I don't mean that all Chinese women don't worship money. There are many. But we can't just look at it from a man's perspective. I'm only talking about things that Chinese men won't say. Chinese men cannot blame all their failures on women Money Worship . There are many women who worship money in every country, just like most men in the world like young, beautiful and well-built women. It is interesting that some people think that other people’s marriages are all about money, even if they have been married for five, ten or even twenty years.
@@GobbyLisa99 I am married with a Chinese wife. very happy. what was new for me in Chinese culture is the outspoken importance of 'conditions' (man's abilities, education and assets) and the bride money. But I think, in the end, the patterns are not so different to those in western cultures. we only consider openly talking about it as non-romantic.
My last girlfriend was Chinese. She was more interested in business, gambling and staying at casino many days a week. She did not cook or clean, I did all the house work. She gambled away more money than I make working full time, yet she expected me to pay for all of our expenses. Now after we are no longer a couple we are good friends, and she pays for everything we do together. She says it is because I am not her boyfriend now. Makes no sense to me. Obviously a cultural difference.
You are very intelligent and well spoken Lisa. It is a pleasure viewing your videos. Your thoughts clearly show how you understand relationships very well. Good Luck!
I am currently in a relationship with a Chinese woman, and she was honest that money was one of the most important things for Chinese woman. She even say Chinese have a money god. The reason they do this is because they see it the man is capable to have a family and be the leader of the household. TBH it makes me feel uncomfortable but I also understand this point of view to an extent
I have concluded that without even watching the video by assessing a few Chinese women who have met in my life travels. From a distance, they appear to be the perfect companion, but, ultimately, they are another reinforcement regarding my remaining single.
i spoke with a Shanghai lady (who travels around the world working) and she said "You control Asian women with money", plus don't be a Soft target (Simp). Basically Asian women LOVE money (well 93.77% of them).
I hope you had a Nice Christmas and I hope you have a good New years when it comes. I know it comes a bit later for Chinese people. By a couple of weeks or so. Everyone should be respected who ever they are. And I'm glad you always give us Brits a good Report👍
Are you sure? Because i hear the younger generation of Chinese women are the ones who care about money. While the ones who were born back in the day, not so much. As they were raised with a moral foundation and placing their values where it’s more important and not just about money. Today, capitalism is ruining many countries relationships. As society becomes more superficial.
Your English is very good Lisa, true love will overcome many problems in life. People think “money” is everything, yes it helps but it’s not the most valuable thing in life. “Time” is the most valuable thing on earth. Love if strong will bond 2 people together the matter how much money they have. Problem is most people are fake and lie.
wow, so different from what we hear in movies etc. what about the "bride price" that seems to hit the news, where it's huge and blamed for people not getting married. Happy new year
Good Explanation Ms Lisa, and i have found some Chinese women will try to get you to invest in something to find out if your financially up to their standards. When you tell them your still paying off debt they will Ghost you.
Its interesting to see the differences, and similarities, between the relationship culture in China and in NATO aligned countries (not sure what the best term is) given how I've seen similar kinds of commentary. One thing I did wonder about was how the idea of the woman doing all the domestic responsibilities as well came to stay, since one of the things I learned about at school was how Mao and the Communists did a massive campaign to "get women out of the kitchen and into the factories" did that get changed over the years?
Hi Lisa, hope you and your husband had a good Christmas. I love your videos and learn something new each time I watch them. Chinese women appear to be the bedrocks of relationships, and should be treated with more respect. Your English is really improving. Keep up the excellent videos. 👍👍
I never understood why Chinese women gamble so much when they like money so much. They are not stupid and must know how it works. I have dated a few Chinese women and wanted a good Chinese wife, but the gambling gets in the way.
I don't mean that all Chinese women don't worship money. There are many. But we can't just look at it from a man's perspective.
I'm only talking about things that Chinese men won't say. Chinese men cannot blame all their failures on women Money Worship .
There are many women who worship money in every country, just like most men in the world like young, beautiful and well-built women.
It is interesting that some people think that other people’s marriages are all about money, even if they have been married for five, ten or even twenty years.
@@GobbyLisa99 I am married with a Chinese wife. very happy. what was new for me in Chinese culture is the outspoken importance of 'conditions' (man's abilities, education and assets) and the bride money. But I think, in the end, the patterns are not so different to those in western cultures. we only consider openly talking about it as non-romantic.
My last girlfriend was Chinese. She was more interested in business, gambling and staying at casino many days a week. She did not cook or clean, I did all the house work. She gambled away more money than I make working full time, yet she expected me to pay for all of our expenses. Now after we are no longer a couple we are good friends, and she pays for everything we do together. She says it is because I am not her boyfriend now. Makes no sense to me. Obviously a cultural difference.
Thank you; your video is the relief and comfort I needed. I read a lot about this issue and needed a native perspective to aid my thoughts.
