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  • @C.L.Hinton
    @C.L.Hinton Рік тому +116

    I'm nearly crying over the kindness of neighbor lady and her family. What wonderful people!!

  • @hampter3819
    @hampter3819 Рік тому +211

    That is literally 3 times younger than his age 💀

    • @gray7629
      @gray7629 Рік тому +25

      She's 38 years younger bruh 💀

    • @slam.p
      @slam.p Рік тому +44

      thats as close as he could possibly get to marrying a minor

    • @lettherebedragons8885
      @lettherebedragons8885 Рік тому +8

      Yeah 🤮

    • @nyastalgiakitten
      @nyastalgiakitten Рік тому +18

      ​@@slam.pyou know he'd go younger if he could

    • @cvctxio3135
      @cvctxio3135 Рік тому

      @@nyastalgiakittenyeh but that would be illegal

  • @Tajarim88
    @Tajarim88 Рік тому +24

    "Women in video games" yeah, my guild in WoW consisted of 90% women, with all members playing a female character. Couldn't ever go on raids with other guilds without EVERYONE ELSE constantly trying to make a pass at our guildies. So bloody desperate those people. On the other hand, my sister met her husband through WoW, so not every interaction is inherently lecherous.

  • @rainingwhenidie
    @rainingwhenidie Рік тому +184

    Don't give you kids fandom names. If they're trans enough, they'll do it themselves.

    • @omgtatercat
      @omgtatercat Рік тому +23

      Agreed. I'm in some anime groups and people talk about naming their kids after characters. Like, some are actual Japanese names, like Yusuke, but... just don't. My nibling's middle name is Aeryth, and they aren't really crazy about it. I don't even know if they know who that character is.

    • @Rustclaw
      @Rustclaw Рік тому +14

      I find it really horrifying when people talk about future names for their kids, and it’s all obviously anime names
      Those poor kids, being name Naruto or some anime characters name

    • @vincentstuart9562
      @vincentstuart9562 Рік тому +23

      The 'if they're trans enough' comment got me, but let me tell you that I'm in a weird place where I'm openly trans and my name is Vincent. People assume it's because of the character of the same name in Final Fantasy VII, which I just laugh about because it amuses me, but no, Vincent is also my deceased uncle's name and most of my dad's family kept saying I reminded them of him to an almost scary degree since I've never met the man in my life. I just wanted to honor the one relative that had anything in common with me.

    • @giantmutantbug
      @giantmutantbug Рік тому

      lmaoooo

    • @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake
      @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake Рік тому +10

      I’m trans enough, but I’m not creative enough 🥲
      Fellow trans people, help

  • @hibouowll7468
    @hibouowll7468 Рік тому +10

    Where I live, if the name can give a child bad prejudice, "Modem, Dildo, Google...", the government has the legal right to ask the parents to rename the child. Also, if your name has got you into problems, or if someone moved and have a name that has a connotation in our country "Chit, Piss" but is quite regular where they come from, they can legally change their name much more easily. Where I live, we think about the consequences of the parents actions.

  • @yamairad1
    @yamairad1 Рік тому +83

    I'm not religious. I was raised catholic. But I'm somehow obsessed with hijabs. They can be so beautiful and they can make your face glow. I love them.

    • @sparrow.6392
      @sparrow.6392 Рік тому +11

      You’re not the only one who appreciates them. There are a lot of other cultures and religions who practice things similar, I believe some Catholics veil as well though not as often. They can be very pretty.

    • @Rustclaw
      @Rustclaw Рік тому +2

      I used to have a friend who wore one
      She had a really pretty black one with white plastic gems on it, which I loved

    • @smapa1185
      @smapa1185 Рік тому +2

      Basically every major religion has some concept like hijab so you don't need to even call it hijab :)

    • @zgaming8721
      @zgaming8721 Рік тому +5

      So glad there are people like you. I’m Muslim and this is what we need!

    • @Avrysatos
      @Avrysatos Рік тому +2

      have you seen cosplay from women wearing hijab? They're wonderfully creative.

