forward. Thank you!

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому +1

      I hope this video and others on my channel help you. Thank you for watching!

  • @cristinasilva3564
    @cristinasilva3564 Рік тому +1

    This is precious- 5🌟! Thank you🙏

  • @faisalabbas9803
    @faisalabbas9803 10 місяців тому

    Hello mam ya you are saying true I need a lot of practice but continue to speak without halt is so easy because it depends on my presence of mind .....how aware we are with our surrounding for example if someone says to me to speak on snow fall as winter season is on so snow fall is More in hilly areas but in planes there rate of falling is less as compared to hilly area ...And two things arises peninsular rivers filled with water whereas some other river has no effect of it because there are filled thought out the year with water much water can cause a situation of flood Or many stream can be start to flow from mountain because rivers originate from stream ..And stream is cause of breaking rock when flow of water is so high Or strong .....And One More thing when speak your focus is so strong you don't distract for a moment And other two thing are also good which I found Or see in you for example a little smile with speaking make a good impression on opposite Person so Chain method is the best way to improve this language because in that method each One get a proper chance to speak fluently ....🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @gabrielvasquez905
    @gabrielvasquez905 Рік тому +1

    My first time watching your videos, and I’m so impressed what I learned from u. Thanks for share with us part of your knowledge, big hug from 🇵🇦

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому

      Thank you so much Gabriel! And welcome!

  • @monikabrunner6355
    @monikabrunner6355 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for that great video. Greetings from Switzerland 🏵

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  2 роки тому

      Hello Monika! Thank you for watching!

  • @kaycoleman6432
    @kaycoleman6432 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for the valuable advice.

  • @thammakinjai
    @thammakinjai Рік тому +1

    Thank you very much. This video is changing my life. Please Keeping on doing more great video like this.❤❤❤

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому +1

      Wow! Thank you very much!

  • @mohibquadri6957
    @mohibquadri6957 3 роки тому +3

    Great one ! I don't know if its nervousness or not as i get nervous when speaking to new people & at professional events.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  3 роки тому

      This is really common Mohib. New people and professional events get a lot of people nervous.I hope these tips in this video will help you out.

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse7732 Рік тому

    I'll continue in next my other part of my accomplished in theology and also made better in my formal not much

  • @ashikislamofficial786
    @ashikislamofficial786 Рік тому +1

    Great👍👍

  • @AyeshaBeg-e8v
    @AyeshaBeg-e8v Рік тому +1

    Dear Kara, I have recently started listening to your videos, they are very effective and informative Thankyou. However, In my work place the things come up very uncertainly. My Ceo is quite a talkative person who do not let me speak, or sometime I am talking but he would be on phone or stated to talk to other people that is too confusing. Often this happens that he misses the good part of my discussion. Suggest please.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому

      I'm glad you like my videos! I have another video that might help you out with your situation ua-cam.com/video/NYZQqznROCw/v-deo.html It's about how to stop people interrupting you. Other than tips I share in that video, I'd recommend being persistent and repeating your key message to your CEO.

  • @NaveenKumar-td5bo
    @NaveenKumar-td5bo 6 місяців тому

    I like the awesome way of understanding 👍

  • @HenriquesPiresDumboManue-hx1sq

    Thank you my teacher

  • @cabdirisaaqdaahir7884
    @cabdirisaaqdaahir7884 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for speaking my needs, when I start my lecture I get nervous. Please give me example s of stoping, From Somalia

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  2 роки тому

      Getting nervous is common for many people. I think the tips in this video will definitely help you out. I also have another video on public speaking that will help you ua-cam.com/video/Ew2QMDoQyA0/v-deo.html

  • @WatakaChristine
    @WatakaChristine 9 місяців тому

    Ok it was really helpfull❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @fascinationofquotation
    @fascinationofquotation Рік тому

    You are a great teacher.

  • @HolaNamaste
    @HolaNamaste 10 місяців тому

    Amazing tutor😮

  • @bigbithafrancis
    @bigbithafrancis 4 місяці тому

    Keep up the good work

  • @juanromero3181
    @juanromero3181 Рік тому

    Exelente .

  • @FRIENDSKEEPER
    @FRIENDSKEEPER Рік тому

    Love love love your Video❤️

  • @marcellinemendoume773
    @marcellinemendoume773 Рік тому

    Thank you for this great video, it will help me!!! Just subscribed!
    From Gabon...

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому

      I'm so glad to hear this video helped you! Thank you for subscribing!

  • @WatakaChristine
    @WatakaChristine 9 місяців тому

    Thanks am shy but i will manage❤❤❤❤❤😂❤😂😂😂😂

  • @lilabukvic4216
    @lilabukvic4216 Рік тому +1

    You speak fast and use many words. But I love to listen to you even its not possible to me to learn from you.
    I have posttraumatical stress syndrom.

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому +1

      Keep trying and replay the videos if you don't understand something.

    • @lilabukvic4216
      @lilabukvic4216 Рік тому

      @@kararonin yes, yes I know that😀

  • @sharonbolmentbolment8951
    @sharonbolmentbolment8951 Рік тому

    amazing video

  • @IsraelBrizuela
    @IsraelBrizuela Рік тому

    I am now a fan Kara :)

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  Рік тому

      Fantastic! Thank you Israel!

  • @mdmoniruzzaman2112
    @mdmoniruzzaman2112 Рік тому

    very amazing

  • @gopinathg2277
    @gopinathg2277 Рік тому

    Thank you mam 🙏.

  • @larajames9972
    @larajames9972 Рік тому

    How do you appear collaborative without using passive comment giveaways? For people who are confident and assertive (e.g. me), who have been told to use more passive language to show openness to others input, how would you advise us?

  • @TourTanDa356
    @TourTanDa356 6 місяців тому

    I learn more English, but don't confident when SPEAK ENGLISH with people, can't speak out loud, I'm so nervous to speak, maybe I'm no practice speak everyday !

  • @TerriYoung-n3n
    @TerriYoung-n3n 6 місяців тому

    Send this to me I can't keep my concentration right now

  • @BataYahya
    @BataYahya 26 днів тому

    But when I talk to someone they dont talk to me and not even listening

  • @alexandradaniil7980
    @alexandradaniil7980 2 роки тому

    🤩🤩🤩i subscribed

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  2 роки тому

      Brilliant! And welcome!

  • @MobstaaMob
    @MobstaaMob 5 місяців тому +1

    What if he just stand and watches you😢😊

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse7732 Рік тому

    I have to go now bye

  • @theonmorales9905
    @theonmorales9905 9 місяців тому

    I am in love with you

  • @Gachartales7124
    @Gachartales7124 11 місяців тому

    Nonsense

  • @Marked992
    @Marked992 3 роки тому +3

    You definitely need more subscribers!

    • @kararonin
      @kararonin  3 роки тому

      Thanks so much! More subscribers will come as my channel grows!