A very interesting perspective from the woman's point of view.
Lisa, I love your frankness. You are a gem!
Very insightful, interesting ,well balanced and considerate as usual Lisa 😊
Thank you very much😊
You are very intelligent and well spoken Lisa. It is a pleasure viewing your videos. Your thoughts clearly show how you understand relationships very well. Good Luck!
Thank you so much 😊
Good and informative video! Keep up the good work.
Thank you 😊
Many many big words and complicated issues explained well today Lisa 🙂
Thank you 😊 Many words are difficult to pronounce. I practiced a lot.
Tell your husband he is a very lucky man to have you! ❤
Another great talk. Your English improves with every episode. You are not afraid to attack hard and long words. Keep it up Lisa❤
I am currently in a relationship with a Chinese woman, and she was honest that money was one of the most important things for Chinese woman. She even say Chinese have a money god. The reason they do this is because they see it the man is capable to have a family and be the leader of the household. TBH it makes me feel uncomfortable but I also understand this point of view to an extent
I have concluded that without even watching the video by assessing a few Chinese women who have met in my life travels. From a distance, they appear to be the perfect companion, but, ultimately, they are another reinforcement regarding my remaining single.
i spoke with a Shanghai lady (who travels around the world working) and she said "You control Asian women with money", plus don't be a Soft target (Simp). Basically Asian women LOVE money (well 93.77% of them).
Good points, clearly stated.
Thank Goodness you found a good Englishman !
I’m luck. When I was 26 I found my husband 😊
Nice to get different perspectives.
Very good video Ms. Lisa.
Thank you!😊
I hope you had a Nice Christmas and I hope you have a good New years when it comes. I know it comes a bit later for Chinese people. By a couple of weeks or so. Everyone should be respected who ever they are. And I'm glad you always give us Brits a good Report👍
Thank you 😊 I had a very good Christmas. Hope you have a great New Year too
Forgot to say, for American 🇺🇸 it’s very difficult for me to go to China 🇨🇳. I heard if very difficult to get a visa to go there as an American 🇺🇸
you have very good shows also i like your sense of humor. where did you get that laugh from?
Thank you very much 😊
brilliant.and as others have said, your english is improving leaps and bounds (if only my tagalog was as good!!)
Are you sure? Because i hear the younger generation of Chinese women are the ones who care about money. While the ones who were born back in the day, not so much. As they were raised with a moral foundation and placing their values where it’s more important and not just about money.
Today, capitalism is ruining many countries relationships. As society becomes more superficial.
Your English is very good Lisa, true love will overcome many problems in life. People think “money” is everything, yes it helps but it’s not the most valuable thing in life. “Time” is the most valuable thing on earth. Love if strong will bond 2 people together the matter how much money they have.
Problem is most people are fake and lie.
wow, so different from what we hear in movies etc. what about the "bride price" that seems to hit the news, where it's huge and blamed for people not getting married. Happy new year
Good Explanation Ms Lisa, and i have found some Chinese women will try to get you to invest in something to find out if your financially up to their standards. When you tell them your still paying off debt they will Ghost you.
Those are all scams, don't believe them
@GobbyLisa99 i dont lol but it has taught me how to spot the scammers
Its interesting to see the differences, and similarities, between the relationship culture in China and in NATO aligned countries (not sure what the best term is) given how I've seen similar kinds of commentary.
One thing I did wonder about was how the idea of the woman doing all the domestic responsibilities as well came to stay, since one of the things I learned about at school was how Mao and the Communists did a massive campaign to "get women out of the kitchen and into the factories" did that get changed over the years?
Hi Lisa, hope you and your husband had a good Christmas. I love your videos and learn something new each time I watch them. Chinese women appear to be the bedrocks of relationships, and should be treated with more respect. Your English is really improving. Keep up the excellent videos. 👍👍
Thank you very much 😊
Bride price? Gold? House? Car? All demanded by Chinese women
I love how you match your lipstick, top and flowers.
Some people would lied and slanderous just to make money ..
My partner, from China, told me the same things. She doesn't want anything to do with Chinese men. Quite sad really.
We worship money, but don't let it make us a devil.
Lisa, please let me give you a few English lessons. Good videos though. 👍
I never understood why Chinese women gamble so much when they like money so much. They are not stupid and must know how it works. I have dated a few Chinese women and wanted a good Chinese wife, but the gambling gets in the way.
I live in California, and I want a Chinese woman. Do you have advice for me?
@@trueaussie9230 What makes you say I'm being shallow?
YES!!!
Do most young people live together (man and woman) in China before marriage?
Here we see the happy Chinese wife relieved not to be inheriting her husband's property after all!
jesus i am shameless. 加油！
Poor Lisa husband he must go through hell 🙂
😂😂