  • @royallynick
    @royallynick Рік тому +13

    4:32 that's why I love people. It takes so little to help and she had absolutely no obligation to do so. But she saw someone having a bad time and decided to help. It's the little things and I bet that the husbands milkshake was even better than sonics

  • @amaeliss7827
    @amaeliss7827 Рік тому +23

    Opposite thing though; I've had quite a lot of people over the years commenting on names that are perfectly normal, in my country, thinking that they're made up and "cringe". It's deeply frustrating to hear. Some people have told _me_ that. Then again some have told me my _language_ is fake and made up, so...

    • @Nevertoleave
      @Nevertoleave Рік тому

      All languages are made up though…

    • @omgtatercat
      @omgtatercat Рік тому +6

      People are weird. I'm sorry some people are being jerks to you. Would it be alright if I asked what language it is?

    • @amaeliss7827
      @amaeliss7827 Рік тому +10

      @@omgtatercat I'm breton. I know _why_ they think it's made up btw, or at least 2 of them confirmed my assumption: it's because of fucking Skyrim xD

  • @shinyjules8088
    @shinyjules8088 Рік тому +36

    AFAB trans gamer, this is true, a lot of dudes just get ridiculously creepy around a female sounding voice on games. Had a dude in Overwatch harass me with 16+ messages over the fact I spoke ONCE. Went from calling me hot and sexy to calling me a whore for not replying to him.

    • @vincent_alastor
      @vincent_alastor Рік тому +7

      This is one of the reasons why I don't play multiplayer games.
      I tried a voice changer the other day that had decent results. It's a program for PC that you can run in the background. It's a bit of trial and error testing to get the right settings but after messing with it a bit I got a good male voice with it.
      I don't remember the name of it, but I'll check tomorrow what it's called.

    • @shinyjules8088
      @shinyjules8088 Рік тому +1

      That'd be so so helpful! @@vincent_alastor

    • @vincent_alastor
      @vincent_alastor Рік тому

      I just checked. The program is called "EaseUS VoiceWave"
      You can pick 3 from 6 starting voices in the free version.
      There's also a paid version (4€ for 1 month, 20€ for 1 year, or 40€ permanent, iirk) that unlocks a lot of other voices. There's about 60 in total or so? Not sure how many exactly.
      There's also a bunch of special voices like Darth Vader and other characters in the paid version.
      If it's just for online games the basic male voice should be enough tho.
      Also, the free version doesn't save custom settings, if you mess around with the sliders, but every slider has a number value next to it, so just write those numbers down somewhere.

    • @Its._.me88
      @Its._.me88 Рік тому

      @@vincent_alastorI tried to play Sea of thieves years ago and if I wasn’t playing with male friends I was told to go to the kitchen and called all sorts of stuff, guys like that are the reason I don’t play multiplayer at all anymore :(

  • @nemeinshirwell9981
    @nemeinshirwell9981 Рік тому +7

    The ring size bit, bring the gf to a jewelry store and say you’re getting one for your moms bday. Let her try on a few, make a joke about the base size they ALL come in and ask her size since she might wear the same one as your mom. Don’t let her think it’s about her, just the moms gift. Get nothing, and say you’ll keep the idea in mind and you might just get her a bracelet instead.
    Now you have her ring size and an idea of what she likes in a ring since she’ll likely get starry eyed on ones she’ll like

  • @shadowmaster435
    @shadowmaster435 Рік тому +13

    PLEASE bring back the old format IN FULL

  • @kodomoshawn6729
    @kodomoshawn6729 Рік тому +13

    Yeah that's is NOT the time or place to "do marketing".
    But hey at least she found out her guy was unfaithful BEFORE marrying him, because if he was going to do something like that before marriage, he would ABSOLUTELY do it after.
    What the cousin did was extremely cringe worthy and massively inappropriate but she didn't ruin the relationship, the unfaithful man did.

  • @falloutgamer347
    @falloutgamer347 Рік тому +52

    That age gap is not okay, just wow
    Edit: regarding the voice chat one i know what they mean, i often play with my friend who is a girl and the things i have heard other men say are just disgusting.

    • @flixytip4571
      @flixytip4571 Рік тому +3

      Welp it’s legal, but if 16 year old has sex with an 18 year old somehow that’s worse

    • @-alovelygaycat-
      @-alovelygaycat- Рік тому +7

      ⁠​⁠@@flixytip4571
      Who in their right mind would think a 16 and 18 year old being together is worse than a 57 and 19 year old? Yeah, 16 and 18 is a bit weird (considering people at those ages tend to be a bit different from each other), but it’s perfectly legal.

    • @flixytip4571
      @flixytip4571 Рік тому +2

      @@-alovelygaycat- it’s not though, the 18 year can be arrested for that, but guess what? The 57 year old banging the 19 year old can’t

    • @-alovelygaycat-
      @-alovelygaycat- Рік тому +5

      @@flixytip4571
      I could’ve sworn there were Romeo and Juliet laws that made that legal.

    • @flixytip4571
      @flixytip4571 Рік тому +2

      @@-alovelygaycat- they can be hit or miss. Sometimes they just say fuck it cause they feel like it doesn’t apply in certain situations.’

  • @nakumavecaan254
    @nakumavecaan254 Рік тому +40

    Recording yourself when you're not feeling good? Sounds like a good idea, recording yourself speaking as if you're talking to someone.

    • @omgtatercat
      @omgtatercat Рік тому +1

      Yeah, if it helps, it helps.

  • @VergilLover69
    @VergilLover69 Рік тому +5

    *Once got asked to leave a Starbucks cuz a lady thought I was checking her out and making her uncomfortable. I was sitting in the back of the store eating a sandwich 🥪 and sipping a coffee ☕, minding my business. One of the many reasons I purposely don't eat inside restaurants when it's packed*

  • @katashworth41
    @katashworth41 Рік тому +9

    On the second one, I’m a picky eater (and unfortunately majorly averse to common ingredients like cheese and tomatoes) I do the cooking and my partner takes advantage of trips to London for work to eat all the pizza he wants. He avoids eating cheese around me as the smell makes me nauseous.

  • @tuguldurtumee5059
    @tuguldurtumee5059 Рік тому +15

    Can the blank background come back ? Please

  • @SmolGothic
    @SmolGothic Рік тому +19

    When I was like 15 my brother and I were talking on the phone. I wasn't using a Bluetooth, no headphones, nothing. I had the phone up against my cheek, touching my skin, in my hand while I was cleaning out my closet. I started looking for my phone and told him what I was looking for.
    He strung me along for two hours "helping me find my phone" until I finally realized it, looked at my phone screen, and called him a dick. We still laugh about it to this day (I turned 21 this year).

    • @TheRaineWitch
      @TheRaineWitch Рік тому +1

      Lmao I do this with my sunglasses, and then I usually end up doing the cartoonish "smack the face in annoyance" and then feel so stupid 😂
      Edit: just realised that ur pfp is a subtle pan flag! greetings, fellow gay 🏳️‍🌈

  • @oobtty
    @oobtty Рік тому +16

    i can understand muslim women who dont want to wear hijabs, especially since some of my extended family doesn't, considering the original reasoning for it is kinda silly

  • @briyzy
    @briyzy Рік тому +23

    6:50 looks like y’all forgot to cut something out 💀😭

  • @TheOneAndOnlySnazzyJazzyAzzy
    @TheOneAndOnlySnazzyJazzyAzzy Рік тому +37

    In general, I say half your age plus seven. Just as a rule of thumb. If they're both over eighteen and love each other, i'm not one to judge, but... come on. 38 year age gap? That's a lil creepy.

    • @omgtatercat
      @omgtatercat Рік тому +8

      Yeah, that is real creepy. My dad has talked about it and said if he ever started dating again (my mom is alive, it's just been a hypothetical), he wouldn't date anyone over 10 years younger than him. He sure as hell wouldn't want to date someone younger than his youngest kid; too much of a generational gap.

    • @smapa1185
      @smapa1185 Рік тому +4

      As a 22 y/o I wouldn't date a 19 y/o. It's straight up not okay for someone that old to date anyone younger than like 30 years old.

  • @theundone777
    @theundone777 Рік тому +52

    I have a fairly unique name. My first name combined with my maiden name made me the only person in the US with that name.
    When I got married, I had a more common last name so there were a lot more people with my full name in the country. I kept the last name after the divorce just for that reason, to make myself harder to find. My ex was mad about it but I don't care, I paid for the divorce and all the debts so he can cope.
    Yeah, having a super identifiable name can absolutely be an issue- particularly if you are a woman.

    • @Rustclaw
      @Rustclaw Рік тому +4

      I also have a rare name, with, according to the one page on Google with my name being available, has only been used 122 times in the past 200 years
      It can be fine, sometimes. I like my name, though people mispronounce it often.
      It really will depend on the child, which isn’t very reliable when they are being born lol

    • @Rustclaw
      @Rustclaw Рік тому

      There are more people named Lucifer according to that site then my name. And it for some reason says they are all from California lol

  • @Fayanora
    @Fayanora Рік тому +4

    If they're both consenting adults, it's literally none of your business.

  • @Techischannel
    @Techischannel Рік тому +8

    As someone who was regarded as a "Pet" by thier parents (i was told this by them on a decently large occasion), atleast i dont have a much more fun sounding name. Instead i have a very simple, if exotic for where i am from, name.

  • @EwEwWetwall
    @EwEwWetwall Рік тому +18

    No no no please please bring back the old format, most of the viewers loved the old format and find this new one full of stock footage annoying and distracting :/

    • @EstelleLuminas
      @EstelleLuminas Рік тому

      At least it isn't the subway surfers background.

    • @EwEwWetwall
      @EwEwWetwall Рік тому +1

      ​@MiyamotoAiri
      Yeah, you're right. That was a whole new level of unnecessary and annoying

  • @lilsqueak1469
    @lilsqueak1469 Рік тому +1

    The milkshake neighbor was so heartwarming.

  • @SmolMega
    @SmolMega Рік тому +3

    I'm a male gamer and I try to be nice to any women I hear on the mic when playing, but I don't talk often out of social anxiety. I find that kind of behavior/harassment very much not okay. I have made some good friends by simply treating the women like normal human beings, but I've fallen out of contact with most of them and now I'm scared to reach back out.

  • @YunaMiyamoto
    @YunaMiyamoto Рік тому +14

    It's really hard to focus on the story with these videos in the background
    A plain background would be better

  • @nickreynolds9745
    @nickreynolds9745 Рік тому

    The sonic one made me sad bc it was just relatable. So many small things build up when life sucks.

  • @Couloeuvre
    @Couloeuvre Рік тому +5

    I’ll name my daughter (if I have one) after my fav character
    Her name is Lucy, don’t worry

  • @whatTFisThis
    @whatTFisThis Рік тому +3

    i actually saw the Chirstmas post several months ago lol
    edit: OH AND THE ADHD INFLUENCER ONE TOO!!

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 місяців тому

    31:04 when I heard the start of this story I didn’t know what to think, but this is actually awesome! I love this so much!

  • @Blackcivicsi1
    @Blackcivicsi1 Рік тому +1

    Wow. Listening to the gamers made me really really appreciative of my games community. The people must be really rare.

  • @xdevildeadlyx7650
    @xdevildeadlyx7650 Рік тому +5

    Remember kids, every story has two sides

  • @viniciusbarros1768
    @viniciusbarros1768 Рік тому +2

    Regarding the last one: here in Brazil, in some regions, we call the man being the little spoon "dormir/estar de mochilinha", wich basically translates to "sleeping/being with a little backpack", so it's the same sense as of the last comment hahahahaha

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 місяців тому

    10:00 that poem or whatever was great! 😭😭😭😭

  • @18u.
    @18u. 11 місяців тому

    the one where the girlfriend calls her nephews made me tear up a little

  • @nicefighter
    @nicefighter Рік тому +4

    i would recommend _not_ giving your offspring a gamertag for a legal name

  • @CasualVFlowerEnjoyer
    @CasualVFlowerEnjoyer Рік тому +2

    Hey! You narrate on RSOI! I was just listening to some of their vids and had to do a double take to be sure this was Emkay and not RSOI lol but good work anyway!

  • @Zebulization
    @Zebulization Рік тому +2

    Lady felt like she was eavesdropping because she was. Listening in on a conversation from another room and not making your presence known is eavesdropping. Lingering to hear more, while staying silent and out of sight is undeniably eavesdropping.
    Accidentally hearing a fragment and leaving the moment you finish a task or retrieve an item is simply overhearing, and then respecting privacy. You do not linger!

    • @okayno4045
      @okayno4045 Рік тому +4

      Nobody would be able to ignore hearing their new spouse saying negative things about them

    • @Zebulization
      @Zebulization Рік тому

      Eavesdropping does not usually end well. He may have been planning to bring up his issue with his partner's current weight in a considerate manner. His encouragement and support later in the story suggest this. The problem is that she eavesdropped and got an unfiltered and frank assessment. He would have picked a favorable time and place. Now he really can't. Obviously, she doesn't take criticism well. For all we know, he may have asked the other friends in the call for advice after she left. We can't know because she left when she felt hurt. Incomplete information and incomplete context are other reasons not to eavesdrop. She doesn't even know what his facial expression was at the time.

  • @FragNade
    @FragNade Рік тому +1

    6:50 💀

  • @mztweety1374
    @mztweety1374 11 місяців тому

    My name is Japanese for cherry blossom. No one knew what it meant for 16 years until I went to A college tour at EMU and spoke to a Japanese language teacher ! I use my middle name for social media. I am African-American, Native American and Irish. I have no idea what she was thinking. I think she was in a manic state too. grandma would only say she was “troubled”. Dad won’t talk about mom. Im afraid it will trigger his PTSD …and he was in Vietnam… he had to come home from the war and fight the crazy woman for custody of his two kids in the 70s …..good Lord.

  • @SilkyCrow
    @SilkyCrow Рік тому

    Anna and all those husbands/fiances/boyfriends except the one that actually consulted his wife need to hit the curb.

  • @umbraeatsurskin
    @umbraeatsurskin Рік тому +1

    I wonder what happened to the wife who was called ugly

  • @SilkyCrow
    @SilkyCrow Рік тому

    With the cooking one I'd say... Girl follow your dreams. There's a clear lack of respect towards what you do but a reluctance to do the cooking himself. If he was that unhappy about every meal you make he'd take over himself or make constructive criticism not just "i dont like this". If he's that petty about food what else is he petty about. Feel like theres more bad habits that girl is just ignoring or hasnt brought up.

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 місяців тому

    5:52 the reason is that she’s an abusive bully. This story makes me so sad.

  • @shinygems739
    @shinygems739 Рік тому

    Re: Women in games - I have been adopted by the Random Mother player. It's the best when they have names like Skull Crusher 64 or something, and high tier gear and they're like, just waiting to pick their kids up from school. I have tried to learn from them so that one day I too can be the Random Mother Player and surprise younglings while waiting to pick my puppy up from Doggy Daycare

  • @bubblebenderr9493
    @bubblebenderr9493 Рік тому

    ~ 19:00 i stopped using comms in R6:S because of this. Eventually i just stopped playing alltogether becauae being too afraid to use comms in a game where it's almost required wasnt fun anymore

  • @dylanskruit249
    @dylanskruit249 Рік тому +2

    This video is amazingly funny

  • @imgoinginzayn8879
    @imgoinginzayn8879 3 години тому

    brandon i can be ur emotionally supportive backpack

  • @grusome1
    @grusome1 Рік тому

    The amount of times I was threatened to be r worded or murdered because people in game chat discovered I'm a woman is crazy tbh

  • @halo-august3452
    @halo-august3452 Рік тому +1

    Kudos To The Dude's Girlfriend 😊❤❤❤

  • @erikstephens6370
    @erikstephens6370 Рік тому

    Uhh, that's not just more than half; that's TRIPLE the age. What the actual hell???

  • @LandonSDoyle
    @LandonSDoyle Рік тому +3

    Still wondering why they use this format still

  • @EveryonesFavoriteEnby
    @EveryonesFavoriteEnby Рік тому

    I changed a letter of my name to avoid jokes relating to the capital city of Arizona.

  • @Misscuddles326
    @Misscuddles326 Рік тому

    16:45 that actually happened to me earlier but the dudes are trying to flirt with me but I quickly friend zoned them and now I have a group of friends that is good at the game:)

  • @Snow_Sailor
    @Snow_Sailor Рік тому +1

    Can we get the og format back?

  • @susanaalvarez1587
    @susanaalvarez1587 Рік тому

    Almost 80% sure I'm the girl the cried and freaked out in the college at 24:50 sometimes it's not that your ugly sometimes its that you are doing things or have done things that freak people out. if it was the guy that I freaked out and cried about, next time don't ask randoms for money, pull their backpack strap and then follow them around campus just to then wait outside of their class and finally stick around the area you first saw them even after campus security escorts you out...... If it's not the same guy then check your actions and make sure you 100% had no interactions because people USUALLY don't just randomly start crying on campus because they saw someone they thought was ugly/creepy. I've seen many ugly/creepy-looking guys hang out in the same area every day and my first thought is oh they are waiting for their class to start. and that's IF I even notice them.

  • @genderless8381
    @genderless8381 Рік тому

    I've always liked latching onto things, so even though it's for my comfort my partner let's me be big spoon

  • @happypokemom
    @happypokemom Рік тому

    Here I am pretending to be a poor maid in the 16th century,cleaning for her unobtainable Lord whom she so happen to be in a forbidden romance with 😂

  • @fayasrain4316
    @fayasrain4316 Рік тому

    Why have I just found this channel?

  • @lukadover6309
    @lukadover6309 Рік тому +1

    I knew a Ganon in school…..

  • @Zachyshows
    @Zachyshows Рік тому +3

    58/2 > 19

  • @redscopio3027
    @redscopio3027 Рік тому

    17:50 i was about to track down that post and say ark is a good game that people dont judge and the community isnt sexist like the only stuff that would be considered toxic is laughing at people when u win Pvp which is optional or Cageing a player

  • @lului1456
    @lului1456 Рік тому

    2:37 get out… while you can??

  • @JessePinkmanreal
    @JessePinkmanreal Рік тому

    OH HELL NAW

  • @zarekarstudio
    @zarekarstudio Рік тому +6

    @ the dude being called creepy for no reason: if you hear a girl call you that, look directly at her and dramatically gag like she's bad-smelling trash

  • @iamlowkeyedits
    @iamlowkeyedits 10 місяців тому

    27:35 my now x husband too.

  • @Ultranger
    @Ultranger Рік тому +6

    I think you mean *less* than half

  • @thatonedummy5716
    @thatonedummy5716 Рік тому

    just play garden warfare 2, nobody there has a mic to harass you with anyways

  • @ShadySandwich54
    @ShadySandwich54 Рік тому +2

    How am I the second person to comment?

  • @the-hero-of-twilight
    @the-hero-of-twilight Рік тому

    huh

  • @An_Animator512
    @An_Animator512 Рік тому

    whoa third comment

  • @Jade_1872
    @Jade_1872 Рік тому +5

    Yeah if it wasn’t for her scoff at 14:06 I’d think she was me cause I’ve had mental shut downs from anxiety in elevators. And if someone asks me what floor I’d just brick up and stare at a wall in fear. I feel bad if I ever offended someone doing that, I don’t mean harm, Im just terrified of talking.

  • @Tangussy
    @Tangussy Рік тому

    The cut off.